Mantek Chia Taoist Secrets of Love pdf. Multiple orgasm for a man? Taoist Secrets of Love for Men - Mantak Chia

Mantek CHIA, Douglas ABRAMS

Taoist secrets of love that every man should know

INTRODUCTION

More than three thousand years ago, the Chinese knew that a man can have multiple orgasms, delaying ejaculation or even not allowing it at all. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two different physiological processes, although in the West they have been identified for a long time. Even if not as accurately as modern scientists do, but in the same detail the ancient Chinese described their sexual discoveries for future generations of sexual and spiritual seekers.

It was only in the 1940s that Alfred Kinsey published pioneering works on this topic. Half a century has passed since then, his discoveries have been confirmed in laboratories - and yet most men do not know anything about their ability to multiple orgasms. Without this knowledge and without simple technical training, a man is not able to grasp the difference between an increase in orgasm and a spasm of ejaculation.

Male sexuality in Western beliefs is still centered on the erroneous goal of ejaculation, rather than on the orgasmic side of the act of love.

In this book, we teach a man to separate orgasm from ejaculation in his body; this will allow him to transform short-term gratification into a long series of orgasms involving the whole body. One man who has mastered the technique of multiple orgasms describes it this way:

“With normal, normal ejaculation, my pleasure passes quickly. It is quite another matter with multiple orgasms. The pleasure that arises in them remains with me all day; it seems to me that it does not have a final splash. This practice is an additional source of energy, and I just never get tired. Now I can afford as much sexual entertainment as I want; I control them, they do not control me. What more could a man want? "

"I had three mistresses in these three months, and all three admitted that I was the best with them. Yes, literally, lying in bed with me, each said:" I have never felt so good. "

Women who read this book will learn secrets about male sexuality that not only women, but even most men do not know. Better yet, the two of us read the book and the two of us experience the luxuries of sexual ecstasy, satisfaction, and intimacy that most people are unaware of. This is how a woman whose husband has learned to have multiple orgasms says about it:

“We have always felt good with him, but now our physical intimacy has become incomparably richer, we have found a balance in which everyone experiences multiple waves of orgasm. But these orgasms are only the beginning of profound changes in our lives: our love has become deeper, we are truly close. "

The fact that a man can have many orgasms is so unexpected for most of us that not everyone can believe in it. In this regard, it is appropriate to recall that not yet forty years have passed since multiple orgasms in women were "legalized" and recognized as a normal phenomenon. Even more surprising is what happened to women when they found out that it was possible: if in the 50s, when Kinsey studied female sexuality, only 14% of women experienced multiple orgasms, now there are more than 50% of such women! 3 sexologists William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian, 12% of the men they examined in the 1980s were multi-orgasmic. When men learn that multiple orgasms are available to them and are given some simple instructions, they too become multi-orgasmic, and the number is steadily increasing.

Today we draw as much from ancient Taoist practice and the latest scientific findings as we teach you how to separate orgasm from ejaculation, how to have multiple orgasms, and how to improve your overall health.

Initially, about 500 BC. e., in ancient China there was a group of Taoist scholars who were extremely seriously interested in issues of health and spirituality. Although many of the sexual techniques were developed back then, they have not lost their effectiveness even today.Since the techniques described in this book became known in our West (about 50 years ago), a quiet revolution took place here, which took ordinary men who began to test these techniques - and were convinced that they work. We believe, however, that the only solid proof for you will be your own body. We hope that you will accept - or reject - the information in this book based only on your own experiences.

Multiple orgasms are not the privilege of adolescents, the rare lucky older ones, and the religious adepts. A 35-year-old computer hardware dealer, an ordinary, in his own words, "fucked up and cynical city dweller", decided one evening to try the exercises described in our book - and experienced six orgasms in a row: “They followed one after another and became more powerful. I have never experienced anything like it. But the most amazing thing is that I worked very hard that day and felt that I was getting sick. And the next morning I wake up as healthy and energetic as ever! " According to Taoist theory of sexuality, multiple orgasms without ejaculation help men achieve optimal bodily health and even - believe it or not - prolong their lives.

Taoist sexology, also called Sexual Kung Fu (literally meaning "sexual practice"), began as a branch of Chinese medicine. The ancient Taoists were their own doctors and placed equal emphasis on the general physical well-being of the body and on sexual satisfaction. Sexual Kung Fu increases the vitality and longevity of men by eliminating the fatigue and exhaustion that occurs after ejaculation and, literally, preventing them from emitting semen.

In Chapter 1, we present the Eastern and Western evidence for the existence and naturalness of multiple orgasms in men. It also discusses the latest scientific findings that align with ancient Taoist beliefs about the importance of orgasms without ejaculation. In describing these astonishing studies, The New York Times concludes: “Sperm production is proving to be far more difficult than scientists had anticipated; it requires expenditure of resources that could provide a man with a longer life. "

A theory without practice, however, is useless. Therefore, Chapters 2 and 3 focus on your individual exercises to help you develop your ability to have multiple orgasms regardless of whether you have a partner. Many men begin to practice these orgasms after one to two weeks; most of them master the technique perfectly within three to six months.

In chapters 4 and 5 you will find a description of the practice together; By sharing Sexual Kung Fu with your beloved, you will give her pleasure that she never knew was possible.

Chapter 7 is addressed to gay men; it describes the specific techniques they need to learn in order to have a pleasant and healthy sex life.

Chapter 8 deals with such male problems as premature ejaculation, impotence and infertility. The Taoist school is completely different from the Western one, treating these problems and ways to solve them.

The last chapter, 9, provides guidance on how men and women can maintain ecstatic sexual intercourse throughout their lives. She begins with a section for middle-aged and elderly men who usually experience a decline in sexual appetite and potency.

We present the results of studies of multiple orgasms, which contradict the prevailing opinion that the peak of male sexuality supposedly occurs in adolescence, and then a gradual decline follows. Taoists have always known that if a man understands the true nature of his sexuality, then it only gets stronger with age. This chapter also includes a section on how to help our sons start a healthy and joyful sex life. What a pity that our fathers did not know this ...

The world's first, moreover, the most complete and detailed textbooks on sex were published in China. Our book continues this ancient tradition of direct, practical assistance to men and their beloved in the transformation of sexuality. While Taoism does not distinguish between sexuality and spirituality, we understand that some readers are only interested in practical advice, while others are interested in learning more about the sacred side of their sexuality. Starting with the rudimentary technique required by every reader who wishes to master multiple orgasms, we will gradually introduce more subtle exercises for those who wish to improve their overall health and enrich their spirituality.

It should be emphasized that this book is not a presentation of Taoism as a philosophy or religion. (One of the authors, Mantek Chia, has already written more than ten books, which present in great detail the practical educational disciplines of this ancient tradition; on their basis, he developed a unified and comprehensive health program called the Healing Tao.) In this book, we offer a practical complex of Taoist techniques, confirmed by modern science, for those readers who are looking not for a new religious system, but for a deeper mastery of their own sexuality.

We also hope that this book will serve as an impetus for new scientific research; let them confirm or improve the theory and practice proposed here. We believe that the days of secrecy and cultural chauvinism are over. East and West can combine their knowledge and help all living lovers to find sexual fulfillment instead of universal fleshly delusions.

Chapter 1. The proof is in your pants

It is possible that you have already experienced multiple orgasms. As strange as it sounds, many men were polyorgasmic in adolescence, even before they began to ejaculate.

Kinsey's research shows that more than half of boys in late adolescence are capable of producing a second orgasm, and nearly a third are capable of fifth or more orgasms one after the other. This led Kinsey to conclude that "climax without ejaculation is entirely possible."

But multiple orgasms aren't limited to adolescence. Kinsey continues: "This ability in some men persists in the future, sometimes up to thirty or forty years and even older." Dr. Gerant Kachaduryan writes in Fundamentals of Human Sexuality: “Some men are able to retain semen during orgasmic contractions; in other words, they have orgasms without ejaculation. Such orgasms do not appear to have a refractory period [erection decline], which allows these men to have consecutive multiple orgasms like women. "

Why do most men lose the ability to have multiple orgasms? Perhaps because many people have an impression of the ejaculation process so strong that it obscures the sensation of orgasm itself, and, as a result, men cease to distinguish between these two different processes. This is how one man who learned to experience multiple orgasms describes his first ejaculation: “I still clearly remember how it was. The orgasm was going on as usual, but suddenly a white stream spurted out of me. I thought I was dying. I swore before God that I would never masturbate again - the vow, of course, lasted only one day. " Since orgasm and ejaculation occur within a few seconds, it is easy to confuse the two. In order to master the practice of multiple orgasms, you must learn (or perhaps remember) how to separate the different sensations when aroused and enter orgasm without crossing the threshold of ejaculation. If you understand that orgasm and ejaculation are different processes, then it will be easier for you to distinguish between them in your own body.

