A married man fell in love, signs of manifestation of feelings, a detailed description. A married man and a free woman: the psychology of relationships

15.10.2019

Each of us imagines (well, at least approximately) how to fall in love with a man, and how he will behave after the birth of tender feelings. First dates, quivering touches, long nightly correspondence and sudden meetings at any time of the day ... But all this may not happen if the beloved man is married.

A free guy is not holding back anything, and he can behave relaxed and calm (how exactly - read in the article). With a married man, it’s a completely different story if he is not a professional reveler.

The way a man behaves will depend primarily on his moral qualities, no matter how pathetic it may sound. Also, how important family is to him. If he is determined to save the marriage, only languid glances, subtle touches and sad sighs await you.

A suffering man makes not only himself unhappy, but also the women around him

arrow_left A suffering man makes not only himself unhappy, but also the women around him

If he is a decent family man, it will be difficult for him to openly show interest. There is a constant struggle inside: the desire to be close to the beloved and touch her comes into conflict with the shame in front of the woman whom this Casanova has already managed to marry.

It is more difficult for a married man to allow himself to fall in love "in an adult way" if he is not yet ready to break the bonds of Hymen. He will also not be able to openly show love, you need to pay attention to hidden signs that a man simply cannot control.

So, a married man is definitely sunk if he:

constantly trying to catch your eye;
turns the body to you even if he is talking to someone else;
smiles at you with or without;
always ready to help;
next to you becomes cheerful or thoughtful;
writes for any reason.

The desire to get closer competes with the need to keep a distance. Another sign of falling in love: a married man looks like a schoolboy who was first covered by sympathy. No matter how old he is, teenage behavior will still hatch. Embarrassment, ridiculous phrases, even flushed cheeks - all this can betray even a brutal alpha.

Secret love correspondence is a pleasant and exciting, albeit dangerous business.

arrow_left Secret love correspondence is a pleasant and exciting, albeit dangerous business.

If you have already known each other before, it is even easier to understand whether there is sympathy or not. The psychology of a person in love makes him curry favor with his sweetheart in every possible way and awakens the desire to be (well, or at least seem) better than he is. Otherwise, how else to fall in love with a woman?

You can read even more signs of male love in the article.

Psychologists say that a man who is ready for treason will involuntarily touch the wedding ring, twisting it. This is a sign of a desire to remove it along with the marriage shackles.

If you are a free woman interested in a long-term serious relationship, you should not rush into the pool with your head. A more important task appears: to understand what exactly a married man wants - just to fall in love and take advantage, or is he ready for a deeper relationship.

Any plans for a married man? You don't have to give them up right away, of course. But keep in mind: the unspoken life statistics are disappointing. Most men are just looking for entertainment on the side and are not going to leave their wife. Therefore, do not harbor special illusions, even if his every action looks like a sign of sincere feelings.

Romantic relationships should bring positivity, not sadness

arrow_left Romantic relationships should bring positivity, not sadness

It is better to start with neutral communication, more like friendship than love. Chronic Don Juan is only interested in bed games. He will not spend hours listening to your stories about childhood, while every fact about the sweetheart is important for a truly in love man.

If you managed to fall in love with a married man, and he realized that you are exactly “the one”, no one will delay the divorce. But constant excuses and the search for reasons why this cannot be done is a bad sign. A romance that means nothing to a man can drag on for years, and it will end with the phrase "I'm sorry, I still love my wife."

This situation is described in detail in the article. True, there she is considered by the wife, but read it anyway, in order to better understand the motives of such a man.

Sooner or later, he will still understand who he needs - a legal wife or a new lover. And the truth is that for the sake of what he wants, he will be ready to do anything. If he wants, he will move mountains, and in the middle of the night he will rush with fruit, and he will go to the registry office to file for divorce. But only if you really want to.

Even if the husband is sure that he is the real Stirlitz and the God of conspiracy, it is almost impossible to avoid a puncture. Men often forget about how picky women are, attentive to trifles. This OH may not notice the twentieth new dress or the changed hairstyle of her missus, SHE will notice everything.

You can stress if:

the husband suddenly decided that scrambled eggs in bacon is the enemy of the long-lost press, and he urgently needs to sign up for the gym;
shabby T-shirts and washed-out family jackets have been replaced by new fashionable wardrobe items;
at night, instead of the usual snoring, a quiet clatter is heard on the mobile phone display;
bed games are replaced with a dry “I'm so tired, can we just sleep?”;
the scent of the shower gel was replaced by an expensive perfume.

Unfaithful husbands often forget that the wife knows exactly what her husband becomes during falling in love: she has already gone through all this.

Each man experiences guilt in his own way. Someone begins to fuss more around the deceived spouse, who may still not be aware of it: sudden gifts or flowers “for no reason” (remember: has this ever happened before?), unquestioning performance of household duties, even those from which he usually denied.

