It is very heavy on the heart,
A lump comes up to the throat.
I still do not know exactly,
In what I will find myself and in whom.

How can I forget everything
What connected us so ...
Apparently our term has expired
I just want now

Wish you good luck
And find your love
To know true happiness
So that there was no need for owls.

Please don't think that I was lying
That it was not serious.
As I could, in my heart I protected
You don't need these false thoughts,

What he didn't like when he wrote
That you are dearer than anyone in the world ...
And he didn't like when he dreamed
About the meeting, so that it was longer.

And I didn't want you when my eyes
Drowned in tar of the eyes opposite ...
I let go of all the brakes
To give you what you ask for.

Forgive me for everything, for every tear, for every quarrel. We are parting and it will be right. I will remember you, I will smile, pronouncing your name, but our love has dried up, we can no longer be together. I wish you to be happy. Goodbye.

How can I convey my sadness?
How to quench the sadness of separation?
After all, the trembling of your body,
They still remember my hands.

And there is no end to parting
Well, where can I be patient?
Without seeing your face
I am exhausted.

I did not think that we once
We will part with you like that
To stand by love at sunset
Take it back and not try.

But how could it have happened
That you have lost your happiness?
I seem to be dreaming of all this ...
What a pity that we have become strangers.

But your new dawn will come
And it will color your life brightly,
I wish you, so be it
May it never go out.

Everyone says separation is torment.
And it would be better if there were no partings.
But sometimes separation is a science
How to avoid much worse anguish.

Love is gone. And we stayed with you.
And we look at each other with bitterness.
In their hearts, they parted long ago.
And the lips whisper softly: "Go away ..."

Forgive me, my dear,
We part at this moment.
I loved you without edge
There is a glacier in my soul.

And love is very tired
We lost it.
Everything will pass, my dear ray
You will meet your happiness.

Darling, forgive me.
Yes, I know it was all in vain.
A terrible mistake made
Enrages, even a smile.

It's time for us to part,
Forget that there was a road.
Love yourself and be happy
Others will love you so much.

Darling, what is left for me,
Suffer, sad or forget?
We parted in a strange way,
I continue to love you.

There is a heaviness on the heart, everything is already squeezed,
Your voice, a look is necessary.
We parted, didn't it seem to me?
I cannot introduce you to another.

I didn't change the way you wanted
I can't break myself for some reason,
You wanted - the best way, to help me, and to do
The best and smartest, and give
I love - and a warm piece of the sun,
Because you are the best, always and in everything,
Well, I continue to be a capricious child.
I don’t need all your comments,
Forgive me, I - I cannot change
I don’t want to, I don’t want to, and I can’t.
I'm so sorry that I keep getting so mad
That I am a weakling, and I tell you:
I want you happiness, and pure love,
So that you get everything you wanted
Forgive me, and please don't cry
But you know this is the right thing to do!

I said everything, you said everything
Holding a burgundy shawl in my hands ...
It hurt unbearably
Although the story is familiar ...

How to leave, how to leave everything?
How to forget everything and continue to live?
But life will put everything in its place.
And we will have to sail further ...

Without straying too far from the topic I started in the last article, "", which talked about how to write an apology letter from a girl to a guy, now we will look at how to write an apology letter from a guy to a girl.

From time to time, misunderstandings arise in any relationship. These can be small disagreements, disagreements and, of course, quarrels and, which develop into difficult clashes. Situations like this tend to build up their energy for weeks or even months before exploding. Thus, the longer this accumulation lasts, the more powerful the explosion will be.

The worst result of such an "explosion" is the loss of trust. Therefore, it is best to resolve differences as early as possible, without waiting for the situation to deteriorate to such an extent that it gets completely out of control and it will be very difficult, and sometimes impossible, to save the situation.

If the last quarrel with a girl happened through your fault, you offended her, and a misunderstanding arose between you, but you do not want to lose her and part with her, the best way to maintain the relationship is to write an apology letter.

