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Complimenting girls is a very subtle and effective tool with which you can make them very pleased. The ability to use this is not given to everyone, and the line between slight admiration and rude flattery is very easy to cross. Moreover, he is important tool in the relationship between a man and a woman.
We present 40 original compliments to girls.
But first, let us recall what is the original meaning of this French word.
"Compliment" is a slight exaggeration of the dignity that one would like to see in oneself.
Comparing the phrases “this dress is very close to the color of your eyes” and “you are the most beautiful”, the second statement clearly does not apply to compliments, but will pass for ordinary flattery. Because it is easy to challenge it, and most likely your praise will not be taken seriously.
Of course, there is no panacea compliment in the form of any universal statement that any will do girl, anytime, anywhere. You will have to break your head or open your heart so that your words really cause pleasant emotions... Compliment - exclusive gift girl.
But, nevertheless, we can highlight the basic requirements for a beautiful compliment:
- focus on the inner, not the outer, the merits of the girl,
- be sincere, or at least try to make such an impression,
- talking about the external beauty or qualities of a girl, focus on the comparison,
- pay attention to the nuances that indicate the girl's impeccable taste,
- praise what she is proud of,
- avoid ambiguity,
- personalize and concretize your words,
- build your speech on facts known to both of you,
- do not exaggerate the positive quality you have chosen, otherwise it will be perceived as a mockery,
- let the thought be simple, do not clutter the structure of your statement,
- don't include any teachings, just characterize.
40 compliments to a girl
So, we offer you 40 beautiful and original compliments for your (or not your) girlfriend:
"You are so beautiful and attractive that I forgot why and where I was going as soon as I saw you ..."
“You are like a ringing spring stream on a quiet steppe night, when everything around is shimmering from the shining of the stars. And I freeze from you ... "
"The subtle scent of your hair will drive me crazy, I'm not kidding."
“But do you know what a captivating, charming smile you have? Well, no, really, you have such a beautiful, most radiant smile. Only very good and happy people smile like that. "
“Girl, I admired you all the way. I saw and forgot about all my problems, I want to thank you for that. "
"Compared to you, the current Miss World is ugly!"
"How do you manage to stay so young among these pensioners!"
“Who said that Masha (any other long-legged Tanka, Anka, Olka) has long legs? Did they see yours? "
"Even the petals of a May rose cannot be compared with the tenderness of your skin!"
"Have you decided that you are the best? .. in fact, it's just that everything is really worse than you ..."
“Such a time that no matter how a girl is, she is a star. By the way, you too, only you are a guiding, polar star for me ... "
“It’s simply impossible, but You cook even better than my mom!”
"These new earrings go very well with your ring!"
"I beg your pardon, what modeling agency do you represent?"
"Ah, with this magazine in your hands you look like a real business woman!"
"Mademoiselle, there is something so mysteriously beautiful in you that I cannot take my eyes off you ..."
“Looking at you, I began to understand why your spouse is always in a hurry home ( nice girl think about beauty, household - about comfort). "
"I love your suit, very good cut!"
"You have an aristocratic profile, you need to pose for the sculptors."
“If nature has ever created ideal forms, so they were yours! "
"You are a very self-confident girl - it is understandable, you are beautiful, energetic, sensitive, cheerful, smart, kind ..."
"You are really special - you have your own opinion on everything, and I like it!"
“Lidia Ivanovna, you are an excellent doctor because you pay so much attention to each patient. How do you manage it? "
"I will draw an analogy with cars ... so here you are - this is the latest model of the Ford Mondeo!"
“Yesterday I bought your favorite perfume and sprinkled it all over the apartment so that I smelled of you ... (apart)”
"You do this romance much better than this singer."
"You look as charming as on our wedding day."
“I’m so hungry that I would give my life for your pickled squash! (specialty of the house)"
"I saw you before ... and it seems to me that it was in a dream ..."
"Happiness? .. it's you!"
"I love you the way you are ..."
"Now, if I was born a girl, I would like to be like you!"
"What dragon do I need to fish to be worthy of such a princess?"
"I fell in love with your sunshine: your smile and freckles."
"Today you somehow look good in a special way, something has changed in you ... so you haven't put on makeup!"
“This is unbearable, I cannot be next to you! I just go blind from your beauty! "
“If you are always so charming and beautiful, I will become jealous of you. You yourself say that jealousy is a bad feeling! "
"I hate you because I love you so much!"
“I am sure you will be a good wife! (about homeliness). "
When a girl listens to compliments, in addition to pleasant emotions, the psychological phenomenon of self-hypnosis will arise, and her self-esteem rises. And even if the dignity is a little exaggerated, after such words, she will want, at least, to correspond to them. So, in addition to feeling grateful for the attention shown to her, you will push the girl to improve.
