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Sometimes in life it so happens that an important person appears for you. You feel good and pleasant next to him, but there comes a moment when you want to talk about feelings. This must be done very carefully, because a sharp revelation can scare a guy you like. Pulling for a long time is also not an option, because if there is a feeling, then it will constantly bother you. If the guy doesn't take the first step, you do it!

First you need to decide: speak directly and find out the reaction right away, or go in tricky ways. Recognition is directly suitable for strong girls, emotionally balanced, self-confident. With the most common admission: “I like you,” you immediately know about the reciprocity of feelings.

But if it's really scary to walk up and admit to a guy that you like him, you can use several other methods. For example, write a message over the phone or any social network. This recognition will give the guy the opportunity to reflect on the answer. The disadvantage of this method is that he may lie or think that he is being played. You can convey your words through someone else, but it's best not to involve friends in your relationship.

What if it's hard to confess?

To begin with, you need to establish a good relationship with him. If you don't know each other at all, then get acquainted. If you don't have the courage to get to know each other, smile at him when you meet, look at him, don't look away when he looks at you. But do not look constantly, it will embarrass him, do not be intrusive. Make a good impression of yourself, do not avoid meeting and contact with him.

If this person is familiar, then you need to get closer to him. Figure out how to spend time together, the easiest excuse is to ask for some help. There can be absolutely any reason, it is not so important. Often girls say that they have tickets somewhere and they have no one to go with, for example, a friend could not go and warned at the last moment. On such a "date" it will be possible to learn more about each other, perhaps, and confess feelings. If the guy refuses without hesitation, do not insist, it means that he is not interested in your proposal. But mind you, it's much easier psychologically to hear that he doesn't want to go to the movies with you than he doesn't like you.

If you like one of your friends, try to make him stand out from the others, surprise him. For the holidays, you can give something unusual, special. We are not talking about expensive gifts. You can go to the gift shop and dig up something funny and funny there. For example, a magician's hat, a masquerade mask, it all depends on what he is fond of.

Do not impose, this is the main rule. To highlight does not mean talking only about him or only with him in the company. There is no need to constantly try to sit next to him or be near him, such persecution can annoy a person.

For a guy to admit that he likes you, you need to become a part of his life. This is very important and responsible. So first figure out if this guy is exactly the one with whom you want to meet, be close, etc. If yes, then to the point. You need to be genuinely interested in his life. If he goes in for sports, any games (intellectual, computer) - try at least once to come and support him, spend a few hours on it. Even if the guy didn't like you before, he will definitely mark you.

Flirt with him, be cheerful, try to be constantly in a good mood, smile. If you just be positive, then people are drawn to you. If a guy does not appreciate such an act, this indicates his cold feelings.

If the guy appreciated your attention, then it's time to confess your feelings. Alternatively, you can say that it is easy for you to spend time with him. If you say that it is fun and interesting with him, he will understand that you like him. Then it's up to him, but do not rush him with an answer, perhaps he is afraid to admit "directly" just like you.

The woman asks: "There is a man. Serious, strict, businesslike. On the one hand, I really like him, on the other, I respect him very much and am very shy in front of him. I want a relationship with him, but I don’t know how to tell him."

Question from a woman (for the last week - the tenth or twentieth of similar content):

"I like a man. Serious, strict, businesslike. On the one hand, I really like him, on the other, I respect him very much and am very shy in front of him. I want a relationship with him, but I don't know how to tell him."

My answer:

Letting a man know that you like him is a very exciting business, especially for modest girls. It is especially scary to hear the answer “but you don’t to me” or, even worse, ridicule, mockery.

However, in fact, the easiest and most effective way is to tell the man how it is. I am a supporter of straightforwardness, honesty and openness in relationships and an opponent of uncertainty, fog, hints and wagging. Therefore, I consider directness to be the best way. Of course, provided that the man knows you and knows you somehow. Otherwise, instead of a refusal, an even more embarrassing "Who are you?"

So, let's start with the situation if you are relatively familiar with him (and he is with you) and the question "who are you?" will not sound exactly. It does not matter at all here whether you are familiar in real life or on the net. Now there are even more successful acquaintances on the Internet than in real life, because people spend a lot of time on the Internet. And often relationships are tied between people living in different cities.

The easier and more direct you tell him about your interest in him, the clearer it will be:

1. His attitude towards you. Agree - excellent. Refuses directly - no need to suffer from the unknown. Will start "neither yes nor no" - see point 2.

2. Who is in front of you. You will understand a lot from his reaction. It will scoff, sneer - you’re better off that you recognized the idiot even before the start of the relationship. Will hesitate, "neither yes nor no" - it is very doubtful his seriousness and efficiency. In addition, it is possible that he is a manipulator, friend. His answer will show very clearly his character traits.

