How to win a girl: gain favor and win her heart. How to win a girl's heart? Don't waste your time

09.07.2021

Why do beautiful girls choose only the best men?

Your rank (or level - call it whatever is convenient for you) determines which girls you will date. And beauty in women is the same rank value as inner strength in men. The more beautiful a woman is, the more powerful a man she wants to see next to her. Beautiful girls usually know their worth, and will not date those who internally does not correspond to the image of a real man.

This explains why ordinary pick-up artists are far from always able to seduce a status beauty if their inner rank is not so high.

Now you and I will figure out how to win the love of a truly beautiful girl.

What you will face with a probability of 99%

Before I give you any advice on socializing and seducing beautiful girls, you must remember 2 moments in her behavior that you will surely come across. And, most likely, you will not even suspect about it.

There is such a thing as "the law of conformity". Every situation (especially a delicate one) for a woman is a reason to look at your behavior and understand who you really are. There are a great many such situations, and beautiful girls will observe your behavior, drawing their own conclusions.

Therefore, you have 3 options:

Really be a real man and behave as your inner voice tells you.
Study how real men behave in a variety of situations. And tightly control your behavior in order to avoid mistakes.
Behave naturally and not pretend even in small things.

The second option is very unreliable, since women's intuition is a powerful thing. The sixth sense will help her immediately form an impression of you. And even if you try to hide some weaknesses, sooner or later they will surface.

The third works only when you really behave naturally, and not habitually (natural and habitual behavior are somewhat different things).

Besides, you will meet many checks... The essence of the check comes down to the fact that the girl is unconsciously trying to create a situation in which you show your true face. And this happens because she sees some kind of discrepancy between your behavior and the image that you have created.

Therefore, study the basics of real male behavior even more thoroughly (our site will help you with this) and be ready to go through all the checks.

Winning the love of a beautiful girl

We will conquer her not with flowers and long courtship, but with the correct behavior and the creation of the necessary sexual tension.

Don't show too much attention

Especially in the early stages.

Surely you think that every girl loves to be admired for her beauty. But she loves not the guy who admires her, but the very fact of this admiration. :)

Pretty girls are used to being boys literally from the first seconds of communication they look into their mouth, listen to their every word, look for their gaze and are ready to immediately give their hand to cut off in order to spend the night with them.

This is the wrong position, which immediately kills all chances of seducing her. And even if she liked you at first sight, and then began to give a lot of your attention, most likely you will not get anything.

There are 2 reasons for this:

A person (in our case, a girl) is not interested in achieving what already belongs to him.
A man who shows heightened attention to a woman, while she has not yet earned it, is considered low-grade (in the understanding of a beautiful girl).

Maintain the tension

Sexual attraction is born only when there is tension. Why do all seducers say that when a beautiful girl is in the company of her friends, most of the attention should be given to her friends? Because this will create tension and a desire to win your interest. And this is already a good step towards seducing her.

If you read on our site, you probably noticed that this strategy is often used with beautiful girls.

Voltage creates in her unconscious attempts to attract your attention(even if at the very beginning it does not show it). She thinks about you more often and, accordingly, you become more valuable in her eyes.

And this tension must be maintained throughout the seduction (and often even after sex).

Refuse occasionally

You can refuse her when she takes the initiative. But you don't need to get carried away with this either.

You have to show her sometimes that there are things more valuable than sex (show with your refusal). The seducers of the project had a site many times that beautiful girls themselves offered to retire in the toilet of a cafe, but we refused them. Why did we do this - you ask? :) And then, that it multiplies the tension, and increases the chances of successful seduction. After all, there is nothing more interesting than a very beautiful girl who really wants you.

However, over time, you yourself will feel that sometimes it needs to be done.

Do not offer to meet more than 2 times in a row

If you hear a refusal once, then it can be considered normal. However, if she refused you 2 times in a row, then the reason is not in her employment, but in your unattractive behavior.

I advise you to slightly change your strategy of action, and also stop trying to pull her out to the meeting. On the contrary, it is better to just talk about something interesting, make a joke, and say goodbye without asking for a meeting. And do this several times.

And only then ask her out on a date again.

Deny her requests

At the very beginning of communication, a girl (it doesn't matter if she is very beautiful or just cute) may try to ask you for a favor.

She does this in order to understand which group of men to enroll you in: potential sexual partners or friends who fulfill her requests.

At such moments, it is important to confidently (without fear of offending) refuse.

The golden rule: while you have not had an intimate relationship with her, it is better not to comply with any requests.

Match your words and image

Any beautiful girl has a lot of experience with men. This helps her to determine if a man matches his previously created image of his own.

For example, if you tried to show that you are a tough male, and after a couple of months yourself could not answer anything worthy to the cattle who "ran over" on you, then be prepared for a total failure.

The same goes for your own rules and beliefs. If you show her that you don't like lack of discipline, then be kind and stick to your own beliefs and rules yourself.

Have goals and show your potential

The fun-loving people who have no purpose are often attracted to ordinary female students and those who are hungry for positive emotions.

But when it comes to beautiful, sought-after girls, even if you are a real ringleader, without having some big worthy goal in life, you will not fit the role of their man.

