It's not destiny to be married. Get married: the most faithful omens. Relation-based

20.06.2020

All friends have been in a relationship for a long time, they get married, give birth to children, and you don't even really meet with anyone and ask yourself what is wrong with me, why can't i get married? At first it didn't really bother me, but the years go by, and nothing changes. You stop enjoying life and get upset every time another acquaintance reports that they made an offer to her. The situation can drag on for a long time, so that even at the age of 30-35, things will not get off the ground.

Why can't a woman get married

What is the reason? Why can't a woman get married?

And the reason is very simple. And it is not that you are not engaged in self-development or that you somehow behave differently. Or so fixated on the thought of marriage that you can’t think about anything else. This is not the point. More precisely, not quite in this. The reason is that thoughts are material, and you send the wrong request to the Universe, and it does not respond as you need it to. From year to year you think “I want a husband and children, children and a husband, a family” - no specifics! What kind of husband? Who should a husband be? First of all, it must be the person you love. Even not who loves you - this is the second. The very first message to the Universe - I want to fall in love, to love, to meet a loved one, to marry…. And here stop. These are 2 different goals. Because you can fall in love with a person who will not marry you, or, conversely, marry someone who is not very loved. The universe is confused and does not know what task to perform. Moreover, you are so fixated that the task has long been one - to get married. Not words about love - of course, this is a matter of course, but it should not be so. There must be a correctly formulated, complete thought. And with your "I want to marry" the Universe sends you to meet faceless potential good husbands, whom you do not even notice, because there are no features in them that could attract you. They just pass in droves past you, just like your years. And you are still sending the same request and pouring from empty to empty.

Stop! Your main desire should be to fall passionately in love. Point. Throw all thoughts out of your head, open your eyes and "chakras", open up to the world and meet the person to whom you will be drawn. When you meet, start a relationship - no thoughts about marriage or any future should be in your head. Everything in turn. Your friends, too, did not receive an offer from the first person they met - at first there was an acquaintance and love. You also need to go through this mandatory step. Thoughts of marriage and family are premature without it. Even if you are 35 years old. If you try to jump over this stage in your head, you will never succeed.

Why can't a pretty girl get married

Causes, why can't a pretty girl get married, lie in approximately the same plane as in relation to other girls. It can, of course, be argued that the beautiful have more demands and are wasting time waiting for the prince, but this is only one of the reasons and not the most important one.

The second reason: beauty is nothing if you do not know how to present it correctly. There are very few truly beautiful girls who disarm at first sight. But beauty is not just about looks. This is also the knowledge of how to "frame" this appearance. A huge number of beautiful actresses are lonely or unhappy in love, because their beauty is "empty".

The third reason: beauty and attractiveness are different things. You can be beautiful as a Madonna with images, but you will only be admired from afar. Men are attracted to sexuality. Do not confuse with debauchery! And a virgin can be sexually attractive.

The fourth reason: everything in a woman loses value, including beauty, when she is conquered or really wants to achieve a man.

Read more about the influence of good looks on happiness in your personal life.

Why Some Don't Get Married

And yet it happens that not everyone succeeds in building family happiness. There are a number of other reasons why some don't get married generally. Oddly enough, the main one is the latent unwillingness to actually be married. Everyone who wanted to get married, sooner or later everyone is there. Take this phrase literally. When the stamp in the passport is the main thing, the rest is secondary - appearance, age, "quality" of a man. Therefore, "getting married is not a problem" - there is such a saying. But this is not the case in the heads of many women. They just don't need a marriage in this form. This is the key point. There is an internal substitution - I want to get married, but at the same time I don’t want to be with those who are around. Primarily - to meet the right person. It's not always easy. Someone needs one thing, someone completely different. Until the puzzle is assembled according to all the necessary parameters, the picture will not be. But waiting can disappoint, depress and lead to the idea that there is no such person for me. And even worse - to go to extremes and build relationships with completely inappropriate, which leaves pain and despair in the soul. They, in turn, reduce the chances, because the person is more focused on inner experiences than on the ability to discern a potential partner.

