A priceless symbol: an engagement ring, what should it be and what should be considered when choosing? Engagement: signs and traditions

22.08.2019

For the birthday of a new family - a wedding - lovers prepare thoroughly, plan every detail of the upcoming event, not forgetting to take into account the old signs about wedding rings, which largely determine the future of the union. How to make a happy marriage with the help of its main accessory is worth asking all couples striving for an ideal relationship.

Engagement ring - signs

From time immemorial, the wedding celebration is preceded by an equally important beautiful ceremony called matchmaking. A young man who wants to connect fate with his chosen one, accompanied by his parents, comes to the bride's father's house in order to introduce future matchmakers and ask for blessings for creating a new family.

When the older generation reaches a consensus and decides on the imminent betrothal of the young, the newly-made groom puts on the bride's finger a ring specially prepared for the engagement, as a symbol of his love.

With such a gesture, a guy in love confirms his unshakable intention to become the head of the family and take care of his beloved, and the girl who accepted the jewelry as a gift agrees with the will of her parents and undertakes to behave like a future wife before the wedding (everywhere to appear in public only with the groom and not flirt with other youths).

What do signs say about such a romantic accessory?

It is customary to wear an engagement ring on the same hand (it is not forbidden even on the ring finger) as the engagement ring.
Removing the ring before the wedding is a bad sign. According to an old belief, this may mean that the ceremony will not take place, or the young people will not get along together and will disperse.
The loss of such a valuable gift also does not bode well, perhaps an early parting will follow.
On the day of the wedding, the jewelry is changed to the other hand or removed altogether.
According to custom, after the wedding, the engagement symbol must be kept as a family heirloom, which will be passed from one generation to another, strengthening the families of descendants.

It is wrong to believe that the presented jewelry can be used twice - at the engagement and at the wedding.

If you are limited in funds, it is better not to give an expensive ring at the matchmaking, limit yourself to a simple non-precious product or do without it at all. Most beliefs are associated with wedding rings, which are exchanged by young people on the day of painting (wedding), so it is better to pay closer attention to the choice of these relics.

Ancient beliefs that have survived to this day help young people decide on the choice of the main symbols of marriage - wedding rings, the main function of which is to strengthen and preserve the happiness of a family union.

Of course, not only these wedding accessories can affect the further joint fate of the newlyweds. The groom is also important, the impeccably and clearly organized program of the celebration, the behavior of the invited guests, the attitude of relatives towards the young.

However, rings, as the most valuable family amulet, are able, according to signs, to protect the created family from many domestic troubles and the envy of strangers - you just have to choose them correctly:

The surface of the product must be flat. Smooth rings - calm, smooth family relationships.
Signs and superstitions are also not advised to engrave on a wedding band. Thus, you yourself expose your future happiness to trials.
Give preference to jewelry made of precious metals.

The best option would be gold (red, yellow or white - it doesn't matter), it symbolizes material wealth. Platinum rings are also in fashion, as the strength of this metal among the people symbolizes the strength, inviolability of marriage.

Since jewelry is bought in pairs, they must be cast from the same material and made in the same style.
Refrain from using used rings, even if they are expensive vintage jewelry. After all, any thing absorbs the energy of its owner and you run the risk of repeating the fate of the former owners of jewelry.
You only need to buy new jewelry. An exception can only be parental rings that have gone through many years of happy life in the family. Such a relic can be passed on to more than one generation of descendants.
A family heirloom cannot be melted down, so that the happiness accumulated in the products does not disappear. Such a symbol of eternal love is worn only in its original form.
When choosing rings for a wedding, be guided by your taste, and not by fashion trends. After all, fashion is changeable, and jewelry should always remain on the owner's finger.
Both rings for the newlyweds must be bought by the groom. You can choose them together, but only a man is obliged to pay for the purchase.
Go shopping only in a good mood. There is no mood - it is better to postpone this matter for later.

So, you already know how to choose the right metal and model of wedding rings. But what if you have been dreaming of a wedding ring with a precious stone (or maybe more than one) all your life?

