How to meet a man abroad. Real relationship - how to meet a foreigner

11.10.2019

Traveling is not only an adventure, but also a chance to meet the love of your life. To do this, you need to take the first step - to talk to a stranger.

Here are a few tricks that you can safely adopt:

Ask the guy you like take a picture of you against the backdrop of attractions. Tell her you accidentally forgot your selfie stick at home. At the same time, you will ask what else interesting you can see. If you feel that there is sympathy between you, then ask his contacts and ask him to conduct a mini-excursion, if he can.

Meet in a long line... The Parisian Louvre is famous not only for its masterpieces of painting, but also for the huge crowd at the entrance. Wink at the guy and honestly admit that you are bored to stand alone, for sure he will keep the conversation going.
Take an interest in traditions. Each country has its own little rituals. For example, the Greeks love to drink coffee, ask a nice waiter for help with choosing a frappe. Show curiosity about the culture of the country and ask non-standard questions.
Use Tinder. Or another dating app that works outside of your home country. A great option when the beach is empty and you really want to chat with someone.

Look around before departure ... Even if you didn't manage to make friends with the guy of your dreams on vacation, then you still have a chance to fall in love at first sight in the waiting room. Flights are often delayed, so why not talk about this with a bored Spaniard? :)

Good afternoon, website builders! Some kind of vicious circle, honestly.

I am 18 years old. I was looking over the options for leaving the country for the USA, leaving alone for a foreign country is not the best option, especially if you don't have a lot of money in your pocket ... So I thought that it would be easier with the person you love, and even with a visa it will become easier.

I decided to find a husband from the USA or England, but a contingent from 30 to almost 70 years old is sitting on dating sites ...

Where are my peers? Those who are between 20 and 30? They build a career, study, work, but they are not looking for a Russian wife in any way, in their homeland they have enough of their girls. There are a small percentage of my peers, but usually sex tourists who chase sex without continuing.

My situation is aggravated by the fact that I do not know English at all.

And wherever you look on forums and websites, everywhere women from 35 to 55 are looking for a husband. Their age qualification is the same, everything seems to be perfect. So happy stories of foreign marriage appear on the sites, but for some reason I have not seen a single story where a girl of about 20 years old and a little higher acts as a bride.

Am I worse than more mature women? If you think logically - then no, the younger the better, the stereotypes. But practice shows the opposite!

I'm not talking about family right away, children, of course not. It is enough just to get married, go to school, make a career together, and when the time comes, we will even have children. But give the Americans at once and children, a little older, so that the cross is fat in the career and for me such a good prayer, sitting at home.

It's not my fault that I was born in Russia, a country without opportunities. I live in Nizhny Novgorod, as you know the city of a million, but no prospects. This GAZ plant is like a thorn in the eye of the whole city. Because of him, there are no normal educational institutions in the city, after a miserable university in my city, one can only go to this plant, which has meager salaries.

In no case do I plan a marriage of convenience, if a person does not attract me to marry for the sake of the coveted green card, I will not go, but still young Americans choose their compatriots. And then after 10 years they come to dating sites in the hope of finding a new love when they divorced their wife. Is that where you have been for 10 years? Maybe everything would not be tragic. It was always this American snobbery, or youthful maximalism that killed a foreign girl as a wife - neither.

I do not deny that if I meet in Russia someone I love, I can get married. But again, this must be an ambitious young man, and local men dream of moving to Moscow, and by no means to their own apartment in the center, but to a small apartment in Lyubertsy.

So it remains to wait for their 30 years, having been married to a Russian drunk, having given birth to a couple of children and again going out in search of a foreign husband. Well, I'll find him in 3 years, so what? A career to make is not the same age, well, will I move to America? So what? Youth is irretrievably lost, I will sit and knit in the company of local Russian emigrants.

Rita, letter to the editor of the site site

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Rita, hello! Let's disassemble your letter in order and in separate blocks.

1. You are looking for the same age as your husband.

But think about what a young man wants at 18-20 years old? He wants to live, enjoy life, meet girls, travel, some - to study and find a decent job.

Specifically in matters of relationships, guys at your age, including in Russia, are tuned in to a fleeting, non-binding romance (if not to say an affair) with a pretty girl. Why do you expect the American guys to be different?

