How to find out whether you are handsome or not. What is invested in the concept of physical beauty? How do you have to look to be beautiful? So, a beautiful girl. Accepting your appearance
Many girls are puzzled by the question: how to understand if you are beautiful or not? What to do if a similar dilemma arises, and how to be able to answer the question posed without embellishment? You need to objectively assess your appearance and find out And you should also pay attention to your own intuition. What does she suggest when you look in the mirror? Couldn't you answer? Then read the article.
Test
How do you know how beautiful you are? You can take a short test, the results of which will give a clear answer to the question posed. So, to the questionnaire:
- You thick hair?
- Are your eyelashes long?
- Is the eye shape European?
- Is your face proportional?
- Is a smile beautiful?
- Is your figure perfect?
- How often do you hear compliments from the opposite sex?
- Are there many fans?
If you answered yes to most of the questions above, then you should not doubt your beauty. You are an attractive girl who deserves the attention of men and catches the envious glances of women. But don't stop there. Remember that beauty is a flower that needs constant care.
Beauty standards
Probably all girls from childhood know that the ideal has proportions of 90-60-90. All young ladies dream of such a body and girls who want to live up to the notorious ideal strive for it. Many ladies even resort to the services of a plastic surgeon to improve their figure. Should you strive for ideal performance? Even if the girl does not live up to the ideal, she will look beautiful. The main thing is harmony and proportion.
Are you really beautiful, how to understand? How many kilograms do you need to lose weight or gain? Look at the covers of glossy magazines. All beauty standards are well traced there. In Russia, slender ladies with a European type of face and a Slavic appearance are considered attractive, and blondes are prettier than brunettes. Girls with perfect skin by beauty standards, they look more attractive than ladies with freckles. But do not be upset, we are now talking about generally accepted world standards, this does not mean that a girl with black hair is ugly.
Well-groomed appearance
You are wondering: how to understand what you have beautiful appearance? The mirror will help to answer it. Walk up to your reflection and take a close look at the exterior. Beautiful girls are ladies who take care of themselves. Such women soft skin, well-groomed hair and always fresh manicure. It is difficult to call a lady attractive who has unpainted roots on her head and untidy nails. The image should be harmonious and attractive. Remember that any beautiful appearance is made up of details. And the more you work on your problem areas, the more advantageous your image will be as a whole.
How to Determine Your Grooming Level Take a critical look at yourself from head to toe. Study your hairstyle carefully: do you have split hair whether the hair is well colored. How are things with the eyelashes, are the lips cracked, are there any pimples? The more you find small flaws, the less attractive you look. Try to eliminate the flaws in your appearance in order to stretch your image to the ideal.
Charisma
We will figure out further how to understand that you are a beautiful girl. Not only makes a lady attractive puppet appearance but also personal charisma. How developed is it? Do you joke brilliantly and always draw attention to yourself in any company? This means that the people around you consider you a charming person. Mental beauty is no less important than external beauty. If a person is attractive only from the outside, then they will look for meetings with him once. And then they will avoid the opportunity to be in the company of a selfish and stupid person. Therefore, try to develop your charisma. Learning to communicate with people takes experience. And the more you talk, the better you will be at it. Don't be afraid to approach strangers and talk to them. If you don't start developing this quality now, you may remain an uninteresting doll for the rest of your life.
Are compliments an indicator
How often are you told pleasant words? Every day or several times a week? How do you know if you are beautiful? You need to listen to someone else's opinion. Assessment of one's own merits is not always adequate. Sometimes because of high self-esteem girls cannot understand why they, so smart and beautiful, are not considered perfection by the people around them. Listen to people's opinions. For example, did new haircut but colleagues and friends are slow to say how good you look. In this case, you need to think about whether this is right for you. Fancy Hairstyle... If a change in your appearance occurred in better side, relatives will immediately inform about it.