Remember the stories about how women quickly got married after they relaxed and said "not destiny, well, okay." How they fell in love with each other literally right after they decided that this would not happen in their life. The main thing is not to get hung up on age. And then many write - I'm already 37! So what? What does this affect? The fact that infantiles who “love” a young body up to 20. So this is even a plus will disappear!

Hello dear readers of Samprosvetbulletin!

“The psychologist didn’t help me to get married, although maybe I just got caught by an inept specialist. I do not believe in this psychology and I despaired of getting married. I read your blog, I like it, but so far nothing has changed, ”- Olga wrote to me.

Also, my attention was drawn by her despair to the comment to the article "" from Inna, who is sure that a psychologist cannot help to get married.

Similar questions come to me from other readers.

“I am unlucky in love and what will the psychologist do? I have no shackles, I am successful, took place in my career, full of interests, charming, I have so many friends, young people go crazy, but as soon as I join, they begin to fall apart after a fairly short time. And I have the same unhappy girlfriends, beautiful, successful, just a miracle. And the girlfriends who are not interesting, not very pretty, managed to get married and are happy. "- Natasha writes.

Indeed, during consultations, I come across the fact that some clients, disappointed in love, draw erroneous conclusions.

False Beliefs

1. There is a destiny, if you are not destined to get married, then no psychologists will help

We analyzed in detail how our understanding of fate affects personal life →.

Self-fulfilling prophecy

And now I want to dwell on the phenomenon of self-fulfilling prophecy, which was described by sociologist Robert Merton back in 1948 and confirmed by experiments.

The fact is that our expectations, beliefs are reflected in our actions, reactions and interpretations of the behavior of others. The misdiagnosis of a situation induces new behavior that alters reality so that the misconception begins to come true. If we are convinced of the correctness of some information, then we involuntarily behave in such a way that it receives confirmation.

For example, if we expect bad things, then our expectations are manifested in behavior. Directly or indirectly, we provoke a certain situation by our actions. And our "prophecies" are beginning to come true.

As a psychologist, I have to deal with this phenomenon all the time. For example, a client comes and begins to tell that everything is bad, there are few men, they are over forty and there is no hope of getting married, unlucky, bad fate or, as some say, karma, because mom, grandmother, great-grandmother were unlucky ... And indeed, these beliefs are gradually embodied in reality, introducing the unfortunate woman into even greater despair. At the same time, other women with similar conditions and from the same regions get married successfully even after 50!

The phenomenon of self-fulfilling prophecies can be harmful as well as beneficial. You can program yourself to fail, or you can program yourself to succeed. After all, belief in success is half the battle. Only those who do not give up achieve what they want!

I know perfectly well that there are difficult circumstances when you just have to survive, endure a lack of opportunities, an inappropriate environment, from which it is difficult to get out and it is difficult to spread your wings and convince yourself that finding happiness is real. And this is where psychology comes to the rescue, offering practical methods of overcoming difficulties, increasing one's potential, developing abilities, achieving goals in any conditions.

2. A psychologist is useless, and psychology is complete nonsense that does not help!

Usually, those who have not tried to use psychological knowledge or have done it incorrectly and inconsistently say so. Psychology is not magic, and a psychologist is not a magician, here, as in sports, methodology, constancy and gradualness are important.

For example, if you only work with a positive mindset, without taking other steps towards achieving the goal, then little will change. Or if you think positively, actively get acquainted, but do not correct the mistakes of behavior that block your opportunities, then there will be no result. Or to apply knowledge for a couple of days, and then say, no, this is nonsense, it means not to understand that everything needs time to develop and it is necessary to put in efforts for some time.

The psychologist will be really useless for you if you think that he will wave a magic wand and you will get married.

Psychologist's action plan how to get married

I want to bring the plan to implementation, which we somehow drew up with one of my clients, who for a long time had not been able to meet her beloved and get married.

