Why girls are born from great love. The gender of the child - is it so important

I often come across the fact that women and men want not just a child, but a child of a certain gender. Especially if the child is not the first. Although the first, many dream of giving birth to a son. But does it really matter?

People try to plan their gender, follow diets, calculate the necessary periods from the tablets, and then they may be disappointed that instead of a son, they are “just” a daughter. Our expectations for the sex of the child place additional stress on both the child and the space.

One of my acquaintances really wanted a girl, she just really wanted a girl. She already had a boy. It was her fix idea, and she couldn't get pregnant. A whole year passed in attempts, she was already going to the doctor. And then I jokingly suggested that she admit the thought that the soul of a boy could come to her.

At first she very much resisted and resisted such a thought. What such a boy, I need a girl! And I invited her to think about the fact that she was supposed to have boys on top. And either boys or no one at all. Well, you never know, suddenly there is such a plan for her. She thought about it. A month later, the conversation flashed - yes, I still want another child, even if it is a boy. In the same cycle, she became pregnant. Guess who?

He seemed to be waiting for his mother to be ready to meet him, until she resigns herself and stops chasing images in her head. And as soon as the acceptance took place, he came.

We are not aware of the mechanisms for giving out a child of one sex or another. This is not an automaton, from which an algorithm can be calculated and manipulated. We are trying to collect some kind of research base for this, we create many myths. From what I've personally heard (and which I laugh at at times):

• To conceive a boy, in ancient times, men put an ax under the pillow and at the decisive moment they frightened their wife with it (the thought immediately arises - if you give birth to a daughter, I’ll start scaring!)
• To conceive a girl, the father needs to do extreme sports, jump with a parachute, they say adrenaline kills "boy" sperm
• To conceive a boy, you need to eat meat. A lot of meat (which is probably why I have three sons)
• If a man loves more, a boy is born, if a woman is a girl (I immediately want to remember the scriptures, where almost all Holy women have only sons. Probably, they did not know how to love at all)
• If the hairs of the child in the back corner - the next one will be a boy, and if it is even - then a girl (we have a corner with the eldest, with the middle one - even, but not a single girl has been noticed :))
• A cucumber's belly is a boy, a round belly is a girl (I had everything :))
• Has grown ugly - you are waiting for a girl, you have become beautiful - a boy (for me, all pregnant women are so beautiful for me)
• Boys are born where there is weak masculine energy, and girls are born where there is weak feminine (although there is also the opposite statement - who is right?)
• It is necessary to calculate according to the table - Chinese or Japanese (then my elder would be a girl for sure, middle and younger - half)
• Boys are given for merit, and girls for sins (here they took the Vedic concept and perverted it into the most terrible form)

Etc. Many absurd signs and beliefs have been invented. And all in order to get not just a child, but a child of the sex we need. Why do we need such a floor? Because we initially have expectations from the child and everything connected with him. The son is a continuation of the family, the daughter - so that no one abandons in old age. Or any other templates and options.

If you have a point about the sex of the child, then ask - why a son? Why exactly a daughter? For what? Have you tried one, want to try another? And where is the concern for the happiness of the child and love? Or do you need to be like everyone else? To have someone to play cars with on the remote control? To have someone to wear in princess dresses? Or…? And it's all? Is there so much noise and excitement because of such little things? But the truth is trifles in comparison with the life and fate of a child.

In Asia, especially in China and even India, abortions boom after ultrasound. They see a child of the wrong gender and have an abortion. Not wanting to feed the girls. Not wanting to waste the only chance of having a baby. This is not just stupidity, this is a real crime against the soul that has already come. So this mania is international, not only ours.

To be completely honest, I will say that in the Vedic society there was also planning for the sex of the child. In a lightweight form. It was believed that the boys were the piety of the family, and the girls carried with them the working off of old sins. Boys accumulated karma, and girls worked out. Therefore, at the birth of a daughter, cleaning usually began, life became more difficult. And with the boys, on the contrary - everything grew and turned out better. Boys continued their family and traditions, worshiped their ancestors, while girls went to their husband's family forever.

