How to fall in love with your boss. Is it possible to fall in love with an experienced woman and how? How to get your boss to love
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Monitor your boss' behavior, otherwise someone's career may be at risk.
More and more compliments from your boss? Text messages on weekends? Laughs at all your jokes, even the most unfortunate ones? If so, then perhaps he is not indifferent to you.
Sometimes it's not clear if the person is really passionate about you or is just trying to be friendly, so in such a sensitive situation it is better to be careful. Otherwise, you run the risk of embarrassment, and in the worst case, someone's career is in jeopardy. So, here are 17 signs of a boss in love.
1. An inner voice whispers
Usually people tend to brush off suspicions about leadership, but sometimes feelings are worth trusting.
Intuition is not nonsense. This is the voice of our subconscious. It is an unconscious analysis of many factors that results in emotions or physical sensations - in this case, discomfort and irritation. And, if you are unhappy or angry with this situation, you are right.
2. Flirting
Before drawing any conclusions, take a close look at how the boss communicates with other colleagues. Perhaps he behaves like that with everyone - he just likes to please others. And, even if your boss flirts with you from time to time, if he also interacts with other colleagues, it may be harmless flirting.
It is also worth analyzing your own actions. Is he flirting with you because you are flirting with him? Trying to understand what intentions are behind other people's actions, you should be very careful.
But, if it becomes clear that he is only flirting with you, and that this does not happen in response to your behavior, this is a serious sign.
3. Meetings in private or in the evenings
If from time to time you are asked to stay after the end of the working day to finish something, and there is an understandable reason for this in the form of a joint project, this can be quite harmless.
But, if you feel like you are being singled out and that appointments are scheduled for the evening on a regular basis (or the number of appointments is obviously overkill), your boss may be trying to go beyond professional boundaries.
It should be borne in mind that if you, in spite of your own discomfort, go forward, the situation will only get worse.
4. Calls or SMS for no specific reason
Most executives are overwhelmed with work, so if a person takes the time to call you and chat, then it seems that you are engaging their thoughts a little more than they should.
5. Playful or sensual body language
Pay attention to body language and gaze. If he glances at you a lot or tries to maintain eye contact for longer than necessary, this could be one sign.
6. Concessions
Perhaps, of course, this is just a sign of respect and trust, but if you start to feel like a favorite - for example, you are offered opportunities that you honestly did not deserve - perhaps he likes you.
7. Trust
Does your boss ever share business or private information with you that no one else in the company shares with you?
It is possible that you are simply trusted as a person and a specialist. But it is possible that this is just a way to deepen the relationship.
8. Exaggerated promises
If your boss takes a romantic interest in you, he may promise you some exaggerated role in the company.
If a leader is willing to cheer and support everyone, that's one thing. But, if the prospects begin to seem suspiciously bright, you should pay attention to the other signs and understand the motivation of the bosses.
9. Spending time outside of work
It may be worth nothing behind an invitation to coffee after work, but when combined with other signs, this is a wake-up call.
10. Sudden change of image
11. Your opinion is valued above others
12. Compliments not related to work
If you receive compliments all the time, and even if they are not work-related or overstepping the boundaries, obviously there is something here.
Compliments to your looks, dressing skills, or great personality can be especially helpful. If he says something like: "Well, your chosen one will be lucky," this is hardly a purely working relationship.
If this type of comment is uncomfortable for you, it's best to talk to HR right away.
13. Gifts
They can be a form of flirting.
Humor in the workplace is essential, but there are some boundaries, and perhaps the boss is joking with you mostly - this should be alarming.
The bully boss who teases you and makes unwanted advances is a serious matter, and it might be worth taking decisive steps immediately to stop this behavior.
17. Blush in your presence
Does his face change the moment you enter the room? Is he blushing, or is there sweat on his forehead? Perhaps this is a sign of physical attraction.
A spicy relationship between a boss and a subordinate often has a completely different meaning than just a business relationship. This is especially true of the secretary and the boss, and many greasy anecdotes confirm this. And what can we say about porn films and sex fantasies in role-playing games ?!
So how do you seduce your boss if the purpose of your visits to work is not so much a career as a desire to make him fall in love with you? And it doesn't matter if it is a sexual passion for the boss, a desire to move up the career ladder, or some other reason.
What is your boss
In principle, if you have a pleasant appearance, crazy charm, and you still strive to learn all the nuances of the profession, then you can be in your boss's favorites. And your company is not so big that you got lost in the gray crowd.
Another thing is how relaxed your boss is and does he look with oily eyes at female subordinates?
Your chances will increase if:
He is not a workaholic, and nothing human is alien to him. At work, he is the boss, and at a corporate party, he is his boyfriend.
