There is no feeling during. Sexual dysfunctions in women. Breasts early in pregnancy
anonymous, female, 19
I have been sexually active since the age of 16, after my partner took her virginity, the pain was for about a month, maybe even more, I don't remember anymore, there were no sensations, I told my partner that there were sensations, and we have been living for 3 years already, I hoped that sensations will appear after a while, but thank God the pain has passed, and nothing else, I feel his presence inside, I even learned to work muscles inside myself, it's still useless. In some poses, when he is behind and I bend, if he goes deep, then it generally hurts, and this is not one position in which I feel discomfort, not always, but it happens. At the psychological level, I am all right, there is affection before the act, at the beginning of the relationship, there was excitement, passion, and now everything is boring, due to the fact that this activity is somehow not particularly interesting, there is probably no excitement if sex is just a month, then it’s somehow more interesting, and if every day, it quickly gets boring, but that at the beginning of the relationship, that now, nothing has changed, I don’t feel anything, well, there were no orgasms anyway. But if he does cunnilingus, I get an orgasm, the feeling is not expressed when touching the clitoris, but if I try, I get an orgasm in this case. Already read a bunch of sites, my hands dropped, I don’t know what to do. Already scandals in relationships due to the fact that there is not enough sex, that I do not pay attention as a man, I will never offer the first one, and I don’t know what to say to him. If I tell the truth, as it is, then you can put an end to the relationship. For him, if the girl does not receive from him, so to speak, "high", then there is no point in trying, the end of everything will be. I want to know if there is anything else I can hope for? I was at the gynecologist, she examined me, she did not find anything bad there, she said that the uterus was lowered, and they say that is why I have pain during menstruation, I don’t know why she said that, but maybe this is the reason? In general, this is a cry for help!
Good afternoon, I am not entirely competent in problems of the sexual sphere, there have been cases when the consultation of a gynecologist aggravated an already tense situation. Bends and similar conclusions do not fundamentally affect the receipt of sexual pleasure, since sexuality is the harmonious work of all organs and systems of the body, which in turn developed in a favorable psychosexual environment, which, unfortunately, is rarely observed, more often there are many prerequisites that complicate sex life. As a rule, in a situation where there is no opportunity to openly discuss the problem, the relationship becomes very tense, and any reason can lead to a break, as everyone's dissatisfaction grows. If this is not stopped, then the consequences can be sad, and for all participants. Hoping and screaming are not the best attempts to solve a problem. Your case is not entirely hopeless, you have an idea of what an orgasm is, and even under certain conditions, you can experience it. It remains to figure out what reasons interfere with doing this in the desired conditions, from experience I will say that this is a complex of both psychological and physiological components, and also to exclude mistakes in partner "skills". Having understood the reasons, it will be possible to move on to harmonizing the sexuality of both yours and in a couple. I can say in the affirmative that your problem may be eliminated in a short time with full-time treatment. If this is not possible, then we will decide in absentia. My contacts are listed below. Respectfully yours, sexologist Oleg Gulko
From the book "Thousands ... Questions and Answers in Gynecology" (2008)
What are Sexual Disorders?
Sexual dysfunction, or sexual dysfunction, is a problem associated with any phase of the sexual response to sexual intercourse that prevents a woman or couple from enjoying and satisfying sexual intercourse. Unfortunately, there are many conflicting rumors and myths about the sexuality of women and their ability to receive satisfaction during intercourse. Women often hide their feelings about sex, blame themselves and are accused by men of indifference, frigidity and other problems. However, a woman's sexual dysfunction is a problem of two, a married couple, and often has a psychological basis. Statistics show that sexual dysfunction occurs in 31% of men and 43% of women, and is a very common problem among the adult population. As shown by a survey conducted in the USA in 1970, more than 50% of women cannot experience orgasm during intercourse, and from 30 to 50% of men experience problems with potency. Talking about sexual issues is becoming very popular in society, which is supported by the media. Therefore, to some extent, having a personal sexologist (as well as a psychotherapist) has become fashionable in many developed countries.
What are the phases of the sexual response cycle?
There are four phases in the sexual response cycle:
- Arousal (the first level of sexual response, indicating the first signs of sexual arousal).
- Plateau (the second level of sexual response, during which physical arousal increases).
- Orgasm (menopause and release of sexual arousal).
- Resolution (resolution, satisfaction).
What is libido?
Libido is the desire for sexual intercourse that includes sexual fantasies and thoughts. Libido is synonymous with desire, libido, desire, passion.
What are the most common types of female sexual dysfunction?