When a woman makes it clear that she is not indifferent to a man, she kills two birds with one stone.

A. Men react very badly to all sorts of vague hints and other symbols. Especially business men. It is useless to make eyes, wag your tail, call your eyes, have vague chat on the network, leave comments and likes with them. Most likely, they will perceive it as an ordinary female coquetry, which does not mean anything. And they will pass it by themselves, as an unnecessary extraneous irritant. And if you do the same, but a lot and often, then a man in general may find a woman intrusive and strange. Moreover, he may not even notice it. And when you unambiguously make it clear that you are interested in it, then these misunderstandings can be avoided.

B. When a woman unambiguously informs a man that she likes him, the man's room for moves and wagging sharply decreases. In fact, he has to choose between yes and no. Even by the nature of the fluctuations, you can determine the mood of a man. For example, direct questions. He does not give a clear answer, because he does not know you well. Or because there is something about you that he doesn't like. Or he's just already in a relationship, just not telling you to keep you on the bench. Or he is just a mumble, who himself does not know what he wants and is not able to make a decision. So it will hesitate, doubt, rush between alternatives. This is how much useful information a woman can get from being direct and honest.

It is not necessary to say from the first word "I like you, I want a relationship with you." If you are modest and shy, very afraid of rejection, then you can first probe his attitude towards you. Is it positive or negative? Or neutral, indefinite? How to act, I explained in the article "How to understand that a girl likes you."

However, there is no need to be afraid of refusal. A clear refusal is better than suffering for weeks, months or even years in the unknown and suffering from unrequited love.

But the opposite option, the consent of the man, will quickly direct the matter in the direction you need.

If he does not know you very well, then it is better to first draw his attention to himself indirectly. The easiest, but far from the most effective way is to communicate on general topics. Why the simplest is understandable. No effort is required, it is easy.

Why is it far from the most productive? Because they are really business, busy men who do not have fun on the Internet, but are busy with work. They may, with your little talk, consider you a chronophase. A frivolous lady who is simply killing time for meaningless, empty chatter. Kills THEIR time. Therefore, there is a great risk of being ignored or even hearing a strict request from a man not to waste his time on trifles. For example, that's what I do.

Therefore, I advise another way. It is more difficult, but much more effective. This is helping a man in his affairs. Just offer him your help. After all, you know at least roughly what he does? By the way, this is a great test of your feelings. A woman who is in love is drawn to help her man. So in fact, there are no downsides. But there is an opportunity to get to know more about the affairs of a man and with himself, his character, values, worldview. This is a huge plus. Nothing brings people closer together like a common cause. It is only important that this desire to help him be sincere. A false desire - when a woman is not interested in the affairs of a man, she just wants to quickly and most likely tangle him up - is quickly recognized.

Your sincere help to a man will serve as an excellent service in the development of your relationship. It is unlikely that any man will dismiss his like-minded and faithful assistant. Remember: it is easy for a normal man to find a mistress, but a faithful companion is much more difficult.

How to respond to a rejection? No way. Honest refusal without manipulation and taunting is normal. A man can be in a relationship. He may like other types of women. But you never know what! At least, it is better to cry once because of refusal than to torment yourself for months or even years, being in uncertainty. And to build self-confidence and fighting spirit, read my article "How to respond to women's refusals." It is written for men, but the essence is the same.

How to react if he doesn't say yes or no? There are three options:

1. He is not familiar with you, your character, maybe he treats you with apprehension, distrust. It differs from the other two options in that the man is interested in you and himself tries to get to know you better. Initiates contacts: dating, Skype calls. Asks a lot of questions about you, your attitude to certain things, situations. For especially serious men, this sometimes looks like an interrogation, but don't be intimidated. This is not from harm or suspicion. It's just that thoughtful men are trying to understand what kind of person is in front of him. This behavior of a man is a sign of seriousness and determination. This is a good sign. Why - you will understand in comparison with the other two points. He has a positive attitude towards your activity, supports it in every possible way.

2. He is a weak-willed, insecure person who himself does not know "yes" or "no". More specifically, a slob who does not know how to make decisions is always rushing between alternatives, running away from choice and from solving problems in general. He does not have a clear opinion and a strong position on any issue. Including about you. This is evident in his passivity. He does not seek to get to know you better in order to decide "yes" or "no". At the same time, he will accept your steps with joy. Actually, this is how you can recognize such a person - by the discrepancy between your own passivity and a positive attitude towards your activity. However, your activity may one day provoke resistance. For example, if it leads to the need for a clear choice. In particular, if you invite him to move in.

3. He is an ordinary manipulator, and he sees you as a contender for the friend zone or the bench. This can be seen in his frivolous attitude to your activity and unwillingness to get to know you better. He, in principle, does not care what your character is and what kind of person you are. It doesn't matter for the friend zone.