Yes, I do not argue, there are young guys who are happily married at that age. But think, he did not go out into the street (went to a cafe or to a dating site) purposefully in search of a wife? Most often, he accidentally met a pretty girl, fell in love and decided to marry. But he most often did not seek this marriage. It is difficult to find a 20-year-old promising "family-oriented" copy for husbands in our country, not only abroad. Therefore, if your peers are sitting on dating sites, then they are most often sex tourists or simply lovers of new short-term online sensations.

2. You are looking for not just a peer, but an American peer.

Western men are generally more afraid of responsibility than ours, and even more so at this age. Although "fear" is not entirely true. Correctly say, they understand the full extent of responsibility for the family. Therefore, in such a young age, the groom you are looking for is logical, aimed at himself and tries to squeeze the maximum out of life. The other day he graduated from college, even if he found a job, he is still not firmly on his feet, does not have a stable income and housing. He does not have the opportunity to support his family, and even more so - a wife from another country (read on our forum about how much it costs to bring a foreign wife to the country, and the girl may be denied a visa). At the moment, his goal is to climb the career ladder and lay the foundation for his own material well-being.

You often observe the opposite situation in our country. They marry, get married, give birth to children early in our country (girls are especially striking, who at the age of 20 think that they have sat up in girls). Plus, ignorance and carelessness in matters of protection, due to which children (I can’t call them in another way) become hostages of the situation, become mothers and fathers, without a penny in their bosom. It's just that they are always sure that the parents will support the young family - both financially and in terms of housing, and they will nurse their grandchildren.

This is rare in the West. Your foreign mother-in-law (and there will be only her, because your mother will not be around) is unlikely to limit her life to a diaper baby. And even if you have a well-paid job, you will stay at home and raise your child. And a young dad should receive such an income to support a family of 3 people. And your alleged foreign fiance understands this and is not looking for a wife at that age.

I, too, have not heard (I hope so far) happy stories about the marriage of our 20-year-old girl to a 25-year-old American. Because foreign men (for the most part) start looking for a wife no earlier than at 35, and, of course, they are unlikely to indicate in the questionnaire that they are looking for an 18-year-old. If this is a man who really came to the site deliberately and with serious intentions, then he will fill out his questionnaire judiciously.

3. You do not know the language and have no education.

Are you only 18? Well, that's great. You have time to learn the language. I think you should be aware that without basic knowledge of the language it will be very difficult for you to communicate with the groom, and even more so to charm him.

Yes, there are cases where a woman with basic knowledge of the language has already received a marriage proposal from a foreign man. There are some on our forum. BUT ... this is an exception rather than a common situation. And most often this speaks, in my opinion, either about strong female luck, or about the fact that she has amazing character traits, a sense of humor, etc. (which a man notices even when communicating through an electronic translator).

Often foreign men choose successful women. If you are already thinking about marrying a foreigner, this is good. You have the opportunity to get the profession that is in demand in England or the USA, to learn about the cultural, everyday nuances of living in the country you like, since there is a lot of such information on the Internet today.

Think about this option, how to go to study in the USA or at least visit a language school on summer holidays. Read it - she decided to tighten her tongue and left for the summer holidays, then stayed to study and live in New Zealand. Maybe during your studies you will find your soul mate…. A good way out, though only for those girls who can be sponsored by their parents.

Also a great option for a young girl is to go to university, and after the first year go to the USA under the Work and Travel program. Being on American soil for 3 months or more, there is a very high chance of finding a foreign gentleman, both among Americans and among Russian emigrants. But again, we strongly advise you to have at least a basic level of English. You can also go to England to do agricultural work (picking strawberries, etc.)

Yes, these are not easy ways, but for a better life you need to fight and make efforts. ANY Russian wife of an American or an Englishman will tell you that.

19 November 2012

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15 comments to “ How to meet a young American guy?”

Marina:
That's right, Rita, - at home, there are plenty of young guys and their girls, and they go to the site to look for a girl from Russia, when no one will look their way in their direction. Of the young, of course. And why is a 55-year-old grandfather of the same age? So he goes to a foreign site and is looking for a young fool from Russia, who is ready for anything, just to get out of the hated homeland, even to a man suitable for her as a dad. Young, wealthy and mentally healthy foreigners are looking for a woman in their environment, and not in Russia.
Kate:
the letter from Rita is written very arrogantly and arrogantly. The answer from the site administration, I would say, is sooooo soft and correct. And correct.
I hope Rita will understand and take note of it.