Read the signs of what stones your ring can be encrusted with:

Aquamarine will protect the family hearth from various adversities.
Amethyst will bring happiness to its owner.
Turquoise is a symbol of fidelity, love and a happy marriage.
The diamond is the epitome of success. Being the most durable stone, it is considered a sign of a strong union.
Pearls - to health and long life. It was with this mother-of-pearl stone that the bride's outfit in Russia has long been embroidered.
The emerald is the symbol of Venus, the goddess of love. He is able to give his owner not only love, but also drive away disturbing thoughts.
The moonstone will protect spouses from quarrels. If the lovers will swear, then only over trifles and not for long.
Opal is a stone of trust and happiness, as well as sincere love.
Ruby has long been considered a talisman against the evil eye, it protects the owner from the effects of evil spells. Also, this beautiful stone symbolizes eternal love.
Sapphire is a sign of purity and morality. The couple who chose him will be faithful to each other all his life.
Topaz is able to heal from mental anguish and bestow spiritual enlightenment.
Zircon can heal lovesickness.

After a successful purchase, before you cross the threshold of your home, you must say out loud: “To a happy life, to a strong family! Amen"

Surely you have heard that it threatens its owner with inevitable troubles. If also very common. Various situations and cases related to actions on wedding rings have given rise to a lot of signs that you should listen to:

No one should be allowed to measure their rings either before the wedding or after. It is believed that in this way you can lose your happiness by passing it on to the one who put on your jewelry.
Signs are advised to keep wedding rings together until the very celebration. You can even put them in water and freeze them so that the family is strong.
Young people can go through a wedding ceremony with parental rings only if the parents, having lived in a successful marriage, celebrated at least a silver wedding (25 years of marriage).
On the day of the celebration, only a wedding ring should be on the hand. The rest of the rings, both jewelry and precious ones, must be removed.
Drop one of the rings before the ceremony - to an early separation. To correct a situation that, according to belief, will absorb possible negative consequences. Then this thread must be burned to the one who dropped the jewel.
When the image of the bride is complemented by gloves, at the ceremony, before exchanging marriage vows, it will be necessary to remove them, and only after that you can exchange rings.
After the main attributes of their family happiness sparkle on the fingers of the young, the newly-made wife should not touch the ring box. She will have to be taken by one of the girlfriends or relatives of the newlywed, who wants to get married soon.
The person who touches the rings of the newlyweds at the wedding will soon settle down himself.
It is not recommended to remove the ring unnecessarily. If you are already afraid of losing the jewel and take it off (for example, when you swim in an open pond, or clean the house), then do not put on the jewelry yourself after completing all the work - let your spouse put it on your finger.

Unfortunately, the family does not always overcome the obstacles of living together, and then the question arises: where to put the wedding ring after a divorce?

People who get rid of an accessory that did not bring happiness do the right thing: they sell it, take it to a pawnshop, throw it away.

Do not try to wear such a ring even under the guise of a simple jewelry - the sooner you part with it, the sooner you will find new happiness!

Those who intend to use the wedding ring left over from a previous unsuccessful marriage when entering into a new union are warned by signs: this is absolutely impossible to do, since there is a risk of repeating fate.

The same goes for a person who has lost a spouse. Widows (widowers) usually wear the accessory on the other hand (on the ring finger) in memory of a departed lover. When remarrying, this jewelry will need to be removed and, if possible, sold, because the negative energy of sorrow and sorrow accumulated in the ring can become an obstacle to future relationships.

On the day of the wedding, wedding rings become important symbols of the unity of two loving hearts. Many superstitions and signs are associated with these accessories, by which one can judge whether the newlyweds will have happiness and harmonious relationships in the future. Attention is paid to the appearance, the metal from which the jewelry is made, the size and the preservation of these marriage attributes later.

Signs about rings

Beliefs and signs about wedding rings exist in order to understand the importance of these accessories and to properly handle them after the wedding. Careless wearing of jewelry can bring trouble to one or both spouses.

Wedding rings - a symbol of marital fidelity and love

Popular signs

There are some of the most common signs about the decorations of the bride and groom:

It is believed that you can buy matrimonial symbols in advance, but after an offer has been made.
It is very important to buy engagement rings for the bride and groom at the same time.
One of the signs refers to cases when the wedding ring is lost for any reason. This event marks the illness of one of the spouses, a long separation of the couple or a close discord, after which the relationship will end.

This notion came about for several reasons. Firstly, the decoration serves as a talisman for the young. Secondly, the jewelry on the ring finger signals to others that a man or woman has a family.

But there are signs with the opposite meaning. Some modern couples believe that if a husband or wife has lost their engagement ring, this means getting rid of old problems, quarrels, starting married life from scratch.