Some of the most common sexual complaints from women are:
... decreased sex drive, coldness, frigidity (30-40%);
... lack of pleasure and orgasm (20-40%);
... pain during intercourse, vaginismus;
... insufficient vaginal moisture.
Sexual dysfunction often develops gradually, and depends on the sexual constitution, personal characteristics of women and interpersonal relationships of spouses.
What are the causes of sexual dysfunction in women?
All causes of sexual dysfunction in women can be divided into two main groups: psychological and physical. Psychological reasons include:
... Stress
... Irritability
... Anxiety about having sexual intercourse
... Relationship problems with a husband or partner
... Depression
... Guilt
... Exposure to previous sexual trauma (rape, perverted sex, sexual assault)
Physical reasons include:
... Systemic diseases (diabetes, neurological disease, cardiovascular disease, renal disease, liver disease)
... Hormonal imbalance
... Menopause
... Alcoholism
... Drug use
... The use of a number of medications (antidepressants, COCs, etc.)
What are the differences in male and female responses to sex?
Very often, men reproach women for coldness or other sexual problems, not realizing that the sexual response of men and women can be different, despite the same phase of sexual response. Women usually go through their sexual phases more slowly than men. Men can experience all four phases in 4-5 minutes. It takes a woman 10 to 20 minutes only for the first two phases to get an orgasm. Only half of women reach orgasm within 10-12 minutes. At the beginning of sexual activity, when there is sexual desire, a feeling of love between partners, orgasm can be achieved within 1 minute in 25% of women after the introduction of the penis into the vagina.
Does the size of the penis affect a woman's response?
Numerous studies have shown that the vagina during intercourse adjusts to the size of the penis and the subjective sensations of pleasure and the intensity of orgasm are not related to the size of the penis. During an erection, the size of a tense penis decreases. Contrary to popular belief, there is no relationship between penile size and male sexual potency. An obstacle may just be a member of too large a woman with a narrow vagina.
Does the size of the clitoris affect sexual sensitivity and orgasm?
The size of the clitoris does not affect the frequency of a woman's orgasm.
The sensitivity of the clitoris is about 3-5 times that of the glans of the penis, but the occurrence of orgasm and satisfaction during intercourse depends on many factors.
If a woman does not have an orgasm, is she frigid?
On average, 1 woman in 3 does not have an orgasm in the first year of marriage, and only 30% regularly achieve orgasm during one sexual intercourse. This may be due to the inexperience of sexual partners, psychological (fear of partner dissatisfaction, fear of pregnancy) and other factors.
What is a decrease in sex drive?
A decrease in sexual desire can be observed in both women and men, but it is women who are most often accused of being "cold." However, there is a very famous expression: "There are no frigid women, but there are inattentive men and lazy women." True frigidity is extremely rare. Sex drive and arousal decrease in the presence of chronic diseases of any localization, depression, pregnancy, chronic stress. Socio-economic factors can inhibit sexual desire: change or loss of work, financial problems, the presence of small children in the family, living with parents or other relatives in the same apartment or house. Strict upbringing, children's psychological trauma, strict control by parents can leave a negative imprint on a woman's life and cause her sexual disorders. An unpleasant situation and a crisis in intimate life awaken old unconscious fears and inhibitions that are the cause of sexual problems.
What could be the reason for the lack of orgasm in women?
Anorgasmia, or lack of orgasm, has the same reasons as a decrease or lack of sexual desire, and most often due to the inexperience of sexual partners to bring pleasure to each other. It has been proven that 90% of women experience orgasm while masturbating. This means that true anorgasmia, when erotic receptors do not respond to stimulation, is extremely rare. Lack of orgasm can be the result of a man's premature ejaculation, interrupted sexual intercourse, insufficient psychoerotic preparation of a woman for rapprochement (due to the lack of foreplay), an incorrectly chosen posture. Due to the lack of sexuality education and old traditional views on sex, a woman is most often a passive sexual partner, providing only parts of her body to meet the sexual needs of a man, as a result of which the erogenous zones (both genital and extragenital) do not receive sufficient stimulation. Usually a man determines the frequency, rhythm, form of sexual intercourse, being an active partner. Sometimes the lack of orgasm can be associated with puberty disorders.
For what reasons can a woman experience pain during intercourse?
There are many reasons why a woman may experience pain during intercourse.
... Inflammatory diseases of the reproductive system (vaginitis, cervicitis, abscess of the Bartholin gland, inflammation of the appendages)
... Other diseases of the reproductive system (endometritis, ovarian cysts, uterine leiomyoma)
... Vaginismus, primary or secondary (pain due to fear of intercourse)
... Lack of moisture (lubrication) during intercourse.
