Acquaintance with a German for a serious relationship. Dating Germans for a serious relationship or marriage. Men from Germany: what are they
Germany is a country with about 7,000,000 single people. At the same time, a significant part of them communicate on dating sites, dreaming of finding their soul mate. A recent study by Emnid showed that about 41 percent of German Internet users spend some part of their time visiting German dating sites. What online services are mainly used by residents of this country who want to meet for a serious relationship?
The most popular dating sites in Germany
Parship. The most popular dating resource in Germany. Its peculiarity lies in the fact that this German dating site is designed primarily for users over 30 years old who are looking for a partner for marriage, etc. Now over 11,000,000 people have already registered on this site - both residents of Germany and citizens of other countries . At the same time, there are very few “dead” profiles on the site, since if the account has not been active for two months, it is automatically deleted. The ratio of the number of male and female profiles is almost 1 to 1, the average age of a man is 41 years, 35% of male users are people aged 30-40 years. Thus, the service opens up wide opportunities for women who want to marry a German to meet men from Germany.
Parship is quite easy to use and provides a lot of useful features perfectly. for free. When registering, a questionnaire is filled out that makes it easy to assess the characteristics of a person. After that, offers come in for potential partners that suit you and with whom you can start corresponding. But without having a premium status, it will be impossible to respond to messages from owners of this status. It costs 29.9 euros per month. However, Parship has many advantages over other similar sites for German residents.
Elite Partner. This is also a rather popular dating site in Germany with women and men, which may be of interest to Russians as well. There are many positive reviews and interesting stories of successful acquaintances, long-term but happily ending long-distance relationships, successfully married couples, young families with children about him. There is a strong privacy policy, phone numbers are not used for registration, users are provided with information support. Premium status starts at 150 euros for 3 months.
FriendScout24. This is one of the largest online dating sites in Germany with 6,000,000 registered users. Every day, 12 thousand new profiles are registered here. Great attention is paid to reputation, each uploaded photo is automatically checked. There are now more male profiles on this site than female profiles (57:43). At the same time, the age ratio is well balanced, there is no obvious predominance of young people over people of mature age and vice versa.
There is a chat that allows you to communicate either in a common room or in a separate one. A special test will also help you select potentially suitable partners.
eDarling. This site for dating girls and guys has 14,000,000 registered users. The ratio of men to women is 47 to 53, the average age of users is in the range between 30 and 40 years. It is impossible to use the site without registration, but the registration process is absolutely free. At the same time, there is a VIP status, the cost of which is from 29.9 euros per month. The mobile version allows you to conveniently use the main functions: sending messages, reading them, viewing profiles, downloading photos from a smartphone / tablet directly.
Zoosk. This resource appeared in 2007 and now unites more than 27,000,000 users. Here you can meet both Germans and Germans, as well as international ones, including for Russians, because Russian speakers have good opportunities to communicate with Germans who are looking for a partner from other countries. Zoosk is more about flirting and easy dating (including sex dating, gay dating, swinger dating, etc.) rather than looking for partners for a serious relationship, since people under the age of 30 sign up here. Features of the site include selection of candidates based on an assessment of your preferences for those candidates that you previously paid attention to. Both free and VIP status are available (starting at €14.9 per month).
A complete list of dating sites popular in Germany
The full list of these resources is as follows:
- Parship;
- FriendScout24;
- Elite Partner;
- Zoosk;
- eDarling;
- Partnersuche.de
- Partner.de
- 50plus-Treff (this site is designed specifically for seniors);
- flirtcafe.de;
- Finya.de.
So, if you don't feel like limiting yourself to Russia and Russian speaking countries, you can use these sites, especially since many of them have Russian versions.
It's great that you clicked on the link of our site and got to this page. We can safely assume that you are interested meeting Germans, which means that you are on the right track - InterFriendship, created and administered by in Germany, is considered by far the most successful in this field of dating.
Since we are very sensitive to our clients and our work, we would not like to write banalities on the pages of the site, which can be found many times on all kinds of pages on the Internet. It is better that we inform you, if not about many, but about real facts related to the Germans, communication with them and the nuances of the life of German men, based on our own experience. So...
Once upon a time, your obedient servant agreed to give her hand and heart to a foreigner, or rather, she left marry a german. What can I say today, having lived for some time in Germany with a German husband? - a surprisingly beautiful and diverse country, both in terms of culture and landscape, and architecture, and cuisine, and language (there is an incredible number of dialects and dialects of German). Here you can find both large cities and small picturesque villages (at the same time, it is difficult to determine where life is more interesting and more favorable in economic terms); both mountains and plains; both modern quarters and medieval streets; to meet both rather cold and arrogant, and open, hospitable people.
But you are probably more interested in, and, of course, information about them.