Encephalograms and reflexes

Orgasm is one of the most powerful and sweetest human experiences, and if you've ever had an orgasm - and almost all men do - there is no need to define it. Not all orgasms, however, are alike. They vary slightly from person to person, and even from one person at different times. Nevertheless, there are some common features in all male orgasms: rhythmic body movements, increased heart activity, muscle tension and then a rapid decrease in tension, including muscle contractions in the pelvic region. All this is accompanied by pleasant sensations. Noting that "orgasm is the least understood of all sexual processes," the thirteenth edition of Smith's General Urology further reports that orgasm includes "involuntary rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter, hyperventilation [rapid breathing], tachycardia [rapid heart rate], and increased blood pressure. pressure ".

These definitions take into account the changes that occur throughout the body. For a long time, however, orgasm was considered a purely genital process; many men think so today. Wilhelm Reich, the first in the West, in his controversial book The Function of the Orgasm, stated that the whole body is involved in orgasm, not just the genitals. In the East, the Taoists have long known that the whole body can experience orgasm, and they have developed special techniques to expand orgasmic pleasure.

Many sex scientists now believe that orgasm is actually more of a brain function than of a muscle. Encephalographic studies show that the first signs of orgasm may appear in the brain. That orgasm can occur during sleep, without any bodily contact, seems to support this theory. The same can be said about the experiments of the neurologist Robert J. Heath: electrical stimulation of certain parts of the brain causes the same sexual pleasure as physical stimulation.

Many sex therapists like to say that sex is housed in the brain. There is some truth in this aphorism - especially with regard to orgasm.

Unlike orgasm, which is the culmination of an emotional and physical experience, ejaculation is simply a reflex at the base of the spine that culminates in the release of semen. Michael Winn, Senior Lecturer in the Healing Tao and co-author of Taoist Secrets of Love: How to Cultivate Male Sexual Energy, writes: “Many men snort at the mere mention of orgasm without ejaculation because they have been practicing ejaculatory sex for decades. Therefore, the first step is to debunk ejaculation, which is nothing more than a simple involuntary muscle spasm. "

With practice, you will learn to experience the climax of orgasm without letting the trigger of ejaculation go into action. In the next two chapters, we will explain gradually and in detail how to separate orgasm from ejaculation and how to extend orgasm throughout the body. But first, let's make sure that men, just like women, can have multiple orgasms.

Experience it

Sex scientists William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian seem to be the most comprehensive laboratory studies of male multiple orgasm. Thirty-three men participated in the tests, who stated that they possess the multi-orgasm technique, that is, they are able to experience two or more orgasms without weakening their erections.

Hartman and Fitian monitored heart rate during intercourse between these men and their partners in the laboratory as the clearest indicator of orgasms. The normal heart rate is approximately 70 beats per minute; during orgasm, it almost doubles, reaching 120 strokes. After orgasm, the heart returns to its original state (see: Fig. 1).

Also measured were the contractions of the pelvic organs (most convenient for controlling involuntary contraction of the anus), which occur at the maximum heart rate.

The results were striking: the arousal graphs for these men did not differ from the graphs for multiple orgasms in women.

Male and female sexuality seem to differ significantly less from each other than is commonly thought. This is quite logical from the point of view of organic development, since both male and female genitalia are formed from the same embryonic tissue. In their famous book The G-Zone and Other Recent Discoveries in Human Sexology, Alice Leidas, Beverly Whipple, and John Perry argue that male and female sexuality are nearly identical. In addition to their acclaimed discovery of the G-zone in women (which we will discuss in Chapter 4), they hypothesized the possibility of the same multiple orgasms in men as in women.

In the studies by Hartman and Fithian, the average number of orgasms for multi-orgasmic men was four. Some men had two orgasms, but one of them had as many as sixteen! In the works of Marion Dunn and Jean Trust, numbers from two to nine orgasms are given at a time.

It is appropriate to recall here that Taoist ideas about sexuality are not focused on counting "times" and other quantitative parameters, but on the culture of pleasure. You can get satisfaction from one orgasm, or you can get satisfaction from three. Or sixteen. The culture of your sexuality will grow as you comprehend the pleasure of the whole body, realize the depth of merging with your beloved. "Each person and each sexual experience is unique, and the" correct "number of orgasms should depend on your and her desire at a given time. Once you master multiple orgasms, you no longer have to worry about how long you can last and how many orgasms your partner needs; both of you will always have as many as you want.

Little death

As doctors, Taoist teachers have always viewed sexuality as part of a more general health problem for the body as a whole. They practiced Sexual Kung Fu because they were convinced that ejaculation drains male energy. You too have probably noticed a loss of energy and a general feeling of fatigue after ejaculation. As much as you want to be more attentive to your partner's sexual and emotional needs, your body is insistently demanding sleep. As one polyorgasmic put it, "If I ejaculate, the pillow becomes more attractive than the girlfriend."

The image of an unsatisfied woman, on whom the unfortunate lover twitches, ejaculates, grunts and calms down, is so popular that it has become a favorite subject of jokes; however, the devastation that a man experiences after ejaculation is as ancient as the first moan of intercourse. Beng-tse, sexual advisor to the famous Yellow Emperor, taught about five thousand years ago:

“After ejaculation, the man is tired, his ears are noisy, his eyes close, he is drawn to sleep. Thirst torments him, his arms and legs become weak and do not obey him. During ejaculation, he experiences a short pleasure, but then pays for it with hours of fatigue. "

The folk wisdom of the West does not differ from the East in matters of preserving sexual energy. Athletes have long known about weakness and drowsiness after ejaculation and before the "big game" refrain from sexual activity. The relaxing effect of sex on the quality of their work is felt by artists. The famous jazz musician Miles Dzvis once gave this interview to Playboy magazine:

Davis. You can't end up and then fight or play. You can't do this. If I really want to, then I finish. But if I’m finished, I don’t play anymore.

Playboy: Explain this for laymen.

Davis: Just ask Muhammad Ali. If he finishes, then even two minutes of the fight will not survive. Why, he won't even put me down.

PLAYBOY: Would you fight Ali under these conditions? To prove you are right?

Davis: Damn it, I would agree! Just let him fuck first, otherwise I won't fight. You understand, all the energy is spent on this very thing. I'm serious, you go all out there! And if you are going to climb on a woman before the case, then what will you do when the moment comes to hit the bull's-eye?

It is said, of course, not very elegantly, but it is straightforward. One of the world's greatest trombonists, Davis was well aware of how ejaculation lowers vitality and weakens creativity. Unfortunately, he, like most men, had no idea that you can have plenty of sex and even have orgasms before any "business" - if only to avoid ejaculation. Perhaps he would be even better off hitting the bull's-eye.

The effect of ejaculation is more noticeable for professional musicians or record holders, but all men experience it from time to time. One multi-orgasmic person put it this way: “If I have ejaculation, I always feel it in the morning. I barely drag my legs and by lunchtime I am already tired. If I have many orgasms without ejaculation, then I feel refreshed and get enough sleep. "

Another man, recovering from a long illness, said: “I have always had a strong sexual desire, and therefore ejaculated frequently, usually once or twice daily. And with each ejaculation, I felt worse and worse, because I was losing a lot of energy. " Many men, especially young men, may not notice these losses at first until their ejaculations coincide with a period of illness or hard work.

We Westerners believe that ejaculation is the necessary culmination of male arousal and the completion of lovemaking. In China, however, doctors have long considered le petit mort (French for "little death"), that is, ejaculation, an insidious companion of male pleasure, which destroys vitality, but which can and should be eliminated.

Don Juans, Monks, and Multi-Orgasmic Worms

The front page of The New York Times on December 3, 1992 reports a startling scientific study clearly supporting the ancient Taoist theory of the heavy toll the male body pays to produce sperm. “When I started this experiment, I did not expect anything like this at all,” admitted Wayne Van Vooris of the University of Arizona. “The results were so overwhelming that I repeated the work four times to make sure there was no mistake. The main takeaway is that our preconceptions [about male sexuality] are almost all flawed. ”

Dr. Van Voeurys studied nematodes - simple but highly revealing worms. You may ask, "What do worms have in common with my sexuality?" The point is, these are not ordinary earthworms. "The genes and biochemical processes in nematodes," explains Dr. Philip Anderson of the University of Wisconsin, "are the same as in humans and other mammals." Therefore, nematodes are often used in scientific research instead of a human object.

Van Vooris tested three groups of male worms. The worms of the first group were able to freely and constantly copulate, which required increased sperm production. On average, these Don Juans lived for 8.1 days (nematodes generally do not live long). The worms of the second group were completely deprived of the opportunity to copulate; these monks lived on average 11.1 days. But the most surprising was the third group - polyorgasmic worms: they did not need to constantly produce sperm, but they could copulate freely, as in the first group; these worms lived for almost 14 days - more than 1.5 times longer than those worms that had to constantly produce sperm!

The Times concludes, "This new work shows that continuous sperm production is a burden on the male body and may require complex enzymes and biochemical processes to produce harmful metabolic products." Then the Times allows itself to make an even more daring assumption: "The difference in life expectancy of men and women (the latter live on average six years longer), perhaps, is precisely related to the production of sperm." There are other theories that explain the difference in life expectancy between men and women - for example, due to differences in lifestyle or hormone composition. It is impossible to say with certainty whether sperm production really reduces your life, but it certainly drains your strength.