What are the reasons for insufficient vaginal moisture?
Insufficient production of "lubrication" during sexual intercourse is most often due to a woman's unpreparedness for sexual intercourse (lack of attraction, excitement), in the presence of inflammatory processes in the vagina and vulva, while taking a number of medications, with atrophy of the vaginal mucosa (postmenopause, radiation), in the presence of vaginal scars.
How is a woman with sexual dysfunction screened?
For many years, the issues of women's sexual dysfunction have not received due attention. Usually they were accused of "natural coldness", while sexologists and sex therapists dealt only with male sexual dysfunctions. Most clinics specialize in the diagnosis and treatment of male sexual dysfunctions. Female sexual dysfunction is a problem for a married couple or both partners. To exclude a number of causes of sexual dysfunctions, a woman may be offered to undergo an examination by a gynecologist, laboratory tests to identify sexually transmitted infections, an ultrasound scan. Interviewing a woman and her partner can help a doctor choose the right direction for diagnosing and treating sexual dysfunction.
How is female sexual dysfunction treated?
In most cases, female sexual dysfunctions do not require medication or other treatment. Explaining to a woman and her partner the causes of such disorders, learning the technique of sex, eliminating psychological causes, helps in solving the problem in most cases of sexual disorders.
All types of activities and treatments can be divided into the following groups:
1. Teaching the anatomy of the genitals, their function, changes that take place in the body with age, the rules of sexual behavior and sexual response.
2. Encouraging the use of means that increase arousal (watching erotic films, reading erotic books, erotic lingerie, masturbation, new sex positions and techniques, vibrators and sex toys).
3. The use of stimuli (music, light, scenery, new places, erotic fantasies, sexual experiments).
4. Encouraging non-sexual relationships (helping a man with household chores, raising children, building trust, respect and understanding, walking together, traveling and visiting public places, etc.).
5. Reduction of pain (treatment of inflammatory processes, surgical removal of tumors of the vagina and uterus, training in relaxation techniques, the use of lubricants, medications, hormones).
Can a woman take Viagra and are there such drugs for women?
Women should not take Viagra, which was created to improve male erection, because of its ineffectiveness for the female body and the presence of many side effects. Attempts to create "female Viagra" are carried out by many pharmaceutical laboratories around the world, but so far have not been crowned with success.
Pregnancy for a woman is one of the natural conditions. And yet this greatly changes the body's perception of not only the surrounding world, but also itself. Sensations are especially important in the early stages of pregnancy. They are so diverse that it is worth knowing in advance what to expect for the future mom. After all, some of them will indicate that there are deviations from the norm and medical intervention is urgently required.
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When to expect the first symptoms
The desired appearance of the baby or not, the woman is extremely interested in when the symptoms of pregnancy appear. Its countdown begins from the first day of the previous menstruation.
Conception occurs in the middle of the cycle. But you shouldn't expect any sensations at this phase. Only particularly impressionable women talk about them, although they are associated with impatience rather than physiological changes.
The only thing that can be detected is an increase in vaginal discharge. Such a reaction of the body is associated with the fact that it more actively produces mucus for the subsequent formation of a protective plug.
After another 6-10 days, the ovum takes its place in the uterus. From this event, you can talk about when the symptoms of pregnancy begin, because some of them are already felt. For example, blood and mild abdominal pain may be mixed with mucus from the genital tract. These signs are usually frightening, as, according to the verbal description, they look threatening. But there is nothing to be afraid of if it does not last more than 2 days. The process of introducing an egg into the lining of the uterus occurs with vascular damage.
However, for the majority, this event has no visible manifestations. And for them, the question of how long it takes to get pregnancy symptoms is still relevant. From the moment of embryo implantation, we can say that conception has occurred. As the fetus develops, the hormonal background of the woman changes, which affects her well-being. Already on a two-week period, you can feel your new state.
First sensations during pregnancy
When pregnancy occurs, one of the first sensations appear:
- soreness, unusual tenderness of the breasts, nipples;
- increased volume of vaginal discharge;
- nausea;
- strong salivation;
- a change in the reaction to food - favorite dishes become tasteless or generally disgust, and some new ones, on the contrary, cause an increased appetite;
- heightened perception of aromas, even the usual cosmetics and perfumes smell unpleasant, there may be a rejection of the male smell;
- increased weakness and fatigue, drowsiness;
- abdominal discomfort - bloating, rumbling, soreness;
- the skin becomes hot to the touch, there are chills and hot flashes;
- frequent mood changes.
Normally, not all of these manifestations may be present or other symptoms are added to them. The beginning of pregnancy is different for every woman.
