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Signs that a man likes you. How to tell if a guy likes you: important signs and tests for sympathy. When he notices you

How to understand that a man likes you? This question arises for most ladies after meeting an interesting person, if it is pleasant to spend time with him. According to statistics, women who are hopelessly in love with members of the opposite sex are often subject to love experiences. This same category of women is often most eager to know whether they are liked by the men whom they have sympathy for.

Signs of sympathy can be recognized by facial expressions, looks, gestures and other behavioral characteristics of the stronger sex. To discover all of this requires natural mindfulness.

Signs that a man likes you

How to understand that a young man sympathizes with a girl, if outwardly he does not show it? Male communication with a woman can actually tell a lot. Psychologists note a number of signs that help to understand that there is a certain male sympathy for a lady.

The most obvious sign of a man's good disposition towards a woman is an open smile. Through it, he sincerely demonstrates that he is glad to meet and is ready to communicate.

You can understand that a man likes you by gestures, paying attention to hand movements. If, when meeting, he spreads his arms wide to the sides, it means that he wants to hug the girl. The obvious signals of manifestation of male sympathy include touching your neck and your hair, touching the collar of your shirt, and focusing on your interlocutor with shoes.

In addition, an unconscious copying of female gestures will be evidence of male sympathy. Often, copying the gestures of a woman, a representative of the stronger sex wants to make a positive impression on the object of his interest. It will be a good sign if during the conversation the man is completely turned towards the woman. These signs include open gestures: loosening a tie, showing palms, unbuttoning the top buttons of a shirt. All these movements confirm that the interlocutor is comfortable in the company of this woman. Also, the reflection of interest includes attentive listening, accompanied by a slight tilt of the head towards the interlocutor.

You can easily talk about sympathy between a man and a woman if you are touched during communication. If a young man, when an opportunity arises, tries to touch a lady's hand, you can be sure of his sympathy. With the help of this gesture, the partner unknowingly shows other representatives of the stronger sex that this woman is busy.

If, during a walk, a young man supports a lady by the elbow, hugs, this indicates his desire to take the woman under his protection.

Evidence of a man's sympathy is the manifestation of gallantry. For example, he gives a hand, skips forward, helps to put on a coat. But this sign can also indicate a good upbringing. To confirm your guesses, you need to observe his behavior while communicating with other ladies. If the person of interest shows similar signs of attention to other ladies, then you should not attribute romantic overtones to his actions.

How do you know if an unfamiliar man likes you? This becomes obvious if he tries to meet as often as possible or seeks to systematically get into the field of vision of his desired object.

A man wants to be liked if he tries to attract attention to himself through emotional conversation or other tricks. So he tries to stand out from the crowd so that the girl for whom all this is intended will notice him, while he will periodically glance in the direction of his chosen one.

Alone with the object of his sympathy, a representative of the stronger sex will try to talk on a variety of topics, and replace awkward pauses with a radiant open smile. A clear sign of interest will be questions about preferences, hobbies, women's tastes, and life in general.

How can you understand that a man likes a girl? If a man does not hesitate to look at the girl, then this suggests that she is interested in him. If a man is skeptical of the fair sex and says that he can’t meet the right girl in any way, then this probably means that you are the right girl.

You can understand that a man likes you from a telephone conversation, if the voice of the interlocutor is excited, polite, tactful, and a large number of jokes, pleasant words, emoticons will help to recognize signs of sympathy by correspondence.

It is important to remember that certain representatives of the stronger sex, not being able to express their sympathy and in every possible way hiding their interest, turn into rude ones. Grown men can often hurt with caustic remarks and frank reproaches.

How do you know if a married man likes you? A man who is next to a lady he likes tries to look taller, and at this moment his body is slightly stretched up and tense. When talking, it is important to pay attention to his face and if the eyebrows are slightly raised, expressing surprise, then this indicates sympathy.

During communication, you should also pay attention to the tone of the male voice, if the tone is measured, then this indicates interest. It is necessary to pay attention to whether the man is making eye contact. If it holds, then this also indicates sympathy. It is required to focus on how he behaves if someone approaches him. If, after talking with other people, he immediately forgets what your conversation was about, then the girl is not so important for him. If a man admires the appearance, compliments the female mind, then this also speaks of deep interest. If the chosen one is interested in his personal life, carefully finds out all the information, then this is a sure sign that he has certain plans for the girl. If a lady catches a man's gaze from head to toe, then this indicates that the man admires her.

You can understand that a married man likes you by his body movements, which also participate in the conversation. If a man often leans over to his lady to say something to her; if the body is turned towards her, then this is a sign of disposition and openness to communication.

If a man looks away when suddenly a woman notices that they are looking at her, then this is a sign of interest with a desire to hide this moment. A sign of a good attitude is pleasing little things, insignificant gifts, providing any kind of service, but frequent calls, messages and letters will indicate deep passion and love.

How to understand that your male colleague likes you? It is not difficult, it is only important to be able to distinguish the desire to flirt from sincere sympathy. A sign of a colleague's sympathy is a man's behavior. A brave colleague, passing by a woman, can throw unambiguous glances and, as it were, casually touch a woman's hand. A humble colleague in love in the presence of an object of sympathy is often lost, behaves clumsily and awkwardly. He tends to be either overly active, or overly squeezed.

Applying a woman's trick, you can find out how much a colleague is interested in a woman's person. To do this, you need to ask for help and be alone. If a colleague is in love, then he will prove himself a hero. While the man is busy with business, you should start a conversation on neutral and abstract topics. You can start a conversation about a new exhibition, concert, film. Any man will understand such a hint and if he has sympathy, he will take the opportunity to keep the lady company. If he has no sympathy, then he will not take advantage of this situation.

Hello! I cannot understand the attitude of my director to myself, maybe you can clarify the situation. In general, everything is fine and within the normal range, we communicate at work, but there are times when I don’t understand, either this is elementary politeness, or his sympathy for me. He is married, and I am free, and he knows it. He somehow unobtrusively tries to take care of me, helps in small things and is always very friendly with me and smiles. Please help me understand what it is.

Hello. I hope you will answer my comment. I like a man, he is 27. I am 20 and the age difference confuses me a little. He says he is "gluing" me. (He works as a counselor) I said that he might find another one. To which he replied, he was looking for a granny. (I just said that I was 20 and I was old) For the new year he invited me to his place, but I refused. When I meet, I am ashamed to look at him. Once, he grabbed me by the collar of my shirt and hugged me. When you meet, he constantly hugs. He says that he likes me, but he does not write. I am afraid that I will let me in, and he will deceive me. Help

  • Hello Anna. Whether this guy deceives you or not, only time will tell. Any relationship is dynamic, and even if the guy is sympathetic to you now, then everything can change after some time. Enjoy today and the moment, allow yourself to be happy.

Hello! I'm 36. I've been married for almost 10 years. In marriage, I have always felt happy. The love of my husband was enough for me and the attention of strangers caused unpleasant sensations. But a few months ago a young man called out to me. I drove out of the courtyard of the house, and he drove in. I had to stop to let him pass. And instead of hurrying up he asked: "Do you like coffee?" “Yes,” I replied. "I love coffee, but only in the morning and with my husband." She smiled and left. In the evening I told my husband. We laughed. The man was handsome, in a nice car. I liked that situation, so I remembered it. And everything would have remained just some pleasant occasion, but I began to notice that very car. I began to wonder who the coffee lover came to. It turned out that he was my upstairs neighbor. We periodically began to meet at the entrance, but every time he pretended to see me for the first time. I have a dog. When we come across him, and at this moment I am with the dog, he examines it, turns around, but does not raise his eyes at me. When I see him in his car, he looks at me. I can't stand this gaze and is the first to break eye contact. Once it seemed to me that he suddenly saw me, got scared and left.

Hello! I like the neighbor downstairs, young, lonely, not stupid, we met when they received the keys to a new apartment, my mother became the initiator of communication with him, at the first meeting she asked about me that I was who I was, I didn’t ask anything like that ( I'm 26, he is 28), the first month we moved, often on weekends I went to visit, for tea, but everything was limited only to conversations on general topics, repairs, moving, not a single hint of anything, but when on the street I crossed paths with my mother always asked about me if I was at home, and so on, then disappeared for two months, did not come to visit, showed up a couple of weeks ago, just came to visit as unprecedented, we had a nice conversation on general topics, he invited me to visit him in the evening, show what furniture I chose, all the conversations on general topics, and that's it, I went to my room, on the weekend I went to visit again, drank tea, talked on general topics, no hints of anything. I began to lure him with pies, pastries, I came with joy, I treated him, and that's all, I like him as a man, but I have never had such an experience of communicating with men, all the men I liked always showed signs attention, hug, joke, talk about personal topics, and this is the first time, I don't believe in friendship between a man and a woman, so I can't understand if he comes just as a neighbor or he likes me, but he is either in no hurry, or he has someone. I never openly showed the first man that I liked him, the initiative was always from the man. From what I know about him: he has an older brother and sister, he loves his mother very much, in my presence he spoke very nicely to her on the phone and called her “mommy” (but my mother lives in another city, she does not often see her) , lives alone, was not married, very independent, bought an apartment himself, moved, did everything himself, did not see him with women. Friends advise to take everything into their own hands, but he does not look like an insecure man, he is purposeful, held in my opinion.