Therefore, many wanted to have sons - and more. And there were rules for conceiving boys or girls. This happened on certain days of the female cycle (girls on odd, boys on even). But there are also many exceptions. This approach requires tremendous piety so that conception, as in the old days, happens once, on the exact date chosen by the parents. But even then there was the possibility of giving birth to a child of the opposite sex - if so due to karma. How are we supposed to and why?

Now everyone also wants sons. But it is no longer clear why. We don’t make offerings to our ancestors, and if anyone does it, it’s only women. Now no one has good karma, therefore both boys and girls often have difficulties and cleansing. Sons more and more often abandon their parents, and daughters drag them to the very end - both their own and their husband's parents. We also don't have much tradition to continue something. And it turns out that we certainly do not care who to give birth to. There is no difference in this age. It is not known which is better or which is worse. Just differently.

But we are again trying to control what we do not understand, what does not depend on us and where it is not worth climbing. At all. Our attachment to the idea of ​​having a baby of the gender we want creates many problems. The attitude towards the child should not depend on the body in which the soul came to us. How many have I seen these girls who were expected as boys (I myself am the same). How hard it is for them to accept their female body afterwards, how much hatred they have for everything female, hardening, fear. The same can happen with boys. Boys who would like to see girls. Out of love for their parents, they can also become softer and more agreeable, abandon their masculine strength. But who will benefit from this?

Parents want to play with different types of children. If there is a son, but no daughter, then mothers sometimes dress little boys in dresses and cling to bows. What for? And why dress little girls as boys? Play with dolls, if you want to buy something - buy and present to your friends. Why should a child hang their own labels?

Children are a gift from God. A real gift that can only be accepted or rejected.

How do we accept gifts? Whatever is inside - thank you. So, for some reason I need it. And this "why" everyone can have their own.

Someone's sons teach to accept and respect men, someone they shake with their "yang" energy and make them live. For some, girls teach how to be a woman, in someone they discover creativity, someone is taught to just love, to love with all their heart. Sometimes a child of a certain gender helps you solve your parenting problems. Sometimes it takes you to a different level of understanding of life. Sometimes God saves us from repeating the most difficult scenarios of our kind by bringing children of the opposite sex, where these scenarios will be softer. And sometimes, on the contrary, it is precisely those patrimonial ties with which it is time to heal come.

In any case, this is no coincidence. Nothing happens by accident. If a son comes, it means that there are some tasks for you related to him. If a daughter comes, then she also brings you her tasks. And we do not want to solve these problems, we like others more. Others seem more interesting and easier. As those who live in the south, they like the middle latitudes for their balance, and the middle latitudes dream of a hot south.

One friend of mine really wanted a son. She had two daughters. She really didn't want to repeat the script. And then she decided to do everything for sure. There is an expensive medical procedure, like IVF, when only embryos of the same sex are selected. After this procedure, she became pregnant. Son. She was very, very happy. But apparently her son was not destined for her, since the child died in an incomprehensible way in childbirth.

There is another story. Ancient, indicative.

In ancient times, there was one emperor, Akbar, who was famous for his qualities and virtue, also dreamed of a son. But it never happened, only daughters were born. And the emperor was in grief and sorrow. One astrologer told him that in no case should he have a son, the son would ruin his life. But the emperor was blind to his desire. He did everything possible for his son to come to him, pray, collect blessings. And the son still came. But it happened exactly as they said. He suffered from his own son, who destroyed the entire empire, staged a rebellion against his own father. And later he was overthrown by his own son.

Do you really care what gender the child is? This is again the concept of "having a child" - an extended version of it - "having a child of the correct sex." Or do you still want to become a mother again?

There is no good or bad, right or wrong. Here God gives you a child - and you receive. The one they gave. The gender that was given. And thank you sincerely. Learn to give thanks. Go through your lessons, open up and develop in what is already there.

In this place, society will help you with its stereotypes. If you have a girl, you need a boy; if you have a boy, you need a girl. And if you have two children of different sexes, then why the third pregnancy? Don't be offended by them, they really don't know what they are saying.

When they tell me that I am poor, unhappy, gave birth to some peasants and now I am tormented, that I need a girl and there is no life without her, that God forbid someday a boy again - I smile inside. Now I'm smiling. When I learned to get out of social norms and trust God.

I also smile because I know how cool it is for boys who drag me flowers in the morning, kiss my hand, love me very much, take care and protect me. Boys who call me princess. For whom I am the most beautiful and most beloved in the world.

