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Men, for the most part, part easier than most women. But they come back just as easily. Let's see how it will be right to build your line of behavior in a relationship with an ex-man.
Men try to tie a woman to themselves - even if the relationship is over. In their opinion, this is an ellipsis. And the former woman, rejoicing at the sudden call some time after the breakup, will probably not give up, at least, from sex, but as a maximum, she will open her arms to meet the one who has lost heart, but returned (because, most likely, it turned out to be no one is no longer needed).
This is how men reason. Moreover, relationships between two people tend not to end psychologically, despite the fact that they have already been completed formally (divorce, breakup, or even renunciation of each other). Understatement, incompleteness, lack of new goals - all this can drag on for years, along with resentment, anger and jealousy. Therefore, when the former is interested in the life of a woman with whom he did not succeed in everything, there can be no talk of any indifference. The man is still emotionally involved in the relationship. And the third point is obligations to each other. If they are legally justified - there are common children, alimony must be paid, etc., then in this case "relations" are built through the courts. If there was no marriage, then a man can voluntarily help his ex or her (common) children. In any case, a kind of connecting link remains between people, on the basis of which a return can follow. All advice on relationships with an ex-man, boyfriend or husband falls into two categories, depending on the situation: did you let each other go or did not let go. In the first case, the "gestalt of your relationship" is completed, as psychologists would say. Parting without offense, with forgiving each other and gratitude is the best that can be. Contact between you may remain, but the likelihood that one of you will be pulled back into the past is extremely small. This seems paradoxical: letting go of each other, the man and the woman remain with good memories, and an attempt to enter the same river a second time is quite logical. However, it is not. Completed relationships don't need to be repeated. “Let's start over”, “We can do everything” - these are signs that you want to catch up, this is the illusion that you can drop the past. But if you still have complaints against each other, then the situation is not over. When you go to court with them, it is obvious that it is impossible to negotiate peacefully, and this is a clear sign of the complete destruction of relations. If only the court is able to oblige the ex to do what any normal man will do anyway, then forget about the relationship with this person, learn the lessons they gave you, and build a new personal life. What if your ex wants to come back?
There are plenty of cases of renewed relationships after a seemingly final breakup. There are people who remarry each other after a divorce, or who do not want to get divorced in the hope that the old relationship will return. However, most attempts to “start all over again” fail, and after a while a break occurs again. I really want to give a second chance, accept and forgive the ex. Fear of loneliness and dependence, or formal reasons (children, "undivided" marriage) seriously put pressure on a woman. It is not easy to understand that a man who left once will leave the second time. Only strong resentment and pain can force a woman to isolate herself from her ex, not to let him into her life anymore. Here, female pride will be a protection from the trauma of "abandonment", and in this case - a necessary and adequate protection. The main thing is that this is not projected onto relationships with new men, otherwise the woman-victim will fall into exactly the same trap. The former, this is the same man with whom you broke up, who broke your heart and for whom you shed many tears. Time passed and here it is, a miracle, he wrote: “Hello! How are you?" And the woman's heart fluttered: “He realized what a treasure he had lost! He bit his elbows, knees and heels and finally appreciated me! I am his queen and he loves me! " This is what women think (not all, of course, but the overall majority), but what is really going on?Previously, in order to, you had to raise your butt and come to her home. Later, this process became much more accessible and easier, you just had to dial the coveted number on your cell phone and chat. Now you don't have to strain at all, in any messenger or social network you type "Hello!" from the phone, that's all. At this point, the courtship process can be considered complete. And if a man also sends a bunch of smiles, then in general happiness. So, why does he write (the key word: did not come, did not even call, but simply writes, ex).
Option one. Because it's boring
The most common case when an ex writes is banal boredom. At home, a wife or a new girlfriend cooked cabbage soup, on TV, as usual, they show one nonsense, beer is drunk, it's a blizzard outside, it's boring. And so, staggering across the endless expanses of the Internet, he accidentally finds her and remembers her existence. Why not chat until your wife covered up all the correspondence with a copper basin? It's just boring to the point that non-binding communication with your ex is fine. Again, nostalgia ... Option two. Because it is interesting
Sometimes it is just interesting, cognitively, how does she live there? What is he doing? Maybe she drank herself out of grief? Or, on the contrary, hit weightlifting? Or is it still suffering for me the one and only? Most often, exes try to find out if the girl has a new man, and if not, the evening was a success. Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with the former’s head and there’s nothing at all, just wondering how she lives, what, with whom, why? It's like looking at pages in Odnoklassniki.Option three. Boast of
It turns out that men are also very, especially they like to "push their tail" in front of ex-girls. Especially if she left him herself, but if he dumped into the sunset, then it is also possible. Men quite often specifically look for the former on the Internet, only to show her photos of their new car or their new girlfriend or themselves, "photoshopped", with a press with cubes and a brutal chin to boot. Write: “Hello!”, And then casually brag about their real and imaginary victories only those men whose dignity the girl once hurt. So a simple "hello" is more of a stupid revenge than a desire to communicate with a former love.
