A guide to managing your thoughts. What is this treasure? Visualizations and the inner voice

» Berthold Brecht

What are we capable of

Each of us is the creator of our own life, our own happiness and unhappiness, unfortunately, too. The power of thought is a mechanism that really works, exists.

How does this happen? What are we really capable of? How to force your life to build according to your own scenario by the power of thought? What do we know about it?

After all, with our ideas about ourselves and other people, we create our life, we bring what we started to the end, we achieve success. Before any action in your life takes place, it takes on a thought form, that is, it appears in your head.

It depends on what this very thought-form will be, what the attitude towards life will be: positive or full of gray and black tones. Our future depends on the quality of these ideas. What are you thinking about this moment? How to buy a new home? Find the one and only? Or how to pay off the debt faster?

The power of thought is so obvious and strong that it can both destroy your dream and help you achieve everything you want in life. We'll talk about the law of attraction later. Now I will only say that according to this law, what you dream of and what you want most of all will be attracted.

This can be explained simply. If this is what you want most, then you are doing the most to achieve the result. You focus on a problem, on personal failure, and this thought begins to weigh on your life.

What is thought? This is what determines your mood and state. Again, everything is bad and attracts negative and negative. Around kind and nice people - take a closer look - kind and sympathetic people! The Law of Attraction in Action.

Positive thinking and positive mental images

What is thought, and how do you learn to control it? Some are born with the ability to control their thinking and correctly place accents, while others are able to learn all this by reading special literature and using practices in life.

Consider some exercises to help develop your abilities:

  1. It is necessary to visualize everything, that is, mentally imagine how and what will happen. Naturally, it is better to take something pleasant and inspiring for visualization. The power of thought is able to transport you to a desert island with the object of your love. Try to create a positive story for yourself every day about what you want. Imagine what and how will happen in the smallest detail. This is called visualization of thoughts.
  2. Always switch from a bad thought to a good one. Learn this first. Many people visualize negative thought patterns. About illness or accident. This leads them to panic or despair. Remember: nothing bad will happen and should not happen. Try to switch immediately to something positive and see the point above.
  3. Create your own, for a year or five years. Practice visualizing your desires as often as possible according to this card. Imagine the points from it as already implemented and get positive emotions from this.
  4. Try to keep your head occupied with something useful and important. How? A book, a movie, an exhibition of contemporary artists, literature on what the power of thought is, for example. As soon as emptiness reigns in my head, sad thoughts or, even worse, sorrowful thoughts about myself immediately come. We calmly switch to the thoughts of other people, preferably smart ones: Tolstoy, Bulgakov, Chekhov.
  5. Clear your mind of negativity. As the little prince at Exupery started every day with tidying up his planet, so every morning you put your thoughts and feelings in order.
  6. Learn to let go of your desires. We made a map, we go to the intended goals. On the way, there is an obstacle or simply, the desire no longer seems to us important and relevant. Don't bang your head against the wall, let go of your desire. Without the slightest regret. Find a new direction. By the power of thought and word, it is impossible to come to a dream that was no longer needed.

Fulfillment of desires through thought

Many of us are unaware of the forces that the power of their thought is fraught with. Without going deep into the analysis of the influence of thoughts on each individual person in any case, I will say that successful people think positively about life and always generate positive and optimistic thoughts.

It is the use of a person's mental power to bring the desired result to life. It's like creating a movie in your mind out of your dreams and desires.

To see what you mentally want means to materialize it in reality. This is precisely this power. This control of your own life through the power of thought and word is called visualization.

Visualization has several positive properties, namely: it contributes to the appearance of good and. We obtain the greatest amount of information about the world through visual information.

That is, looking at an object, we perceive it mainly with our eyes. Visually, mentally presenting a picture of a successful and happy life, each of us is able to significantly speed up this process and create a successful scenario for our life.

Scientists have proven that thought has a material component and has physical parameters - it can be measured with instruments. When you think about something, you radiate subtle streams of energy that can influence your life as a whole, to achieve desires.

The Law of Attraction by Thought: How It Works

Many books have been written on attracting money, millionaires, country villas and carefree life. Of course, it is worth treating such things-works with skepticism.

What is thought? Of course, this is our desire, embodied in different shells.

It is impossible, having correctly tuned in to money and success, but doing nothing, to achieve something. Those who say the opposite are lying, cheating, or simply making money selling books.

The law of attraction only says that the power of thought can help attract good or bad into your life. But this good cannot come without work on the embodiment of their desires and aspirations.

In an old children's cartoon about Homa and the Gopher, Homa scared the Gopher before sending him home by telling scary stories. All the way home, the gopher repeated the same phrase: "The gopher walked, walked - and did not meet anyone." And all the Gopher did not care. He was not afraid, did not fantasize. But Khoma could not fall asleep, so he was scared of his own stories! This is what the power of word and thought does. Thinking that nothing would happen, the Gopher imagined absolutely nothing and no predatory animals were afraid of him.

The force of attraction of thought appears in a more effective light if the thought is spoken verbally. Turn it into a thought-form. Even any fabulous desire was verbalized.

A word is not only a grammatical and lexical structure, but also a form with which we think. So psychologists argue that if you constantly repeat a verbal formula, then it will be fixed not only in consciousness, but also in our subconscious.

For the law of attraction to work, you need to learn to appreciate what surrounds you and what you have. Anyone who does not appreciate even the little that he has will never be happy. Learn to appreciate what you create, and you will become happier, you will want to create even more.

Reality of thought

Some people have an amazing gift to heal or predict the future, look into the past, or communicate with people long gone.

There are not many such people, but they exist. And we always follow with interest what they say or reveal to this world.

Unfortunately, there are now a huge number of scammers trying to make money on someone else's grief or desire. And such people will always be there. This should not make you doubt the power of thought.

The gift of such people, first of all, depends on their strong energy and the immutability of what they are trying to communicate. They work not with matter, but with energy. Maps, mirrors, coffee grounds, whatever - everything is secondary. Such people are able not only to convince any person of something, but to reshape another life.

Another example of the power of thought is the recovery of patients with cancer or other serious illness. In the last stages of inoperable cancers, only a few survive. One person in a thousand others who surrendered.

And it's not about the pills or the doctors. They are the same for all sick people. And the point is the desire to live, to defeat the disease. Recovery in such people occurs first mentally, and then it turns into a thought form: “I want to live!”. There is nothing stronger than such a desire. The power of thought makes the most severe cancers recede.

Recent research by scientists has shown that no disease lives in an emotionally and physically healthy body, it dies and recedes in front of the immune system of our body.

The power of thought is the kind of immunity that should be developed in oneself. The effect of the power of thought on health is that happy and optimistic thoughts have positive results for cellular biochemistry: through the never-ending renewal and regeneration of cells, the body drives out and expels disease.