If you let him know that you are not indifferent to him, and he met it with irony, ridicule, mockery. Well, sometimes we come across scoundrels. And you were lucky enough to run into one of them. It’s very good that his ugly nature was revealed before you began a serious relationship. Is it worth it to regret that fate divorced you with such a person?

Warning: think, remember, did you do something to him that could cause irony? For example, if you once said “no”, dynamila or left him, and now decided to return to him or get him out of the friend zone, then only you are to blame. Dull comebacks really can only make you laugh. Or maybe from the very first words you started to put forward ridiculous demands and conditions with the same result. Here you can only blame yourself.

Honesty, directness, openness make life very difficult for manipulators of any gender, who find it more difficult to maneuver. Ideal conditions for manipulators are a fog of uncertainty. And directness and openness disperses this fog in no time. But healthy relationships greatly facilitate. When you know that your feelings are mutual, moving towards each other is much easier and more pleasant.

Modern girls often don't know how to tell a guy about their feelings for him. In most cases, they are afraid that they might scare him away. There are many ways to express your sympathy. The most common is personal conversation. But you can also talk about feelings in a letter, message or even a phone call. The main thing is that the expression of feelings is sincere. After all, it is not the words themselves that are important, but the way they are said.

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How to confess sympathy

There are many ways to express your feelings. But it should be understood that any such manifestation has certain consequences. You need to know how to confess your sympathy to a guy:

1. Choose the right moment. If the guy is tired, not in the mood, then the expression of his feelings should be postponed until later. The most appropriate moment when no one is in a hurry and is in a good mood.
2. The confession should be done in private. Undoubtedly, the best friend will give confidence, but the guy can take the confession as a joke. And in the presence of friends, he will be confused and will refuse at all.
3. Prepare in advance. It is worth rehearsing your speech, looking at yourself from the outside. It is necessary to prepare yourself for an unpleasant outcome, because there is a possibility that it will refuse.
4. Do not speak directly. Better to start with a neutral topic and then come up with a conversation. It is worth starting with questions, asking about his life.
5. Speak clearly and clearly. The guy needs to understand and hear the words, so the confession rehearsal is very important. If he is confused, then it is worth repeating the confession again to show the seriousness of intentions.
6. Don't rush it. If a guy asks for time for an answer, then you should wait at least a couple of days. And if he hesitated, then you need to gently push him to answer, saying that the recognition was not easy, because there was no confidence in the reciprocal feelings. This will prompt him to answer. both positive and negative.
7. Do not react emotionally to rejection. If the guy refused, then you don't have to throw tantrums, cry and beg him for a chance. You must show courage and respect for yourself, accept his refusal and express a desire to communicate with him as before.

How to invite a girl to date

Letter of recognition

Girls can be very shy and cannot express their feelings in person. For this, there are social networks and popular instant messengers. The tactics will depend on how well the guy knows the girl.

If a girl drew attention to a previously unfamiliar guy, then you should immediately find out if he has a girlfriend. Typically, this information can be found on your social media profile. If there is no such information, then you need to leave "likes" under the guy's photos or notes - this will attract his attention. After that, it is worth acting according to the situation. If he sent a request for friendship, then you need to accept it, if not - do it yourself. Then, in the course of the conversation, find common ground. After a few days of communication, he will most likely ask you out on a date.

If the guy is already friends, then just write him a private message. But expressing feelings via SMS should be done carefully. High writing style should be avoided. You just need to say what you are experiencing. Saying "I love you" is not recommended, as such a serious statement can scare a guy off. Better to just say what you like him for. This will be much easier if the guy is very familiar to the girl.

A significant disadvantage of such communication is the inability to see a person's emotions. Therefore, it is better to have the courage and express your feelings in person, rather than over the Internet.

How to prove to a guy that you love him

How to avoid mistakes?

It is very difficult to be the first to admit in sympathy, even if you really like the guy. Therefore, we must try to avoid an unpleasant situation. The following points will help you avoid some mistakes:

you should not impose your society, you need to give personal freedom;
not to wear other people's masks, to be what you are;
do not bombard with messages, respond only as responses are received from him;
not show your feelings in the company of his friends;
be mentally prepared for a possible refusal.

Keeping silent about feelings or expressing them is a personal matter for every girl. Admitting sympathy is not so hard. It is much more pleasant to be with a man when there is confidence in his feelings, and not constant doubts about him. We must remember that falling in love is completely sincere, strong feelings, but by hiding them, you can lose a dear person. You don't need to listen to the advice of others, you should act as your heart tells you.