How can she show her potential?

It is enough to really achieve your own goals and occasionally talk about the process of achieving it, as it were, "in between," weaving all this into interesting stories.

Don't overestimate its importance

This is the most important advice in seducing not only beautiful, but also ordinary girls.

If you consider her very valuable, always and in everything listen to her desires, try to please, then she will feel such an attitude and ... will refuse you. Why? The reason is that if you overestimate its importance for yourself, then it is not attractive.

Moreover, I'm not telling you that you should artificially underestimate its importance (as some pick-up artists advise), being in search of shortcomings. It is enough to remember that she should try to earn your favor as much as you do. You just take the first step. :)

I am not talking about such components as confidence and a sense of humor, since these qualities are important when dealing with any girl.

Models, status, and simply beautiful girls can fall in love with yourself only if you follow each of the above rules of behavior. And if you want to be very pretty, then try to make these "strategies" natural behavior. Part of the real you.

Many guys are interested in how to achieve the location of the girl they like. In fact, in order to attract the attention of the representatives of the opposite sex, it is not at all enough to have money, an apartment and a car - manners, masculinity and strength are needed here.

Basic methods and rules

In psychology, it has long been proven that women are much more romantic, impressionable and emotional than men. If a girl feels romance and a fairy tale in a relationship, then she falls in love very quickly, which is why a young man has much more chances to conquer his chosen one if he admires, shows signs of attention and demonstrates his best masculine qualities. The ideal man in the eyes of a woman should meet the following qualities:

cleanliness and tidiness- representatives of the strong sex should take care of their appearance, be neat, clean and smell good;
sense of humor- women do not like those men with whom they are bored, besides, everyone knows that the owners of a good sense of humor, as a rule, are still far from stupid people, so a girl can always find a topic for conversation with them;
a responsibility- a man must keep his promises, you are unlikely to attract a girl if you are constantly late, evade obligations or do not keep your words;
honesty- the relationship should be transparent and open, trust is the main component of any communication between two people;
reliability- as they say, to be married means “to a husband,” a girl must understand that her beloved is exactly the person on whom you can rely in everything;
perfect man- necessarily kind, loyal, generous and by no means lazy, he must constantly admire, make presents, arrange surprises and compliment his chosen one.

To conquer a girl, a young man must have confidence, manners and information about his beloved, her tastes, preferences and hobbies.

To win sympathy, a man must first of all show respect for both the woman herself and her environment. Very often, young people behave gallantly towards their companions, but they show coldness and neglect to everyone around them - this is a mistake, any woman will immediately notice this, and then you will have little chance of getting her sympathy. The man who dreams of seeing girls as his companion will definitely treat parents, children, friends and older people well.

A man should strive for self-realization in the profession, he should make every effort to achieve recognition in business. Even the kindest woman will trust a person who has a certain wealth much more. Everyone knows that the candy-bouquet period ends sooner or later, and then the couple begins to face everyday difficulties, which often lead to collapse. Weak and lazy guys without goals and aspirations are unlikely to be able to keep a girl.

You definitely need to show care and attention, such signs made without any reason are especially appreciated, and by the girl's reaction it will be easy to understand whether it makes sense to continue to conquer her. Women need help, and it is better to do this without waiting for her request, she will certainly appreciate it, because in the eyes of a girl a guy who feels and understands her is a real diamond. And if he can still become a real support and support, then they will try not to miss such a person.

How to conquer a girl on a first date?

So, you met the woman you liked, overcame all your doubts, struck up a conversation and finally invited her out on a date. It is extremely important that your first meeting is perfect, because it largely depends on her whether your couple has any chances for a joint future. According to statistics, about 50% of the first dates are also the last ones, so it is very important not to make mistakes. Everyone knows that they are seen off according to their minds, but at the same time they are met by their clothes. Don't underestimate the importance of your appearance when you meet. Young people must certainly look good - stylish, neat and noble, girls appreciate guys with good taste.

You should wear deodorant before your date, even if it says it protects 48 hours - but use it anyway right before your date. And, of course, do not forget about the perfume, its delicate scent always magnetically affects women. Be sure to bring along accessories that can create a sense of prosperity, such as a stylish watch, an expensive lighter, or trendy sunglasses. And now let's move on to the most important topic - no matter how well you are dressed, you will not be able to captivate the girls on your first date with your appearance alone, you will have to use one more tool of yours - language.

You should talk to a woman, on the first date there is no place for awkward silent pauses and frantic search for topics for conversation. To begin with, try to talk about her, all people are selfish by nature and love to talk about themselves, and beautiful women are no exception. Ask her, listen and remember everything she says, and be sure to nod and assent at the right moments. You can also tell about yourself, but in such a way as to present yourself in the best possible light. However, you should not forget about extraneous topics for conversation - dream together, remember your childhood, discuss dreams.

In fact, you can choose any topic, but there are several taboos:

sport, weapons and war- these are exclusively male topics that women are rarely interested in;
computer games- the topic is interesting only for people playing the same game, in all other cases it does not cause anything but boredom;
technical topics related to profession, study or work - believe me, in this case the girl's reaction will be the same;
relatives- no one can know on the first date how a woman's relationship with her family and friends develops, the topic is too personal, and you can easily step on slippery ground and ruin the mood of both her and herself (if a girl wants to tell you about her family, she will certainly do it).