That's why, dear men, do not skimp on beautiful compliments! Praise and appreciate women, because, as you know, "women love with their ears."
Compliments to a girl about her beauty
And God created a woman ... And since then there has been no rest for either the man or God.
When you first meet a girl, you are men, first of all, you pay attention to her appearance: face, clothes, silhouette, gait, posture. If you like the girl and you have an irresistible desire to get to know her better, you should use your brains to impress the girl, for example, with the help of a compliment about her beauty, since you are not yet familiar with the girl's character. Don't know how to do it correctly? Then this article is for you! I will open the veil of secrets to the questions what kind of compliments girls like and when their appropriate to speak!
An important rule of thumb for complimenting someone is that compliments should be appropriate and honest. All girls are different, so the approach to each should be special. A nice compliment to a girl about her beauty will require from you a little knowledge of psychology, attentiveness and, of course, your imagination. In this case, you should adhere to clear restrictions and recipes. It is important not to overdo it and not to grow bold with compliments. Below I offer you a list of top compliments, but remember that in a certain situation a certain compliment is appropriate. Therefore, read the article to the end, tk. after small list compliments, I will talk about basic rules for their expression!
Top 10 compliments to a girl about her beauty
- I find it difficult to control myself when I look into your eyes.
- It is impossible not to fall in love with you.
- Your beauty drives me crazy.
- What a pity I haven't met you before. I don't even know how I lived without you.
- I fell in love with you at first sight.
- The smell of your hair makes me crazy!
- I have never seen such a dazzling beauty.
- Your eyes are shining like never before!
- This pendant (scarf) accentuates the color of your eyes.
- I love being with you so much.
"For a smart woman, compliments are for evaluating men, for a stupid woman for self-esteem."
Don't worry even if you are rejected after your confession. There will definitely be a girl who will appreciate your efforts !!! Although, after reading this article, You will be savvy enough to impress just about any girl !
So, let's take a look at a few situations that you may find yourself in, as well as basic rules for expressing compliments to a girl about her beauty
Learning these rules plus a little practice will give you unlimited control(sounds bewitching, isn't it?) over the psycho-logical state of the girl! If, of course, she wants it! So let's get started!
1. It is necessary to carefully study the girl
Before going out, almost every woman carefully gathers: she chooses clothes, accessories, puts on makeup, does her hair. At the same time, she necessarily focuses on one some detail that would emphasize her originality and individuality. It will be great if you notice this detail. What are your eyes drawn to the most? What do you think she would like to be noticed by others?
Of course in every girl has her own flavor , the feature that adorns it and distinguishes it from the rest. Eyes, hair, lips, legs, chest, clothing style can cause admiration in a man. If this is not the first time you meet, it may be a style of behavior, manner of communication, character trait. You must sincerely express to the girl all the compliments, of course, which she deserves.
Well, if you can't take your eyes off her beautiful eyes, then those eyes are just hungry for a compliment. Do not feel sorry for the most tender and pleasant words to these feminine charms. By the way, you can use my list of epithets.
Eyes - bottomless, mysterious, radiant, azure, aqua, blue haze, radiant, black-burning, eyes of color tea tree ; sight - hypnotic, mystical, pure, sincere, bewitching, intriguing, gentle, sincere, open, trusting, light, drowning, heady, intoxicating, daring, witchcraft, mysterious, happy.
It is not for nothing that I have highlighted the epithets that describe the look of the girl. Eyes are generally a mirror of a person's soul. Even without words, you can determine the mood of a girl by looking at her. Many women, thanks to their bewitching, magical gaze slay men to fall.
A smile is a decoration female face. Don't forget to remind the girls what a charming smile they have and how it suits them! This is actually very nice, I know from myself!
You can safely tell the girl: “ You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going". This compliment will inspire the girl that she has a magical attraction that captivates men's eyes, breaks hearts and deprives them of their mind. A woman should feel that she is a goddess, unless the girl has too high self-esteem (she already feels like a goddess). V this case different methods of expressing compliments will be required.
Smile - dazzling, radiant, Hollywood, radiant, charming;laughter - contagious, incendiary.
You can just say, “ Your eyes (smile) are driving me crazy«.
Hair depending on color, density, structure can also cause admiration and compliments.
Red-haired is fiery, brunette is burning, natural blonde, wheat-colored hair, brown; soft, silky, light, natural, natural, curly, smooth, lush, long, well-groomed.