How to invite a guy to date

The best words

To impress a loved one, it is recommended to choose words depending on the seriousness of the relationship, the age of the chosen one and other individual characteristics. There are several ready-made options for confessions:

1. "Our acquaintance does not last long. But I am absolutely sure that you are very close to me in spirit. When we do not see each other, I want you to be near. And when we are together, I feel very happy. You are very dear to me. I'm ready for a lot for you. "
2. "Before meeting you, I never thought that I could fall in love. But you completely changed my life, turned it upside down. Next to you, I understand that I have the warmest feelings for you, and separation is very difficult for me. You have given me many wonderful moments, and I want to thank you for painting my life with such bright colors. "
3. "I miss you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You are never enough for me, I really want to be near you. You are very smart and caring, you give me a lot of wonderful emotions. Our meetings leave an aftertaste on my lips for a long time. ".
4. "Your embrace is like space for me. Your kisses are like a drug that intoxicates me every day. You are very dear to me, with you I feel really happy."
5. “For a long time I could not decide on such a serious step for me. You are the first to whom I show such feelings.

There are many options for recognition. The main thing is that they are sincere and come from the very heart. Expressing feelings in writing is easier, but personal recognition will still have a greater impact. It is worth looking a guy straight in the eyes, occasionally glancing at his lips or chin, sometimes you can look away. It is necessary to speak without hesitation, but not in continuous text, pausing to emphasize important words.

Does the guy you have a liking for not showing much initiative? Perhaps he simply does not know what is interesting to you, and therefore hesitates to take the first step. There are many ways in which you can demonstrate your feelings to a young person without speaking directly to them.
Should I tell a guy about your feelings?
The most important question for a girl is whether it is necessary to admit to a young man about her love at all, or is it better to wait for the first step from him, as it should be due to numerous traditions. There can be many reasons to tell a man about this herself. The guy can be very timid, he can be too reverent about the girl and is simply afraid of offending or rushing her with his confession. Also, some bets are morally afraid to reveal their souls and therefore hide their feelings. Either the young man may have doubts whether he really likes you or whether it is just a passing hobby. So do not be afraid - recognition on the part of a girl in tender feelings today is considered quite normal. First of all, it is worth assessing the general situation and situation. A declaration of love, logically, should entail serious consequences, the main one of which is the creation and development of a couple and your love relationship. Therefore, first of all, you yourself must be sure that you want the possible development of relations with this man, you want to see and communicate with him more often. You also need to assess whether he is ready for a potential relationship, whether he now has strong love with another girl, or whether he recently suffered a difficult breakup, after which he will definitely want to be alone for a long time. Take the initiative if he's shy You understand that this young man likes, which is indicated by some direct or indirect facts, but there is no recognition of sympathy on his part. If you see that the guy is shy or for some reason not confident in himself, then you can take the initiative into your own hands. His shyness can manifest itself in different ways: for example, you notice that he tries to stay longer in your company, but he is embarrassed if he accidentally touches you or when the conversation turns to personal topics. He can also shade if he catches your eye or is alone with you. Of course, the lack of initiative can be explained by indifference, but most girls, perhaps, will be able to distinguish indifferent behavior from insecure attempts to get closer. Don't embarrass a guy if he has a girlfriend. If you know that the person you like is already in a relationship with another girl, and this romance at least outwardly seems to be a wave of prosperity, then you do not need to embarrass him with your confessions. It is unlikely that he will reciprocate under such circumstances. But even if this does happen, it is unlikely that you will want to be in the status of a lovemaker. You can gently hint to a guy that you like him, but don't talk directly about your feelings. Do not intrude if he is not interested in you When communicating with him, you see that he has no interest, and this is clearly not embarrassment or self-doubt - he really is burdened by this communication. The reasons may not be in you at all - he as a whole may not want a relationship now, or he is looking for a girl exclusively for a certain type, under which you do not fall. In addition, he may have liked another for a long time. There may be a lot of circumstances due to which he does not see you as a potential lover, and in this case, your confession may even cause him to avoid meeting you.
How to show a man that you like him Just tell a man about your love in plain text - you can always do this, but it is not too romantic and morally very difficult. It is much more beautiful to express your warm sympathy for the person you like with the help of gentle words spoken in a suitable setting and with the right emphasis on your hints for a man. In this case, it is worth choosing the right words depending on how close you are to a young man you like - he may be just cute to you, you may be in love with him and your feelings may well be mutual. The tips below will surely help you find a way to express your feelings to a man, without being confused and not missing your opportunity to become happy with him.
When you just really like him When you just like a young man, you can well express your tender feelings with hints. For example, appear in front of him in beautiful outfits and in response to his compliments, say that you wanted to look good especially for him. Men generally love with their eyes, so your beautiful appearance will be very important so that the young man has a pleasant impression of you and this disposed him to communicate and get to know you better. You can also use not too explicit compliments to a young man, tell him live or in SMS, as if by chance, how strong he is, how he looks like a handsome actor, what interesting hobbies he has, etc. You can make friends with his friends or acquaintances, and through them learn about the guy's tastes and interests, so that later in conversations with him, these topics can be used as "clues." And in one of these conversations, you can notice that you have a lot of similar interests and therefore you clearly sympathize with this guy.
When you love him, how to confess your feelings If your feelings are already something more than just sympathy, you should act more confidently so as not to miss your happiness. First of all, exclude flirting with other young people in his presence, so as not to call yourself up as a promiscuous and fickle girl. Try to be positive and cheerful in order to attract attention - it will also be useful to evaluate the jokes of a guy you like, because he will certainly appreciate those who appreciate his sense of humor. You can also write to him about your feelings, without naming the very word "love", but quite clearly speaking about your feelings. In this case, if a guy is interested in you, he will answer you, and if not, you can pretend that this message was not and thereby get rid of unnecessary worries.
Declaration of love when feelings are mutual In the case when your feelings are mutual and you are also nice to this young man, it will be easier. It will be enough for you to take the first step to start a relationship. You can write a message in a message or a social network with the words that you like him and if his feelings are mutual, then let him write you a response message. You can also tell the guy that you have long wanted to go to a movie or play, but you have no one to go with. He will probably offer to keep you company - and this is a great reason to talk and get to know each other better. A good option is to give the guy a small present that would hint to him about the reciprocity of your feelings. For example, pairing mugs or key chains, one of your joint photos in a frame, etc. Do not be afraid to make contact, because young people are also often shy before the first conversation and may be embarrassed to admit their warm feelings.