More than two thousand years ago, long before the experiments on nematodes, the Taoists revealed the meaning of ejaculation in the "Treatise on the Highest Tao in the Celestial Empire": "If a man had intercourse and did not pour out his seed, his life hearing and sight will clear. If three times - his physical illness disappears. The fourth time he will feel inner peace. After the fifth time, the blood will flow in his veins with renewed vigor. After the sixth time, his genitals will acquire new perfection.

After the seventh time, his thighs and buttocks will become firm. After the eighth time, his entire body will glow with health. The ninth time will prolong his life. "Ancient texts are often exaggerated for persuasiveness; it is unlikely that the benefits listed above will come in the sequence indicated above or at the exact time. It is obvious, however, that the Taoists have long known how important it is to preserve the seed.

Offspring and pleasure

The simple arithmetic of sperm production helps you understand why ejaculation places a heavy burden on your body. Average ejaculation produces 50 to 250 million sperm cells. (In theory, one good ejaculation is enough to populate another United States!) Each of these cells is poised to create half of a new human being. Any factory that produces 50 to 500 million items needs raw materials; in this case, you yourself are the raw material. Your body produces huge amounts of semen every day, but that doesn't mean the value of semen is low. According to the Tao, if your body does not need to replenish the loss of sperm, then it can use the released energy for physical and spiritual strengthening. Taoist practice uses this energy to improve health, creativity and spiritual development.

Every time you ejaculate, your body assumes that it is involved in creating new life. According to the Tao, all the organs and glands of your body give off their best energy, which is called orgasmic energy. In many species of living beings, the body begins to disintegrate as soon as this energy is given up and the seed is released. Salmon, for example, die soon after spawning. Florists know that plants die or fall asleep after their seeds are ripe. If plants are not allowed to bear seeds, they will live longer than usual. Luckily for us, we don't die after ejaculation. But the Taoists know that we are part of Nature and that we should understand the laws of Nature.

According to Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (commonly referred to as the Kinsey Report), the average man experiences about five thousand ejaculations in his life; For some men, this figure is many times higher. Throughout his sex life, including his time in a locked bathroom, the average man pours out about a trillion sperm cells. If some of the ejaculations are performed with a partner, then it can be assumed that he has a good chance of being imprinted in the genetic pool. But for the most part, when we make love not for the sake of offspring, but for the sake of pleasure, nothing forces us to pour out our sperm and drain our strength. So, if you only make love when you want to conceive, then you don't need to practice Sexual Kung Fu. If you want to have a healthy sex life and have many orgasms, then let's continue reading.


From the earliest times to the present day, Taoist teachers have looked remarkably young and healthy. Judging by their appearance, activity and mobility, they can be given twenty years less than they actually are.

One way to maintain this vitality is to rejuvenate with Taoist Self-Massage. Using this technique, the Taoists used internal energy, or qi, to strengthen and rejuvenate the senses (eyes, ears, nose, tongue, teeth, skin) and internal organs.

Tao is the awakening of light. Book 1

Space fusion. Fusion of the Eight Forces

Learning from many famous Taoist masters, Mantek Chia was able to collect the acquired knowledge bit by bit and combine it into a holistic, logically complete method - Cosmic Fusion.

The theory and meditation practices contained in this book are explained in simple language and are accompanied by many pictures and diagrams. The book itself is designed so that you can use it both for your home practice and for practice elsewhere.

Kan and Li Initial Practices

Enlightenment and Birth of the Immortal Fetus.

The practice presented in the book helps the birth of a spiritual body, the awakening of that part of oneself that is free from surrounding circumstances and karmic conditioning.

Spirit birth is not a metaphor. This is the real process of converting energy into a subtle body. The newborn spirit matures according to your energetic abilities. If you were to die, then the energy collected in the spiritual body would not be scattered just like that.

The initial practices lead to the first steps in overcoming reincarnation.

Highest Practices of Kan and Li

Collecting Cosmic Light.

This book contains instructions for the ultimate Kan and Li, Greatest Kan and Li meditations.

The essence of the highest practices of Kan and Li is the installation of a cauldron in the heart center and the subsequent purification of the Soul and Spirit. It is in the heart center that the highest practices of Kan and Li are held. The central formula is a fusion of energies in the heart center, including macro- and microcosmic energies.

Space Healing 2

In our time, when most of humanity spends almost all of its life force exclusively on biosocial survival, mastering new energy sources, including space ones, is becoming an urgent problem.

The training system proposed in the new book by the famous Taoist master Mantak Chia will help you, connecting to the healing energies of the Universe, find the path to your own inner Source. These ancient Chinese qigong and meditation practices are closely related to Taoist cosmology and astrology - teachings about the structure of the universe and its influence on human life and destiny.

World Link Meditation

In the process of directly joining the Source, the Cosmos, the Primordial creative power, a person gains independence. Through this process, we can achieve inner peace and happiness. Anyone can develop the ability to heal not only themselves, but others as well.

Naturally, the first step towards achieving this goal is to achieve inner peace and happiness. Therefore, I have developed this meditation, which becomes especially deep when its effect is strengthened by thousands of other meditators, uniting in the Circle of Consciousness and Awareness. This is the Universal Connection of the Universal Healing Tao.

Secrets of the Daode Jing

Has there ever existed on earth something more cherished and desired for people than the attainment of physical and spiritual immortality? But ancient scriptures definitely testify to long-lived sages who knew how to calm their minds, heal their bodies and control their own egos.

Today, world-renowned masters and healers Mantak Chia and Tao Huan present to the Western reader a living and modern Taoist philosophy of physical and spiritual immortality - a holistic set of ideas and practical exercises that is worth working through, even if you do not yet "plan" to achieve its ultimate goal ...

Inner Smile

The Inner Smile is a sincere smile to all parts of the body, including all organs, glands and muscles, as well as the nervous system. It produces high quality energy that can heal and over time it is converted into even higher quality energy.

A sincere smile sends out the energy of love that has the power to warm and heal. Just think back to a time when you were upset or physically sick, and someone, perhaps even a stranger, smiled at you sincerely - and suddenly you felt better.

Dantian Qigong - Empty Power, Perineal Energy and Second Brain

Tan Tien Qigong is one of the Taoist Qigong practices that is used to develop Tan Tien and perineal strength. We need the Chi energy and its pressure in the Dan Tian as the basis for most of the Healing Tao practices, especially such as Iron Shirt Chi Kung, Tai Chi Chi Kung and meditation.

Tao is the awakening of light. Book 2

The book `Tao - the awakening of light` is the basics of psychoenergetic training and a complete sequential presentation of Taoist techniques of light meditation, as well as some traditional methods of their application in the practice of integral self-regulation and healing.

Chinese Master Mantek Chia and his wife Mrs. Maniwan Chia became the first representatives of this tradition, whom the Teachers trained specifically so that the world of people received a complete and competent first-hand presentation of its esoteric practice and theory.

Taoist Secrets of Love - Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know

This book lays out a simple system of physical and psychological preparation that allows a man of any age group to satisfy a woman's fantasy: to drastically increase the quality - and quantity - of love games.

This is a simple, affordable and surprisingly effective technique that you can start practicing today.

For women who read and understand the essence of this technique, the secrets of male sexuality, known only to a few men, will be revealed.

It is even better to read this book together, together to comprehend the luxury of sexual ecstasy, satisfaction and intimacy, which most people do not even suspect, in addition, people who own the Taoist Sexual Kung Fu technique maintain increased vitality and increase longevity.

Taoist Secrets to Cultivating Female Sexual Energy

Iron shirt

“I intend to write a series of books that would reflect the worldview of Taoist masters as a whole. Thus, each of my works reveals certain aspects of Taoist teaching and corresponding aspects of practice.

Each book is dedicated to some of the Taoist systems of self-improvement of a human being. And if you wish. You can limit yourself to practice only what is described in this particular book. However, it seems to me that we should not forget: all Taoist systems of self-improvement are facets of the same precious crystal of a single tradition of Taoist Yoga, they have all been practiced since ancient times.

Therefore, it is most advisable to integrate the material presented in each of my books into the general flow of practice. This will make your training harmonious and comprehensive, will allow you to fully combine its physical, energetic, psychotechnical and spiritual aspects, which, of course, will not slow down to affect its effectiveness and result. "

Neigong - the art of body rejuvenation

"Neigun - the art of rejuvenating the body" is another work of Mantek Chia, whose books were accepted with such warmth and enthusiasm in America, Europe, and finally, after their appearance in Russian, in our country.

The Chinese master Mantak Chia and his wife Ms. Maniwang Chia became the first representatives of the new tradition, which the Teachers prepared specifically for the human world to receive a full and competent presentation of its still secret theories and practices at first hand.

This book presents some of the practical aspects of psychoenergetic training, allowing you to take a fresh look at the incredible capabilities of the body and mind.

Awakening the healing energy of Tao

This book is a practical guide for mastering the lowest levels of the unified "System of Healing Tao" developed by the Teacher of "Practical Taoism" based on the synthesis of many teachings of East and Southeast Asia.