If the wedding amulet is gone, it is important to protect the family from unpleasant consequences. To do this, the one of the couple whose jewelry has been preserved takes the jewelry to the temple as a donation.
If the ring is lost, in order to avoid divorce, the spouses should purchase a white rose, consecrate it in the church and put it in a vase of water at home in a conspicuous place. The remaining decoration is placed in the same container. When the flower dries up, keep it in the house as a talisman. If a husband or wife loses the second remaining ring, this will not affect their relationship in any way.
If the jewelry has flown off the finger, only the spouse should put it back on, and not the one who dropped it. Then nothing threatens family happiness. According to the sign, the wedding amulet, which suddenly fell from the finger to the floor, means a serious illness of the husband or wife.
Wedding pair jewelry symbolizes marital fidelity, therefore, it is impossible to remove, pawn or sell the ring in marriage. In this case, a person deliberately deprives himself of happiness by exchanging it for money, which is a bad omen. It is forbidden to part with jewelry that belonged to the deceased spouse.
After a divorce, on the contrary, it is important to immediately get rid of the symbol of a broken marriage by any means. Otherwise, it will prevent the creation of a new family.
If the husband does not wear wedding jewelry, nothing bad will happen. Representatives of the stronger sex do not like jewelry, it interferes during work.

If the ring is stolen, a love spell can be cast on it in order to take the husband or wife away from the family. It is recommended to buy a new pair of rings, and give the rest of the old set to charity.

According to the sign, if the wedding ring suddenly burst, this may be a sign of treason. It happens that the jewelry is cracked due to low-quality materials, but you should be wary and pay more attention to the behavior of the second spouse.
Skeptics believe that in the case when the wedding ring is bent, broken or cracked, one should not come up with mystical reasons. It is necessary to take the jewelry for repair or buy a new one.
Over the years, spouses often gain excess weight, so the ring bought for several years becomes small and tight. As a result of close contact of the metal with the skin, the finger under the ring gets wet and itches. This is not considered bad luck. Experts advise to simply roll out the decoration.
If the wedding ring is large, you should reduce it, which will help the jeweler. Then there will be no need to constantly fear loss. Some spouses wear jewelry on the middle finger of the same hand or hang it around the neck if it suddenly becomes large.

Material and stones

There is an old belief that marriage charms should be simple and smooth so that family life is smooth, without problems and quarrels. The bride and groom often cannot decide which metal to choose jewelry from. According to signs, jewelry for a couple should be the same: silver, gold or platinum.

In the 21st century, young people are increasingly choosing wedding jewelry with carvings, inserts from other metals, engravings and precious stones. At the same time, the future husband and wife do not pay attention to the signs of the past. Diamonds are used as a decorative element. Diamonds have positive energy, bringing peace and material well-being to the family.

These flawless minerals have one drawback - cost. Those couples who cannot afford expensive wedding jewelry, but wish they had crystals, are advised to select stones according to the sign of the horoscope. Such jewelry will bring good luck to each of the spouses.

At the wedding and after

On this responsible joyful day, the newlyweds are nervous. For this reason, the bride or groom may drop the engagement ring on the floor during the ceremony. According to wedding signs, it is impossible to put jewelry on a partner’s finger by simply lifting it. For this, the witnesses prepare a white thread in advance. If the ring has fallen, the thread is simply threaded through it to remove the negative. After such a ritual, the groom puts jewelry on the finger of the bride, or vice versa, the bride to the groom.

It is important to be careful with wedding rings after the wedding. Strangers should not be allowed to touch these symbols of a happy married life, this is considered a bad omen. Newlyweds can entrust jewelry only to close friends with good thoughts. In this case, single acquaintances will also soon find family happiness.

The box of rings or the pillow on which they lay during the wedding is not allowed to be touched by the newlyweds. These items will bring happiness to single men and women at the wedding, playing the same role as the bride's caught bouquet.

There are many signs associated with wedding rings.

Can parents' wedding rings be used?

Sometimes newlyweds prefer not to spend money on new jewelry, having received them as a gift from their parents or other relatives. The wedding custom allows this, but subject to one important condition - the jewelry must belong to those who have lived happily in love and fidelity for at least a quarter of a century. In such a case, parents' rings can indeed be used to provide young people with a good family life.

If the jewelry belonged to the divorced, it will not bring happiness to the couple. Therefore, it is recommended not to save, but to buy new ones, which no one wore before the bride and groom.