Option four. Need free sex
In general, it is almost a win-win option. Evening, boring, there is no money neither for a nightclub where you can rent a girl, nor for a cafe where you can invite a new girl, nor for paid love. Or maybe you don't want to bother like that, or maybe you don't have either money or desire to do anything at all. Therefore, from the endless list of "exes" there is the most accessible one and they write to her: "Hello!" And then two or three words about how bored he is (at its best) or just the sentence "Come to me, I'm sad." And that's all, it's in the bag, the evening ceases to be so boring and monotonous. And yes, if one ex refused, then there will always be another ex who, delighted to the point of madness, will rush to the “Prince Charming” in the night. Fifth option. Raise your self-esteem
Nothing is more men than a woman who has suffered for him for a long time. And although men never directly talk about this out loud, they are very fond of casually throwing phrases like: “Three years have passed since we parted, and she is still alone”, “She has a wedding soon, but she still writes to me "," After our parting with her, she went to a monastery "," She got married and gave birth to three children, but she still loves me exclusively! "And it was precisely during periods of slight doubts about his irresistibility (he had a fight with his wife, the girl refused, the date fell through, the new mistress sent to heaven for an asterisk), a man lying on the couch recalls that he has Masha! Former Masha, who is ready to shed tears for him forever! And to be convinced of his own irresistibility, uniqueness and irreplaceability, the man finds Masha and writes to her: "Hello!"
And making sure that they still suffer from him, he smacked with satisfaction and fell asleep with a restful sleep of the baby. Until a new mental crisis, the former Masha can also sleep peacefully.
Option six. HZ why
But the most popular option, why the former writes, sounds like this: "HZ". The ex does not even know why the hell is he writing to his ex-girlfriend. It just "wrote" itself and the edge. And what is going on in the soul of the former, to be honest, on his side. Most often, the option "HZ why" happens to a drunken head, and is included in the category of thoughtless antics such as drunken singing of Leps songs or squatting dancing. And where is love in these options?
After a divorce, a former married couple may maintain friendly relations, or may disperse as enemies. It all depends on who initiated the divorce and under what circumstances. At the same time, the ex-husband may be actively interested in the life of the ex-wife, and there may be several reasons for this. Next, let's take a closer look at why the ex-husband is interested in the ex-wife.
Habit
Everyone gets used to the environment. Therefore, it is difficult for men to adapt to a new lifestyle after divorce. Now no one meets him after work, does not prepare food, does not wash clothes and does not give his love and affection. Men only after a divorce begin to truly appreciate their ex-wife. They find it difficult to get used to being alone.
This is a common reason why a husband is interested in his ex-wife's life. In such cases, the man tries to return his ex-wife or find a worthy replacement for her. If you still have feelings, then you can try to improve the relationship. Otherwise, it is better to avoid meetings and not communicate in order to quickly start a new happy life. This applies to both men and women.
Feelings remained
Quite often, the reason is in the feelings that the man has. He cannot forget his ex-wife because he still continues to love her. Therefore, they are trying by all available means to return the old relationship. He starts looking for casual meetings with her, calls more often and makes pleasant surprises. In addition, men can also be aggressive towards their ex-wives. In this case, you can return the old relationship or try to avoid your ex-husband. It all depends on the specific situation.
Jealousy
Most men are owners and only want women to belong to them. This is a fairly common reason why my ex-husband is interested in my life.
If a woman starts a new romantic relationship after a divorce, then the ex-husband automatically becomes jealous.
He cannot allow his wife to date others. The ex-husband mistakenly believes that after him the woman will not be able to start a new life and will not be able to find herself a new lover. As a result, everything happens the other way around. When a woman is happy, ex-men don't like it and may be aggressive towards her. In this case, by all means, you should avoid meeting with your ex-husband. You need to forget about him and not answer phone calls. This is the only way to start a new life.
