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N. Sladkov “Naughty kids”
Here is the peak of summer - July. The spring bustle is over, the autumn bustle has not yet begun. On a hot afternoon, there is such silence in the forest that it seems that no one lives in it. And even if he lives, he knows no worries. But it only seems so: the forest is full of animals and birds, and they even have more worries.
The Bear was sitting in a clearing, crumbling a stump. The Hare galloped up and said:
- Troubles, Bear, in the forest. Little ones don't listen to old people.
- How so?! - the Bear barked.
- Yes indeed! - answers the Hare. - Everyone strives in their own way. They scatter in all directions.
- Well, Hare, let's go and see what's what.
The Bear and the Hare went through the forests, fields and swamps. As soon as they entered the dense forest, they heard:
- I left my grandmother, I left my grandfather, I left my mother, I left my father!
- What kind of bun showed up? - the Bear barked.
- And I’m not a bun at all! I'm an adult little squirrel.
- Why is your tail short then? Answer, how old are you?
- Don't be angry, Uncle Bear. I'm not even one year old yet. And it won’t be enough for six months. But you, bears, live sixty years, and we, squirrels, live at most ten. And it turns out that I, six months old, at your bearish expense, are exactly three years old! Remember, Bear, yourself at three years old. I suppose you also got a streak from the she-bear?
- What's true is true! - growled the Bear. “I remember, I looked after my younger brother for a year, became a nanny, and then ran away.” Yes, to celebrate, I remember, I tore up the hive. Oh, and the bees rode on me then - my sides are itching now!
- Of course, I’m smarter than everyone else. I'm digging a house between the roots!
- What kind of pig is that in the forest? - the Bear roared.
- I, dear Bear, am not a piglet, I am an almost adult, independent Chipmunk.
- Answer me, Chipmunk, why did you run away from your mother?
- That’s why he ran away, because it’s time! Autumn is just around the corner, it’s time to think about the hole, about winter supplies. You, Bear, have no worries in winter: you sleep and suck your paw!
- Your truth! “I have few worries in winter,” muttered the Bear. - Let's go further, Hare.
The Bear and the Hare came to the swamp and heard:
- Although small, but brave, he swam across the channel. He settled with his aunt in the swamp.
- Do you hear how he boasts? - whispered the Hare. - He ran away from home, and even sings songs!
The Bear roared:
- Why did you run away from home, why don’t you live with your mother?
- Don't growl, Bear, first find out what's what! I’m my mother’s first-born: I can’t live with her.
- How can you not do that? - the Bear does not calm down. “Firstborns are always mothers’ favorites.”
“My mother is a Water Rat,” answers the Little Rat. “I brought rat pups three times over the summer. If everyone lives together, there won’t be enough space or food. Whether you like it or not, settle down. That's it, Bear!
The Bear scratched his neck and looked at the Hare angrily:
- You tore me away, Hare, to no avail from a serious matter! He was alarmed in vain, everything in the forest is going as it should be: the old are getting old, the young are growing.
And he went through the raspberries.
Nikolay Sladkov
Naughty kids
The Bear was sitting in a clearing, crumbling a stump. The Hare galloped up and said:
Troubles, Bear, in the forest. Little ones don't listen to old people. They completely escaped the clutches!
How so?! - the Bear barked.
Yes indeed! - answers the Hare. - They rebel, they snap. Everyone strives in their own way. They scatter in all directions.
Or maybe they... grew up?
Where are they: bare-bellied, short-tailed, yellow-throated?
Or maybe let them run?
Forest mothers are offended. The Hare had seven - not a single one remained. He shouts: “Where have you gone, you lop-eared ones, the fox will hear you!” And they responded: “And we ourselves have ears!”
“Nah,” grumbled the Bear. - Well, Hare, let's go and see what's what.
The Bear and the Hare went through the forests, fields and swamps. As soon as they entered the dense forest, they heard:
I left my grandmother, I left my grandfather...
What kind of bun showed up? - the Bear barked.
And I’m not a bun at all! I am a respectable adult Little Squirrel.
Why then is your tail short? Answer, how old are you?
Don't be angry, Uncle Bear. I'm not even one year old yet. And it won’t be enough for six months. But you, bears, live sixty years, and we, squirrels, live at most ten. And it turns out that I, six months old, are exactly three years old in your bearish account! Remember, Bear, yourself at three years old. I suppose you also got a streak from the she-bear?
What's true is true! - growled the Bear. - For another year, I remember, I went to nurse-nannies, and then I ran away. Yes, to celebrate, I remember, I tore up the hive. Oh, and the bees rode on me then - my sides are itching now!