Prohibitions

There are certain rules associated with wedding amulets in the following:

It is a bad omen to try on spouses' engagement rings by other people. This can pose a threat to the couple. People with bad intentions use other people's wedding amulets to induce damage, gain happiness by stealing it from the newlyweds.
Not everyone knows what to do with jewelry for widows and divorcees. In the first case, it is allowed to wear a commemorative product of a beloved spouse on the ring finger of the left hand. But it is important to remember that this item has accumulated information about the previous owner, absorbed his energy. A widow with such a talisman on her hand is at risk. It is considered acceptable to wear the ring of the deceased on a chain, like a pendant.

The jewelry left after the divorce must be urgently parted. They are sold, rented to a pawnshop, donated, given for remelting. According to ancient signs and superstitions, freed from the shackles of a past unsuccessful marriage, a woman will quickly find a soul mate and become happy.

Despite the love of girls for wedding gloves, the bride should not wear a wedding ring on them. If the image includes white gloves, before putting on the ring, you need to remove the glove from your right hand.

On your wedding day, every little thing counts.

How to choose

Before the celebration, the main question remains - who should buy jewelry for the wedding. According to tradition, this is the groom's duty. It is better for both newlyweds to choose wedding rings, without relying on the taste of the young man. A joint trip to a jewelry store for symbols of a happy family life is considered a good omen.

Modern brides and grooms themselves decide what wedding rings should be, so they often do not consult with the older generation how to choose these jewelry.

According to Orthodox canons, jewelry for those entering into marriage should not have irregularities, furrows, inscriptions, or precious stones. This guarantees a peaceful family life without problems and trials. Newlyweds often give up this tradition, paying tribute to fashion.

It is difficult to unambiguously answer the question of what should be the ring for a happy marriage. Depending on the level of income, the bride and groom choose products made of gold, silver, less often platinum. It is necessary to buy engagement rings from the same metal. Signs allow inlaid with precious stones - mostly diamonds, which are suitable for all signs of the zodiac.

Buying symbols of marriage is a joyful event, so young people should discuss options in advance, familiarize themselves with the collections of jewelry stores.

Expert opinion

Experts say that the choice of wedding jewelry for the newlyweds is a personal matter of the future spouses. The advice and recommendations of experts only give a general idea of \u200b\u200bwhat the ideal symbols of love should be.

When buying engagement rings with gems, it is advised to take into account the zodiac signs of the bride and groom, so that the jewelry protects the owners even more. It is correct to store jewelry before the wedding in the house of a young man. It is forbidden to show them, to give them to strangers. If, after the marriage, the spouses do not want to wear rings every day, the jewelry should be put away in a safe place.

There are many signs associated with wedding rings. Superstitions can be listened to in order to protect marriage from negative influences. Family happiness depends not only on the jewelry that young people exchange, but also on many other factors.

Looking at the stands of jewelry stores with a lot of expensive jewelry, newlyweds often ask themselves: “How to choose the right wedding rings so that they not only fascinate with their beauty, but also bring happiness to their union?” A number of folk signs and superstitions come to the rescue! Believe in them or not, it's up to you, but it's definitely worth knowing them. Therefore, the Wedding.ws portal has collected for you the top 10 questions and answers to them regarding signs about wedding rings.

What should be wedding rings?

The rings of the young should be the same and smooth, without carvings or inscriptions, which portends the couple a calm and peaceful family life, filled with harmony and mutual understanding. And it doesn’t matter if you prefer silver, gold or platinum wedding rings, the main thing is that they have a smooth and even surface (the same sign applies to wedding rings).

Lovers of jewelry with stones come to the aid of another superstition - diamond rings promise young people prosperity and financial well-being.

Where and when to buy wedding rings?

It is better to buy wedding rings on the same day in the same store, which promises the newlyweds the unity of their thoughts and souls in marriage. But with regards to whether it is possible to buy wedding rings in advance, there are no prohibitions, so feel free to go shopping for jewelry when you want!

Can someone else's rings be used as engagement rings?

Popular beliefs say that if you use other people, such as parents, as wedding rings, you can repeat their fate. In principle, if your parents are married long enough and happily, then there is nothing wrong with that. If their union was not very strong, then it is better to abandon this idea and buy new rings for yourself.

But if your grandparents lived in marriage until the golden wedding, then their rings can be used as engagement rings, because they have accumulated the power of ancestors and will become a real talisman for your family, attracting happiness to the house.

Sometimes spouses have such a question: “Is it possible to wear a husband’s wedding ring to his wife?”. There are no superstitions about this, so if you want, you can do it.

A wedding ring fell on a painting - a bad omen or not?