But do not be fooled into mistaking flattery for the truth of the compliments presented. Sometimes people will say nice things to you just to produce good impression... They can be insincere. It’s hard to understand that others want to win you over by singing about virtues. Therefore, always be attentive to any statements addressed to you, "check" the opinions of people. If several people said that you look good today, it is most likely true. If only one - perhaps just flattery.
Character
How to understand whether you are beautiful or not? Write down your positive and negative qualities... Think about which column outweighs. Someone may be surprised and ask: how does character affect beauty? Just like charisma. A person is not considered apart from their appearance. The impression that a person makes is also influenced by her strengths and weak sides... Will you like nice girl who, as soon as she opens her plump mouth, will start complaining about life or utter swear words? And sometimes you meet a girl who is not very attractive in appearance, but very pleasant in character. This lady in your memories will leave a more benevolent mark than in the first case.
Accepting your appearance
How to understand whether you are beautiful or not? You can ask friends, or you can objectively assess your appearance by looking in the mirror. But it should be understood that self-esteem greatly influences the recognition of attractiveness. If a girl is not confident in herself, she will be shy, embarrassed and make an unpleasant impression. Her beauty will not be revealed to the person, and the interlocutor will not be able to understand that a completely attractive person was talking to him. If a self-confident girl does not become embarrassed and blush, she will leave about herself good opinion... There is no need to be afraid to present yourself with dignity to the interlocutor. Confidence in your attractiveness will help you to be liberated, which will be felt and appreciated by an opponent who will not doubt your charm at all.
Do you need to strive for the ideal?
Flipping through the pages fashion magazines looking at women with perfect appearance, you involuntarily begin to think about your own attractiveness, comparing yourself with them. So how do you know if you are beautiful or not? You need to realize your superiority and uniqueness. Love yourself. All people on earth are different, and not only girls with perfect figure or impeccable appearance... Women who look after themselves and love the reflection in the mirror are considered attractive. Do not try to change something in yourself and do not think that it will definitely bring success. You need to change your worldview, and not go to a plastic surgeon. Each person is individual, which is good, the main thing is to always look neat and tidy. And then you will be accepted everywhere with dignity.
Tests
Each of us cares about the topic own appearance and beauty.
This simple test, with 99 percent accuracy, will tell you how beautiful you are.
You have 10 seconds to think about each of the questions. Choose option A, B or C, then count the points and add them up.
Question number 1:
What is the first thing you see in the mirror?
A. Just yourself ...
B. All its faults.
C. Your perfect face.
Points:
A- 20 points
B- 10 points
C- 30 points.
Question number 2:
Are you a pleasant person?
A. I am at a loss to answer.
B. I am told that yes.
C. Definitely YES!
Points:
A-10 points
B- 30 points
C- 20 points.
Question number 3:
How often are you told that you are beautiful?
A. Once every few days.
B. Constantly, even strangers tell me this!
C. Never! Well, except that occasionally.
Points:
A-20 points
B-30 points
C-10 points.
Question number 4:
How do you smile?
A. In all 32 teeth!
B. I only smile with the edges of my lips, I am not a fan of exposing my teeth.
S. I smile, showing my teeth, but I have braces.
Points:
A. 30 points
B. 10 points
C. 20 points.
Question number 5:
For your age and height, are you overweight?
A. Yes, with medical point view i am overweight
B. Yes, I have a few extra pounds, but I am working on it
C. I have everything in order with my weight, I eat right.
Points:
A-10 points
B- 20 points
C-30 points.
Question number 6:
Do you practice personal hygiene?
B. I believe so.
C. Often I don't have time for it.
Points:
A-30 points
B-20 points
C-10 points.
Question number 7:
Do you have skin problems?
A. Just a few cute freckles.
B. No, none.
C. Lots of acne.
Points:
A-20 points
B-30 points
C-10 points.
Question number 8:
What style of clothing do you wear?
A. I wear the latest fashions.
B. I wear whatever is comfortable.
C. Usually jeans and T-shirts.
Points:
A-30 points
B-10 points
C-20 points.