here women with a good education and knowledge of the language have been sitting on sites for years. And Rita wants to sit on the foreigner's neck so that he will pay for her studies as well ...
In my opinion, this is a possible option, but only if the foreigner is many years older and is looking for a young one 🙁
Tanja:
And if a girl travels abroad under the Au pair program / childcare with a family residence /, live like this in the country of interest to her for two years, at the same time learn the language and orientate herself on the terrain? Many even married local men.
Or, as an alternative, to look for Rita abroad for a husband 20-25 years older than himself, so that he would have the financial opportunity to support her and pay for Ritino's complete education in everything.
Anastasia:
agree with all commentators! First, learn the language, build your career (you can go abroad), and generally find yourself, and then look for your husband ...
Besides, young men marry only for great love, and high-quality young men on marriage sites are an exception altogether! You come across them by chance in real life ... you need to geographically move to their habitats, and not search on sites full of elderly sex tourists)
And again, do not forget about your own realization as a person. Otherwise, you can become boring for a young husband, you know 😀
Vika:
The normal desire of any average static resident of Russia who wants to survive at someone else's expense is to marry an American :) why not an African or an Arab;) laughter and only there are a thousand of you per young American, what can you offer in return to a young American, there is no education , you don’t know the language, you don’t even have a job, in your case either work & travel, or an old man American or English, they like young girls;)
Iren:
Alex! Are you responsible for all Americans and Europeans?

😀 You can immediately see your low iq and secondly, although if a low iq is quite an expected reaction ..

Regarding a man, in particular, normal Americans, he does not NEED a PARTNER, they conclude contracts with a partner at work, spend time, and a woman, gentle, adequate, and not a peasant, they call a chicken a complete careerist, with whom, besides the fact that she I'm tired of talking about nothing .. The man will outwardly like that she somehow helps him, but in his heart he will quietly despise her, for behaving like a man! and when a real, "not wrapped up work" appears, namely a real, feminine person, he will run over to her, that's where his eyes will light up ..

With partners dear (dear) Alex, they conclude deals, contracts, work together, but do not live in any way .. They live with a woman, if they did not know And what you want to show here, like so everywhere in Europe, you are grossly mistaken! Neither time nor fashion will ever change the obvious: a woman and a man are different, and if she becomes a partner (the word is what, the partner is usually called in business), he will soon run away, or change, why does he need a second man.

There are so many articles on this topic written, "the dog has already been eaten" by many women on this, an adequate man will never like the second one, "a man in a skirt." This is how much you need to be without convolutions, or without female traditional wisdom, in order to poke a man's nose that he is like my partner, like earn with me, friend, on an equal footing and I will respect you 😀 you are the same only in a skirt. No normal man , self-respecting will not understand this., if any squishy.

A man is a man, but he is a man! firstly, nature made him stronger, 2. a woman should be versatile, and not a chicken - a hen in the office that creates the appearance of work, you need to read not only women's magazines, which most in offices do - this creates the appearance of work, but really They don't do anything, they get paid, laugh. 😀 if you really read - literature, go to museums, visit exhibitions, not only business exhibitions where people get drunk, such as an exhibition from work, saw-saw, concerts, theaters, there is a lot of things than to wipe the g-point from morning to evening the same thing, downshifting has appeared, I'm tired of hanging around in offices and creating vigorous activity, you can kill yourself 😀

a woman who takes care of the house has more time for herself, for children, for self-education, with her, as a rule, there is something to talk about, besides soups, the technique has become simple, there is time for herself and her family, you can still work, but she - a woman, not a workhorse, who is always tired, does not inspire her husband at all, the emptiness in her head is complete, a typical office plankton. 😉