It is believed that dropping the ring during registration is a bad omen, portending young troubles and misfortunes in marriage. If this nevertheless happened, simple actions will help to correct the situation: thread the thread through the ring, and then put it on your finger. And after the ceremony, burn the thread by saying this phrase: “Burn the fire with all our troubles and sorrows!”.

Touch the rings of the newlyweds - what is the sign?

It is believed that if unmarried girls and unmarried guys touch the rings of the newlyweds, then soon they will also seal themselves in marriage.

Why are newlyweds not allowed to touch an empty ring box?

According to one of the signs, the newlyweds should not pick up a box without rings after the ceremony. But the one who takes this box will very soon also put a wedding ring on the finger of his soulmate. Why is it usually given to an unmarried bridesmaid or a free friend of the groom!

Can you wear a ring on a glove?

There is such a sign about the wedding ring of the bride, which says that you can’t put it on gloves, otherwise it promises the spouses life separately. Therefore, it is better to remove this part of the wardrobe during painting!

Is it possible to let other people measure rings?

According to folk signs and superstitions, you should not let your wedding rings be measured, as you thereby give family happiness to another person. If you cannot refuse such a request, then pass the ring to the person not directly into the hands, but put it on a table or other surface.

An even bigger ban is if someone tries to take your wedding ring off your finger! Do not allow this to be done if you want your union to last for more than a dozen years!

Losing or finding an engagement ring - what is the sign?

There are signs associated with the engagement ring, not only before and during the wedding, but also after it. The loss of the ring portends a breakup with your soulmate. This superstition is explained quite simply: wedding rings, like a husband and wife, are a single whole, and if you lose one of the rings, then the integrity of your union is violated, it can easily collapse.

What to do if your husband lost his wedding ring? Do not panic, because this is just a sign, and it depends on you what your union will be like. Yes, and many couples buy new rings after a while - you can do the same!

Sometimes it happens that a wedding ring is stolen from one of the spouses. What do the omens say here? The interpretation here is twofold: on the one hand, this is equated with the loss of the ring, which means there will be a quick break, on the other hand, they say that the decoration has taken on some kind of negativity and taken it away from the life of the owner. Which interpretation to believe is up to you!

But finding someone else's engagement ring is fortunate! According to popular belief, for free guys or girls, this promises a speedy wedding, and for those who have already found a mate, replenishment in the family, well-being and prosperity in the family. Another question is what you should not bring into the house and, moreover, wear the found ring, because it absorbed the owner’s energy, and you don’t know if it was positive.

Is it possible to take off a wedding ring: what do signs say?

According to popular superstitions, wedding rings should not be removed, which will save spouses from envy and misfortune. On which finger to wear a wedding ring? Of course, on the unnamed. It is believed that it is through him that the “vein” of love passes!

It happens that the thickness of the fingers of the spouses changes over time and the wedding ring becomes large. What to do if this happened? It is imperative to adjust the size of the decoration, as, according to the sign, happiness and love “run away” from the family through it.

The portal www.site told you how to choose a wedding ring and how to wear this important piece of jewelry so that it not only pleases the eye, but also makes your union happy and long!

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September 30, 2018, 19:49

The wedding ring is special these days. love symbol and marriage for many couples in love. For this reason, they are chosen, bought, worn, taking into account existing signs. Careful attitude to the rings is important, because their meaning is to unite people in love.

Wedding ring

Orthodox wedding rings: signs and superstitions

Today, there are still signs about wedding rings:

Sometimes one of the couple may have 2 precious items (for example, the first one did not fit). It is believed that this will lead to the subsequent divorce of the spouses. In such a situation, they often ask, because the decoration could categorically not like the design and already have time to become a symbol of love. You cannot wear 2 jewelry on one finger. A person can only have one symbolic decoration.
Previously, the groom had to give engagement ring. It was traditionally worn on the ring finger. Now this is not accepted. Sometimes they additionally buy jewelry for a wedding, because church rings mean the betrothal of a couple before the Lord. Couples with an unusual outlook can even choose to wear it appropriately after marriage.
Lovers often choose paired wedding rings "Save and save". It is believed that such an engraving will provide the necessary protection for a couple in love, protect them from conflicts and unwanted divorce. Future spouses should know. engraved decoration "Bless and save" preferably worn on the thumb, index or middle finger of the right hand. If the couple is married, the jewelry is worn only on the ring finger. Sometimes unmarried women wear the “Save and Save” ring on their hand, as they try to attract love to themselves and find personal happiness.
Often, future spouses are interested in,. Usually worn on ring finger right or left hand. In Russia, the CIS, most European countries, as well as in India, Chile, Venezuela and Colombia, jewelry is traditionally worn on the right hand. Muslims wear only on the left hand.
Lovers often try to bless their wedding rings before the wedding, believing that this will protect their family. However consecrate symbolic decorations It won't work in every church. Priests usually have a better attitude towards jewelry with the engraving "Save and save", so in the 21st century such jewelry is also popular with brides and grooms. Sometimes it is possible to consecrate the rings in the church without a wedding, which also brings lovers closer.