- Acquaintances with Germans have shown that they know how to be romantic: after more than 12 years of marriage, I still find here and there "love notes" from my husband.
- they know how to take care: I receive amazing bouquets of flowers for any reason and without it, and in the morning I almost always have a clean cup carefully prepared by my husband in the evening near the coffee maker and some trifle for breakfast.
- german men- wonderful chefs, they cook amazingly! What is a kitchen - I remember only when we are waiting for guests, and my husband needs auxiliary help: peel vegetables, find seasonings, etc.
- The issue of hospitality is a separate issue. My closest friend already calls me "an artist from Gribov" :-), as my husband always with a bang not only invites and receives my guests, but every time he enthusiastically organizes a cultural program for them, drives, drives, shows , tells, etc.
- And, probably, the most important thing ... When I left, I found out that they were by no means greedy, as the hackneyed cliché says: having chosen another cute store and boasting to my husband about a new purchase, I hear the invariable "Let's go see - maybe there is something else beautiful yes", and to my exclamations that it's enough to spend money, I get in response "Which of us is German ?!" ;-)
Dating in Germany
Our site provides its services exclusively to those women who are in the mood for serious dating in germany both with the Germans and sometimes encountered Russian-speaking emigrants permanently residing in this country. If you are not familiar with the history, culture and mentality of Germany, be sure to visit our forum, and also read our informative pages with multifaceted information about life in Western Europe in general, and the life of Germans in particular. Armed with the necessary information about and understanding the style of thinking and life of the Germans, you will already be a few steps closer to fulfilling the dream of many of our compatriots - and live in one of the most developed countries in the world with a centuries-old history and culture; with a beloved man who can give you and your children reliability and confidence in the future.How to meet a German? In what visa-free places they are guaranteed to live, what they pay attention to when they meet. And where to go for a German if you are already in Germany! Everything in order in this article, and watch the video for useful and funny life hacks and phrases!
Why are you learning German?
Anyone who has decided to seriously study the language of Heine and Goethe has to hear such a question more than once. However, most of us do not learn German in order to read the classics in the original. Someone needs a German for work, someone is planning a trip to Germany in the summer, and someone - neither more nor less - dreams of marrying a German!
Wow, you say, but where can I get him, this German? After all, there are only Russian-speaking personalities around, and a German, he sits calmly in his Deutschland, drinks German beer and watches a match with Dortmund or Bavaria. Where to find him, a German, how to get to know him? Mm…?
Do not worry, dear ladies (not ladies - do not worry either), because we will tell you everything in detail now. And you remember!
Where?
First things first, remember: to the question "where?" we answer not “in Karaganda”, but “on the Internet”!
Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and other social networks - in our era of global internetization and rampant fashion for smartphones, it is strange to not be registered at least on one of these sites.
SECRET: every fifth average German is not married and is actively looking for the lady of his heart or lady ... for a pleasant pastime together.
The German Statistics Ministry conducted a survey in 2013 among 11,600 young people over the age of 18 and found that 31% of those surveyed had already used the services of dating sites and marriage agencies on the Internet at least once. 22% of respondents admitted that they had already thought about it and would probably register on one of these sites in the near future.
The survey also shows that men first of all pay attention to the photo, and then to the age, height, weight of the future chosen one on the Internet, while women also look first at the photo, and then at the profession. It is also noteworthy that women most often choose men of their age or older, and men are most attracted to young girls or ladies at least younger in age, which in principle suits each other.
Dating websites
You can search the Internet for dating sites in German by request Partnersuche, Singleborse. The top ten most popular portals include such portals as eDarling, ElitePartner, Partnersuche.de, Parship.de, FriendScout24.de and neu.de
1. Posting a breathtaking photo in a bikini, drawing blue eyes in Photoshop
2. Fill in information about yourself - that's it, the fishing rod is cast, we are waiting for the fish.
The Germans love to meet beautiful Russian girls on the Internet, often such acquaintances end in a long correspondence and a girl's trip to Germany, but there, you already know everything yourself. There are also many single ladies aged 35+ on such sites who cannot find a level partner in everyday life.
FACT: according to a study by the University of Hamburg, two-thirds of women over the age of 30 do not have a permanent partner.
It is noteworthy that the higher the social status and level of education of a woman, the more likely she is to remain single with age. The highest percentage of "loners" among researchers and university professors.
The Internet provides great opportunities and chances not only in terms of finding information, but also in terms of communication. Use this chance, do not miss the opportunity to make new contacts and acquaintances on the Internet. Maybe the next interlocutor in the chat will later turn out to be your one and only chosen one? Or maybe you will find your love on a dating site? Many of them, such as eDarling, work on the principle of coincidence of interests.- you will be asked to answer various questions about yourself that reveal your tastes, preferences and interests, as well as fill in information about the intended partner - age, status, views on life and family, etc. Well, then, as in a fairy tale - from the database of registered users you will be offered a list of candidates that most closely match your profile.