you can chat whatever you want there a partner, a businesswoman, a business woman, equal to a man, only from a change of places of terms the amount does not change ... a man will always look at a woman as a partner, capable of supporting him, as long as the masculine is alive, thank God, he is in able to make money, but as a woman, the keeper of the home, the mother of his children, who tries to put it differently, is simply cunning or does not have sufficient opportunities to take care of the woman. That's when partners come into play 😀 😀 😀
Tanja:
the real option for Rita is to google the Au Pair program for girls under 30 living in a family with children and wanting to learn a foreign language. Of course, families sometimes come across not very pleasant, but a person must clearly learn their rights and obligations and not allow themselves to be detained for free after the standard 16 hours stipulated in the contract, as well as to perform duties without payment more than sitting with children during the hours established by law and making breakfast and lunch just for the kids.
And in the evenings and on weekends the Au Pair can do and go wherever she wants. A huge number of working parents are looking for such childcare assistants during working hours and a visa, at least before, was given to girls through Au Pair agencies right away.
TOSYA:
Correctly wrote that at her 18 years old, a groom of her age up to 25 years old, she will not find, so you need to look for other ways to leave the country, the best option, go to study, and a year later go on a student program for summer vacations to work in the USA ... and on the spot already look for ways to stay there.
Lyudmila:
The girls, I personally know one American "eager for Slavs", worked together in Ukraine for 3 years. Now he has gone home to America. We had no romance, although he really wanted it 🙂 But he is several years younger than me, he is now 25. For me, a relationship with a man who is younger than me is an unconditional taboo. The guy is not a handsome man, but not a freak either ... Clever. Reasonable. Very sympathetic and understanding. Generous, he sends presents / money himself, no requests. And she is just madly dreaming of a bride from Ukraine !!! Only now he does not want to have children of his own, according to him (quote), hates ugly pregnant bellies, children's screams, snot, when the whole house is in shit and other children's attributes (end of quote). Therefore, a woman with a child at least 7 years old would be quite satisfied with him, he simply adored my schoolboy son. Likewise, I would not refuse a naive girl of about 18 years old. If anyone is interested in such an instance, please skip the line :))
Ninel:
I have a question for the author. The girl writes that she does not know English. She is 18 years old, she graduated from school not so long ago. But she studied some language at school? Maybe German or French? Anyway, there are basics. And it will be easier to learn the language deeper. I would recommend looking for a "prince" who speaks one of these languages. The countries where these languages \u200b\u200bare spoken are wonderful.
Anastasia:
Lyudmila, are other people's children obligatory for this American? Or is it possible without children at all?
Lyudmila:
Anastasia, other people's children are not obligatory for that American, but she says that she would not mind. He has a "point" - he says that if he sees his future wife with a belly, he will never be able to have sex with her again. In addition, he is annoyed by loud noises (especially the cry of a baby) and the smell of cute baby feces. I think this is the result of what he experienced in childhood - he is the eldest child in a large family, taking care of the kids was always on him, while the parents endlessly sorted out their relationship. But since even at the age of 25 he already understands that someday he will become old and weak and will require care himself, it is advisable for him to meet a woman with a "ready" child, who will save him from the need to contemplate diapers, but will be a good investment in the distant future. All my words are just a word-for-word transmission of his statements made in our personal communication. And he also says that he is not alone - many of his friends in New York have similar desires and are planning (or have already passed) voluntary sterilization. So be careful with these young Americans. Unless, of course, you share their opinion. As for the rest, he is a very good guy ... By the way, a couple of years ago I corresponded for almost a year with one 28-year-old American, they were going to meet, even the date of his arrival was determined ... And then he confessed that he had already performed a similar operation, his friend is a doctor he arranged everything out of pull, so children are a taboo topic for him, he simply cannot stand them. In general, as always - when you communicate with a foreigner, some weirdness will surely emerge ... I have already been in four serious relationships with foreigners, so I know a couple of stories :)) And they all deserve to be filmed - in the genre of horror, drama and comedy films at the same time ...
Second .. young guys from 19 to 27 years old wrote .. almost everyone wrote about parties, discussed sports, study, work (many had really hard), many (19-23 years old) have never traveled anywhere themselves (with family yes, not yet). some served in the army. The guys are discussing the future .. but they are not ready for marriage - it is too early for their mentality. (it is easier for the Swedes to get married at an early age).
now the whole situation .. the young guy simply WON'T FINANCELY ALL the wedding chores. the fact is that in the USA "children" from the age of 17 begin an independent life, and not all of them begin with a car and a penthouse. they work on a rough job, study, earn their first home loans, and most importantly they BECOME MEN .. psychologically. they learn to be responsible for their girlfriend and future family.
so .. want to America or England .. settle for a 30 year old young man. and heed the advice about study and work .. but there you need start-up capital (for visa and tickets and money for living there) .. BIGGEST GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
Valentina:
In general, I never agree with the comments of many women! I am 22 years old, and I found a young American, he is 24, and yes, he is thinking about getting married, imagine !!! I myself am not stupid, I graduate from university, I do not know English very well, but we can understand each other. Here, most likely, the factor is lucky - no luck! Good luck in finding!

Getting to know a serious man to create a family is the dream of every single girl. This article will tell you where to meet a suitable man and how to make an acquaintance with him.

