You are dear to a person, he is sure. All guys always respond to interesting and non-standard messages
Now it has ceased to be something unusual and wild when girls write to a guy first. Moreover, in our modern world, conveying a message has become such a simple and quick action that people 15 years ago simply would not have believed in it.
Today, girls have become bolder and more self-confident and not afraid to be the first to take the initiative. But, there has always been and will be a fear among girls, what if the guy does not answer. But do not worry, there are some useful tips on what you need to write to your chosen one so that he answers.
- One of the easiest ways is to write that you would like to meet him. Guys, such people that even if they have "the one, the only one", he wants to know who this mysterious stranger is who wants to get to know him. He will answer, but further actions are completely up to you.
- Get smart. Write to him that he allegedly looks like a friend whom you have not seen for a long time. Or write if he rested with you some summer. Just be smart and imaginative.
- You can email him if you have his address. Write something to write to a very close friend, for example, go for a walk or go shopping with me. Pretend you didn't know you were posting to the wrong address. After such a message, the guy will definitely answer. And there it all depends on you.
- Write the most common and banal phrases, such as "How are you?", "What are you doing?". Although these phrases have long been eaten to the bone by everyone, they are still answered. Your boyfriend will do the same, here's something, and he will answer. Even if he writes, who is it? This is also the answer.
What to write to a guy so that he answers SMS?
Well, you took out this cherished number and look at it, not knowing what to do with it now. Calling him, of course, is very scary, so that you need to figure out what to write to him. Remember the advice that you don't have to be intrusive and that you need to be literate. So, what to write to a guy so that he answers SMS?- It's a safe bet to get the wrong number. You always have an ironclad alibi for this, supposedly mixed up the last digit and something like that. You can write where and when to meet so that he returns your notebook or book, or simply write that you want to talk about a new teacher. He will understand that you have the wrong number and will answer something, then the main thing is not to get confused and continue the conversation.
- You can send him the usual cool emoticon. If a guy with a good sense of humor and not a bore, then he will definitely send a smiley in response. Then you can chat, start with how things are going or that you are not averse to getting to know each other.
What to write to a guy in a contact or on another social network, and after that he will definitely answer?
Getting acquainted in a social network is the most common activity in our time. If you just text him hello. Believe me, he will answer you, he will also be interested in who you are. Do not forget, before you write, put your page in order. Delete ugly photos or photos with your ex, and also better check your notes so that they are normal and literate. The guy will definitely look at your page before answering, so be prepared. You can send him a picture or a song on the wall or in a private message. The guy will definitely demand to explain this gesture, and you will continue to communicate.What is it like to write a message to an ex-boyfriend so that he answers and wants to continue to communicate?
First, think about whether you need to write to him at all? Do you need it again? If, nevertheless, you decided to write to him, then here are a couple of tips for you:- don't text right after you break up. Write back somewhere in weeks or even months. And the message should be simple and without hints, you can just ask “how are you?” or “have not spoken for a long time, how are you?”. The main thing is that you don’t need to write messages about how bad you feel or how hard it is for you without it.
- if the guy is normal and you broke up more or less normally, then the guy will answer. Write that you are doing well, tell about the latest good news. If your ex is a good person, he will want to keep the conversation going.
Today's communication is becoming easier and more natural than before. This makes the problem of starting and maintaining communication easier. Today, one does not have to wait weeks or months for a response to a letter. Communication is accelerated, as well as the decision-making process in relationships. In other words, now in just a couple of minutes there is a chance to get a response from an interesting person, as well as certain actions. For this reason, be bold, which one you like first. Today, this does not surprise anyone, it is not considered reprehensible, since today's girls are in most cases bolder.