Question number 9:
The perfect night for you is:
A. Hang out with friends.
B. Having fun with friends and doing all sorts of stupid things.
C. Do other more important things.
Points:
A-30 points
B-20 points
C-10 points.
Question number 10:
Do you consider yourself beautiful?
A. I don't care, I am the way I am. And that's the only thing that matters.
B. Possibly.
S. Yes, but I want to know how handsome I am.
Points:
A-10 points
B -20 points
C-30 points.
Now add up your scores and read the results:
If you scored between 100 and 160 points:
You are beautiful both inside and outside, but you yourself do not know about it.
In addition, it seems to you that it is difficult for you to contact people who are more popular than you. The next time you look in the mirror, for each of your flaws, try to find 2 features that you like about yourself.
From 170 to 230 points:
You consider yourself "seemingly" beautiful.
Feel free to discard "like". You nice man and a wonderful personality. In fact, people like you, but they are a little afraid that you will not reciprocate with them.
Don't be afraid to try new styles of clothing and appear cocky. Almost everything suits you.
From 240 to 300 points:
You are beautiful and you know it very well.
Members of the opposite sex line up to win your favor. After all, you are beautiful. However, as a rule, many are interested in your physical beauty, and not at all spiritual.
Try to find someone who appreciates your soul and your inner world, not just the external data, which you certainly have great.
Try to always be yourself, do not try to build yourself out of someone who you are not.
Greetings, my dear subscribers and readers. This time I would like to devote the article to us women. After all, each of us wants to be beautiful and attractive. And only we know what sometimes you need to go through in order to get desired effect... But it is not always clear how others evaluate you, whether men like you. How to understand whether you are beautiful or not - this will be main theme our conversation.
To understand in more detail the inner and external beauty, I advise you to read the book " Psychology modern woman... And smart, and beautiful, and happy ...»Alena Libina. It reveals the answers to many painful for us, lovely ladies, questions.
The questions of appearance are especially acute for girls at the age of 13-14. And it's good if the child has a connection with his mother or other moral guideline. After all, it is extremely important to understand what real beauty is. After all, it is not always a question of a person's appearance and type of figure.
How not to nullify beauty
First of all, let's find out what beauty is and how we understand it. It's no secret that most women cannot live without cosmetics. And every morning for them is accompanied by a whole ritual, which takes a lot of time. Hairstyle, eyelashes, eyebrows, lips, and you also need to have time to update the pattern on your nails. At least it all takes an hour. But for women, this time is already laid down in the regime. Therefore, they calmly cope with this while their husbands are still sleeping sweetly.
I will tell you a little secret that some men still have not seen their beloved without makeup. And in fact, they have no idea how scary it can be. (Just kidding, of course. But as they say, there is some truth in every joke).
Men think their woman always looks like that. Funny, isn't it? The answer is simple, men just get used to this image. And seeing their woman again in the morning or after work, they accept her beauty without much surprise and admiration.
But this is what each of us wants so much! Compliments and just warm words from the side of a loved one. And if such a person has not yet met, then it is important at least to know that men are interested in you. It really gives you confidence. Therefore, in order to more often feel his loving, and maybe even sometimes hungry, eyes on yourself - change my dears. Periodically come up with something new. I'm talking about appearance now. Although ... If you apply your ingenuity elsewhere, then I'm sure it will serve as a huge plus in your relationship.
Beauty must be soulful
No matter how a woman dresses up and preserves herself, not only her appearance should be beautiful, but also. Because it's not enough to be a beautiful face and body. The beauty of a woman should be felt with closed eyes... Otherwise, joy and pleasant emotions the dummy will evaporate faster than you can imagine. After which the man will lose interest even in a woman with the most beautiful face in the world.
Since my job involves communication with by different people who often come to understand a particular situation, I will give you real example from life.
A pleasant young man accidentally meets a girl on a social network. At first it was crumpled. But, as he later explained, even then, even in ordinary phrases, a certain attraction, interest in this girl was felt. Then there was more, communication with each other became more and more interesting. Before going to bed, they could not say goodbye, long wishing each other pleasant dreams and Good night... And this despite the fact that they have never seen each other. I saw his eyes shine with joy. He told me that he had never communicated with by a stranger was not so alive and so warm.