And next to them I want more boys-boys-boys, because they are a great happiness for me, as for a mother. I already know what to do with boys, I know how to handle them, at our house everything is made for boys and for boys. Both the fourth and the fifth boy will be very useful for me.

Of course, girls are probably great too. So far, in communication with them, I am more of a theoretician (I train on my inner girl). I don't know if I can be a good mom for my daughter. Will I be able to share with her joyfully the attention of all my knights. Will I be able to overcome the scenario of a female relationship between a mother and a daughter of my kind. Will I be able to protect and preserve her. Maybe God is saving me now by giving me sons. She saves me too. So that we both are ready for the meeting - if it takes place.

And if this does not happen, and I never have a girl, this is not a tragedy. Each of my sons will have, I hope, a wife. And I will be ready to accept them as my daughters. With love. Something that I myself once lacked. To become for them not just a mother-in-law, but a loving second mother. With all my heart, loving. So I will definitely have girls - a little later.

For me, there is always an option with adoption, which I often think about. Maybe the girl should come to me this way? To play enough with doll-bow princesses and at the same time heal to the end the trauma of his orphanhood? I do not know God's plans for me and our family. But I trust Him.

He knows exactly better what I need, when, how much and how. I know that God is wiser than stereotypes and rules - he knows to whom, whom and how much to give. Who will give - all mine. I will accept everyone with love.

For everyone I will open my heart. I will try to give everyone the maximum. And so I will be happy in any case, even if I have ten sons and no daughters. This means that it is necessary. Why and why is not for me to decide.

A child is a gift. Surprise. One hundred percent surprise in the package. You carry the box for nine months - and then you open it. And there - a miracle. A miracle that could be disguised and hidden on ultrasound. But in any case - a miracle is the most necessary and most important. It is exactly what you need.

One man once shared with me that he desperately wanted a son. He was possessed. When he found out that his wife was pregnant with her daughter, he almost divorced. He shook her nerves, tortured her. And then she was born. Girl Anya with huge eyes. It so happened that he was the first to take her in his arms. Absolutely random. The wife gave birth so quickly that he did not have time to leave the hospital. And they carried her out to dad. He told how he, a forty-year-old man, stood in the corridor and sobbed, watching her look at him. What a space in her eyes. And how could he not want her so. And how happy he is now that his wife forgave him, that his daughter is with them, how it all changed his callous heart.

Who cares what we deserve. The child has come - welcome with open arms. And love for who he is. And that's all.

There are many families where only boys or girls grow up. Science explains this by the predominance of chromosomes "X" or "Y". All this is true, but scientists fix the external side of the phenomena, i.e. the consequences of what is happening on the subtle plane, and do not see the essence of what is happening.

So, for example, a person observes lightning and thunder as a result of more subtle physical processes, without seeing them. But he figured out the last question, but as for more subtle plans, these processes are not recorded, and scientists catch a lot of what comes from them as a finished result. And in this result, some features and differences are already found, which are taken as the main cause causing the phenomenon.

Can the appearance of boys or girls in a family be explained only by the presence of chromosomes?

If we are talking about the appearance in the family of only boys or only girls, this cannot be explained only by the presence of chromosomes
"X" and "Y". Let's remember that the formation of a family is not spontaneous, but planned, therefore everything has its own goals and objectives.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

What tasks do the Higher Ones set, sending only boys to some married couples and only girls to others?

The sex of the child is usually determined by the program of future development and, in accordance with this, is formed by the Determinant on the basis of the material culture that it receives from future parents. A boy is born in a family or a girl - depends on many reasons for the upbringing of the future parents themselves, on what character traits they must develop in themselves.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

How many reasons for the appearance of boys and girls in the family are there?

There are many options. But we will focus on two main ones.

1. It happens that a man values ​​the strong half too highly, i.e. He considers men to be the main ones, and to the other half, women, he neglects and even despises them. And in order to change his attitude towards the opposite sex, daughters are sent to him. Through the tutelage of helpless tiny creatures, the Determinant tries to change the way a man looks at a woman. Of course, this may not happen in one life, and then over the course of several incarnations only daughters will be born to him, until one day he realizes that any child is beautiful regardless of gender and that a girl can make her father happy just like a boy ... Likewise, women who put the female gender above the male are given boys in order to also change their attitude towards them in the direction of love, to teach them to love something different from themselves.