Feelings during pregnancy
The psychological state and feelings during pregnancy are associated with changes in hormonal levels. Usually women note:
- irritability;
- tearfulness;
- transitions from laughter to depressed mood;
- anxiety;
- suspiciousness.
Depressive reactions are often manifested. In some women, on the contrary, the onset of pregnancy coincides with feelings of a surge of strength and an improvement in their condition.
Is it okay if I don't feel like I'm pregnant early on?
Normally, a woman at an early stage may not feel that she is pregnant. This is typical for healthy and young expectant mothers. For most, the very first sensations are very atypical, therefore, it is possible to learn about conception only after a delay and a test.
Worse, if previously there were all the signs of toxicosis (malaise, nausea), swelling and pain in the mammary glands, and then they disappeared, but spotting appeared. These are signs that the pregnancy has stopped developing. An urgent need to visit a gynecologist.
Feelings in the uterus during early pregnancy
The initial sensations in the uterus during early pregnancy (introduction and strengthening of the ovum) can be:
- feeling of heaviness;
- it seems that the uterus hurts (the woman usually begins to feel it, which was not previously the case);
- with a sharp movement, a turn, there is a sharp soreness in the groin, lower back or along the inner thighs;
- there is a feeling of fullness in the abdomen, bloating.
In the early stages of pregnancy, not all women notice sensations in the uterus, but as it develops, they become much more.
Such manifestations are associated with the onset of growth of the uterus and a change in the load on its ligaments. Often, previous inflammatory diseases of the abdominal cavity are the cause of pain. After them, adhesions form and during the development of pregnancy, their stretching can be sensitive.
Can lower back hurt after conception?
The lower back after conception can hurt in those women who experience similar sensations before the onset of menstruation. Severe pain in the lumbar region, fatigue with prolonged standing, sitting or walking are typical for late periods. In the second, and especially the third trimester, the weight of the uterus with the fetus puts a lot of stress on this part of the spine.
What a belly in the early stages
Often, outwardly, the belly does not change in the early stages. Less commonly, there is an increase in local temperature (hot stomach), tension, soreness. It hardens a little in the lower part during palpation, as the tone of the muscle fibers increases. Due to hormonal changes, digestion is rebuilt, so bloating, a feeling that the stomach is twisting, is possible.
Fetus at the end of the 4th (a), 6th (b) and 9th (c) months of pregnancy Appearance
In the first 2 months, external signs of pregnancy are not noticeable. The abdomen is soft, normal in shape and size, there is no soreness when pressed. Closer to 11-12 weeks, you can feel the upper border of the uterus. It thickens and begins to be felt by a woman.
Why a hot stomach
A hot stomach can be a reaction to an increase in blood progesterone levels. Normally, the skin temperature rises during pregnancy, this is not a sign of pathology. In some women, it is mainly felt in the abdomen, but most note that the whole body has become hot.
Tense belly
The tension of the anterior abdominal wall in the lower abdomen is characteristic of the early period. This muscle tone protects the developing fetus in the uterus. In addition, against the background of hormonal changes, there is bloating and distention in the intestines. The reason for going to the doctor appears if the tension is combined with:
- cramping pain
- an increase in temperature
- bouts of nausea and vomiting,
- the release of blood.
Why does it hurt
The stomach hurts during early pregnancy due to such changes:
- increased production of hormones and restructuring of bowel function;
- stretching of the uterine ligaments;
- growth of the uterus;
- attachment of the ovum (sometimes accompanied by blood smear).
Normally, the pain is moderate or mild, lasts no more than a few minutes, there is no bloody discharge. With the appearance of blood from the vagina and pain syndrome, it is important to consult a gynecologist, undergo an ultrasound scan.
The belly is on fire
A burning sensation (the stomach is on fire) is due to physiological changes (normal), it is caused by changes associated with the attachment of the ovum, stretching of the uterine cavity and its ligaments. In this case, there is usually only a slight tingling sensation, slight discomfort. These symptoms occur intermittently and go away without additional treatment.
If the stomach burns for a long time, there is pain, the temperature is increased to more than 37.3 degrees, then this is a likely sign:
- ovarian diseases,
- herpes infection,
- the threat of breakdown.
In order to make a correct diagnosis, an examination by a gynecologist is necessary.
Is it hardening
The abdomen can harden during pregnancy in the first months due to reflex (protective tension) of the abdominal wall. These changes are not always clearly noticeable, therefore, both soft and hard belly do not confirm or exclude fertilization.
