All-Russian competition “And we have a tradition in our family. All-Russian competition “We have a tradition in our family And we have a tradition in our family

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Coordinating Council of the All-Russian public organization "National Parents Association for Social Support of Families and Protection of Family Values"

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about the All-Russian competition-festival

"And we have a tradition in our family ..."

  1. Organizer of the All-Russian competition-festival "And we have a tradition in our family ..."(hereinafter “Competition-Festival”) - All-Russian public organization “National parental association for social support of the family and protection of family values”.
  2. The purpose of the Competition-Festival.

The All-Russian Competition-Festival "We Have a Tradition in Our Family" is aimed at popularizing positive examples of the way of family life, preserving and developing national family and genealogical traditions, as well as strengthening family relations as a result of joint activities and passing on family traditions from generation to generation.

3. Objectives of the Competition-Festival.

3.1. Increasing motivation for a responsible attitude to the continuity of generations.

3.2. Formation of a responsible attitude towards the preservation of family traditions and values.

3.3. Preservation and development of national family and genealogical traditions and values.

3.4. Strengthening family relationships as a result of joint creative activities.

4. Participants of the Competition-Festival.

4.1. Families, including incomplete ones, who wish to take part in the competition, and who have submitted an application in the established form, without restrictions on age and composition of participants, it must be at least 3 family members.

5. Themes of the Competition-Festival (nominations).

5.1. Family literary creation;

5.2. Family artistic creation;

5.3. Family arts and crafts;

5.4. Family musical creativity;

5.5. Family cinema;

5.6. Family craft;

5.7. Family economy;

5.8. Family theater;

5.9. Family scientific research;

5.10. Family and nature;

5.11. Family tourism;

5.12. Promotion of a healthy lifestyle

6. Stages of the Competition-Festival:

The competition-festival is held in two stages - the correspondence assessment by the jury members of the documents and materials of the participants and the face-to-face part, which includes presentations of the participating families, summing up and rewarding.

7. The procedure for participation in the Competition-Festival.

7.1. To participate in the correspondence stage of the Competition-Festival, an application is sent to the Organizing Committee with the complete data of the participants of the Competition-Festival:

Surname, name, patronymic of all family members who took part in the preparation of the work, their age;

Last name, first name, patronymic, age of the main applicant from the family;

Full home address with zip code;

Contact phones, e-mail;

7.2. An application for participation in the Competition-festival must be certified by the signature of the executive secretary of the relevant regional branch of the All-Russian public organization "National parental association for social support of the family and protection of family values."

7.3. A detailed description of the family tradition in writing is attached to the application, regardless of the form of presentation of the family tradition (text in Word format, font size 14, line spacing - 1.5, volume of at least 5000 characters).

The All-Russian public organization "National Parents' Association for Social Support of the Family and the Protection of Family Values" is holding the All-Russian competition-festival "And we have a tradition in our family." Applications are accepted until May 30.

Each family has its own special traditions that are passed down from generation to generation, making a connection between us and our ancestors. Meetings with family and friends, the habit of dressing up an apartment for the holidays in a special way, it can be some kind of interesting ceremony, or cooking according to a unique family recipe can become traditional. It’s not the number of traditions that matters, but how important they mean to your family. The organizers of the competition “We have a tradition in our family” made an attempt to collect a collection of family customs from all over Russia, which will be able to tell not only about the rituals and habits of Russians, but also about family values ​​that are significant to them.

Any family living on the territory of the Russian Federation, regardless of the number and age of family members, can become a participant in the competition. The works that reflect the importance of the family way of life and respect for family traditions are submitted for the competition.

The organizers of the competition do not limit the creativity of the participants. A story about family traditions can be presented in any form - an essay, a video, a presentation, a photo collage - the main thing is that the story of the family, its peculiarity, what it means in the concept of "family tradition" is reflected in the work.

In the final of the competition, which will be held from June 7 to June 9 in the Tula region within the framework of the All-Russian festival “We have a tradition in our family”, the jury will determine the winners. The works of the contestants will be evaluated in several nominations: "For originality and creativity in presenting their family tradition", "Original family find", "For artistic expressiveness", "For the preservation and continuity of Russian family traditions", films and stage performances will be evaluated in In the nomination "For directorial skills", the longest tradition and tradition, covering the largest number of participants, will also be determined. The winners of the competition will receive diplomas of laureates of the competition, as well as valuable prizes - travel vouchers and tickets to entertainment events.