And, of course, the girl should be given pleasant compliments, but this must be done correctly.

First of all, you need to admire a specific detail, for example, style, as well as a smile, legs, hair, eyes, and the like. A compliment can relate not only to her appearance, for example, if a girl often jokes, tell her that she is very witty. However, do not get hung up on any one moment and do not shower with "amenities" without stopping - over time it will be terribly annoying. Any girl, even the most modest and shy, loves to be touched, even if she claims exactly the opposite. The main thing is to touch correctly. You can hold her hands, hug her slightly - you need to do this already in the very first minutes of your date, but, of course, without rudeness, the movement should be gentle and delicate.

On the first date, the touch should be as if "accidental" - from time to time touch her with your shoulder or hand. You can, for example, fix her hairstyle, or you can go further - invite the girl to tell fortunes in the palm of your hand, while it does not matter at all whether you can do it or not - in any case, she will most likely like this contact, perhaps she will agree to go a bit further.

How to conquer an unapproachable girl?

If you want to conquer an inaccessible obstinate woman or a girl who does not like your type of men, patience is required here. It will not work to win the heart of such a woman with flowers and ordinary compliments - competent behavior and the gradual creation of especially sexual tension are important here.

There are some simple rules.

Don't be overly attentive, especially in the early stages of courtship. Beautiful women are accustomed to the fact that all the men they meet literally look into their mouths from the very first minutes of communication and are ready for anything, if only they agree to spend the night together. In the eyes of the girl, this behavior is not interesting, so it completely discourages them from continuing their acquaintance. They are simply not interested in seeking someone who is already at their feet. And then, women consider low-grade those men who show attention to them at a time when they have not yet deserved it (in their, female, understanding).

Be sure to maintain tension - it is with him that sexual attraction begins. If a girl is in the company of her beautiful friends - give them the lion's share of your attention, women are hunters, they will immediately "make a stand" and want to beat you off. Such tension gives rise to subconscious attempts to attract your male attention, she increasingly thinks of you and, accordingly, you are strongly raised in her eyes.

Refuse her from time to time when she begins to show her own initiative, but do it beautifully and, of course, do not overdo it.

Do not offer more than two dates in a row if you were refused once - the reasons may be the most commonplace, but the second refusal already, rather, indicates that the girl does not regard your behavior as attractive. In this case, it is better to talk about something funny at the next meeting, to joke and say goodbye, without even hinting at a possible meeting. And this must be done repeatedly - and then, only then, invite to a new meeting.

Show the girl your potential, keep in mind that guys with no purpose only attract female students, as well as those who are hungry for positive emotions. Beautiful unapproachable women do not belong to either category, whether you are the soul of the company and a real ringleader, they will never consider a man for the role of their companion if he does not have some great and undoubtedly worthy goal in life.

And, of course, don't overestimate its importance. If you, at every opportunity, emphasize your sympathy, the desire to please and listen to her desires, the girl will simply refuse you. For her, such actions are uninteresting and sometimes tiresome.

How to act at a distance?

In recent years, more and more young people find a girlfriend via the Internet. For example, you met a beautiful girl on social networks, she is texting with you, but it turns out from personal meetings. Let's consider how to be in such a situation. It's simple - you should attract her with your text messages so that after a short time she can appear in front of your friends as your girlfriend.

Write competently - any mistakes, whether spelling or syntactic, can spoil the impression of you quite strongly, however, if the object of your desire, like you, does not bother about literacy, then mistakes will not be a special problem.
Don't turn your communication into everyday correspondence. There is no need to tell what you ate for breakfast, and how you bought yourself socks or hung a picture, there is enough such routine in the life of any woman without that. She wants companionship and romance from a pen partner.
Tell her about your merits, in an unobtrusive form describe to her some of your life stories that show you from the best side, let the girl have the feeling that you are strong, courageous, noble and generous.
Joke more. Everyone loves funny guys, only jokes should be really funny, in no case go into vulgarity.
Take an interest in your friend's affairs, ask about her life, hobbies and interests.
Make sure not to repeat yourself in your messages - otherwise, the girl will decide that you have absolutely no imagination.
Be real - you shouldn't portray a tough macho or an unrecognized genius, a tired philosopher or an eccentric are also not the best options for transferring communication from online to a real plane.

If you feel like your communication is having a hard time getting to the romantic stage, then try using heavy artillery. Poems - it is not at all necessary to write a poem for her, you can use previously created works - it is important to correctly insert several lines into the text or end your message with them. Pictures - if you draw well, you can devote a drawing to her, women love artists no less than poets. If there are no such abilities, then feel free to look for beautiful pictures on the Internet, for example, few people will try to see a secret message in the images of a couple under an umbrella, woven hands and footprints in the sand.

