Where is the best place to meet. Fishing is a great hobby for dating. Dating in sports bars, football, boxing

Text: Sasha Gluvein

Of the classic set known for the movie "Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears", only the cemeteries remain. Men "migrated" from libraries and dry cleaners and are now "found" elsewhere.

“I don’t know where your future husband is now, but he’s definitely not at your home!”, Says Rachel Greenwald, author of the book “Program: 15 steps to find a husband after 30” and we agree with her. Before starting an active search, we strongly recommend that you complete the following points:

1) Do a spring cleaning in your personal life to understand how much time you waste on men who are absolutely not suitable for you.

2) Analyze your requests in order to know exactly what kind of person you need - and adjust the list of places you visit in accordance with your requests.

3) Make sure that there is no creeping line on the forehead "I urgently need to get married", initially tune in to flirting. There is no need to plan a future wedding at 3, 5 or even 30 minutes of the conversation.

4) Find yourself some kind of hobby or even a goal in life, the implementation of which in no way depends on the man, so as not to "get hung up" on marriage.

5) Carefully study the material "Sexual poses and gestures" and "How to make him fall in love with yourself." None of the buyers will burst into a boutique with a "Closed" sign and a barn lock hanging - the same rule applies to dating.

6) Start working on yourself - not only should you be interested in a man, but you should also be interested in him! Ask yourself - what will he find in you?

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  Friends and acquaintances

  Let not the most romantic and sensational way, but one of the most popular, and most importantly - effective and safe. If no one calls you anywhere, do not worry, organize the party yourself. You can always invite guests to "pilaf", "barbecue", "watermelon", etc., so there is no need to go to bed in the kitchen. The reason for the meeting can be whist, preference, mahjong, "Mafia", "Twister" or even board games - Scrabble, Cluedo, "Monopoly", "Munchkin", "Colonizers".
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  Internet

  Social networks, thematic forums, dating sites and blogs - the Internet gives a lot of opportunities. But for serious acquaintances, we still recommend thematic forums - it is unlikely that Popular Mechanics, for example, is inhabited by those who want to find a girl for sex for one night. Let the wave of dating on ICQ have subsided a little, but nevertheless, this method still works. On a dating site, you will have to learn how to "filter out" perverts who are absolutely sick in the head, and those who are used to asserting themselves at someone else's (in this case, a woman's) account. Your profile and photos must definitely stand out from the crowd - this is the key to success. You can ask a man you know to fill out a questionnaire for you - then it probably won't turn out dry and banal.
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  Studies

  University, driving school, courses of foreign languages ​​and acting, dance clubs - acquaintance in these places can be very promising. Language courses deserve special attention - as practice shows, there are representatives of the strong half of humanity without fail. But the times of the USSR, when there were only young men in DOSAAF schools, where they taught to drive, are long gone. It's good if a third of the group is typed. Muscular, tanned and with cubes on the press "are found" on the shores of lakes, for example, on the shore of Lake Pleshcheyevo, where the base of surfers and kite players is located (girls are also taught there). The brave conquer the educational peaks at the climbing school, the plastic ones go in for capoeira, etc. We deliberately do not recommend psychological growth trainings - do you need a man who is insecure?
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  Work

  Unbiased statistics assert: despite the high risks, the office has been and remains one of the habitats of potential suitors. Having an office romance with a coworker rather than with your boss will increase your chances of success. Please note that in the event of "success in your personal life", most likely one of you will have to change jobs.
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  Fitness - clubs

  In a fitness club, you can and should get acquainted not only with instructors and trainers (although this option should not be rejected). To do this, you will have to broaden your horizons somewhat. Muscular machos are unlikely to jump next to you in aerobics or "stretch" on yoga or Pilates, they are usually "found" in the neighborhood - in the gym, in the free weights area. So you will have to move from group lessons to individual ones, but you will only benefit from this. Afraid that you will look unattractive with a red face and a wet T-shirt? Firstly, many men adhere to a completely different point of view and are happy to get to know each other “without leaving the barbell”. And secondly, you need to start practicing gradually increasing the load, without trying to bring the figure to perfection in a day.
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  Someone else's wedding