A quarrel very rarely occurs due to the fault of only one person. Usually both - both the man and the woman contribute to the deterioration of the relationship, and if you feel that even a small part of your guilt is still there - you need to apologize - this is what real men do.
Remember, an apology is not a humiliation, but a noble deed!
A written apology is beneficial because it allows you to calmly ponder every phrase and every word. This is very important if you really want to keep the relationship with your girlfriend. In addition, the letter will reveal the real cause of resentment and disagreement.

Before you start writing an apology letter to your girlfriend, you should understand that the main task that you face is to apologize, and not to make excuses or "sort out the relationship." If you are going to continue the "proceedings" only by transferring them to paper, it is better not even to start. Regardless of whether you are essentially right or wrong, it will only get worse. If your goal is to get your girlfriend back (or not to lose her), you must be accurate and honest when writing your letter.

How to write an apology letter to your girlfriend

You can conditionally divide your letter into two parts. The first will contain the apology itself, and the second can be dedicated to poetry or quotes.

Warning # 1... At this point, I need to explain something to dear men. Many representatives of the "stronger sex" consider it shameful and unacceptable for themselves to "stoop" to express romantic (and generally any) feelings. Naively believing that in this way they destroy the image of a cool macho they have created (as they think).

Must disappoint you, dear fellows. Women appreciate the moments when men genuinely express their feelings. Only they do not "lisp", but they express their feelings and show tenderness and romance. Why do you think the image of a noble knight was so popular in the Middle Ages, dedicating all his victories to a beautiful lady, and in between battles, writing romantic poems to her or singing serenades under her balcony?

The combination of masculinity and romance creates that very "explosive mixture" that is difficult for any woman to resist, and if you want to restore a relationship, your letter should express your feelings, which, perhaps, you have never spoken to your girlfriend out loud.

The volume of the letter can be anything, depending on what you want to say. Make sure it covers all the details and aspects that you want to cover. In some cases, a few paragraphs may be sufficient, and in others, a dozen pages may not be enough. But again, this will all depend on how sincere and honest you are and how you feel about your apology.

Now, look at the main points to include in an apology letter to your girlfriend.

I will use this definition as "item", don't be confused by that. Just do not try to number these "points" in the letter, it's just that I somehow had to designate the semantic section of the letter, so I called such an imaginary section "paragraph".

• One point should be related to the events that, in fact, made you write the letter.
• The letter should also include a paragraph in which you say why you decided to write the letter (your feelings for the girl - you miss her, etc.)
• You also need to especially dwell on what you are ready to do to make peace with her and how you see the development of your relationship in the future.
• You must end the letter with an honest, sincere apology and assurances of your love. The letter must be signed with your name. Many guys do not do this, but simply sign as on a receipt for payment for services (and make a very big mistake)
• Below your signature, you can write some kind of poem or quote about love. Where can I get all this? - You can find it on the Internet, but in such situations I always recommend writing on your own (I'm talking about poetry ... a quote, of course, you can take anywhere). It may not look professional, but the girl will understand that you were sincere, took the time and energy to express your feelings. She will certainly appreciate this gesture very highly.

Remember that according to your letter, the girl must understand and believe - you really are very sorry about what happened and that is what you want to say with your letter, and not something else. After reading your letter of apology, your girlfriend should get the impression that your relationship with her means a lot to you, and that you really love her. You can attach a small flower to the letter, a couple of rose petals, your joint photo, which captures one of the brightest moments of your relationship.

Warning # 2... You just read a paragraph that may have caused you questions or even a complete rejection - “What flowers? Which photos? I what? Girl? " I will not explain anything further now, because this can result in a lecture on psychology, but if you want to restore a relationship with a girl, do as I advise you, otherwise your chances of success are reduced by 100 times, no less!