1) Create the right mindset and develop your own action program to attract the desired partner. Material for work: → Master class "Methods of attraction that helped me to attract a loved one into my life."
2) Test your mistakes in the past and correct them. Material for work: → Training “7 Mistakes that prevent you from getting married. A quick test of problem areas. Correct, check, get married. "
3) Choose the right candidates and test them for "suitability" in the first hours of acquaintance. Material for work: → Training "What does a man need to make him want to marry you."
4) Learn to communicate and behave correctly with the opposite sex. Our manner of communication and behavior can consolidate the feelings that have arisen and develop the relationship further, or, on the contrary, force the partner to close. Material for work: → Training "How to communicate with a man, 5 secret buttons that every woman should know."

By the way, I went through this plan myself and very successfully. Consistent use of the above materials really helps.

I recently received a letter from a client of mine who went through this plan.

On the other hand, in my club Samprosvet, there are participants who, for the second year already, have not been able to go through one training program and deal with their situation. We talk nicely at consultations and online classes, there is an understanding of what is happening, just no real business. There are always excuses: I'll start on Monday, I’m not in the mood, it’s hard to try new things, I’m working, I’m tired, there’s no time, and so on.

To know a little, it is necessary to apply in practice, every day to move in small steps towards the goal. Sometimes there are periods of laziness and stagnation, I myself have to deal with this when I don’t want to write articles, reply to letters, play sports, learn new things. But then you overcome laziness and feel better.

3. There are simply more women than men, someone should be left without a pair

Expand your search area

I agree that there are regions where, according to statistics, there are more women of a certain age than the stronger sex. But let's try to go beyond the boundaries of our region, city, region and look at the whole world. If you live in a place where there is a shortage of cavaliers, why not expand your search area?

Don't sit back, passively expecting to be noticed and chosen. Make yourself visible to as many candidates as possible, give them a chance to notice you. Use dating sites, dating agencies, ask your friends to introduce you to new people.

The power of a smile

So one of my clients met her future husband at the airport. I gave her the task to smile at young people and if a conversation arises, say that I saw them in a dream today ...

A pleasant stranger was waiting for the plane in the opposite direction and sat in her line of sight. Starting to look at him and smile when their gazes met, she did not expect that this handsome guy would come up to her and ask: - "Do we know you?"

The prepared phrase about the dream came in handy. A conversation ensued and new acquaintances exchanged phone numbers, boarded different planes, and endless communication in wats'up began, then frequent meetings and, as a result, a wedding.

Later, my client told him that she did not see him in a dream, but did as the psychologist advised her. Since then, her chosen one sends me greetings. In fact, the future husband also immediately drew attention to her, only he did not dare to approach and meet, but her smile gave him courage.

4. It is foolish to hope that one day the right person will appear, if this has not happened for many years

If you are convinced that there is no person in the whole world who would suit you and could love you, you will never meet anyone.

I have an acquaintance, a successful and quite attractive gentleman who, after a divorce, has been without a couple for a long time. Girlfriends appear, but then disappear somewhere. From time to time he calls me and asks me to introduce him to someone, adding at the same time: - "although a person who is probably suitable for me simply does not exist." In principle, he does nothing to change the situation, he is afraid to take risks and make efforts. And there are many such people.

Having experienced pain and disappointment, we are often afraid of getting burned, we do not want to take risks. To avoid new relationships, we overestimate the requirements for a partner and block new acquaintances with passivity and arrogance. It's easier to give excuses for your loneliness: there is no suitable partner and that's it.

And finally, the answer to the question: do psychologists help to get married. From my practice, I realized that the main thing is a strong desire to change my reality. No psychologist will help if you do not take concrete steps to improve the situation. Psychology is just a convenient tool for achieving results. But this tool needs your desire and will.

Good luck and see you soon on the pages of the Samprosvetbulletin!

Beautiful, stately, intelligent, refined taste. Cleanliness and comfort in the house. Multiple foreign languages as a bonus, and one? Is this why not all women can get married and start a family?

Loneliness, and there are no marriage proposals, but I really want a family and children! ? I will not delve into the negative influences from envious girlfriends and ill-wishers. These factors of loneliness are certainly present in our life, but not in such an amount as the ladies are supposed to summarize.

What reasons lead a woman to loneliness?