The task of doctors in this is to help, and our task is to expel all negative thoughts from our heads. No matter how scary and no matter how much you want to succumb to panic, you should control your emotions and believe that the disease will recede.

Take control of your life

Scientists have found that if a person keeps the same thoughts in his head every day, certain substances begin to be produced in the body, requiring more and more such thoughts. And their power, as it were, makes us concentrate on our own feelings and experiences.

Roger Sperry, a world renowned neuropsychologist, won the Nobel Prize for his proof of the materiality of thought.

It returns to a person, contributing to an increase in his vital energy and forming only a good field and charge for life. The power of thought and word is able to ward off illness and quarrels, poverty and other troubles.

You can move the world only by an effort of will and reason. Thought is a great and powerful force. It can be passed from person to person, conveyed to many people. Today, with the help of social networks, your thought can fly around the world.

Our thoughts are our destiny. But some of the ideas that come to our minds are not the fruit of our reflections, but turn out to be the opinion of our friends and acquaintances, imposed by parents or the collective.

Thus, our life, which we think we choose, is not our own choice and does not align with our ideals and hopes.

Determine what you really want from life, get rid of everything that they are trying to impose on you against your will. Think positively and strive for what will make you a happy and self-sufficient person with your own inner guidelines.

Think back to the last time you saw that your phone was running low. Most likely, you will immediately go to charge it. If only we had such a sense of urgency when our internal batteries “zero” - when we get the feeling that we are lost in the daily routine and lose touch with ourselves.

You can use the analogy of a lamp. When your internal batteries are low, ask yourself "Is the lamp plugged in?" This can become our daily mantra: Am I plugged into a power source? There are many tools out there to help you slow down and join this source. Here are a few of them:

Daily practices for reloading

  • First thing after waking up. Notice the first phrase that comes to your mind upon waking up. What if it was a prayer, an inspirational quote, or an intention? For example, "Lord, I entrust this day in your hands." If the mention of God doesn't resonate with you, replace that part of the phrase with someone or something else. Strength comes to us when we look beyond our ego and feel that we are part of something greater than ourselves. This is a very liberating thought first thing in the morning early.
  • Reviewing your to-do list. Even if we set an intention to be aware and grateful in the morning, it can come to naught as soon as we leave the apartment. The most important thing here is to understand what triggers you during the day. When something catches you during the day, causes negative emotions, breathe; look for people you can help or serve at home or work; Express gratitude for everything (even difficulties), or take a walk with a friend. Be aware of your intentions all the time. During the day, ask yourself, "Am I driven by love or fear?"
  • When interacting with others. Daily interactions with other people can either uplift or drain energy. Turning to our spiritual side allows us to take a softer, compassionate approach that will help us with any difficult situations. Repeat to yourself “Namaste” (or “The light in me honors the light in you”). Remember that through service you have been a light to others - and that you can be open to receiving light from others through gratitude.

Set a timer for five minutes. Start in a calm, quiet place where you are comfortable and read a couple of paragraphs from an inspirational book to help focus your mind. Close your eyes and feel how you are feeling. Acknowledge these thoughts and feelings without judgment, and then try to keep them out of this space. Find a slow, calm rhythm for breathing through your nose. Inhale for four counts, hold for two counts, exhale for four counts, hold for two counts. Repeat. Imagine a soft, calm energy as you inhale and connect with your breath as you exhale.

On days when it is unrealistic to find even 5 minutes for this, stick to the same principle - bring into the situation the same awareness and feeling of unity in any chaos that you have to go through.


Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

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I think we can all agree that it is easy to fall prey to negative thinking. No matter how hard we try to stay positive, negative and disturbing thoughts take over our thinking.

There are many tips on how to deal with negative thinking, but I believe that the most powerful is the wisdom offered by Indian yoga Master Paramahansa Yogananda.

We have translated his wisdom in 5 easy steps. Wisdom is powerful because it encourages you to look at your inner demons instead of running away from them. By following these tips, you will take responsibility for your own happiness. Who doesn't want this?


Step 1. Let go of what surrounds you.

The environment makes you afraid. The more a person's consciousness expands - plus things like a sense of ownership, concern for one's reputation, a sense of personal power or importance - the more likely it is to feel fear.
Fearlessness, on the other hand, comes from the release of these attachments: the pursuit of personal importance; the pursuit of power or control over anything or anyone; desire to be respected; attachment to property; attachment to physical health and well-being; and finally, identification with the body. Fearlessness comes with perfect detachment. This is the natural attitude of those who think they have nothing to defend.


Step 2: Break the insidious capture of anxious thoughts

Let go of your worries by continuing to worry. Start off with short “worries” three times a day to get started. Take an hour in the morning, an hour at noon, and three hours in the evening. Do not let a restless thought haunt you during these periods. Then extend the period to a full day; a week, and then a month. Soon you will break the insidious grip of restless thoughts.

Step 3: Surround yourself with joyful people who laugh a lot

Communicating with joyful people, joy and laughter are contagious. There are some people who are always happy. Look for them and feast with them on this quickening food of joy. Continue your "funny diet" steadily and at the end of a month or two you will see a change - your mind will be filled with sun.

Step 4: act from the heart

Fear comes from the heart. If you ever feel overwhelmed by the fear of some illness or accident, you should breathe in and out deeply, slowly and rhythmically several times, relaxing with each exhalation. This helps to normalize blood circulation. If your heart is truly calm, you will not feel fear at all.

Step 5: take control of your mind

God has given us one huge instrument of defense - more powerful than machine guns, electricity, poison gas, or any medic - the mind. This is the mind to be strengthened. An important part of life is mastering the mind and keeping it under control. This is the secret of a happy, successful existence.


Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

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I do not know what is happening in your life at the moment, what you are going through. Maybe you woke up this morning and bad news fell on you. Maybe you try to walk around your apartment so as not to notice his or her things scattered in all corners. Or maybe you are viewing a news feed on a social network. You may be sitting blankly staring at the TV, hoping that you will be given a sign that something will change in your life.

I don't know if you are happy or alone. I don't know if you are happy with your life. I don’t know if you’re bored remembering yesterday, or if you are looking forward to tomorrow. I don't know if you still remember the person who broke up with you, or if you yourself are the person who decided to end the relationship with someone.

I don't know you well. I don't know what exactly makes you unique, what thoughts come to your mind when you are alone with yourself. However, there is something that I know for sure. I know that if we put all this aside, we are very similar to each other.

We are all humans. We all have to deal with the difficulties in life. We all had our hearts broken and we all took the wrong steps. We all have flaws and problems. We have all been successful in some way and we all have fears.

While each of us is unique, we all have similar dreams and hopes. We want to live life well, we dream of finding love and finding the strength to go through everything we need to go through.

Regardless of who you are or where you are, today I hope that you are saying to yourself the following words: "I am happy, I am loved, and I am strong."