An example of an apology letter from boyfriend to girlfriend

Here is a sample letter of apology from which you can draw inspiration to write your letter. If you blindly copy this text, and your girlfriend suddenly finds out that you took a letter from the Internet, then after such "apologies" you will get even more serious troubles than before. Therefore, use this example only as a guide for writing your personal letter.

Dear (Beloved) ________, we have not been doing well lately, and therefore I decided to write this letter. It is not always possible to convey in words or looking in the eyes to express your feelings and how much I love you.

I know that you are upset about what happened __________ (you can explain what you did, but don't make excuses), but I also want you to know how I feel.

You mean so much to me - more than the whole world, and it makes me very sad, ashamed and hard when you are in pain. I apologize for the mistakes I have made, I promise not to repeat them and do everything possible so that nothing like this will ever happen in the future.

I'm trying to get rid of those bad character traits that hurt you. You are the best girl in the world and it is very hard for me that I can lose you. For all the mistakes that I made, I have already paid with what is happening to me now. All this taught me to value your attitude towards me, and I will do my best to justify it and be for you exactly what you are for me - the best person in my life.

_______ (girl's name), I realized that I cannot afford to lose you because I love you very much. I am ready to meet with you when it is convenient for you and listen to everything that you deem it necessary to express to me.

_______ (girl's name), from the bottom of my heart I ask you to forgive and believe me.

(here you can insert a small verse, quote, photo)

I love you, (your name)

I repeat once again that the letter must be written by you. This is just an example. It's better to write by hand and it doesn't matter if your handwriting is beautiful or not. The girl must see that this letter is written "from the heart." Put a part of your soul into the letter and they will surely believe you.

FROM THE AUTHOR: My answers in the comments are the opinion of a private person and not a recommendation from a specialist. I try to answer everyone without exception, but unfortunately I physically do not have time to study long stories, analyze them, ask questions about them and then answer in detail, and I also do not have the opportunity to accompany your situations, because this requires a huge amount of free time, and I have very little of it.

In this regard, I very much ask you to ask specific questions on the topic of the article, do not try to use comments for correspondence or chat, and do not expect that I will advise in the comments.

Of course, you can ignore my request (which many do), but then be prepared for the fact that I will ignore yours. This is not a matter of principle, but exclusively of time and my physical capabilities. Don't be offended.

If you want to receive qualified assistance, please contact for advice, and I will devote my time and knowledge to you with full dedication.

Best regards and hope for your understanding, Frederica

This time will not forgive us
Will not forgive us the years gone by
I assure you it will take revenge
That love is out of fashion now.
It'll just drown me
That time is wasted
Will not even have mercy on you
And you will be paid for everything.
You just let him go
It's much cooler to hate now
But she herself always told me
That he is not able to offend someone ...
You gave love to someone
This someone did not accept those feelings
And she let me go so easily
My soul is somehow empty again ...
This time will let go sometime
Will it ever forgive us?
Take a minute to be sad
Only she talks about me ...

I know we are parting with you
And we will not go back to the past at all.
We haven't found a single path
We will go our own way.
I ask that you do not hold evil,
After all, everything has happened in life.
I still wish you to be happy
Fate would be fair to you.

Your love for me is a test
Tormenting, nervous suffering.
I seduced you, fell in love with myself, -
But I never loved you.
Forgive me. I am a scoundrel.
I am a vile coward, a scoundrel, a deceiver.
Sorry. Don't hold me anymore. Let go.

Parting us
Joy destroys at the root.
She has a craving for dreams
To our souls and will.
Parting with you
With the girl you love
I feed on a dream
That they will throw us a meeting.

Let's forget everything with you
We cannot return the past
We will not wake up the asleep
Our love has passed the way.
You are young and beautiful
But our paths will fly
And our meetings are in vain
Love will not return, will not come.