I want it like a hint of a bed

If you don't have a relationship yet, then such hints may not play into your hands. The guy, of course, can answer your "signals", but there is a high probability that everything is limited to bed only - the chosen one will simply consider you a windy person. However, if you have already started dating, but it does not go beyond kissing, then, of course, you can take the initiative. Try to be alone with your lover more often, hug him and just touch. Also, to take the relationship to a new level, you can invite him home for a romantic dinner - wine, candles and pleasant music will undoubtedly be conducive to your intimacy.

How to hint a guy to call for a walk or invite him out on a date Interesting places In personal communication or during correspondence, you can mention some new establishments or just interesting places that you would like to visit. Point out that you usually go out with your friend, but in the coming days she has other things to do, so you don't even know whether to wait for her or find yourself another company. For a young man, this will be a clear hint that you are inclined to walk together. His tastes Find out where your partner likes to spend time, and show interest in his choice. For example, he enjoys skiing. Say that you have never done this or that you cannot learn in any way, but you would really like to do this. Or he may state that he likes a certain genre of films, which he periodically goes to the cinema. You, in turn, can answer that you are also interested in such pictures, but your friends do not share these tastes, and you yourself do not want to go to the cinema. Direct hints Write or tell the young man that you are very interested in communicating with him, and it would be nice to walk together sometime. You can find a certain reason. For example, you told your interlocutor about a place that he has not been to. Note in passing that you will definitely show him "somehow" this institution. If he wants to meet, then your statement will be a good chance for him to take advantage of the situation and invite you for a walk or a date.

Hinting a guy about a relationship correctly

Positive mood In his presence, try to maintain a positive mood, showing the guy that you are pleased to be in such a company. It makes sense not only to show it, but also to voice it. Talk about how interesting and fun you are with him. You can also mention that he, like no one else, is able to cheer you up. Skin contact Touch the guy you like. Although, of course, here it is also worth knowing when to stop - there is no need to "hang" on it, your touch should be as if by chance. You can take him by the arm while crossing the road or climbing the steps. Light hugs and a kiss on the cheek are also appropriate when meeting or saying goodbye. Telling something important to the interlocutor or needing his support, you can briefly take his hand. Personal questions Here, too, it is important not to cross the line. Ask the guy how long ago he had a last relationship, what kind of girl he sees next to him. However, if the young man is reluctant to answer, then it is better not to delve into such questions. True, even detailed answers do not mean at all that you need to show excessive attention to this topic - it will be more appropriate to find out all the details of parting with ex-girls if you are in a closer relationship. For now, it's enough to let him know that you are not indifferent to his personal life.

Saying "I love" in other words or actions It is quite difficult to tell a man about your love in plain text. It is much easier to disguise your confession so that the man himself will guess about your tender feelings. This option eliminates many awkward feelings. Therefore, you can try the other good declarations of love below. One of them will surely give a positive result and you will definitely get close to a young man you like.
Beautiful words for a declaration of love In order to confess your love to a young man, it is not necessary to use banal phrases. It is much better to speak from a pure heart and sincerely. If it is difficult to collect your thoughts alive, write a long confession in a message - this will help you choose beautiful phrases, think over your train of thought. Be sure to use more characteristics that emphasize the qualities of a young person sympathetic to you (strong, caring, reliable, etc.). This will help him understand why you value him. Don't use too many diminutive forms like "bunny" or "cat". A declaration of love is a pretty serious thing, and such words will reduce seriousness to a minimum.
Words must be honest - only say what you are really sure of. You should not make abstract reviews of your common future and predict an excellent development of relations. It is better to talk more about the present tense, about your feelings and the positive qualities of this young man. Then the conversation will be more effective.