Knowing the meaning of wedding rings, you can treat with special trepidation jewelry symbol of relationships, marriage.

Who should buy engagement rings for a wedding?

Some couples use parent jewelry. This approach is possible if the marriage of the parents was successful, happy. In other cases, it is advisable to buy new jewelry. Often lovers are interested, and try to save on purchases.

However, wearing someone else's jewelry can negatively affect relationships after the marriage ceremony.

It is the groom who buys according to tradition wedding ring. This jewelry will be a gift for his beloved. If a girl is ready to be the first to propose to a man, she buys and gives.

You can choose this men's wedding ring:

Golden ring, EFREMOV(price link)

In the 21st century, lovers often choose together wedding decorations. It is believed that this will bring them closer and help in the further development of relations. In addition, the joint choice of rings ensures that the jewelry is sure to fit in design, size, shape. In addition, it is possible only if the lovers limited themselves to painting in the registry office. If the bride and groom are married, the exchange of rings is not allowed.

To date, signs of the purchase of wedding rings have also been preserved:

Purchase need do in one day for the bride and groom. This will be a kind of guarantee of a peaceful family life.
Pay for a purchase should future spouse. In this case, he will become the head of the family.
A purchased set of jewelry is often hidden in a bag into which water is poured and frozen. It is believed that such the rite will bind the bride and groom more tightly to each other.
Sometimes it works find a piece of jewelry, which for someone was a symbol of love, on the street. This sign means that the wedding is guaranteed to take place. However, such a piece of jewelry is undesirable to wear. Someone else's decoration can affect the life of future spouses. - this is evidence that the girl will become the wife of her beloved.
Cannot be worn rings for gloves. This may lead to divorce.
For a peaceful family life, it is advisable to choose smooth jewelry. are also popular, but they are considered a fashionable novelty and do not correspond to the classics. Engagement rings with diamonds or stones are also popular, and they can be of a classic design.

Wedding rings symbolize love and marriage pairs, so their purchase should be taken with particular seriousness.

When is the best time to buy engagement rings?

Signs about buying wedding rings help even plan a purchase for the best date. Decoration can be chosen in advance, because it should fit in design, size.

Sometimes lovers plan a responsible purchase a couple of days before the wedding, but in this case, the chances of a successful choice tend to be zero.

For this reason, when asked whether it is possible to buy rings in advance, the answer can only be in the affirmative. However, you can't. Jewelery is worn only after wedding ceremonies.

You can choose a classic wedding ring:

Rose gold ring, Cameo(price link)

If a the groom bought jewelry and proposes, but at such an important moment, there is a threat to the couple's relationship. From the moment of purchase, a precious product becomes a symbol of love.

Is it possible to give wedding rings to newlyweds?

Such a gift for future newlyweds is unacceptable. According to signs and customs, the bride and groom should choose your own decoration, then consecrate it in the church and use it in the marriage ceremony during the solemn exchange at the registry office. In addition, a piece of jewelry should be liked in design and fit in size, so it is advisable to entrust the choice of symbolic jewelry to a couple in love.

Who is the first to put on a wedding ring in the registry office?

The exchange of rings at a wedding is still a reverent and significant ceremony. The first may put on a ring bride or groom in the hands of his soulmate.

It is advisable to discuss the issue with the future spouses in advance and agree with the registry office employee

The process of giving and sharing should be special. Usually, special pillows, plates or boxes are used for this. They must be submitted to the registrar before start of the marriage ceremony. You also need to make sure that the rings are securely fixed, because they should not even accidentally fall.

Put on a wedding ring

It has come from the Western tradition that children carry rings. These can be brothers, sisters, nephews, and even children from another marriage. Often they cope with such a responsible duty boy and girl who dress in children's wedding suits or white outfits.

Exchange of symbolic ornaments It is desirable to take a picture, so it is recommended to proceed slowly and carefully. It depends on whether the product will fall or not, how beautiful the picture of the touching moment in the marriage will turn out.