Twists during pregnancy
The patient describes unpleasant sensations in the intestinal area: twists, whines, squeezes the stomach. They are associated with the effect of progesterone on the intestinal wall. It relaxes like the rest of the muscle fibers. Hormonal changes also lead to flatulence, constipation, or unstable stools. Usually, this discomfort diminishes or disappears completely from the second month of pregnancy.
Cramping pain during early pregnancy
In the early stages of pregnancy, cramping pains are dangerous, they can mean a threatening or incipient miscarriage. This complication is characterized by:
- soreness above the pubis and in the lower back;
- discharge of blood from the vagina;
- severe weakness.
An increase in nausea, an increase in temperature is also possible. With a threatened abortion, there are chances of maintaining the pregnancy. To do this, you need to call an ambulance for hospitalization in the gynecological department. Self-medication is not recommended.
Watch this video on what to do if your stomach hurts during pregnancy and when to see a doctor:
Can shivers in early pregnancy
In the early stages of pregnancy, it shivers due to the fact that this is how the body reacts to a half-alien fetus for it. In addition to this, against the background of hormonal changes, the body temperature rises, and this can also be accompanied by chills.
This reaction is quite natural and gradually disappears. Prolonged tremors in the body, fever with headache and nausea are signs of an infection in the body. Therefore, in all doubtful cases, it is better to consult a gynecologist.
Can high blood pressure be a sign of pregnancy?
In most women, hormonal changes during pregnancy cause 
decrease in pressure, therefore, its increase does not apply to specific signs of conception.
Any changes in blood circulation, unusual sensations cannot be unambiguously attributed only to the beginning of fetal development.
For a correct diagnosis, it is necessary to visit a gynecologist (if there is a delay in menstruation), a cardiologist or a therapist.
On what day after conception begins to vomit
Typical times for the onset of nausea after conception are the first days of the second month of pregnancy - 5-6 weeks. Nausea appears in the morning or gets worse throughout the day. Possible connection with food or occurrence and outside of its intake. In some women, the urge to vomit and change in taste, increased salivation disappear after 2-3 weeks, but they often bother almost the entire pregnancy.
Pregnancy manifestations after conception
The surest symptom for many is the absence of menstruation in due time. But this will come to light later. Some women even before menstruation feel the manifestations of the changes that have occurred in the body.
Feelings in the early stages of pregnancy, before delay, are weak, they can be easily confused with signs of a cold or overwork. A woman can experience:
- runny nose, sore throat;
- drowsiness, fatigue;
- increased excitability.
Sometimes all of the above is the body's response to a change in the balance of hormones. But it is worth taking into account that immunity is not active at this time. All forces are subordinated to the needs of the reproductive system, that is, the development of pregnancy. Therefore, it is easy indeed to catch a cold and overwork.
Increased symptoms
After implantation, the cells of the embryo begin active division. The task of the body is to provide safe conditions and comfort for the existence of the ovum. At this time, the volume increases.
The embryo also adds new to the composition of the mother's hormones. It is hCG that helps the gynecologist diagnose. Under no other circumstances can this hormone appear in the female body. How pregnancy begins depends on progesterone and hCG, the symptoms of which become more pronounced every day.
| Pregnancy symptoms | Manifestation of symptoms in a pregnant woman |
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Nausea |
Usually, nausea follows in the morning, but it can appear 2-3 times a day. It can be associated with both food intake and without it. |
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Changes in the temperature inside the vagina (basal temperature) |
If a woman has controlled her before, then she will notice that BT is at a value slightly above 37 degrees. This is how the body creates conditions for the development of the embryo. |
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Cessation of menstruation |
The presence of the embryo makes it impossible and unnecessary to replace the upper layer of the uterine lining with a new one. |
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Appearance changes |
At the first stage, the belly does not grow yet, but the skin may become covered with age spots, acne, and the hair may become oily or dry and weak. |
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Aversion to odors |
It's not only about the smell of food, but also about any other. Previously favored or neutral scents cause nausea or, at best, irritation. |
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Changing tastes in food |
A woman is more often drawn to salty or a rejection of meat appears. There may be a need to eat an unsuitable substance. |
And yet, when discussing what sensations during early pregnancy, they mean mainly what happened in the woman's reproductive system. The main ones focus on her belly.
The beginning of pregnancy and the uterus
The main organ that performs work during pregnancy is the uterus. It is a shelter for the embryo for a long time. The body most clearly demonstrates all the changes that have been made.
Feelings in the uterus in early pregnancy are noticeable from the beginning. It has already been said about what a woman can feel when an embryo is fixed in her, but this is far from all. The organ receives an increased blood supply at an early stage. This makes him especially susceptible.