The point is that it is so.

Regardless of who you are, you have already overcome a lot. No matter how many times you have failed, you have been able to get off your knees. No matter how much you feel alienated from the rest of the world, you are never alone at the end of each day.

Please speak to yourself words that radiate kindness. Tell yourself that you can do what you want, that you are strong, and that every day is not wasted. Tell yourself that you are worthy of everything you dream of.

You are not ideal, you will not always do the right thing, and you will not be the one from whom everyone always takes an example. However, there is a spark in you that nothing can make you go out.

You still have too many goals to achieve. On your way, you will still meet many people whom you will love. You still have many steps and many decisions to make. You still have many desires that need to be fulfilled.

Your time on Earth has not yet expired. Therefore, you should not give up ahead of time. On days when it seems to you that you have lost your way, remember that after a while you will be able to clearly see your path again. If it happens that you do not sleep overnight, shedding rivers of tears, remember that love is always with you - it is within you. If you wake up in the morning thinking that you feel like giving up, remind yourself that you have already overcome a lot.

In those moments when you do not know what else to do, repeat the following words over and over again until you remember: “I am happy, I am loved, and I am strong. ) ".

The way it is. You are a happy person because you can breathe and see, you have arms and legs. You are a happy person because you have people who care about you who will take care of you no matter what. You are a happy person because you can enjoy the beauty of nature or art. You are a happy person because there are moments of laughter in your life. You are a happy person just because you live. Don't take it all for granted.

Love is within you. It manifests itself in every beat of your heart.

Use extremely positive words to yourself. Speak to yourself words that inspire courage and hope. Remember that you have earned the right to live this life. Remember that somewhere in the world, somewhere in a very distant country, somewhere across the ocean, there is a person sitting in front of a computer screen and writing all these words. Words that should help this person get through to you.

Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

There is a theory that people are of two categories: "If" and "When". The first ones all the time postpone their endeavors on the back burner, waiting for suitable conditions. They constantly find reasons not to start right now: “if I had more time”, “if I were younger”, “if I lived in a different place”.

When people make decisions, plan their immediate future and just start acting. It is such people who know how to use freedom, the ability to own which is given from birth to everyone, without exception.

The main wealth of a conscious person is the freedom to choose. Choose your thoughts, your state and your lifestyle. If we all live differently, it is because everyone made their own choice.

"... when there is freedom without struggle, then confidence is not needed."V. Zeland. "Maker of reality"

Freedom is not a goal, but something taken for granted if you are doing Reality Transurfing. Each person can find freedom to choose whatever he wants. How do you get this freedom? Answer: you gain freedom when you end your battle. How to do it? Read more in our tips.



TIP # 1. STOP FIGHTING YOURSELF

The battle that takes away freedom goes mainly with oneself, which naturally translates into a battle with the rest of the world. The original reason for this struggle is the absence of an integral credo, that is, of one's own clear worldview.

When you are in a state of constant internal war, life does not turn out the way you would like. The world is not listening. You can make some attempts to influence him, but to no avail. So first, stop fighting yourself.

The battle implies constant tension, struggle, discipline. You need to be constantly ready for the battle. This is what the warriors do, who vaguely understand that there is freedom somewhere in this world. But their mistake is that they think that freedom must be won. They are in a state of war all their lives, but they always postpone their main battle until later. It seems to the warriors that it is impossible to go and take freedom like this. They convince themselves and others that this is extremely difficult to do and that it takes years of hard work and struggle.

The Transurfing Wanderer does not participate in the battle for freedom, because he knows that he already has it. Nobody can make you fight. But you have no other choice if you are filled with inner and outer importance. All that comes from the battle in Reality Transurfing is the intention to act flawlessly. But this does not require combat readiness or discipline, but awareness.

TIP # 2. DETERMINE YOUR CREDO

Reality is a reflection of your thoughts. If an awkward picture is observed in the mirror of the world, then it is necessary to correct mental images. There will be an integral credo - and everything will be as it should be in life. You don't need to care how the creed straightens reality. When there are no distortions in the image, the reflection comes back to normal by itself.

How to get hold of your own credo? This requires actions and thoughts to be brought to one common denominator. I say what I think and think what I say. What is in thoughts, so in deeds, what in deeds, so in thoughts. We need to stop dividing between soul and mind. It's generally easier and easier to live this way. All kinds of weights of high importance are immediately dropped.

First, you need to formulate a credo for yourself in accordance with your beliefs and preferences. But it is not always possible to do this right away and not everyone succeeds. Then you can gradually reduce the form (deeds) and content (thoughts) to unity.

TIP # 3: REDUCE YOUR FEELINGS OF GUILT AND DUTY




In order to get rid of feelings of guilt and responsibility, you need to stop making excuses. Get rid of feelings of inferiority - stop actions aimed at artificially overestimating your importance. It is necessary to stop dodging, dissembling, lying (first of all, to oneself), pleasing manipulators. Try it and see - you will love it. You will become an integral and charismatic person. And you will come to this yourself, and not at someone else's expense. And the world will revolve around you. And everything will be as it should.

Freedom is not a goal, but a matter of course. So first, stop fighting yourself. The Transurfing Wanderer does not participate in the battle for freedom, because he knows that he already has it. I say what I think and think what I say. What is in thoughts, so in deeds, what in deeds, so in thoughts. You need to formulate a credo for yourself in accordance with your beliefs and preferences. It is necessary to stop dodging, dissembling, lying (first of all, to oneself), pleasing the manipulators. You will become an integral and charismatic person.


Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

Remember your feelings before a significant event. Especially when you are about to do something for the first time. Everything inside is compressed, the pulse quickens, catches your breath. Are you scared. It's scary that it won't work out, and you will seem stupid, you will not live up to expectations, you will not get what you want. We feel all this when the importance is overestimated. In such a state, it is difficult to show your best side and act effectively and according to the situation. Is there a way out of this situation?

You can work with intent, try, do your best, invest time and resources, and end up getting nothing or getting the opposite result of what you wanted. Vadim Zeland in the books about Reality Transurfing gives a large number of recommendations on how to reduce the importance. Let's look at three simple tips to help you lower your importance quickly and effortlessly.


TIP # 1. LOOK AT THE PROBLEM LIKE FROM THE PARTY AND WITH AN IMPARTIAL LOOK


Our problems, in most cases, are not at all as "terrible" as we used to perceive them. Our "dream" and personal involvement in the situation interferes with seeing the real state of affairs. The only obstacle to fulfilling a wish is importance, which is actually like a soap bubble. Realize that the problem is illusory. And you will be able to reduce the importance in all situations that make you feel uncomfortable. We draw your attention: not to diminish its importance, but to reduce it. Look at the situation and at yourself in it impartially, as if from the outside. This will help you disidentify with her and see the real state of affairs. When you look at the problem from above and drop the importance, you immediately find a healthy balance. This does not mean that you need to turn into a soulless person. Just take care, not worry, and calmly do what follows to solve the problem.