One man will be crazy about your appearance, but he will understand that you are not the woman he needs. Accordingly, in his eyes, your beauty will fade away. In addition, if the communication ends in disagreements, then this man will not only stop seeing your beauty, but, on the contrary, will start looking for flaws in you.
But with another man, the situation may be completely different. He may not notice you at close range, because he is not interested in your appearance. Accordingly, he sees no reason to communicate with you. Suddenly you get to know each other, exchange a couple of phrases, and the man's opinion changes for the better. The next day, he will look for you with his eyes. And if you meet, then he will not pass by. He's to you. And all because it is interesting and pleasant for him to communicate with you.
In general, we always perceive any person as a whole: his behavior, communication style, character traits, appearance, values and many other little things. Therefore, try to evaluate yourself taking into account all these details and note for yourself what you like about yourself.
Tell us how you understand that you are attractive girl? And what do you value in a guy, more external data or are you trying to understand what he is?
Until next time, my friends. And don't forget about the subscription.
It is clear that every person is beautiful. Especially girls. Especially some. Especially the soul. However, the question is - how much? What is the measure of beauty? Grams? Liters? Kilograms? 90-60-90? The new service, created by a team of Swiss scientists and programmers from the laboratory, will analyze the photo in a few seconds and give the result: “Madly charming!”. If you're lucky.
These guys from the facial recognition lab did a tremendous amount of training. artificial intelligence and the development of criteria for beauty, in the sense that we understand it. That is, they taught a machine that, looking at Cindy Crawford, clearly understands - a beauty. And when she looks at Baba Yaga she will say - "Well, so-so." In general, the task does not seem difficult, how can we distinguish Cindy Crawford from Baba Yaga? Yes Easy. But it turned out to be not so easy to teach this to the computer.
And nevertheless, what we managed to do deserves high praise. The developers themselves say that the accuracy of the program is 76%.
I tested a little how it works, and you know what? It really works.
For example, I always knew to myself that I was not handsome. I don't have a pretty face, I mean. The program said so. Like, you have been ordered to the podium, but in general, you are pretty good! Lovely!
On the main page of the service, you are invited to try to rate other people's photos or upload your own.
The system will evaluate the photo on a six-point scale and display the approximate age of the face in the photo.
And it is right! And you never know, the service is lying! We must first try someone else's, and then entrust our own, dear.
The ratings are located on the scale below the photograph and look like this:
- Hmm ... - well, so-so, maybe some makeup? 🙂
- OK - everything is ok, okay, okay, strong middle peasant.
- Nice - quite nicho, even good.
- Hot - well you wow, quite even very much!
- Stunning - not a fig, super!
- Godlike - stunning, godlike, model, in short!
I won Hot, wife - Godlike. A trifle - but nice)
Let's test Baba Yaga.
Well, you see, Ok. In the sense that so-so. You can't really call her really ugly, can you? The eyes are tinted and in general, correct features faces and all that.
So that the people do not get upset, the developers warn that beauty is a purely evaluative and vague business, and in different countries has different criteria. Therefore, do not worry if your personal assessment goes to the left and gives a little blue.
In any case, we are on the verge of universal digitization and the full penetration of technology into our lives. Good or bad - you decide.
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I always understood that I was ugly. And in order to play the roles to which my gut is predisposed, I had to overcome the attitude to myself as to ugly duckling... This does not mean that I have made myself more beautiful. But I taught people to be ugly. They stopped noticing her.
Alisa Freundlich
The question of own beauty pesters so many women. It is a misconception that it is " teenage theme"and only in early years girls torment themselves with questions about whether they are really beautiful, and whether they see themselves differently from those around them. In fact, many women long years tormented by a worm of doubt. Moreover, many women really fundamentally wrongly answer themselves in the end to this important question.