Even the most independent, self-sufficient, proud and unapproachable woman secretly dreams of meeting her prince. But with one condition: the prince, as they say, must match
It's not so easy to meet your betrothed, because every now and then uninteresting unattractive males come across on the way
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Attend shops with elite men's clothing and accessories. Carefully consider the product, pretend that you cannot make the right choice. Maybe a man by your side will help you pick up a "gift for the boss."

IMPORTANT: Do not linger at the shelves with underwear. Men may think that you are choosing things for your boyfriend.

If a man needs your advice, do not hesitate and be involved. Express your opinion, ask what he liked.

Take a look at favorite supermarket - to the department of semi-finished products and ready-made food... Usually, this is where bachelors buy food for dinner. True, their seriousness can hardly be judged by the contents of the basket. But you can easily strike up a casual conversation by advising a man on a culinary product.

The right man can be found in the supermarket.

"Accidental" acquaintance with a good man can happen in the car dealership, but on condition that you can attract attention
Men visit car dealerships with certain thoughts, so it will not be easy to get them interested in these minutes.
Intelligent educated men will meet at exhibitions, athletes - in gyms. If you dream of meeting a musician - go shopping for musical instruments, visit classical music concerts

On which site to meet a man for a serious relationship?

Girls who prefer to communicate on the Web and hope to meet the man of their dreams there are simply obliged to create accounts on such sites:

Teamo.ru - a site where you can not only meet a man, but also take a partner compatibility test
Flirchi.ru - social dating network
FROM MS.ru - mobile dating site, convenient for smartphone owners
24open.ru - online dating 24 hours a day
Photocountry - dating site with a huge user base
Dating.ru - one of the oldest dating sites
LovePlanet.ru - a site with the ability to communicate in video chat
Vamba.com - free dating site for users of all European countries
Badoo.com - a site with a multi-million dollar database
eDarling - a site only for serious acquaintances with the aim of developing relationships and creating a family. Flirting and looking for relationships "on the side" on the site is not allowed
IdealPareja.com - dating with foreigners

Dating sites have brought together a lot of single men and women

IMPORTANT: If you are registering on a dating site to find a man who has serious intentions, do not post your candid, frivolous photos. It is better to post a few good quality pictures in which you openly smile and are in nature.

Dating sites for serious relationships

It is better to immediately start looking for a soul mate on special sites where single people register in order to choose their future spouse. These sites include LovePlanet.ru and eDarling
However, it is not a fact that registration even on the most serious site will bring you success. Not at all. If personal information is submitted incorrectly, men simply will not be able to understand you.
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You can meet a serious man for free anywhere:
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take a closer look to work colleagues... Here you will have the opportunity to preliminarily observe "from the outside" the behavior of the chosen one and study his biography
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airport Is a great place to meet. Men who fly on airplanes are unlikely to drink beer in garages or sit in front of the TV day and night.

You can meet a serious man online.

IMPORTANT: Wherever your acquaintance takes place, the main thing is to smile. Look the man in the eye, show interest, support him in the conversation. Be open to communication, then your happiness will rush to meet you.

How to understand that a man is serious? Signs of a Serious Man

Wasting your time on love that will not lead you further than bed is stupid. You can distinguish a man who is determined to continue a relationship by the following signs:

he tells you about his feelings
plans a joint vacation, travel, entertainment
does not hide from you how much he earns
talks about his childhood, shows children's photos
introduced to my friends and relatives
during the working day, he always finds time to call or write to you
takes care of your health
consults with you
interested in your life, interests and work

IMPORTANT: If a man does not show special care, does not take into account your interests, appears and disappears when it is convenient for him - try to get away from this relationship. It will not be possible to change or re-educate such a person.

The last piece of advice that I would like to give to women in the status of "Active search": when you finally meet a man suitable for you, do not rush things
Enjoy every stage of your relationship, enjoy new dates, joint walks and travel, while listening to your own intuition
If you feel good and comfortable next to this man, you do not have a feeling of unreasonable anxiety, you want to spend all your free time with him - boldly step forward to a brighter future

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How do you find the perfect relationship partner?

To meet the man of her dreams, the girl must decide for herself what qualities he will possess. This information can be written in general terms on paper and periodically added or deleted something. Performing the exercise, it is advisable to discard all stereotypes imposed by society, try to understand your desires, and identify the requirements for a potential partner.