  The high spirits of everyone present, icy champagne, endless kisses of the newlyweds and romantic vibes in the air are an excellent background for meeting men, from the groom's friends to the toastmaster and DJ. The first ones are preferable - as a last resort, you can ask the newlyweds about what a candidate for a hand and heart is, if you suddenly feel a lack of reliable information.
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  An airport

  Waiting for departure and especially the flight itself ensures that, willy-nilly, you will have to spend some time together in a confined space. Be careful not to turn the conversation into a confession (anything you say can be used against you later). Avoid the emergence of "companion syndrome". Otherwise, the chance that an open-minded handsome man decides to continue acquaintance approaches zero. If you are not averse to meeting a businessman, subscribe to the news of financial and analytical portals. You will be interested in global events such as summits and economic forums (some of them are held on a regular basis); candidates for husbands who are quite prominent and successful flock to such events. Your task is to first be on board the same plane as they are.
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  Billiards and bowling

  Both the one and the other place have their merits. Billiards allows you to show all the advantages of a figure both in static and in motion. Bowling is a good option for those who have difficulty finding some "incendiary" topics for conversation. The roar with which the balls roll along the track will allow you to start your acquaintance with an exchange of short remarks. Are you a master of the cue and / or strike 9 times out of 10? Demonstrate your full potential only if you are sure that you need a gambling fan of competitions. Otherwise, your successes can greatly hurt the sick male pride.
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  Games

  A huge number of men play online games of varying degrees of aggressiveness. Not all of these games are pure shooting games, many of them are so exciting that they can turn into your hobby. Your task is not only to play, but also to communicate intensively on the players' forum - as a rule, possible meetings in real life are discussed there. This option allows you to first get to know each other better and only then find out what the person you are interested in looks like, but does not save you from disappointment or, conversely, pleasant surprises associated with appearance.

  Another item is "live" role-playing games. But here you should be much more careful - proceed if the spirit of adventurism and maternal instinct are strong in you. Male players are entirely "adult children", regardless of what date of birth is in the documents (as a rule, the contingent here is between the ages of 12 and 40), the relationship of the "regulars" is reminiscent of "Santa Barbara". But in this series you can find your "pearl" - both students and top managers play games, but you have to tinker. We advise you to pay attention not only to the players themselves, but also to those who sit in the "master house" and command all this "disgrace".

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  Night clubs and other establishments

  The main thing is to choose the right club, the first one that comes along will not work. Be aware that certain audiences go to certain places. For example, the entire Moscow State University at one point hung out in "Makkoy", now all creative and progressive - in "Simachev", "Solyanka" and in the Rolling Stone bar. Take a closer look at fashionable places and choose those that are close to you in spirit.
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  Traffic jams

  You are not going anywhere, he does the same in the next lane - in traffic it is better to flirt than to be nervous, angry or put on makeup. It is not recommended to do this unless absolutely novice drivers of a car with a manual transmission - in order to avoid accidents on the roads.
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  activity

  For those who are sure that there is no place to go, we strongly recommend TimeOut magazine and other publications and sites of the corresponding profile to study. A woman whose interests go beyond the standard "fashionable clothes, TV series, kitchen" makes it easier to make friends and acquaintances.

Don't put high hopes on ...

Car dealerships
Do not interrupt a stranger from inspecting and buying a car or an upcoming test drive. Buying a car is a serious business that requires an investment of capital. If earlier it was possible to determine by car how much a person is provided for, now, as a rule, by car it is possible to find out how much he owes to the bank. So we do not recommend assessing the creditworthiness of a potential life partner by his car.

Organized tours
There will be many singles among the tourists ... but they will all be female! Men prefer to travel on their own.