When I come to visit, I always meet with a smile, I say that I am glad to see.

Hello! I am 25! Could you help me! I can't quite understand! I have a man at work who is 33, I liked him! But I don't understand him! I constantly catch his eye on myself, I notice that sometimes he tries to be where I am! For some time they corresponded, talked about interests, work, family, he shared with me about his ex-wife! But live conversation does not go well at all, and if something needs to be decided at work, then he tries to arrange a step and leave, or starts to get nervous and aggressive! What does this all mean?
Thank you

  • He really likes you ... that's why he gets nervous when talking or even retires so as not to spoil everything! Take the first step yourself, in the sense of joking, start different conversations on any topic, and make him feel comfortable next to you, you will see as soon as this fear of ruining everything goes away, he will open to you!

the man paid signs of attention for a long time, but did not take the first step at all. in the end, I waited so long and did not wait. then he somehow completely closed himself off from me.
when we saw each other, he even stopped looking at me, did not say anything to me, and when he said hello he looked at the floor.
liked to hurt something
but this all gave way to the fact that he was worried why I was without a hat in this weather, if I would freeze - as if by chance

and I'm confused, I don't know how to behave

what can you say about all this?

Hello. I'm 21. There was only one relationship. Free now. I came to visit a friend. She lives with her brother. He is 3 years younger than me. At first they did not communicate. And then it got better somehow. And we could sit and talk for hours. Basically, he came when he saw me and told different incidents from his life. I listened to him, laughed, it was interesting. So we started to communicate more often. I noticed that he was staring into the eyes. Often catches my eye. During a conversation, especially if I say something, then he looks very attentively and intently into the eyes, I try not to avert and also look. And then I feel that I can't help but watch. What a special atmosphere. Over time, I began to notice that during a conversation she straightens her hair, touches her neck and arms, even pulled up her socks. We got hooked on coffee in bags and when he went to the store, he bought them for me. It was nice. Then we often played the fool with him. When I was in no mood, he tried to support, asked about my family, personal life. And he himself gave some rather personal information about his family and previous relationships, although I did not ask. Once I was going to the store, got up from the stool, and he put his hand on his shoulder and sat him down, saying that he would come with me. And in the end, he often put his hand on my shoulder. When they walked alongside, he seemed to touch me with his body, even in the store he put his hand on his shoulder when he said something. Then I noticed, as it were, accidental touches. When we were talking again, he touched my elbow, when he passed me and I had to move away, he touched my side slightly. When he sat down next to show the video legs. When the bracelet broke, he took my hand straight and began to repair it, and then he was like this: he didn't take it off. And then he took it off his hand and fixed it. When he passed something, took it from my hands, it was as if he was touching it on purpose. He also looked intently at the same time. He said that with people like me he can behave naturally and be himself. I noticed in my character what others did not notice. He seems to see right through me. Such an atmosphere was ... When I look at him_ as if there was some kind of connection. But. He has a girlfriend he recently started dating. And one day he said that he was in a hurry. The fact that it is good with her, but when she is next to him he wants to leave, and when she is not, he wants to meet with her, communicate, and so on. I understand the story is very long. But I want to understand: is it friendly sympathy or something more?

  • Hello Maria. Male psychology is such that men are experimenters by nature, who, over time, have a desire to diversify their own existence. The stronger sex is very flattered by the attention from the representatives of the opposite sex and the presence of permanent relationships is not a hindrance to this. Understand - friendly sympathy or something more, you can eventually, if the guy decides to look after you.

    Hello Maria. To understand this, you need to step back a little, deprive him of the opportunity to be with you. Looking at his reaction, you will understand everything yourself. If you like him, tell him that you cannot see him so often, this is not good in relation to his girlfriend. Then he will make his choice. A man, losing something important, will strive to conquer it. And, having spent some effort on this, he will value and be afraid of losing.

    Most likely more! Otherwise, he would not have revealed himself so much, especially since he hurried with his girlfriend ... give him time, right now he just got confused ...

Hello. I have a fatal situation. Familiar, the entrance to the house. When we remain in unity, it burns when a rock is straight with someone. We constantly correspond, see each other often, but I cannot understand him. We are both not alone.

Hello! I need help ... 9 months ago we broke up with a man (he thought I was jealous of him and hung up). After almost 4 months, I called him myself. Since then, I sometimes call, talk about everyone and everything, just not about our relationship. He helped me buy appliances for the house, helped me with the child. But he doesn't call himself. Recently asked for help with furniture. I agreed. How to assess his behavior? Does he want our relationship back? We've been dating for almost 4 years. And we are already over 40 ...

Hello, I'm an adult girl, but I can't fully understand if he likes me ?!) Six months ago, there was no action on his part, we work together, and now he is even trying to touch me. Passing me, either a chair or me will be touched. The other day, in general, he took me by the waist, removing his hands, she quickly left him, did not expect this. Explain what it is ?!) P.S. I really like him. Thank you.

  • And what is his look ??? What words does he say ??? Does any pleasant action ??? Type of protection, help in something, compliments, gestures ... write for more details

Hello! I got into a slightly incomprehensible situation. In recent days, one friend began to write every day, to be interested in how I am. We seemed to communicate normally before, I generally listen to all my acquaintances with pleasure, but to write every day. I respect this person for certain reasons, but this is not love. He is married and has a child. He says that I am his good friend and acquaintance, he was glad to meet me. She always calls her kind, smart, beautiful. Perhaps I am worried in vain and maybe this is true from a purely friendly gesture, he writes and says something similar. I just don't want to be in an awkward situation, especially since this is one of my former teachers from foreign language courses.

  • Hello Lada. Write to a friend about your feelings and doubts directly "I would not like to be in an awkward situation", the situation will immediately become clear for you.

      • Good afternoon, Svetlana. You're right. The topic covered in this thread is not a psychological problem. If you want to understand the attitude of a representative of the opposite sex to yourself, it is not a difficult task for a mature person.

Hello. Tell me please, I would very much like to know ... My friend looks at me, but as soon as I notice it, he immediately looks away. When communicating, he looks from his eyes to my lips. A couple of times I noticed how he was watching me. We communicate just like acquaintances. How can you assess all this?

Hello. Thoughts of my colleague's sympathy for me began to creep into my head. We are constantly fooling around like children, and if someone sees us, they will definitely say "kindergarten!" All the time he tries to hurt me with a word, say something not very pleasant, it got to the point that we (as a joke, naturally) begin to pinch each other, he tugs at my hair and jacket, spanked and pinched my butt several times .. And several times he scolded me for not picking up the phone, of course during working hours, outside of work we do not communicate, we also have dinner separately. The fact is that he is married, of course I have little experience, but it seems to me that a married man should not behave this way in relation to a colleague. I would not say that I have sympathy for him as a man, but our jokes help to make the process of work not so boring or something. Maybe there is no subtext, and a young man (30 years old) is also trying to somehow distract himself from working days?

