Poll how well you know your friend. Katerina's on-line magazine

This mini test of a few simple questions will allow you to understand how well you know each other.

Answer the questions below, then ask your partner.

P.S. These questions are for people who have been together for quite a long time.

If your relationship has just begun, be lenient towards each other and do not demand the correct answers at every point.

Partner knowledge questions

1. What is your partner's least favorite body part?

2. When your partner was a child, who did he / she want to become in the future?

3. Which country would your significant other like to visit?

4. Did your partner have a nickname as a child? If so, which one? Did he like that nickname?

5. With whom of your relatives does your loved one communicate the closest? (If there are none, omit the question.)

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6. What disappointment from the past gnaws at your partner until now?

7. What are his / her achievements proud of?

8. What does your partner most dislike doing around the house?

9. What are the names of your partner's grandparents. Can you name all the grandparents?

10. What talents is your partner endowed with in his own opinion?

11. What is his / her favorite scent?

12. What is your favorite ice cream flavor?

13. What character trait does your partner dislike in himself, and in what way does he resemble his parents?

14. What kind of death is your partner afraid of?

Questions for a couple to know each other

15. What kind of music does your partner really like to listen to? (Even if those around you do not know about these musical preferences). Determine his musical taste.

16. What does he (she) expect from the upcoming weekend?

17. Who does your partner consider to be his mentor, or someone who has had a strong positive impact on his or her professional development?

Second half knowledge questions

18. How did your partner spend their summer as a child?

19. What are your favorite and least favorite moments in your partner's work?

20. Does your partner consider himself more like his mother or father in terms of character? If so, in what way?

21. What purchase is your partner currently thinking about? What's on his wishlist?

Pay attention to the questions you answered incorrectly. Consider shortcomings as opportunities for conversation and deepening of your relationship.

As you analyze the answers together, remember that it is your partner who decides whether you earn a point for each correct answer.

For some questions, such as your favorite taste of ice cream, there may be two or more answers, depending on your partner's current mood.

Sometimes it turns out that we know our soulmates better than they know themselves.

As you review the answers, you may find that you remembered something that your partner once told about his childhood and that you forgot, and you remember it.

So:

If you (or your partner) scored 16 points or more:

You know your partner very well.

And if you scored 16 or more points, and you have been with your partner for less than six months, your relationship is probably developing too actively.

If you (or your partner) scored 10-15 points:

You've gotten to know your partner pretty well.

Pay attention to exactly where you know each other the least.

Perhaps the two of you talked little about your childhood experiences, or you shied away from talking about topics related to negative emotions.

Try to make up for those moments.

If you scored 5-9 points:

This means the following:

1) You don't know each other that well.

2) You are only in a relationship for a short period of time.

3) You talk to each other a little, or maybe your conversations are of a certain nature (for example, you are both of the same profession, and your conversations converge mainly at work.)

If you (or your partner) score 0-4 points:

This suggests that you do not know each other at all, which means that you have the opportunity to do this.

Questions for knowing each other

Why exactly these questions?

These questions are designed to engage a range of positive and negative emotions.

Questions about negative emotions and fears included because a strong relationship entails a willingness to be vulnerable to each other.

Questions about childhood included because loved ones usually understand the experiences that made each other the way they are.

After all, it is in childhood that a person's personality is formed.

And lighter, funnier questions included, due to the fact that it is very important to conduct conversations not only on serious topics, but also on lighter ones.

Conversations related to your positive emotions make our life easier.

Talk to each other about different topics. Then you will get to know your partner better.

This test is not only a great way to find out what you really know about each other, but also a great excuse to get to know each other better!

Even if you and your partner raised three children together (by the way, whose is it?), It is not a fact that you know each other's habits well. Without this knowledge, relationships will never be as productive and happy as possible, says Dr. John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles That Make Marriages Work. From this book, we borrowed the test that we recommend all couples to pass. Does your girlfriend think you're not interested in her life? Thanks to our test *, you will have the opportunity to prove that this is indeed the case!