Figure - flexible, slender, sophisticated, plastic, stately, fragile, perfect, sexy, appetizing; gait - feminine, sexy, flowing, exciting, soft, light; leather - dark, tanned, snow-white, tender, soft, perfect, velvety, clean, flawless I am.
General phrases about the beauty of a girl that are suitable in any situation- whether this is an acquaintance, a first date, or a long married life: charming, stylish, fashionable, luxurious, extravagant, delightful, wonderful, chic, enchanting, beautiful, perfect, stunning, stunning, pretty, angelically beautiful, impeccable, expressive, inimitable, luxurious, adorable, irresistible, amazing, unrivaled, flawless, perfect, beautiful, perfect, gorgeous, exquisite, amazing, graceful, indescribably beautiful, perfection itself.
With a closer acquaintance, when your relationship has moved to an intimate level, when the girl completely trusts and understands you, you can use compliments that are more frank, which will speak of her sexuality.
Sexy, breathtaking, erotic, feminine, sultry, ardent, passionate, very dangerous, captivating, relaxed, heady, fiery, intoxicating, burning, alluring, hot, sexy, exciting, seductive.
2. Complete surprise
This method of giving compliments is to emphasize that feature of the girl's appearance that would come as a complete surprise to her. The girl simply does not expect you to admire this particular detail and, perhaps, she even has some complexes about the trait that you noticed. Here you have to be very careful not to offend the girl. Your words should not contain false and flattery. For example, if a girl by nature long nose and she has a complex about this, but nevertheless he did not embarrass you, but on the contrary, you noticed that he emphasizes her originality, you can say: “ Girl you have such a sexy nose!»
I think this compliment will be completely unexpected for the girl. Although the outcome may not be in your favor, depending on how complex the girl is about it, she may think that you are making fun of her. But on the other hand, if she is not indifferent to you, she, on the contrary, will want to start a conversation with you. Indeed, in fact, girls are very interested in what others think of them. Thus, a girl can learn something new about herself, it is possible to get rid of her complexes.
Everyone is used to complimenting the eyes, hair, smile, but few talk about the nose, wrists, feet, ears. These are completely uncommon compliments. Boldly, but skillfully, you can use them. The girl will be discouraged by your originality. But do not forget - the compliment must be sincere, or at least it should look like that!
A guy I know recently told me: “You beautiful nose. " I never considered my nose to be the main advantage, but I was very pleased - I was never told that I have a beautiful nose. Nose, like a nose.))))
Be careful, beware of ambiguous compliments: « You so slims this dress! " (hint at overweight), « You today came to beautiful dress "(It means before that she wore an ugly one)," You feel so good with straight hair. Do this hairstyle often y "(a compliment should not sound like an admonition, the girl herself will figure out what is best for her).
3. Negative compliment
If you are dealing with a very beautiful, self-confident girl, you will need completely different methods of getting her attention. Beautiful women know their own worth. It is unlikely that you will surprise her by saying how beautiful she looks and how divinely beautiful. She heard these words from every man she met and, believe me, everyone who gave her compliments, she turned off. She's very good at it. Therefore, you will have to act ruthlessly towards her, I do not mean offensively - in no case.
First of all, you need to break through the "bitch's shield", i.e. discourage her completely. I don't mean to say that pretty girls bitches. But they have no choice but to behave this way. Rough sewing of men acts as a defensive reaction against increased attention... And at the same time, she likes to feel the power over men.
But in fact, this girl wants to be weak and defenseless only with a man who can resist her beauty, or at least be able not to betray his true feelings... A compliment comes to the aid of a man - negative blow... Tell her what she has long nails which are most likely overhead.
Let's imagine a situation. The guy comes up to the girl and says: “ Beautiful long nails. Most likely overhead?"- he will plunge her into wild confusion. Then he can add: “ Yes? But they look amazing". Then he turns away. She could not even imagine such an appeal to herself in the most terrible dream. Although he hadn't insulted her. But he hit her to the quick and pierced the queen's armor. These words will discourage and intrigue her. More than one man did not address her like that. So this is special, it has a delicate taste.
I can go on with the list of negative compliments:
- Girl, your spirits are very pleasant aroma, but a bit harsh.
-Girl, you look very luxurious. It's hard not to pay attention to you. You sit in short dress legs apart. Don't you think this is too frank? ...
- Girl, you have very interesting drawing on a t-shirt. I have exactly the same at home on the tablecloth.
- You are very beautiful by nature. Why are you your natural beauty hiding under a layer of makeup?
- Judging by you, you love bright clothes... I used to think that red does not match with blue, but looking at you, I realized that I was wrong!