Simple ways to get a guy interested
So, consider simple ways to interest a member of the opposite sex:
the easiest option is to let him know that you want to get to know him. All representatives of the stronger sex are polygamous, so even if a guy has already found that one, he will definitely answer a message with a proposal for an acquaintance from a beautiful lady. At first it will be, but further communication is completely dependent on you;
if you mean a specifically unfamiliar man (with whom you want to get acquainted), then the main path is cunning. It is she who is not able to unravel even the most intelligent representatives of the stronger sex. Ask if he has a sister who went to some school. Or say that he looks too much like the brother of a friend you can't find. A man will certainly fall for such a reception. Of course, he will say that you were mistaken, but he has no sister. But this is not important, the main thing is that the conversation has begun. Then write about your own inattention, and also repent of a stupid mistake. Further correspondence will go by itself;
there is another effective method. Of course, it is not suitable for Vkontakte, but if you know the man's email address, then use this chance. Propose a meeting, specify the time and place. The man will definitely be shocked. When he passes the stupor from such a message, he will certainly answer. The next step is to act according to the situation. If he asks who wrote it, answer. If he says that this is unknown to him, say that he is pretending. After being surprised, he will understand that you mixed up the address, and will report this fact. But here again it is important to imagine the "unfortunate" girl who mixed up the address.
The girls are sure that the phrase “Hi. How are you?" unoriginal and banal that the current guys do not peck at this. But this is wrong. This is about the same if you write that you want to make an acquaintance. And all men, as already mentioned, are polygamous, and a simple “Hello” is not ignored. Perhaps out of curiosity, or perhaps to amuse himself. They are all selfish.
Such simple ways will help to get acquainted with a guy in correspondence. Then everything depends on you. But remember that in no situation is it worth remembering tact, not becoming intrusive. Don't make stupid spelling mistakes. While guys aren't usually the epitome of literacy, it's not worth the risk.
What to write to a man in SMS so that he answers
It is also important to know what to write to a man in SMS in order to encourage him to respond. But it is worth noting right away that it is too difficult to interest a stranger with one message. Many girls want to know the answer to just such a question. But there is only one way to get a man to respond to the first message. And this method is not the most decent, so we do not take it into account.
So, you got your lover's number (it doesn't matter how you got it). How to properly use this opportunity? Calling, of course, is scary. But this is not surprising, because you need to think about what to write in the message in order to encourage him to respond. The best option is "wrong number". It’s easier to do this with a phone, because just one wrong number - and the SMS will come just in time to the right addressee. There are many ways to adjust the dialogue:
propose a meeting, ask if he is going to a lecture on higher mathematics, whether he will share notes from the lecture, whether he will pick you up before work, etc. Turn on your fantasy, just ahead of time come up with a conversation plan, your own and his answers;
inform that the number was given to you by a friend that you want to chat with him. Only immediately, after his answer, take the conversation in a different direction, so that suddenly he is not interested in that “girlfriend”, and not your conversation;
another option is to send a smiley. This is an efficient and uncomplicated way. If a man is not a bore, he will certainly send a smiley in response. And you send him a new one, in accordance with what he answered. After a couple of such messages, he himself will ask something.
But limit yourself to neutral faces, do not send a variety of kisses or hugs. For initial communication, ordinary emoticons with a smile will suffice.
Acquaintance Vkontakte. What to text a guy
In the modern world, social networks are gaining great popularity. Getting to know Vkontakte makes you think about what to write to a guy in order to become interesting to him, to get an answer. Write the usual "Hi". He will most likely answer the same, because he will become curious about what you will do next.
Keep in mind that before writing to a stranger for the first time, it is important to clean up your own page. Delete all photos with ex-boyfriends, all bad shots and pretty girls. A potential boyfriend will first go to examine your personal information on the page in detail.
Another point, by all means, the avatar should have your photo, and not a picture from the Web. The man's interest immediately disappears. They certainly love the mystery, but not to that extent. He will wonder why you hide your face. And here there will be doubts about your attractiveness.
If you send a picture with meaning to a man on the Vkontakte wall, then most likely he will ask what you meant, ask you to help solve it. Do not send too original or intricate pictures, otherwise, the guy will be scared. Men do not like "misunderstandings", which is why they consider the female gender to be inhabitants of another planet. What is a subtle and understandable hint for women, for a man is a complex rebus.