To participate in the competition, you must fill out an application. Stories about family customs, illustrated in any way interesting for the participants, can be sent by May 30 by e-mail: [email protected] marked "And we have a tradition in our family - COMPETITION-FESTIVAL" or send to the address: 105082, Moscow, st. Bolshaya Pochtovaya, 36, building 1

People love to dream. From generation to generation, they do not give up this dubious occupation, and even more than that: with small variations, from century to century, they dream about the same thing. Three main human dreams: to fly, live forever and predict the future. So, dreaming, a person came up with an airplane and medicine, but the most difficult thing is with the last point. The future continues to scare and intrigue, fascinate and dizzy. It is in no way given in the hands, and fortune-telling on the coffee grounds is little comforting. However, to make the future predictable at least in part… tradition helps.

If you find yourself in a fun company of 15–20 people and ask the audience about their family traditions, you will surely be surprised at the variety and the invention with which people sometimes try to do the most ordinary things.

It turns out that in one house the father of the family has been bringing morning coffee to his wife for 10 years, and this coffee is always of the same brand. In another house, every weekend my grandmother bakes her signature banana cake, which no one else knows how to cook. In the third, they treat the rituals of parting with special trepidation - children always wave at their parents leaving the window, and their mother always sings to them the same lullaby at night, which never gets boring. New Year's rituals are a special article. Each family celebrates this most favorite holiday in a slightly different way. Somewhere they certainly go for a walk after twelve, somewhere - they go to the dacha. Someone every time saves sparklers for the holiday, someone - be sure to bake a duck with apples. I even know a house where it is not customary to decorate a Christmas tree with ordinary toys: without exception, all Christmas tree decorations there are made by the hands of several generations of children, and this is really amazing, and the unique collection is replenished every year. In the same family, adults hide New Year's gifts under the Christmas tree in pillow cases, for each child in their own.

What are family customs and traditions?

Family traditions and customs are an integral part of family happiness and well-being. Traditions were once an obligatory component of a close-knit family, reflecting the moral position of all its members. Many traditions are passed down from generation to generation, fully embraced by the young family of modern society. The introduction of children from early childhood to family traditions instills in them the importance of family and family relationships.

Each of us strives to create comfort, an atmosphere of hospitality, uniqueness in his family, so that, being away from home, each of the family members understands that they are waiting for him at home, they will definitely listen and understand, provide support and help in difficult times. Every family must have traditions that children will subsequently carry into adulthood and their families. A lullaby before bedtime ... bedtime story ... legendary "family dinner at the weekend" - all this is of great importance for the formation of a real family. In addition, it is especially important for a child, whom it helps to feel like a significant part of the Surname, for the development of a sense of security and confidence, and also this warmth, these are values, this is invariable. It is important that all this creates a cozy, friendly atmosphere, stability and mutual support and mutual assistance in the family.

Often we are not immediately able to highlight the customs that are accepted in our family, since we have adopted many of them from childhood. For us, they are so natural that we don’t even think about them. Traditions and customs in the family constitute the spiritual aura of the home, including the way of life and the daily routine, and the relationships of family members, and various daily rituals. The house, "getting used" to its tenants, catches their energy, relationships and rhythm of life, and, as it were, adjusts to it. It is not uncommon for us to live by following traditions. No matter how strange the customs at times may be, it is important that they are not far-fetched. They should come naturally into your life.

In many families, it has become a habit to gather at a common table in the evenings and at tea to discuss the events of the passing day, to make plans for the future. Parents talk about how they spent the day and share their impressions, show attention to each other's problems. The child (s) is allowed to do the same. It is a wonderful and healthy tradition to read daily in the evenings, discuss what you have heard together, express your opinion and listen to the opinions of other family members. Nowadays, the custom of joint trips to the sea or family vacations during the holidays is popular.

It is very difficult to develop a family tradition when the children have become adults and they have already formed an attitude towards the family. It is quite another matter when parents show the child the world in all its beauty, surround him with love and form a stable position in life throughout his life. Kids perceive the world the way their parents do. It depends on them what kind of attitude the child will have towards himself, others and life in general. For him, life may seem like an endless holiday or an interesting and exciting journey, or it may seem like a frightening foray into wild places or in the form of thankless toil that awaits him immediately after graduation.