In Germany
For those who consider online dating a frivolous matter, we will tell you where else to catch a German. The most logical option - of course, in Germany! But no matter how logical this option may be, it is also one of the most costly and unreliable options.
Why? - The Germans, for the most part, are not used to meeting girls on the streets, in the subway or bus, as well as in other public places, and dating at parties is more often considered as a one-night-stand without consequences and obligations in terms of continuing communication.
Where, then, do Germans most often meet their soul mate? Most people answer this question - at school, at university, with friends, at work. Someone introduced someone to someone, they already had mutual friends or acquaintances, they talked for a long time in the same circle of friends, and this is how it developed and turned out.
So if you came to Germany to meet your future German husband, you should not count on a stream of interested looks and compliments from the very first second of your stay. In Germany, in German language courses, the chance to meet some nice Turk or Italian is much higher than with a German. Therefore, it remains either to study-work, or to look for a “bringing together” situation, such as a football match or a sports competition, a concert - when everyone is united by a wave of positive mood and people are a little liberated so that the distance between your German and the outside world is somewhat reduced.
Or look for situations where the distance between you and the German will be reduced due to external circumstances - for example, during a three-hour Moscow-Berlin flight in the cabin. Why not start an unobtrusive smalltalk with a burgher neighbor in such a situation? Or why not sit down with a lonely German on the train, first, of course, asking if the seat next to him is free. Such chances should be used, at least in order to practice spoken German.
Vacation in German
However, there is another option, how to meet a German in his "native environment", and nowhere else, but in a "German" hotel in Mallorca or in Lloret del Mar. These Spanish resorts have long been considered the number one destination for German youth when it comes to sun, beach, parties, dating, girls.German students and graduates with the whole company book tickets and go to warm their sides under the southern sun, drink sangria and sleep for half a day on the beach after noisy parties. Germans can always be recognized by the fact that in the morning they take their places by the pool in advance, and in the evening they make more noise in the bar than dancing and flirting with girls. So such a moment must be used - what German heart will remain indifferent to the beautiful beauty Natalia, who so carefully rubbed sunblock into his back? ..
In Russia
But not only abroad, but also at home, you can easily and with dignity get to know a foreigner. To begin with, let's think about where in Russia you can meet foreigners? - Of course, the most common option, in Moscow or St. Petersburg.
Most tourists come to the major cities of the European part of Russia, either make a tour of the Golden Ring, or travel along the Trans-Siberian Railway. From here - at the airport, on the train, subway, bus or on the street - when you see a confused tourist standing with a backpack and a map in his hands, you should not be shy, but, smiling sweetly, offer your help. Working as a tourist guide, stewardess or receptionist in a hostel or hotel is an ideal option for those who only dream of meeting a foreigner.
Couchsurfers
In recent years, the number of people registered on couchsurfing, the world's largest community of travelers, has increased dramatically. Couchsurfers - this is the name of those who travel, staying not in hotels or inns, but with other couchsurfers, and also hosting guests from other countries.Couchsurfing is a unique opportunity to get to know not only Germans, but also people from all over the world, of any nationality and profession, to learn a lot about the world. Those who do not have the opportunity to accommodate guests at home choose the status "Coffee or drink"- so you can meet in the center, walk around tourist places, show the city "from the inside". Acquaintances on couchsurfing, as practice shows, proceed very intensively and sometimes couchsurfers subsequently remain even close friends, visit each other, travel together.
According to the story of one of my acquaintances, who met her future husband in this way, once staying overnight with her friend, to whom two German couchsurfers were supposed to come the next day, traveling along the Trans-Siberian Railway - you can make films and write memoirs on this story. He came to her again in two months, having traveled all over Russia far and wide, passing through China and Mongolia, returning to her. Then for three months they traveled together through hundreds of miles and kilometers, through countries and continents, and now very soon she is leaving for him, now for good.
businessmen
For those who prefer to stay "closer to the ground" and who are far from the romance of travel, who are people of business and business - numerous opportunities are open for you in terms of business contacts with the Germans. Germany is Russia's largest trading partner, every year hundreds of exhibitions and conferences dedicated to the issues of further cooperation are held in Russia.
In such an environment, you can make acquaintances of the highest level, and who knows, maybe some German leader has been looking for a new secretary for a long time and not only?...
Volunteers
It is customary for Germans not to go straight to university after school, but to do some kind of social year, or travel, and often both together. Therefore, every year more and more Germans go to Russia, to do a good deed, help society, learn Russian and look for an answer to the question - what does it mean, this mysterious Russian soul. They come for six months or a year, often teaching German at universities and language centers of the Goethe Institute, talk about Germany and communicate with the Russian-speaking public.If there is such an organization in your city, be sure to go to discussions and meetings, this is a great opportunity to hear “live German speech” and practice spoken German. And there, you see, a new story will turn out, about which you can write memoirs and tell children and friends.