Children
If after the divorce the children stayed with their mother, then this may also be the reason why the ex-husband is interested in me. If a man loves his children, then he will try to give them maximum attention. At the same time, he will be interested in what conditions they live in and whether they have a new dad. Therefore, the life of the ex-wife will be under the close scrutiny of her husband. A father who loves his children wants a better future for them, so he is interested in everything to the smallest detail.
At the same time, it is not necessary to forbid the father to see his children. It is worth limiting your communication with your ex-husband. So he will not have a single reason to be interested in your personal life. You need to limit meetings and phone calls. A father should only come to his children and communicate exclusively with them. This will allow you to improve your personal life and overshadow your ex.
Psychologist's answer
Every fourth a divorced man in Russia marries his former wife. A every third would like to do it. And statistics also say that up to 30 percent of divorced men seek help from psychologists and psychotherapists.
The reason for this ordeal of the once inspired by the new lady of the man is depression and a bitter feeling of loneliness. But why?
Deep regret comes over what has been done. True, not right away. In the first months after divorce, there is no pronounced depression in men. Yes, and obsessive memories of the past family life of our eagles, alas, do not haunt. Former wives are simply shocked because their yesterday's spouse so easily fluttered out of the warm family nest.
But then, more precisely in the middle of the second year after the divorce, everything begins. Psychologists call this time the "seventeenth month syndrome." It is after this period that ex-husbands begin to have problems with themselves. Many of them are so confused that they eat immensely everything, washed down with alcohol. They twitch, fuss, even work ceases to interest them. And the most amazing thing that happens to them is the loss of intimate desires. It is hard to believe this, because the infidels dreamed of some vivid sensations, different from the ordinary intimacy with their wife. These symptoms also have their reasons.
Yes, everything is simple: a closer acquaintance with a new woman brings not only pleasant moments, but often resentment and disappointment. There are no less of them than their wife did, they criticize, reproach, charge them with exorbitant worries about a new family. And their new women are also unfaithful. Such a relationship turns out to be more impulsive than the solid one that was with the former spouse. They quickly change their ideas about freedom. It turns out that there is nothing extraordinary about the new darling. Very soon, the same everyday intimacy begins that I had with my wife. And more often than not, the dreams of a divorced man hardly come true.
And the holiday does not work. It was then that the man begins to assess the previous family life more and more realistically. And what is surprising: the brightest episodes of the previous marriage emerge by themselves. What's next?
And then 65 percent of divorced men will remarry in the next five years. Many of them do not regret the divorce, but they are convinced that the first wife was better. Another 15 percent marry between 5 and 10 years after divorce.
Psychologists do a lot of research into the "seventeenth month syndrome" and came to the conclusion that at this time most of the divorced are thinking about returning to the family. Another thing is that not all ex-husbands are accepted back. But
or otherwise, two-thirds of men, three years after divorce, consider their "ex" a more worthy person than a new wife or lover.
Do husbands return after divorce?
Sometimes after a divorce, not even half a year passes before the ex-husband begins to try to return to his wife. Sometimes they leave new families for their ex-wives: there all the difficult stages of family life need to be repeated, while in the old family much has long been settled and the habits of each other have been studied. Only after leaving the family and returning to a single life, many men understand how much they loved their wife and children. "What we have, we do not store, the loss of ours, we cry." In the male community, returning to a wife is often tacitly frowned upon, it is considered a sign of weakness, so many men do not dare to return, although they suffer from depression and longing for family.
Pavlov's dog
Do we often think about how important the established order of things is to us? Men quickly get used to the way of life established in the family. It is easier for him to be with his wife, it is clearer for him, he knows what will be followed by praise, and what can lead to conflict.
The wife becomes a “life friend” about whom the husband knows practically everything (and who knows him just as well). It is sometimes difficult to refuse a three-course dinner prepared the way a man loves, traditional walks with his son, and even your favorite sofa, from which it is so convenient to watch football!
Calculating males
In many cases, a man is connected with a woman not only by a joint feeling, but also by joint property. Then the husband can return because it is expensive to pay for rent, and it was possible to live in the apartment of his ex-wife practically free of charge. And even with a joint budget, life was better than on one salary. Whether or not to accept a man who clearly needs to make his own existence easier is up to his ex-wife to decide. Such marriages can last a long time, but often there is no happiness in them. Sometimes, after a divorce, a man is left without a good job and cannot find a similar position. In such cases, sometimes a decision is made to return: for the sake of a good salary, for the sake of connections.