The second way to win a beauty is to express compliments not related to her appearance. Perhaps behind a beautiful shell hides a very soulful, dreamy, intelligent, creative, active, simple girl. Your task is to consider what is hidden behind the image of the unapproachable cold queen.
I wish you good luck in conquering women's hearts!
HOW TO SPEAK BEAUTIFUL COMPLIMENTS TO A GIRL, PREPARED PHRASES
Everyone knows that it is customary to say compliments to girls always and everywhere, in fact, this is an immutable rule. However, not everyone knows that if you overfeed her with praise, the effect runs the risk of being completely opposite, the mark of a sucker and flatterer will forever stick to you, and your further courtesies will begin to arouse suspicion or ridicule. On the topic, read the article on how to learn to flirt with girls, this will help you better feel the situation.
HOW TO SPEAK COMPLIMENTS CORRECTLY?
The main thing is to find the golden mean, because a lot of the best and most beautiful compliments to a girl is clearly too much, but their almost complete absence is also not the best approach.
Does it exist perfect compliment girl, suitable for everyone, appropriate in all cases and always causing only positive emotions? Of course no. But why not try to develop it, or at least eliminate the likelihood of occurrence negative reaction? First of all, he should be open and sincere, without any signs of fawning. The girl will get a lot of pleasure from the praise of a confident person, it sounds more natural. If you try to get something out of her with the help of compliments, she will probably very quickly see through your game, and you will not succeed.
LET THE COMPLIMENT BREAD YOU.
The girl will be impressed by words of approval, spoken correctly and on time. Pay attention to those traits and features of her (makeup, hair, clothes) that she worked on, carefully thinking and making a lot of effort, as well as those that other guys do not notice.
She has unusual hairstyle? Or, perhaps, she acquired a dainty brooch? Be observant, start an appropriate topic and compliment the girl about this. Also, don't forget about the smile! If you are unable to come up with something, admire her energy, willpower. It is important to remember that it is better to adhere to a calm tone, sometimes somewhat playful, as for the intention to please - exclude it.
Is it worth praising the beauty of girls, their external data? Many people do this, but this is the wrong tactic. For example, such words are absolutely useless for real beauties. They already know about their attractiveness, and they hear such compliments every day. You will be remembered as just another dull fan. So why try in vain?
SPONTANCY OF GOOD COMPLIMENT TO A GIRL IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS.
By expressing approval and trying to praise, your chances of making the girl happy will increase significantly if everything is spoken unobtrusively, as if by accident.
The best and beautiful compliments the girl still needs to be able to speak, so that it does not look feigned and not natural.
What should be done? Give the girl just one compliment (do not try to continue) about her charming outfit or hairstyle, and immediately move on to another topic, distract the girl in every possible way. There is no need to demonstrate that you are wildly ecstatic.
HOW TO MAKE A COMPLIMENTATION FOR A GIRL CORRECTLY.
The most effective compliment for a girl will be one that you immediately slightly refute, making it clear that in general everything is fine, but still not perfect. Let's say, “I can't stop looking at your amazing smile! True, I just noticed that a speck has stuck to your lip, it is here (remove the non-existent speck) ”. It turns out that you simultaneously praise one or another of its features and say that there is still something to work on, pointing out a minor flaw. However, remember not to overdo it. For example, your phrase: “You have an extraordinary hairstyle, but I am sure that it has long gone out of fashion,” is unlikely to be successful.
Interesting fact: it is best to speak in the right ear. But do not think that you need to whisper something directly into your ear, just know that when you are going to say a compliment to a girl, or talk to her about something, try to sit down so that most of the information is perceived not by the left, but right ear.
In spite of everything, it is important to remember the main rule - a girl needs to make beautiful compliments unobtrusively and naturally. And if the girl does not agree with your words, do not try to dissuade her otherwise, be able to retreat beautifully. If you feel that a prepared compliment is likely to sound pitiful and embarrassing, or you seem ingratiating and needy, keep it to yourself.
BEST BEAUTIFUL COMPLIMENTS FOR A GIRL, A READY LIST OF COMPLIMENTS FOR A GIRL.
And finally, some of the most interesting examples compliments for the girl. After reading them, you will enrich your knowledge and will not be left “without weapons”, and you may also have your own ideas. Read on the topic of the article how to please a girl and how to meet a girl on the street for overall development, you may learn something new, because you can not cope with compliments alone, but here is a list of compliments for a girl:
- “I didn't mean to say that you are the best. In fact, it is others who are worse than you. "
- "Happiness? It is before my eyes! "
- “It's just incredible, your judgment and views are even better than my mother's!”
- "If we compare with you the current Miss World - she definitely loses!"
- "I am overwhelmed with fierce hatred for the fact that I adore you so much."