Casinos and racetracks
Perhaps you will find a husband there. But the likelihood that he will turn out to be a "ludomaniac" (pathological gambler) is too great. Before going there, re-read Dostoevsky's novel The Gambler, and keep in mind that it is extremely difficult to treat these people, they do not recognize themselves as sick.

The problem of female loneliness is as old as day. If you are tired of him and crave masculine warmth, you need to look for him somewhere. Where to go on a successful hunt in order to meet a decent and worthy man? We will answer this question taking into account what goal you set for yourself. You will find a list of the most successful places to meet a man for one evening, for a serious relationship and with the rich. All in your hands!

Let's consider a few of the most "fishy" places:

• Trainings, seminars, master classes- if a person visits such places, he is purposeful, ready to develop, and most importantly, if he has any shortcomings, he realizes this and tries to correct them.
• Museums and exhibitions- obviously normal people who love art come here.
• Karting clubs... If a man loves to visit them, we can conclude that he drives his own car much more carefully and does not risk in vain, since go-karting is a place of adrenaline rush.
• At work, in the office, or in negotiations... Take a closer look at those around you, business partners and their colleagues.
• Holiday romances- a way to have a good vacation, and sometimes to start a family. True, distance is a hindrance, because sooner or later you will have to go home.
• Indoor ice rink... It doesn't matter whether it's winter or summer, there are always skiers who love to ride.
• The shops- grocery, clothing, furniture. You can always ask a young man for advice on what is better to choose, or, conversely, help him decide on a purchase.
• Sports bars... Fans of football, hockey, Formula 1 races gather here. Here you will find an active lifestyle lover.
• City parks and squares... In these places, the MCH can ride a bicycle, roller-skate, run, walk the dog.
• Acquaintance in public transport... This is especially true if you travel in the same bus, trolleybus or tram every day at approximately the same time.

If you are a homebody and a single mom, then it remains to pay attention to the free relatives of your child's friends, godson, nephew at school or kindergarten. Perhaps he goes to some circle where you can also meet the guy of your dreams. You can also walk with him in playgrounds or visit children's cafes. But be careful: don't run into a married man!

Where to find a decent wealthy guy

Rich men visit expensive and elite clubs, restaurants, pubs and bars, fitness clubs. Also among their favorite places are bookstores, tea boutiques, golf clubs, yacht clubs. It should be borne in mind that your "victims" are busy most of the time, so they get out somewhere only for rest or work. You can try your luck at business forums, trainings for leaders, training courses.

Where to meet a young man for one evening

If you just want to spend a pleasant evening, you can attend a rock concert, go to dance in a nightclub or go to a party by the river, sea or lake during the warmer months. It's also worth trying your luck at the fan clubs of your favorite bands or sports teams, especially football, where some pretty decent guys can go.

Do not write off quick acquaintances - it is interesting, unusual, although it smells like a gamble.

Another place to meet a decent man for a frivolous relationship is friendly parties, alumni meetings, city holidays and events.

Where to look for a partner without leaving home

Are you very shy or are all parties and noisy places not for you? Or are you just spending too much time at work? Do you rarely leave home than to the store? Then pay attention to internet dating! Here's where you can find an interesting interlocutor, virtual communication with whom can develop into the present:

• Social networks – vk.com, ok.ru, ru.facebook.com. You can also meet foreigners on these sites; this type of communication will also help to learn another language. Friends of friends, communities, groups, interesting pages - all this makes it possible to find a person of interest.
• Dating sites - the most popular are loveplanet.ru, love.ru, fotostrana.ru, mamba.ru, datingstyle.ru. There are a lot of people who want to get acquainted on the websites, the main thing is to correctly select the candidates.
• Online chats- secret4u.ru, chatvdvoem.ru, livechat.su. This is the fastest way to make friends and learn to communicate. In chats, first of all, the communication itself is important, and only then how the person looks, so develop your communication skills.