However, it is better to refrain from pictures from the "Kama Sutra", especially those accompanied by the text from the series "I want you too" - you risk being blacklisted immediately after such a message. Sometimes men who try to fall in love with a woman from a distance make many mistakes that simply negate all their efforts. If you really intend to achieve a real meeting, then in your messages you should not:

deceive- there is no need to ascribe to yourself other people's merits, to portray yourself as a rich man or a sought-after specialist, if in practice you are not;
declare love in the first messages- in this case, the girl will decide that you are either an ordinary joker, or a liar or just crazy;
make promises you can't keep- there is no need to turn into a henpecked already at a distance, otherwise, when they meet in person, they will wipe their feet at all;
write vulgarities- you shouldn't ask what the girl is wearing during the third communication session and tell what you would like to do with her right now, this is possible only if you have already met in person and your relationship has crossed the line of friendly communication;
terrorize a woman- no need to arrange a debriefing for her, to find out why she did not respond to the message written an hour ago, why she did not appear on the network last night, because such scenes can be afforded by her husband, but not by a pen pal.

Basic principles important for girls
20 ways to make a girl fall in love with you

Let's start with the well-known principles of how to make a girl fall in love with you, which seem to be known to everyone, but they are usually forgotten when they meet and then are sincerely surprised at the lack of any result. So, let's begin:

1. Image - fall in love not with you, but with your image that you create in the girl's head. You DO NOT need to make yourself perfect, they need to seem. Yes, no one needs your delicate darling. And nobody cares how romantic you are or how attractive you are.

2. Mystery, intrigue - a girl falls in love with something unknown. You don't have to immediately post your life profile and tell the details about yourself for half an hour. The more mystery you have, the better. A mysterious guy is much more interesting and valuable than some Petya, about whom the girl has known everything for a long time and can predict his every step.

3. Inaccessibility - what is available at any given time has no value. So you should not offer yourself in large quantities.

4. Altruism - when a person is in love, he wants to do everything disinterestedly for his soul mate. Requiring nothing in return. Absolutely. As a rule, a girl will only present her beloved boyfriend.

5. Significance - the more important you are for a girl, the more she is afraid of losing you !!! So the significance is different - we do not mind losing someone, and losing someone is unthinkable for us. Statistics show one interesting paradox: the more important a person is to us, the less important we are to him. In other words, if you run after a person like a servant, then his attitude towards us will be appropriate.

20 ways to fall in love with a girl

Do you think love is a random process that is beyond our control? But no. Love can be directed and corrected, we just never thought about it. By learning how to apply our tips, you can make a girl love you.

1. Behave like her father

Girls unconsciously look for a man who looks like their father (everyone thinks that their dad is the best, which means that the best men are those who are like him).

2. Show that you are different from her ex

For the most part, girls change the criteria for choosing a partner after a failed relationship. If you show her that you don't look like her ex, that will be a big plus for you.

3. Understand her psychological needs.

They are all different, and the best match for any person is the one who satisfies as many of these very needs as possible.

4. Raise your value

Let your mutual friends speak well of you when you are not around. The girl will begin to think that you are more valuable if she hears that others value you highly. And what did you want, everyone needs proof!

5. Meet her more often.

Studies have shown that people are looking for a partner from among the people with whom they often see. Men who tend to disappear from sight for a long time are forgotten by girls.

6. Be mysterious

The less she understands your intentions, the more she will think about you. The more she thinks of you, the more likely she is to like you.

7. Smile less often

Psychologists say that women prefer serious men, and not nice guys who just giggle and hakhanki.

8. Highlight your resemblance

As soon as you notice something in common in you, do not hesitate to point it out (if, of course, we are talking about good quality). When she sees a few similarities, she will start to think that you should be together.

9. Disappear when she misses you

When the girl you are interested in is bored, disappear for no apparent reason. So she will think about you even more, and it will only play into your hands.

10. Confuse her

Don't try to be nice all the time, but you don't need too much anger either. Sometimes you have to confuse her: people think more about things that they cannot understand.

11. Arousal can be confused with love.

When you are doing something interesting or dangerous together (watching a good movie or climbing a rock), she feels an excitement that can easily be confused with love. She may think that she is aroused because you are next to her. You're better off!

12. Hint

Girls love hints: it is more interesting for them to perceive information. Don't tell her you have a BMW - just put your keys on the table in silence.

13. Women love bad guys.

Just try to show despair, be too nice and call her too often - you will die alone. Girls love leaders, tough guys and bad guys - these always have tons of options.

14. You are pleased with her

Let her understand: you have a lot of options, and of all you chose her. Let him feel special, even the chosen one.

15. Repeat her gestures

When you imitate someone's gesture and tone of voice, the person subconsciously believes in your resemblance.

16. Pay attention to her, and then deprive her of this attention.

Give her a lot of attention for a few days, and she will start thinking whether she likes you or not. Now disappear for a few days, and she will start thinking about you all the time, simply because she does not understand your behavior.

17. Show opposite qualities

Opposite to the fact that the girl does not like herself. If she is shy, be confident and talk non-stop.

18. Reveal Your Positive Traits Gradually

Women lose interest when a man becomes predictable. Therefore, do not throw cards on the table on the first date - save for both the second and the third.

19. Call her every day at the same time, and then suddenly stop

20. Understand her past.

Depending on her experience, a girl begins to love certain men. It is necessary to understand her past, all the milestones in the formation of her personality, draw conclusions and become the very person she needs.