ADVICE # 2. ACCEPT ANY OUTCOME OF THE SITUATION, BUT KNOW WHAT YOU WILL GET IS BEST FOR YOU AT THE MOMENT

Allow yourself to accept any outcome of the situation. You don't really want to, right? After all, we count on a positive result when we go, for example, to an interview or a date. Fears and overestimated importance are nothing more than distrust of the Universe. If you trust, then you know that the result that you will get is the best for you at the moment. If you fail now, it’s only so that you can see another option - the one you really need. When the understanding of this is in you at the level of inner knowledge, excess potentials dissolve and everything is decided “by itself”.

TIP # 3. USE REALITY TRANSURFING PRACTICES TO REDUCE THE IMPORTANCE

The next time you head out to a big meeting or event, stop for a minute. Do this little practice to help you lose importance and calm down. Close your eyes and imagine that you are in a cocoon of golden light. Imagine that you are in the heart of the Universe and the light that surrounds you is a manifestation of its care and protection. Take a few deep breaths and open your eyes. Go to a meeting with the inner knowledge that nothing bad can happen to you.

The problems in your life will be much less if you learn to reduce the importance. The problems, in fact, are not at all as "terrible" as we are used to perceive them. This is an obstacle on the path of life that you yourself have unconsciously created. Look at the problem as if from the outside and with an impartial look. Accept any outcome of the situation. Know that what you get is the best option for you at the moment. Apply the Reality Transurfing practices to reduce the importance, and you can transform the energy of experience into the energy of action. Decrease the importance and success will not be long in coming.

Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019


The power of the word is great. One phrase can change your mood, make your day, or even ruin someone's life. And there are words that make us think, realize something and give us the strength to move forward.

"People are not against you, they are only for themselves."

"Climb mountain peaks not so that the world knows about you, but then to get to know the world for yourself."

“The most valuable lessons remain not after victories, but after defeats. Don't let failure become insurmountable obstacles. Falls make you stronger. "

“The worst thing is to spend your life on things that were not interesting to you. No money in the world will be able to return you wasted years. "

"Be where you are welcome, not where you are tolerated."

“The person with whom you will spend the most time in your life is yourself. Therefore, make every effort to be interesting to yourself. "

"By realizing where your boundaries are, you can go beyond them."

“Some people say it’s impossible to be always motivated. So, even after taking a bath, you cannot stay clean all year. Therefore, you need to motivate yourself, like to take a shower, every day. "

"Every person you meet on your way is afraid of something, loves someone and has lost someone."

"Comfort is the enemy of success."

Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

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It is difficult to find a person who has no grudges against his father and mother. Even if the latter were perfect. Someone lacked affection and sympathy, someone lacked attention, and someone could not forget a certain act or word. Let's deal with all this.

Many people, in principle, like to accumulate grievances in themselves and not let go. They have the feeling that if they “forget” and move on, they will betray themselves. Anger overwhelms them, and they remain unhappy.

To live with resentment, in principle, and with resentment towards parents in particular, is living with constant aching pain. It is to intentionally deprive yourself of self-confidence and self-love. If we do not accept our parents (no matter how monsters they are), we in fact do not accept a part of ourselves, because genetically this is exactly the case. First, understand that getting rid of that resentment is a very important, if not easy, task. Set yourself such a goal, otherwise it turns out that you are suffering for your own sake. Resentment robs happiness.

It could not be otherwise

Your parents are people who also had parents. They may have been raised in an aggressive and oppressive environment. They may have had their deepest traumas that led to something that hurt you as a child. The most classic story that I endlessly met in the consultation is a mother or father who verbally abused the child, could shout or say something nasty. But then it turns out that these dads and mothers themselves were generally beaten in childhood, right up to fractures ...

Of course, this does not justify them. But on the other hand, everyone understands that these people are unhappy, broken, and they simply could not be different in relation to you.

They love you the way they can

Nobody is able to love us "on demand." Exactly how you would like it. For some, their parents tried to be friends, but at the same time neglected some basic concern. For some, the parents were too cold, although they performed their functions: they fed, dressed, and took them to the doctors on time.

It must be accepted as a fact that if you are alive, then your parents will certainly love you. They got up at night at your cry, blew up when you fell from the crib, looked after you as best they could, otherwise you would not have survived. But in all other respects, these are people with their cockroaches, who showed the character that they have.

You are no longer a child

There are no perfect people. But many get stuck in infantilism, forever looking up at their parents. Constantly demanding from these living people with their cockroaches to be perfect. And offended, upset and despairing that these people simply cannot be different.

You have to "outgrow" your parents. To become an internally mature person who understands that mom and dad are real people with their own problems. Such as they are. Please do not compare them with some far-fetched ideals, with the parents of your friends or partner. Each person has their own family history, and you can't rewrite anything here.

Learn to build relationships with your dad and mom in such a way that they do not offend you or hurt you. This means that if comments are made to you, your plans and achievements are devalued, you must say in time that you will definitely not listen to this. Learn to build reasonable boundaries and communicate in a way that suits you.

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Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019


The biggest discovery is that you can only hold on to something or someone by letting go. Here's a paradox.

The main thing is to do it in your head. Let go for real. Let something happen regardless of your obstinate desire. Give someone the right to do as he wants and sees fit. Internally accept this and agree. And continue to live your life.

Once upon a time in Castaneda I read: "Do not get attached to anyone or anything." Couldn't understand how it is? And for what? It's so great to have affection. How without her? And only now I realized: so you can be free. Very often attachment becomes addiction. And with her you lose yourself. This is about addiction in general: from cigarettes, from alcohol, from games, from a person. When you can't live and breathe without it, you have to be able to let go of everything. To be real yourself.

Give everyone the right of free will. Not "well, let it!" and “to spite the enemies!”, but a calm, confident conviction that with or without something that you really, really needed, you will still be fine.

It's important not to get attached to the result. Because no one is obliged to agree with you. That no matter how bad, stupid and inappropriate someone's choice may seem to you, this is just your assessment. This is your unwillingness to give another the right to your thought, your feeling and your action. You don't have to be around this action. But you don't have to take responsibility for changing that thought or explaining how wrong the feeling is.

The only thing you can change is to continue living your life. This is exactly what you must do.

Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019


A wise parable about people

The Disciple comes to the Teacher and begins to complain about his hard life. I asked for advice on what to do when both of them piled on, and the other, and the third, and in general, they just give up!

The teacher silently got up and placed four pots of water in front of him. In one he threw a wooden block, in the other - a carrot, in the third - an egg, in the fourth - crushed coffee beans.

After a while, he took what he had thrown out of the water.

"What changed?" - asked the Teacher.

"Nothing ..." - replied the Pupil.

