What to do if a girl turned off. How to discourage an annoying fan in an honest way and what tactics to use if she does not understand well
turn on the fool
lie to the rescue
intimate talk
last resort to ignore
harbor illusions
I am problematic
let's be friends
through the bed
Bonus: 5 tips on how to refuse a girl in any situation
do not take hints
press on pity
say and do not
suggest an alternative
find an argument against
Selection of a dating site
We corresponded, met, and what was really was at odds with what was desired. The gorgeous blonde turned out to be a gray mouse with zero breast size. True, it was only you who "broke up". She fell head over heels in love. Oh yes. There was also sex, and she, pulling the sleeve of her blouse and looking down, froze in anticipation of the proposal. Let's talk about how beautiful it is to sew a girl off in this and not only awkward situation.
How to sew a girl off environmentally: every man has the right to refuse
Denied a girl in love or sex - at the very least, he offended her pride. Historically, the right to agree or reject is a woman's. And when she, a woman, becomes an active side, she has to cross not only through traditions. Reputation and honor are at stake.
The received refusal, an unbridled predator, turns her into a naive girl, whose virginity has just been abused. In light of this, the task of refusing a girl and not offending is almost impossible. But if you have decided for yourself that you don’t like, don’t need, and don’t want, it means you don’t have to and don’t have to (and henceforth, be picky, flirting on which you can familiarize yourself with the link).
Decided - refuse. How to politely sew a girl off, I will tell you. Remember the international ethical principle - "treat people the way you want them to treat you" ("do not do to others what you do not want yourself"). Don’t tell the girl that you don’t need fatties. Count it up, if they charge you in the forehead - "you have a little one." Psychotrauma. In general, chopping the truth off the shoulder is not a good idea. Turn on the bastard in the hope that the young lady will self-destruct - too. Yeah, no matter how it is. Will start more. “It's not interesting to love a good person,” Dovlatov wrote.
Turn on the fool
If you include anyone, then a fool. Speak nonsense to all her movements in the blue eye. She invites her to her - tell me, you need to help your mother to put things in order in the closet, an elderly woman after all, but once she could have stopped a galloping horse, not like now, completely helpless. Invites you for a walk - say that walks are cool, that you like to walk with friends in the park and you regret that you spend little time with them. We ought to meet more often, but it is better not to part. On some fifth sentence, the girl will come off. Unpretentious. Maybe twirl a finger at his temple.
Lie to the rescue
Or as in Transmetropolitan - "Married, not hungry, infected with seven unknown diseases, lesbian, pregnant with lizards and clinically dead." Say a mortgage or two. Alimony for three children. In love with another. Or another. Therefore, you drink deeply. And if it is, then only fat women (Asian women, older women). Better to be seen as an eccentric than to offend or give in vain hope. Lying is one of the best ways to kick a girl off without hurting her.
Intimate talk
Enough eggs - you can clearly and to the point. “I don’t like it, I don’t want it, I won’t. Thank you, orevoir! " Possible side effects (often) are drooling, tears, and snot. Potential complications (rare) are blackmail and threats. So the girls say - “Chop off the shoulder. Don't torture us. " Her end of the world will end in three days. And, remember, yes, a heart-to-heart conversation is not a conversation about her small breasts.
Last resort to ignore
If he does not understand the hints, he is not afraid of a mortgage, in response to your “I don’t like, I don’t want to” he puts forward the reinforced concrete “endure, fall in love” - ready to attack and besiege in spite of everything - turn on the ignore. Disappear and dissolve. Don't answer and don't pick up. The excitement will pass, and the active domina will switch to the next one. In principle, Ignore is a humane and effective initiative. By turning on the ignore, you give the girl the opportunity to cool down, think, think out and formulate everything conveniently for herself.
How not to refuse a girl: forbidden and ineffective techniques
Now let's talk about how to refuse a girl to meet and remain in history as an asshole, a scoundrel or a man without balls. There are many such ways. Take, for example, this trick of sending a pen-girl off. First, he will read between the lines and understand not what you wrote, my friend Onegin. Secondly, there will be an aftertaste - "well, baba." And the material proof of this is the snotty letter. Convenient, of course, but are you a man, anyway?