Your love, treasure and happiness,
What I have never met in my life,
Suddenly and it hurts for the heart
Forever for myself I have lost.
She was pure, bright and so beautiful
Like an angel descending from heaven
It turned out to be so dangerous for me to love her
As if a demon had possessed me.
I lost my peace and clarity of thought
Forgot the last time I slept
It became harder to breathe with thoughts
That he never knew the happiness of life.
Love, I won't forgive you in my life
The pain that I gave my heart
Now I won't let you near me,
I want to forget the way to me.

I don’t eat or drink without you,
I don’t sleep at night without you.
Don't be silent, write one line
But don't just end with a full stop.
The stars don't shine without you
And the moon does not sing with them to the beat.
Don't be silent, write one line
But don't just end with a full stop.
Without you all the inspiration is gone
I don’t sing, I don’t write, unfortunately.
Don't be silent, write one line
But don't just end with a full stop.
I wrote just one line
"Dear you do not miss me."
And at the end I put an end
But, and below the script "Goodbye".
My soul is torn to pieces without you
Without you there is no life and happiness for me.
Alone for a year already I
Without you, without you, without you.

I am weak, darling, sad.
I could not overcome obstacles.
He just told you: "I'm sorry!"
And let you fly.
But our souls are so close.
We scattered into infinity.
Now we are sad on the banks of longing,
From now on, losing carelessness.
Goodbye forever, don't be sad.
Sorry darling, sorry!

You left, closing the door to the light for me.
You destroyed my temple
And left only those days
Without which there will be fear, darkness.
I have an evil beast in my soul
Beats the blood behind the flags
Bursting with a cry of will that pain.
That was absorbed into his soul, flesh.
Today I will go to the steppe in the snow,
I’ll leave myself, I’ll leave those all
Who remained in the bright days of those
And to whom do you give light to the eyes.
Just know that the way back is hidden
And you have no chance to return.
Let your enemy caress you now,
I won't die without you, no.
I'll just be a coward in love,
My ruined altar is empty
And there is a shadow on my heart all day
And all the feelings are completely broken.

Parting is so bad
We should meet him again.
My girl, cruel
So to separate loved ones.
Let the meeting come again.
We want to be next to you.
This will make it easier for us!
We were created to love.
And we will conquer separation
Just a little bit sad.
And sometimes we miss a lot.
And sadness itself will recede.

Parting, what else is there talking about?
Why am I writing lines to you again?
Let's close the door with the locks
But why can't I live without you?
Why are these lines again about our
Great love, but the one that has passed?
Why am I trying to get older again
After all, you couldn't become wiser either ...

The time has come to scatter.
It opened the door for parting.
Goodbye forever, goodbye is no longer sweet.
Everything is in the past, everything is past, believe me.
The pain was carried away with a terrible formidable force.
Breaking the chest, breaking the very essence.
Farewell to my forgotten dream forever.
Goodbye, it's time to forget and take a nap.

The usual dusk of the night.
Phone calls.
And you want to get up
And talk to her.
The pillow flies into the phone.
And he does not stop talking!
That chime is ringing in my ears.
Ringing, tearing everything apart!
Maybe you should come up?
And start all over again?
But a feeling of pain and anguish.
You are so tired of them.
And these long calls
Throwing out in the middle of the night
Can't decide anything.
They will only become a point.

She left and it became empty
In the heart, in the house and in the soul.
Sad, not beautiful, sad ...
And I don't want anything already!
I tried to forget it with others.
It didn't work, I can't, that's all!
She's gone and won't come. Henceforth
No one can replace her!

How much time later,
You are in my heart.
We then parted in vain
By acting carelessly.
I then appeared weak,
Once allowed to let go
The one with whom I was always happy -
I can't forgive myself!
But nothing, I will not give up.
And, really, I promise:
To conquer you again
Return to happiness again!