10 easy steps to win a girl's love

1) Spend time with her

To gain the attention of a girl, you need to be in sight. You can avoid meeting a girl only when she is already thinking about you. Taking breaks like this will help her create the perfect look that she will fall in love with.

So instead of being mysterious, try to become a part of her life. It is necessary to achieve such a state that she becomes uncomfortable without you, your correspondence and calls.

2) Compliments and charm

Depending on their age, girls love either tough guys, or arrogant, or self-confident. But at any age, girls love gallant guys who charm a little with their naivety. Courtesy should be an integral part of your look, not something special when you are trying to court a girl.

3) stay connected

4) be a reliable guy

Every girl believes that a good guy is a guy who can protect both himself and his girlfriend. If she depends on your opinion, she cannot be without you. But do not overdo it with the help of the beginning of the relationship. You have to be the guy who can help. Not a kid who will always help if I smile at him.

5) Place her to you

The main skill that you need is the ability to communicate competently with a girl. Each girl has a whole set of events in the past that she is embarrassed to tell. This is the reason why you need to hear it. If she tells you this, and you calmly react to it, she will begin to trust you.

6) avoid becoming a friend

This is extremely important. The line between your best friend and your beloved boyfriend is invisible. Without sexual innuendo, good communication will turn into friendship. And this means the collapse of all plans in relation to the girl.

7) good flirting is the key to success

Vapid conversations are not very interesting. An argument can improve your relationship with your girlfriend. A little tease, joke, and the girl's pride is already hurt. And she wants to take revenge on you. And if so, then she will definitely come to the next meeting. It is also worth remembering that good flirting is an opportunity to hug a girl. And this is romantic.

8) the best compliment is your eyes

You made an appointment with a girl, she spent several hours getting ready. Now imagine that when a girl meets you, she sees your amazed eyes and hears in a slightly stuttering voice: "You look good." She will be in seventh heaven, as her efforts and preparation have already paid off. Use this.

9) Show your girlfriend a little approval during meetings.

The girl, although she may look calm and confident, but she would like to hear words of approval for her behavior. Therefore, be able to say in time: "you look great."

10) A good kiss will do half the work for you.

This is the kiss that the girl wants and gets from you. It doesn't matter where, it doesn't matter how. The main thing is that you saw her desire and took the first step.

Conclusion. What do girls need?

It is easy to interest a girl; it is much more difficult to make her fall in love with you.
Many guys show their feelings too much, believing that their emotions will hit the girl. However, girls love guys for their actions, not their words.
In order to fall in love with a girl, you need a suitable atmosphere, understanding of your partner and complete confidence that this is not a mistake.

The tips in this article will help you achieve reciprocity from your girlfriend. But do not forget that all people are different and what can work on one will not have any effect on the other.

Well, of course, you should always remember that gorgeous girls go to gorgeous guys. So you will need to work not only with her, but also on yourself. And then you can.

The struggle for a woman's heart is comparable to a theatrical performance. Correctly selected makeup, music, actors and the play itself make the audience tremble with delight. As soon as the theatrical heroes forget the words, the hall is filled with indignant exclamations.

Meeting a woman is a well-played piece, the end result of which should be a standing ovation, not an angry demand for a ticket refund. How to fall in love with a girl and play your male role according to all the rules?

In contact with

classmates

Experience is not the main thing in seducing women. The first thing to think about before approaching a person you like is appearance.

A girl may not pay attention to the high cost of clothes, but she will appreciate cleanliness and neatness first of all. The basic rules of a men's pickup truck, for those who do not know how to fall in love with a girl, can be presented as follows:

A gaze and nothing more

All women love attention. If a girl notices that a young man is watching her, she will most likely turn around to do the same. The main thing in all this is not to lose eye contact. It should be clear to the girl that they are interested in her not in order to come up and ask for directions, but with a certain romantic purpose. If the girl looked away first, then the man can celebrate a small victory.

"A smile will make the world brighter"

No one likes gloomy, self-contained people; women try to bypass such individuals. If a man does not have a day and he cannot squeeze out anything but a crooked smile, acquaintance is deliberately doomed to failure. Noticing the girl he likes in the crowd, the man should smile at her. If she answers a smile, you can come up and try to get to know each other.

"Night, street, lantern, pharmacy"

Psychologists say that you can get to know each other anywhere, be it a chic cafe, or a bus stop. The main condition is the right time. If a girl returns home alone late in the evening, then making acquaintance with her will not be the best idea: most likely, she will be frightened and will try to get rid of a random fellow traveler.

When meeting, it is best to keep your distance. A distance of 1 meter should be maintained between a girl and a man. Otherwise, a new acquaintance may find the attention shown to her too intrusive.

Nice conversations and compliments

Having practiced gazing and smiles and walking up to the girl, the man should strike up a pleasant conversation. It is better to start it with a banal compliment. You can praise a beautiful hairstyle, manicure, dress, say that a man was delighted with her walk, smile, laughter.