Of course, I'm smarter than everyone else. I'm digging a house between the roots!
What kind of pig is that in the forest? - the Bear roared. - Give me this movie character here!
I, dear Bear, am not a piglet, I am an almost adult, independent Chipmunk. Don't be rude - I can bite!
Answer me, Chipmunk, why did you run away from your mother?
That’s why he ran away, it was time! Autumn is just around the corner, it’s time to think about the hole, about winter supplies. So you and the Hare dig a hole for me, fill the pantry with nuts, then I’ll be ready to hug my mother until the snow hits. You, Bear, have no worries in winter: you sleep and suck your paw!
Even though I don’t suck a paw, it’s true! I have few worries in winter, muttered the Bear. - Let's go further, Hare.
The Bear and the Hare came to the swamp and heard:
Although small, but brave, he swam across the channel. He settled with his aunt in the swamp.
Do you hear how he boasts? - whispered the Hare. - He ran away from home and even sings songs!
The bear roared:
Why did you run away from home, why don’t you live with your mother?
Don't growl, Bear, first find out what's what! I’m my mother’s first-born: I can’t live with her.
How can this not be done? - the Bear does not calm down. - Mothers’ first-borns are always their first favorites; they worry about them the most!
They're shaking, but not everyone! - Little Rat answers. - My mother, the old Water Rat, brought baby rats three times over the summer. There are already two dozen of us. If everyone lives together, there will not be enough space or food. Whether you like it or not, settle down. That's it, Bear!
The Bear scratched his cheek and looked at the Hare angrily:
You tore me away, Hare, from a serious matter! I was alarmed in vain. Everything in the forest goes as it should: the old grow old, the young grow. Autumn, slanting, is just around the corner, it’s time for maturation and resettlement. And therefore be it!
© Sladkov N.I., succession, 2016
© AST Publishing House LLC, 2016
The sun is white in the blue sky. The earth is glowing with heat. The distances float and shimmer.
Blue stripes of forests flow. Groves, hills and mounds sway. Bushes and heated stones tremble. The pillars twist reluctantly and lazily. Dusty burdocks lay along the dusty roads.
Distant stations and villages float by: like fairy-tale ships with colorful sails.
The wind bends the rye and wheat and drives yellow waves. Strokes the grass in the clouded meadows - like the fur of a precious beast. It inflates brown spikelets and panicles and reveals the green underfur.
And whirlwinds of hot dust run and curl along the hot roads.
What is a broom?
A panicle is an inflorescence that branches repeatedly with many flowers. Panicles are different: complex and simple. For example, in oats, meadow fescue or spreading pine forest.
Grasshoppers along the roadside strike matches. The fillies take off like red sparks. The exhausted crows opened their beaks. Swallows dip their hot breasts into the water as they fly.
The branches drooped and became heavy. Hot clearings smell of jam. The sunbeams lazily shimmer from side to side.
Clouds float lazily: huge and mysterious, like snowy mountains. Heat, relaxation, silence.
Top of summer. July.
Naughty kids
The Bear was sitting in a clearing, crumbling a stump. The Hare galloped up and said:
- Troubles, Bear, in the forest. Little ones don't listen to old people. They completely escaped the clutches!
Why does clearing smell like jam?
Both raspberries and strawberries are light-loving. They do not grow in dark spruce forests. They like edges or clearings. How do these plants get to fresh fellings? The seeds are carried by birds. They peck the berries, but the seeds are not digested in their stomachs. Together with the droppings, the whole ones fall to the ground and germinate. As soon as one bush appears, a year later there are already thickets of raspberries or a strawberry carpet in this place. And all because raspberries constantly send shoots upward from their roots, and strawberries send out “mustaches” in all directions.
- How so?! - the Bear barked.
- Yes indeed! – answers the Hare. - They rebel, they snap. Everyone strives in their own way. They scatter in all directions.
- Or maybe they... grew up?
- Where are they: bare-bellied, short-tailed, yellow-throated!
- Or maybe let them run?
– Forest mothers are offended. The Hare had seven - not a single one remained. He shouts: “Where have you gone, you lop-eared ones, the fox will hear you!” And they responded: “And we ourselves have ears!”
“Yeah,” grumbled the Bear. - Well, Hare, let's go and see what's what.
The Bear and the Hare went through the forests, fields and swamps. As soon as they entered the dense forest, they heard:
- I left my grandmother, I left my grandfather...
- What kind of bun showed up? - the Bear barked.
- And I’m not a bun at all! I am a respectable adult Little Squirrel.
- Why then is your tail short? Answer, how old are you?