- "I saw you before ... Perhaps I dreamed about you."
- "Today you look different and I like this change ... Wait a minute, you are not wearing makeup, that's the point!"
- “I could not help falling in love with your sunshine: those perky freckles and carefree smile.”
- “What dragon do I need to fight in order to conquer such fairy princess?”
- “Be me born a girl, I would like to look like you. "
- "Looking at you, I realized why your spouse is always in a hurry to go home ..."
- “With an aristocratic profile and languid cheekbones like yours, you should pose for an artist.”
- "Even a May rose petal is not as soft and velvety as your skin."
- “How did it happen that I completely forgot where I was going to go? Precisely, I saw you and could not resist such a wondrous beauty. "
- “I am delighted with your suit, very successful cut!”
- “I know why you are completely confident in yourself - it cannot be otherwise, you are amazingly beautiful, smart, energetic, sensual and kind ...”
- “I can't believe your culinary skills are vastly superior to your mom's!”
- “Girl, I admired you all the way. As soon as I saw you, I immediately forgot about all the problems, and I want to thank you for that. "
- "I beg your pardon, what modeling agency are you representing?"
- “This is unbearable, I cannot be near you! I am blind and numb from your beauty. "
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avant-garde
adventurer dexterous
gambling
neat
altruistic
amazon captivating
angelic
angelically beautiful
appetizing and tasty
aristocratic
fragrant
authentic
flawless
white
infinitely new
disinterested
careless
unmatched
incomparably dancing
priceless
reckless and radiant
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prosperous
blessed
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cheerful
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pain reliever
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experienced
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inspired
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great
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faithful
cheerful
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forever young
explosive
prominent
in love
attentive
not pompous at all
exciting
air
magic
free
flammable
receptive
enthusiastic
impressionable
impressive
all-understanding
we all really need
omnipotent
worthy of all the gifts
conquering everyone in the world
irascible
hardy
harmonious
harmoniously harmonious
brilliant
flexible and slim
hypnotic
losing her head
light-winged dove
hot
hospitable
grandiose
graceful
graceful sexy
visionary
delicate
business
impudent
marvelous
outlandish
diplomatic
good
good-natured
friendly
gullible
long-awaited
expensive
precious
friendly
friendly
intoxicating
soulful
the only one
natural
hot
burning
desired
feminine
life-giving
scenic
cheerful
funny
Thoughtful
groovy
mesmerizing
bewitchingly adorable
mysterious
tanned
cocky-sly
incendiary
tempting
wonderful
shy
starry
sultry
gold
playful
perfect
ingenious
amazing
exquisite
impulsive
individual
proactive
intriguing
ironic
exceptional
sincere
sparkling
to the stars enthralling
accustomed to praise
calling for kisses
as from the picture descended
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cool
insidious temptress
flirtatious
flirtatious and perky and not at all absurd
colossal magnetic
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creative
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the best
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Darling
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wise
men inspiring
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time-tested strength
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inimitable
rebellious
direct
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awesome
charming
charming
discouragingly contradictory
deceptive
adored
seductive
seductively loving
deafening
fiery
intoxicating
mischievous
inspiring
cheerful optimist
dazzling
cautious
witty
excellent from others
brave
responsive
frank
open and kind
excellent
awesome
sobering
quick-witted
hearth keeper
charming
very popular
stunning-awesome
attractive
attractive
befitting
cool
diligent
approximate
gifted by nature
attractive
pleasant
shrewd
simple and complex
just amazing
rebel against falsity
professional
hurting right in the heart
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ardent
heady
fluttering
impetuous
awesome
pragmatic
festive
practical
representative
lovely
radiant joy
welcoming
talkative
versatile
vulnerable
healing wounds and playing in love
having
voluptuous speech
decisive
risky and ready for exploits
rhythmic
fatal
romantic
luxurious
most most
very, very, very favorite!
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sexy
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heart
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funny
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calm
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capable
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passionate
impetuous
slender
happy with her fate
superstitious
crazy
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tactful
talented
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temperamental
sensible
demanding
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convincing
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confident
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lucky
amazing
radiant smile
smiling
skillful
clever
mind-blowing
unique
delightful
stubborn
refined
famous favorite
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phenomenal
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economic
sleek
fragile
good
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healing
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frank
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sensitive
a little selfish
naughty
crazy
gorgeous
boisterous
effervescent
generous
extravagant
elegant
emancipated
emotional
energetic
spectacular
humorous
bright
I've never met someone like you before!
You are the most special girl for me!
I admire your femininity!
I love the smell of your hair!
You are beautiful like a beautiful flower!
You are just adorable!
You, the only one in the world, about whom I think every minute!