What to text a guy after a fight
Then the question arises of what to write to a guy after a quarrel in order to make peace and get an answer. So let's look at some options:
send him kind words. For smoothing, it is worth writing ordinary messages like: “I think about you all the time”, “I miss you very much”, “Let's meet”. But this will not help if the man is offended by you strongly;
option with the message "Let's meet. We need to talk” is suitable if it is difficult to forget the problem that has arisen. In other words, when passions have passed, but the problem needs to be clarified;
if you are not concentrating on the question of who is to blame and who is right, then write like this: “Stupid situation. You are very dear to me. Can we reconcile?" or “I miss you so much. Let's meet and take a walk." These options are the best. They will show that it is important for you to maintain a relationship with a man, and not to sort it out.
If you write to a man after a quarrel, then both of you must be in a sober mind. Do not conduct such conversations on the negative, with the heat of emotions. It will be possible to make peace only when you finally calm down, therefore it is worth having patience.
What to write to an ex boyfriend to get an answer
The question of what to write to an ex-boyfriend is quite complicated. Here the main problem is to understand whether he should write at all. First of all, it is worth remembering your breakup, who took the initiative, why it happened. Maybe you should not write anything to him at all, because a broken vase cannot be glued together. But if you decide to take this step, stepping over your own principles and pride, then listen to these tips:
Don't text right after a breakup. Let him think. Even if you want to return it again, then this is done unobtrusively and carefully. It’s better to write the usual after a few weeks/months: “Hi. What's up? We haven't corresponded for a long time." By this you will demonstrate that you do not remember grievances (even if the situation is exactly the opposite), you will not beg him to return;
in addition, if in the past you are both, and the guy is not the worst person, then he will certainly answer you. After that, write that everything is fine with you, tell the news about mutual acquaintances. In other words, defuse the situation from the very beginning. It turns out that you will not go on the offensive right away.
If you feel that a man only unsubscribes with on-duty offers, is not interested in you, does not ask about anything, then there is no place for you in his fate, another one has taken him. Do not threaten him or be intrusive, as do too "smart" girls. This is not the way. In fact, he is not the last guy on the planet, if you broke up, then it was necessary. Lucky someone else. Stay proud, appreciate yourself, your own dignity.
Typical female mistakes. What not to write
There are typical mistakes of women in correspondence with men:
Obsession.
If he is not interested in your message, do not be annoying, do not write the same thing 150 times, do not beat the guy. Behave like a woman, pretend that it doesn't matter to you at all. A man will not be interested if you pursue him. The next letter should be written only if he answers. Don't send a bunch of emails at once.
Messages like: "Why aren't you answering?", "Where are you??", "Why are you missing again?" forget at all. Men are not interested in them.
Illiteracy.
Write messages correctly. A person cannot see you, he will appreciate your writing style, accuracy.
Familiarity.
You should not immediately call a man gentle words like “Kolenka”, “bunny”, “sun”. This creates the wrong impression right away. Also, don't come up with joking nicknames. What seems funny and cute to you can easily offend a person.
Do not lisp, do not write snotty messages to him. You are not his mother, such excessive care repels guys. Take an interest in his affairs without excessive aspiration, but with interest.
Do not create false opinions about yourself from the first message, they will disappear at the first meeting. Stay sincere. It is the right choice for every situation.
Focus on one's own person.
Do not talk only about yourself and do not write long messages. In each letter, ask him a few questions, and also comment on the answers. Men need a sincere interest in them. Constant “But I ...” will not lead to constructive and fruitful communication.
There are many options to interest a guy and start communication. The main thing is to properly take advantage of the chance and not goof off. All in your hands. Follow simple tips, and you will certainly meet the man you like, become interesting to him.
March 3, 2014, 10:45 amModern communication has become much easier and more relaxed than it used to be. This greatly facilitates the task of how to start communication and how to maintain it in the future. Since now the “carrier pigeon” is not even a simple letter that needs to be waited for several days or weeks, but an electronic one, not only communication itself has accelerated, but also the speed of making some decisions that are the result of this communication. Clever, right? But this is a fact.