In order to understand pretty you or not, you need to understand what beauty is. Take the white swan, for example. He is beautiful? It is undoubtedly one of the most adorable and graceful animals. But would you like yourself such a beautiful beak, such a thin long neck and white feathers? Funny question but it illustrates well the relativity of the concept of beauty. And he brings us to a more important question: what is human beauty? Even more narrowly - what is female beauty?
Throughout history, enormous number different men , very intelligent and educated, argued about which one was beautiful and which one was ugly. Among them were great minds, and not only enthusiastic poets, like Petrarch, who devoted his whole life to the poetic glorification of the beauty of his beloved, not only the favorites of women and female connoisseurs, like Pushkin, Byron, Wells. But even the most serious bearded guys, ponderous philosophers and theologians, sometimes pushed aside their own heavy volumes serious works in order to speak with authority on this topic.
So what, maybe, should examine all their thoughts on this point to understand the subject? No! In our business, people who put the question bluntly, think practically, all these opinions do not have any the slightest weight- they just need to be thrown away. Because all these highbrow connoisseurs never came, ultimately, to a single conclusion, or at least to any theory that works at the very least! No, certainly not even the most generous philanthropist will pay a dime for such a multi-thousand-year study, so poor in results.
Where then to look the answer? Definitely science! So, you ask, has science been able to measure female beauty? Disassemble it piece by piece, measure each one, and then put it back together? No, scientists are not so stupid as to waste their precious time on this. But they have a working theory that explains how it happens that one woman seems beautiful to us and the other does not.
If we talk specifically- such a theory exists among evolutionists. The point is, evolutionists say, that all our "parameters", such as facial features, skin tone, limb shape, voice frequency, articulation and gestures, are genetically set (at a basic level). And inside the brain of each of us, at depths where there is no way for our consciousness, there is a mechanism that can read genes by outward signs... Just one glance lets him understand how much our genetic makeup "likes" the one that is now in front of him. We call this personal taste.
So does this mean that the beauty or is ugliness a given? Why then all these numerous and expensive clothes, tons of cosmetics? Do not rush to throw your beautiful dresses and expensive perfumes, we got to the most interesting part.
Indeed, becoming social being, human species acquired a kind of "superstructure". Survival was also ensured by the ability to correctly position oneself in society. Numerous hierarchies have emerged. Men have their own hierarchies, women have their own. And the person has acquired a new instinct - the desire to "live" with the highest status fellow tribesmen, including sexually.
Plus, sociality gave us this concept like "fashion" and " public opinion". These are often completely randomly formed trends that quickly cover a separate population. This is how the fact that at one time the price was curvy women, then thin. And by lush are meant those ladies that are depicted by the artists of the Renaissance, that is, in fact, "lush". For those times, the women on the covers of 70s Playboy would have passed for skinny. And having seen the modern standards of beauty, people of that century would have grabbed their hearts.
So it turns out that the beauty consists of three main points: social, and the level of dominance. This is a gross oversimplification, but the format of the material does not allow describing the whole theory in too much detail. But the conclusion is simple: a person's understanding of beauty is a very subjective thing. In most cases, men only remotely understand what they need and what their ideal is. female beauty, even if at every corner they are with important species pretend to be jaded connoisseurs.
Unable to change their own genes, women have a lot of tools for masking or emphasizing them. This dangerous toolkit is called cosmetics. Visually enlarge the eyes, eyelashes, accentuate the lips, brown the cheeks, and now the facial features subtly change. And also add expensive dress, emphasizing the figure, to rise a little higher on heels, curl your hair in a fancy pattern, put on a jewelry that calmly declares the status of its owner. And so, the men who came to the evening begin to fuss around the newly-made beauty, themselves not realizing their amusing behavior, and only scratching their heads: "How did I not notice before?"
But learn to hold on as if you are always on dear brooch and rings, look into other people's eyes as if yours are the most beautiful in the world, and you will be the first beauty at the ball, even standing at the stove with a frying pan in hand. That's what it is great secret female beauty - women generate most of it from within, bewitching not so much by natural data as by their own behavior.