Tell me these are the signs that I like me or it seems to me. ??? In general, from my intuition, I always had a complete ok (I am a scorpion), but in this case I do not trust myself - I like this comrade too much. We work together, he has been working with us recently, but I have known him for a long time, he worked in our company, but in another division, now he works with us. he is not the biggest boss, but big, he is focused on ethics, subordination, and in general he wants to be correct, he always gets attention and me too, so an affair at work is dangerous and not what he and me need. he is gallant and well-mannered, so I don't pay attention to politeness and constant compliments ... But there are signs that make me think-1. blushes when we meet in private, one day I suddenly went into his office, he looked at me with absolutely mad eyes, I asked if it was possible to come in looking at me - dumbfoundedly silent, I had to go in without permission - I don’t know what he was doing there, maybe he slept? Then it seemed that I woke up and began to do what I asked but was very twitchy - instead of just looking at my calendar, I opened the whole computer to me - I won't go to him again. He always smiles broadly, radiantly, and quietly, and even I would say greets gently - although he never complained about his voice - moreover - every time he greets me more and more quietly and on Friday he generally switched to a whisper. whispered - hello Svetlana - I'm not sure in shock that someone else greeted me like that. True, I can only smile in response because my throat squeezes and I'm afraid to squeak in response, so I don't answer anything at all and just smile. 2 all the time I see so many random encounters I have no skem I decided to check - I got up in the corridor and talked with my colleagues - I walked by five times. - thought that usually his route does not lie quite there. 3 He speaks to me quietly with my colleagues, laughs like a horse in front of me, jokes with my friends - not with me - only smiles. He tends to joke a little patronizingly - for example, giving his assistant sweets - do not eat too much stomach ache, with my colleague, my closest colleague in general suddenly became a best friend - he will not pass by without sharpening and bonjour Michael (my colleague of French origin) and a beard he will comment on him, nothing has ever happened to me, she dyed my hair bright red - only the lazy one didn’t say anything to me about this, only he didn’t - it would be better to be so kind to me. 4 assent to me and often says “that he too,” for example - my leader, his subordinate, says - here Svetlana loves India, he was delighted to talk about me too - although no one asked him, recently he spoke in paints about his difficult past - for a long time he worked in the same position as me and was in the same group as me. Although I see that our points of view really coincide in many respects and our assessments of the situation are similar .. And people have already begun to notice this ... I say this crap should be reduced by 2 cm, he comes - he says - it's better to make this crap less than 2 centimeters. so ... In group disputes, he always supports me, especially when I am pressed - although this may not be an indicator, it may just be that I am always right)). Our meetings with him are always delayed for 2 hours instead of the planned 30 minutes, I am pleased to talk to him there is a suspicion that the rest of the people are dying for him too - when will they shut up ?! :)) 5 when we just start group communication and I come or he comes - at the first moment he does not look at me at all as if I am not there - everyone is already looking at me, but not he, when I already address him directly - he gives me his embarrassed smile and finally starts talking to me - I must say I not the last person in the company - why should he ignore me ?? it pisses me off. He didn’t make a good point about me, I said behind his back, thinking that he had already left - what is this ignore? But he apparently heard the file that he was going to send to my manager - he sent me and put my manager in a copy - why so sharply react to women's whims ?? Where is his business ethic finally? 7 When he thinks he doesn’t see him, he has a very harsh expression on his face and he fusses a little, but in my presence I can say that he is an absolute darling and his back is absolutely straight. I do not speak about the strange tasks that he directs me with enviable regularity through my leader, because, perhaps, only to me they seem strange - in fact, they may contain a huge strategic meaning that I cannot understand with my almost abandoned mind. I like him, so I can't always control myself and I understandably also signal unconsciously that I like him, perhaps I myself provoke him, although no one has told me yet, thank God, that it is noticeable that I like him. What kind of person he is - he is emotional, I suppose that he is a bit of an adventurer, he freely expresses his desires for what he likes and what he doesn't like, loves to give advice, but he is a very well-organized person, smart and pragmatic enough, he is an adult, but the difference is in us mind not akhtung-6 years old, although I'm sure he thinks that I'm younger. In general, I have recently been going to work like on a holiday! :)) so what would you say?

Hello, why did a stranger gaze intently, for a long time and often into the eyes, and when the gazes met, did not look away? I constantly felt his gaze. And when they met by chance, he blushed and passed, trying not to look in the eyes

Hello. I like one colleague who is not free, he thinks that I am also not free. We meet often, but talked little, it seems to me that he always looks at me appraisingly. Recently he came to my office and for at least 10 we talked mainly about me, more precisely, about my other places of work. In the course of the conversation, I tried to transfer the conversation to him, like where did you work, etc. It seemed to me that we talked so well, but on the same day I met him in a place where we usually crossed and ... when he saw me (I'm sure he saw), he turned his back on me and pretended to communicate with colleagues, but did not see me ... Could this be an indication that the person has lost interest? Did I frighten him with something? Thank you in advance for your response.

Hello, I am 14 years old.
In your article it was written that if a guy escorts home, then he is interested in it, and so a similar situation with my classmate is just along the way and he often walks home with me.
My friend also says that he looks at me during the lesson, although he sits behind me and I think that not at me, but at the board. Even from 2nd to 4th grade, he pissed me off, then he would pull the scythe, then kick my chair, and in the 5th grade he changed dramatically and became friendly and even supported in difficult times.
Due to the fact that we often communicate both in class and at recess, our classmate asked me right in front of him if I liked him, and I replied: “Are you crazy? Of course not, I am not interested in such nonsense like love. " (I was 12 then), but he did not react in any way and simply kept silent, but did not stop communicating with me, but on the contrary, he would prompt me in the lesson, or treat me with a tasty treat.
I am not strained by our relationship, but I do not know if I like him, and if he likes me?
Please help as an adult child.

Hello. Here in my yard there is a boy, he is a year younger than me, I like him, his behavior shows that he can like me too. After all, he finds a moment constantly to touch me somehow, to play a trick (but not offensive), in general he does not treat all other girls like he does. But another girl from our yard likes this boy and, in comparison with me, he constantly laughs at her and does not seem to notice her, but on the contrary, he notices me and treats me much better. There were moments when he had a choice with whom to sit closer to me or to another girl, and he sat down to me, also huddled. And when I fell, he helped me to get up, when I could not climb a tree - he helped me by extending his hand. Of course, I think that he likes him and to check this I want to hug him before leaving, since I have never hugged before. Do you think it is worth confessing your sympathy for him, or is it better to wait a little longer when he does it?

  • Hello Yana. Better to wait, boys like to conquer girls. Admitting that you can scare the boy away from yourself, he may lose interest, because the male sex at a young age is afraid to show his weaknesses in the form of an open manifestation of sympathy.

Good day! My name is Tatiana, I am 28 years old. I am married, my husband is 19 years older than me. Together we are 7 years old, no children. I love him, he also loves me very much, he is ready to do anything for me. Previously, I did not look at other men at all, but after a long separation from my husband 2 years ago, it seemed to break me. Since then, I have been freely flirting with men, but it never came to concrete love. A year ago we met with a classmate, he got a job with my husband (he is the head of the security department). Now we see each other periodically. Previously, at the school, we did not really communicate, he was not interesting to me at all, but now I like it, but it’s so good that I dream from time to time, I’m already afraid not to speak in my sleep. In general, the bottom line is that I had a feeling that my relationship with my husband has outlived its usefulness (and I have sympathy for this guy. Usually I feel if a man likes me, but I would like to know for sure, I'm still married. his behavior:
Yesterday I needed to talk to him on a very delicate topic: a friend was depressed from unrequited love, I asked if he had unmarried friends. His first answer was:
- do you want to marry me?
“No,” I say, “I don’t want to marry you!”
Gradually moved on to the question of why he is single (my age). To which he replied that his requests were too large.
All the time from the moment of the meeting, he did not stop smiling, looked at me point-blank, approached a distance of 40 centimeters, no more. I know him from school, he is always positive, so I get lost. During the conversation, he first smoked, then put his hands in the pockets of his trousers and did not take them out.
Please help me understand the degree of his sympathy.

Hello!
My name is Natasha, I am 30 years old, married, my son is 5.6 years old. I met a 40-year-old divorced man, by chance, at a meeting with classmates. I will not say that I don’t love my husband, no, I love him and is faithful to him, even though he is rude to me, he even raised his hand before. But in communication with this man, his name is Sasha, I realized that I liked him as a man. I used to be able to flirt with men, but I never went further than flirting. But this time everything is somehow different. I am quite well versed in people, not only on the basis of my conclusions, the profession compels (I am a neuropathologist-psychotherapist), helped many friends to keep their families together. I see and see well that this man also liked me, even at the first meeting, and he told me this directly. He was married, 2 children from marriage, did not abandon them, which speaks of decency, but also affection for his ex-wife ... He wants to continue our communication ... But I can not decide whether I need it or not. But I know for sure that I really want new feelings. I ask for advice!

  • Hello Natasha. The ethical code of a psychologist prohibits giving advice to a client, since any advice is a decision from the point of view of the person who gives this advice. Advice is an instruction, an indication of how to proceed, based on personal experience, including complexes and prejudices.
    Nobody knows better than you what to do. Only you know all the features of your situation.

Hello, my name is Nastya, I'm 14. There is a boy in my yard (a year older than me). When I started walking in the yard, we didn't communicate so well, but then after a while we got into a very good conversation. For a year now we have been communicating every evening, I like him, but if he likes me, I don’t know. There was such a case when he yelled at my friend and me out of anger, well, we took offense and left the gazebo, I am an emotional person and therefore burst into tears. But in the evening at 23 (as usual at this time we start chatting) he sent a huge letter of apology. And there is another boy in our yard (he is a year younger than me) and I think that he likes me because when we were running he ran and slapped on the butt. And when we watched the video with a friend, he lay down chtoli on my lap to see what we were watching. I don’t know who I might like, help me figure it out.