After the girl has determined what kind of man she needs, she should proceed to the next step - the search. You can meet your soul mate in any, even the most unexpected place, for example, in public transport. The main thing is to be always ready for this, be in a good mood and smile more often.

At the first stages of a relationship, people perceive their partner as ideal, which is explained by an increase in the level of hormones in the blood - dopamine, serotonin, adrenaline, oxytocin, endorphins. Over time, their concentration decreases, and the shortcomings of a loved one become noticeable, and all the advantages fade into the background. Therefore, when meeting you, you need to get to know the person better so that you get an impression about him that is closest to reality.

How to meet a girl

Dating in real life

You can meet a single man almost everywhere. They also walk the streets to the supermarkets for groceries. Many girls have enviable bachelors nearby, namely at work, especially in the offices of large companies, central banks.

If a woman is interested in men who have goals set for success, then they should be looked for in such places:

Faced with your dream, the main thing is not to miss the chance. The easiest option is to ask a question such as “What time is it? "," Where is the street, house, office, etc. located? "

Another way to start an acquaintance is to imitate a fall, to "twist" your leg. Men want to feel like heroes, saviors and will definitely come to the aid of a lady.

In films, they often show how a girl walks with an armful of important papers and as if accidentally bumps into a guy, scattering documents. He immediately begins to help her collect them. This method works in real life as well.

For the most risky girls, this method is possible - come up and directly say “Hi, I like you. Let's have a cup of coffee. " Some men are impressed by initiative.

The old classic method is to catch his eye, hold it for 7 seconds, smile, look away. He will perceive it as a green light.

How to find a man

Dating websites

Dating sites are a place where quite a large number of people under the age of 45 communicate. For some reason, many women are afraid of virtual communication or believe that it is impossible to find a worthy partner in this way. Although, according to statistics, many couples met on the Internet.

After 40, it is much easier to build a serious relationship than at 25. Men have already had a bad experience and want love and comfort. It is advisable to make as many acquaintances as possible at first, so the chances will increase, and not to postpone a personal meeting. On dates, it is important not to be afraid to look a man in the eye, this will speak of openness and readiness for a relationship. For the first date, it is better to choose a park or a promenade. If the interlocutor does not like it, there will be an opportunity to leave.

In addition to dating sites, there are also ballroom dancing clubs where you can find a companion of any age, up to 55 years old. In the summer, such events are held in public places, parks.

At 50, a life partner can be found through a marriage agency. The selection of a partner will be carried out by specially trained people. The downside is the high price for services and the fact that in the end a man may turn out to be unsuitable.

In order to get to know a single person after 60 years, you should visit various sanatoriums. It can also be found on social networks, in parks, on embankments, in museums, in the warm season - on local beaches, in small seaside towns.

If a girl has a disability and wants to meet a disabled person, then she should use the Internet, where there are many special sites and communities. You can make an acquaintance in various rehabilitation centers, hospitals, clinics. This type of dating may be of interest to women with children. They get to know each other through humanitarian or medical assistance or through volunteer work.

How to find a girl

Reasons for failure

If you can't meet a soul mate, or if all dates are unsuccessful, the reasons may be:

Excessive requirements for a partner. The girl overestimates herself and underestimates the guy, not wanting to accept other people's shortcomings.
High demands of a woman and lack of partners that match them. Some ladies want to start a relationship with a wealthy person. However, you should know that such a man will be constantly busy, often travel on business trips, and take little part in raising children. It is unlikely that he can make the girl happy.
Low self-esteem. Psychologists advise to love yourself and gain self-confidence. It is worth staying open and communicative. Men like confident girls who can be approached and started a conversation.
Heightened self-esteem. If a girl considers herself unapproachable, the guys will be afraid to approach her because of the high probability of rejection. They are not alien to experiences at the moment when they want to get to know each other. Men hesitate for a very long time before taking the first step.
Independence. This behavior of the girl repels the strong half. In the era of emancipation, it became more difficult for men to prove their strength, to be heroes, and they need it.

Negative beliefs and attitudes also interfere with acquaintance. If the thought constantly flashes in my head that all men are womanizers, traitors, cheaters, then on a subconscious level the girl attracts such people into her life. To get rid of all negative attitudes, they should be written down on paper. They are replaced with positive beliefs:

"There are only losers around me" to "There are only successful and courteous men around me."
"All Good Guys Are Married" - "I'm surrounded by worthy bachelors who crave my attention."
"All they want is sex" "The guys around me are focused on building a strong family."
"I am surrounded by stingy guys" - "Men give me expensive gifts."