Dispersal field
Some men prefer to live "on two fronts": they feel good in their new life, but they continue to perceive the old family as a place where you can always return if something goes wrong. They can spend several days a week with the family, be interested in the personal life of their ex-wife (and even be jealous), and promise that they are about to return. If the wife still loves her husband, this life can go on for years. She will try to please him, to be "perfect", and he will take it for granted. Most likely, the ex-husband will not return "for good". Why, if everything suits him anyway?
the guest
I still congratulate my ex on his birthday. And he got me. And he knows that I have no feelings for my ex. And recently, her ex-husband found him in classmates and offered friendship. She is married with two children. They said, what's wrong with this? You have to leave when you are not loved, appreciated, cheated. Well, he wonders how his ex is there ... I am also curious, how the exes are there, they are not married.
I have the same garbage, but mine rarely comes in, it pisses me off and I decided that I could not stand it, it always slips that if the interest has not cooled down, at the same time they parted for a long time not a year or two, and as far as I know very much we parted badly, but here you see the interest, I moved to a foreign country to him, I quit my good job and my life, my interests, and this goat took it into his head to act like that, so you decided to go live and dig into the past and I want to look into the future.
neteraser
I agree, all normal people visit the pages of the former from time to time) If, of course, there is such an opportunity. Sometimes you come across such bad ones that you don't want to go. There are many reasons. Over time, you will become less and less likely to view your ex-husband's page. But this does not mean that it is imperative to completely get rid of it. Everything is fine, in short.
Andrey Krasavin
Surely he wants to compare the degree of well-being of his and her life. In the hope that she has a little worse ..)
Rinat Garifulin
No matter how much the wolf he feeds, he will look into the forest all the time. If he looks into the past all the time, it means that his interest and strong desires remained there and they pursue him, he cannot control it. It seems to me that there are two options here: 1 to reorient him completely to himself, so that he does not have the desire to look into the past and this is not a matter of one day. 2 talk to him three or four times, putting the question with an edge like tie, etc ... and wait, he will definitely show himself.
T-O-N-J-A
eh…. I admit, I'm also a sinner 🙂 why? to make sure I'm doing better than theirs. too anxious, I have to constantly affirm that I am fine, that I made the right choice ... maybe somewhere I perceive future life without each other as a competition. what other sides can there be? but for today what I can explain
kristti
but my ex-husband left me with a child 3 years ago for the sake of some kind of kludge ... still comes, but only drunk, and cries that he loves ... but leaves for the one for which he left ... interesting so !!! I'm so tired of it all.
"Loves!" - the answer suggests itself, but ... Perhaps you would like to think so, revel in his dependence on your feelings, indulge women's vanity, but the guy's motives may be different, less pleasant. Let's think together, why is a guy interested in you if he already has another girlfriend?
Banal boredom
Indeed, it is corny. Let's call boredom nostalgia and your soul will feel warmer. The young man is not bored, but nostalgic. The new girl cooked his favorite pancakes, but the guy remembered that he was ready to give his soul to the devil only for yours. On TV, the guy watches your favorite series with him, which your friends called stupid, and only you two understood this subtle humor. Snow is pouring outside the window, and the guy thought it was a hello from you.
This is beautiful nostalgia ... But, again, is the guy nostalgic or is he just bored, because the current passion is hanging in the kitchen and is preparing him a breathtaking culinary masterpiece, TV shows are running down to holes, and the weather is not flying outside? So he wanders on the Internet in the hope of killing boredom. And here is your page in social networks with new photos, posts, comments. He enters without fear of exposure. And since he is not afraid to glow, it means that he does not care if it seems to you that he is not languishing out of boredom, but is missing you.
Curiosity
Of course, you can also see the warming motives in the guy's curiosity: he cares what happens to you, worries and still loves. This is also possible. But! Again this disgusting "but" ... A guy may just be curious about your existence outside his life, as he would be interested in a sold car: did it break down without him, listens to another owner and is he going to return it because he disappointed. The guy has fears that you will be "returned" or you will return yourself, will call, look for an excuse to meet, and he wants to be ready for this.
The guy's curiosity may have another selfish goal. He needs to know to what extent your suffering has reached without him. Are you tearing your hair, losing weight, or, conversely, getting fat, eating / washing down your grief? Or maybe you went from hand to hand out of longing, and now everyone will understand that you were good only while a real man was with you? Or he is sincerely worried about you, and is interested in your life, because he still feels responsibility and is waiting for the moment when another man "picks up" you, and the guy can shift moral responsibility onto him with relief.