The teacher nodded silently and put the four pots of water on the fire. When the water boiled, he again threw it into one wooden block, into another - a carrot, into the third - an egg, into the fourth - crushed coffee beans.

After a while, he took out a piece of wood, carrots, an egg and poured aromatic coffee into a cup. The student, naturally, did not understand anything.

"What changed?" the Teacher asked again.

“What should have happened. The carrots and the egg were boiled, the piece of wood did not change, and the coffee beans dissolved in the boiling water. " - answered the Pupil.

“This is just a superficial view of things,” Master replied. “Take a closer look. The carrots are boiled in water and from hard to soft, easily crumbling. Even outwardly, she began to look different. The piece of wood hasn't changed a bit. The egg, having not changed outwardly, inside became hard and it was no longer afraid of the blows from which it used to ... flowed out of its shell. The coffee colored the water, gave it a new taste and aroma. "

“Water is our life. Fire is change and unfavorable circumstances. Carrots, wood, eggs and coffee are types of people. They all change in different ways in difficult moments of life.

1. The carrot man. Most of them. These people seem solid only in ordinary life. In moments of life's troubles, they become soft and slippery. They give up, blame it on either others, or "insurmountable external circumstances." A little "crushed" and ... they are already in a panic, psychologically crushed. Such "carrots", as a rule, easily become "victims of fashion", they want "everything to be with them, like people", it is on them that successful merchants, politicians and ... fortunetellers make their fortunes.

2. Man-tree. There are few of them. These people do not change, they remain themselves in any life situations. They, as a rule, are cold-blooded, internally calm, whole, or something. And it is these people who show everyone that difficult life circumstances ... just life and behind the black stripe always comes white.

3. The Egg Man. These are those who are hardened by the hardships of life, made stronger! There are very, very few such people. It is such people in ordinary life, no one, but in difficult times they suddenly “harden” and stubbornly overcome “external circumstances”.

4. "What about coffee!" - exclaimed the student.

“Oh - this is the most interesting! Under the influence of unfavorable life circumstances, coffee beans completely dissolved in the environment, making a tasty, aromatic and invigorating drink out of tasteless water! " - answered the teacher, sipping aromatic coffee from a cup with pleasure.

“There are special people. There are only a few of them. They do not so much change under the influence of unfavorable circumstances as they change the life circumstances themselves, turning them into something beautiful, benefiting from every unfavorable situation and changing the lives of all people around. "

Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019


Be true to your values. Be honest with yourself and others. Always try to give your best. Do what brings you closer to fulfilling your dreams. Take care of yourself, your family and friends. Respect other people. Be the one who makes other people feel special. Be famous for your kindness and honesty.

In other words, fill your life with love. After all, when you love life, it begins to love us in return. And there is no more attractive trait than true, sincere love. Believe me, people will notice the kindness around you, and will certainly be drawn to you.

  • Do the right thing. - Never be afraid to do what your heart tells you, especially if the well-being of another person depends on it. There is no punishment for us worse than the wounds we inflict on our own soul, knowing that we are doing wrong.

  • Forget gossip and prejudice. - Great minds discuss ideas, average minds - events, and narrow-minded - gossip about people. Life is too short to spend it collecting rumors about people, gossiping and creating problems from scratch. If you do not understand something about another person, ask him. If you disagree with him, tell him so. But don't wash his bones behind his back.
    • Give people happiness. - If you want to soar to the heights, help someone else do it. To find true happiness and freedom, it is not enough to throw off the chains, you also need to live in such a way as to respect and improve the happiness and freedom of others. When you combine faith, hope, and love together, you gain the ability to create positive ideas, relationships, and dreams in even the most negative of worlds.
    • Encourage those in need. - A kind word in a difficult hour is much more valuable than an hour of boasting at a moment of triumph. We all have a time when we really need someone to hug us and say, “It's okay. You are not alone". So be that person. As often as possible.
    • Be positive. - Think positively, speak the truth, apologize as quickly as possible, and say goodbye even faster. Grow above yourself, and try to inspire both yourself and others. Say, but louder: “Goodbye, negative. I have no time for you. There are too many positive things in my life. "
    • Embrace your uniqueness. - If you do not understand and accept your own uniqueness, you will spend your entire life trying to achieve the impossible - to become someone else. But accepting yourself as you are, instead of wasting time trying to be someone else, sooner or later you will understand what are the gifts that fate has endowed you with - and believe me, no one else has such gifts. ...
    • Do something fun and exciting. - When you stop doing what interests you and entertains you, you stop living, starting to simply exist. If you really want to change your life, you must first change your mind and actions. And when you are ready to devote all your time and energy to what your soul strives for, you will understand that your life has irrevocably changed for the better.
  • Be optimistic. “Something good is bound to happen to you — something better than anything that has happened to you before, and when you least expect it. Fate opens up myriad opportunities for people every day - but only when they are ready for it. And let this serve as a reminder to you not to force events, but just to love the beauty around us - and then sooner or later the path to a better life was opened before us.
    • Give up your thirst to always be right. - Especially if in order for you to be right, someone must be wrong. There are many paths leading to the truth. You cannot judge others by their past. They live a very different life than you. Express your opinion openly, but politely, always remembering that if your goal is to offend or humiliate someone, then you are only bringing a little more evil into this world. Respecting, without condemning, other people's opinions is always better than just being right.
    • Be faithful and honest. - You cannot promise someone that you will love each other forever - but you can promise to love that person until death do you part. When it comes to personal relationships, staying true is not a choice, it is a necessity. Loyalty and honest affection can change your entire life.
    • Keep your mind open to new ideas. - What looks like an obstacle or hindrance on your path in life is often just trying to direct you in the right direction. Remain flexible and keep your mind open to anything that will help your personal growth. If something helps you move in the right direction, it can't be bad.
    • Believe in yourself and in everything that is dear to you. - Know that you have a hidden strength that can overcome any trials that you may face. But only you can use it - so spread your wings.
    • Believe in your dream. “The person you hope to one day become is already a part of you. And a big part. Your dream is real. She is not in the past or in the future - she is here and now, in the same present as you, and when you continue to do what is needed, you bring them a little closer to becoming reality.
    • Take your own path. “You can direct your life wherever you want — as long as you're not afraid to try. If you want to change the world around you, start with yourself. It's time to get down to business. It's time to embark on the path of difficult choices and fateful decisions. Start removing from your life what gets in the way of your happiness and add what contributes to it.
    • Accept the opportunities that tomorrow brings us. Don't let your past determine who you are, but allow it to become part of the person you will become in the future. Don't be sorry. Don't look back. Just hold on to life and move forward. We don't know what awaits us around the next bend, but this is what makes our life so exciting. This is what makes us feel alive.
    Publisher: If in our life there is enough energy of love and pleasure, then desires are realized as quickly as possible and the number of unpleasant lessons becomes minimal.