Nourish illusions
Stop flirting. Leave all these long looks, ambiguous conversations and casual touches for the beloved, not unrequited girl in love. Make every effort to create a lasting sense of confidence - there can be no relationship. She will diligently nurture the most feeble sprout of hope. To sew a girl off, phrases with the right words can be chosen with the most meager IQ.
I am problematic
Sometimes guys try to kick a girl off by scaring her. “I am not worthy of you - a scoundrel and a cattle”, “You cannot even imagine what a terrible person I am”, “I have a lot of problems now - mortgage, alimony”. Believe me, there are no such flaws that a woman in love could not accept. There are no difficulties that a woman in love would not be ready to endure. Evaluate the girls in love adequately - ready for anything. Through fire and water.
Let's be friends
“Let's stay friends” is not an option either. Do not even hesitate - it will become your best friend. Will surround you with care and tenderness. Will lend a helping hand in difficult times and not only. Will regularly offer friendly sex, friendly shopping and an equally friendly weekend with parents. In general, your offer to be friends will be accepted and used against you.
Through the bed
It's nice, of course, when sex is just a stone's throw away. And it’s a pity to miss this opportunity. But we have to. Resist this insidious thought - you can do it just once. It is forbidden. You can’t sleep with those you’re going to turn off. This is your sex without obligation. It will be filled with obligations for ten years in advance. Even in our emancipated time, sex for a woman is more than for health. And exceptions are rare.
It is possible not only in matters of relationships and sex. You have every right to refuse a girl to buy a fur coat or not bring a fifth mug of coffee. But it is worth understanding the following. Asking to make coffee, fix the car and buy tampons a woman is forced by deep instincts. You are an active male who must carry food and demonstrate abilities in every other way. She is a waiting and receiving female, testing you for strength.
That is why she turns to you with requests of different sanity ("Out of pads - do something!"). And just try to say no. At best, you will have to listen to the story that you do not love her. The option of going to another, more adventurous male is not excluded. And why say "no" when you can sew a girl competently in any situation.
Don't take hints
Often, young ladies present their requests in the form of thick hints. "Oh, what a lovely Birkin handbag!" Agree that the purse is really adorable (the coat is luxurious, and the Maldives is a great resort). Nobody asks to buy, right? Why not agree.
Press on pity
Never forget that girls are compassionate and compassionate creatures. Just say that you are ready to fulfill her request, but you really, really do not want to do it. “Honey, of course, we'll go to your mother's. Well, her, this bath. Although, of course, I wanted so badly ... I even dreamed today how I was worried, relaxed, getting rid of the load that had accumulated over the week ... No, well, what are you, these are not tears. "
Say and do not
Sometimes you can turn on the "sclerosis" option - promise and not do it. "Of course, I will fix it," "Of course, I will buy it." After all, we are all sometimes forgetful and distracted. The main thing is not to abuse it.
Suggest an alternative
A sentence beginning with “Maybe better…” (“How do you look at…”) can replace “no” in almost any situation. “Out of apples. Go buy it. " "Darling, maybe I'll make you coffee and download a new episode of your favorite TV series"? Think about the content of the counter offer - so that the alternative does not turn out to be a hemorrhoid. Suddenly he will agree.
Find an argument against
You, of course, would buy her a mink coat, but natural fur has a bad effect on the immune system and causes dermatitis. And, just imagine, formaldehyde and formalin are used in production - carcinogens! No, you do not intend to ruin her health with your own hands. In any situation, you can find a powerful argument against.
Sewing a girl who rolls up and leaving a pleasant impression after herself is from the category of fantasy. But at least try. The purer karma, the easier it is to live.
Greetings, dear readers! Everything in life does not always turn out the way we would like it to. We fall in love with the wrong people and the wrong people fall in love with us. Almost every person had to deny a person at least once in his life, to be the initiator of parting. Today I want to talk to you about how to kick a girl off. After all, not every guy succeeds in doing it correctly and beautifully.
What are you ready to go for?
In this article I will talk about those cases when a girl is too annoying, does not understand direct refusals, pesters her with her attention and no other methods work with her anymore. In addition, we will talk about how culturally and delicately refuse a young lady in a crowded place, when you just came to have fun with friends in a club, and an annoying person is not behind you.
Straightness
The first step is to try to be honest and honest. Directly, without evasions, hints. Honesty and openness helps you dot the i's without offending the young lady.