Then you need to consider whether or not. Usually the bride and groom should not remove it in wedding day. Otherwise, they cross out personal happiness.

Signs associated with wedding rings after the wedding

To date, the rules for wearing a wedding ring have been preserved.

It has long been believed that jewelry should be carefully stored.

The loss of jewelry after the betrothal threatens with trouble for the spouses and even divorce. and want to keep the relationship? Psychologists say that you need to buy a new piece of jewelry that will symbolize strong love to the other half. The ideal option is for the spouses to buy new wedding rings and bless them.

Signs associated with wedding rings

In difficult financial times, the question often arises,. This should not be done, even if there are serious financial problems. Otherwise, personal happiness can be given to another person.

You can not give to measure, wear rings to strangers

Sometimes spouses can die early. In such situations, you need to know, showing respect for the beloved who has gone to another world. There are the following options:

both rings on a chain;
personal - on the right hand, spouse - on a chain;
two rings can be worn on one finger of the left hand;
personal - on the right, husband - on the left.

Wear wedding rings

It is important to remember: memory and love for spouse will be more important than wearing jewelry, which is a material symbol of true love.

Signs associated with wedding rings, you need to consider before and after the marriage ceremony. It largely depends on whether the spouses will be happy with each other.

Probably everyone would like to live happily in marriage. Since ancient times, wedding rings have been considered one of the amulets of matrimony. And today, many honor traditions and wear them all the time. Since this unpretentious jewelry is endowed with magical powers, losing a wedding ring is a bad omen that promises trouble for a married couple.

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Tips for buying engagement rings

There are many customs that tell how to buy wedding rings. The most common custom is for a guy and a girl to do it together. This symbolizes a future life together. The man must pay for the purchase. In the past, wedding rings were smooth, signs required just such a form so that family life was smooth and even, without shocks. Today, more and more people began to choose rings with stones. The most common stone is a diamond, which is the personification of wealth and beauty.

This will not bring harmony to the family and will destroy the connection with the true owners of the rings. If you can’t buy your own, you can take jewelry from grandmothers or parents who have lived a long life together. It is better if they have already celebrated their golden wedding. To demonstrate their wealth, some have recently begun to order items made of platinum. White gold is also in fashion.

An important sign tells when to buy wedding rings. This should not be done before the engagement, so as not to destroy the existing connection. You can not buy on the day of the wedding. Just in time between these two events, the decoration should be bought.

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It is believed that wedding rings influenced omens with their peculiarity of serving as a talisman for family relationships. Since they are supposed to protect only certain people, they cannot even be given to another person to hold, let alone try on. The sign says that if another person puts it on before the wedding, he will steal the wedding, if after, then a happy family life.

But at the wedding ceremony, you can touch the wedding rings, for the newlyweds the sign is not dangerous, and the one who touched it will be able to find his happiness in love. The ability to give the opportunity to soon marry is also endowed with a box in which the jewelry was before the marriage. When the bride and groom put them on, the witness takes the box if she wants to get married herself.

Sometimes jewelry at a wedding literally falls out of the hands of the young. A falling ring is a bad omen. If the ring fell during the marriage, various troubles await. To avoid them, folk customs advise to carry out a small ritual with a dropped ring: thread a white thread through it. And then put on your finger. The thread is then burned by those who happened to drop the decoration.

Signs about rings do not allow them to be worn over gloves. The glove is first removed, and then a ring is put on the finger. They wear it on the ring finger, because this finger is considered to be associated with the energy of the Sun. For the same reason, gold is most often preferred as a material.

Features of engagement and wedding rings

Many traditions of the past are irretrievably lost. But some customs are starting to make a comeback. This applies to engagement rings. They are worn at the engagement, when the man proposes, and the girl agrees. Traditionally, the engagement differs from the wedding one in that it is decorated with a stone. For a long life together, a diamond is chosen, for tender love - an emerald, for a passionate relationship - a ruby. But it is better not to use products with pearls. Beliefs say that pearls - to parting.

If in the process of wearing a stone fell out of the ring, this is a bad omen that does not bode well. If a stone fell out, one must be extremely careful not to provoke a gap.

They do not part with the engagement ring before the wedding, it performs the function of a talisman, strengthens relationships between people. Therefore, it cannot be removed even for a minute. After the wedding, the engagement ring can be worn on the same finger as the engagement one. And you can remove the last one and put it away. If a couple gets married, during the sacrament she can use the same rings that were worn in the registry office. The main thing is that they should be without inlay, without stones. Traditionally, for a wedding, items of different material are purchased: silver is bought for the wife, which she then wears, and the husband puts on gold. There are numerous signs with a wedding ring that tell you how to wear it correctly and when you can change it.