The first reason- clearly expressed and written in large letters on the forehead: "I want to get married!" Men are very sensitive to such vibrations. The subconscious task of a polygamous man is to preserve freedom and at the same time continue his race. He is a hunter! And if the doe does not hide from his arrow and does not run away, but rests his forehead against the tip, then the hunter himself will throw the bow and accelerate in the opposite direction. This behavior of men is familiar. If, upon acquaintance or after several introductory dates, a woman begins to actively "push through" plans for the future, and in relation to her, in particular, then it is unlikely that something will work out. An insistent invitation to visit and a clear demonstration of a cozy trap also does not contribute to marriage. The second reason- willingness to appear on demand. A woman's obedience and consent to the wishes of a man is very useful. But it was only after Mendelssohn's march that it was very dosed. He may not call for a week. Dropping calls ladies and not answering SMS. He lives his own life. On weekends, football and beer in a men's company may not contact, or (even worse) an inaccessible “doe” eluded the “hunter”, and out of boredom or resentment, he will dial the number of an always-ready woman who will answer with consent. Or it will come running and open its doors and invite you to the set table. And he will relax, relieve stress and disappear again for an indefinite time. Why marry if there is a woman who is as comfortable as a toothpick and always ready for anything. And most importantly, she does not ask questions, but only tensely waits to be appreciated: how necessary it is ... at the alternate airfield. Third reason- self-sufficiency and strength of a woman's personality. The lady can do everything herself. She has a career or a business. Cool car and phrases like rubber balls from pneumatic weapons: they don't kill, but they leave bruises. As a reminder that a man should not have his own opinion by definition. This woman will not pay attention to the fact that there have been no calls and messages for a week - however, if they are available, she does not have time to twitter on abstract topics. She is oppressed by loneliness during the long Christmas holidays or a couple of times a year visiting a married friend. She has no family, and purely for social reasons, she voices "I want to get married." Such a lady can offer a question for analysis: "Why do you need this fuss and troubles?" The fourth reason for loneliness- availability and agreement with the desires of a man, can drop the option of marriage to the Canadian border. Acquaintance at a disco, club or company of mutual acquaintances. The man is charmed and attentive. A spark ran! Lightning flashed! Attraction has arisen - it's lovely. But not a reason for maximum close contact in the rooms, bedroom or car. The desire for instant action is not conducive to the exchange of engagement rings. After 30 minutes, the man remembers that "in grief and joy, until death do you part," he sees a pure and modest virgin. In the best case, and with upbringing, he will ask for a phone number. But he is unlikely to continue acquaintance in a different format.

Don't make yourself an idol in the person of a fictitious prince

Fifth reason- idealization of the image. A woman creates in her dreams a heroic mix of the best male qualities. And, of course, a simple guy cannot fit into these demands of intelligence and beauty, financial prosperity and an athletic physique. A woman does not hear the voice of her heart, but tries to drown it with reasonable arguments of a cold reason. She criticizes the naive choice of her friends and sums up: “I would never marry such a man!”. Years pass, and the heroic image is covered with dust, the created idol, the invented prince on a white horse never finds the lonely princess. The family may also be to blame for this perception, it is believed, where the girl was instilled with narcissism from early childhood - she is the best and deserves the best. These causes of loneliness are rarely found in pure form in life. As a rule, they are mixed with each other in different proportions. But a sober look at oneself and self-correction of some character traits will make it possible not to program fate for loneliness, but simply to become a happy wife and mother!

Numerology- an ancient mystical science that studies the energy of numbers and its influence on human life. Anyone who is interested in this knowledge can conduct fortune-telling by the date of birth for the future, adding up the numbers that form the date. So you can find out about your destiny, about love compatibility, about the marriage prepared for you and the number of children.

All calculations are very simple, even a first grader can handle them.

Calculating the number of destiny

To start mastering the principles of numerology, let's carry out a simple fortune-telling by date of birth and year of birth, which will show the number of your destiny. Let's consider this calculation in detail using a conditional example.

“Let's say you were born on October 30, 1990. Write your date of birth in a similar format: 10/30/1990 Now add up all the numbers you see. 3 + 0 + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 0 = 23. If you get a two-digit number, keep adding the visible numbers until you get a result from 1 to 9. In the example, 2 + 3 = 5. "

It is your destiny number that defines the foundation of your personality. Other numbers present in the date of your birth describe character traits that are less pronounced.