2. And the opposite option, when, on the contrary, a man loves women excessively and drags behind every skirt (or a woman loves men), and this leads to debauchery. Therefore, wanting to transfer a person to another Level of love, for example, they create situations for a man in which daughters are born to him. "Created" because, of course, such a man does not want to burden himself with taking care of someone. But they "send" him a daughter or several and look at his further attitude towards the babies of the opposite sex. If his soul moves along the path of goodness, then he is imbued with concern for them, pity and begins to show concern and, accordingly, develop positive qualities. And then, from the level of love for women, he moves to the level of love for his children, which (level) is much higher than the first. And this is a higher degree of love.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

Love for a woman, it should be noted, as for the opposite sex, refers to the lowest Level of love. Of the earthly types, only love for animals is below her.

How many Levels of love for the opposite sex are there?

Love for a woman (or a man) is divided into several Levels.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

What Levels of love for the opposite sex exist?

The lowest, bordering on the animal Level, is love that requires only sexual relations, so to speak, love for the sake of sex. If it's just sex without love, then this is a purely animal Level. Man came from the animal world, brought wild instincts with him, but did not learn to love humanly. So sex without love is a continuation of animal behavior in the human environment.

When feelings for a woman appear, love is already a little higher, the second Level.

The third level is when a woman (man) is loved first as a person, and sexual relations come later as an addition to developing feelings.

And the fourth Level - a woman is simply loved, there is no sexual relationship, this is platonic love, the highest Level of love for women.

The next stage is love for daughters. Above, they try to transfer a person from selfish love (for the sake of their own pleasure) to love - giving, when you have to completely give everything to your daughters in order to raise them and make them happy. And here is the upbringing of the father's soul through responsibility for other people's lives, other people's destinies.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

How does love - bestowal - originate?

Pity arises in the soul - the basis on which nobility arises later. It is a pity for a father when his daughter is hungry, when she falls and hits something, it is a pity when someone offends her. And through the feeling of pain and suffering, the upbringing of the father's soul goes on for his child.
He begins to live, to work only for his baby; happy when she smiles; suffers when she cries. And thus, from animal instincts, he moves on to the development of higher human qualities by the soul. As a result, he is ready to sacrifice his personal life for the life of his child. And this is the achievement of higher feelings. After this stage, a person already begins to love any child, to love and protect. It should be emphasized here that learning goes through the feeling of someone else's pain and suffering. A father or mother must learn to feel the pain and suffering of their child as their own.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

Repeatedly in my life I had to observe how depraved girls were given children - boys, and often several at once, and children - girls were sent to depraved men. This was precisely the essence of their transfer to a higher Level of human relations. "If you love men - you have four sons, - as if they were saying to a woman from Above, - love them ... but in a new way." Here sex is already absent, and there is complete dedication. This is how people are taught high and selfless love.

What is the main purpose of having children of different sexes?

The main goal of giving birth to children of one sex or another for souls of a low Level is to force them to change their attitude towards the opposite sex, change qualitatively and thus raise the level of their relations with their own kind. This is the first stage in the approach of the individual to universal love - to make love those whom he despised, did not respect, to open completely new sides in the relationship, to refine feelings, to make emotions richer.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

What kind of relationships are developing in the family if the level of development of the spouses is high?

Of course, if the level of development of a man or woman is already high, then they have other relationships in the family. The family becomes a school for the upbringing of future Essences of God. You yourself are conscious, you know how to achieve a lot in life, but you are obliged to financially provide and educate someone else in this world, give the correct direction of development, raise his spiritual level. You must make sure that each member of your family becomes an order of magnitude higher, i.e. you must make every effort to educate the souls entrusted to you by fate. And this can be not only children, but also a wife, for example, of a low Level, or, conversely, a husband.
Seklitova L.A., Strelnikova L.L. "Man of the Age of Aquarius".

God educates all of us and pulls us up to His Level, and we must educate our family members with due diligence, try to raise them as high as possible. And this is the duty of the family.

Why are only boys born to me? This question will be asked by any woman in whose family the third little "man" has appeared. What specific factors affect the sex of the child? Are there methods to control the future gender of the baby? Let's try to figure it out.