The hero of "Love Actually" seriously pierced on a gift. And adultery did not bring happiness to anyone

arrow_left The hero of "Love Actually" seriously pierced on a gift. And adultery did not bring happiness to anyone

Such an attraction of unprecedented generosity can be abruptly replaced by a negative manifestation of guilt: a man suddenly becomes a beech, refuses any conversations and takes out his irritation on the nearest woman. And immediately after that, humility returns, and the husband tries in every possible way to correct his mistakes ...

Of course, such “symptoms” are not 100% proof that the spouse has found someone on the side. But sudden changes should not be ignored either. And how to deal with the third superfluous is up to you.

And finally

I want to spend as much time as possible with the object of my passion, especially during the candy-bouquet period. But even a banal trip to the cinema can become a real problem if after work the faithful are expected at home, and for the weekend he has to go to his mother-in-law's dacha.

Falling asleep and waking up next to your lover is very pleasant, and for men, such actions also matter. But can he guarantee such joy at least once a week? Yes, and it’s hard to realize that the beloved man from your bed went to the house where his wife is waiting.

It is worth thinking three times how necessary such a relationship is. A married man and a free woman is an old tale that rarely has a happy ending.

Finally, an unusual technique

Let's do a thought experiment.

Imagine that you have the superpower to "read" men. Like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man - and you immediately know everything about him and understand what is on his mind. You would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem - you would not have problems in a relationship at all.

Who said it's impossible? Of course, you won’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.

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Why do men stay single? Especially at the age of 30, when most of their peers, if they have not acquired numerous offspring, are already discussing this issue with their wives and brides. There are 10 types of 30-year-old bachelors, and each has its own reason. One of the most famous network figures Tim Urban, the author of the Wait By Why resource, which provides “procrastination help” decided to understand these reasons: there is something to distract from work.

1. Mr. Ideal

Mr. Ideal is smart - he graduated from a good university. He is an athlete, musician and experienced traveler, handsome and well-groomed. Mr. Ideal has a great career, but he is not a workaholic. He is excellent in everything, but there are difficulties in his life.

It is very difficult for him to find a girl who will be worthy of his greatness.

Yes, a girl who fits the Ideal should be the limit of absolute perfection. She is beautiful, charming and charismatic, the soul of any company, a rising star in her field and an object of adoration for many friends. She is unusually good in bed, cooks well, she is loving, forgiving and selfless. And yes - she also speaks French, plays tennis, sings beautifully, reads a lot and loves history. His Juliet.

There is nothing surprising in the fact that Mr. Ideal is lonely. In his soul there is a terrible battle between high standards and the fear of being alone even at 40 years old. A forty-year-old bachelor is something too far from ideal.

2. Suddenly free

For as long as he's known, he's always been part of a long-established couple. They did not look particularly happy, but everyone was sure that sooner or later the union would be crowned wedding. Then a painful break, followed by a painful addiction to loneliness, and suddenly - wow! The guy was covered with a wave of delight. He doesn't really understand what it's like to be single, but he's happy as hell, and to hell with it, he's going to hang out.

The resigned bridegroom is watching the Suddenly Free with quiet anguish. His relationship is no better than that of Free, but everything somehow goes on as usual, comfortably, by inertia, and there is no need to tell him what Suddenly Free came up with again.

3. Representative of the nation

If he marries a girl of a different nationality, his mother will never, ever speak to him again.

Finding a person with whom you want to live your whole life is not too easy, and then your parents made the task almost impossible. Of course, he tried to rebel, but his mother simply did not let his last girlfriend into the house, the girlfriend sobbed, and the Representative of the Nation resigned.

If only my mother would stop trying to set him up with someone.

4. Misogynist

As you can easily guess, he hates women, and women hate him. The misogynist knows absolutely nothing about women, but he knows for sure how many he has slept with - with the 214th. All these connections were before, when he was young and more or less attractive. Now only a person with very, very low self-esteem will agree to have sex with him.

The Misogynist is a close relative of the Serial Traitor. Of course, they are different people, but they understand each other well.

5. School star

Once, a long time ago, he was the ultimate dream of any 17-year-old girl. High self-esteem helped him a lot during his studies, and no one was surprised when, at the age of 20, he found himself a sweet, smart and beautiful girl, quite worthy of a ring. However, he is just getting started! How many have not yet been tried, not explored, he told himself, and broke up with his girlfriend when he was 24.

Seven years later, his hair thinned out, and the glory of a high school basketball player faded. He began to notice that girls like his ex-girlfriend no longer pay attention to him. Realizing that time is running out and we are not getting better, he took a deep breath and lowered his standards a lot.

6 Former nerd

The exact opposite of the previous type, this guy lost weight by the age of 30, learned how to dress and excelled at work. The former nerd receives more female attention every day than in the first 25 years of his life. Girls are just crazy about him - they cannot understand how such an attractive man can also be so sweet and respectful. The answer is simple: deep down, he still believes that he is not worthy of female attention.

7. Not yet met

He's a normal guy, just until he met his one and only. Sometimes you don't have to look at him with such sympathy.

He likes his job, his friends, his life. He is in no hurry to start a relationship, but he is sure that one day he will meet his girlfriend and get married.