If, in a normal state, not every woman will indicate where the uterus is located, during pregnancy she will easily do this. The tissues of the mucous organ swell, which can lead to a slight heaviness in the abdomen, tingling.
Normal sensations in the early stages of pregnancy do not cause unbearable discomfort, although with its development they will intensify. For the reasons that caused them, these manifestations can be divided into groups.
Hypertonicity
The feeling of tension in the abdomen is familiar to many in this condition. His fault is a spasm of the muscles of the uterus, called. When feeling the abdomen after 2 months from the beginning of pregnancy, it is easy to find the upper pole of the organ. Such feelings of uterine stone in early pregnancy are due to progesterone deficiency.
If it is large, the child will have to be saved with the help of the efforts of doctors and bed rest. But this also happens with a normal pregnancy due to motor load, shaking in transport. If the muscle spasm quickly passes, is not complemented by severe pain and discharge with blood, there is no danger.
Changes associated with the growth of the uterus
Short-term pain in the abdomen in early pregnancy, which appears during increased motor activity, is localized in the groin area. They can often be felt by women with a sharp change in body position, even coughing and sneezing.
In the described cases, this is a common occurrence caused by an increase in the load on the ligaments of the uterus. The organ grows, and although it is not so obvious in the early stages, the pressure on its parts increases. Normally, sensations should go away soon after onset.
Influence of the uterus on adjacent organs
The first sensations in early pregnancy can be associated, oddly enough, with the bladder and intestines. The swollen uterus and enlargement will certainly affect the adjacent organs.
From here. The uterus is not yet large, but it irritates the walls of the bladder. If a woman tries to reduce visits to the toilet and endure, the urge increases, and hypertonicity may be added to it.
Unpleasant sensations during early pregnancy are presented by the intestines. They are caused by the relaxation of his muscles, like many other abdominal organs. On the one hand, this is nature's concern for the preservation of pregnancy. On the other hand, it can cause flatulence. The vasodilatation in the pelvic region, which is inevitable during pregnancy, often provokes the appearance of hemorrhoids.
Beginning of pregnancy and ovaries
The ovaries during pregnancy, as the tissues of the uterus grow, are pulled up to the upper part of the abdominal cavity. At first, this is still not as noticeable as with its development. Actually, at the moment, these organs have done their job, that is, they have produced a healthy reproductive cell and their functioning is minimal.
Sensation in the ovaries in early pregnancy may not go beyond light stretching in this area. But their culprits are mostly the ligaments of the uterus, which have to withstand the growing load.
Vagina during pregnancy
The vagina is the path along which the newborn has to make the first movement. This is part of the reproductive system, so the changes will affect him too.
Sensations in the vagina in early pregnancy are determined by an increase in the number and diameter of vessels in the small pelvis. The embryo requires oxygen and nutrition, which reach its cells through the bloodstream. Therefore, the woman will feel a bursting in the crotch area. It is caused by stretching of the capillary and venous walls, blood pressure on them. The sensations in the lower abdomen in early pregnancy will be similar.
The vagina and before it produces mucus, which provides the normal microflora of the organ. During pregnancy, its secretory capabilities increase. A woman notes colorless, odorless discharge. The worst they can bring is a little discomfort. But in general, this is a common occurrence.
Breasts early in pregnancy
The breast is a very sensitive part of the female reproductive system. Hormones have a strong effect on it. That is why the mammary glands are the first to respond to the appearance of an embryo in the body.
Nature prepares them for the production of milk for the unborn baby, carrying out this with the help of the hormone prolactin. The glands grow in volume, so even for the first weeks, a woman should stock up on underwear one or two sizes larger than her usual size.
As a result, they also become different. She becomes more sensitive to touch, sometimes to the point of soreness. The feeling of fullness is added due to the expansion of the ducts through which milk will flow to the nipples.
The skin of the breast acquires, as it were, transparency, because the vessels are clearly visible on it. The nipples and areoles, on the other hand, become brighter in color, also becoming a little painful.
The border of the manifestations of pregnancy and the danger for her
All processes at the initial stage of pregnancy may not coincide in detail in different women. Moreover, the carrying of the first and second child by the same mother is not the same. It is not always possible to discern where the ordinary manifestations of the condition are, and in which cases there is a danger to the fetus. AND still, there are criteria by which one can suspect something was wrong: Stages of miscarriage in early pregnancy
Look at the video about early pregnancy and typical manifestations:
And if there are two of them?
Some women, even in anticipation of a baby, feel great: they are almost not sick, the discomfort, which cannot be done without, is minimal. But this situation practically does not happen if twins are expected (sensations in the early stages of pregnancy can make it feel before ultrasound).