Hello !!! I like one guy, he is 4 years older than me (I'm 18). I have never had a boyfriend, so I don’t understand much. Help, the situation is this: we work together, he is cute, funny, sociable. With me He jokes all the time, scoffs, calls her plump, black, funny, strange, awkward, and so on (all in an affectionate version, a smile on his face, as if he gets pleasure from it). All the time he bully, pushes, pokes. And I also noticed that when he jokes, he looks at me. Sometimes it seems that he likes me, but sometimes he can call me a little girl, kids, brother. It seems that he’s joking. All the time he asks why I don’t have a boyfriend. this is how he communicates, and by the way, I already know his mother. Could it be that he likes me or does he treat me like a little sister?

Hello. My name is Sofia. I am 14 years old. There is a guy in the class that I like. He is trying in every possible way to draw my attention to himself, slaps on the shoulder, etc. He takes my things and is trying to make me laugh, while looking straight in the eyes. Then he will take my backpack or put it on himself, or put it on another desk. He jokes in front of me. As stupid as it may have been, he gave me the jumper. If I ask him something, he will answer with a joke. Sometimes I notice glances on myself. For example, one situation that happened recently. He did something funny, I laughed, he says like “high five, well, let’s not break it off” just as when we were sitting next to him, at one point, for no reason, he began to look into the eyes for a long time. Without looking away. Could this mean something? He treats other girls differently, does not show any of the above. And if this means something, then how can I get the first step from him, how to show that I am also not indifferent to him?

Hello dear blog reader site!

I really hope that you have already read my notes and. But I think those articles would be incomplete without describing the signs of male sympathy. I know that a girl in love is capable of taking every glance in her direction at least as a declaration of love, but this is far from the case.

It is important to assess the situation as soberly as possible. For this today there will be The signs that a guy likes you are analyzed as fully as possible.

10 signs a guy likes you

So, what are the 10 signs that you can tell that a guy likes you?

Gestures as a sign that a man likes you

Perhaps this is the brightest, one of the most reliable signs of understanding whether a guy likes you or not. Purely theoretically, body language can be puffed up if you know all the signs by which you can see through. But I assure you, if your beloved (or how do you feel about him there?) Does not have a psychological education or a special craving for studying psychology, he is unlikely to do this. You are required to arm yourself with attention and watch his body. So what are the clear signs that a particular guy likes you?

To begin with you you need to monitor the position of his body in relation to your... When his body in most cases is turned in your direction, and besides, he almost never turns his back on you, we can conclude that he is either afraid of you or this is the first sign that he likes you!

Open poses in your direction - we mean open gestures, a demonstration of the wrists, a light relaxed posture, slightly turned towards you - all this is a continuation of the previous sign. When talking, his whole body is as if slightly turned towards you, and his head is slightly tilted towards you.

Pay attention to his posture: every guy involuntarily tries to make his back even, and his chest with a wheel, under the gaze of the girl he likes (even if in life everything is the other way around - the chest is flat and the back is a wheel).

If a guy unwittingly copies your gestures, then this is also another sign of his sympathy for you.... There is such a moment in human psychology - we involuntarily try to be like those we like, and vice versa - we avoid resemblance to those we dislike. How to understand this? Well, for example, sitting opposite the guy and chatting make some gesture For example, rub your earlobe or change your position by leaning against the back of a chair and crossing your legs. After that, carefully monitor his reaction..

I'm not saying that he should exactly repeat all your actions, no, but his body should involuntarily stretch in an attempt to copy your gestures if he likes you. Let him not iron his ear, but he can reach for a cigarette or scratch his nose. Maybe he will not take exactly the same position as you, but he must somehow change his in response to your change.

Close attention to the legs: if in the presence of other people (especially a sure sign in the presence of other girls) the socks of his shoes are turned in your direction - do not go to the fortune-teller, he likes you more than anyone in this company!

When we are next to a girl we like, we involuntarily want to reach out to her., feel the warmth of her skin, feel the pressure of her figure. And it's understandable that unconsciously (and maybe consciously) we try to touch her.

So that if a guy touches your hand, at every opportunity hugs the waist trying to get you ahead by accident falls on you, friendly pats on the knee or even just pressed shoulder to your shoulder- you can think that this is another sign that he likes you.

But closed poses, on the contrary, indicate his not sympathy for you. Crossing your arms over your chest, folding your wrists into a "pyramid", and if you also cross your legs to boot ... well, it looks like this guy is not interested in you yet.

Social activity

Sign language is, of course, a very sure indicator of male sympathy, but what if you are trying to understand whether you like a guy with whom you almost never intersect?

Fortunately, in the 21st century there is the coolest image of humanity, which in the common people is called social networks. Activity on the part of a guy in your address on social networks is a sure sign that this guy likes you... There are a number of points that you should pay attention to when considering the degree of sympathy:

First you need to understand how actively the guy lives a "social life". Many guys go to social networks exclusively to see whether someone has written to them or not. I think it would be unfair to expect high social activity from such guys. It's another matter if he updates his profile twice a week and spends half a day online.

Loyal sign of sympathy through social networks you can count likes, comments and private messages turned from him to you.

Look what kind of pictures or notes he is commenting on (what if he is not interested in you, but your best friend Dasha, who is present in a good half of your photos).

Analyze the "mood" of his messages... In front of the girl he likes, every poor student will try to look smarter and wittier than he really is. A sure sign of his sympathy is carefully chosen words and the insertion "between the lines" of the true attitude towards the girl. I advise you to open your correspondence with him right now and look at it with an analyzing eye.

To attract attention

If a guy likes a girl, he will try in every way to attract her attention. Do you think he always behaves this way or only in your presence? If a guy with you turns from a shy nerd into a kind of funny guy, a funny guy, a favorite of the public and the loudest and brightest dude, the soul of the company, then who knows, maybe this is his way to attract your attention ...

Personally invites you to parties

When a guy invites you somewhere, even if it's not a date, it can also be a sign that he likes you. It's hard to invite a girl you like on a first date, but to a party with your mutual acquaintances is much easier. It's kind of like an unobtrusive way to show you that you are interesting to him, and a reason to spend time together, and at the same time, you can see your reaction to the guy.

Awkward looks

Pay attention to the way the guy looks at you. If a guy looks at you more often and longer than other girls, then there are two options: l because this is a sign that he likes you, or your makeup is smeared(if at the same time he also smiles, then rather the second).

It is also important how exactly he looks at you. If a guy allows himself unambiguous frank looks, then he is most likely serious and absolutely not shy about it. But, I think in this case the question of how to find out that a guy likes you would not have sounded from your keyboard, so I think everything is not so obvious.

Often a guy in a fit of shyness may try to hide his sympathy. And then I can give you a couple of tips on how to bring it to clean water.

First, you can ask your girlfriends for an estimate... From the outside, it is usually more visible as who looks at whom.

Secondly, herself with peripheral vision, follow his gaze... There is a cool trick: when you feel his gaze on you, move your gaze somewhere into the distance, where the horizon line smoothly turns into the sky. After looking into the distance for a short time, turn around sharply and look at the experimental boy.

If he looks like he was caught on something hot, if he hesitates and flushes, then another sign that the guy likes you is already in your pocket. But not every guy will be ashamed of his interest in a girl. And if, instead of embarrassment, he continues to openly stare and admire you, then this is the same sign of his obvious interest in your person.

Speaking of the look, it is fair to draw your attention what part of your body does the boy most often stare at... If his gaze walks along your neckline, and then smoothly flows down, then most likely the guy doesn't just like you, but he also wants you.

Overly shy

If a guy is too shy in your presence, trying to talk to you is some kind of nonsense and looks generally stupid - this can also be interpreted as a sign of his sympathy for you.

Constantly smartening up

But you don't have to make round eyes, considering that only girls tend to be fooled and preened to attract male attention. The stronger sex of this world can also show their sympathy in such a simple way. If a guy in your presence tries to look better than usual, constantly straightens his clothes, strokes himself on the head at every opportunity, looks in the mirror and smells good from him, there can be only 2 options: either he is a narcissistic narcissist, or he really wants to please you.

Frequent casual meetings

Think, are your meetings with him always an accident, or maybe the guy is specifically looking for an excuse to see you and happens in places absolutely not peculiar to him for the sake of meeting you? .. we will not dwell on this point in detail, I think you understood that I I mean.

Reliable male shoulder

Usually a guy who likes a girl seeks to help this girl in every possible way.... I am sure married girls will now begin to argue furiously with me, spitting on the monitor shouting: "My, bastard, nothing helps me, she just does what she walks all day on the couch or plays in her tanks." So it is, I will not argue. But things are radically different when a guy tries to understand.

It is paradoxical, but true: a girl who has liked a guy can count on small household help with much greater confidence than the one who has been preparing borscht for him for 5 years and taking his socks out from under the sofa. But I digress a little.