In our example, these are numbers 1,3,9, and 2. The qualities inherent in numbers that are not in the calculation are not inherent in you from birth, they can only be acquired for a long time and hard working on yourself.

Destiny number meanings

1. The number of bright individuals. You are a born leader and know how to lead people. Easily become the life of the party and win sympathy. The higher powers have allowed you to pass a lot of energy through yourself, take good care of this gift. Without understanding that all people on earth are equal and deserve love, it is easy to catch “star fever” and start pushing people away with overestimated self-esteem.

2. The number of people with a gentle disposition. You do not like conflicts, preferring to give in in disputes, adjust to the interlocutor. Family and friends appreciate you, and you are always happy to come to their aid, but selfish people can easily use you for their own purposes. You rarely change something in your life, more often you adapt to circumstances that do not suit you. You are attracted to spirituality and love children.

3. The number of optimists. In everything you see primarily the positive side. You have a lot of energy that you use to improve your destiny and help those around you. You prefer to take responsibility and be an activist in every area of your life.

5. The number of experimenters. Your creative nature immediately sets you apart from the series of banal people living only by work and family. You love traveling, learning new things, experimenting with looks and clothes. Everything you take on will go well in your hands quickly and easily. However, you easily get discouraged when, for whatever reason, your life becomes commonplace. Only a new undertaking can return you to your usual state.

6. The number of choleric people. It is in your nature to be defiant and prone to tantrums. Remember that everything that the higher powers endow us with, they do with some purpose, a secret for people. Live in peace with your character, accept and love yourself for who you are. The people who are intended for you will be there for you, if you lost someone because of your character, then it was destined to be so.

7. The number of philosophers. You love to reflect on how life works. It will be easy for you to realize yourself in any work related to mental work. However, you can find it difficult to deal with people, as your mind outweighs your feelings. Read books on psychology to better understand those around you and to make contact with them easier.

8. The number of singles. You tend to be introverted, withdrawn, and cold. There is a need in you to create your own small world, subordinate only to you. However, deep down, you need warmth and support from other people. You are destined to find some good friends with whom you will be comfortable, but an active social life is not for you.

9. The number of leaders. You were born to rule over other people. You are hardworking and love to be an organizer, you look to the future and confidently go towards your goals, achieving success in any business. When you have the right to judge other people, you tend to be objective and impartial, the principle of "to everyone according to his deserts."

Relation-based

Having mastered the method of calculating the number of fate, you can conduct fortune-telling for compatibility by date of birth. To do this, under a plausible pretext, find out the date of birth of your chosen one, the exact year is especially important, because it happens that young men add years to themselves, and girls become younger. Knowing both dates of birth, you can calculate compatibility for a couple. Let's look at this again with an example.

“Let's say that a girl with a date of birth on 10/30/1990 met a guy with a date of birth on 7/19/1996. Add the numbers from both dates together: 3 + 0 + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 0 + 7 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 6 = 65 From the result you need to subtract the number 22 until you get the value from 1 to 22. In the example it will be like this: 65-22 = 43, 43-22 = 21. "

Favorable numbers for a serious relationship are 2, 3, 5, 6, 10, 14, 17, 19, 21. It might be worth breaking up with your partner if you got it 9, 12, 13, 15, 16, 18 and 22. Future pairs with numbers 1, 4, 7, 8, 11, 14, 22 are completely in your hands.

Interpretation

1. Love is war. Partners will always compete because everyone wants to be the leader in the relationship. It is very difficult for such a couple to find harmony.

2. The perfect couple. You fit together like two halves of one whole. Such couples often live to see their golden weddings, retaining love and affection over the years.

3. Ideal lovers. You are a good match for each other in bed, and your union is based on romance.

4. Relationships are unstable and can fall apart due to the influence of outsiders. However, they can also lead to the creation of a family - everything is in your hands. Listen to your partner, respect him, look for more interests in order to keep the union.

5. Patriarchy. Relationships are similar to those described in "Domostroy". Constant jealousy on the part of a man, a desire to take control. Frequent scandals. Decide, do you need it?