At higher levels of this system, students improve their healing abilities, which can be directed both inwardly and at others, master the skills of controlling internal energies, and attain various "levels of enlightenment."

Superpowers of a man available to everyone

The book "The superpowers of a man, available to everyone" stands somewhat apart from the rest of the books in the "Taoist Secrets" series.

The authors, inspired by the success (including in our country) of the two main books of this series, "Improving Male Sexual Energy" and "Improving Female Sexual Energy" , created by one of the authors, came to the conclusion that many of the ideas and methods they expounded could be significantly better perceived by most people if they were not complicated by some of the philosophical and esoteric ideas of Taoism.

In this regard, the book compares favorably with its aforementioned predecessors: first, it is simpler and more accessible for most readers; secondly, it covers a wider range of practical problems; and third, the practices it describes can lead to higher, specifically sexual, levels of perfection, pleasure, and satisfaction.

Sexual reflexology. The Tao of Love and Sex

The methods presented in this book are based on the information provided in the first four books by Master Chia on the healing energy of love: Taoist Secrets of Love, Healing Love, Cultivating Male Sexual Energy, and Taoist Secrets of Love for Two.

In this book, Master Chia and W. Yu Wei explain Sexual Reflexology using their knowledge of acupuncture points and the art of foot massage. They transferred this knowledge to the sphere of internal energy channels and to the sphere of sexuality and empathy in order to make their methodology as clear and accessible as possible.

Improving female sexual energy

The basis of all Taoist yoga is the work with sexual energy. Taoists have learned to masterfully subjugate this "winged dragon". After all, sexual energy is the most powerful and most accessible force of the body. If a person changes even a little in this area, then he feels a sharp improvement in health, well-being, perception of the world, creative possibilities, and relationships with other people.

Before you is a deeply personal journey into the world of female passion and intimacy that every woman dreams of.

It will not only help you understand the peculiarities of your own, one-of-a-kind feminine nature and fully reveal your potential, but it will also teach you to enjoy your own body more, while improving your health.

Tai Chi Qigong I

Thirteen Movements Form.

The book will tell you about the system of martial and spiritual training of the "Thirteen Movements" form, an ancient Taoist practice.

Contains preparatory, basic and final movements, which are clearly explained by numerous illustrations. Contains illustrations.

Transforming stress into life energy

From a Taoist perspective, harmony and balance are extremely important to health. The body is viewed as a whole; therefore, injury or damage to an organ, gland or system weakens the body as a whole. The body is also a self-regulating system and is able to come to a state of balance on its own if the opportunity presents itself.

MANTEK CHIA

Manewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, Rachel K. Abrams

Taoist secrets of love for two

Taoist sex art is a five thousand year old tradition that knows the secrets of male and female multiple orgasm. The purpose of this knowledge system is to help people who love each other make sex more enjoyable and healthier. This book is a sequel to the international bestseller Taoist Secrets of Love Every Man Should Know and offers the theory and practice of Multi-Orgasmic Healing Love as taught in the school of the modern Taoist master Mantak Chia.

Foreword

INTRODUCTION

Multiple orgasm for all men

Sexual harmony

Loss of sexual wisdom

The search for sexual wisdom

Sex is health

New Sexual Evolution

PART I

Chapter 1

Orgasm and ejaculation

The nature of orgasm

Multiplication of orgasms

DEVELOPING SEXUAL POWER

STOPPING THE JET

STOPPING THE JET

DEVELOPING SEXUAL SENSITIVITY

SEXUAL EXCITATION AND SEXUAL ENERGY

STAGES OF EXCITATION

CONTROL YOUR EXCITATION

DEEP BREATHING

ABDOMINAL BREATHING FOR MEN

Restraining ejaculation

SEX "SOLO" AND SINGLE CULTIVATION

CONTAINMENT

SEPARATION OF ORGASM AND EJACULATION

WHEN TO STOP

WHEN TO EJACULATE

From genital orgasms to full body orgasms

Chapter 2

The power of desire: multiple orgasms for women

Desire is the energy of life.

THE MAIN PURPOSE IS PLEASURE

IDEAL OF BEAUTY

Strengthening Desire: Exploring Your Erotic Potential

YOUR EROTIC TYPE

EROS AND EVERYDAY

Get to know your body

LOVE YOUR BODY

CLOSE KNOWLEDGE

Self-satisfaction

ABDOMINAL BREATHING FOR WOMEN

EXAMINING YOUR BODY

Unleashing your orgasmic potential

CLINICAL ORGASM

EXCITATION

ASSISTANTS

RELAXATION AND A SENSE OF HUMOR

ORGASM SEARCH

Your sexy muscle

STRENGTHENING OF THE PC-MUSCLE

VAGINAL COMPRESSION

TENSION OF THE PC-MUSCLE

The path to multiple orgasms

WHAT ARE THESE WOMEN DOING DIFFERENTLY AS YOU?

Nine Steps to Multiple Orgasms for Any Woman

STEP 1: YOU MUST BELIEVE

STEP 2: USE YOUR IMAGINATION

STEP 3: ZONES OF PLEASURE

STEP 4: THE LANGUAGE WAY

STEP 5: CLITOR, CLITOR, CLITOR

STEP 6: G -3 OHA

STEP 7: PC-MUSCLES

STEP 8: TEACHING

STEP 9: DEAR, GIVE ME A HAND

MULTIPLE ORGASM FOR WOMEN

How not to miss the Big Bang: overcoming anorgasmia

SHARE ORGASM WITH A PARTNER

SITUATIVE ANORGASMIA

MENOPAUSE

PREGNANCY AND POSTNATAL PERIOD

CONTRACTOR

MEDICINES

SEX AND LIFESTYLE

Chapter 3

Better than chocolate, better than coffee:

Your energy

Energy in your body

ENERGY MOTION

Sexual energy

Generating, converting and storing energy

WHAT IS RISING SHOULD LOWER

WHAT YOUR INNER VOICE TELLS YOU

INNER SMILE

INNER SMILE

LOWERING ENERGY WITH AN INNER SMILE

Orgasmic Pull Up

ORGASMIC STRETCH UP

LIFTING ENERGY UP WITH ORGASMIC PULLING UP

POWER SUPPLY UP

LOWERING ENERGY DOWN

OTHER SIDE EFFECTS

ENERGY ABSORPTION

Blowing

The importance of sexual energy

PART II

DUET: PASSION, HEALING, PROXIMITY

Chapter 4

Give pleasure to each other

Fire and Water

Men - Yang, women - Yin

Excitement: boiling water and a riot of fire

Harmony of desires

LOVE IN MIND AND HEART

WARM UP THE PARTNER

PREPARING THE SACRED SPACE

Studying the mechanisms of our body

ELECTRICITY TOUCH

EASY LIKE A FEATHER

Body parts

LIPS AND TONGUE

HEAD

EARS

SPINE

BRUSHES AND FOOTS

ARMS AND LEGS

BREAST

FEMALE GENITAL ORGANS

SELF-SATISFACTION IN THE PRESENCE OF A PARTNER

FINGER SPACES

ZONES A, B AND C

MEN'S GENITAL ORGANS

FINGER SPACES

THE ART OF IRONING

Gongfu language: oral sex for men

Gongfu mouth: oral sex for women

THE ART OF CUNNILINGUS

THE ART OF FELLATION

Deep and shallow movements

Finding the optimal rhythm

Depth, direction and speed

Screwing in

The pinnacle of excitement

Chapter 5

Sexual Healing

Fountain of youth

Sexual Energy Healing

THE ART OF SEXUAL HEALING

Examining your genitals

Taossian vaginal massage

THE ART OF TAOUS VAGINAL MASSAGE

Daossian penis massage

Healing Poses

THE ART OF TAOUS PENIS MASSAGE

MAN ON TOP

WOMAN ON TOP

AROUND THE WORLD IN ONE NIGHT

MAN BACK

ON THE SIDE

Sitting

STANDING

Circulation of sexual energy

DIRECTION OF ENERGY UP AND DOWN

ORGASMIC STRETCHING UP DURING LOVE EXERCISE

Multiorgasmic marathons and fast sex

Ejaculation and loss of energy

Strengthening the genitals

STRENGTHENING PROSTATE AND UTERINE

Safe sex and sexual health

THE ART AND SCIENCE OF USING THE CONDOM

Energy of creation and destruction

Chapter 6

Love for real

Developing self-love

HOW TO COMBINE LOVE AND LOVE

MEDITATION TOUCH OF NINE FLOWERS

Love for a partner

LISTEN WITH LOVE

Touches

Love can be controlled too

PROCESSING OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

Strength and compassion

BE NATURAL

Chapter 7

Sexuality and spirituality

"Morning Prayer"

"MORNING PRAYER"

Union: fusion and orgasms of souls

MERGE OF SOULS (EXCHANGE OF SEXUAL ENERGY AND ORGASM OF THE SOUL)

Universal love

Transformation of sexual energy into spiritual

Compassion and Other Virtues of the Spiritual Life

Developing empathy

CYCLE OF COMPLIANCE

Manifesting yourself

Chapter 8

How to make love throughout your life

The rise and fall of desire

Harmony of desires

Sexuality without sex

MOUTH AND / OR HAND SATISFACTION

MASTURBATION IN A PARTNER'S HUG

MASTURBATION ALONE

MASSAGE

TOUCH

LOVE TO THE OLD AGE

Love is getting stronger and stronger

Sexual health for older women

BEFORE THE "PAUSE"

MENOPAUSE

Sexual health for older men

SOFT ENTRANCE

EJACULATION AND ELDERLY

Sexual health for couples

Maintaining sexual charge

Don't make sex a sport

The main secret of sexuality

Secrets open to everyone


A WARNING:These practices are very effective.The techniques and exercises described in this book can have a profound and beneficial effect on your health and sex life. However, we refrain from diagnoses and prescriptions. If you are sick with something, see your doctor first. If you have high blood pressure, a bad heart, or a weak body, you shouldn't put too much stress on yourself.