He has a beautiful secretary, not a dry old woman. If the secretary is you, and there was no special interview - he just liked you, so he accepted you for the position.
He is not married. And even if he is married, then his wife "zadolbala". The chief doesn't even have a picture of her on the table. Or a general family portrait.
Have you often noticed that the chief's gaze is fixed on you?... It's pretty damn nice. So you're interested in him.
He is not a tyrant. Of course, he demands the observance of subordination from subordinates, but he does not "go too far."
In addition, you must find out what he is interested in, who his friends are, and other little things. Collecting all his dossier like a jigsaw puzzle in one picture, you will know where to start flirting with this man and have an affair with him.
Only in porn films, secretaries are laid down immediately on the boss's table, spreading their legs to seduce him, but in life you need a special approach.
Is it worth seducing
If your boss is a workaholic or a loyal family man, then most likely an affair with him will be inappropriate or even impossible. Why?
He is a workaholic
This is a person who is painfully devoted to his business. Of course, he also does not shy away from pleasures, but they stand in such a scanty place that he cannot be seen with a magnifying glass.
He either does not notice any inclinations towards him from pleasant subordinates of the weaker sex, or they annoy him, because they interfere with his work.
Even if the boss somehow falls for the flirtation, it will be a fleeting, meaningless romance. Again - with a business approach: an order came from a girl to sleep with him, the order is completed, go for a walk girl.
He is a loyal family man
To begin with, if he is faithful, then it is almost impossible to seduce this man. Passionate love with his wife does not add to his desire to have fun somewhere on the side. Therefore, for such a man, his excellent subordinates are just the staff of the company.
But what can await you if you dig the earth for the sake of an affair with a boss, despite his marital status:
The boss, of course, will notice your sexual impulses, but most likely he will point to your workplace. And it's good if in a mild form.
It is possible that his wife is a “gray eminence” in the company. She's clearly watching you. And then no soft forms - you will fly out of work in disgrace.
If you manage to have an affair with your boss, then you risk breaking your family. Do you need it? Is your conscience okay? Do the bloody boys flicker in your eyes?
If work is not related to striptease, then it is customary to go to it either in a business suit or in uniform. But if you change even a few details in clothes, then even a cloth bag can become an evening dress.
The best season for seduction is summer. Well, or late spring and early autumn. Unbuttoned buttons on the chest and an overly short skirt can be attributed to the heat. In winter, this outfit is not very appropriate.
Everything that you consider your dignity must be emphasized. For a beautiful voluminous breast, a deep neckline is asked for, or again - the same blouse with unbuttoned buttons. Slender legs also do not need to be hidden, but to highlight a thin waist with the help of slimming clothes.
Even if you work as a nurse and want to charm a pretty head physician, then even more so the cards are in your hands. Sewing a white robe so that it looks sexy is not difficult. But keep in mind - in male patients, pressure from your outfit will also jump.
A high stiletto heel on a shoe, a delicate scent of perfume, well-chosen jewelry - this is what makes a woman beautiful. Yes, and of course do not forget to paint and do your hair. You are ready for visual seduction.
At work, it is customary to talk about business. To stand out from the crowd of colleagues, you must be a true professional - smart and resourceful. The fashion for stupid silicone fools has passed, their stories are already inscribed in jokes.
If your boss notices your professionalism at work, then he will notice you in general. You gave him a rational proposal at the planning meeting, which even did not occur to him - he will be amazed at your ingenuity. This is the first step towards rapprochement. And then walk like clockwork:
Leaves to work after hours tete-a-tete - agree of course. Tea-coffees, a drop of cognac in drinks - and why not, you can also cognac.
Try to make those movements to which he will react vividly: it's hot, waved a folder in front of her face, unbuttoned a button, threw back a naughty lock of hair.
All gestures are soft and graceful, like a cat. I went to open the window and pour tea - twisted my hips there, then coquettishly put the leg. Only without farce, but as if by chance.
If there is a corporate party at work, and all subordinates have gathered, then try to be a leader at it. Better yet, organize everything yourself. You will be the highlight of the program.
Feel free to ask your boss to dance (what's the big deal?), Laugh at his jokes, praise his wit. The main thing is that it does not look like a toady from a repaired one, but it seems natural.
Take an interest in what your boss is passionate about. If, for example, he is a football fan and is a fan of Zenit, then tell him that Kokorin is super. So, as if by chance, in a conversation about a hobby.
By the way, never say nasty things about the boss to other subordinates - either praise or keep silent. Among colleagues, there will certainly be one informer who will undoubtedly report everything to the chief.