Why do some men only have boys?

Who specifically of the partners influences the sex of the unborn child remains a mystery to scientists. At first glance, everything seems obvious: a man determines gender, since his sperm cell can contain one of two chromosomes - X or Y. At the same time, the female egg is "deprived" of the choice and can boast of having only the X chromosome. Accordingly, gender depends on whether which sperm of a man will "survive" and achieve its goal.

At the same time, scientists have conducted a number of additional studies, identifying patterns in mothers with many children, who have only girls, and mothers, who all have future men. First of all, these patterns are associated with the physical indicators of the woman's body. Therefore, to the question "Why are only boys born to me?" there can be no single answer. Perhaps it's the man and the "vitality" of a certain type of sperm. Or maybe the female body independently chooses which sperm to "accept" and which "to push".

Can the sex of the child be influenced?

Along with the question "Why are only boys born in a family?" many parents think about whether they can affect the future gender of the child. The desire to keep everything under control in this regard is not a new trend in fashion: it has existed since ancient times. And here men played a big role: basically they raised the excitement around the sex of their child, because everyone wanted to have an "heir" by all means.

Medical scientists have tried to cast aside all prejudice and conduct independent observation. Its purpose is to identify patterns that theoretically can affect the gender of the baby. Here's what they found out:

1. Most married couples have a boy as their first child. But with each subsequent pregnancy, it becomes more and more difficult to give birth to a little "man".
2. The older the parents are, the less likely they are to see their child as a boy.
3. Men with gout mostly have girls, while bald men have boys.
4. If a woman becomes pregnant some time after the abortion, then, most likely, a girl will be born.

These are just observations and assumptions. They cannot be considered immutable rules, as the experience of many married couples shows.

How does the environment affect the health of men and the gender of their child?

If we try to seriously explain why some men in a family give birth to girls one after another or boys one after another, doctors are likely to “write off” such a situation on unfavorable conditions or health problems.

So why do some only have boys? How do doctors explain this?

Assumptions are made that the Y chromosomes (providing the male sex of the child) are less stable, therefore, harmful working conditions, constant stress, weakening the male body, contribute to their destruction. This also includes factors such as alcohol, nicotine, or harsh drug use. Again, the presence or absence of chronic disease must be considered.

However, it is not fully confirmed scientifically. If you follow this logic unquestioningly, then men in general would have died out long ago: where in our time without stress and at least one bad habit? Only girls would be born!

When is it necessary to make love for a girl to be born?

When a woman asks the question “Why are only boys born to me?”, She should remember her children. Well, at least approximately.

It has been scientifically established that the spermatozoa carrying the Y chromosome are very light and mobile. But at the same time, they are weakly stable. Therefore, such a sperm is unlikely to fertilize an egg if it is not in the stage of ovulation.

But the more tenacious X-spermatozoa can "wait" for their "finest" hour for a long time after entering the female body. As a result, in such a struggle, the X-sperm will undoubtedly win, providing the female sex of the unborn child.

Therefore, when a couple is planning children and really wants, for example, a boy, it is necessary to make love during ovulation. If there is a desire to give birth to a girl, then conception should be done immediately after menstruation.

Nutrition and gender of the child

Such a method of planning a child as adhering to a diet does not lose popularity. Why does a man only have boys? Nutritionists have an answer to this question: it's just that the wife of such a man follows a sodium-potassium diet!

The "dietary" experiment was carried out by some Jacques Laurent and Joseph Stolkowski. Nutritionists say that 2-3 months before conception, a certain number of couples were transferred to food "for boys" and "for girls." Positive results were observed in 80% of cases.

Of course, diet alone will not solve the child's gender issue, but in the struggle for your dream, all means are good. So if you dream of a boy, the whole family lean on potatoes, meat, lentils, bananas and oranges more often. Couples who follow a sodium-magnesium diet and eat large quantities of beets, carrots, eggplants, and onions are more likely to become the parents of a girl.

The Dangers of Diet

Diets are unpredictable. Therefore, it is generally not recommended for expectant mothers to experiment in this area. For example, it is well known that food restrictions and all kinds of "exotic" feeding methods cause spontaneous miscarriages.