Practice is fun.This book is based on three thousand years of real sexual experience, and the authors are well aware of the amount of effort, however pleasant, it takes to change your sex life. Learning sexual secrets is one thing, but using them is another. The techniques presented in this book have been tested and refined by millions of lovers over the centuries. We have tried to describe these methods as simply and clearly as possible, but still, in order to benefit from them, systematic practice is required.

FOREWORD

Perhaps some information about the authors will help you better understand this book and the benefits of multiple orgasms. To begin with, we decided to participate in the writing of this book with Mantak and Manewan Chia, since we never actually intended to write a book about sex.

We accidentally became interested in Taoist sexuality when Rachel went to medical school and Doug studied and worked ten hours a day. We were surprised to find that, thanks to some Taoist techniques, our lovemaking began to give us much more pleasure than before; in addition, we have much more energy for work and life in general.

Taoist sexual art, also called “the art of sleeping quarters,” is a 5,000-year-old tradition that contains comprehensive information on male multiple orgasm and other secrets of sexual gratification. The purpose of this knowledge system is to help people who love each other make sex more enjoyable and healthier. Given the shyness and false information that most of us have associated with sex from early childhood, Taoist sexual art is a real revelation for Western culture.

We gave books on Taoist sexuality to our friends to read; they said that a lot of things seemed great to them, but it was not entirely clear where and how to start. Unfortunately, there has never been a simple guidebook that clearly explains to men and women how to experience multiple orgasms and discover the healing, emotional and spiritual aspects of sex. In the end, after numerous requests from our friends, we decided to try to write such a book.

After careful research of the existing literature, we have come to the conclusion that the most competent and credible experts in this field are Mantak and Maniwan Chia. Mantek Chia studied with Taoist masters for many years and, based on the knowledge gained, he developed a unique system, which he called "Healing Love". This system allows you to enhance the healing effect of sex, as well as pleasure and passion. Mantek Chia has taught thousands of people around the world, trained hundreds of mentors and is considered to be an excellent specialist in the field of Taoist sexuality, as well as in such effective Taoist practices as Tai Chi and Qigong.

We knew immediately that the Taoist masters were excellent doctors and researched sexuality using precise scientific methods. We were primarily interested in the practical benefits that modern readers can derive from this ancient teaching. We wanted to combine Taoist ideas and techniques, which have been perfected over several thousand years, with the latest achievements of modern science.

We decided to first write a book for men and called it Multi-Orgasmic Man *, since the effectiveness of Healing Love depends largely on the man's ability to develop his sexuality and, ideally, have multiple orgasms. This book turned out to be very relevant and was read by hundreds of thousands of people in more than twelve countries around the world.

Since the release of that book, readers have constantly asked us when we will write a book for couples that will allow women to learn the method of Healing Love. Finally, after years of creative research and work, we offer readers the Taoist secrets of love for couples. We hope that we have not deviated from the foundations of the ancient Taoist tradition and at the same time provided our readers with information that will be necessary and very useful in the modern world of sexual chaos. We wish you and your partner (or future partner) to experience, through the techniques and exercises described in this book, the joy and pleasure that we ourselves have experienced thanks to the Healing Love Method.

In the Russian edition: "Taoist secrets of love that every man should know"; we have substituted such a name in the text in all references to this book. - Approx. ed. Mantak Chia

Manewan Chia

Douglas Abram

Rachel K. Abrame


INTRODUCTION

This statement may be shocking to many, but men are as capable of multiple orgasms as women. With this book, you and your partner will learn how to achieve full body multiple orgasms. By learning how to have multiple orgasms, you can enjoy sex much more than before. You will also be able to achieve sexual harmony and higher levels of emotional intimacy and ecstasy.

Multiple orgasm for all men

Few know that men are capable of multiple orgasms. Although this fact has been known in the East for several thousand years, and in the West it was proven by Alfred Kinsey and other sex scientists back in the 1940s, it is still perceived with amazement by most men and women.

In our previous book, Taoist Secrets of Love Every Man Should Know, we reviewed the advancements of modern science and presented ancient techniques for achieving multiple orgasms for men. Thus, we have tried to write a guide to the development of sexuality for men. This new book is an attempt to write a guide for both partners that would allow them to get more pleasure and benefit from sex.

Multiple orgasm for all women

While it is well known that women are capable of multiple orgasms, over 50% of women have never had multiple orgasms, or only occasionally have an orgasm. In this book, we explain to all women how to achieve multiple orgasms, and to those who already know how to experience it, how to deepen and intensify the pleasant sensations accompanying it.

Sexual harmony

If both partners know how to experience multiple orgasms, they can reach the pinnacle of sexual pleasure together. This ability allows men and women to synchronize their sexual rhythms and desires, which contributes to the achievement of harmony in both sexual and human relationships.

But sensual pleasure, however exquisite and beautiful, is just the beginning.

Physical health, emotional closeness and spiritual growth

Throughout this book, we have used the sexual experiences of many generations to show how sexual energy can be used to develop many different aspects of life and relationships with a partner - physical health, emotional intimacy, and even spirituality. Modern man is devoid of integrity: he perceives his genitals separately from the rest of the body, and his body - separately from the spirit. In this book, we explain how to reunite these elements to achieve levels of health, intimacy, and spiritual union that many are unaware of.

Loss of sexual wisdom

We have lost most of our sexual wisdom. Our time is characterized as great sexual freedom,

and great sexual chaos. Sexuality is widely used to influence our perception, yet it still has many misconceptions and false shame. Many readers are simply embarrassed to ask a bookstore for a book about sex (even more so about multiple orgasms!). Unfortunately, this is not surprising, since most religions view sex through the prism of fear and moralism. As a result, most of us have deep-seated anxiety, if not shame, associated with our sexual needs and desires.

It takes many people years to shake off this false shame and unleash their sexual potential. Even people with a "healthy" attitude towards sex are embarrassed to talk with a partner about their desires and fantasies. You no doubt tell your partner where he should massage your back, but for some reason you are embarrassed to tell him where to massage your genitals. The key to overcoming the false shame that holds our sexuality back is to accept that our sexual needs and desires are completely natural and to embrace a healthier and more holistic attitude towards them.

The search for sexual wisdom

In this book, we outline the basics of Taoist sexuality. Originally, the scientists and philosophers of ancient China called themselves Taoists (approximately in VI century BC), who were engaged in the study of issues related to health and spirituality. We call the Taoist sexual tradition "Healing Love" because the Taoists believed sex to be an effective way to heal themselves and their partner. This knowledge system is also often referred to as "Sexual Kung Fu." Chinese word gongfu (often pronounced as kung Fu etc.) translates as “practice,” therefore, “sexual gun-fr is just a sexual practice (and not hand-to-hand combat, which unfolds in bed).

Sex is health

The Taoists were excellent doctors, so they were interested in physical health as much as in sexual pleasure. Sex for Taoists is primarily associated with health, not morality.

The Taoists carefully researched the healing power of sex. Taoist doctors sometimes prescribed their patients not traditional medicines, but lovemaking in one position or another, depending on the type of illness.

Taoist sexuality — or, as we call it in this book, Healing Love — emerged as an important branch of Chinese medicine, and an active sex life in ancient China was considered a guarantee of health and longevity. Modern medical research shows that this is actually the case. In Western culture, sex in old age is treated as something not entirely decent: "old people, but there too ...". Taoists have always treated sex in old age in a completely different way. They believed that sex is a very important element of our life throughout its entire course.

The Taoists studied sex no less seriously and thoroughly than other areas of medicine, so they could well be called the first sexologists. If we study culinary art to enjoy delicious food, why not study sexuality to enjoy lovemaking?

Sexual harmony and love until death

The Taoists believed that marital happiness is impossible without sexual harmony, and they were guided by this very idea, developing the sexual art. Like any modern doctor, they knew that problems in bed can completely destroy the relationship between a man and a woman. But sexual harmony is not easy to achieve. Very often, the sexual needs of partners vary greatly in character and strength. This is explained not only by individual differences, but also by the fact that the mechanisms of sexual arousal for women and men operate in completely different ways.