Epilogue
Stories about how the prince found his princess have long become fairy tales not only for children, but also for adults. In a world where princes wear business suits and ties and drive around in Mercedes instead of white horses, princesses have to adapt to the new rules of this world and go out of the castle into the light. Princesses now not only innocently blink their eyes and read smart books, they also diligently study foreign languages and believe that somewhere there, beyond the seven hills (visas and borders), in the faraway kingdom of the farthest state (in the European Union), wanders around the world (sitting on an Ikea couch) their prince. And now he will pick up his laptop and go online, and maybe that’s how they will find each other…Or maybe they will meet by chance at the airport and mix up their suitcases ... Or they will meet at the wedding of their best friends, who in the same way once found each other - when they least expected it ...
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Men from Germany: what are they?
There is no ready-made formula that would tell or show us what they are, German men. However, German-speaking men (, Austrians, Swiss) have some common features.
Responsible attitude to the creation of a family and the birth of children. For, the question of creating a family will be raised only when he has an appropriate material base (work and a stable income) that allows him to support his future wife and joint children.
Practicality: The German will not build "castles in the air." Instead, he will soberly assess the situation and his capabilities, so as not to let himself and his beloved woman down.
Patience and focus. Most men understand that the issuance of a visa and other documents is pure formality, and the goal - a happy future with the woman he loves - justifies the time and effort spent.
Pleasant and well-groomed appearance. look after themselves and take care of their appearance.
German men are very romantic, they believe in love and family union for life.
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When meeting foreigners, women and men often make a common mistake: they behave with them in the same way as with their compatriots. But everyone has different traditions that need to be followed. Dating in Germany has its own subtleties. How to meet a German for a serious relationship?
How to meet a German
It all depends on what age the girl is counting on. If we are talking about a very young person - a student or a young man under 30, then everything here is approximately the same as in any other country in the world. But since many people want to get acquainted with a German for marriage, it is worth focusing on a mature person, and he is already becoming conservative and practical.
Flirting with a German will not work anywhere - it is believed that there are "decent" and suitable places for this, such as nightclubs, discos, as well as "speed dating" parties. Therefore, you should think about where to meet a German for a serious relationship. By the way, it is their practical Germans who consider them a wonderful way to find a soul mate. And although this is not entirely clear to Slavic girls, it is worth accepting this method and learning how to impress from the first minutes.
The statistics are relentless: single men in Germany are not ready to spend a lot of time establishing relationships, so such dates are very popular with them.
The culture of flirting is not at all what the Germans own. But if you just come up and invite the man you like to dinner (but just invite him, and not offer to invite yourself), then the chances of consent will be very high. After that, of course, you will need to wait for the initiative on his part, but this method is very good for making acquaintances. The Germans do not see anything shameful in a woman taking the initiative: in terms of relations, they have real, not regulated, equality.
It is also important to understand that practical German men think this way: if a woman flirts, then she is interested in meeting a particular man. Flirting for the sake of flirting is not welcome, a German may consider it frivolous, and practical burghers do not want to have business with frivolous persons. It is also important to take into account
Oktoberfest in Munich
How to meet a German on a holiday? After all, this is a good occasion and another simple and easy way to get to know a German. Here, in general, everything is extremely simple: there is a “right place”, an atmosphere and, most importantly, an opportunity to signal a potential boyfriend. It is enough to tie a bow on the traditional dress on the left side to attract those who wish to treat the lady with a glass of beer. It’s also nice that you can say a polite “no” to a boyfriend you don’t like - and he will not be persistent. This nicely distinguishes the Germans from the Slavic men, who never consider that the answer they have been given is the final one.
In addition to Oktoberfest in Germany, there are other good ones in Germany where you can meet a German for a serious relationship
Online dating in Germany
Registration on a dating site in this country is not considered something shameful. It's just that men and women really have no time to deal with their personal lives. Therefore, they, showing a maximum of pragmatism in general, are looking for their soul mate on the World Wide Web, taking it for granted. And this is a great chance to find a suitable person if the woman does not yet live in Germany.
Good chances to make acquaintances on Badoo or Tinder sites
On such resources, mostly older people are found. Usually it is a lot (and a lot) working middle-class burghers who want to find an equal partner and mistress in the house.
Dating in Germany for marriage on a dating site is also quite possible. Of course, it is difficult to find romance with this approach, but there won’t be so much of it in a relationship with a German man, you should prepare for this. As well as the fact that he will not pay for flights and accommodation, and checks in restaurants, most likely, will have to be done for two after the second date.