    We all want our desires to be fulfilled. But very often it happens that the desired cannot be realized in any way, or, for some reason, it turns out quite the opposite.

    7 rules that can help each of us get closer to realizing our dreams. But the main thing is to put these rules into practice, playing, easily and naturally. If we do this with interest and passion, then this is how it will be formed further developments... And yet, do not rush to change yourself right away: even if only 10% of the new is always present in your ordinary life. This is quite enough so that, following these rules, always doing a little less than you want, gradually change the settings of your subconscious mind to a positive and reach a new level of harmonious and happy life, when desires will be fulfilled by themselves, without any effort on your part. ... Only you will notice that you have become more aware. And they stopped wanting from Mind, and began to do it from an inner state.

    First rule: "Honesty with ourselves."

    This is the most important rule, on the implementation of which the possibility of implementing all the other points depends. When we deceive ourselves, everything else stops working!The ability to honestly admit to ourselves what we really feel, think and do at the moment is the starting point of our development.

    You should not be afraid of your negative manifestations: “yes, I’m angry now”, “I am offended”, “jealous”, “terribly angry”. Recognizing our negative reactions, we thereby remove them from the subconscious, free ourselves from them, and they cease to shape our future. This should be remembered when we talk about our successes and achievements. You may have noticed that as soon as you say, "Yes, I am rich and lucky," circumstances immediately appear that make you less successful.

    Therefore, if you tell others about something positive, be sure to voice your most fantastic and incredible dreams as well. For example: "I have a beautiful house, but I also want a comfortable dacha on the ocean coast." Thus, you will switch people's attention to new perspectives and allow what is to condense and become even more fundamental, and what you have voiced will begin to be created in your future.

    The second rule: "Ability to use positive words."

    To make your life happier, better, more interesting, you need to completely change your vocabulary. A certain life experience is attached to the words that we speak: they evoke the feelings associated with them that we experienced in the past. By pronouncing words, we activate neural connections that resurrect already established images, feelings, information. And if we often use words that carry negative information, then the subconscious mind tuned to low frequencies translates negative experiences into our reality, which are then embodied in life events that do not bring us pleasure.

    Therefore, in order to rewrite the scenario of events happening to us, it is necessary to replace negative neural connections with positive ones. And we do it with words. For example, instead of “bad” we say “not good”, instead of “terrible” - “it doesn't matter”. This activates positive neural structures, since the prefix “not” is not perceived by the brain, and everything associated with the word “good” causes high-frequency vibrations that neutralize the negative that we are now experiencing. It is worth changing your vocabulary and making it a habit, and after a while your life will also change.

    The third rule: "Search for good in everything."

    Our society has raised us in such a way that we are used to looking for flaws in everything and condemning others. Remember what you talk about when you get together with the company? As a rule, there is an expression of dissatisfaction with everyone: from neighbors to the government and the president. And the body tunes in to the energy that we constantly use. After all, if you take a cigarette from a smoker, then the body out of habit will demand it, although this is harmful.

    When we live at the level of judgment, we move into low-frequency vibrations that shape negative events. It is necessary to learn to see something positive in all situations: sunny weather, a bird sings beautifully, a suit sits beautifully on a passer-by, etc.

    Make it a rule for yourself instead of saying, "It's so bad that it rains," say, "I want the sun to shine." When we deny something, then we destroy the energy connections, the restoration of which is spent by our own energy.

    Figuratively speaking, we go into a room, and the wrong music is playing there. We refuse to listen to her, throw everything on the floor, break the equipment - we deny everything. Then we put things in order in the room, re-acquire the technique, and put on the music we wanted. Instead, we could immediately say, “I want to listen to other music,” and just change the recording. When we think according to the principle "I want it to be like this!"

    Thus, thanks to the bad, we do not interact with the negative and do not allow it to settle in our life. And if we learn to be grateful for events that we do not like, then over time we will be able to realize that through bad things always come good.

    When we are not ready to accept the positive (categorical or emotionally dependent on what we bet on), we are given the opportunity to cleanse ourselves through the trouble. And this is not masochism at all, but the understanding that we are given a chance to realize what we did not understand before. After all, God does not have "bad" and "good", God has everything that is useful, it is important that it be in its place and fulfill its function.

    Seraphim of Sarov said that it is very good for an ordinary person, unconscious before death, to be sick for a couple of years, because the soul is cleansed through the removal of claims, attachments, condemnation of the people around, and thus the person gets into higher-frequency vibrations. Likewise, we are given troubles, indicating where we need to change our attitude. And after the changes, become more successful, richer and happier.

    Sixth rule: "Think and talk about people as if we were in their place."

    We need to learn to speak and think about people as if they were present and heard us. If we talk about others the way we would like them to talk about us, a tremendous amount of energy will be freed up, which we spend on compensating for the difference between internal opinions and external behavior. Lightness will appear in our life, since the internal and external, what we think and feel with what we say and do, are harmonized. As a result, we will gain the ability to harmoniously interact with ourselves and with others. And the liberated energy will make it possible to more deeply realize what we really want and realize this.

    Why do we need to do this? The fact is that when we mentally plan, we allocate energy to realize what we want. If we are not ready for other possible options, then our energy, which has the quality of categorical and unambiguous, is not able to interact with all the components of the process and is reflected back to us in the form of depression, aggression, anger, resentment. If we are ready to accept both the worst and the best option, then no matter what happens (knowing that everything that does not happen, everything from God, everything from God, everything is for the good), the energy interacts with everything that it encounters and realizes the plan to the maximum. Accepting all possible options, we accept the world as it is, preserving the law of Equilibrium, and we get a great chance for the realization of desire.

    Learn to think threefold! This rule must be followed a hundred times a day, just treat it like a game and enjoy the process. Wherein

    70% of the time is spent on everyday situations. For example, in the morning we get up and say to ourselves: “I want to drink tea” and consider the possible course of events: 1. I will go to the kitchen and make myself some tea, 2. I won’t even drink water. 3. I will drink very expensive and delicious tea. Then you go and make yourself some tea. Practicing on such little things, you will train your subconscious mind to be ready for any turn of events, which means that you will increase the chance of achieving what you want.

    The next 20% of the time every day you devote to pressing desires: love, health, car, apartment, work - everything that you want to realize.

    Learn to view all your desires in terms of the Trinity! And you spend the remaining 10% on what cannot be, because it can never be, and you take it and want it. For example, tomorrow they will bring me a warrant for an apartment in the most prestigious area of ​​the capital worth five million dollars. I calmly accept the worst option: I won't have an apartment at all. And even better option: I will have another apartment in London and Paris.

    Thus, you will expand the range of your capabilities and will be able to make a real breakthrough into a new life that will be much richer and happier. But for you all the same, this is not the main thing!

    The main thing is that you enjoy everything that happens in your life!