To meet a good man, you need to be sure that there are worthy partners around the girl. After the beliefs are formed, you should fix them in the subconscious, repeating them for 2 months.

Common mistakes

The most common mistake women make is to talk a lot about themselves, talk about their biography, unsuccessful relationships. There is a high probability of not seeing a new acquaintance again. It is advisable not to discuss personal experiences at the first stages.

The next thing that scares men off is when a girl declares on the first date that she wants to get married and have three children.

The mistake women make at any age is to share past experiences on a date. It will be unpleasant for him that exes are being discussed with him. You need to leave the past and live in the present, taking a step towards a new relationship.

Possible, but in this case, the girl may seem easily accessible. If a guy is only interested in the intimate side of a relationship, it will still not work to tie him to yourself. And a man who wants to continue communication will continue it after sex on the first date.

For those girls who want to get to know a guy better, but do not know when to move to a new level of relationship, there is a rule of 5 dates. After the 5th, you can agree to sex.

Men are not interested in talking about all sorts of feminine things (fashion trends in manicure, make-up, etc.), and discussions about science and philosophy are also not attractive. Therefore, it is worth choosing some neutral areas or asking about him, about his goals in life, hobbies. Having identified a topic related to common interests, it is worth developing it further.

A common mistake women make is trying to look younger. When a 50-year-old man goes on a date with a 40-45 year old lady, he expects to see an adult, wise woman. He'd be disappointed if she came in in a miniskirt, a short teenage top with drawings and hot pink lipstick.

The mistake of women with children when meeting a potential husband is not to talk to the last about their child, or, conversely, to come with him on the first date. You can't put pressure on a man. When creating a profile on a dating site in the column about yourself, you should indicate the presence of children, this will help weed out unsuitable partners. It should be explained to the man that the woman will take care of the child herself, and he does not have to become a second dad, but if he wants to help, she will be grateful to him.

Acquaintance with a foreigner

The easiest way to meet foreigners is to register on a dating site. In the information about yourself, you should indicate the purpose of the acquaintance, for example, "I want to meet an interesting man 35-40 years old." Information should be indicated in a foreign language and in no case should you write about marriage and children. It is advisable to pre-tighten your level of English, since it is international. Later, depending on which country the young man is from, it is worth setting aside time to study his native language.

The next step is to add photos. They must be of high quality and beautiful. Selfies with nice makeup will do. It is worth doing a good photo shoot. Even if the girl does not have model data, a professional photographer will help you choose the most advantageous angles.

If a woman wants to attract the attention of a foreigner, then she must answer immediately. Such men write simultaneously to several candidates in their hearts. The sooner a conversation starts, the sooner he will understand whether the lady is interesting to him, whether he wants to continue communication. You can send him new photos. The guy will be very pleased to receive photos taken only for him, which other men will not see.

After exchanging messages, you should go to video communication. This will allow you to get closer to the interlocutor and increase the level of knowledge of the language. It is also a good way to make sure the photos are real.

If he wants to come, it is not recommended to host him at home, at least for security reasons. Also, don't stay overnight in his hotel room. First, you should make sure that the chosen one is not married. You need to enjoy communication, create a relaxed dialogue.

Men from different countries

Before getting to know a foreigner, you should find out the peculiarities of the culture of the country where he comes from.

Norse

The guys from Norway are usually tall blondes with light eyes. Norwegians are very romantic people. In this country, it is customary to marry after 30-35 years old, when a man is ready to provide for his family. For him, the nationality of the chosen one is not important, the main thing is that she loves him, be sincere, gentle and caring. They love children, so girls with a child who want to start a family should pay attention to the Scandinavians.

Many inhabitants of the peninsula love spending time in nature and fishing. When meeting, it is worth noting that the girl wanted to go fishing with her beloved, climb the mountains or spend time by the lake.

Guys from Montenegro

Representatives of the stronger sex from Montenegro are long-livers. If a woman after 50-60 years old wants to find an active man, he should be looked for in Montenegro. Montenegrins are very jealous and demanding. Therefore, when meeting, you need to be prepared for the fact that you will have to give up friendship and communication with other men. If, when meeting, a girl is called for coffee, this means an offer of sex. Such guys do not give gifts and flowers, but will buy the most expensive wine and cheese, pay for travel and entertainment. In clothes, choose a discreet style.