Confessions through communication on the Internet or by SMS

Modern communication allows you to make a confession on a social network or via SMS messages. This relieves your stress and worries, you can properly prepare. Find the right words, think about what you want to convey to the guy with your messages - and send him. In the correspondence, you do not see the reaction of the young man and you are not so worried. Plus, if your boyfriend refuses or ignores you, it will be much easier to deal with it than if he refused you in a personal conversation. In addition, for that declaration of love in this way, too close communication and acquaintance between you is not required - after all, it is enough to find the guy's number or his page on the social network, bypassing the need to meet friends, etc.
Confessions in poetry, through gifts or disinterested help A beautiful and non-trivial way to hint a guy about your feelings is to write him poetry. Exactly to write, even if they are not very colorful, since almost every guy has already seen poems from the Internet and you are unlikely to please him with such bad taste. Find an opportunity to write poetry yourself, or ask your friends about it, and send it to the young man by SMS or on a social network - he will surely appreciate your creativity. Another option is a nice present or an offer of disinterested help to the young man. These gifts or help should not be large-scale, rather it is just a small sign of attention that will let a man know that you care about him. A present can be something like a keychain, a photo frame, a book that a young man told you about - something pleasant that this man will then associate with you. You can also make a memorable engraving, non-trivial, then in the future it can become a kind of motto for your relationship with this young man.
Confessing your love in person In this way, you can immediately see the real emotions of a man in response to your words, clarify some individual phrases and supplement your recognition with some comments and clarifications. Before a personal meeting, you will have to take courage, but this method is really the most reliable and time-tested. This option is also very good because in case of a successful conversation, you will immediately feel a new closeness to each other, you will be able to hug or kiss each other for the first time. And this is a great start for the strong development of your relationship.

Should I tell a guy about your feelings?

The most important question for a girl is whether it is necessary to admit to a young man about her love at all, or is it better to wait for the first step from him, as it should be due to numerous traditions. There can be many reasons to tell a man about this herself. The guy can be very timid, he can be too reverent about the girl and is simply afraid of offending or rushing her with his confession. Also, some bets are morally afraid to reveal their souls and therefore hide their feelings. Either the young man may have doubts whether he really likes you or whether it is just a passing hobby. So do not be afraid - recognition on the part of a girl in tender feelings today is considered quite normal. First of all, it is worth assessing the general situation and situation. A declaration of love, logically, should entail serious consequences, the main one of which is the creation and development of a couple and your love relationship. Therefore, first of all, you yourself must be sure that you want the possible development of relations with this man, you want to see and communicate with him more often. You also need to assess whether he is ready for a potential relationship, whether he now has strong love with another girl, or whether he recently suffered a difficult breakup, after which he will definitely want to be alone for a long time. Take the initiative if he's shy You understand that this young man likes, which is indicated by some direct or indirect facts, but there is no recognition of sympathy on his part. If you see that the guy is shy or for some reason not confident in himself, then you can take the initiative into your own hands. His shyness can manifest itself in different ways: for example, you notice that he tries to stay longer in your company, but he is embarrassed if he accidentally touches you or when the conversation turns to personal topics. He can also shade if he catches your eye or is alone with you. Of course, the lack of initiative can be explained by indifference, but most girls, perhaps, will be able to distinguish indifferent behavior from insecure attempts to get closer. Don't embarrass a guy if he has a girlfriend. If you know that the person you like is already in a relationship with another girl, and this romance, at least outwardly seems to be a wave of prosperity, then you do not need to embarrass him with your confessions. It is unlikely that he will reciprocate under such circumstances. But even if this does happen, it is unlikely that you will want to be in the status of a lovemaker. You can gently hint to a guy that you like him, but don't talk directly about your feelings. Do not intrude if he is not interested in you When communicating with him, you see that he has no interest, and this is clearly not embarrassment or self-doubt - he really is burdened by this communication. The reasons may not be in you at all - he as a whole may not want a relationship now, or he is looking for a girl exclusively for a certain type, under which you do not fall. In addition, he may have liked another for a long time. There may be a lot of circumstances due to which he does not see you as a potential lover, and in this case, your confession may even cause him to avoid meeting you.