If in most cases family traditions and rituals bring only joy and pleasure, and not restrictions, this helps to strengthen in children a sense of family integrity and unity, a sense of the uniqueness of the home and their own confidence in the future. Inner warmth and optimism in us is formed from childhood, therefore, the more this charge, the better. The happier and more joyful the childhood of the child, the happier he will be in later adult life.

You can start with the simplest thing - read before bed. Even if the child is still very tiny, and does not understand what you are telling him, your voice alone will be incredibly beneficial for the baby. At the same time, you should be careful about the choice of fairy tales. Books should teach a child, educate and develop certain qualities in him. You can try to compose instructive fairy tales yourself, focusing on the educational element that you think is necessary. Only they should not be too long, otherwise the child may overwork. Twenty minutes of storytelling should be sufficient. For example, a fairy tale about how one boy (girl) did not want to wash, as a result of which all his friends left him (her). But then the fairy brought him (her) a fragrant strawberry-flavored soap, and a miracle happened, he (a) became (a) clean (oh) and friends returned again. There can be many versions. And if all these fairy tales of your own composition are written down in a separate notebook and on an anniversary date (for example, the 18th birthday), give them to your child. This will be a real family gift, which, I think, your child will keep and pass on to their children, adding something of their own.

Family traditions and rituals allow the baby to form a sense of the stability of a particular family structure. For example, regardless of anything, what we have established will take place. Plus, daily rituals create unique childhood memories that your little one will share with their children someday. Family traditions enable a child to feel a sense of pride in their family and themselves.

Each of us can create our own traditions in families, which will be passed on from children to grandchildren, etc. Only in this case, it is necessary to take into account that this or that event is bright and memorable for the child, and most importantly positive, that the repeating event is observed without fail, regardless of anything, and most importantly, that in this traditional event there is something that would affect the feelings and perception of the child.

It should be noted that not all families have family traditions and holidays. And it’s not a lack of time. It's just that these people have lost touch with each other, they do not know what to talk about with each other, they are often a burden to contemplate their relatives. All this speaks of a functional disruption of life at home. This home, like the family, has fragile and fragile bonds.

What can family customs be like?

A friendly and happy family can come up with a “special” greeting that only family members will understand. It is interesting if, when greeting each other, one person says the first half of the word, and his interlocutor finishes it. The same goes for parting. You can come up with funny wishes for each other for the whole day.

The kitchen is fraught with a huge scope for imagination regarding the creation of a family tradition. Or, for example, the culinary skills of a family member. It's great when on weekends the whole family gathers in the house for a family lunch or dinner. It is important that this event does not come down to a dull eating of delicacies, but be remembered as a festive event accompanied by laughter and smiles of family members, fun, clinking glass and the aroma of delicious homemade dishes.

And also, it will be fun and interesting if the kid also participates in the preparation of any traditional culinary delight, which will also take pride of place on the festive table. Or, for example, you can cook something new with your child every Sunday from the dishes of traditional cuisine and the cuisine of different countries - this is also a kind of tradition. The baby will not only be interested in mastering the preparation of something new, but he will also be able to clearly see and try it. So the child will still be able to learn a lot about different peoples and their traditions, master their features of behavior at the table (eat with chopsticks, drink from a bowl, etc.).

An annual trip to nature on the first weekend of summer can also act as a family tradition.

Paradoxical as it may sound, the birthday holiday is considered the best family tradition. Many of us remember with longing that in childhood it was not customary for us to celebrate birthdays. Therefore, you can celebrate your baby's birthday as the best family holiday, to which he will invite his best friends. This will allow the child to feel like a significant member of the family, teach him to receive guests, and, importantly, will form his tradition of celebrating his birthday.

For a child's birthday, adults can come up with many different, but special rituals only for him. For example, mark the growth of a child on a special ruler, outline the child's pen or leg, or create a photo gallery, in a word, everything that will help the child remember his childhood years and the happy moments associated with it.

Also, the child can be involved in drawing up a family tree or collecting something. It is very important that this brings joy to all family members.