Therefore, you can try to directly say why you do not want to be with her, that you do not need a relationship, that you are not ready now, that you are not suitable for each other, that you have other plans for life, and so on.
This approach shows respect for the girl. That you are not a complete brute, but you also think about her feelings, you treat her honestly and politely. But what to do when she does not understand your words, she still tries to impose on you and in every possible way gets it?
Change tactics
If the young lady is unaware that you do not want to communicate with her and she continues to attack you, then you can resort to a dangerous and dishonest, but quite effective method. Change in her eyes. There are two options: become a mumble or become a monster.
The first option is a mumbler. A woman wants to see a strong, experienced, courageous and so on. What kind of girl wants to be around the bastards and? That's right, none.
Therefore, here you need to start constantly complaining about life with her, saying how everyone is unfair to you, that you are the most unhappy, poor and offended. You need to show with all your appearance that you are weak and defenseless. Do not respond to barbs addressed to you, shy away, guiltily lower your eyes to the floor.
You can also ask your friends to play along with you. For example, you are with a girl in a cafe. A friend of yours, whom the girl has never seen, comes up to you and begins to mock you a little. And you sit and do nothing. Let her see in you that very rag and mumbled, with which she definitely does not want to meet again.
The second option is a monster. Here we see a completely different picture. You're going to have to get a little rougher. Start swearing loudly in front of her, chomping and grunting while eating, laughing vulgarly, and so on. Just don't go overboard and cross. You just need to show that you are not who she imagines you to be.
Remember that the girl communicates with other people. She will surely share her impressions of you. Therefore, if you have mutual acquaintances, or you work in the same team, or study together, then this option may not be suitable for you.
Intrusiveness. Girls treat men badly who impose their own communication. Therefore, you can start getting it by phone or by correspondence, constantly talking about yourself and your affairs, and this must be done in a monotonous, boring, monotonous and very long time. And if she interrupts or does not listen, then you definitely need to take offense at her.
Ignore. The other side of intrusiveness is simply to stop communicating with her. Not answering the phone, not writing anything back, trying to avoid meeting her. You can put it on the black list so as not to strain every time the phone rings.
I have an example of a guy who left for another city, just not to see one overly annoying person in love, since no other methods helped.
Kill all her initiative. Most girls are used to the fact that this guy has to be persistent, to achieve it and in every possible way for it. Don't do it at all. And turn all her attempts to the other side. What does it mean?
For example, she called you to a restaurant. And you offer your place and just tell her the address. Let her be surprised when she comes and sees the sports bar, you and friends, beer and garlic snacks.
First meeting
How to gently show a girl that you do not want to communicate with her in a club, restaurant or cafe? As I said above, the first option is to say bluntly that you are not interested in dating.
If you are not so straightforward, then you can use the "boring interlocutor" tactic. The woman who decides to approach you first expects you to take the next step yourself. Therefore, answer her questions sparingly and sadly, the answers should be monosyllabic, do not keep the conversation going and do not ask questions yourself. She will quickly get tired of such a conversation and she will leave.
Another option is to say that your heart is no longer free. Tell her that she is cute and attractive, but you have already found your one and only, so you cannot continue your communication.
Never forget about respect for a person. Do not be rude, do not be rude, do not insult and do not become personal. Even in this situation, you must remain a gentleman.
In any case, try to talk to her normally and honestly first. If this does not work, then you can already move on to other techniques.
How have you tried to explain to the girl that you cannot be together? Why didn't it work? Do young ladies often pester you with their attention?
Be polite and delicate.
Good luck!
I was genuinely surprised to find out that a lot of guys think this is a real problem. It would seem that it is difficult to send a girl off ?!
It turned out that often guys just do not have enough understanding of the mechanism of the appearance and disappearance of female attraction. After all, when you understand how a girl falls in love and loses interest, you have not only a choice, but also the ability to decide who you might like and who might not. 
Perhaps it's time to share with you a few thoughts and ways of how you can to sew a girl off in an environmentally friendly manner and as painlessly as possible.
Think about yourself!
Or rather, about their goals.
In this article, you will learn the ways that can show you not your best side. And often these methods are really effective - using them, you lose your male attractiveness, and the girl "lags behind" you.