How to show someone that you like them

Just telling a man about your love in plain text - you can always do this, but it's not too romantic and morally very difficult. It is much more beautiful to express your warm sympathy for the person you like with the help of gentle words spoken in a suitable setting and with the right emphasis on your hints for a man. In this case, it is worth choosing the right words depending on how close you are to a young man you like - he may just be cute to you, you may be in love with him and your feelings may well be mutual. The tips below will surely help you find a way to express your feelings to a man, without being confused and not missing your opportunity to become happy with him.

When you just really like him

When a young man is just nice to you, you can express your tender feelings well with the help of hints. For example, appear in front of him in beautiful outfits and in response to his compliments, say that you wanted to look good especially for him. Men generally love with their eyes, so your beautiful appearance will be very important so that the young man has a pleasant impression of you and this disposed him to communicate and get to know you better. You can also use not too explicit compliments to a young man, tell him live or in SMS, as if by chance, how strong he is, how he looks like a handsome actor, what interesting hobbies he has, etc. You can make friends with his friends or acquaintances, and through them learn about the guy's tastes and interests, so that later in conversations with him, these topics can be used as "clues." And in one of these conversations, you can notice that you have a lot of similar interests and therefore you clearly sympathize with this guy.

When you love him, how to confess your feelings

If your feelings are already something more than just sympathy, you should act more confidently so as not to miss your happiness. First of all, exclude flirting with other young people in his presence, so as not to call yourself up as a promiscuous and fickle girl. Try to be positive and cheerful in order to attract attention - it will also be useful to evaluate the jokes of a guy you like, because he will certainly appreciate those who appreciate his sense of humor. You can also write to him about your feelings, without naming the very word "love", but quite clearly speaking about your feelings. In this case, if a guy is interested in you, he will answer you, and if not, you can pretend that this message was not and thereby get rid of unnecessary worries.

Declaration of love when feelings are mutual

In the case when your feelings are mutual and you are also nice to this young man, it will be easier. It will be enough for you to take the first step to start a relationship. You can write a message in a message or a social network with the words that you like him and if his feelings are mutual, then let him write you a response message. You can also tell the guy that you have long wanted to go to a movie or play, but you have no one to go with. He will probably offer to keep you company - and this is a great reason to talk and get to know each other better. A good option is to give the guy a small present that would hint to him about the reciprocity of your feelings. For example, pairing mugs or key chains, one of your joint photos in a frame, etc. Do not be afraid to make contact, because young people are also often shy before the first conversation and may be embarrassed to admit their warm feelings.

I want it like a hint of a bed

Interesting places In personal communication or during correspondence, you can mention some new establishments or just interesting places that you would like to visit. Point out that you usually go out with your friend, but in the coming days she has other things to do, so you don't even know whether to wait for her or find yourself another company. For a young man, this will be a clear hint that you are inclined to walk together. His tastes Find out where your partner likes to spend time, and show interest in his choice. For example, he enjoys skiing. Say that you have never done this or that you cannot learn in any way, but you would really like to do this. Or he may state that he likes a certain genre of films, which he periodically goes to the cinema. You, in turn, can answer that you are also interested in such pictures, but your friends do not share these tastes, and you yourself do not want to go to the cinema. Direct hints Write or tell the young man that you are very interested in communicating with him, and it would be nice to walk together sometime. You can find a certain reason. For example, you told your interlocutor about a place that he has not been to. Note in passing that you will definitely show him "somehow" this institution. If he wants to meet, then your statement will be a good chance for him to take advantage of the situation and invite you for a walk or a date.

Hinting a guy about a relationship correctly

Say "I love" in other words or actions

It is quite difficult to tell a man about his love in plain text. It is much easier to disguise your confession so that the man himself will guess about your tender feelings. This option eliminates many awkward feelings. Therefore, you can try the other good declarations of love below. One of them will surely give a positive result and you will definitely get close to a young man you like.

Beautiful words for a declaration of love

In order to confess your love to a young man, it is not necessary to use banal phrases. It is much better to speak from a pure heart and sincerely. If it is difficult to collect your thoughts alive, write a long confession in a message - this will help you choose beautiful phrases, think over your train of thought. Be sure to use more characteristics that emphasize the qualities of a young person sympathetic to you (strong, caring, reliable, etc.). This will help him understand why you value him. Don't use too many diminutive forms like "bunny" or "cat". A declaration of love is a pretty serious thing, and such words will reduce seriousness to a minimum. Words must be honest - only say what you are really sure of. You should not make abstract reviews of your common future and predict an excellent development of relations. It is better to talk more about the present tense, about your feelings and the positive qualities of this young man. Then the conversation will be more effective.