It doesn't matter if you want to preserve the traditions of your husband's family or your own, or create something of your own, the main thing to remember is that childhood forms the personality of the child. It is very important that the child has this childhood. Observe in all measure, because too strict rules that do not leave freedom to the child contribute to overstrain of his psyche. The lack of stability in the family structure and predictable rituals that would soothe the baby with their obligation, instill in the baby a feeling of insecurity and instability. It is important not to forget that any rules are appropriate if they do not make life more difficult.

Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old household traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or if you are trying to invent and instill something new in the family, remember that childhood forms a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which the family lives, which do not leave children any "freedom of maneuver", overstrain the child's psyche. The lack of a stable home lifestyle and predictable home rituals, which soothe the baby with their indispensable obligation, convey to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the fragility of the universe. Sometimes remember the Lantern, whose planet was visited by the Little Prince during his wanderings. Every evening, the Lamplighter turned on his lantern on the planet, where there was no one else but him, and turned it off every morning. Such an agreement, - he explained to the surprised Prince, - to turn on the lantern.

May your home always be cozy and warm!

On November 30, 2017 in Moscow, the results of two All-Russian student competitions "And we have a tradition in our family ..." (YSU named after I. Bunin) and "My pedigree" (Moscow State Technological University "STANKIN") took place in Moscow. These competitions were held as part of the program for the development of student associations with the financial support of the Ministry of Education and Science of the Russian Federation in partnership with the All-Russian public organization "National Parent Association for Social Support of the Family and Protection of Family Values." The event was attended by creative teams of Yelets State University named after I.A. Bunin.

Dear participants of the All-Russian student competition "And we have a tradition in our family ..."!

More than 100 papers from 14 regions and 17 educational institutions were reviewed. Of course, all creative work, research, essays, videos deserve worthy attention.

Based on the results of the assessment by the Expert Commission, 15 best competitive works were determined to be awarded with diplomas of the winners of the 1st, 2nd and 3rd degrees and valuable gifts.

Minutes of the meeting of the Working group of the All-Russian student competition "And we have a tradition in our family ..." ()

Congratulations to everyone and invite you to the awards ceremony, which will be held on November 28, 2017 at YSU. I.A. Bunin at the address: Lipetsk region, Yelets urban district, st. Kommunarov, 28. The event starts at 14.00.

Best wishes,
Organizing committee of the competition

At Yelets State University named after I.A. Bunin held a summing up of the results of the All-Russian student competition "And we have a tradition in our family ...".

This event was carried out within the framework of the Program for the Development of the Activities of Student Associations "Forward and Together" with the financial support of the Ministry of Education and Science of the Russian Federation, together with the All-Russian public organization "National Parents' Association for Social Support of the Family and Protection of Family Values".

The project is aimed at popularizing positive examples of the way of family life, preserving and developing national family traditions, strengthening family relations through joint activities.

Contest nominations:

1. Family tourism and healthy lifestyle;

2. Family craft (a story about a professional dynasty, family business);

3. Rules for a happy family life in infographics and photography;

4. Family literary and artistic creativity, family amateur theaters;

5. Family arts and crafts.

According to the results of the competition, the names of the winners were determined.

Family Craft Nomination

Winner of the 2nd degree - student of the Institute of Philology Olesya Azarova (for the cycle of video works "Second Hollywood or Family Film Studio").

Nomination "Rules for a Happy Family Life in Infographics and Photography"

Winner of the 2nd degree - student of the Yelets State University, Institute of Philology Grigory Golubkov.

Nomination "Family arts and crafts"

1st degree winner - student of YSU named after I.A. Bunina Vyacheslav Chervyakov.

Nomination "Family tourism and healthy lifestyle"

The Nikiforovs' student family received the 2nd degree diploma.

1st degree winner - Nikita Agafonov, student of the Institute of Physical Culture, Sports and Life Safety.

Among those present at the award ceremony were students of the Northern Arctic Federal University in Severodvinsk - Anastasia Nosova, 3rd degree diploma in the nomination "Family Craft".

Winner of a 3rd degree diploma in the nomination "Family literary and artistic creation, family amateur theaters" became Nadezhda Spesivtseva - a student of the Rostov State Economic University.

As part of the event, master classes were held.