Your beauty struck me on the spot!
You are irresistible as always!
I feel like a real man next to you!
The smell of your perfume is unforgettable!
You are the girl from my dreams!
You are like a girl from a fairy tale!
I still can't believe that I met such a wonderful girl!
I am delighted with your divine beauty!
I loved your mysterious smile!
There is no girl in the world more beautiful than you!
You are the only one who conquered my heart!
You are like a fragrant spring flower!
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Everyone loves to be complimented. A successfully inserted compliment in one second can endear anyone to you, be it your good friend or just an acquaintance. And if we talk about compliments at work, then this may even become one of the main reasons for your career growth... However, not everyone knows how to properly praise another person. What are the basic rules for an appropriate celebration? This article will tell you about this.
Rule # 1 - Compliment Sincerely
Any compliment must be made with sincere desire praise the person. Don't assume that people are oblivious to whether you are cheating on them or not. If not from the first time, then from the second or fifth it will be clear whether you are really praising the person or are just being sycophantic.
Rule # 2 - Give original compliments
You shouldn't say compliments that you've read on the Internet or heard from someone you know. Excel fresh ideas and an original mindset. For example, instead of saying: “You beautiful eyes", Say:" Your eyes are like the color of an aqua, which attracts the attention of all men. " Again, don't use the above example, come up with something of your own.
Rule # 3 - Personalize Compliments
Never tell your friends or coworkers that you like the clothes they are currently wearing. Better tell him that he or she looks great in these clothes. It is two different compliments of which the second will sound much more attractive.
Rule # 4 - Compliment Clearly
Do not use in your laudatory offers ambiguous phrases... Give a direct compliment that the person will understand. Don't say, "I didn't even think you could wear a dress this size." A person may misunderstand the meaning of a compliment, even if you didn't mean anything bad. Such a phrase can only offend a person.
Rule # 5 - Avoid Comparisons
A correct compliment consists of praise, but all comparisons should be avoided. You can tell that your girlfriend is more stylish and fashion ring than one of her acquaintances. It would seem that there is nothing wrong with that. However, who knows what might end up? There are times that it was that acquaintance who gave her this ring. The result can be an unpleasant embarrassment. Comparison is allowed only when you are comparing the interlocutor with yourself.
Rule # 6 - prohibiting the word "Please" in response to "Thank you for the compliment"
Many people make this mistake when they learn to compliment. Do not under any circumstances say "Please" when you praised the person and he said "Thank you" to you. Such a response from your side sounds as if you complimented only because it had to be done and it is your responsibility, not a sincere desire.
All these rules must be followed in a complex, and then you can become a real professional in the field of using the right compliments.
Irena Smirnova | 16.06.2015 | 1339Irena Smirnova 16.06.2015 1339
Kind words and admiration for a person helps to establish communication. I will tell you how to make a subtle, intelligent and beautiful compliment.
With a compliment, great things can be done easily. Sincere admiration for a person has helped me more than once in my life. Many years ago, my husband drew attention to me and singled out from the crowd of girls at a student skit when I complimented his sense of humor. It all ended with a wedding and a happy family life.
Appropriate praise to the investor earned my firm the contract, even though several other companies were competing for it. Apparently, I produced good impression to a business partner, starting communication with pleasant words.
I firmly believe that not only women, but also men are worthy of compliments. And neither age, nor different social status shouldn't stop you.
If up to this point you've skimped on compliments simply because you didn't know how to do them, it's time to correct the situation. You will see: this "art" will help to establish contact with others.
The compliment is special form praise, expressions of admiration; pleasant words.
The "object" of the compliment
An inappropriate compliment can be worse than harsh criticism. I'll tell you what to admire.
- Appearance. Admiration for appearance is the most easy way but very effective. Take a closer look at the interlocutor, highlight a vivid detail and say a compliment. In this case, it is not necessary to separate the thing from the person. For example, if you liked a coworker's hairstyle, say that new color hair accentuates the beauty of her eyes. Men will be happy to compliment a tie that matches a suit. By the way, once I complimented a man, noting that a scar on his face gives him masculinity. He was pleased and literally "blossomed" before our eyes.
- Character traits. If you know the person a little, you can compliment positive quality his character. Praise a sharp mind, a sense of humor, after all, punctuality. Remember: best compliment- sincere. Therefore, if a person is late for a meeting, do not sing praises to him about punctuality.
- Achievements at work and in personal life. If you have heard a lot about certain successes of a person like promotion, victory in international sporting events, buying a long-awaited thing you can safely admire it. At the same time, the emphasis is not so much on achievements as on the qualities of a person that helped him achieve the desired result.