Taoists associated these differences with the existence of male and female sexual energy (Yang and Yin, respectively). We will explain how these energies affect your sexuality and how they can be manipulated to meet the needs of both partners.

It should be noted that although the Taoists primarily considered sexual harmony between a man and a woman, the practices described below can also be used by homosexual couples. From a Taoist point of view, each of us has both masculine and feminine energy, therefore the main goal of partners - different or of the same sex - is to achieve energetic harmony.

New Sexual Evolution

Although many of the Taoist practices described in this book were developed over two thousand years ago, they are relevant and effective to this day. In the last two decades, since the secrets of Taoist sex, which have long been known only to initiates, have become available to modern couples, a profound sexual evolution has been taking place in the bedrooms of the Western world. We hope that the sexual arts and sexual science presented in this book will help you in the way they have helped thousands of others around the world.

Before you can enjoy the joys of Healing Love, you must unleash your sexual potential. In the first part of this book, we first explain how to learn to have multiple orgasms. Then, in Chapter 3, we'll discuss how to manipulate sexual energy to experience full-body orgasms. Knowing how to manage the energy of your body is very important for the correct execution of the exercises described in the second part of the book.


PART I

SOLO: MULTIPLICATION AND STRENGTHENING OF ORGASMS

Chapter 1

Fireworks: Multiple Orgasm in Men

In this chapter, you will learn:

How to separate orgasm from ejaculation

How to develop sexual strength and sexual sensitivity for orgasm without ejaculation

How to learn to have multiple orgasms

Any man can have multiple orgasms. To do this, he only needs an understanding of male sexuality and the knowledge of a few simple techniques. Multiple orgasms not only enhance the pleasure of sexual intercourse, but also open up a new sexual world for partners. Unfortunately, the sexuality of most men is based on the urge to ejaculate, not to prolonged orgasm. A man who has learned to experience multiple orgasms is able to fully satisfy not only himself, but also his partner. Multiple orgasm is one of the finest gifts a man can give to his partner and to himself. For women, this chapter - if they are reading it - will help them better understand this little-studied ability that their partners develop in themselves.

Orgasm and ejaculation

In order to learn to have multiple orgasms, you must know the basics of your anatomy. The most important point in this section is that orgasm and ejaculation are completely separate phenomena.

This idea seems surprising to most men (and women), so we must explain it. Let's first define the concepts of "orgasm" and "ejaculation". Physiologically, orgasm is the contraction and throbbing that most men experience in their penis, prostate, and pelvic region. These phenomena are accompanied by an increase in heart rate and respiration, an increase in blood pressure and, at the very end, a sudden drop in tension *.

* In this chapter, we briefly summarize the information provided inour first book. For more information on male multiple orgasm, see the first three chapters of The Taoist Secrets of Love Every Man Should Know. - Approx. authors.

Of course, orgasm is much more than just mechanical physiological changes. For most people, this is the culmination of a sexual relationship, one of the most intense and enjoyable experiences. If you've ever had an orgasm, and almost all men have, you know what we're trying to describe here.

Ejaculation is simply a reflex that occurs at the base of the spine and ends with the ejaculation of semen. In short, it's just an involuntary muscle spasm, albeit a very pleasant one.

Many men believe that orgasm is what they experience during ejaculation, but in fact, most of the pleasant sensations associated with ejaculation are possible without it.

Below we look at the scientific evidence that men can have multiple orgasms, but let's start with your own personal experience. It is possible that you have experienced multiple orgasms at some point in your life. Many men are known to experience it during childhood and adolescence, even before they ejaculate.

As you may know, boys begin to produce sperm (and thus gain the ability to ejaculate) during their teens, usually around thirteen. However, most of them start masturbating earlier and orgasm without ejaculation.

Many boys continue to masturbate after one orgasm, as the erection does not weaken without ejaculation. Alfred Kinsey, a pioneer in the study of sex, writes in his famous book, Male Sexual Behavior, that half of prepubertal boys (twelve years of age and younger) have two orgasms in a row, and almost a third have five or more orgasms in a row. Kinsey concludes that "an orgasm without ejaculation is possible."

But multiple orgasms are not limited to adolescence. Kinsey also studied a group of adult men and came to the following conclusion: "Orgasm can occur without ejaculation ... These men had a real orgasm, which was easily recognized, even if there was no ejaculation." Sex therapist Dr. Herant Kachaduryan, professor at Stanford University and author of the textbook Fundamentals of Human Sexuality, explains it this way: “Some men are able to retain semen [avoid ejaculation] during orgasmic contractions; in other words, they have orgasms without ejaculation. Such orgasms are not accompanied by a weakening of erections, which allows these men to experience them several times in a row, like women. " Although the male multiple orgasm has been known for a long time, its study was disorganized. The first laboratory studies of this phenomenon were conducted by sex scientists William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian. The trials involved thirty-three men who could have two or more orgasms without weakening their erections.

During intercourse of the studied men with partners, Hartman and Fitian measured their heart rate, which varied from 70 beats per minute at rest to 120 beats per minute at orgasm (see Fig.). They also measured the intensity and frequency of contractions in the pelvic region (most convenient for monitoring involuntary contraction of the anus that begins during orgasm). The results were startling: the male multiple orgasm arousal curve did not differ from the multiple orgasm arousal curve. v women.


MANTEK CHIA

Manewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, Rachel K. Abrams
Taoist secrets of love for two
Taoist sex art is a five thousand year old tradition that knows the secrets of male and female multiple orgasm. The purpose of this knowledge system is to help people who love each other make sex more enjoyable and healthier. This book is a sequel to the international bestseller Taoist Secrets of Love Every Man Should Know and offers the theory and practice of Multi-Orgasmic Healing Love as taught in the school of the modern Taoist master Mantak Chia.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Foreword
INTRODUCTION

Multiple orgasm for of all men

Sexual harmony

Loss of sexual wisdom

The search for sexual wisdom

Sex is health

New Sexual Evolution
PART I


Chapter 1

Fireworks: Multiple Orgasm in Men
Orgasm and ejaculation

The nature of orgasm

Multiplication of orgasms

DEVELOPING SEXUAL POWER

STOPPING THE JET

STOPPING THE JET

DEVELOPING SEXUAL SENSITIVITY

SEXUAL EXCITATION AND SEXUAL ENERGY

STAGES OF EXCITATION

CONTROL YOUR EXCITATION

DEEP BREATHING

ABDOMINAL BREATHING FOR MEN

Restraining ejaculation

SEX "SOLO" AND SINGLE CULTIVATION

CONTAINMENT

SEPARATION OF ORGASM AND EJACULATION

WHEN TO STOP

WHEN TO EJACULATE

From genital orgasms to full body orgasms
Chapter 2

The power of desire: multiple orgasms for women
Desire is the energy of life.

THE MAIN PURPOSE IS PLEASURE

IDEAL OF BEAUTY

Strengthening Desire: Exploring Your Erotic Potential

YOUR EROTIC TYPE

EROS AND EVERYDAY

Get to know your body

LOVE YOUR BODY

CLOSE KNOWLEDGE

Self-satisfaction

ABDOMINAL BREATHING FOR WOMEN

EXAMINING YOUR BODY

Unleashing your orgasmic potential

CLINICAL ORGASM

EXCITATION

ASSISTANTS

RELAXATION AND A SENSE OF HUMOR

ORGASM SEARCH

Your sexy muscle

STRENGTHENING OF THE PC-MUSCLE

VAGINAL COMPRESSION

TENSION OF THE PC-MUSCLE

The path to multiple orgasms

WHAT ARE THESE WOMEN DOING DIFFERENTLY AS YOU?