She doesn't understand at all how much I love her
That the closest person, and no dearer
That bit by bit I gather my family with her
But just standing by odal will not help
She doesn't love me, you can see it in her eyes
And curses without hesitation
And I read indifference on my lips
Returning to reality
But I want to hug, snuggle to the shoulder
And feel the warmth of her hand
And again I did not dare to confess my love
See the tenderness of the lights.
I'm so offended, what is my fault?
I'm sorry to live
And in conversation, often wrong
It will probably be better if I die
She won't cry, no heart
Will always find a replacement for me
I'll ask God for a ticket for myself
That would never come back.
I'll probably die today
I don't need this miserable life
I can't live like this anymore
With loneliness alone
No one can understand my pain,
My tears and sadness in my eyes
I am in life, without a stick, zero,
Maybe it's better there in heaven
People are close, indifferent,
And they are my life for me
And now it's not usual to understand
That there is nothing to cherish already.

May parting not bring happiness
For us. Let us be lucky.
But the meeting again accelerates bad weather.
Believe it - she will come.
Let the sadness bring parting.
Do not expect bright days from parting.
Separation from a girl is a bad foundation.
Dream.

Parting is goodbye
And it happens that even to tears.
We need to part with you,
Not for long, and not seriously.
I promise to call very often
Sms-ki write to you,
I promise your passionate love
Do not forget in the new city.

Tell me why did you leave again?
Tell me why all those words
Why are you confused yourself?
And the conversation is all about
That I am insignificant, like a thief!
Believe me, you're wrong again!
All this is Your game again!
I loved so much, I was with You
And I'm not a stranger to You!
But not a stranger from far away,
I will always help you!
What a pity that Nas
Never again!
I will not disappear, I will not die.
I'll just be quiet, I'll leave again
I will not be able to forget You,
I don't want to forget you
After all, still ... I love you!

I am weak, darling, sad.
I could not overcome obstacles.
He just told you: "I'm sorry!"
And let you fly.
But our souls are so close.
We scattered into infinity.
Now we are sad on the banks of longing,
From now on, losing carelessness.
Goodbye forever, don't be sad.
Sorry darling, sorry!

Understand me and forgive me
We are parting with you forever.
Let me go with a light heart
And it will become easier for herself then.

We are two banks of one river,
Therefore, it will not happen to be together.
I won't be with you in the suitors,
And you will not become my bride.

In my fate, once there was a case -
He suddenly led me to you.
I forgot about everything then
And he devoted all his thoughts to the girl.

But the dream melted away without a trace
Your love has passed.
Hope fleetingly approached
Melted and moved away ...

Forgive me my love
That I am parting with you forever.
Believe me I'm sorry too
That we will not see you, goodbye!

Understand, I still love you
But I cannot take with me into the distance.
We can't be together anymore
But how can I forget you?

And whatever happens ahead,
Keep our strong feelings.
Perhaps I will change something again,
And I will take it with me, my love!

Well, my dear, tell me
How quickly I played enough in love.
All this time you tried, pretended
Joking with me, and spoiling my blood with tales?

You are not interested with me, maybe it was
Or maybe he paid little attention to you?
But you left and left my house an orphan,
And I was left somewhere overboard, in empty trouble.

No, I don’t believe, I don’t believe in the world,
That your heart no longer breathes, does not hurt.
I look into your eyes, and again I see
That the flame of love for me is still burning.

My dear, you know how sad
And how unbearable it is for me to live without you.
I love you so much because you know
That you are the only one, I adore you!

Now you are a former lover
But always kept in memory,
Though the feelings have grown colder
And everyone now lives his own life!

But know, if necessary, I will come to the rescue,
I will always provide any support,
Although we are not together, we have remained human.
Good luck and good luck on the way!

It is not easy, sometimes, parting is given,
After all, there was once the first confession
The joy of meeting and bright follies,
There were strong and sincere feelings.

But over time we got tired
The bitterness of disappointment is known.
Sweetheart, I wish you strength and love,
And you will certainly find your happiness.

Everything is blown up, there is no return
You are far away and you are different.
But all the same, I type the text again,
You are not expecting a text message from me.

Happiness to you, I wish you love
Let him love more for me.
Night ... Silence ... The candle burns out.
You are not mine ... You are not mine anymore ...