The conversation should be simple, you should not move on to academic topics and ask about the new familiar degree of her mastery of the Gauss theorem. It is better to talk about the weather, the surrounding architecture, the latest cinema and theater, the taste characteristics of the pastries served in the nearest cafe.

Contacts

You should not immediately pounce on the girl with the requirement to give her phone number. This option is suitable for ending an unexpected date. If a man has made the right impression, the girl will easily agree to give him her number. If not, you can try to find out her profile from social networks and try to continue communication on the Internet.

Women love confident men, because if a young man mumbles and does not know what to say at the first contact, his chances of continuation are minimal. If you want to attract the attention of a girl you like, you can buy a ball or a rose, go up to her and just give her. The accepted present will be the first step towards further acquaintance.

How to make a girl fall in love with you?

Many guys spend a lot of time thinking about how to fall in love with a girl. At the same time, they do not understand that the main problem is not how to do it, but why. If you really liked the girl and the man plans to build a strong long-term relationship with her, then it will be easier to fall in love with her than the one with whom you plan to spend several weeks or even days. Most often, women feel the intentions of men and act accordingly.

It is easy to make acquaintances by correspondence, but it is not easy to fall in love with a girl. To begin with, you should "fill up" her with beautiful compliments, electronic gifts, possibly poetry.

If she got in touch, you can praise her photos, ask about the places where they were taken. The main thing in this matter is perseverance and a clear manifestation of interest in the female person.

To pique interest, a man must learn about her favorite books, films, and artists. It is important to show the girl how attentive, educated, and ready to respond immediately to any of her messages.

If she doesn't like you

Experiencing problems with building relationships, men often ask themselves the question of how to fall in love with a girl if she doesn't like you? Representatives of the strong half of humanity are literally unsettled by this state of affairs, but one should not despair.

It is necessary to understand what exactly the girl does not like in a particular person. It can be both external data (height, weight, eye color, hair, nose shape, etc.), and character traits. It will hardly be possible to correct external data, but a man is quite capable of changing his own behavior and character.

For example, a sullen person might try to learn a few jokes, invite a girl on a carousel ride, or spend an evening at the movies watching a comedy. If the girl does not like the excessive stinginess of the partner, then you can try to look more generous than usual.

If she has a boyfriend

There is an opinion that a guy is not a husband yet, and therefore you shouldn't even worry about how to fall in love with a girl if she has a boyfriend. In reality, this is not the case. Most of the fair sex are already quite faithful at this stage of the relationship. The main task is to show the girl her best qualities, to make her understand that the young man she has chosen is not a suitable candidate.

To do this, you should give the best gifts, show maximum attention, see off from the university (from work), and regularly invite you on dates. If the one with whom the chosen one is dating for a given period of time does not really like her, then after a while she will pay attention to such obvious signs of favor from the new fan.

If she loves another

The question of how to fall in love with a girl if she loves another is the most painful one. In principle, it is useless to look for an answer to it, since in most cases it is impossible.

If a girl is truly in love, she perceives the men around her only as friends.

There is practically no chance for a new fan, but you can try: real feelings are worth fighting for.

Top 10 ways that work flawlessly

Summarizing everything that has been said above about how to fall in love with a girl, consider 10 ways that work flawlessly:

Jokes and humor. Women highly value men who can make them laugh. Such a man is easy to love, it is easy to fall in love with him. It is necessary to joke more, not be ashamed of comical situations in which a couple may find themselves.
Learn everything about what a girl loves. Men do not like to go shopping with their chosen ones, but the life of most women is not limited to shops. Many girls go in for active sports, dance, embroider, read books, work in an interesting and favorite job. A man must make sure that his interests coincide as closely as possible with the interests of the girl. To do this, it is not at all necessary to run to the gym or buy embroidered paintings, it is enough to find out more information about what a woman does and, if necessary, support her in new endeavors.
Listening to a girl If a man does not know how to listen and hear, it will be difficult for him to win the heart of a beautiful lady. Listen carefully to everything the girl is talking about, even if you are not interested.
Support - Despite the significant percentage of feminists present in society, most girls still rely on a strong male shoulder. At the same time, support does not have to be material, simple sympathy is quite enough. So, if a girl had a fight with her parents, friends, bosses and is looking for consolation, one should not talk about the degree of her guilt, future problems, and the like. She must understand that the man will choose her side anyway.
Trust Without trust, there is no love, because if a man fails to win over a woman in such a way that she trusts him, he cannot fall in love with her.
Constantly praise the taste in clothes, cosmetics. Girls love attention, so a man should periodically praise another fashionable bag or dress, talk about the beauty of makeup, etc.
Sweets: If a woman cooks well, her chances of winning a man double. A man can also use such a trick, but he does not need to cook for this. It is enough to give the chosen one her favorite sweets.
Flowers. Women love flowers, the more the better.
Memorable dates When planning to fall in love with a girl, one should not forget about memorable dates - the first kiss, the first date, the beginning of a life together, etc.
Pleasant surprises: Not all women love surprises, but everyone can appreciate a truly beautiful gesture. Naturally, having bought tickets for the next flight to Paris, subject to the girl's colossal employment at work, or the exam ahead of her tomorrow, the man will not win in the least in her eyes. But unexpectedly donated earrings, going to the movies, or going to a picnic will be appreciated.