6. Misalliance. Partners are not alike. Sometimes this can be seen externally - a man or woman is several decades older. But more often it is a union of people who have completely different ideas about life. People say about such pairs “opposites attract”. The karmic goal of this connection is the mutual development of two souls, teaching a different point of view, gaining new experience.

7. Strong family. This relationship is built on mutual understanding and respect. But there is a danger of the loss of love, at first a strong feeling will turn into a habit over the years, the marriage will be based on children and common life. Unfortunately, many people live like this.

8. Companions. Such an alliance rests on the common hobbies of a man and a woman. They may be colleagues, or love travel, or meet at a stamp collecting club meeting. Partners support each other, and both strive to develop in their occupation.

9. Partners. Unfortunately, the love in this couple will be short-lived. But a common cause can unite you as friends for years to come.

10. Individuals. This union will not work out to the end. At the energetic level, man and woman will not merge into a single whole, each will remain with their goals and objectives. In the eyes of a secular society, such a family will be complete, but many, subconsciously feeling karmic incompatibility, continue to look for a partner for themselves, which leads to betrayal.

11. Fragile relationships. You and your partner fit together and over time you can start a family. However, such a marriage is unstable to external circumstances and can easily fall apart due to damage to relationships or everyday problems. Knowing this, be tolerant of your spouse, choose dialogue instead of quarreling.

12. Union of egoists. Both partners are not inclined to give in to each other and compromise even in small things. Typically, this relationship does not last long.

13. The need for sacrifice. These couples are connected by true love, but sooner or later a moment arises when one of the partners must sacrifice something important for the sake of preserving the union. For example, a man will work 12 hours a day so that there is enough money for children, or a woman will be forced to move to her husband's city, leaving her parents and friends.

14. Unfavorable number. The couple will break up soon.

15. Stormy passions. A couple are waiting for heated quarrels and reconciliation, how long it will last depends on the patience of both. Lie. One of the partners is hiding something. These can be children from a previous marriage, infidelity, facts about their past. Insincerity leaves a crack in the energy field of the couple, so the union can be easily destroyed by outside influence. But it is better not to develop this relationship at the very beginning.

16. Affair. One partner doesn't take the other seriously. Even if it comes to marriage, it will soon fall apart. But such couples are well compatible in bed.

17. Loneliness. Couples are unable to complement each other in order to become one. Everyone notices that something is missing in the relationship, and people soon disperse.

18. Matriarchy. In a relationship, the main woman, it is she who makes all the main decisions, and the future of the union depends on her desire. With excessive pressure, a man either becomes henpecked, or begins to lead a double life, releasing his personality outside the family hearth.

19. Movement. Partners will push each other to develop and explore the world together. The future of the relationship is completely in their hands.

20. Family nest. Delicate and long-term relationship. In such marriages, many children are born, and the spouses remain together until old age.

21. Exam. A couple will face many difficulties at the stage of acquaintance and grinding to each other. But partners will overcome all conflicts and external circumstances, the marriage will be strong and long.

22. Unpredictability. This couple will be tested by fate all the time. If your partner is truly dear to you, prepare for life like a powder keg.

When I get married?

Surely, after the previous fortune-telling, this question interested you. And again, numerology will help. We will conduct a fortune-telling for marriage by date of birth. Your Destiny Number will be useful again. Find it in the list below and see which numbers of the year correspond to it.

The number of the year is calculated simply, for example 2017 = 2 + 0 + 1 + 7 = 10 = 1. Find 1 in the right half of the list above. This means that women with fate numbers 1,2,4,6,7,8 can get married this year.

Here are the numbers calculated for the next ten years.

2017 = 1
2018 = 2
2019 = 3
2020 = 4
2021 = 5
2022 = 6
2023 = 7
2024 = 8
2025 = 9
2026 = 1

That is, a woman with a destiny number of 5 is most likely to get married in 2017 or 2021. Compare the lists, find favorable years for yourself, but remember that everything is in your hands. You will not be sent an invitation to your own wedding if you sit within four walls and do not meet men.

How many children will there be?