Boasting
An ex-boyfriend can periodically flicker in your life so that you bite your elbows, seeing that he blossomed without you like a May daffodil: a new girl, a new car, a new house, a new job, etc. Especially often guys sinned with this, initiators of a break with whom the girls have become. Male pride is very vulnerable, and after such abuse it requires rehabilitation. And nothing restores self-esteem better than a worn-out nose of an ex. Let him envy and gnaw not only elbows, but also knees with heels, realizing what a tough pepper she threw.
Revenge is a cold dish, so the guy will be dosed out to serve it, especially since great successes are not a quick matter. It can disappear, appear, and disappear again to reappear in your life with new victories. The guy will tease with his success, get closer so that you can touch them and feel how much you have lost. Then he will leave again for a long time, leaving you with the hope that perhaps, when you deserve his affection and affection, he will think about taking you to his yard dog. Why a courtyard? Because you ruined your breed when you left him.
Fought with his wife (girlfriend)
In this case, he also takes revenge, but not you, the former, but his real one. God knows what she didn’t please the guy, but she urgently needs to be punished so that it doesn’t work out like you did: they climbed out on their heads and dangled their legs, used his kindness of soul, pushed him around like a hornless goat. So he decided to become ... a goat, and still hornless, because the horns were urgently required to instruct a new passion. And who will cope with this better than the ex. And it will be more painful for the current friend to learn that this honorable mission went to the former.
The new young lady will begin to think that you are still significant to him, he remembers, misses and, perhaps, even wants to return you. You can think the same way, but take your time. Of course, no one denies such a prospect, but it can be stupid revenge when he immediately kills two birds with one stone, or rather hares. One feels that she can lose him and become a new ex, so she begins to value and please them more, while the other amuses herself with the hope that love is still possible, and also jumps out of ... jeans, so that the guy remains happy and with her. As an option. But maybe not everything is so simple. The guy just needs a temporary shelter, although in any case, you have already passed the stage. He will simply move around, but it's up to you to decide whether you want to be a transit station for him or an alternate airfield.
Loves
Here is the very option that the girls in love with the ex-boyfriend are waiting for and those who abandoned him are afraid, but regret not burying him. A guy who is madly in love is capable of a lot. Of course, it's nice if he appears in your life unobtrusively, and then only in order to give you a million scarlet roses, throw diamonds on you, arrange a concert of your favorite artist in your honor. But even such attention can turn out to be extremely unpleasant and disgusting if the guy was abandoned as unnecessary or from him you are already pretty nauseous.
It's another matter if the guy is dearly loved, he left himself, or the circumstances developed so that you had to leave. Then, of course, his behavior, demonstrating love for you, will be a holiday, happiness, a new life. Just before you rejoice, you should know that you should not believe the words, likes and comments under your posts, but your real actions. And second: eliminate all of the above reasons that motivate the guy to get closer, and if you can do it honestly, reciprocate. However, remember: giving a second chance to a person who has already betrayed you is like giving a bullet to someone who did not hit you the first time.
Why would you want to know if your ex-boyfriend misses you? Perhaps you feel these subtle signals in the form of attention signs or non-trivial phrases that prevent you from falling asleep. Perhaps you parted a long time ago, but you still have a glimmer of hope for a reunion. Time makes it possible to realize that a mistake has been made. You probably just yearn for him, and the wounds from parting are still too fresh. You secretly hope that he feels the same way. Here are a few signs that indicate that your ex is okay with reuniting your couple.
He speaks out about you in a joking manner.
As you know, there is some truth in every joke. And if your ex-boyfriend turns conversations about your breakup into a playful form, this is a clear sign that he is bored. He cannot admit to his friends that he is not feeling well or is suffering, because they will immediately rush to give valuable advice. So why not veil your suffering in a playful way? This will hide the guy's embarrassment and stop further conversations on the sensitive topic. Well, if jokes are hovering in the area of "I want to return to the past," this is a clear sign that he really thinks about the return of the old relationship.
He asks about you from mutual acquaintances.