The main thing to remember for those who plan to follow the methods presented above is that women love to be sought, surprised and indulged in most of the whims.

Psychological techniques

Girls do not like overly correct guys, so a man should not talk about being faithful to her only person on the first date, report, talk about everything that happened to him during the day.

The girl should feel like a woman, not a mother, lavishing praise for good behavior. If a man does not know how to fall in love with a girl, the psychological techniques described below can be a real guide to action for him.

So what you need to know about women:

girls love when they are looked at and when they are admired, because the main thing is eye contact;
a girl who is not deprived of the attention of men ignores the views of the next boyfriend (he is only one of many for her), the latter needs to act directly opposite to the others, not paying any attention to the object of passion;
if the girl is bored with flowers and gifts and she begins to take them for granted, it is necessary to abruptly stop courtship, she will become worried and in the future she will look for a reason to meet;
a girl will never fall in love with someone who compares her to other women, because by doing this, a man can lose his beloved forever.

When making acquaintance and further meetings, you should carefully monitor her reaction to touch. If a girl does not immediately strive to move away from a man whose hand accidentally touched her shoulder or hair, then he is already halfway to her heart.

Touches, even casual ones, are extremely important: they show the degree of readiness for further rapprochement. If this did not help and the man still has no idea how to fall in love with a girl, psychology will not help here, it is necessary to study the specific situation from the inside and understand the reason for the failure. Perhaps it is due to the fact that the girl is already in love, but hides, or her reaction is associated with the zodiac sign under which she was born.

It's easy to find out that a girl is in love with a particular man. As mentioned above, she ceases to notice signs of attention given to her by others. In addition, a woman in love forgives a lot, is ready to help her chosen one in any of his endeavors. She is not interested in the opinion of others and even close relatives. She does not allow her to speak badly about her lover.

Having reached an understanding of how to fall in love with any girl, representatives of the stronger sex begin to experience difficulties in understanding why their chosen one prefers to hide her feelings. There are several reasons for this:

the girl did not understand herself, confuses friendship with love and vice versa;
she does not trust the chosen one, she is afraid of deception;
she is afraid of the condemnation of others;
the woman does not know that her feelings are mutual and therefore hides them, fearing to look stupid.

It is not easy to understand that a girl is hiding in love, but you can still try. To begin with, it is worth observing her reaction to other representatives of the fairer sex who surround the man. As a rule, it is negative.

Many women give themselves away, unconsciously caring for their beloved - cooking their favorite dishes, gifts for dates that the man himself does not remember, disinterested help in business. In any case, a man must take the first step himself and confess his feelings.

Is it possible to re-charm an ex-girlfriend (and is it necessary)?

After a serious quarrel that became the reason for the separation, some men are worried about how to fall in love with a girl again, how to fall in love with an ex-girlfriend, wife, girlfriend, whether it is worth doing it. The answer to the question depends on the situation that provoked the breakup.

In most cases, there are no hopeless options, but it is unlikely that the girl will return to the guy who mistreated her, called her offensive words and constantly cheated. If the quarrel was caused by an attack of jealousy, had a domestic character, or was provoked by the environment, then you can return the relationship by repeating a number of points described above.

Entering into an already destroyed relationship, a man runs the risk of facing previously existing and unresolved problems. Before seeking the favor of your ex, you need to carefully weigh all the pros and cons.

How to behave with representatives of different zodiac signs?

The nature of the relationship being built largely depends on the sign of the zodiac. So, some representatives of the zodiacal wheel can easily fall in love with themselves, while others do not succumb to temptation for a long period of time, surrendering to the mercy of the winner only after making sure in practice of the authenticity of his feelings.

Aries

Aries woman will not tolerate a sluggish and not energetic man next to her, because before deciding how to fall in love with an Aries girl, a guy must evaluate his intellectual and social skills. Aries love to joke, are not touchy, can provoke an argument, prefer people who directly speak about their intentions.

Taurus

The Taurus woman cannot stand talkers. Not knowing how to fall in love with a Taurus girl, a man is obliged to think about whether he is ready to silently concede in disputes arising in the course of a relationship. Taurus is extremely stubborn, they know exactly who they need, the choice of the chosen one always occurs consciously, in most cases on the basis of careful calculation.

Twins

Gemini love witty interlocutors, therefore, there will not be any special difficulties in how to fall in love with a Gemini girl. It is pleasant to spend time with representatives of this sign, they are ready to support any conversation.

How a girl under the sign of Gemini loves

Cancer

Cancers are cheerful, but extremely stubborn, therefore difficulties can arise with how to fall in love with a Cancer girl. Sincerity can help in this difficult task. A man should not hide the emotions that cover him, and then he will be able to conquer the heart of a Cancer woman.

a lion

Leos are headstrong and impatient, they prefer to dominate in relationships, so a man who is thinking about how to fall in love with a Leo girl will have a hard time. Success will depend on his ability to flatter and compliment him. Leo girls love to be put on a pedestal.