However, remember that you need to think several times before using such methods... After all, if in one team (one is the one that you want to get rid of, the second is the one that you want to make yours), then having lost attractiveness in the eyes of one, you will automatically lose it in the eyes of the other. Because your behavior will be extremely unattractive.
Look into the future
When she begins to subtly take the initiative again, you can use this method. Its essence lies in the fact that you draw scary pictures of your joint future in her head.
For example, like this:
« You see, the biggest mistake people can make is to start dating people who don't suit them at all. And even if one of them believes that the relationship has a future, then there is still no future. There will be only continuous disappointment, quarrels, lack of harmony and constant thoughts that we could be happy with other people».
If she is smart, then she will understand everything.
If she is too proud and afraid of public opinion, she will say something in the style: “ What makes you think that I want something from you?". This is good for you, because after such words, she will never take the initiative again.
This method will not harm your reputation in any way.
Play the role of "nice guy"
Girls don't like nice guys - it's a proven fact. And if your behavior has already attracted her attention, then becoming a "nice guy", you can instantly fix the situation.
How should you behave in order to demonstrate a new image?
- Be too polite and gentle.
- Before her eyes, yield to other guys in arguments and in competition for the delights of this life.
- Take offense at some stupidity in her behavior and walk with an offended face all day, deliberately ignoring her.
- Allow yourself to be joked and smile stupidly if you are humiliated as a joke.
- Reason out loud (you can right in the team) about how you need to love women and forgive them for whims, not showing up for a date, giving gifts, and so on.
- Play a dialogue with a mutual acquaintance (so that she can hear him), as if one girl did not pick up the phone, and then you "hysterically" expressed a complaint to her, like an offended boy: "Well, why don't you pick up the phone?" In this dialogue, complain about women like: “ You drive them to restaurants, you give gifts, but it's hard for her even to pick up».
The process can be greatly accelerated if you ask your friend to play one scene with you. At this moment, your friend should actively dominate you, joke and "lead" this conversation in the direction he needs. And you should be silent, smile at his jokes, lower your eyes, be shy, and so on.
If you want to know how to send a girl off in the case of a "late" stage of the relationship (when you have already started talking and dating), then here's a trick: give her complete freedom.
Any woman has a desire to cheat on a guy if he is too cute and lets her walk somewhere with her friends. When she meets a confident guy, then you will become completely uninteresting to her.
As you already understood you need to be very careful with this method- if another girl becomes a witness of such behavior, then you will never be able to seduce her.
The next method, by the way, is also very dangerous if you have views of other women in your team.
The role of the "cowardly dork"
To appear before her as a "cowardly dork":
- Complain about life all the time, feel negative about it, and break into it over all sorts of trifles.
- Argue with women and everyone around you. Go through your arguments to the end. And at the same time splashing saliva to prove their case.
- Get mad at her behavior, constantly express complaints in a harsh form, throw tantrums literally over trifles (if not with her, then with others).
Attention: do not use this method if you do not want to ruin your relationship with others. Better to behave this way when you are alone with her. As a minimum: you need to warn your friends that you will play "not your" role in order to kick the girl off.
Outright rejection
A very efficient way. I would even say ideal, since you will never spoil relationships with others (as in the previous method) and retain the interest of other women.
True, it doesn't work for most guys. Or even at all - it only strengthens the girl's desire to win your interest (after all, you hurt her pride, and she had an even stronger desire to fall in love with you).
However, if you do everything right, then she will never come to you again.
The main guys mistake when using this method - "softness" at one of the stages.
Let's say you told her that you don't want to date her. As a rule, once is not enough, and the girl continues her attempts (not so explicitly, but continues).
Most guys start telling her, “Well, why are you starting again? I told you ... ”and so on. Or they just let her take the next steps. For example, when she comes up under the pretext of finding out something, the guy can keep the conversation going out of courtesy. This softness serves as a signal to her that this guy can be “put on the squeeze” by forcing him to date her.
At this stage, it is important to immediately let her know that you are only talking about something once.... And begin to completely ignore her further attempts. Do not get into arguments and ignore her statements in the style: “I just asked you,” “I really need your help,” etc.
In general, all your doubts and fear of openly shedding a girl are connected only with the fact that you are. Therefore, you are afraid to defend your desires and refuse women.