How to Compliment?
So, you have decided what kind of pleasant words you need to say to a person. It remains to arrange them in a beautiful "wrapper". I will tell you about ways to help you compliment correctly.
1. You can express admiration for a person, while making a small anti-compliment to your beloved. Here are some examples: “Did you dare to ride an elephant while traveling to India? And I’m still a coward, I would never climb on this big animal ”. “You walk very nicely in heels. Give me a couple of catwalk lessons, otherwise I lack grace. "
The main thing here is not to overdo it and not to lower yourself in the eyes of a person below the plinth. You have to be careful with this way of "giving" a compliment when it comes to work.
2. You can temporarily be a "carrier pigeon" and convey to a person the words that were said by others. For example: “You are very new is coming red dress, this was noted not only by our department, but also by the entire office. "
3. To enhance the effect of pleasant words, emphasize that it is a compliment.
Try to compliment the person so that others don't hear it. If you say in the presence of other women, say that your colleague looks amazing today, they may take it personally: they say, they look bad.
Do not be afraid to compliment and, of course, learn to accept them with dignity. They make our lives better, increase self-esteem, and help us connect with just about anyone. And be sincere!
Girls are sensitive to deception and flattery, if you compliment insincerely, then you will achieve nothing but disappointment. Complement will be correctly perceived only when done with desire and from the heart. If in this moment there is nothing to say, then it is better to remain silent and not try to come up with something absurd. A real compliment is not a routine set. beautiful words but what you want to say at the moment. What you really like about her and what you admire.
Attention
Your girl changed her hairstyle, dyed her hair, did new manicure... Men very often do not notice this or simply do not attach of particular importance these events. it big mistake... These events are quite significant, and when she meets with you, she just needs to know what you think about it. A man should be attentive to the changes that have occurred with his girlfriend since their last meeting... Don't wait for her to ask you. You should be the first to say something nice about her new look. Perhaps she did it, including that you would like it.
Non-standard
Having met a girl, you can say that she looks great. Such a compliment will be like a joke about a white back. Beaten and practically does not evoke emotions. Look closely at her, perhaps she is somehow smiling especially today or her eyes are shining with joy. So use these details when you compliment. The girl will immediately understand that this is not an ordinary phrase, but the words of a person who looks at her carefully and with sincere interest. After all, think back to Sherlock Holmes and pay attention to detail.
Compliments
For example, a girl came in a new dress, you noticed it and want to say something nice to her. Do not hold back, but praise not just her suit, but tell how it suits her, how it emphasizes the color of her eyes and how it goes with them. Clothes not only adorn the girl, but also give her more charm, sophistication and charm. By saying that, you didn't just praise her new outfit, but complimented her on her taste, her ability to dress or comb her hair beautifully when it comes to a new hairstyle.
You can tell the girl that she is lovely or that she has wonderful eyes. This, of course, is always good to hear. But at the same time, it just looks like a listing of its merits. It is much more correct to report that you really like her eyes, that it is you who consider her adorable and charming. Then the pleasant emotions that your words aroused in her will be associated with you and with your attitude towards her.
Less is Better
This catch phrase very suitable for the topic at hand. The compliment should be like a berry on the cake of your relationship, and not the usual buns that can quickly become boring. Strictly dose their number, the girl should wait for them, and not bump into them at the most inopportune time. Complimenting is an art that can be mastered and will always help in a relationship. Learn and don't be afraid to say something nice girl, from this you will only benefit in her eyes.
How to develop creativity, break the rules correctly, where to go beyond and where to set them, and why you need to be afraid to start creating.
Photographic equipment is becoming more and more “smart”, more and more perfect and more and more accessible. How did this saying sounded there from the students of the Faculty of Journalism of Moscow State University in the 70s? "Give me Nikon and I'll turn the world around?" And here he is, Nikon - but will the world be turned upside down? In comparison with the 70s - yes, only it's not about Nikon.
In a word, professional, masterful equipment is far from always equal to professional, masterful photographs. What does it take to move forward and develop as a photographer? To keep creating while facing the creative block? To make your photos stand out from the billions taken every year? In order to ultimately find your niche and attract customers? That's right, creative.
For those who need to shake things up, regain inspiration and look at their creativity from a new angle - 15 tips on how to develop creativity.
1. Forget the rules
Forget about genre, composition rules, color theory and the like. Imagine that there are no “but”, “no”, “but how”. Imagine that anything is possible. And there are no such ideas or topics that are not considered or discussed. Take the risk to go beyond, beyond the boundaries, at least mentally.