Virgo

Virgos prefer a business approach in everything, including in relationships. A man who decides to devote some time to how to fall in love with a Virgo girl will have to carefully monitor all the words spoken in her presence. Virgo remembers all the promises, literally quotes the conversation that took place 1 year ago.

scales

Libra loves to chat, and it doesn't matter what, what matters is how. They are refined natures, therefore a man who has conceived to win her hearts and does not know how to fall in love with a Libra girl must learn the art of conducting a salon conversation, be competent in all topics of interest to the chosen one.

How a girl born under the sign of Libra loves

Sagittarius

Sagittarius love to lecture, therefore, in a conversation with them, there is always an edifying and commanding tone. A guy who doesn't know how to fall in love with a Sagittarius girl should practice philosophical conversations. At the same time, talking about feelings and romance is not worth it, Sagittarius do not like this. As well as conversations about home, work, everyday problems.

Scorpion

Emotions are important to Scorpio. A man should not think too long about how to fall in love with a Scorpio girl, he just needs to show his true feelings. This must be done carefully, since Scorpios are excellent manipulators.

Capricorn

Capricorns prefer to keep their distance from unfamiliar people, so a guy trying to figure out how to fall in love with a Capricorn girl must prepare for a long siege.

How a girl born under the sign of Capricorn loves

Aquarius

One of the easiest zodiac signs to communicate and make new acquaintances. Difficulties with how to fall in love with an Aquarius girl should not arise. Representatives of this sign like well erudite men with a pronounced sense of humor. It is better to talk on abstract topics, preferably bypassing questions about career, life, home, money.

Fishes

Sufficiently impressionable zodiac sign. A guy who does not know how to fall in love with a Pisces girl should stock up on exclusively positive emotions and news. Pisces are touchy and easily upset. You should talk to them exclusively about cinema, art, literature, pets.

Useful video

There are many ways to fall in love with a girl. If one method doesn't work, then try another. The video below contains 12 questions, after which the girl will fall in love with you:

Conclusion

Not knowing how to fall in love with a girl again, or simply fearing new acquaintances, men experience a lot of emotional troubles.

It is important to understand that women differ from the representatives of the strong half of humanity in physiological terms, but still remain people who, above all, care about attention and care.

If a man loads a girl with expensive things, but at the same time is not ready to sit by her bed during an illness, then he will definitely not be able to fall in love with her.

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You will be confused a thousand times before you realize that she is the one. The choice is too great, but if you are the lucky one who could see your only one among the endless series of lips, hair and legs ... we advise you to act!

Playboy presents 6 simple tips to win over a woman.

1 Will to win

Shot from the movie "Transformers"

A girl, like you, can easily get lost in a whirlwind of faces and superficial acquaintances, not remember or simply not know about your existence. In such a situation, persistence will help you.

Wish her good morning and good night, after a hundred refusals, call her out on a date for the 101st time. It is important for women to know that it is she who is interesting to you: her smile, interests, manner of speaking. However, don't overuse: words and actions shouldn't look manic.

2. Instead of a thousand words

Women have special contempt for barren flowers: those who promise mountains of gold, a million scarlet roses and other stars from the sky, but in reality will not pick up a cart of lilacs. I dare to quote observations from my own life.

One says, "I chose you." So it will disappear forever in a week. Second: "And let's call our son Dima." Two weeks later, he doesn't answer calls and you lose interest. Third: "Shall we go to Europe?" After three weeks of dating, he blocks you on social networks.

Inevitably, you will remember the "bearded" anecdote about Cinderella: "He says that you are the love of his life, and forgets what you look like."

Love the action, not the conversation. We can chat with a friend, but a man wants to believe.

3 Scarlet flower

One of the hardest parts of dating is choosing gifts. The most important thing here is to remember some trifle from your conversations and then play it beautifully.

Is she talking about the cakes she loved as a child? Send her a confectionery treat straight to work. Says she's starting to forget English? Present Dickens in the original. There will be plenty of chances to please if you start to listen to her.

4 Feed-praise

So be it, I will reveal our main secret, for which I will most likely be expelled from the women's community forever. All women love to eat. They are very fond of. Moreover, absolutely everything, including reeds, phyto-babies and even beautiful princesses.

Invite her to take a gastronomic trip to restaurants in Moscow. It is not necessary to go to "Pushkin" or "Turandot". Fortunately, there are a lot of interesting places in the capital that will not cause much damage to your wallet. During dinner, topics of conversation will start by themselves, and there will be a chance to conquer her with your charm.

5 Praise-feed

A well-known axiom - women love with their ears, almost as much as they love to eat. But there are several nuances here. If you hear for the thousandth time that you have beautiful legs, you won't notice the next time.

Psychologists have proven that the more unusual the compliment, the better it will be remembered. Note her sense of style, accessories (these are all her jewelry), manicure (these are the polish on her hands) or her clutch (small envelope-shaped handbag). And on Friday night in the bar, you can praise her ass, it will even be appropriate.

6. The effect of presence

Her car broke down, she was tired at work, her friend offended her - all these circumstances, oddly enough, will help you become closer to you. The ability to listen and hear is the trump card of all gentlemen. Personal support is more appreciated, but if you are very busy, even a reassuring message will suffice. Everyone loves to be listened to, whatever one may say.