    Publisher: Knarik Petrosyan- February 22, 2019

    I am glad to welcome you, dear readers of my blog! I am sure that there have been events in your life, for example, when you thought of a person whom you have not seen for a long time, and immediately he calls you, or when you became anxious about your loved one, and, as it turned out, he that moment was very bad ... This feeling of each other is called the suggestion of thoughts at a distance, and today we will learn to do this consciously.

    The object of the suggestion should be at the moment of performing the technique in a state when his consciousness is relaxed, for example, when he is sleeping or under the influence of alcohol. Only not drunk at all, but slightly drunk. The bottom line is that in this case he lacks logic and the ability to criticize information, the subconscious mind does not know how to assess and filter for what is necessary and unnecessary. Or, in the case of training, when there is an agreement, is set up to receive messages from you.


    By photo

    This technique is suitable when the intended subject is at a great distance from you. And also for beginners, because there will be no need to imagine and hold the beads for a long time the image of another person. It is enough to have a photograph of him. You should make sure that no one bothers you, sit comfortably in a chair or chair, you can even lie down, as long as it is comfortable and you do not feel tension. Relax and focus on the photo, when you feel confident in your capabilities and are as concentrated as possible - start saying one command to yourself, many times, feeling more and more confident as a result with each pronunciation.

    At a short distance

    Also for beginners, for practice purposes. This will require a person who agrees to be the test subject. You can sit in different rooms, the main thing is that he gives himself the installation that he is ready to accept what you will send him, also relaxed, closed his eyes and clearly introduced you. Accordingly, you should do the same and follow the above recommendations. By the way, this technique is of mutual benefit. If your partner is interested in how to read minds, then at the same time you can practice this.

    Animals and plants

    An interesting method with which it is possible to heal an animal or plant, as well as communicate with it. The only condition is that it must be yours and that you have been taking care of for a long time. To do this, sit opposite, enter a state of light trance, that is, when thinking is slowed down, you are relaxed, breathing is deep, and the effect of emptiness in your head. Look closely at your pet, close your eyes and clearly reproduce his image.

    Repeat this several times, closing and opening your eyes, until the inner picture begins to completely coincide with the real one. When this happens, it means that you have managed to establish a telepathic connection, and now you can proceed directly to the suggestion. As I said, on the exhale, we give a certain message from the area between the eyebrows. Then listen to your feelings of what is happening to you. This will be a response from a pet, in the form of a picture or even a sound. When finished, thank your animal or plant for the answer and willingness to communicate with you. By the way, over time, with practice and strengthening of telepathic communication, you will be able to address him with some questions.

    Human treatment


    The same can be done with a person, I mean heal him, improve his health, provide support and even help to cope with something. This method is called positive telepathy. By the way, loving and very close people use it unconsciously in relation to each other. But the most powerful are the mothers who worry about their child, they sometimes really are able to work miracles with the power of thought, even if their child is on another continent, they can feel that something was wrong in advance, and even help to recover, survive only by the power of their desire.

    So what to do. Imagine how a ball is sent to a conceived person, which consists of energy, warm and healing, both soul and body. As through the point between the eyebrows, he inhales it, and this energy fills him, every cell and organ. As his mood changes, he smiles and feels that you are near. How the messages you have conceived get into his mind. It is very important that at this moment you yourself feel the state that you want to convey to him.

    Step-by-step instruction

    How to influence the actions of a planned person or make him feel like love for you.

    • Sit comfortably, relax each part of the body in stages, then take 3 deep breaths and exhalations.
    • Close your eyes and think about the text you want to convey, it is important that it be clear and short.
    • Then imagine this person as if he is now near, and you really feel him, right down to the smell.
    • Begin to articulate your order or belief. For example, so that he now writes you a message.
    • Ignore ideas that will pop up in your head on their own.
    • Now start visualizing what you want him to do. That is, as he picks up the phone, opens the necessary application and begins to write you a message.
    • Want it very strongly, and then the suggestion will reach him, because his brain will pick up your purposeful messages.
    • Pay attention to this exercise every day for at least 15-20 minutes, and over time, you will definitely learn telehypnosis.

    Message to man

    And the last, for those who are interested in the question of how to transmit a quick, so-called, message about yourself. When there is no time and opportunity to tune in to the performance and so on, but you urgently need to make yourself known. To do this, think about the message the person needs, then take a deep breath and a very sharp, strong exhale, on which your message flies to the addressee.

    Conclusion

    In the article, I said that everything negative comes back to us, only tenfold. Be careful in your intentions and take care of yourself, and do not forget to subscribe to my blog, there will be many more interesting things to come!

    Few of us were taught as children to work on thoughts and emotions, which is a pity.

    Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck are the creators of cognitive therapy.

    If people knew how to competently manage their thought-forms and take them under complete control from the very birth, as well as brush their teeth, then the world would be much more harmonious and healthier. Because our whole life depends on how we think. And with the right thinking, not a single event can drive a person out of himself - any cognitive psychotherapist can prove this to you.

    Lest you think that I am writing all this on the go, you can read about people like Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck, the creators of cognitive therapy, that is, working on your thoughts. They have published many books, and I decided to combine all this information into an article. Of course, this will be a drop in the ocean, but I would like to introduce you to the main and main points.

    1. Dating a girl

    Let's imagine a situation where a guy wants to go up to meet a girl on the street, but hesitates to do so. What does he usually think at the same time? Something like this: "If she refuses me, then I will look stupid in front of people" or "What if she has a boyfriend who is clearly not happy with my approach to her?" Thinking in this way, this person will never approach a girl for the purpose of dating.

    By thinking in the right way, we set ourselves up for success.

    But if he worked on these thoughts, constantly writing rational judgments in a notebook, then very quickly he would be able to get to know each other in this way.

    What should you write down in this case, you ask? It will look something like this: “I don’t know what will happen if I go to this girl, and I don’t know until I do. I accept that we may not get to know each other, because everything should NOT work out for me the first time. The worst thing that can happen is that we just won't communicate with her. ”

    If he writes these thoughts in a notebook every day, then very soon, at the sight of a girl he likes, he will approach her almost without fear. And the second time, he will make it even easier, and so on. Because he worked through this situation, and removed the unnecessary restriction in his head.

    1. Girl waiting for the exam results

    The girl is waiting for the exam results and is very worried. She thinks something like this: "If I fail the exam, it will be terrible, and there is no point in living any longer."

    With such thoughts, she will be in constant tension, which is not surprising. And if she replaced her thoughts with: “I did everything I could, and now nothing depends on me. The worst thing that can happen is that I will not pass the exam and will try to retake it, ”then after a while there would be no trace of her stress.

    With a fervent desire, everyone can develop correct thinking. To do this, you need to change some behavioral attitudes.