The problem, as such, does not exist here. You just need to be more courageous and not be afraid to openly say what you think is necessary. Otherwise, you will always find yourself in situations where people are chasing their goals and constantly pull you into it (feeling your inability to openly refuse). All power is in truth.
The problem may be with the girl herself. Suddenly she has problems at work, the boss shouted and now she wants to be alone in the club, relax and think. She may just be in the wrong mood, who knows, because of what. In any case, getting into her experiences, analyzing is like being a sapper. One wrong move and you are sent far and long. Therefore, do not dig yourself and do not disturb the girl who is not in the mood for dating today. Do something more useful and enjoyable!
It is possible that you are the problem too. Perhaps you said something wrong, chose the wrong approach. Everyone risks hitting their face in the dirt, there is nothing shameful in this either, this is just an excuse to improve your skills and remember the mistake for the future!
We figured out the possible reasons. Now let's move on to the analysis and derivation of the rules. We will discard boring reference books and make clear instructions, such to which each of us is accustomed to. What to do if a girl turns off?
Check for check
When too many guys come up to a girl to get acquainted, and even every day, she begins to develop immunity to this, consciously or subconsciously. Who will enjoy extremely powerful attention from all angles? The girl begins to realize her value among men, her beauty and sheds weak applicants for the title of "the guy of this evening." It works very simply.You saw a pretty or even beautiful girl, you decided to come up. You tell her how beautiful she is, that she has nice hair, how beautiful tonight and evening are and stuff like that. She replies to you that she is not ready to get acquainted, thereby dismissing you as a weak link. The vast majority of guys (especially those who are completely unfamiliar with the pickup) have a stop here. They fall off immediately, but you shouldn't. Such a reaction must be checked for falsity.
After her first refusal, you kind of join her. You say something like "Yes, there are so many idiots walking around and everyone is staring and pestering." If the reaction becomes more positive, consider that you have passed the test and received the honor of just chatting for now. For an experienced pick-up artist, this means that her phone is already practically in her pocket, and maybe tonight has already been organized.
If the girl continues to freeze, the reaction becomes even more negative, then you just wish her a pleasant evening and succeed. She's probably not in the mood to get to know you. Perhaps you are the problem or not? Here is only your analysis of the situation afterwards. 
In no case is it possible!
I do not argue when a girl turns you off - it is always very unpleasant, and guys react to such a phenomenon in different ways. Never insult a girl or even ruin her mood after a refusal. This is her opinion about meeting you, and you will have to respect, one way or another. Beautiful girls are constantly in the spotlight, they get caught on the street, in social networks, guys somewhere get her phone number and call endlessly. How much do you think such pressure can affect a person?And then you connect with a free offer to become a potential son-in-law of her mother. Does she need it? She was already tired of constant offers. But even so, she does not send you, but simply refuses. And then you start yelling at her, insulting her. It’s not easy for her anyway, why are you aggravating the situation?
Try to treat the refusal as adequately as possible. You mustn't show that the refusal somehow upset you. and so on. You checked her for verification, and then wished her a pleasant evening or a good day and went home, leaving a pleasant impression on her and not ruining anyone's mood.
The psychology of leaving
Human psychology is arranged in such a way that it remembers the first and last of this or that event. Remember how the movie you watched a week ago begins and how it ended. But what happened in the middle? Already harder. You will remember the script, but the overall impression you will have from the beginning of the film, which convinced you that you really should watch, and the ending, which left a pleasant impression. The artists do the same on stage! Now let's superimpose this example on our situation. It is very important how you approach the girl, what you say, and just as important how you leave. Many aspiring pick-up artists here make the serious mistake of thinking that the beginning is the key. Believe me, the impression you leave about yourself also plays a big role. The girl will think that you are not so bad. There is even a small chance that after a girl has kicked you off, she may call you back. Read my article on how to meet a girl on the street.Relationship to acquaintance
In the opinion of the girls, nothing could be easier than walking up and meeting a girl. But the guys make a real problem out of this, prepare diligently, collect their strength and thoughts for a long time and then just go to get acquainted. Familiar situation? You can't treat acquaintance that way.Remember one very important axiom - no one owes anything to anyone! When you fully understand this, you will not treat rejection when meeting someone as painful and unpleasant.