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In order not to miss the mark, we have prepared an article for you on the topic. You will learn where to start the search, what precautions should be taken, what to write the original to the interlocutor, etc.

Want to ? Then a simple "hello" is not enough, you need something fresher. In another article, we discussed how to surprise a man and how to keep his interest.

To charm your chosen one, use. You will learn which techniques are allowed and which are not, and how to protect yourself when manipulating.

If you want to be successful, it is very important to learn to understand software. We talked about the intricacies of verbal communication earlier.

But now the long-awaited moment has come: you have been invited on a date. so as not to spoil anything? Here you will find a list of pertinent and forbidden topics.

In order to meet a man in real life, you should not be afraid of communication. If you liked someone, do not hesitate, go up to him, perhaps he likes you too. In most cases, men do not mind being introduced to them. Believe me, they are often afraid to come up first, no less than you.

The advice is a little trivial, but sensible: the video blogger offers to get acquainted through acquaintances, in libraries (who goes to them now!), In museums, etc.

In any situation, remember that you are a woman, you can do whatever you want, you are different, you are a mystery. I wanted to smile - smile, winked at the man - be sure, he will notice it and he will be pleased. And finally, you don't have to go anywhere at all, because very often, if you really want something, it just doesn't come true.

Often girls complain that it is incredibly difficult to meet an interesting and responsible man, tuned in to a serious relationship: “Nobody gets to know us! And if they do get to know each other, then some strange and inadequate types. " But is it so difficult for a modern woman to find a mate?

We present an overview of the most common places to meet men according to our guest expert Vladimir Ryabov.

1. Dating sites

Dating sites are the largest of all. Today, more people get to know each other here than anywhere else. The most popular sites: loveplanet.ru, mamba.ru, badoo.com, etc. Target audience: 65% of men are looking for an open relationship, 5% are looking for a serious relationship, 5% are looking for kept women, 10% are looking for sex for money (pay) , 15% are looking for all sorts of perversions.

Pros:
+ a large selection of men;
+ many and often offer to meet;
+ you can get acquainted while sitting at home.

Minuses:
- many inadequate personalities;
- photos may not correspond to reality;
- almost no one meets for a serious relationship;
- those who are ready for a serious relationship are far from handsome;
- high competition among other girls.

2. Speed ​​dating

Speed ​​dating is a fast date party. 5-7 minutes are allotted for a conversation with each man. You can read more about the format on the Internet. The target audience differs depending on the age category; successful men attend such parties, but not as often as girls would like.

Pros:
+ comfortable environment for dating;
+ in one evening you can chat with 10-15 men;
+ if you do not like a man, you can not give him sympathy and do not send contacts;
+ low cost of participation (about 700-1500 rubles).

Minuses:
- most men will ask standard questions that will soon get bored;
- you will have to allocate an evening for this event.

3. Night clubs

Depending on the level of the club, the target audience varies, but all the goals of club dating can be reduced to the banal pickup of ladies by local alcoholics or to the status of picking up girls by "daddies" in the S-class. In short, looking for a partner here for a serious relationship is not worth it.

Pros:
+ it's trendy;
+ a great option to have a bright night;
+ there are nice candidates;
+ you can just dance, show off, raise self-esteem and ... go home.

Minuses:
- a lot of drunk and inadequate men;
- most candidates only want sex;

4. Street

For men, this is the most stressful place to meet a girl, so "good" boys usually don't get to know each other like that. In general, they generally sit at home, are afraid of women and live with their mother until the age of 40. Therefore, if a man approaches you on the street and he is sober and adequate, then at least his self-esteem is all right. A man's goals can be different, and a lot depends on how you show yourself on a date.

Pros:
+ a normal, adequate man meeting on the street - this is already interesting.

Minuses:
- a normal, adequate man who meets on the street is a rarity;
- to get to know you, you need to stop walking with a gloomy face.