The load that the female body carries in this case increases. What is immediately evident from the study on hCG, it will be twice as much. And the volume of progesterone, which ensures gestation, which is also the cause of not the most pleasant manifestations, is higher. That's why:
- can be very pronounced;
- soreness of the mammary glands is more noticeable;
- weakness is more pronounced due to the double need for iron;
- the stomach becomes larger by the 11th week due to the rapidly growing uterus, respectively, all the associated inconveniences in the form of hourly trips to the toilet, constipation are more acute;
- abdominal pain can also be more noticeable due to the increased load on the ligaments, the risk of uterine hypertonicity and miscarriage increases.
Feelings in the early stages of a trouble-free pregnancy can be different. Sometimes they are very difficult to bear, but many women have gone through this, which means that everyone can. It is important not to confuse norm and pathology, and this can be avoided if you regularly visit a doctor, listen to your body and trust both of them.
Useful video
Watch this video about the sensations during pregnancy:
Frigidity of a woman is rare, despite the fact that the fairer sex during sexual intercourse may experience discomfort more often than their partners. Most often, frigidity develops against the background of hormonal disorders. The same goes for trauma of a psychological nature. "I don't feel anything during sex" - if this is reality for you, then it's time to sort out this problem and try to cope with it .
Psychological:
- stress;
- irritability;
- depressive state;
- one partner feels guilty;
- rape or perverted sex, the consequences of trauma.
Physical:
- systemic diseases - diabetes mellitus or neurological ailments, diseases of the heart and blood vessels, kidneys and liver;
- hormonal imbalance;
- menopause;
- alcoholism, drugs;
- the use of antidepressants.
Many conditions affect the degree of manifestation of factors:
- age;
- sexual experience and upbringing;
- character of a person, his temperament;
- "Map" of erogenous zones;
- day on which menstruation began.
Which leads to a lack of full orgasm
- Fast transition from caress to action. It is very important for a woman to reach orgasm - this requires full sexual arousal. Therefore, the foreplay should take at least 10 minutes.
- The sensitivity of the vagina is reduced - this may well become the reason why it is impossible to achieve pleasure during sexual intercourse.
- Very often, girls have a more sensitive clitoris than a vagina. Therefore, the partner should not only act on the vagina, but also stimulate the clitoral area.
- Lack of skills in a man. The skill of a partner will help bring the girl to the peak of pleasure. Therefore, it is high time to read special literature in order to comprehend the art of love.
Why doesn't a woman have an orgasm? The reason may be the pathology of the female organs, poor blood flow, stress in the psychological sense.
Learn more about the causes and methods of problem solving
Passion has passed, satiety has come about what is happening in the bedroom. As a result, intimacy with a partner ceases to be arousing. The same applies to the partner - he realizes that now he is not an ideal lover.
One of the reasons why it can dramatically lose its libido is hormonal disruption in the body. As a result of a decrease in the level of certain hormones, the desire for sex in women decreases. The hormonal background can be evened out by applying a certain therapy under the supervision of a doctor.
Perhaps menopause is approaching. In this case, the gynecologist will suggest choosing a drug suitable for hormone replacement therapy. This can help relieve symptoms and enjoy sex again.
A diseased thyroid gland, for example, hypothyroidism can be the cause. If you suspect a thyroid gland pathology, the doctor will refer you to an endocrinologist for examination.
Different approaches to sex are also a possible reason. So, for a partner, sex is a means of relieving tension. But you have the opposite. Sex starts in the head and it immediately affects desire. If a woman has recently experienced something that makes her live in a state of stress, for example, temporary problems at work, resentment against her partner, then the desire to love may disappear if the lady is at odds with herself. After all, she does not separate emotions from sex. In this case, you just need to wait - you should not force yourself. After the stressful situation is resolved, everything will fall into place.
Depression, neurosis - psychological reasons. In the case of serious emotional problems, the desire to have sex often disappears.
Sexual incompatibility is one of the problems of lack of sensitivity during sex
Partners often blame each other when relationship problems arise, especially sexually. As for sexual dissatisfaction, it oppresses partners, especially if they have several years of marriage behind them. And here suddenly there were problems with sexual intercourse. The reason may be some kind of beginning illness or a difference in temperament. The same applies to anatomical imbalances, complexes.
Many women fake an orgasm - in this way they try not to offend their loved one. Men can do the same.
Quite often, due to the fact that the girl's vagina is short, painful sensations appear during sex. In this case, of course, she cannot get pleasant sensations from sexual intercourse, sensitivity is lost. The reason is anatomical incompatibility. In order to cope with this, you need to talk to your partner - he should not enter the penis very deeply. You can also put a special ring on it to limit the length of the organ.