– Don’t be angry, Uncle Bear. I'm not even one year old yet. And it won’t be enough for six months. But you bears live for sixty years, and we squirrels live for ten years at most. And it turns out that I, six months old, in your bearish account, are exactly three years old! Remember, Bear, yourself at three years old. I suppose you also got a streak from the she-bear?
- What's true is true! - growled the Bear. - Another year, I remember, in nursemaids walked, and then ran away. Yes, to celebrate, I remember, I tore up the hive. Oh, and the bees rode on me then - my sides are itching now!
What are nursemaids?
Pestun is a one-year-old bear cub who stays with the mother bear. After the birth of another bear cub, the parent is called a “nanny.” This is how the bear family of three stays together: a mother bear, a nurse-nurse and a little bear cub. The breeders spend another year with the bear. Sometimes he runs away earlier and begins to lead an independent life.
- Of course, I’m smarter than everyone else. I'm digging a house between the roots!
- What kind of pig is that in the forest? - the Bear roared. – Give me this movie character here!
– I, dear Bear, am not a piglet, I am an almost adult, independent Chipmunk. Don't be rude - I can bite!
- Answer me, Chipmunk, why did you run away from your mother?
- That’s why he ran away, because it’s time! Autumn is around the corner, oh hole, about winter supplies it's time to think. So you and the Hare dig a hole for me, fill the pantry with nuts, then I’ll be ready to hug my mother until the snow hits. You, Bear, have no worries in winter: you sleep and suck your paw!
What supplies does a chipmunk make for the winter?
A small rodent from the squirrel family, the Siberian chipmunk is a very cute, motley-colored mammal. Already in August, the chipmunk begins to store nuts, acorns, mushrooms, and berries for the winter, carrying them in cheek pouches over considerable distances (up to 1 km). The weight of a chipmunk's reserves reaches 5 kg. Chipmunks hibernate during the winter, but wake up to feed.
- Though I don't suck paws but the truth! “I have few worries in winter,” muttered the Bear. - Let's go further, Hare.
The Bear and the Hare came to the swamp and heard:
- Even though he was small, he was brave and swam across the channel. He settled with his aunt in the swamp.
- Do you hear how he boasts? - whispered the Hare. - He ran away from home and even sings songs!
The Bear roared:
- Why did you run away from home, why don’t you live with your mother?
– Don’t growl, Bear, first find out what’s what! I’m my mother’s first-born: I can’t live with her.
So does a bear suck its paw in winter?
“Sucking a paw like a bear in a den” is just a figurative joke. This is what they say when they want to emphasize the plight that a person can find himself in if he is left completely without food. A bear does not need to suck its paw in a den. The reserve of fat accumulated in autumn allows him to sleep safely throughout the winter.
- How can you not do that? – the Bear does not calm down. “Mothers’ first-borns are always their first favorites; they worry about them the most!”
- They are shaking, but not all of them! - Little Rat answers. - My mother, old The Water Rat brought baby rats three times over the summer.
There are already two dozen of us. If everyone lives together, there won’t be enough space or food. Whether you like it or not, settle down. That's it, Bear!
The Bear scratched his cheek and looked at the Hare angrily:
- You tore me away, Hare, from a serious matter! I was alarmed in vain. Everything in the forest goes as it should: the old grow old, the young grow. Autumn, slanting, is just around the corner, it’s time for maturation and resettlement. And therefore be it!
Do water rats really give birth to baby rats three times during the summer? And who else gives birth or incubates more than once?
Not only the water rat, but also other rodents bear offspring several times during the summer. This is what wood mice, voles, little mice, and mouse mice do. They have cubs 3-4 times a year. Among the birds, field sparrows, house sparrows, great tits, jackdaws, and coalbirds make repeated clutches and feed their chicks a second time.
Naughty kids
The Bear was sitting in a clearing, crumbling a stump. The Hare galloped up and said:
Troubles, Bear, in the forest. Little ones don't listen to old people. They completely escaped their clutches.
How so?! - the Bear barked.
Yes indeed! - answers the Hare. - They rebel, they snap. Everyone strives in their own way. They scatter in all directions.
Or maybe they... grew up?
Where are they: bare-bellied, short-tailed, yellow-throated?
Or maybe let them run?
Forest mothers are offended. The Hare had seven - not a single one remained. He shouts: “Where have you gone, you lop-eared ones, the fox will hear you!” And they responded: “And we ourselves have ears!”
“No,” grumbled the Bear. - Well, Hare, let's go and see what's what.
The Bear and the Hare went through the forests, fields and swamps. As soon as they entered the dense forest, they heard:
I left my grandmother, I left my grandfather, I left my mother, I left my father!