Nine Steps to Multiple Orgasms for Any Woman

STEP 1: YOU MUST BELIEVE

STEP 2: USE YOUR IMAGINATION

STEP 3: ZONES OF PLEASURE

STEP 4: THE LANGUAGE WAY

STEP 5: CLITOR, CLITOR, CLITOR

STEP 6: G-3OHA

STEP 7: PC-MUSCLES

STEP 8: TEACHING

STEP 9: DEAR, GIVE ME A HAND

MULTIPLE ORGASM FOR WOMEN

How not to miss the Big Bang: overcoming anorgasmia

SHARE ORGASM WITH A PARTNER

SITUATIVE ANORGASMIA

MENOPAUSE

PREGNANCY AND POSTNATAL PERIOD

CONTRACTOR

MEDICINES

SEX AND LIFESTYLE
Chapter 3

Better than chocolate, better than coffee:
Your energy

Energy in your body

ENERGY MOTION

Sexual energy

Generating, converting and storing energy

INNER SMILE

INNER SMILE

LOWERING ENERGY WITH AN INNER SMILE

Orgasmic Pull Up

ORGASMIC STRETCH UP

LIFTING ENERGY UP WITH ORGASMIC PULLING UP

POWER SUPPLY UP

LOWERING ENERGY DOWN

OTHER SIDE EFFECTS

ENERGY ABSORPTION

Blowing

The importance of sexual energy

PART II

DUET: PASSION, HEALING, PROXIMITY
Chapter 4

Give pleasure to each other
Fire and Water

Men - Yang, women - Yin

Excitement: boiling water and a riot of fire

Harmony of desires

LOVE IN MIND AND HEART

WARM UP THE PARTNER

PREPARING THE SACRED SPACE

Studying the mechanisms of our body

ELECTRICITY TOUCH

EASY LIKE A FEATHER

Body parts

LIPS AND TONGUE

HEAD

SPINE

BRUSHES AND FOOTS

ARMS AND LEGS

BREAST

FEMALE GENITAL ORGANS

SELF-SATISFACTION IN THE PRESENCE OF A PARTNER

FINGER SPACES

ZONES A, B AND C

MEN'S GENITAL ORGANS

FINGER SPACES

THE ART OF IRONING

Gongfu language: oral sex for men

Gongfu mouth: oral sex for women

THE ART OF CUNNILINGUS

THE ART OF FELLATION

Deep and shallow movements

Finding the optimal rhythm

Depth, direction and speed

Screwing in

The pinnacle of excitement
Chapter 5

Sexual Healing
Fountain of youth

Sexual Energy Healing

THE ART OF SEXUAL HEALING

Examining your genitals

Taossian vaginal massage

THE ART OF TAOUS VAGINAL MASSAGE

Daossian penis massage

Healing Poses

THE ART OF TAOUS PENIS MASSAGE

MAN ON TOP

WOMAN ON TOP

AROUND THE WORLD IN ONE NIGHT

MAN BACK

ON THE SIDE

Sitting

STANDING

Circulation of sexual energy

DIRECTION OF ENERGY UP AND DOWN

ORGASMIC STRETCHING UP DURING LOVE EXERCISE

Multiorgasmic marathons and fast sex

Ejaculation and loss of energy

Strengthening the genitals

STRENGTHENING PROSTATE AND UTERINE

Safe sex and sexual health

Energy of creation and destruction
Chapter 6

Love for real
Developing self-love

HOW TO COMBINE LOVE AND LOVE

MEDITATION TOUCH OF NINE FLOWERS

Love for a partner

LISTEN WITH LOVE

Touches

Love can be controlled too

PROCESSING OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

Strength and compassion

BE NATURAL
Chapter 7

Sexuality and spirituality
"Morning Prayer"

"MORNING PRAYER"

Union: fusion and orgasms of souls

MERGE OF SOULS (EXCHANGE OF SEXUAL ENERGY AND ORGASM OF THE SOUL)

Universal love

Transformation of sexual energy into spiritual

Compassion and Other Virtues of the Spiritual Life

Developing empathy

CYCLE OF COMPLIANCE

Manifesting yourself
Chapter 8

How to make love throughout your life
The rise and fall of desire

Harmony of desires

Sexuality without sex

MOUTH AND / OR HAND SATISFACTION

MASTURBATION IN A PARTNER'S HUG

MASTURBATION ALONE

MASSAGE

TOUCH

LOVE TO THE OLD AGE

Love is getting stronger and stronger

Sexual health for older women

BEFORE THE "PAUSE"

MENOPAUSE

Sexual health for older men

SOFT ENTRANCE

EJACULATION AND ELDERLY

Sexual health for couples

Maintaining sexual charge

Don't make sex a sport

The main secret of sexuality

Secrets open to everyone

A WARNING: These practices are very effective. The techniques and exercises described in this book can have a profound and beneficial effect on your health and sex life. However, we refrain from diagnoses and prescriptions. If you are sick with something, see your doctor first. If you have high blood pressure, a bad heart, or a weak body, you shouldn't put too much stress on yourself.

Practice is fun. This book is based on three thousand years of real sexual experience, and the authors are well aware of the amount of effort, however pleasant, it takes to change your sex life. Learning sexual secrets is one thing, but using them is another. The techniques presented in this book have been tested and refined by millions of lovers over the centuries. We have tried to describe these methods as simply and clearly as possible, but still, in order to benefit from them, systematic practice is required.

FOREWORD
Perhaps some information about the authors will help you better understand this book and the benefits of multiple orgasms. To begin with, we decided to participate in the writing of this book with Mantak and Manewan Chia, since we never actually intended to write a book about sex.

We accidentally became interested in Taoist sexuality when Rachel went to medical school and Doug studied and worked ten hours a day. We were surprised to find that, thanks to some Taoist techniques, our lovemaking began to give us much more pleasure than before; in addition, we have much more energy for work and life in general.

Taoist sexual art, also called “the art of sleeping quarters,” is a 5,000-year-old tradition that contains comprehensive information on male multiple orgasm and other secrets of sexual gratification. The purpose of this knowledge system is to help people who love each other make sex more enjoyable and healthier. Given the shyness and false information that most of us have associated with sex from early childhood, Taoist sexual art is a real revelation for Western culture.

We gave books on Taoist sexuality to our friends to read; they said that a lot of things seemed great to them, but it was not entirely clear where and how to start. Unfortunately, there has never been a simple guidebook that clearly explains to men and women how to experience multiple orgasms and discover the healing, emotional and spiritual aspects of sex. In the end, after numerous requests from our friends, we decided to try to write such a book.

After careful research of the existing literature, we have come to the conclusion that the most competent and credible experts in this field are Mantak and Maniwan Chia. Mantek Chia studied with Taoist masters for many years and, based on the knowledge gained, he developed a unique system, which he called "Healing Love". This system allows you to enhance the healing effect of sex, as well as pleasure and passion. Mantek Chia has taught thousands of people around the world, trained hundreds of mentors and is considered to be an excellent specialist in the field of Taoist sexuality, as well as in such effective Taoist practices as Tai Chi and Qigong.

We knew immediately that the Taoist masters were excellent doctors and researched sexuality using precise scientific methods. We were primarily interested in the practical benefits that modern readers can derive from this ancient teaching. We wanted to combine Taoist ideas and techniques, which have been perfected over several thousand years, with the latest achievements of modern science.

We decided to first write a book for men and called it Multi-Orgasmic Man *, since the effectiveness of Healing Love depends largely on the man's ability to develop his sexuality and, ideally, have multiple orgasms. This book turned out to be very relevant and was read by hundreds of thousands of people in more than twelve countries around the world.

Since the release of that book, readers have constantly asked us when we will write a book for couples that will allow women to learn the method of Healing Love. Finally, after years of creative research and work, we offer readers the Taoist secrets of love for couples. We hope that we have not deviated from the foundations of the ancient Taoist tradition and at the same time provided our readers with information that will be necessary and very useful in the modern world of sexual chaos. We wish you and your partner (or future partner) to experience, through the techniques and exercises described in this book, the joy and pleasure that we ourselves have experienced thanks to the Healing Love Method.

In the Russian edition: "Taoist secrets of love that every man should know"; we have substituted such a name in the text in all references to this book. - Approx. ed.Mantak Chia

Manewan Chia

Douglas Abram

Rachel K. Abrame

Santa Cruz, California April 17, 2000
INTRODUCTION
This statement may be shocking to many, but men are as capable of multiple orgasms as women. With this book, you and your partner will learn how to achieve full body multiple orgasms. By learning how to have multiple orgasms, you can enjoy sex much more than before. You will also be able to achieve sexual harmony and higher levels of emotional intimacy and ecstasy.

Multiple orgasm for all men

Few know that men are capable of multiple orgasms. Although this fact has been known in the East for several thousand years, and in the West it was proven by Alfred Kinsey and other sex scientists back in the 1940s, it is still perceived with amazement by most men and women.

In a previous book, Taoist Secrets of Love Every Man Should Know, we reviewed the advancements of modern science and presented ancient techniques for achieving multiple orgasms for men. Thus, we have tried to write a guide to the development of sexuality for men. This new book is an attempt to write a guide for both partners that would allow them to get more pleasure and benefit from sex.

Multiple orgasm for all women

While it is well known that women are capable of multiple orgasms, over 50% of women have never had multiple orgasms, or only occasionally have an orgasm. In this book, we explain to all women how to achieve multiple orgasms, and to those who already know how to experience it, how to deepen and intensify the pleasant sensations accompanying it.

Sexual harmony

If both partners know how to experience multiple orgasms, they can reach the pinnacle of sexual pleasure together. This ability allows men and women to synchronize their sexual rhythms and desires, which contributes to the achievement of harmony in both sexual and human relationships.

But, no matter how exquisite and beautiful it may be, this is only the beginning.

Physical health, emotional closeness and spiritual growth

Throughout this book, we have used the sexual experiences of many generations to show how sexual energy can be used to develop many different aspects of life and relationships with a partner - physical health, emotional intimacy, and even spirituality. Modern man is devoid of integrity: he perceives his genitals separately from the rest of the body, and his body - separately from the spirit. In this book, we explain how to reunite these elements to achieve levels of health, intimacy, and spiritual union that many are unaware of.

Loss of sexual wisdom

We have lost most of our sexual wisdom. Our time is characterized as great sexual freedom,

and great sexual chaos. Sexuality is widely used to influence our perception, yet it still has many misconceptions and false shame. Many readers are simply embarrassed to ask a bookstore for a book about sex (even more so about multiple orgasms!). Unfortunately, this is not surprising, since most religions view sex through the prism of fear and moralism. As a result, most of us have deep-seated anxiety, if not shame, associated with our sexual needs and desires.