It is believed that when you put on your beloved wedding jewelry, it strengthens the connection with the second half. Therefore, it must be worn constantly, and the loss of a wedding ring is described by signs as a sign of the loss of a loved one (death or divorce). Many people think so: “I wear it, my husband wears it, so everything will be fine.”

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It is thoughts like these that strengthen the bond. Negative consequences await when your decoration has flown off, bent, cracked, burst or broken. Even situations where the breakdown was preceded by objective reasons or the loss occurred due to reasons beyond the control of a person have a negative meaning. So, the circumstances were such that he was destined to be broken, and the relationship - broken.

Ideally, everyone should be sure that the ring is the right size for him. In ancient times, it was believed that if at the time of purchase the ring was just right, and then it became small or large, then there would be quarrels and quarrels. But in recent years, they do not pay attention to this, they simply turn to the jeweler.

Signs about the loss of rings

The most ancient beliefs warn what the loss of a wedding ring leads to. This is definitely a bad omen, which includes several subtleties:

Losing the wedding ring immediately after the end of the wedding is a quick parting. Indeed, in the lost ring there is a protective power that leaves when you lose it.
Losing the ring to spouses with experience is a sign that portends a new stage in their life together. It is especially successful if the couple lived in quarrels, then the loss is a sign that everything will be fine.
The third belief says that if a couple has been living together for many years, everything is stable for them, then the loss of the ring is not a sign at all, but an ordinary set of circumstances that will not affect the union of two loving people.
Folk beliefs do not distinguish between the ways in which jewelry is lost. They stole it or the person threw it away himself - all this will destroy the connection between the spouses. The folk omens associated with situations when they decide to hand over their gold product to a pawnshop do not portend happiness. The meaning is the same in one thing - family happiness is under threat. In fact, the woman who applied to the pawnshop lost this engagement ring. So selling is the same as losing.

But finding an engagement ring is a good omen. Beliefs in this case promise joy, profit, success. But if you find jewelry, you should not put on the find, so as not to adopt the energy of the former owners. It must also be remembered that a piece of jewelry found on the street, especially at a crossroads, may be damaged. Then the woman lost a special engagement ring in order to transfer her grief to another person. In fact, it is no longer a loss.

Ways to neutralize negativity

If you happen to lose your wedding ring, you should be careful so that the loss does not affect family life in any way. You can do the following:

If the wife has lost her wedding ring, the husband must donate his to the church for melting down. If the husband has lost, the wife does the same. The same should be done if you happen to find a ring.

It’s a pity to give it to the church - you can simply remove it from your eyes, after holding it for 3 days in water. The product is never shown to outsiders again. The main thing is not to wear an engagement ring that does not have a pair. In this case, you can buy a new pair. The husband should give it, who should choose the appropriate jewelry, then you need to make an offer again, get the consent of your woman in order to put the ring on yourself and her. Then, together with his hand and heart, he gives a ring, which is better not to take off.

Features of the rings of people who have lost a spouse

If a person buried his soul mate or the couple broke up, the husband and wife divorced, after the tragic events they can no longer wear wedding rings the way they did in marriage.

Divorced people cannot wear wedding rings at all, and widows and widowers put them on the same finger, but on the other hand. In Russia, it is customary for widows to wear them on their left hand. When concluding a remarriage, signs with the first ring are advised to act tough: just throw it away. If you continue to wear it, then the death of the first spouse will pass to the second.

After a divorce, it is generally better to get rid of reminders of the unsuccessful years of life. It is better to throw it into the river so that the water will wash away all sorrows and hardships, take away the negative. Such an action will help get rid of old experiences, then find new happiness.

Conclusion

Superstitions are mostly believed by women. For them, in most cases, every nuance matters. But there is no need to dwell too much on it. It should be understood which trait relates to the actions of higher powers, and which should simply be alarming and force you to make an unscheduled visit to the doctor. For example, irritation under the ring is not always a sign of a clouded relationship with her husband. The finger turns red and itches most often with irritation caused by bacteria or chemicals that have accumulated under the decoration.

Many are afraid of changing the color of gold. It's also not worth worrying about. Most likely, the presence of alloys was the reason that it turned black. Therefore, if a girl lost her wedding ring, maybe it had nothing to do with it, just her hands froze and her fingers became thinner?