Broke my heart, how is it
Why are you so cruel
I turned everything to fluff and dust,
Leaving alone?

Why should I endure separation
Why not see you?
Believe me, my love, death is me
Already dearer than perishing.

Like this, not knowing what's wrong with you,
Where are you and how are you, how you live, -
And God help you
If you are not near, not with me.

To say what I want
It will be very difficult for me
I think you
The other will still love.

Will love the way I do
You know I can't.
And he will protect
To cherish you, cherish.

And you and I already
We cannot return love
Cold War ...
You deserve the best.

That's all, and the eternal summer is over
You left before dawn
Leaving your own scent and mark on the pillow.
What is left for me to do now?
Give up the light, from your strength,
So I can touch you again?
You left without taking anything but your heart:
She just left half of it for me.
One thing I don't understand is where the cruelty comes from
Appeared in your gentle soul?

How not to break your leg falling from the roof of the house? All you can do is group together and mitigate the consequences. It's the same with our gentle companions in life. “Let's stay friends”, “it's not about you, it's about me” are commonplace and excuses for breaking up, which only cause irritation. At the request of TTR, the author of the Cozy Psychology public, Dmitry Kagdin, came up with five phrases that you need to say to a girl so that she takes your departure as painlessly as possible and does not want to kill you, at least in the first five minutes of the conversation.

The feelings that were before are not there

A phrase that strikes the popular, modern opinion that love is not eternal. In a sense, you can show the girl that feelings are fading away. This is especially useful if she was naive and believed that you were sent to her from heaven. Many books claim that feelings can go away. People's revelations also tell us that "there are no feelings that were during the first date." Every girl guesses about this, but hides these fears deep inside. It's easier to live like this than to shake every day, crossing out the three-year calendar, at the end of which love will surely die. If we hit this place, we will provoke her personal growth, which can then be bragged to friends. Yes, and her suffering will pass faster, because subconsciously she was ready for such an outcome.

Understand, now you think that I am the only one, but when you meet me, you can miss true love

Sweet honey for the girl's ears. The natural reaction would be rejection, but the phrase itself is a classic Trojan horse. Accepting her with refusal, the girl will emotionally load your words, and later, having seen through them, she will understand that there is a prince who is waiting for her, and you were just his likeness. The embedded meaning conveys a message to her - “you need to look for another, why spend time for suffering. " This is a modernized phrase that does not provoke aggression due to its originality: "You will find yourself better."

Sorry honey, I'm not a sadist. My love is gone, and if we do not part, I will torment you with this. I can't do that

With this phrase, you show that you still care about her, and make it clear that if she does not let you go, it will be worse for her. There will be no those flowers on Fridays, anniversary celebrations, gifts and attention. In general, all that a girl needs. At the same time, you signify that you do not want such a life for her. You remain a good friend to her who protects her. They love it.

If we continue to be together, we can part and hate each other, and I don’t want to lose a person like you, so it’s better to leave now.

Another modernization, this time banal: "Let's stay friends." The difference is that you are describing the prospect of friendship, which, by the way, may never come true, you both know that. But you give her warm words that will be a soft pillow for her. The standard expression of care in the form of “I don’t want to lose a person like you” works very well for her social memory, laid down by many generations, as well as love films, songs and poems. And again - you are a hero, you see the danger and prevent it. In general, I deserve a round of applause!

Sorry, I have changed. I realized that relationships are not for me. I am attracted to other girls, but I don't want to spoil your life with cheating

"Oh, you're so caring, stop it!" - this is not what you will hear from her after this phrase, but nevertheless, you declare that you are frank and honest, which in itself is a manifestation of care and respect towards her. You have nothing to blame, you are a free man and live as you want. If you want others, you have the right.

There is no universal magic phrase that will make you stop loving you painlessly. A girl is a living person with her emotions, we can only mitigate and shorten her suffering in time.