Confessions through communication on the Internet or by SMS

Confessions in verse, gifts, or selfless help

A beautiful and non-trivial way to hint a guy about your feelings is to write him poetry. Exactly to write, even if they are not very colorful, since almost every guy has already seen poems from the Internet and you are unlikely to please him with such bad taste. Find an opportunity to write poetry yourself, or ask your friends about it, and send it to the young man by SMS or on a social network - he will surely appreciate your creativity. Another option is a nice present or an offer of disinterested help to the young man. These gifts or help should not be large-scale, rather it is just a small sign of attention that will let a man know that you care about him. A present can be something like a keychain, a photo frame, a book that a young man told you about - something pleasant that this man will then associate with you. You can also make a memorable engraving, non-trivial, then in the future it can become a kind of motto for your relationship with this young man.

Declare your love in person

The most honest and open version of a declaration of love is a personal meeting and a one-to-one conversation. In this way, you can immediately see the real emotions of a man in response to your words, clarify some individual phrases and supplement your recognition with some comments and clarifications. Before a personal meeting, you will have to take courage, but this method is really the most reliable and time-tested. This option is also very good because in case of a successful conversation, you will immediately feel a new closeness to each other, you will be able to hug or kiss each other for the first time. And this is a great start for the strong development of your relationship.

I'm afraid to confess my feelings to him, what to do - advice from psychologists

There are often such situations when a girl is very afraid to tell a young man about her love (for example, she is one of the timid). This is a normal phenomenon, because subconsciously the girl is afraid of a possible refusal, rejection of her feelings. In such cases, you need to be able to overcome your fears and understand what goal you would like to achieve: just hint to the guy about feelings, openly declare your love, achieve the beginning of your relationship, etc. And then it is important to actively act until the first impression you make did not dissipate. When feeling fear and anxiety, it will be useful to learn about what psychologists recommend doing and what common female mistakes are best avoided by deciding to confess your feelings to a young man. your words and say them out loud in front of the mirror, as if to evaluate yourself from the outside. First, it will help relieve the anxiety that you may start to get confused in words and say too much or not exactly what you wanted. Secondly, it will be easier to relieve stress, since the body will feel that you are not saying such words for the first time, which means that you should not worry too much. Also, experts often suggest that you pre-assess the situation - it is not the best option to confess your love to a guy when he heavily loaded with problems at work or school, or in the family. Both of you should be conducive to a conversation, be in a good mood and be able to think about everything that has been said after communication.

Is it true that guys don't take hints

Many men really do not react as subtly to the intonation of the interlocutor as women, and do not always understand the hints. For example, you can tell him that you would like to go to the movies soon or you are interested in an event. Some guys react instantly, suggesting that they go together to the place that intrigues you, but there are those who sincerely think that you are just sharing information to keep the conversation going. In the second case, the interlocutor sincerely does not know that he was hinted at something - he can understand what you need only if direct proposals are made. When the couple already enters into a relationship, this problem does not disappear. For example, before your birthday, you might be praising a new popular book, stating that your friends really liked it and you would love to read it too. Or you can say that your earrings lack a ring in a similar style. It is likely that you are hoping to receive a bestseller or jewelry as a gift, but the chances are very high that the chosen one will not understand this, and will give, for example, perfume you do not need. Coquetry will not work with such men: “I don’t even know what I want, choose to your taste”. He needs to speak directly, and just accept the fact that the hints are incomprehensible to him - this way you will prevent resentment and misunderstanding in the future.

How to understand that your man understood your hint

There are few options here. If you bring up a topic with enviable regularity, and the young man diligently avoids it, despite all the transparency of the hints, or constantly turns the conversation into another direction, then most likely he understood where you are leading. However, his reaction, unfortunately, indicates that he is not enthusiastic about your message. There is also a reverse option, in which it is more obvious. The man supports the topic with interest, asking clarifying questions, instead of just ignoring your words. It means that he noticed that it is about something important, and does not lose sight of it. In this case, your hints are likely to bring the desired result soon.

The most common mistakes girls make

Negative reaction You hinted to the guy in every possible way that you were interested in him, but still did not wait for an invitation to a date? You do not need to hastily remove him from friends in VK or turn away when you meet. Let the thought that he really did not take the hints, and now your behavior looks completely silly. Unnatural behavior Having decided to hint the young man of sympathy, suddenly you began to behave unnaturally - to flirt excessively, to joke, to actively show him signs of attention. A lot of guys like this approach, but there are some who are embarrassed by this behavior. Involvement of third parties You have already discussed with some mutual friends that the young man is interesting to you. However, when you meet him, you show detachment, expecting that he will seek you. This is not the best tactic, which, in his eyes, most likely looks strange. The aimlessness of allusions It also happens that a girl actively flirts with a guy, hints at sympathy, but there is no purpose behind all this - she just likes to communicate like that or she wants to surround herself with fans without planning any relationship with them. Realizing that your hints do not mean anything, the young man may even break off contacts with you. If you understand that you do not see a guy as a potential lover, it is better to maintain a friendly format with him.