Briefly speaking, if the guy is trying in every possible way to help solve various small questions and problems for you, this is another sure sign that he likes you... Unconsciously, with such a simple trick, he seems to be trying to bind you to himself.

Touching things

When we like a girl, we willy-nilly try to get closer to her through her things. In other words, a guy who has romantic feelings for you will gladly stroke your purse, twist a handle in his hands, or grab your kitten by the ear..

You can even arrange a kind of test: put your thing next to him (phone, keys, lighter) and see how he will behave in relation to your thing. If he touches her in every possible way (correcting, stroking, twisting in his hands), then you can be sure - he likes you! Well, if it doesn't react in any way - do not rush to despair, there are also a bunch of other signs!

How to understand that a guy likes you by conversation

Being kind in conversation is a strong sign of male sympathy.... I doubt the guy will be too nice to the girl he doesn't like.

To start pay attention to the manner of speaking. In what tone does he communicate with you? A soft, not quite characteristic of the idea of ​​courage, tone is one of the very first and surest signs of male sympathy. Again, it is important to consider the manner of speaking in comparison. If a guy with friends and other girls is all so rude and dry, and with you a solid sissy - you don't even have to guess on the coffee grounds, he definitely likes you. But there are also such lads who are everywhere and always with everyone and in everything lisp "with such a nice little voice", then here the sign of sympathy loses its authenticity.

Also I advise you to pay attention to the level of his involvement during a conversation: Does he look you in the eyes (or maybe at your bust? Then this is generally a cool sign), how easy is it to distract him from your conversation? Analyze also what he says... Does she flirt with you? Or maybe he constantly teases and teases, or even throws not decent hints at all?

A good sign that a guy likes you, it when he is interested in your personal life(especially its presence or absence). Interested in your affairs, worries, talking about personal things. All this can be said in two words: he is interested in you. How often does a guy tell you about himself? In addition to the fact that few guys will tell a girl unsympathetic to him about himself, there is still an interesting pattern: the more a guy tells a girl about himself, the more he falls in love with this girl.

It is also important to evaluate what exactly is the guy telling... When a young man tells a young lady about his other girls (the plural is important), he may try to show her in such a simple way what a sought-after man he is. Or in other words: incite her to jealousy.

But, on the other hand, stories about their adventures can also be a banal bragging to a girl friend. Men love to show off quantitative indicators in front of friends, so if he perceives you as a friend, then ... It is important to catch this fine line. But be that as it may, remember that every time he tells you about himself, he continues to fall in love with you, and if you also flatter him, assenting to what kind of Don Juan he is, then the effect will only intensify.

Another sure sign that a guy likes you is when he compliments you.... Only here it is important to understand: not all guys will compliment the girls they like. There are too many shy guys around who (it's even ridiculous to say it) are embarrassed about their own manifestation of sympathy. Often, by the way, guys in live communication may hesitate to show sympathy, mistakenly confusing it with sentimentality, but they do it very actively on social networks. This point also needs to be taken into account.

In general, if we are talking about signs of showing interest from a guy to a girl, for the completeness of the picture, we need to know this degree in comparison. This refers to comparing how he behaves with you, and how with other girls. If he only squeezes and teases you, then this is of course a sign that he likes you. But if these manifestations of attention are characteristic of a guy during communication with every pretty girlfriend, then he is either a womanizer, or he just has such an insignificant manner of communication.

Three additional signs a guy likes you

Above were the top 10 signs that a guy likes you. Next, I will list three auxiliary signs of male sympathy for you.

Bragging as a sign of sympathy

If a guy to you (or to others in your presence) brags about how cool and clear he is, that he is, they say, the very best and there are no others like that, then such bragging can also be seen as a sign of interest in you.

Attention to details

If a guy is attentive to details, to you, to important dates for you, then of course he likes you. This means that the guy remembers everything that you told him about yourself, and even a little more, congratulates you on all important dates for you (which he is aware of) and on all the holidays.

The desire to get closer

Think ah how often does he try to get close to you? If a guy walks with you at every opportunity(it also counts in the company), and generally tries to spend as much time as possible with you, then this is another sign that a guy likes you... It is also worth paying attention to which companies you walk in. If he invites you to those companies where most of the meetings take place "in pairs", then this already means a lot.

How to check if a guy likes you

Touch him casually and watch the reaction... If he likes you, then he will certainly try to touch you back.

Well, that's all, my dear reader, I tried to make out all the possible signs that a guy likes you. I hope you have no questions left and now you can easily determine whether you are cute to him or not. Well, if you still have questions, I will be happy to answer them through the comment form.

And you can check with. Answer all the questions and the test will give you the answer you need!

P. S. Make your friends happy - share signs of male sympathy with them on the social network. To do this, you need to click on the social buttons. By the way, it is quite possible that your lover, having seen a repost on your wall, will go here, read it, and understand how to show you that he likes you. In short, you need to reap in any way, the output is only good!

Well, everything, it's time for me to reel in the rods and you arm yourself with attention and scan your gentleman for the degree of interest in you. Good luck in this difficult endeavor!

Sincerely Vitaly Okhrimenko!

87 comments on “The most accurate signs that a guy likes you”

    You have figured out the weaker sex

    It is not difficult to understand what you like, but to understand whether the person you need is much more difficult.

    The main thing is not to miscalculate when choosing a companion, because by the actions you can easily determine the character of a person, and there is no need to rush even if the guy really has sympathy for the girl!

    Here's another moment: each of us, being in a state of love, tries to show ourselves from the best side. Moreover, being in love with a person, we try not to notice his shortcomings, emphasizing his dignity. But someday these glasses lose their pinkness, and we have to look at a person without pink eyepieces. It is at these moments that most couples break up.

    And you also need to understand the person wants to spend the night with you or wants a serious relationship.

    They say that in order to recognize a person, you need to make repairs with him and then the person will show himself in all his glory.

    I want to object. This is only a superficial description. Each person is different.

    Oh yes, renovation is another challenge for the family.

    If there is no riddle in the girl, then she is not interesting. And if all the girls around are like open books, then life becomes completely boring.

    My husband and I will have this test next summer. I wonder if it will come to a divorce or will it cost?))))

    Ekaterina, don't be so strict: you always need to first describe what is common to all girls, and only then move on to individual differences.

    By the way, I, too, Catherine wanted to say that if there are no secrets in something, then interest disappears.
    Then, on TV, one psychic admitted that he was bored of the girls, about whom he knew in advance all their funny past.

    And about this even in the famous song it was sung: "We choose, we are chosen ... How often it does not coincide ..."

    Come on, what a divorce? Renovation is a difficult test of feelings, but no extremes please.

    I completely agree! The mystery in a woman is the most attractive feminine trait! If a girl very quickly reveals herself completely and completely with the smallest details, then interest in her quickly disappears.

    That feelings do not coincide and are not mutual, i.e. a lot of prose and poems have been written about the so-called "unrequited love", but such is the cruel reality.

    I'm figuratively!)) But someone can run away from home for a while))

    I am not criticizing in any way. It's just that many people equate everyone with the same brush. For example: all men are goats or all women are bitches. And everyone's soul is different.

    Mutual sympathy is not so common. Sometimes people meet according to the principle, because everyone meets with someone and I need to.

    In order not to tempt fate during the repair, it is better to hire a worker who will do everything. You just need to choose the material. And then there will be no trials.

    And you shouldn't choose the material, let the master do it himself, that's why he is a master.

    Enough. Recently, our family trusted the "masters". So they picked up so many things for us and left the jambs behind them. But how many beautiful words and clever speeches about the repair were that you. Not always the one who knows how to tell beautifully can do well.

    Hiring a worker is ideal, but expensive. Not everyone will be able to financially master.

    For hired craftsmen you need an eye and an eye. And you can't trust them. You need to check every little thing behind them.

    Of course, if you write about individuals and articles, nothing will work. Therefore, we have to unite everyone and write about the majority.

    We love girls to guess: loves, does not love. At some point, I just got tired of it and I began to perceive only one sure sign that a guy liked me: if he told me about it himself. In general, the advice is great, especially about the fact that the guy loves to touch the things of the girl he likes. This is the true truth, do not even doubt it. Another question is how much the guy likes you at the same time: he wants to go out for coffee with you or introduce you to your mom. This is something we, girls, are not given to know until the guy himself opens up. Vitaly, you are great, the article contains a lot of both humor and psychology, I really liked everything!

    With my husband, the renovation was more a test of our physical fitness than our relationship. We were terribly tired, did the repairs until one in the morning, then went to sleep in another apartment, in the morning we both went to work. We were very tired, but thank God we didn’t quarrel. Until now, as I hear the word repair, it is already shivering))

    This means that you and your husband are perfect for each other. Now, the main thing is that the repairs stand as long as possible.))