What kind of bun showed up? - the Bear barked.
And I’m not a bun at all! I am a respectable adult Little Squirrel.
Why then is your tail short? Answer: how old are you?
Don't be angry, Uncle Bear. I'm not even one year old yet. And it won’t be enough for six months. But you, bears, live sixty years, and we, squirrels, live at most ten. And it turns out that I, six months old, in your bearish account, are exactly three years old! Remember, Bear, yourself at three years old. I suppose you also got a streak from the she-bear?
What's true is true! - growled the Bear. - For another year, I remember, I went to nurse-nannies, and then I ran away. Yes, to celebrate, I remember, I tore up the hive. Oh, and the bees rode on me then - now my sides are itching!
Of course, I'm smarter than everyone else. I'm digging a house between the roots!
What kind of pig is that in the forest? - the Bear roared. - Give me this movie character here!
I, dear Bear, am not a piglet, I am an almost adult, independent Chipmunk. Don't be rude - I can bite!
Answer me, Chipmunk, why did you run away from your mother?
That’s why he ran away, it was time! Autumn is just around the corner, it’s time to think about the hole, about winter supplies. So you and the Hare dig a hole for me, fill the pantry with nuts, then I’ll be ready to hug my mother until the snow hits. You, Bear, have no worries in winter: you sleep and suck your paw!
Even though I don’t suck a paw, it’s true! “I have few worries in winter,” muttered the Bear. - Let's go further, Hare.
The Bear and the Hare came to the swamp and heard:
Although small, but brave, he swam across the channel. He settled with his aunt in the swamp.
Do you hear how he boasts? - whispered the Hare. - He ran away from home and even sings songs!
The Bear roared:
Why did you run away from home, why don’t you live with your mother?
Don't growl, Bear, first find out what's what! I’m my mother’s first-born: I can’t live with her.
How is that not possible? - the Bear does not calm down. - Mothers’ first-borns are always their first favorites; they worry about them the most!
They're shaking, but not everyone! - Little Rat answers. - My mother, the old Water Rat, brought baby rats three times over the summer. There are already two dozen of us. If everyone lives together, there will not be enough space or food. Whether you like it or not, settle down. That's it, Bear!
The Bear scratched his cheek and looked at the Hare angrily:
You tore me away, Hare, to no avail from a serious matter! I was alarmed in vain. Everything in the forest goes as it should: the old grow old, the young grow. Autumn, slanting, is just around the corner, it’s time for maturation and resettlement. And so be it!
How do we usually look for an approach to a “difficult child”? We are trying to find a successful model of education in our environment. “My child at 3 years old does not obey, he stands on his ears, no one is his authority. And the neighbor has a two-year-old baby - already perfect, obedient. Maybe we should take a closer look at how she behaves with him, how she raises him, and learn from the experience?” Take your time - you can make a mistake here.
Baby... For the sake of this tiny, dear little man, mother is ready to sacrifice her life. I want to give the child all the best, teach everything so that his destiny will be successful and happy. But things are not always smooth along this path. Sometimes one gives up helplessly. The child is disobedient, he is completely uncontrollable and does not hear you - what to do?
This article is for you if:
- whims, stubbornness, hysterics or ignoring parents are not uncommon for a child;
- I no longer have the strength to exist in the mode of eternal shouting;
- your nerves are constantly on edge, and when you lose your temper, you are tormented by a feeling of guilt;
- one “age crisis” smoothly flows into another, and there is no end in sight;
- I have a whole “Talmud” in my head from the advice of a psychologist, girlfriends and grandmothers - but there is no result.
With the help of system-vector psychology Yuri Burlan, we will figure out how to achieve obedience in children and establish calm, trusting relationships with them.
Age crises: wait or act?
Often, problematic behavior in children is associated with a difficult transition period in childhood:
- ? - Apparently, the three-year crisis is already beginning.
- ? - Obviously, the crisis has dragged on.
But while we calm ourselves down, precious time is wasted, and the problems only become stronger. He’s already “freaking out” - how will he study at school? How can he build relationships with people?
The development of a child’s psyche actually passes certain age milestones. But this does not mean at all that parents will have to “sit on Corvalol” until their beloved child comes of age. Crisis periods can be turned into a springboard for taking off to new heights in a child's development. And at the same time, the baby’s relationship with his parents will become closer and warmer. You can start with simple steps.
Step 1. Select the optimal parenting model
How do we usually look for an approach to a “difficult child”? We are trying to find a successful model of education in our environment. “My child at 3 years old does not obey, he stands on his ears, no one is his authority. And the neighbor has a two-year-old baby - already perfect, obedient. Maybe we should take a closer look at how she behaves with him, how she raises him, and learn from the experience?” Take your time - you can make a mistake here.