5. Conferences, trainings, master classes

This is the best place to meet in order to build a serious relationship. Men who are engaged in business, interesting, promising, highly intelligent, come here. As a rule, when meeting at a business event, a man evaluates not only sexual attractiveness, but also the social and intellectual level of a woman's development.

Pros:
+ "Habitat" of successful men;
+ even if you don't get to know each other, you will still get useful information;
+ girls are less viewed as a sexual object;
+ a business partner can be found.

Minuses:
- you need to develop, learn, communicate;
- high cost of participation in trainings and conferences (from 2,000 to 50,000 rubles) *

* BONUS: The site timepad.ru announces trainings and master classes on business topics, which can be attended either free of charge or for a nominal fee.

6. Cafes, restaurants, bars

It all depends on the level of the institution. There are a lot of annoying drunks in the bars in the evenings, which, of course, is annoying. And pretentious restaurants are a traditional place for renting potential kept women. It is very easy to distinguish girls who are looking for someone else's wealth in such establishments by their bright appearance, a modest teapot of the cheapest tea and a scanning gaze of men. The best option is coffee shops, teahouses, hookahs. Here the audience is more intelligent, so more or less interesting men can get caught.

Pros:
+ you can chat slowly;
+ Quiet and comfortable enough.

Minuses:
- they just won't notice you: you need to develop body language, eyes, facial expressions, etc., in order to attract the attention of the men you like.

7. Fitness club

Another good place to meet is the fitness club. Acquaintance here will, as a rule, be contextual. The best option is a request for help or a question regarding training.

Pros:
+ a lot of pumped-up handsome men;
+ you can flaunt in short shorts and demonstrate your figure;
+ at least get yourself in shape.

Minuses:
- sometimes obsessive "advisers" come across
- attention is more in your body, and not in the inner world.

Don't be afraid to be proactive! Do not wait for the Man of Your Dreams to find you. Help him do it. Chat, meet, go on dates! And remember: the road will be mastered by the walking!

It is not enough to be charming and pleasant to smile, you also need to make it appropriate. Want to meet someone? Look for suitable locations. So it is more likely that you will be understood correctly and will not be refused with the continuation of communication. First of all, decide who you are looking for: a pleasant companion, a wealthy partner, a great lover, or just a good person. It depends on where exactly you should get acquainted.

Don't miss out on city events

Have you nowhere to go? In this situation, various exhibitions, concerts and seminars held in your locality will help. There are many enthusiastic people who will happily share their hobby with someone. In addition, those around you will understand that your hobbies go beyond the scope of everyday affairs, and they will certainly want to get closer.

Don't waste your time in traffic

You are not driving anywhere, as are many drivers in the adjacent lane. Why waste precious minutes worrying and anger when you can spend them profitably? Do not hesitate to get acquainted in such circumstances - you are unlikely to be refused by those who are in a similar situation.

Take a look at nightclubs

If you want to find a certain contingent, do not go to the first place that comes across. First, find out who is resting and where. For example, students from prestigious universities can go to one specific place, majors - to another. Observe which club is the most trending and choose the one closest to you in spirit or mood.

Play

It can be both "live" and computer games. Regarding the original version, please note: the regulars of such events are "grown-up children". Of course, they differ in social status, so you have to take a closer look at each one. Don't forget about those behind the scenes to take command of the action.

Another option for dating is related to PC games. It is not necessary to choose aggressive online "shooters" - there are many other exciting genres. Pay attention to what is happening on the screen, and also do not forget to enter the chat - this is where communication takes place. Here you can get to know a person better, be aware of his affairs and personal qualities. The only drawback is that it is impossible to predict the real appearance hidden behind the nickname.

Go bowling

This place is ideal for silent people who do not know how to strike up a full conversation. Allow yourself to relax: there is no need to look for topics of conversation here. The crashing of balls is the best accompaniment for exchanging short lines. Just don't forget: you came to get acquainted, not to win. Try not to hurt anyone's sensitive feelings and not win, otherwise you will be covered with a grudge for your wounded pride.