    I, too, would never entrust the purchase to the masters of the material.

    I agree with you, Irina. In Vitaly's articles, I am very impressed by his sense of humor. The articles, despite their size, are easy to read.

    I think everyone who at least once came to this terrible word "repair" for the second time being in a sober mind and bright memory will not subscribe to this

    Girls, thank you for the flattering reviews. It seems to me that I have not written anything for so long that sometimes I have already begun to forget how to do it.

    Haha, don't renounce. After 10 years, a maximum of 20 will have to be repeated all over again)))

    By the way, when will there be a new interesting article about the relationship between a man and a woman?

    Oh Katya, that's a good question. I think I will specifically deal with the publication of new interesting articles after the new year. Now I'm terrified how I want to win contests at Sani Borisov (at least get into the 3 leaders), so before NG it's all about improving the quality of the resource.

    The repair has no chance, our son constantly checks whether we glued the wallpaper well, and what he draws on them better: a pencil or a felt-tip pen)))

    And sometimes, hiring a worker is the beginning of testing, sometimes such cadres come across !!

    And also a cool expression: the husband is recognized on maternity leave. And the wife, by the way, too. Having a baby is still a shake-up for a young family!

    Or maybe you will have to repeat it faster. Technology does not stand still.

    The decree gives some complications. I ran into them right after the birth of the child. And now everything has settled down and my husband and I have even begun to understand each other better.

    I myself am very worried about this. The child is small and I'm afraid that the new wallpaper and laminate flooring will not last long.

    Vitaly, you have already written a decent number of articles, so you can be distracted a little by other matters. I hope that after the New Year you will delight us every day with new articles.

    Oh, Vitaly, I'm waiting for an article from you on the topic: "How to cope with a crisis in relationships after the birth of a child?"

    Yes, my husband and I have been married for five years without children, living on a relaxed basis, and for us, of course, it was a real shake-up. But with us, too, everything settled down after the son was about a year old.

    Children are great, but you need to come to an understanding of this. At first it was very difficult for me with the child, I used to devote all the time to work or myself. And here is the child. And now everything is going like clockwork.

    Although it can be difficult with children, life with them becomes fuller and more interesting!

    And I'm not particularly worried. Nothing is eternal. I explain, of course, what is allowed and what is not. But I don’t punish for the damaged wallpaper, it’s still small))

    And you can't punish and the wallpaper is a pity. Well, what can you donate to, if only the child was happy.))

    Thank you for your congratulations! To be honest, I was immediately confused by the 4th place, but having received my gifts, I realized that everything is great!

    Took a note, wrote it down in a notebook ... it will be a little freer over time, I will definitely write!

    Don't be upset! It's cool to be ranked 4th among so many blogs. No wonder I did so much work.

    It's cool to take 1st place, and the fourth is so, about nothing. Gifts are certainly good, but self-importance does not raise at all

    Well, I don’t know, I think you’re too hard on yourself. There were not 5 participants, but much more)

    Guys, now I realized that the newcomer liked it! In short, listen, and after school, my friend and I were left alone in the wardrobe, chatting. A newcomer comes up, gets dressed and joins our conversation. We get dressed, but he was already dressed and stood waiting for us. Then, he often very often puts his hand on his shoulder. And so tenderly. He thinks about me, his ear is burning, or ringing. He's only with us for 5 months! ☺ I like him too. I'm also another girl in a computer science group, he sings such songs in short about relationships, it's too embarrassing for me Then he did not listen to the teacher, I persuaded him, he went to another desk I dream about him 5th day! So like this)

    Alice, I just read your comment and even smiled. I'm glad for you and the new one.
    It looks like he can't decide on the first step, so you may have to take the situation into your own hands. But I just ask you, be careful so ... we - guys, do not like when girls take pressure. Shooting with eyes, double-digit hints: this is exactly what you need now!

    And what if in my presence a guy starts, as it were, to actively talk with everyone around, but not with me, so like to show attention to others, and even to a friend. but not to me, but I often catch his glances at me

    Well, there are two options: either very cute, or very unpleasant. You need to study other signs of his sympathy in order to draw the correct conclusion.

    I really like one guy from school, but I can't understand if it's mutual. In general, the story is very long.
    He's a womanizer, so to speak. Met with my classmate and on the first day offered to sleep. I like him somewhere since October. But he found out, somewhere in November, in December, and after that he started looking at me. He looks without stopping, when I look at him, looks away, but then starts to stare again (the girlfriend is following him). When I got sick and did not go to school, he often passed by the place where I and my friends stand at recess, looking for someone, looking out. Then, for a while, it was like this, when he passed him specially touched his shoulder, touched me. When his friends look at him, he asks: "What are you looking at ?!" But when I wrote to him, he said that I was not his type. But for half a year now, everyone has been looking at me.
    His words and actions do not correspond to each other. I'm confused, help.

    From what you wrote, most likely there is sympathy. And at the expense of "not in my taste", most likely it is a blockage, perhaps the fear of being condemned. As I understand it is older?

    Oh, those spy friends. From my own experience I will say that sending friends to "find out" is far from the most correct way. Judging because they come 5 km to go to the river - like it. And the fact that laughs aside, well, she's still not a girl to intercede every time.
    My verdict: yes, you like it!

    For 3 months I like one kid who is a year older than me.
    Two months ago, we got to know each other well, and I finally learned his name: 3
    3 days after we met, I wrote to him about my feelings.
    He wrote that he liked me too (at that time he had never seen me in his life).
    Then we met live, a week ago he invited me to walk into the city, but they didn’t let me go.
    Then he came by bike to me (I live 5 km from the city)
    This was the first walk together.
    True, he was with a friend ...
    We went to the river.
    There his friend threw clay at me because I didn’t want to swim, for this Yegor (the kid I like) gave his friend a slap on the head and shook him: 3
    The next day, history repeated itself. Before that, Yegor more than once invited me to go for a walk, but I refused.
    Three days ago I left for the village, he accompanied me with text messages ala "I will miss", "I will wait." I was even embarrassed)
    Yesterday, closer to night, I had so much nothing to do that I wrote to him again that I liked him, to which I received the following answer: "You are me too: 3"
    But, something I can’t believe, because we hardly talk live, and indeed one of his friends cannot stand me.
    And when this creature is right in my face, Yegor laughs on the sidelines ...
    It's a shame.
    I also don’t believe him because he has known for 2 months that I am not indifferent to him, and this, in his words, is “mutual”, but he still has not offered to meet ...
    And in general, neither in face, nor in figure, I did not really come out. I very much doubt his words.
    Oh yes, three weeks ago a friend asked him how he treats me?
    He replied to her: "as to a friend"

    Hello! Can you advise me. I'm not in love at all in life, I take relationships very seriously, even though I'm still quite young (I'm 16, he's 19, by the way, the difference in birthdays is only 5 days a sign of fate ?!). But recently I liked 1 guy, I think about him, and I can’t do anything! We study with him in the same institution, but in different groups. I met him (with the courage of no problems), the conversation was still funny .. My brain turned off altogether and instead of asking ordinary things (how are you? Tell me about yourself?) I asked him how he was given a tomato dining room that day (yes, yes, I said that it turned out very funny and ridiculous) and, to his surprise, he kept up the conversation, began to tell something .. And even before that, on the same day, in the same canteen , poluchaetsya I already went to carry the tray (we were not yet familiar), so, put this tray on the tape and turn around, and then he (as the accident happened) stands with his tray, I exclaimed in surprise Oh! And she looked pleasantly at him, he said "Hello!" me, she was a little upset, answered him and walked around him with a quick step and went. I didn’t believe myself at that moment, and inside everything was screaming Aaaaaa.!. Well, then when I left, I saw he was following me, there was no one else in the corridor, and I decided not to miss such a wonderful chance to get to know each other and what happened next I already told (about the tomato: D). We will definitely hug each other when we meet. He speaks in a sweet tone, it’s always easy for us to somehow get it .. even with only 2 meetings, he told me something about his family (pretty personal inf, you will not trust all your friends, I was I dedicated this, because we have known each other for a month only) .. And it’s still so incomprehensible to me .. I was sick recently, I didn’t see him for 2 weeks, and then, as I went to school, I saw him, I so wanted to hug him tightly, to cuddle .. In a special way .. And now he comes up, he did not have time then, tk. they urgently had to go into the canteen and when I saw him, I immediately hugged him and bowed my head to him and he smiled so much (a friend was standing next to her, saw) and in surprise, brought up somehow, suddenly said Oh! He hugged me, and so on. he did not have time to quickly walk into the canteen. How is it his "oh!" can you understand? Bad, good is it? And recently ... I go out into the street and look, and behind in 5 steps he goes out with a friend, my friend and I stopped, he walked somewhere and looked in my direction, smiled and said somehow openly, good-naturedly “Hello ! ”And raised my palm like this into the air (well, as a sign of greeting), I smiled, answered him the same way, asked how things were, said that everything was fine and that he was going home now (he is from a neighboring city) and then said Goodbye! (he was already 7 meters away from us) and I said playfully, mysteriously, as if flirting with him, "Hurry, see you! ..." and he turned around as he walked and said That's for sure! And he did it with his hands in my direction .. Tell me please, does he like me? A friend says that he always starts to smile when he sees me .. I don’t want to believe it too much, because she can say it on purpose, but on the other hand, I would like it to be true .. What do you say ?!