In other words, in our time, in just a few minutes, you can achieve not only a response from a person, but also any actions from him. Therefore, be bolder and start communicating with the guy who interested you first. Now this is not something strange and reprehensible, because today's girls are in many ways bolder than young people. So, read and remember what to write to the guy so that he answers.
- The easiest way is to write about that you want to get to know him. Believe me, all guys are polygamous. Even if he already has the “one and only”, then he will not refuse the offer to meet a beautiful lady. At first, this may be just a joke or flirting on his part. What happens next will completely depend on you, i.e. How can you interest him?
- If we are talking about an unfamiliar guy (but you would like to get to know him), your main cunning will be the weapon. Yes, yes, it is female cunning, which is too tough for even the smartest man. Ask, for example, if he has a sister who is so many years old, and if she studied at such and such a school. Like, he is very similar to the brother of your former classmate, whom you have already despaired of looking for in all social networks.
The object of your attention will definitely fall for this "lure". Of course, he will answer that you were mistaken, and he may not have a sister at all, but does it matter? The main thing is that the conversation began. Then you will write about your inattention and repent of such an absurd oversight. Thus, everything will continue to roll by itself.
- There is another unique way. Of course, it is not suitable for social networks. But if you suddenly by some miracle recognized his e-mail (e-mail), then God himself ordered to use in exactly this way. Make an appointment, write down the place and time. Believe me, the guy will be shocked. After his stupor passes from such a letter, he will definitely answer you. Then act according to the situation. He may ask, for example, "who is this." Answer him. If he writes that “he doesn’t know such people,” write so that he doesn’t pretend. After another stupor, he will guess that you made a mistake with your email address and will tell you about it. Well, here you are again portraying the "poor sheep" who just wentof off.
"Hi. How are you?" - many consider these phrases to be hackneyed and unoriginal, they say, modern guys will no longer fall for this. Ha, how they peck. It's like if you write that you want to get to know him. And since it was said earlier that all male beings are polygamous, he will not leave your banal “hello” without attention. Maybe because of simple interest, or maybe in order to amuse their pride. After all, all the guys are very proud. He will be flattered that the girl herself wants to meet him.
Once again I will say that if he already has a lover, he will still reply to the message.
After all, if they don’t consider real betrayal a betrayal, then, just think, some kind of answer to a girl who herself wants to get acquainted. What's special here? This is how they all talk. Eh, you guys... And why only we believe you? Or are we just pretending? Okay, let's drop the lyrics. It's not about that now.
In general, these few ways will 100% help you get to know a pen pal. Next is a matter of technology. However, remember that in any case don't be intrusive and forget about tact. Try also not to make obvious mistakes in the letter. Although the guys, in general, do not shine with special literacy, it's still not worth the risk. Suddenly, your new acquaintance turns out to be an incorrigible intellectual or a fighter for the correctness and purity of the Russian language. Anything happens...
What to write to a guy so that he answers SMS?
I want to say right away that it is very, very difficult to “hook” an unfamiliar guy with one SMS. Many girls who spend time on the forums insistently demand an answer to this very question. And the answer is most often the same - not very decent, or rather, the proposal that the guy needs to make is not very decent. But since I am confident in the good education of my reader, i.e. you, let's omit this, so unworthy, way.
So, you have in your hands the treasured phone number of your chosen one (it doesn’t matter how you got it). How to use it correctly? Calling, of course, is scary. This is understandable. It remains to figure out what to write to the guy so that he answers. The best option is again to “mistake” the number. It's easier with a phone - just one "wrong" digit, and the message will reach exactly the right addressee. There are a lot of options for the dialogue you set up.
- Can make appointment, ask if he will go to a lecture on computer science, will he let you rewrite yesterday's abstract, will he pick you up in a car, etc. Fantasize yourself. Just make a rough plan for your conversation in advance, i.e. exemplary his and his answers.
- Can you write that girlfriend gave me his phone number say you want to chat. Only immediately, after the guy answers, transfer the conversation to another topic so that he suddenly does not become interested in that very “girlfriend”, and not in a dialogue with you.