And numerology knows the answer to this question. Divination by date of birth for future motherhood is very simple. Count all your brothers and sisters, both siblings and step-by-step, and even adopted. Add their number to your destiny number.

“Let's say a girl with a destiny number of 5 has a paternal half-brother and an adoptive sister. Then 5 + 2 = 7. If you come up with more than 10, add the numbers again. "

Find the number you get in the list:

1. As much as you can save. If you wish, you can even become a mother of many children, but trials await you during pregnancy and in the first years of a baby's life. Therefore, if you want many children, you should take care of your health now.

2. One child. Don't be discouraged if you want more. In this case, you will have to show the higher powers that you will be a good mother - choose a worthy man, solve material issues in the family, raise your first child in love and care.

3. As much as you want, but not right away. Perhaps you will have a long search for a suitable father, or the need for treatment, or other circumstances will prevent you from having children. All trials are sent for the good, for your development, you will definitely become a mother when you come to this.

4. Two, a boy and a girl. Ideal, right?

5. Great chance of having twins. Or you will have at least two children, of either gender.

6. Several children from different fathers. Try to grow them with the same amount of warmth and attention to each.

7. Having children is not your priority. You will become childfree or give birth to one late child. This is your path and no one has the right to condemn you, everyone has their own karma. If you want to change your destiny, read about the number 2.

8. You are destined to become a foster mother. You can have as many children of your own as you want, your duty is to give warmth not only to your baby. This does not have to be embodied by adoption, you can, for example, become a second mother for your nephews, or choose a child-related job - a teacher, nanny, instructor of the playground.

9. Two children of either gender.

Conclusion

Remember that numerology is telling you about destiny before birth. But our destiny is half made up of what we have been given, and half of our conscious actions performed day by day.

Human life is not spelled out like a book, from the title to the epilogue. The fate intended for you before birth is a plan for a future masterpiece, a script, a list of chapters, to which the Creator easily makes adjustments as it is written. It all depends on what you do.

Fortune telling by date of birth: find out how your fate will turn out

All calculations are very simple, even a first grader can handle them.

Calculating the number of destiny

Let's say you were born on October 30, 1990. Write your date of birth in a similar format: 10/30/1990.
Now add up all the numbers you see. 3 + 0 + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 0 = 23.

If you get a two-digit number, keep adding the visible numbers until you get a result between 1 and 9. In the example, 2 + 3 = 5.

It is your destiny number that defines the foundation of your personality. Other numbers present in the date of your birth describe character traits that are less pronounced.

Destiny number meanings

4. The number of rebels. Your mission is to break what does not lead to good and good, to rid other people of the unnecessary and obsolete. To be a “revolutionary” in life is your essence, and no one has the right to reproach you for it. If you feel that your intervention will help in a situation, do not hesitate, get down to business. But remember about self-control, such a gift can develop into a desire to contradict any rules.

5. The number of experimenters. Your creative nature immediately sets you apart from the series of banal people living only by work and family. You love traveling, learning new things, experimenting with looks and clothes. Everything you take on will go well in your hands quickly and easily. However, you easily get discouraged when, for whatever reason, your life becomes commonplace. Only a new undertaking can return you to your usual state.

Relation-based

Let's say that girl with a date of birth on 10/30/1990 met a guy with a date of birth on 7/19/1996. Add the numbers from both dates together: 3 + 0 + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 0 + 7 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 6 = 65

Interpretation

1. Love is war. Partners will always compete because everyone wants to be the leader in the relationship. It is very difficult for such a couple to find harmony.

2. The perfect couple. You fit together like two halves of one whole. Such couples often live to see their golden weddings, retaining love and affection over the years.

3. Ideal lovers. You are a good match for each other in bed, and your union is based on romance.

4. Relationships are unstable and can disintegrate due to the influence of outsiders. However, they can also lead to the creation of a family - everything is in your hands. Listen to your partner, respect him, look for more interests in order to keep the union.

5. Patriarchy. Relationships are similar to those described in "Domostroy". Constant jealousy on the part of a man, a desire to take control. Frequent scandals. Decide, do you need it?

9. Partners... Unfortunately, the love in this couple will be short-lived. But a common cause can unite you as friends for years to come.