    Judging by what you wrote: I like it, of course I like it! There can be no doubt about that!

    A new Arseny has recently appeared in our class. At first I somehow didn’t pay attention to him, but then I realized that I liked him. Naturally, I began to watch his behavior. It looked strange, well, what can you do. Then, from the middle of the school year, in one lesson, I was put together with him. I liked sitting with him, having fun. Then he started showing signs that he liked me. When he is removed from me, he refuses. In every possible way, when we are walking with the class in the yard, he comes up to me and, as it were, puts his hand on my shoulder or waist. In class I look at his pose. Even if we are sitting far from each other, his body is turned in my direction. He got my phone number! When in sports we split into teams, and we find ourselves on the same team, if he leaves the game and I am left alone, he cheers for me

    Great! It would be necessary to somehow bring him to the first step. If there is such a desire, you need to actively flirt with him, not forgetting to turn on the "snow queen" a couple of times a week. A win-win

    We parted with him
    But after the summer holidays, my feelings returned to him again (most likely they did not disappear)
    In the summer, he posted a photo with one girl from the camp and I became insanely jealous and threw a photo with the boy in return.
    And now I often catch his glances on me
    I can't understand, does he still like me?

    I communicate with a friend, we are shooting familiar since childhood, we lived in the same yard. Then he moved to the city, but it was 15 minutes from me., Well, they stopped communicating. In the summer I wrote to him and we began to have good communication. We have been talking for 4 months already, I know that he likes me and he knows what kind of me he likes, but he does not offer me to meet because study is important for him, he has no free time and that in a year he will leave for another country to study and parting will be even harder, he told my friends. ... And so I don't know what to do, I am so offended to tears, and I want to end this communication because, well, the point is to communicate further. If you communicate simply for friendly feelings, they will not go anywhere.

    I communicate with the boy, we have known each other since childhood, but when he moved to the city we stopped communicating. And this summer we resumed communication. We communicate every day. He likes me and I like him. The problem is that he does not offer me to meet, due to the fact that studying is important for him right now and the fact that he has no free time and he will fly to another country in a year, he told my friend. I am very offended, I do not know how to act correctly in this situation. If you just continue to communicate as friends, then the feelings will not go away. Blig don't know what to do

    I was told that my classmate liked me, but I don’t really scream, he looks at me in the classroom, so I can’t understand e
    I like him. Or not! Help please understand

    Help me please! I just can't understand whether my classmate likes me or not ... On VK, he often does not read my messages, once he called my friend beautiful, often communicates with her, but I often notice his gaze on myself, often touch me, who he likes me or she? Help!

    I have such a situation! I like a man! I work in a bank and he comes often, I help him to perform certain operations! And the last time he came, he talked a lot! And when I was working on his phone, his internet was gone, I told him that you had run out of internet, I’ll give you my internet, and I say that I’ve already used up all my traffic on clients, and he said, let me top up your balance) I said no thanks! Then he began to say that your husband probably always looks at your phone! I said that I am not married! And at the end he said that I was a fairy who would always help him) Do you think he has sympathy and how to understand this?)

    I really liked the article and its design itself. Everything is extremely clear and precise. I just wanted to ask a question. I asked my podwig to ask if one boy personally liked me. She said the answer was no. I read all the signs and most of them have similarities, but the fact is that he is such a simple person and treat everyone kindly. And now I really think he doesn't like me or not. Tell me what?

    Hello, I have a very important question ... I hope you can help me!
    Recently it was my birthday and a guy who I like came to my house to give a present. The thing is that at the end of the conversation, already at the elevator, I, according to the classics, said: “Thank you for coming”, and he answered me: “Thank you for being there” ... I don’t know how to react! Please tell me what to do!

    And if at a meeting he shows attention, flirts, talks about himself, his plans, touches or hugs all the time or tries to "cuddle" to kiss, etc. Invites to "trips")) BUT at the same time - everything. He does not call on dates, does not look after (in the classical sense), can disappear for weeks without writing / not calling ... This is strange, because on the one hand - Yes, and on the other - No. Perhaps this behavior is so, just a pleasant time, sympathy, but nothing more. From the category "with me - well, not with me - well, okay"?

    Hello everyone) I have such a situation, one guy will wind up, we have known each other for a long time, about 5 years, (a friend from the dacha, but we talked in the company for a very long time, 3-4 years ago)
    And so he had a friend, and I congratulated him on contact, they started to fuck, after 2-3 weeks we went for a walk, it was fun, we had a good walk, his hands were cold and I warmed them up for him, but then he said if I was so worried by his hands, then he can put them in his pocket, I let them go and he put them in his pocket, after the walk we continued to talk, then I called him to walk again a day later, he agreed, we walked very well and he offered to take a picture, then he spoke again that his hands were frozen, I started to warm them and he even squeezed my hand a little)) then we communicate well in VK, 5 days have passed, he talks very nicely, but I don’t know if he likes me, he just moved away from me a little , was afraid to approach, then he completely stuck to the phone
    It was a little embarrassing, but then, after the transplant, he showed me something on the phone and I wanted to sleep, it was late and I fell asleep on his shoulder) (we were standing)) then he walked to the minibus and said thanks for the walk
    Now he hasn’t invited for a walk yet, but he writes to me) I don’t know, maybe I can confess to him that I like him? Well, what if not mutually ((
    What should I do??

    My husband has died for seven years since he’s gone. I’m still alone, but I like one man and I kind of have a feeling that he likes me too, he gives me advice and sometimes compliments we see each other a week once he sells in our bazaar and I've been a cantraler for three years now like this, but he looks at me and tries to talk to me and constantly praises me that I am so good and if there are girls next to them, he flirts with them and looks at me and seems to have my phone number but does not call I so want to know whether he likes me or not why he is silent I cannot understand

But, let's say, you are doing everything right: you use your eyes, gestures, voice to attract his attention, but he still does not show his attitude openly. After all, many guys are embarrassed to show their feelings. You are tormented by the question - does he like you? How can you find out? What signs can tell that a guy is interested in you?

How do you know that a guy likes you by his gestures?

As you know, sign language can tell us about any person much more than his words. This is what you need to use to find out whether you are cute or not. To do this, just take a closer look at his gestures during your communication. Let's find out how a guy usually shows that he likes you.

Open gestures of sympathy

People who sympathize with each other take open poses. Look at how the guy stands in relation to you. If it is fully deployed in your direction, then this is a good sign!

Also, open gestures speak of sympathy for the interlocutor - the guy often shows his palms, slightly looses his tie, unbuttons the top button of his shirt, unbuttones his jacket - all this testifies to his sympathy. This is a sign that he likes you.

Also, evidence of interest is usually attentive listening, accompanied by a slightly noticeable tilt of the head in your direction.

If you are talking while standing in a group, then his leg stuck out slightly forward and directed in your direction will show his sympathy.

In such unconscious postures, you can easily determine who likes whom, if you look from the side. Such gestures must be known, as they very accurately describe the attitude of people towards each other.

Closed gestures

If a guy in a conversation takes closed poses - crosses his arms over his chest or, while sitting, throws his legs over his legs, and while standing, turns to you a little sideways, then even his smile will not hide the fact that communication does not give him much pleasure.

If he folds his palms in a pyramid, finger to finger at chest level, then this is a signal that communication is over. Of course, seeing such gestures, you can understand that the guy does not have much sympathy for you.

A very good sign of attention to you will be the guy's copying of your gestures. This happens unconsciously and gives out sympathy with the head. If you see that he takes the same poses as you, then from this we can understand that he clearly likes you!

How do you know if a guy likes you by his behavior?

If a guy has sympathy, then it is easy to understand by his behavior.

In this case, he tries to get into your field of vision as often as possible. He tries in every possible way to be there to help with something or just to exchange a few words.

At the same time, many girls make a fatal mistake, taking this for a manifestation of friendly relations and not taking it seriously.

The guy is not looking for friends among the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, believe me. His friends among the guys will be enough for him. Usually, in the friendship of a man and a woman, one is always in love, and the other mistakenly takes this communication for friendship.