Even if conception has occurred, but the mother continues to sharply limit herself in some products, then the fetus in the future may have health problems. It is especially important to have a balanced diet in the early stages of pregnancy, when the baby's internal organs are being formed. Therefore, sodium-potassium, sodium-magnesium diets may be effective, but in everything you need to know when to stop.

Why does a woman only have boys? Several good reasons

However, the debate about the ability to control the sex of the child does not end there. Some families try to conceive a child immediately after menstruation, but they still have a "boyfriend", although they planned to have a girl.

"Why are only boys born to me?" - laments the young mother, who among the army of little toddlers wants to have a future helper - a girl. Now is the time to recall a few more studies conducted by Western scientists.

1. It was noticed that asthenic girls weighing less than 54 kg give birth to girls with enviable regularity. Ladies have boys in their bodies.
2. In the animal environment, it has been observed that females who have undergone hunger or any other severe stress give birth to female cubs. Strong and well-fed animals, on the contrary, "prefer" to bear boys. There is no reason to believe that this principle does not work for humans, who are also considered to some extent "animals."
3. The sex of the unborn baby is also influenced by the intensity of sexual relations. If, within three months before conception, an intimate life is more than regular, and even saturated with vivid emotions, then a boy is born. It was also noticed that men who work too hard in the gym or on the treadmill (we are talking about distances over 8 km) are more likely to become the fathers of girls. This is understandable, because not everyone can “threaten” their potential in sports, and then arrange “fireworks” in bed at night.

Signs

In planning the sex of the baby, there were some signs.

Why are only boys born? The sign says: if you conceive a child in the fall, you will receive a boy in nine months, in the spring - a girl.

Also, even before the ultrasound, they try to determine the sex of the child by the shape of the abdomen: "rounded" means a girl; "Elongated" means a boy.

If during pregnancy the expectant mother cannot even look at the meat, there will be a boy, if a woman desperately wants salty food, there will be a girl.

Well, in general, a "joking" omen that does not pretend to be authentic: in families where the wife worships her husband, girls are born, and in couples in which the opposite is true, boys are born.

Should you strictly follow the principles outlined above?

One way or another, many of the methods described for scheduling a baby revolve around the exact date of ovulation. That is why they do not justify themselves.

For any, even the healthiest woman, the menstrual cycle can change under the influence of a variety of reasons: stress, climatic changes, changes in diet, etc. Therefore, it is problematic to determine the exact date of ovulation.

There are, of course, methods that are not based on keeping an accurate calendar, but on measuring, say, basal temperature or determining the properties of mucus. But even this approach is too "troublesome", and does not guarantee an exact result. As a result, the slightest mistake for 1-2 days will give the girl to the couple who were determined to have a son. And all sorts of signs and diets are generally an unreliable method.

To protect yourself from disappointment, it is better not to rack your brains over why more boys or girls are born, but simply to rejoice at every child born. In the end, it is the wives of the princes of the blood who need to give birth to an heir to the throne by all means. You're not a princess, are you? So, you can just relax and love both newborn girls and boys equally.

Surely everyone remembers the character from the movie "The Incredible Adventures of Italians in Russia" Rosario Agro. He is always waiting for his wife to give birth to a son. But the daughter is born again, the eighth in a row. Why does it happen that in some families children are born exclusively of the same sex?

Features of parents' organisms

Anna Milovanova in her "Unusual Book for Ordinary Parents" writes that the physiological characteristics of the parents' organisms can influence the sex of the unborn child. Everyone knows that a person who has an X chromosome in one set, and a Y in another, belongs to the male sex, and who has 2 X - to the female. Thus, the birth of a boy or a girl depends on which of the indicated X or Y chromosomes is added to the set.
The author says that some fathers develop only X or only Y chromosomes, so their wives give birth to only daughters or only sons, respectively. For example, supposedly the glands of men, which are capable of ejaculating up to 10 times in 24 hours, produce only Y chromosomes (98%), which is why boys predominate in their family.
In addition, the case may be in female eggs, or rather in the ovaries. According to Milovanova, the eggs of the right ovary “accept” the Y-chromosomes better, and the left - the X. Therefore, if the mother has this or that ailment, for example, with the right ovary, then the left ovary will take over its functions. Thanks to this, the woman will give birth mainly to girls.