Has your boss noticed you? Rejoice. You just have to wait until he starts showing the first signs of falling in love with you.
Feedback from the chef
Signs of a boss in love will not keep you waiting long if you did everything right. Now we need to take a closer look at the behavior of the boss - how your flirting affected the relationship with this man.
And the signs can be as follows:
He will start calling you “on the carpet” more often than other subordinates. Only not in order to arrange a scolding, but on the contrary, in order, as it were, to listen to rationalization proposals. But more and more often, conversations will be reduced to personal life.
He will act like a boy, not a boss. Somewhere to be nervous, somewhere to worry. Now the voice breaks, then the tie knot begins to relax. No, he is not hot, this is how excitement affects him.
In front of other subordinates, he may not show his interest in you, but keep him on par with everyone. But it's even better - it means that you are more than just a valuable employee to him.
In the end, he will be tortured with hiding his feelings and will try to ask you out on a date directly. Well, in general, the goal of seduction has been overtaken.
And yet, during his throwing, even before the scheduled date, you also need to behave correctly and also stand firm, and not jump on the boss's neck at the first signs of his love.
The meaning of flirting should be according to the principle: "Stop there - come here!" The first kiss must be initiated by the man. The longer such a beauty as you is inaccessible to him, the more a wonderful feeling of love will grow and rise in him. Well, and also the fact that below the belly too. Which, in general, was required.
Finally - an unusual technique
Let's do a thought experiment.
Imagine that you have the super ability to "read" men. Like Sherlock Holmes: she looked at a man - and immediately you know everything about him and understand what is on his mind. You would be able to get any man and have an ideal relationship and you would hardly be reading this article right now in search of a solution to your problem.
And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you will not read other people's thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.
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You’ve almost gotten used to the fact that the office is the place where you spend your weekdays from nine to six, dodging boss orders or talking about bonuses with subordinates. But then She appears, and now you spend your workdays not only on updating your friend feed and reading spam, but also admiring her girlish back of the head.The Bro's Code does not recommend "throwing romantic tinsel with a work colleague." The exceptions are cases when a colleague dresses provocatively, she or you will soon be fired, a colleague herself has a crush on you and you are higher in position. This is important because we are not going to clean up the mess that you make by starting an affair with your boss. And if all other exceptions coincide, we are ready to develop with you a strategy for an ideal office romance.
Not that
Should I confess to her?
NO! Are you almost ready to reveal your tender feelings? Exhale and read this very carefully: don't. Nod if you get it. And remember forever: never make confessions to a girl you are not officially dating. Especially if further communication between you is inevitable. You can boldly open up if tomorrow you are sent to Australia for life or if she leaves for seven years on a humanitarian mission in the Congo. If both of you still have to collaborate within the walls of the office, shut up. “Maybe it sounds strange, but I wanted to say ...” - but it really sounds strange. Especially if you have been working together not so long ago and the girl did not even know about your sympathy. Worst of all, she thinks you've decided to go straight to stage two and save money on the first three dates. Sorry, but it looks like this.
Should you ask her out on a date?
Do not even think! This is the same confession, only without words. When a girl refuses you in a bar or on the street, you just move on. When a colleague refuses you, the situation is awkward. You have so many ways to subtly show your sympathy and help the poor girl get used to the idea that you have a crush on her. And you make her blush and ruin her short lunch break with your indistinct "maybe, let's go somewhere."
Save the invitations until the moment when at least joint trips to lunch will become a pleasant tradition for both of you. Of course, there is a chance that the girl will agree to a meeting, and even with joy. But it's not for us to tell you that dates don't always go according to plan, and people outside their workplace can look and behave in completely unexpected ways (you yourself are). If so, returning to work will be stressful for both of you. Why not
Should I give her a valentine?
YES! But only without passionate confessions and provocative selfie-photos inside. If you own Photoshop, design some funny postcards for several employees you are friends with. So you will delight the girls and not provoke gossip if you give a "valentine" to only one colleague. Giving a candid but anonymous postcard is not a good idea. The young lady may not suspect you at all and start falling in love not according to your plan.
In places
Top 5 places to flirt in the office
1. Kitchen.
A joint lunch with a colleague you like is the best thing that can happen to you in the office. At lunchtime, employees forget about conflicts between departments, unsubmitted reports and paper chewed in the printer. You’ll be the loser of the year if you miss the opportunity to learn more about your new acquaintance and to please her at the same time. The ideal way to win over a girl to you is to make her smile. A good joke is the best way to attract attention, and when we laugh, the easiest way is to make eye contact. If you are not alone, it will only play into your hands. The girl will see that you are popular with other employees, and this will add points to you. Besides, you can treat the girl with cookies for tea, which is romantic.