    1. Do not be afraid of psychotherapists

    By working on each situation in this way, you make your life much easier and open up a lot of new opportunities. It's just that they don't teach this in Russia, unfortunately. But you can turn to a cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist who will help you in this work - after all, as I said, our whole life depends on initial thoughts. And do not be afraid of psychotherapists, because they are not psychiatrists who will treat you with pills and injections.

    By working on each situation in this way, you make your life much easier and open up a lot of new opportunities.

    1. Write down the thoughts you want

    Do you find it challenging to write down the right thoughts all the time? This is because you have not been taught to do this since childhood and nothing more. After all, for 9 years, at least in school, you have been writing essays, presentations and dictations - and then, only for the sake of some kind of assessment in your diary and a certificate. And work on thoughts is much more important than these evaluations. Therefore, if you take responsibility for the quality of your thoughts, then your life will quickly change for the better.

    1. Work on yourself

    But, unfortunately, people, instead of actively working on themselves, start drinking alcohol and taking other drugs. Yes - this is a quick way to remove unnecessary thoughts and escape from the harsh reality, but extremely dangerous, and I think you yourself know that.

    You can read books by Aaron Beck and Albert Ellis to learn how to specifically engage with your thoughts, or work with a cognitive therapist. In any case, when you are able to work through at least one painful situation for you, you will become addicted to this business! Working in this way on yourself, you will never have depression, neurosis and anxiety. Because you will have many life options in your head, which are so lacking in depressed individuals who think that their life has come to a standstill.

    mind control will allow you to completely control your own life and become the master of your destiny.

    There are three simple exercises on how to learncontrol your mind :

    Positive thinking

    Most people simply do not realize the immense power of the positive and negative thoughts in their minds. The method is extremely simple: as soon as a negative thought floods your mind, immediately replace it with the thought that will cheer you up. Imagine that your brain is like a slide projector and every thought is like a slide.Whenever a negative slide appears on your screen, quickly change it to a positive one.

    For example, many people are annoyed by being late or waiting in line. Concentrating each time on negative thoughts and condemnation of a friend who was delayed for 10 minutes, a person programs negative patterns and runs the risk of being trapped in negative thoughts. Nevertheless, let's try to change the attitude towards the situation in a positive way. After all, waiting is nothing more than training willpower for some, or the opportunity to talk to oneself, or observe the world around them. There is a famous example of a half-empty and half-full glass. An optimist perceives a glass as half full - as half full, and a pessimist - as half empty. The glass did not change from this in any way. But one person is more often happy from such a perception of life, while the other is upset from this. It turns out that we ourselves choose how we react to this or that event in our life.

    An example of this is a story about two children. The parents had two twin sons. One of them was an optimist and the other a pessimist. Everything was good for an optimist, and his parents did not really think about what to give him for his birthday. But the pessimist thought for a long time what to give and gave him a wooden horse for his birthday - a good, wooden horse. And they decided to play a trick on the optimist and put horse dung near his bed. A negative child gets up in the morning and looks sadly at his horse and says: “Here again we have presented a horse of the wrong color, it does not ride, it is necessary to carry it. What should I do now and where should I put it in my little room now? " Parents were upset, again it did not work out. What about the optimist? Will he be upset? The optimist says: “Great, they gave me a real live horse. Even the manure remained, I probably went for a walk. "

    Thus, positive thinking will give you joy and self-confidence. By controlling your consciousness and increasing the positive qualities of a person, focusing on the beautiful and positive, you fill your life with these components. And negative thoughts are getting less and less.

    As soon as you begin to constantly apply this principle to your daily life and begin to control your consciousness, turning each event into a positive, giving force, you will forever get rid of worries. You will cease to be a prisoner of your past. Instead, you will become the architect of your future.

    Perfect mastery of your mind begins with the ability to control every thought that comes to your head. When you develop the ability to let go of all unworthy thoughts and learn to focus only on the positive and beneficial, you will begin to do positive and beneficial actions. Soon everything positive and useful will begin to come into your life of its own accord.
    Only we decide how to think and how to live: in happiness or in sadness.

    Concentration.

    If you want to strengthen your arm muscles to get stronger, then you need to train them. If you want to firm up the leg muscles, you must first tense them. In the same way, your mind will work miracles - but only if you let it do it. It will give you everything you want out of your life once you learn to manage it effectively. Mind training requires daily exercise.

    One of them is the ability to concentrate on your thoughts solving the mystery of your life. Most of us live in such a frantic rhythm that real silence and stillness sometimes becomes something alien and uncomfortable. Most people, hearing these words, will say that they have no time to sit and look at the flower. These same people will say that they do not have time to simply enjoy the laughter of children or run barefoot in the rain. They will say that they are too busy for such a thing. They don't even have friends, because friends also take time.

    Set aside 10-20 minutes daily forcontemplation exercises ... All that is required during this period is to concentrate all your attention on one object. It can be a flower, candle or any other object. This exercise must be done in complete silence and preferably outdoors. Look closely at the object. Pay attention to the color, structure and shape. Enjoy the scent and think only of this beautiful creation in front of you. At first, other thoughts will come to you, distracting you from the object. This is a sign of an untrained mind. Try not to be distracted by any thoughts.
    By practicing the exercise for 21 days, the mind will become stronger and more controlled and you will master the principle of mind control. You will realize that every moment is a miracle and a mystery, and you have the power to comprehend it.

    Visualization.

    Our minds think in images. Images influence our idea of ​​ourselves, and this idea determines how we feel, how we act, how we go to the goal. If you see yourself as too young to be successful in the legal profession, or too old to change habits, then you will never achieve these goals. If in your imagination you see that a life full of meaning, happiness and physical perfection is prepared only for people of another circle, to which you do not belong, then in the end it will become your reality.

    But if bright images flash across the wide screen of your consciousness, wonderful things will begin to happen in your life. Einstein said that"Imagination is more important than knowledge" ... Every day you should devote some time, even a few minutes, to this constructive foresight. Imagine yourself in the image of who you want to become, no matter who it will be - a successful entrepreneur, a loving mother, or a responsible citizen of society. The secret of visualization is that with the help of positive images we influence consciousness.

    The magic of imagination can be applied in many situations. It can be used to better manage the court case, improve relationships with others, and develop your own spirituality. Our consciousness has a magnetic power to attract everything we desire into our life. If something is missing in our life, it is because it is missing in our ideas. You have to keep beautiful pictures before the eyes of your imagination. Even a single negative image can poison the mind.Visualization is the magnetic force of consciousness, capable of bringing spiritual and material wealth.

    The power of imagination, as well as positive thinking and concentration, require constant training. Mind control takes time. And it's worth starting with regular meditation every day. Once these three methods become a daily practice, you will master the skill of controlling your thoughts, your consciousness and mind. If you are in control of your mind, you are in control of your life. And as soon as you become completely in control of your own life, you will become the master of your destiny.

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