2. Add frames and borders
It may seem that this contradicts the first point. But in reality, the more boundaries there are, the more opportunities for creativity. Constraints force us to look at the situation in a new way and invent new ways to achieve the desired result.
Come up with your own framework. For example, whole month use only one lens and only prime lens. Or take only black and white photos. Or work with vertical orientation only.
This method is especially useful if it immediately causes internal protest and resistance. Do not succumb to this feeling and be persistent: creativity will follow.
3. Less hardware means more creativity
It would seem that the more opportunities, the richer the choice, the more varied the result. But the truth is, if you have a separate “perfect” lens for every scene and five different “perfect” cameras for every occasion, there's nowhere to go. As well as there is no room for creativity.
This does not mean that you have to throw out most of the equipment or use only the old "soap box". This means - see point 2. Artificially limiting the available options, at least for a while, you free up space for creativity.
4. Trust yourself
If inner voice says that you need to take a picture - do it. This advice is often heard from street photographers where the “defining moment” is Foundation stone... But the same applies to any genre and any form of photography. If you feel that you need to shoot, shoot. Even if you have to remove the camera from the bottom of the bag. Even if it seems that it is impossible to shoot. Even if you tell yourself that you can take this photo later.
"Then" usually does not come. Photos are frozen moments; moments that will not be repeated. There will not be the same scene, the same light, the same mood. Shoot.
5. Don't forget about physical activity
Sports activities, or even light physical activity will help develop creativity, especially if you have a sedentary job. Walk, run, ride a bike - whatever your heart desires.
First, it will give the brain a rest, and then you will begin the task with fresh energy. Secondly, photo walks will allow you to see new places, new characters for shooting.
Third, researchers at Stanford University have shown that physical process walking increases creativity - on average by 60%, and this effect continues for some time after you have stopped.
6. Visit new places
One of the secrets to creativity is diversity. As you walk, take new routes and new places. Travel to new cities and countries. Newness gives impetus to creativity.
7. Surround yourself with creative people
Creativity is contagious. In addition, communication will give A New Look on things, will allow you to voice, discuss and develop emerging ideas. And if you can work with an experienced photographer, so much the better.
8. Tell stories
Each has its own stories. Tell us. It trains imaginative and creative thinking. Try to make both you and your interlocutor mentally see what you are talking about. Visualization - important aspect for the development of imagination. And we are talking not only about the image, but also about sounds, smells, tastes, sensations. Try to convey all this in your story and in your pictures.
9. Be curious
Learning something new ignites the creative spark and enhances the imagination. Why do children have such a rich imagination? Because they are curious and open to everything new.
Ask questions, study and try something unfamiliar, expand your sphere of interests, look for something that your soul will reach for. Because the fuel for creativity is passion.
10. Change and change
Try yourself in a new genre. Are you a studio photographer? Do some street photography on the weekend (check out the guru's tips). Are you shooting architecture? Switch to sports photography for the day.
11. Set yourself non-standard tasks
Challenge yourself and try unusual exercises. For example:
- Do 10 different photos the same scene.
- Pick a location and take 24 completely different frames. Without budging.
- Imagine you are shooting on film and you only have 36 (24, 12) frames. And there is only one tape for a day.
Such challenges, constraints and conditions can lead to surprisingly creative solutions.
12. Not a day without photos
Not a day without a line. In our case, no photo. Even if you don't want to. Even if there is no inspiration. Even if there is no time. Because, firstly, it will give a start, launch the creative process. Secondly, skill is only sharpened by practice.
13. Get inspired by others
There is nothing wrong with learning something and taking inspiration from the masters. Remember the expression: "Good artists copy, great artists steal?" Do you know how Benjamin Franklin honed his writing style? By copying texts from Spectator magazine, where some of the best texts his time.
14. Start a personal project
A personal project isn't just for documentary photographers or photojournalists. And not only for beginners who are just trying their hand. The process of working on it will benefit everyone, regardless of genre or work experience. it a great opportunity do what kindles passion in the soul, and learn something new - about the world and about yourself. And both of these points, as we found out earlier, are essential conditions for unleashing creative potential.
15. Don't be afraid of your fears.
Fear of criticism, fear of failure, and even fear of success - all of this not only interferes with creative person showcase your work to the world, but also limits our creative self. In fact, fear is good; it is an indicator that your business is really important to you. Are we going to worry about things that don't touch us? So, this is exactly what is worth doing. You don't want to waste your life on something that you are indifferent to?
P.S. You can and should develop creativity!
As a bonus - a small video from the director and video blogger Simon Cade, the author of the YouTube channel DSLRguide... Don't forget to turn on Russian subtitles!
Still not feeling the urge to create? Get up and go create anyway. Appetite comes with eating.