3. Meeting room.
In the matter of seduction, use every opportunity, and not just a break from work. Even the work process itself will play into your hands if you are a professional.
Girls love tough guys, so prove yourself as a valuable employee in front of your sweetheart. Give a report, a creative proposal, an innovation, and after the meeting, ask the girl personally if she approves of your ideas.
4. Workplace.
Don't get lost if your tables are next to each other. You always have a reason to strike up a conversation at work. You can also brighten up a long day of your colleague with a funny story, a chocolate bar from a vending machine, or a video of a cat playing the ukulele. But don't get carried away. Overdo it, and from a nice guy you will turn into an obsessive idiot who disrupts the work process.
How to get a girl's attention at work
Dress properly
Even if you don't have a dress code, go to work in a shirt and trousers. Not in a formal suit with a snow-white shirt and tie, of course. But still fit the image of a valuable specialist, not the guy next door. You're lucky if you wear glasses: they make your face smarter. Just go for a stylish frame like David Gandhi's Dolce & Gabbana ad. The guy with the brains from the guy with the cockroaches is separated by one unfashionable bow. Place items on the table to attract attention - nuts, marmalade and chocolates, which you can always treat yourself to; a couple of strange and bright gadgets (but not steel balls "Newton's Cradle"); a volume of classics with a bookmark towards the end. Photos of younger relatives (strictly preschool age) and pets will lead her to think that you are cute and kind.
Have all kinds of stationery close at hand
This is especially important when you are sitting nearby. Arm yourself with everything a colleague might need: a stapler and paper clips, stickers, pins, tape, glue stick, file folders, headphones, flash drives ... You never know exactly what a woman wants, but you always need to be ready. Don't question her ability, knowledge and professionalism Yes, she really may not be able to use Photoshop or confuse a scanner with a copier. But since you are planning to seduce this particular fool, do not laugh at her, even if she does it herself. And of course, no condescending tone when it comes to serious work issues. Discuss current problems with her, ask for advice at meetings. The girl is unlikely to take you seriously if you don't do the same.
Hello dear readers! The male boss undeniably attracts attention. He is strong, confident, successful. How not to fall in love with such a handsome man? But what to do when you want to achieve reciprocity? Today I want to talk with you about how to fall in love with your boss, what tricks you can use, how not to go too far, and what the danger of romance in the workplace can be.
Step by step
Falling in love with your boss is a well-known story. But it is extremely important to understand the differences in falling in love with the image of a strong and successful man and the real nascent love in your heart.
If you see any signs of interest from your boss, but are not sure of them, then I recommend that you read Steve Harvey's book " You don't know anything about men". In it you will find many secrets about the stronger sex.
The first step you should take is to sort out your feelings. You need to understand where this relationship will lead you, are you ready to share a house with this person, build a life, raise children. If you just think this might all work, but you don't feel confident, then I would not advise you to have an affair at work. After all, it may end badly for you.
Sure? Then we proceed to the next step. External appearance. I think you will not argue that men first of all pay attention to a beautiful wrapper. But in the office, this is much more difficult to do. You must adhere to the dress code.
Remember that revealing necklines, skirts that are too short, and bright makeup will look extremely inappropriate in the workplace, so you will only alienate your boss.
Don't forget that you are a subordinate. Take firm rules very seriously. Moreover, men like innuendo. The more clothes a woman has on, the more she wants to take off. Be neat, always keep an eye on not only your costume, but also your hair, manicure, and makeup. Don't forget about the magic power of heels.
You should remember that your job is to give your boss light hints. The same goes for flirting. I don't think you need to explain that open flirting is completely inappropriate at work. You can only lightly touch his hand when passing the papers. A mysterious smile and a soft look.
What is the danger
The first point is that your initiative may be fruitless if the boss is in a relationship with you. When he avoids you, behaves distantly and only in a businesslike manner, then it is better not to waste your energy, nerves and time.
The second point is he. Of course, you can lasso anyone. You can verify this in the article "". How often have you heard stories about a non-free boss and a subordinate that ended well? Just for the bed, variety. But he will not be ready to leave his wife if he is given a choice.
The third point is the difficulties of the novel at work. Let's say you fall in love with your boss and you start a relationship. You will have to work hard not to transfer personal problems to the office and vice versa. Once I witnessed a similar personal showdown in a bank between two employees. It looked terrible.
Of course, secret meetings, passion excites. But sooner or later it will end. Be ready.
How long have you been working with your boss? Have you given him any hints already? Does he show you signs of attention?
Be vigilant and confident in the future, then everything will definitely work out for you.
Good luck to you!