Visit the billiard room

It is worth showing yourself in all its glory. Demonstrate the figure in motion and in static, then you don't even have to take the first step.

Don't bypass the airport

A few hours in a confined space with a limited circle of people who can't get away from you - what could be better? Take the chance while luck is on your side. Make a "sacrifice" for yourself. You can do this in advance, even months in advance. Do you want to find a businessman? Stay up to date with all the summits and economic forums for a successful flight. At the same time, read the financial and analytical news - you will have something to talk about on the plane.

Feel free to go to someone else's weddings

At similar events, guests are in high spirits. Romance, glasses of champagne, rainbow fireworks and happy newlyweds set up a positive mood. Try to get close to the friends of the newlyweds - at least then you can ask the bride or groom what their companions are.

Become a regular at fitness clubs

Get out of the familiar aerobics and Pilates room - look into the free weights area or gym. There you will find more candidates for dating, and you will also pump up your body quite well. Do not be afraid to look unattractive with a flushed face and a wet T-shirt - these are your personal prejudices.

Don't get caught up in a routine at work

Take a closer look at the environment in the office - it is possible that you have overlooked some promising personality. Imagine a charity activity, start raising funds to save animals at the shelter. The colleague who responds with great zeal to the call and at the same time you like it, will be the best candidate. Of course, do not forget to transfer the money wherever you need it - it was not in vain that you tried.

Dedicate yourself to your studies

Dating in dance clubs, acting and foreign language courses, driving schools and universities is very promising. The local contingent is self-confident people who are moving towards their intended goal. If you want to choose by looks, head to the kite and surfer base. Need someone brave? Then you need to go to climbing school. The only thing that disappears is psychological growth trainings. Everyone there obviously has some problems.

Don't hang around the Internet

You can also find new friends in the virtual world. Blogs, dating sites, forums, social networks and even long-forgotten ICQ will help in this. The only trouble is that you will have to filter out all the time "extra people", which include boors, perverts and simply sick in the head.

Start doing yoga

Go to major centers and assess the contingent. Be careful not to run into characters completely detached from life. Paired asanas will help you in finding the right person when you need to jointly perform various exercises. Before doing this, of course, make sure that you have mastered the basic yoga skills, otherwise your partner will be angry at your inability.

Spend time in bars

It is even more likely to meet someone here than in nightclubs. Just look in places where there are no promotions aimed at soldering customers. If a suitable informal establishment is planned, place yourself at a bar where there are many lonely people.

Walk in the parks

Especially in crowded places. Places with an extensive infrastructure and a lot of entertainment for all tastes are preferable. Go in for sports: roller-skate or longboard, play volleyball, basketball or ping-pong, join a jogging club. Just do not try to meddle in the forest parks - there everyone relaxes with their families or eat barbecue.

Organize your own party

Nobody calls you anywhere? No problem! Invite your friends over to your home, and don't forget to hint them to grab their friends. This is a pretty effective and completely safe way to change the environment, because you will be on your territory. If you are too lazy to cook something, gather everyone “for a watermelon” or “for a barbecue”. Also, a board or card game, a twist, and so on can become an occasion for a meeting.

Do not sleep in transport

While this is not the most ideal place to strike up a conversation, it is quite worthy of being on the list of good options. Inconvenience creates the employment of others: someone is watching the tenth dream, someone "hangs" to the music and does not want to be distracted from the cool track, someone cannot be taken away from reading. But you still risk it.

Use the person's passion. Praise his music and, if the interlocutor is in the spirit, ask for a second earpiece. Admire the book (only when you actually read it) and discuss the plot. Comment on a note in someone else's newspaper. Just be careful - not everyone likes an outright intrusion. So the field for action is really huge. The main thing - there would be a desire for a fateful acquaintance!