To make sure that a guy likes you, you just need to pay attention to the fact that he does for you what he does not do for other girls. This is the surest sign. If a guy doesn't like a girl, he will never look for meetings with her, try to help in something, or just chat!

More signs that a guy likes you

In addition to the listed evidence of sympathy, you can pay attention to some other signals that indicate his sympathy for you.

Body language is sometimes more eloquent than words. Take a closer look at the behavior of a man with whom you are unfamiliar or not yet familiar at all. If he became dignified at your appearance, or began to straighten his clothes and straighten, this may indicate his sympathy for you, which is involuntarily betrayed by his movements. Any change in a man's behavior could mean he is seeking your attention. Observe what the man will do if you move away from his field of vision. See if he glances in your direction, turns around and looks for you with his eyes and tries to catch your eye. A gaze often means that a man is partial to you. At the same time, if a man quickly looks away when he meets you, then he is embarrassed.

Analyze the man's behavior when talking to you. The expression on a man's face when talking to you can also betray his feelings. If it is friendly, the lips are slightly parted, the nostrils are dilated, the man sympathizes with you. If at the same time the man leans towards you with his whole body, this is another point in your favor. If a man breathes deeply, his palms are sweating and his eyes dart around, then he is nervous, which means that you evoke certain emotions in him.

A man who sympathizes with you, with whom you communicate not in a romantic setting, for example, a colleague, will begin to be interested in things that fascinate you. If you mentioned your hobby in a conversation with him, he will start information about the subject of the conversation. He'll be the first to notice the change in yours, compliment your new hairstyle, and compliment your new outfit.

If you had your first meeting with a man, and he took your phone number, but not more than a week, you can be completely sure that he does not like you enough. If, after your meeting, he called and found out how you got home, he definitely liked you.

A small amount of jealousy on the part of a man will help you sort out his feelings for you. For example, if he interrupts your admiring conversations about other men, if you notice that your attention to other people of the opposite sex is unpleasant for him, this may mean that he cares about you.

When a man likes you, he certainly does something to show you his interest: he invites you somewhere, calls, gives flowers, tries to be with you. If you tell such a man about your troubles, he will not remain silent in response, but will immediately offer you his help.

If your relationship is just beginning, pay attention to whether he is slowly beginning to change his life because of you. Such changes can affect communication with friends, the appearance of a man. If a man also compliments you, gives you flowers, you can be sure of his sympathy.

Determine if a man makes you stand out from all other women. If so, then he likes you.

In general, usually a man shows his sympathy by all his actions. And if he doesn't let you know otherwise, he probably doesn't like you enough.

Have you got your eyes on the guy? Not sure if he feels the same? Finding out that you like a person of the same sex is not easy, confusing and slightly intimidating ...

But if you, on the contrary, are waiting for such signals - or checking the situation - then you can find out everything!

Method 1. Bearing signals!

He mirrors your gestures
When people listen to each other intently, they subconsciously imitate the sign language of the other person. The next time you engage in some interesting discussion, cross your arms, prop your chin with your hand, bow your head slightly, sip from your glass, etc. If he does the same, it means that his attention is focused on you.
Do not waste this experiment on simple chatter, if his mind is not absorbed in what you both say, the method may not work.

He smiles and makes eye contact.
Platonically loving boyfriends smile at each other. They also maintain eye contact. But if your boyfriend looks at you for a long time, while smiling broadly, he behaves much more intimate than most straight people with each other.

He looks away
Okay, let's say he doesn't stare into your very pupils, but if you catch him turning away sharply, as soon as you look in his direction, it means that he is looking at you until you see it. Of course, if food has not stuck to your cheek, then his peepers may mean that he is interested in you.

He wants to know everything about you
Guys do not have the ability (and the desire) to untangle the threads of their friends' personal lives. If your boyfriend asks a lot of questions about your life, interests, hobbies, friends, and most importantly, feelings, this means that he is not content with chatting and wants to get to know you on a deeper level. Or you are just his best friend.

He touches you unnecessarily.
Straights can greet each other with a high-five clap, squeeze each other, and even slap their butts in a playful manner, but most will not feel comfortable with touching outside the “rules of the game”.
If your boyfriend allows himself to touch your arm, put his hands on your shoulders while standing behind you, hugs, or finds an excuse to pull a speck out of your hair, he is probably trying to get into your intimate space - or even checking how you are. react to his advances.

He gets nervous when you're around
Does his palms sweat, does he laugh out of place, or stutters when you are around? This means he is preoccupied with what you think of him - which means that he is trying to impress you.

He gives you a nickname
In a men's company, they often give a nickname to someone who does something memorable, but if your boyfriend comes up with a nickname for you for no reason, especially if you haven't done anything outstanding to earn that nickname, then he shows how important your relationship is.

He tries to cheer you up
Everyone has a friend - an eternal prankster and lover of attracting the attention of the crowd, but if a guy makes a special effort to make you laugh, then he either tries to cheer you up (are you sad lately?), Or flirts with all his might.

He treats you differently than other guys.
Not all guys are open to their feelings. Gays in particular can hold back until they are sure it's safe to do so.
If he does not give you any hints at all, then you should go for the opposite. Avoiding eye contact? Does he speak to you quickly, concisely, or in monosyllables? Never, never touches you? And so he behaves only and exclusively with you and with no one else?
Well, it means that he either really does not like you (however, if he cannot find an excuse not to be in the same room with you, then this is probably not the case) or is struggling with his feelings for you.

Method 2. Reconnaissance in force

Try light touches
Try to touch his hand as if "by the way," by accident. If he pulls away quickly, then he is not interested - watch his expression. But if he does not move away immediately, slowly, or does not remove your hand at all, then he may be interested.

Move up to him
When you are sitting on the couch, move closer to him - much like in a movie when a guy tries to put his arms around a girl's shoulders. Don't turn to him right away. If he moves away from you, it reduces the chances of his attraction to you. But if his reaction is barely noticeable or absent altogether, and even more so if he repeats your gesture, then this increases the chances that he is interested.

Ask directly
Well, not literally - don't ask him to marry you. But at this stage, if he is responding to "accidental" touches and obvious interest on your part in returning those gestures, you just need to make the assumptions out loud. Say something like, "You know, I think you're sending me some hints, and I'm wondering if I'm getting it right. Are we just friends, or is there something more?" Give him a chance to think about the answer - don't rush him. Maybe he is not sure about his feelings, or maybe this is his first experience. He may not have a clear idea of ​​how he is feeling. If you are still in doubt, then you should say that you find him attractive and do not hide it. If he smiles or nods, that's a good sign.

Give it time
After you've openly indicated your interest in him, wait. If he's interested in you, he'll show up very soon. If he doesn't show up, then he probably started avoiding you. If you are satisfied with just being friends with him, give him a little time, and then you yourself will get in touch. But don't flirt with him at all - show him that you would love more, but being "just friends" is OK too. If he's straight, there's nothing you can do about it. But if he's interested, give him some more time to think things over. Don't write him off unless he immediately asks you out on a date. Keep in touch and be patient.

In pursuit

1. If you are at work, and he looks at you, constantly walks around, makes some sounds or starts conversations with other people, but ignores you, this means that he wants to get your attention, that is, he likes you, but he doesn't know how to show it.

2. If he teases you a lot, grabs your stuff and runs away, forcing you to chase him, then he probably likes you. If you are in a vehicle and he sits in front of you and shoots his eyes, then he probably likes you. But, the biggest mistake you shouldn't make is not show any interest in return. You will make him feel bad ...

3. If he sits next to you and cuddles, then he likes you, but if he is a touchy boy, he will tease you, so do not be discouraged.

4. Try to remember the first time you met him. If he behaved unusual (his pupils suddenly dilated, spoke strangely, etc.), and still behaves this way, then he still likes you, but he does not know how to tell you or does not want you to know for one reason or another (for example, because of internal homophobia).

5. If you are fooling around and he likes to look at you and smile, and then leaves, this is a definite sign of interest.

6. Notice if he starts acting flirtatious when there are guys around, or if he flirts with girls. Most guys who love you will try to make someone else jealous.

7. If you are sitting alone on the couch in the living room, and the object of your adoration comes to take place, take note if he sits right next to you or touches you.

8. If you are at a pool party, pay attention to whether he is looking in your direction all the time and whether he looks away immediately, barely noticing that you burned him. Any guy who cares deeply about you will get nervous, wondering if you are gay or not. Look for signs — for example, when you’re watching TV and he’s staring at you all the time, but immediately turns away as soon as you notice his gaze.

Warnings

1. Don't act like you don't like him! It is painful and confusing, and he may lag behind you altogether.
2. Be aware that he may actually be straight and you misinterpreted his signals.
3. If you yourself are straight, and you became aware of his homosexuality, then treat this fact with respect. Don't tease or bully him as this is homophobic behavior.