- Another option - send a smiley. This is the most unpretentious, but effective method. If the guy is not a bore and not a donkey, then he will definitely send a response emoticon. And you send another one, depending on which one he sends you. After two or three such SMS, he will write something to you.
Just limit yourself to neutral emoticons. No need to send him all sorts of “smacks” and “hugs” or a face showing the tongue. For the first message, one simple smiling emoticon is enough.
What to write to a guy in contact so that he answers?
So, in contact, in one of the most popular social networks, you can write to a guy to answer the most banal and unpretentious phrase: "Hi". The young man, I assure you, will also answer: "Hi." Only a point at the end will not put (in every sense).
- Firstly, guys are usually generally practically avoid punctuation marks.
- Secondly,he will be interested find out about the next steps you have taken to continue communicating with him.
Keep in mind that before you write to a stranger for the first time, put things in order on your own page. It should not contain photos with former boyfriends, as well as no "terrible faces" and pictures of pretty girlfriends. After all, a potential boyfriend will first of all climb to thoroughly study all your ins and outs on a personal page.
One more thing: must be on the avatar your photo, and not some kind of gibberish. The guy’s interest will immediately disappear, since men, of course, love mystery, but not to such an extent.
He may immediately think that for some reason you are hiding your appearance. And then doubts will creep in about your attractiveness. So no need to build an enigma out of yourself.
By sending a guy on his wall in contact with some picture with meaning, you will most likely wait for a message in which he will ask you to decipher your hint. Do not send too sophisticated and original picture, otherwise you will definitely scare the boy away. After all, men do not like "misunderstandings", and therefore they consider us women to be creatures from another planet. What for us is just a subtle, fairly understandable hint, for them it will be an unsolvable puzzle.
What to write to an ex-boyfriend so that he answers?
This is a difficult question. Moreover, the main difficulty lies in whether it is worth writing at all? First of all, remember HOW you broke up, WHO was the initiator, and WHY it happened. Perhaps it is better not to write anything at all, because a broken bowl, as they say, cannot be glued together. But if you have already decided on this act, stepped over all the principles and your pride, have already figured out what to write to the guy so that he will answer, then here are some tips.
- Firstly, Don't text right after a breakup. Let time pass. Even if you want to return it (think again!), then you need to do it carefully and unobtrusively.
The best thing to do after a few weeks or months is to write a simple, “Hi. How are you? We haven't spoken in a long time." By this you will show that you have no resentment left (even if this is not the case), and you are not going to flood him with tearful messages asking him to return everything back.
- Secondly, if in the past you had real feelings, and the guy is not the last one, then he be sure to reply to the email. After his answer, write that you are doing well, tell, for example, news about your mutual friends. In short, defuse the situation initially. You still have time to go on the offensive (unless, of course, this is your ultimate goal, although in another case it makes no sense to write to a former boyfriend).
If you feel that the guy just unsubscribes with on-duty phrases and does not ask any questions about you, it means that there is no longer a place for you in his life, it is occupied by another. Come to terms with this fact. Do not try to impose or threaten, as some "smart" young ladies do. This is not going through any gates! In the end, the world did not converge on your ex. If he's lost a treasure like you, then that's the way he should be. Someone else, more deserving, will be lucky. Be proud and prudent, value yourself and your dignity, do not be led by feelings alone. Remember that you are one of a kind all over the earth!
Let's figure it out. Let's start listing.
"Let's meet". In this case, you will definitely get an answer. More precisely…. Question! And it will sound like this: “why?” So think in advance what you want to reply to this message. Then your conversation will flow like a stream. Note: after such an SMS - communication, he will even call you!
"What is your mood?". A banal question, but a necessary one. It may be that you write in the "star" minute. That is, when he will dream of such a message. He will be grateful to you for it.
"Can I ask you a question?". Actually, you will ask him anyway, but the guy will not miss your “message”. He will write you something similar to "of course you can." Ask something interesting so that the thread of your communication does not break.
"I really need to know your attitude towards me." Something he will definitely respond to such a message. What exactly - you will see when you read the treasured answer from him! Happy waiting!