The reason for the lack of sensitivity in girls
- Incomplete physiological maturity.
- Painful sensations during intercourse, as a result there is no arousal, orgasm.
- Inexperienced sexual partner.
- There are no skills and knowledge of your body.
- Fear and shame, complexes.
- Physical or psycho-emotional traumatic first sexual experience.
What to do
To begin with, it is worth talking to a gynecologist - a specialist examination will help exclude diseases that could cause a lack of sensitivity. After that, you can not be afraid that you have any physical problems. Start exploring your body - you need to find those zones, the stimulation of which will bring pleasure.
In order to get aroused, women often take longer than men - you need to extend foreplay with a partner.
If pregnancy is not planned, then you need to choose the most convenient contraceptive in order to feel more relaxed and confident during sex.
If there is still no result, then you need to seek individual advice from a sexologist.
Sexual life is a very important aspect of a person's life. Thus, we liberate ourselves, free ourselves from fears and life problems. Sex is pleasure, consolation, tranquility, it takes us beyond reality. But this is possible provided that the woman experiences a real orgasm during sex. Otherwise, intimate life can turn into a real routine, become one-sided, unpleasant.
Lack of sensitivity during sex is possible in both women and men. It is very important not to be silent, but to talk to your partner, to explain how you feel. Together you can always find a way out of this situation. A specialist consultation will help you make the right decision and achieve the desired results in treatment.
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Hello! I have this question: I began to have sex less than 2 months ago (there were more than 15 sexual acts). But the problem is that I still get pleasure clitoral, I hardly experience any sensations from sex itself, there are practically no unpleasant or pleasant ones. How to switch the body to a different kind of pleasure? Can I somehow speed up this process on my own (whether Kegel exercises or vaginal balls are suitable in my case), otherwise I am already starting to worry very much if this is normal. Could acute defloration cystitis affect this? Thanks!
Hello. Please specify the details: 1. What does it mean "I hardly feel any sensations from sex itself" if you are sexually active and describe a clitoric orgasm? 2. Who diagnosed you with acute defloration, how was it treated, did you treat your partner, do you use a condom now? Experiencing an orgasm during intercourse: often, or almost always - 1/3 women; in about half of the cases - 1/3 women; rarely or almost never - 1 \ 3. Most women begin to experience orgasm during intercourse after some period of regular and successful sex life; begin to experience an orgasm during intercourse from the first intercourse - about 3-5% of women. Of those women who experience orgasm during sexual activity, 60% experience clitoric orgasm, 40% - vaginal; both types of orgasm - about 10%. I'm waiting for clarifications.
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Thanks for the answer! I mean vaginal sex, sometimes I have a little unpleasant sensations during intercourse (as if the bladder is a little full), in some positions they then disappear, but at the same time I do not experience any pleasant sensations from the process itself when the penis is inserted , I just feel almost nothing. I understand that girls very rarely get an orgasm right after the onset of sexual activity. This diagnosis was made by a urologist, because a day after 2 PA, a very acute bloody cystitis began in my life, I immediately ran to the doctor, was treated for a week with antibiotics, and also herbal medicines, urine analysis was normal after treatment (tell me, could it be from a purchased lubricant that burned a little?). We have always protected ourselves with a partner and are protected by a condom. Could you clarify why you should treat it? I would also like to clarify that I do not experience problems with the excitement, my lubricant is always enough. Given my recent sexual debut, is my situation normal? When about the girls start to have fun (not to mention orgasm?) I would be grateful for the answer.
Thanks for the clarification and new questions. Feelings from frictions are often sensations SIMPLY physical: something divides in me, that's all. Excitation comes from additional caresses of the clitoris, from the feeling of the situation itself, from feelings for a partner. So there is nothing unusual in your description. Perhaps the excitement from the stimulation of the vagina will still appear, or maybe everything will go exactly as I described (with the involvement of the clitoris, etc.). About cystitis. It's an infectious disease, isn't it? And where did this infection come from? Only from a partner. Lubricant, of course, can also be a source of infection, but not at all because it burned a little - but only if it was stored improperly and deteriorated. The fact that you use a condom is fine, but what happens during petting and other things is unclear. Cunnilingus can be a source of oral germs; hand caresses - a source of any type of infection, etc. In this case, accordingly, there is no need to treat a partner like you, but purely hygienic measures should be even more active and effective. I already wrote to you about orgasm - there is nothing unusual in the described situation. Will still come. Good luck!