This will become an ordinary situation, which does not mean your defeat.
Girls appreciate selflessness in guys. And the guys at the same time very often expect a continuation from their acquaintance, try to immediately shackle the girl with some kind of obligations, and at the same time they do it so stupidly and unpleasantly that they are almost guaranteed to be rejected. This happens unconsciously. It is possible that you are simply sticking to the wrong rules when meeting.
Have you ever done charity work? And at least he threw coins into a glass to the homeless? This is a very pleasant affair that lifts your spirits. You should feel the same way about dating. It is a simple donation that you give selflessly. Why is this the most effective tactic? Firstly, this way you will be much easier to relate to the fact that you may be refused or simply turned off. Secondly, the probability of failure will decrease (I will explain later for what reason). Thirdly, it will be easy, non-binding communication that you yourself will enjoy. 
Girls are extremely perceptive creatures. They feel the slightest falsity in your voice, but at the same time they will unmistakably determine your disinterestedness in acquaintance! And the attitude to such people is completely different. This is why bounce rates will decrease with this approach.
Wrong words If you go out on the street and endure rejection after rejection, the situation repeats itself on the Internet, in public transport, museums and other standard places to meet, then it makes sense to think that you are doing something wrong. Analyze the words that you say when you meet, and only after that a plan of action can be outlined on what to do if a girl has turned you off. Are they exactly what the girl wants to hear? Read my article about what to talk to a girl about. An experienced pick-up artist will never begin acquaintance with the phrase "Girl, excuse me, can I meet you?" This is generally the worst phrase you can think of. Better to start with something neutral. Pay attention to your surroundings. What can you really be surprised at? What can please you yourself? Perhaps there is leaf fall around? Or is it snowing? Or cloudy weather and generally not very good? Maybe there is a construction site nearby, and so on. This is where you should start your acquaintance.
Here are a few dating mistakes that the vast majority of guys make.
- Apologize. You approach the girl and apologize for wanting to meet her. What is this nonsense? Why should you apologize for your natural desires? Never apologize if you don't feel guilty.
- Asking permission. Another common mistake. You are a male. If you wanted, you met. If he wanted to, he sat down next to me. Wanted - took a phone number and so on. You already have a right to all this, so why ask permission for something that is already permitted. This does not in the least show the culture in you, but betrays only a weak person, and girls do not allow such.
- Contact "you". You immediately put the girl above yourself in status. And nature has ordered that it is a man who should be a leader in all respects, he should do absolutely everything better with a few exceptions. By such an appeal, you again show your insecurity.
Finally
A pickup truck is a complex and multifaceted thing. Walking this road on your own is difficult enough, but you can enlist my support. For 12 years now I have been successfully engaged in pickup, I have 7 sex tours in the Philippines, where I have repeatedly proved my skill in the art of seduction. Write to me inFor me personally, this problem is not worth it, and I still sometimes catch myself thinking that I do not understand why it is difficult for someone. But since many guys are worried about this issue, I am obliged to consider this topic.
Let's start with why a guy can't just take a girl off. The fact is that not everyone understands by what principle a girl gets and where does interest, attraction and love go. And since the guy does not understand this, then he does not decide who likes him and who does not... This is not normal.
Therefore, in this article I will tell you about, and explain each step.
How is it easy and simple to sew a girl off?
"Dishonest" methods
The point, of course, is that you have to cheat a little.
Namely - you will have to reincarnate in such a man who would never like her and would not cause attraction. Oddly enough, such methods work very well and the girl herself decides not to communicate with you anymore.
Only there is a downside, which you probably already guessed about yourself. After all, a girl is rarely isolated from friends / girlfriends / colleagues / acquaintances, which means that there is a very great chance that you will ruin your reputation among them. But it often happens that a guy wants to quickly send a girl off precisely because he likes another. She can be her friend or colleague, for example. Therefore, be sure to consider whether such behavior is justified. before deciding to act.
"Let's see tomorrow"
So, the first method is to beat off her initiative with completely unsightly fantasies about a joint future. It is clear that you will have to thicken the colors very much so that she will become afraid to be with you. But just this method cannot harm you in any way.
As an option:
“I think the worst thing in life is to associate her with someone who, in fact, is not your match at all. Even if one is experiencing some feelings, then together they still do not shine. Such relationships are not mutual, which means that one will simply endure all this, and as a result - quarrels, dreams of the best, disappointment and thoughts of another future ... ".