If a man completely breaks the bond, he is unlikely to care who you spend long winter evenings with. He will move forward, live life to the fullest, and will not dare to pretend to be a private detective. But if the ex-boyfriend is still monitoring the situation, it indicates that he is not indifferent to you. He is still evaluating his chances and sees himself as a contender for your heart. Ask your friends what the man's reaction was in response to the requested information. If, upon learning that your heart is not occupied by anyone, he began to smile mysteriously or got rid of anxiety, he expected to hear something similar. On the contrary, the information that you have a new boyfriend should discourage him. One way or another, if your ex-lover is interested in your personal life, this suggests that he is still not indifferent to you. 
You often find yourself in the same place.
If you work or study together, there are many situations in which your paths cross. Usually, when former lovers do not need anything from each other, they try to cut off all contacts and do everything so as not to be in one place at the same time. But your ex is acting weird. He looks for any opportunity to be in the same workgroup with you, watches over you during your lunch break and knows exactly when you leave the workplace. Therefore, do not be surprised if you see him at one of your friends' parties. This person continues to keep their finger on the pulse of events and prefers to stay closer to you. Perhaps, in this way, he wishes to eliminate all possible competitors. 
He criticizes your new chosen ones.
This is an obvious sign of pure jealousy. After all, if a man does not miss his ex-girlfriend and he is not interested in reunion, he is indifferent to her current chosen one. But he still believes that he can legally interfere with your life, he still fears for your safety and does not want someone else to be with you. Possessiveness and criticism of a new boyfriend indicate remnants of past feelings.
He calls you when he's drunk
Alcohol looses the tongue for people, reduces inhibitions and makes them lose control of the situation. This is why so many frank confessions can be heard after going to a bar and a couple of cocktails. Just imagine what is going on in the head of your ex-boyfriend, who calls you in the middle of the night and asks to see you. Now he thinks dating is a great idea, but that means he thought that while he was sober. And if earlier he was embarrassed to say about it, now his tongue is untied, and his brain cannot keep his actions under control. This trait gives a high chance that the ex is still bored. 
He sends you SMS
Sending text messages in the middle of the night is also a clear sign of feelings that have not yet faded away. Sometimes it is very difficult to decide to make a call, in which case SMS will come to the rescue especially shy. If the message arrives in the middle of the night, your ex is more likely to be in a bar or with friends somewhere. He's a little drunk and doesn't feel inhibited. Any frivolous remarks about your irresistible appearance indicate that he does not mind being in the same bed with you. Do you still doubt his intentions? 
He has no new girlfriend
This is a more controversial criterion. It's not always that guys who are in no rush to take on new commitments miss their ex-girlfriend. Probably, past failures have taught them to be more picky, and they are in no hurry to burst out of the fire and into the fire. It depends on how long ago you broke up and how much time you spent in the relationship. If you have had a long-term relationship, he is probably not dating anyone, as he still misses. A new romance depends on a man's ability to recover from a breakup or his introverted nature. It's another matter if you find out that free girls are hovering around him, they make dates for him, but your ex-man staunchly rejects all these tempting offers. In this case, there are chances indicating that a spark of past love is flickering in his heart.
He fondly remembers your love
Memories of past happiness are a sign of longing for a former relationship. Most often, partners who part with scandals recall their time together in a negative way. They throw insults at the family of the former chosen one, call that relationship a big mistake and prefer to forget everything like a bad dream. But if the partner sees positive moments in the previous relationship, then his bright nostalgia is a sign of melancholy. He can write you a phrase that begins with the words "Do you remember ...?" He may accidentally touch your hand or smile when he meets you. There is no doubt that your ex-boyfriend cannot give up thoughts of you. 
He makes you jealous
Interpreting this point, it is necessary to connect intuition. Your ex was starting a new romance pretty quickly (don't be surprised if you know this girl well). He will appear with her in public so often that he will surely make you feel jealous. Your ex-boyfriend will desperately demonstrate to others how happy he is with his new darling, and that women lined up for him. If he is an active user of social networks, he will not miss the opportunity to upload another romantic photo with a "talking" signature.
Even an outside observer, seeing these photos can give rise to the idea that this man is desperately trying to appear happy. But you know this person well, so you are sure that he is trying to make you jealous. Happy partners do not put their happiness on public display, but prefer to keep it carefully behind closed doors. And if people flaunt their relationships, they are pursuing some goals. He probably expects decisive action from you.
He follows you on social media
When former partners don't need anything from each other, they prefer not to intersect on social media. But your ex-boyfriend has chosen a different model of behavior. He comments on all your posts and does not miss a single new photo. He is not indifferent to your life, therefore he seeks to return the old relationship. Social media is the first step in a big comeback plan.