It takes many people years to shake off this false shame and unleash their sexual potential. Even people with a "healthy" attitude towards sex are embarrassed to talk with a partner about their desires and fantasies. You no doubt tell your partner where he should massage your back, but for some reason you are embarrassed to tell him where to massage your genitals. The key to overcoming the false shame that holds our sexuality back is to accept that our sexual needs and desires are completely natural and to embrace a healthier and more holistic attitude towards them.

The search for sexual wisdom

In this book, we outline the basics of Taoist sexuality. Originally called Taoists scientists and philosophers of ancient China (around the 6th century BC), who were engaged in the study of issues related to health and spirituality. We call the Taoist sexual tradition "Healing Love" because the Taoists believed sex to be an effective way to heal themselves and their partner. This knowledge system is also often referred to as "Sexual Kung Fu." Chinese word gongfu(often pronounced as kung Fu etc.) translates as “practice,” therefore, “sexual gun-fr is just a sexual practice (and not hand-to-hand combat, which unfolds in bed).

Sex is health

The Taoists were excellent doctors, so they were interested in physical health as much as in sexual pleasure. Sex for Taoists is primarily associated with health, not morality.

The Taoists carefully researched the healing power of sex. Taoist doctors sometimes prescribed their patients not traditional medicines, but lovemaking in one position or another, depending on the type of illness.

Taoist sexuality — or, as we call it in this book, Healing Love — emerged as an important branch of Chinese medicine, and an active sex life in ancient China was considered a guarantee of health and longevity. Modern medical research shows that this is actually the case. In Western culture, sex in old age is treated as something not entirely decent: "old people, but there too ...". Taoists have always treated sex in old age in a completely different way. They believed that sex is a very important element of our life throughout its entire course.

The Taoists studied sex no less seriously and thoroughly than other areas of medicine, so they could well be called the first sexologists. If we study culinary art to enjoy delicious food, why not study sexuality to enjoy lovemaking?

Sexual harmony and love until death

The Taoists believed that marital happiness is impossible without sexual harmony, and they were guided by this very idea, developing the sexual art. Like any modern doctor, they knew that problems in bed can completely destroy the relationship between a man and a woman. But sexual harmony is not easy to achieve. Very often, the sexual needs of partners vary greatly in character and strength. This is explained not only by individual differences, but also by the fact that the mechanisms of sexual arousal for women and men operate in completely different ways.

Taoists associated these differences with the existence of male and female sexual energy (Yang and Yin, respectively). We will explain how these energies affect your sexuality and how they can be manipulated to meet the needs of both partners.

It should be noted that although the Taoists primarily considered sexual harmony between a man and a woman, the practices described below can also be used by homosexual couples. From a Taoist point of view, each of us has both masculine and feminine energy, therefore the main goal of partners - different or of the same sex - is to achieve energetic harmony.

New Sexual Evolution

Although many of the Taoist practices described in this book were developed over two thousand years ago, they are relevant and effective to this day. In the last two decades, since the secrets of Taoist sex, which have long been known only to initiates, have become available to modern couples, a profound sexual evolution has been taking place in the bedrooms of the Western world. We hope that the sexual arts and sexual science presented in this book will help you in the way they have helped thousands of others around the world.

Before you can enjoy the joys of Healing Love, you must unleash your sexual potential. In the first part of this book, we first explain how to learn to have multiple orgasms. Then, in Chapter 3, we'll discuss how to manipulate sexual energy to experience full-body orgasms. Knowing how to manage the energy of your body is very important for the correct execution of the exercises described in the second part of the book.

PART I

SOLO: MULTIPLICATION AND STRENGTHENING OF ORGASMS

Using this book, you will learn:

Have multiple orgasms without losing an erection; these orgasms last longer, are more intense than normal, and involve the entire body.

Use your sexual energy to improve your overall health; increase both sexual energy and vitality.

Recognize the signs of your partner's desires; help your partner learn to have multiple orgasms.

Use the most advanced penis insertion technique to fully satisfy the partner.

Use sexuality to deepen your spirituality.

It is safe to practice any kind of sex.

Get rid of premature ejaculations.

Overcome impotence.

Increase the size and strength of your penis.

Improve sperm count control.

Prevent (or solve) prostate problems.

Improve sexual performance in middle and old age.

Maintain a loving relationship when the two of you age.

MULTIPLE ORGASMS IN MEN? - YES YES YES!!!

This book lays out a simple system of physical and psychological preparation that allows a man of any age group to fulfill his dream - and satisfy a woman's fantasy: drastically increase the quality - and quantity - of love games. You don't have to boggle your head with complicated, confusing theories, it offers a simple, affordable and surprisingly effective technique that you can start practicing today.

By discovering their true sexual potential, men will learn to experience multiple full-fledged orgasms, and at the same time meet the multiple needs of their beloved. For women who read and understand the essence of this technique, the secrets of male sexuality, known only to a few men, will be revealed. Better yet, read this book together, together to comprehend the luxury of sexual ecstasy, satisfaction and intimacy that most people do not even know about.

The book reveals completely unexpected facts:

Men are as capable of multiple orgasms as women and can practice this technique regularly.

By learning to separate orgasm and ejaculation (two different physiological processes), men can transform short-term pleasure into a long series of orgasms that span the entire body, without weakening erections.

A man who has mastered the technique of multiple orgasms not only more arouses and satisfies a woman, but also maintains increased vitality and longevity, since it minimizes fatigue and exhaustion that occurs after ejaculation.

The book combines the latest scientific advances with the wisdom of ancient sexual traditions.

Detailed descriptions of simple exercises are given, with the necessary clear illustrations; extremely informative sections on female sexuality and how to give pleasure to a partner.

Included is a chapter on male homosexuality. The problems of premature ejaculation, impotence, infertility and decreased sexual desire are considered. Recommendations are given to women on how to help their partner (and themselves) master the technique of multiple orgasms.

Understandable, competent and entertaining, this book is a good guide for men looking to truly master their own, usually hidden, sexual potential. Authors Mantak Chia and Douglas Abram Arawa share the success of dozens of men whose sex lives have benefited from learning this technique.

The results are truly amazing, and perhaps not even in physiological aspects, as in the impact on the relationship between the participants. Complete lessons over the centuries, perfected by Tao practitioners and teachers in China, teach each couple how to use sexuality to strengthen and deepen spiritual connection and intimacy, how to lay the foundations of enduring passion and enjoyment for years to come. Improved health, extraordinary sexual experiences and an unexpectedly beneficial turn in your personal relationship - this is what a fascinating experiment this book gives you.

A WARNING

This is not just another book on sex. There is so much talk about sex now, and at the same time, so much misunderstanding that it is difficult to determine who to trust and whether to listen. You have no doubt seen advertisements for "sex experts" promising to make you the world's greatest lover, to teach you around the clock orgasm and sexual ecstasy - all without any effort. Because this book is based on a 3,000-year tradition of real sexual experiences, the authors are well aware of the effort, however enjoyable, that it will take to transform your sex life. Learning sexual secrets is one thing, but using them is another.

The techniques described in this book have been tested and perfected by millions of lovers over thousands of years in the laboratories of real life. We have tried to present these techniques as simply and clearly as possible, but if you want to really master them, then there is no other way but systematic practice.

This practice is extremely effective. The techniques described in this book will make profound and beneficial changes in both your health and your sex life. However, we refrain from making diagnoses or prescriptions here. If you have high blood pressure, heart disease, or general weakness, you should gradually enter the new practice. If there are any medical restrictions, you should consult your doctor.

Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams

Taoist Secrets Of Love That Every Man Should Know

INTRODUCTION

More than three thousand years ago, the Chinese knew that a man can have multiple orgasms, delaying ejaculation or even not allowing it at all. This is possible because orgasm and ejaculation are two different physiological processes, although in the West they have been identified for a long time. Even if not as accurately as modern scientists do, but in the same detail the ancient Chinese described their sexual discoveries for future generations of sexual and spiritual seekers.

It was only in the 1940s that Alfred Kinsey published pioneering works on this topic. Half a century has passed since then, his discoveries have been confirmed in laboratories - and yet most men do not know anything about their ability to multiple orgasms. Without this knowledge and without simple technical training, a man is not able to grasp the difference between an increase in orgasm and a spasm of ejaculation.

Male sexuality in Western beliefs is still centered on the erroneous goal of ejaculation, rather than on the orgasmic side of the act of love.

In this book, we teach a man to separate orgasm from ejaculation in his body; this will allow him to transform short-term gratification into a long series of orgasms involving the whole body. One man who has mastered the technique of multiple orgasms describes it this way:

“With normal, normal ejaculation, my pleasure passes quickly. It is quite another matter with multiple orgasms. The pleasure that arises in them remains with me all day; it seems to me that it does not have a final splash. This practice is an additional source of energy, and I just never get tired. Now I can afford as much sexual entertainment as I want; I control them, they do not control me. What more could a man want? "