Those parenting methods that work great for the neighbor's kid may turn out to be useless and even destructive for your child. Let's look at examples:
The baby is given the properties of a skin vector. He is fast, agile, agile. Rational and pragmatic: he seeks benefit and benefit for himself in everything. This is a natural getter: he drags toys into the house from everywhere. Loves to compete and compete, to be the first in everything. The disobedient behavior of such children is expressed in the fact that they “stand on their ears,” scatter everything, and do not strive to learn and obey. If you have the so-called, it is important to know the right approach to it.
The motivation for him may be a desired purchase or a trip to a new, interesting place. The skin child must clearly understand “what will come of it” if he fulfills your request. For example, like this: “If you quickly put away the toys now, then we will have time not only to go to the store, but also to get to the playground.” But yelling and trying to shame simply won’t work.
An effective punishment for disobedience for such a child is a restriction in space (for example, isolation in his room) and in time (cancel or reduce the time spent watching cartoons, playing with gadgets, etc.). But hitting and spanking is strictly forbidden. The hypersensitive skin of such a child experiences extreme stress. To relieve pain, opiates (endorphins) are released, which over time cause the child to lose weight. And then, without understanding why, he simply “runs into the belt.”
The baby is given the properties of the anal vector. He is a slow "hoarder", a little clumsy and unathletic. You can’t drag him to run and jump - he’d be much more willing to sit on the couch with a gadget. His talent is a systematic and analytical mind. Therefore, he is determined to do everything slowly, scrupulously, paying attention to detail.
It will not be possible to motivate such a child with gifts and trips - they do not have such significance for him. But what he really needs is the approval and praise of his parents. His natural desire is obedience, he wants to be the best son and student. Do everything perfectly and get high marks.
But such a baby can become. In his case, he is stubborn, argumentative on any occasion. Why is this happening? This happens when his leisurely rhythm of life runs counter to his mother’s - fast, active and mobile. For example, a child is constantly urged on, hurried, and pulled back. He reacts to this with even stronger braking -.
To change this situation, give your baby more time to complete any task. Support his desire to do something not quickly, but efficiently. Be sure to praise for an excellent result. If you have to go somewhere, it is better to warn the child in advance. Sudden changes are stressful for him; he needs to prepare, tune in, and finish the job he is currently busy with.
The baby is the owner of a visual vector. Emotional, impressionable, “tears are close.” At the same time very timid, prone to fear - and empathetic. It takes pity on bugs and spiders, and saves ladybugs from the rain. Potentially, he can grow up to be a major cultural figure or realize himself in the humanistic professions of a doctor or educator.
If such a child does not obey, this is expressed in tears. The fact is that the baby simply does not yet know how to cope with the enormous emotional range that is assigned to a visual person from birth. Educating feelings through compassion can help here.
And by the age of six or seven, such a child can already be involved in all possible assistance to the weak. Help an elderly neighbor, visit a sick friend. When a child realizes his emotions in empathy with others, his hysterics and fears go away.
The baby is the carrier of the sound vector. Low-emotional introvert, immersed in his thoughts. For fast and active parents, this may raise doubts: is everything okay with the child? For example, a 3-year-old sonic child does not listen. What to do if he may not even come when called, ignore requests? It seems as if he is “slow to think” - he does not answer immediately, but with a delay. He may even start talking later than other children. Often strives to be alone, isolated from noisy children's company. It happens that you won’t interest him at all in anything other than “gadgets.” What should I do?
In fact, such a child is not given a low, but, on the contrary, the highest potential of abstract intelligence. His thought process has great depth. Such a child may well grow into a great scientist. For this it is necessary to create the necessary conditions.
First of all, it is a sound ecology. A child’s particularly sensitive ear reacts with severe stress to noise, screams, and loud music. Create an atmosphere of silence in your home. Classical music is useful - in a quiet background so that the child listens attentively. It is also worth speaking to him in lower tones, softly, clearly and clearly. Avoid idle talk and overly expressive, emotional presentation.
Modern children are carriers of 3-4 or more vectors out of eight possible. To build an accurate model of education, you need to take into account the properties of each of them.
It is not at all difficult to comprehend this science - it is successfully used by thousands of parents around the world. They happily share how easy it becomes to communicate with their child. From constant war and testing of strength, their parenthood became a source of great joy:
The “System-Vector Psychology” training not only helps to understand the child’s soul and find the keys to it. He gives a whole system of recommendations with the help of which the parent’s word becomes important and meaningful for the child. Let's reveal a few of these secrets.