You can count on an answer if you write him a lot of compliments. And they love attention, beautiful words! You'll be smart if you step back from the stereotypes that say that a guy should compliment girls (but not vice versa).
Invite him somewhere (to the cinema, in a cafe, to a disco, to the theater, to visit, for a walk, to the pool, to the park, to the circus, to a picnic, to the country). Almost all guys (men) will not be able to refuse such a tempting offer.
Throw the guy with interesting jokes, jokes and anecdotes. If he does not answer, he will be the last scoundrel! Humor is never too much. The more you scribble, the more chances you have for an answer.
Ask him for help. He will answer immediately (if he has a conscience and opportunity). Think about what kind of help you need. Repairing a computer (laptop) or moral support are a few "cases" that will help you meet.
Invite him to your birthday or to celebrate any other holiday. You will receive either "yes" or "no" in the message. If you want more text, keep talking.
Ask to buy something. And you can ask to bring heavy bags (at least to the entrance). He will be glad that you asked him about it, and not someone else! And you feel good, and you will raise the boy's self-esteem!
Send SMS with beautiful poems. The recipient will answer you with a rhyme or a huge thank you. Expect many words of admiration. Perhaps he will ask for something else to read (from your work).
Make a big list of questions and send them via email. It will take a long time to go to your adored person, so be patient and wait. You will have to wait for the dispatch and the answer to your questions.
The guy will not answer all the questions, but selectively
You yourself understand why he can show his “selectivity”.
The reasons:
- He is afraid that you will find out something very unpleasant (negative) about him. He will keep silent so that this does not happen. "Silence" is the omission of an answer to your tricky question. And the guy can answer him with hints or jokes. Then he will be able to show not only selectivity, but also ingenuity (creativity). For this guy should be respected!
- The young man did not understand the whole point of the question. He did not ask again, so as not to spoil the plan of answers. But he will definitely ask everything that he wanted if you meet after a detailed and fascinating "questionnaire". Formulate questions in such a way that everyone you ask them has a desire to answer them. Write every word correctly! The errors found in the text are a "little death" (for many).
- He is sure that it is too early for you to know some information about his person. That's why I decided to send "emptiness" instead of an answer. And you rejoice that he somehow reacts to your "questionnaire". After all, he could not answer you at all, agree! Save the message on your phone. Then transfer it to your computer to keep this “letter collection” as a keepsake.
All guys always respond to interesting and non-standard messages
Avoid such phrases: “tell me something”, “cheer me up”, “what are we talking about?”, “what are you doing now?”. The reason for ignoring the message may be male laziness. Your betrothed would love to answer you, but the sensor in the mobile interferes. You know how convenient it is to use a push-button telephone. There is a way out! Give him one! He will be pleased with such attention. If he doesn’t send you “news” after receiving this gift, the reason lies in something else.
The guy ran out of money on his balance sheet! Do not forget that males are not wallets or piggy banks! They, too, can “disappear” finances. You don't need to top up your mobile account. Such an act of yours will greatly offend him. Wait until your hero reaches the bank himself.
Have you considered the possibility that he might have a girlfriend?
By the way, she looks through all the messages of her dear and deletes them while he is in the bathroom or on the balcony (on a “smoke break”).
Your "mouse" forgot his cell phone at home. He did not return for him, because he believes in various signs. It turns out that there is a huge "minus" in such a belief. Not all guys have a second phone. In general, an additional mobile phone is not a salvation, since you can manage to forget both phones in an apartment! Do not buy the third one (in case of "aggravation" of absent-mindedness). Don't panic ahead of time!
You can send all the examples of messages mentioned above to chats and social networks. On the Internet, you have more options!
Do you want to send a paper letter?
An extraordinary option. The guy will definitely appreciate it. He will answer your message. It is possible that not in writing. He will either send you a message or an email. The best option is "hiding" in that it will head straight to your house! All dreams come true if you believe that they come true (sooner or later).
Now you know what to write to a guy so that he will definitely give an answer.
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