Girls understand hints very well.
It may be that public opinion and her own pride are strongly pressing on her - then she can say to your words that she does not want anything from you. This is what you need, because after that she will never take the initiative again.
Become cute
A nice guy is something that girls don't like and doesn't attract them in any way, so you won't even need to think about how to get her off. She herself will try to get rid of this.
But how do you play this role to make everything look realistic?
- Show excessive gentleness and unreasonable politeness;
- With her, "hand over the back" if there is an argument with other guys or any rivalry;
- Play offended yourself, if she even touched you with something stupid, walk with a drooping look and do not talk to her until she notices;
- Do not stop other people's jokes on yourself, but in response to comic humiliation, pretend to be a bewildered smile;
- Start talking (even if not only she is nearby - this is even better) about love for the fair sex, about the fact that women need to forgive everything, indulge whims, generously give;
- Make an agreement with a friend in advance, and when you are sure that she hears, tell him a tearful story about how the girl for whom you did everything (took you to restaurants and movies, gave gifts), and all ended with the fact that you called, but she did not pick up the phone. You can add to this story "memories" of how you hysterically complained to her that she did not answer the phone.
And, of course, if you don't want to wait, then it is better to ask your friends and acquaintances to actively help you - especially with an example in which friends dominate you, and you do not even resist.
It will be more difficult to sew a girl off quickly by showing sympathy. In this case, you can use a similar trick: provide her with absolute freedom.
Every girl fights the temptation to surrender to another if her boyfriend has absolutely no control over her, while remaining sweet, meek and malleable... If this happens, then she will no longer need you.
As mentioned above, such "dishonest" methods can seriously damage your image. If a girl you like sees such behavior, you can say goodbye to dreams of her forever.
The same can be said about what I will talk about below.
Pathetic coward
Everyone has heard of such "men". They offend their own women, knowing that they are weaker, but in fact they are cowardly and do not show their "strength" anywhere else. Neither girls nor other guys like them.
So, if you have chosen such a role, then you need to behave something like this:
- Regularly tell her how unfair life is to you, at the same time get annoyed and take your anger out on her;
- Become a "habalka" - argue with everyone in a row and over any everyday trifles, even with girls. Argue so as to be sure to prove that you are right, at any price;
- Let all facets of her behavior irritate you, "drink" her, hysteria and shout on any far-fetched reason. If you can't behave this way with her, choose another victim, but so that she can see it.
Carefully! This method works well only if you are outside a community. Or if your acquaintances are present, they should know that these are all performances. Otherwise, your reputation will suffer greatly.
To say it all straight
For me, this is the most correct option, it is effective and honest, and you won’t get a negative opinion from the people around you, including girls.
But the problem is that many guys can't use this method effectively. Moreover, in many cases this leads to the opposite effect - the girl's vanity is hurt and a predatory instinct awakens in her, which will not calm down until you fall in love with her.
But if applied correctly, this approach will allow you to quickly and environmentally sew a girl off.
What are the guys wrong with this method?
At some point, they show weakness and insecurity.
For example, there was a conversation between you in which you said that you have no desire to meet with her. Usually this is not enough, the girl does not understand and continues to timidly try to take the initiative.
Wrong behavior: allow her to behave like this or try to explain, remind her that you have already spoken about it. Her first attempts will be from afar - just ask something, call on a far-fetched pretext. As a matter of courtesy, you keep the conversation going. She understands that it is possible to take the next step - and so on an incremental basis. That is, it squeezes you the way a guy usually does with a girl.
If you began to talk to her, then you say with utmost confidence and clearly that this is the last time... Further - a complete ignore, no matter what she does. She can come up with various provocations, but do not need to be conducted no matter what.
If you want to be completely frank, then insecure behavior and fear of quickly sending a girl off is due to the fact that for you the value of any girl is too high. Because of this, you are unable to defend your right to self-determination.
In fact, this problem is overblown. In this matter, only one thing is needed - self-confidence and decisiveness. But if it is difficult for you to sew a girl off, then it affects your whole life and it is difficult for you to say “no” to all other people. And if so, then you will be manipulated. Truth is the only value.