In my opinion, frankness in such tests is more expensive for me. I recommend that you unobtrusively find out the girl's answers in advance and only then invite her to take the test. You will make the girl feel guilty that she does not know you as well, you can manipulate her, take over the world ...

How the test works

You will need five sheets of paper and two pencils. Okay, from one sheet - it is superfluous - make a paper boat. And pencils can be replaced with pens or, what the hell is not joking, with felt-tip pens. You will take the test one at a time. One asks a question aloud, both silently write down the answer, not peeping at each other's papers. For example, you ask a girl, "What am I most afraid of?" She writes down her own answer: "Giant spiders with tentacles and light music." In the meantime, you write down your correct version: "Your mother." And so you report on all twenty-five questions. Then turn the papers over and set them aside.

Take the next two pieces of paper and follow the same procedure, but with the girl as the defendant. She asks: "What am I most afraid of?" You silently write down: "Your mother." The girl silently writes: "My mother." And so on for all questions.

When you have finished interviewing each other, turn over the pieces of paper and check the results (but first, of course, be horrified at the answers). Count the number of exact matches. Accurate in meaning, not in the form of a statement. For example, if you answered “badminton” to the question about your hobby, and the girl said “ridiculous playing with a net, rackets and such funny balls in skirts,” it is still a coincidence. It counts. For each correct answer - 1 point.

Questions

1. My favorite dessert 2. What is my shoe size? 3. What am I most afraid of? 4. How old is my mom? 5. What is my blood type? 6. What turns me on about sex? 7. Name two of my closest friends 8. Do I have a hobby? Which? 9. What will I get out of the fire first, besides you, documents and pets? 10. My favorite movie 11. My worst childhood memory 12. What time of day do I like to have sex the most? 13. How do I prefer to spend my evenings? 14. How do I want to be buried? 15. A dish I can't live without 16. What gift would I like the most? 17. What kind of food do I hate? 18. My favorite band 19. What coffee do I prefer? 20. In what circle did I study as a child? 21. What kind of literary genre do I like? 22. What do I want to do before I die? 23. My favorite weather? 24. Continue the phrase "You hate when I ..." 25. Do I have allergies?

Understanding each other without words, without hesitation talking about the most intimate, giving the last and not regretting - all this is available only to friends. Friendship is what many dream of all their lives, what they strive for, but not always get it. The ability to make friends consists of many things: the ability to understand and support, defend and forgive.

If you think that you have finally found a friend, but still doubt his intentions, take the friendship tests. Having dispelled doubts, you will be able to communicate with an open soul, show warmth and sincerity. And, conversely, if the “best friend” does not turn out to be such, do not miss the moment when you can end the relationship without loss.

Girlfriends tests

Who is your best friend? Do you know her well? Is your friendship real? Here are the best tests for girls, girls who know how to be friends. After going through them, you will understand if you are suitable for each other, and you will be able to find out how much she appreciates your support.

Tests for couples, friends for knowing each other

Your friendship is many years old and you know each other better than anyone? Check if this is so. These tests are designed specifically for couples, longtime girlfriends and boyfriends. Their goal is to strengthen friendship. After all, only knowing everything about your friend, you can rely on him both in grief and in joy. Tests for two will show you from new perspectives, help you get to know your loved one even better.

How does your friend behave in different situations? Does she have decency in a relationship? Does she help you? Are you ready to appear yourself at the first call? Put your friendship to the test. Choose the answers to the questions of this mini-test and compare your feelings with the conclusions of psychologists.

Take this test both and compare the results. They will reflect not only your ability to be friends, but also your view of human relations in general.

The humorous questions of this test may seem frivolous. But don't be in a hurry with grades! Each of them has a special meaning. Good manners and decency, the ability to value others and the ability to sacrifice - all this will determine the conclusions of the friendship test.