Parental behavior and qualities

In 1973, the Trivers-Willard hypothesis appeared in the scientific community, according to which, in the animal kingdom, sex is regulated based on the qualities of the parents. According to Trivers and Willard, strong males have mainly sons, and beautiful females have daughters. This happens because in nature, physically developed males and outwardly attractive females have a significant priority.
This theory has recently been confirmed. A professor at one of the departments of the University of London, namely the School of Economics and Politics, Satoshi Kanazawa, conducted a study that found that aggressive men more often than their quiet brothers become fathers of boys.

Stability and acid-base balance

Everyone knows the demographic dogma that the survival rate of male embryos is lower than that of female ones. This theory is indirectly confirmed by statistics. Thus, according to the US National Bureau of Economic Research, 51.5% of married women are more likely to have sons, while mothers in unstable relationships or single mothers mostly have girls. Experts explain this by the fact that in order to bear a boy, a woman needs more careful care.
In addition, the acid-base balance of the mother's body also affects the sex of the child. For some women, the environment is more alkaline, while for others it is more acidic. Spermatozoa, "carrying" the future man, feel better in an alkaline environment, and "female" spermatozoa - in an acidic environment. Thus, mothers with an alkaline environment often give birth to boys, and those with an acidic environment give birth to girls.

Mother's age and stressful situations

An important role in the process of forming the sex of the child is played by the mother's age, as well as the presence of any stressful situations in her life. And this was proved by the research of economics professor Douglas Almond. He studied the statistical information obtained in China after the Great Famine of 1959-1961. The scientist found out that during that period, Chinese women got married at a much more mature age than before, and, accordingly, gave birth to children. Moreover, according to the data, most of these women became mothers of girls.

Why do some have only boys, while others have girls?

I think that it certainly does not depend on this. It's all in God's hands! True, I heard that the sex of the child depends on the father, or rather on his sperm. For some men, they are more mobile, active, but with a short duration of life, while in others they are slow, but tenacious. So in the first case, a boy is more often born, and in the second - a girl.

I have a son.

According to the above experiments and theories, I can't even say now who loved whom more at the moment of conception and birth of a child: I am my husband or my husband. And the concept of love for men is one thing, for women it is another.

So it was pleasing to the higher powers and whoever was born, a boy or a girl, is a gift from God.

The other day I read an article on the Internet about the powerlessness of women in Saudi Arabia. There, women are not worth a penny! And if she gives birth only to girls, then it is generally considered inferior. And the husband will look for new women until one of them starts giving birth to his sons.

It seems to me that there is nothing in common with love. The genes of one of the spouses just win.

By the way, there is one more information to the question. At first, the fetus has no sexual characteristics. Only by the eleventh week of pregnancy can the sex of the child be determined.

I also heard that there will be a child of that gender, which of the parents at the time of conception loves more. Nice version, but ...

It is hard to believe that in the history of my family they have always loved more than a man, since for four hundred years we have hardly had girls.

It seems to me that love has nothing to do with it, it all depends on genes. After all, it also happens in animals that more boys or more girls are born. I myself know families where only boys are born, and I know families where only girls are born. I don’t think this is influenced by the love between spouses.

Yes, Anfiska, I also heard about it. According to this theory, if a husband treats his wife with love, gives all of himself to her and, as it were, dissolves in her, a girl is born. If the husband loves more than himself, and the wife is rather a piece of furniture or a good decoration, which needs a few minutes of attention a day, then a boy is born. It's no secret that the sex of a child depends only on men. Therefore, psychological harmony between spouses is quite capable of setting the sex of the unborn child.

It seems to me that it depends on the heredity and health of the man. It is known that the male gene is very susceptible to death from unfavorable conditions - smoking, alcohol. That is why, if a man does not drink or does not drink enough (especially before conception), then a boy is born. If she likes to drink, then it will be more likely a girl, tk. female genes are more hardy.

Well, and heredity, here the inherited activity of spermatozoa also affects. If you trace one family, you will find that most of the relatives were born in the same period, for example, all birthdays in the family in summer or autumn.

I have not heard of such a theory, but I read in different books that the sex of the child can be planned. On some specific days of the month, you can conceive a girl, on others - a boy. I don’t remember the details, I’ve read it for a long time, but this fact seems to be real.