12. Union of egoists. Both partners are not inclined to give in to each other and compromise even in small things. Typically, this relationship does not last long.

13. The need for sacrifice. These couples are connected by true love, but sooner or later a moment arises when one of the partners must sacrifice something important for the sake of preserving the union. For example, a man will work 12 hours a day so that there is enough money for the children, or a woman will be forced to move to her husband's city, leaving her parents and friends.

14. Unfavorable number. The couple will break up soon.

15. Stormy passions. A couple are waiting for heated quarrels and reconciliation, how long it will last depends on the patience of both. One of the partners is hiding something. These can be children from a previous marriage, infidelity, facts about their past. Insincerity leaves a crack in the energy field of the couple, so the union can be easily destroyed by outside influence. But it is better not to develop this relationship at the very beginning.

16. Affair. One partner doesn't take the other seriously. Even if it comes to marriage, it will soon fall apart. But such couples are well compatible in bed.

17. Loneliness. Couples are unable to complement each other in order to become one. Everyone notices that something is missing in the relationship, and people soon disperse.

19. Movement. Partners will push each other to develop and explore the world together. The future of the relationship is completely in their hands.

20. Family nest. Delicate and long-term relationship. In such marriages, many children are born, and the spouses remain together until old age.

22. Unpredictability. This couple will be tested by fate all the time. If your partner is truly dear to you, prepare for life like a powder keg.

When I get married?

Surely, after the previous fortune-telling, this question interested you. And again, numerology will help. We will conduct a fortune-telling for marriage by date of birth.

Your Destiny Number will be useful again. Find it in the list below and see which numbers of the year correspond to it.

1. 1,4,5,7
2. 1,5,6,8
3. 3,6,7,9
4. 1,4,7,8
5. 2,5,7,9
6. 1,3,6,9
7. 1,2,4,8
8. 1,2,6,8
9. 2,3,6,7

Here are the numbers calculated for the next ten years.

2017 = 1
2018 = 2
2019 = 3
2020 = 4
2021 = 5
2022 = 6
2023 = 7
2024 = 8
2025 = 9
2026 = 1

That is, a woman with a destiny number of 5 is most likely to get married in 2017 or 2021. Compare the lists, find favorable years for yourself, but remember that everything is in your hands.

You will not be sent an invitation to your own wedding if you sit within four walls and do not meet men ...

How many children will there be?

Let's say a girl with a destiny number of 5 has a paternal half-brother and an adoptive sister. Then 5 + 2 = 7. If you come up with more than 10, add the numbers again.

Find the number you get in the list:

1. as much as you can save. If you wish, you can even become a mother of many children, but trials await you during pregnancy and in the first years of a baby's life. Therefore, if you want many children, you should take care of your health now.
2. one child. Don't be discouraged if you want more. In this case, you will have to show the higher powers that you will be a good mother - choose a worthy man, solve material issues in the family, raise your first child in love and care.
3. as much as you want, but not right away. Perhaps you will have a long search for a suitable father, or the need for treatment, or other circumstances will prevent you from having children. All trials are sent for the good, for your development, you will definitely become a mother when you come to this.
4. two, a boy and a girl. Ideal, right?
5. great chance of having twins. Or you will have at least two children, of either gender.
6. several children from different fathers. Try to grow them with the same amount of warmth and attention to each.
7. having children is not your priority. You will become childfree or give birth to one late child. This is your path and no one has the right to condemn you, everyone has their own karma. If you want to change your destiny, read about the number 2.
8. you are destined to become a foster mother. You can have as many children of your own as you want, your duty is to give warmth not only to your baby. This does not have to be embodied by adoption, you can, for example, become a second mother for your nephews, or choose a child-related job - a teacher, nanny, instructor of the playground.
9. two children of either gender.

Conclusion

- Remember that numerology tells you about destiny, destined even before birth. But our destiny is half made up of what we have been given, and half of our conscious actions performed day by day.

- Human life is not spelled out as a book, from the title to the epilogue. The fate intended for you before birth is a plan for a future masterpiece, a script, a list of chapters, to which the Creator easily makes adjustments as it is written. It all depends on what you do.