He does not quite understand why all his friends are worried about him. Parents do not miss a single opportunity to ask if he is dating anyone. Friends now and then offer to introduce someone. So far, the one who has not met is happy with the support, but really wants others to stop thinking that something is wrong with him.

8. Desperately Seeking

The guy just can not believe that he is still not married. He always had a girlfriend, even at school. And at the institute, and when he was twenty, and more, he was always a guy who has a girlfriend. He felt sorry for his lonely friends for years, and at the age of 30 he was in their place.

He has four accounts on dating sites, and when people ask him if he is dating someone, he replies that he is too busy with his career and does not care about relationships.

9. Disinterested

He is almost the perfect specimen of a man: handsome, well-dressed, with excellent work. He is funny, charming and pleasant to talk to. One tiny “but” spoils the picture: he is not at all interested in women.

10. Surrendered

From the very beginning, he did not hurt anyone and tried, and now he has stopped even pretending that he is trying to get to know someone. He does not like bars, he refuses online dating, the main place in his life is occupied by a sofa, a screen and a game console.

In the depths of his soul, the Surrender is afraid of everything, and therefore lives frozen. Only one thing will help him: if he likes a very persistent girl. And until that moment, don’t even bother him, it’s useless.

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If earlier it was considered a shameful vice for a woman to date a "married man", now it is a somewhat depressing ubiquity. The psychology of relations with a married man is no longer surprising to anyone. Although, it would seem, it is natural that this is wrong and bad. What to do and how to act in a situation when, as in the song "I love a married man"?

Psychology - Aspect of "Why"

So why are women now and then drawn to the seemingly forbidden? They are not blind, not stupid, and often quite aware of what they are doing. As well as the consequences. But all the same, as if headlong into a pool, they rush into dangerous, dubious relationships.

You can start with the fact that, of course, how many people - so many different opinions. Each woman had her own reason to start such a relationship, and each of them answered the question - Is it worth it? - differently. And yet, there are a number of specific reasons:

Everything is ready. A married man, as a rule, is already an accomplished person. As in the family, so in society and career.

Freedom. He does not need to wait home in the evening, cook food for him, wash clothes, or somehow account for his actions. All this is already done by another woman. The mistress has much more free time that she can spend on herself.

Celebration atmosphere. If the wife sees a man in all his remarkable and not very beauty, then the woman on the side is only familiar with his positive qualities.

Money. Comments here will be redundant.

Reluctance to marry. Sometimes there is a situation when you want love, but getting married is quite the opposite. Then the point about freedom and easy relations results in this one. A married man will not require any special obligations from his mistress.

Low self-esteem. Thoughts that there are catastrophically few good men around and the fear of loneliness sometimes push women and not for that. Therefore, they are content with "what is."

Hope. Love is evil ... or, as the proverb says: in the absence of fish and cancer - a fish. Especially if this "cancer" every now and then promises to leave the family for her, beloved and unique. And the woman believes these words. And this belief in her exclusivity, that everything will be different for her, like for everyone else, makes her stay in such a relationship. But life is not a movie with a lyrical ending or a love book. In reality, such promises often remain empty promises.

Relationship with a married man

What if the woman nevertheless decided to start a relationship with a “married man”? In this regard, the advice of a psychologist is built on the basic principle: you need to be realistic. That is, ready for the fact that such love can take and end abruptly at any moment. And you certainly don’t gossip about such a relationship with your girlfriend.

The main plus and at the same time a minus - no one owes anything to each other. It is not difficult to sleep with a married man whom you love, but it will not be easy for a woman to start dating him and, moreover, to keep him close to her and make some plans. In no case should meetings be advertised, otherwise it will immediately undermine trust. It’s also not worth putting pressure on a man with your connection - he understands perfectly well that he has no obligations to you. He already has a family with a wife and children. If he needs a relationship on the side, he can always find himself another, less demanding, passion. Therefore, if the goal is to win the heart of this particular man, you will have to work hard, measuredly and carefully, making him fall in love with you and everything that will be associated with her.

But still, it is far from a fact that a man will leave his family for the sake of his mistress. The fact is that a man cannot just take and go to where he will feel better. Most likely, if the marriage breaks up, it is not because of the beloved lady on the side, but because of the great discord in their own family. Only if the legal relationship did not show itself on the good side or burned out, turning out to be a mistake, then the man will divorce and go to his mistress, who is ardently waiting for him. Otherwise, no forces of great love will force him to leave his native nest called "family."

Exit from the cage

Sooner or later, the realization comes that a man is still not going to leave the house with children and a married woman, but he no longer wants to put up with this. How to end such a relationship?

The advice of psychologists is quite simple: you need to mentally prepare yourself before breaking off contact with a married man. Write down on paper all his shortcomings and look at this sheet more often. Think about the question, is it really necessary at all? Most likely, the mistress of a married man has no prospects in terms of his own family well-being. And sooner or later, every woman will want to have her own children and a normal family. Then karma will definitely not be on the side of this woman ...

How to end a relationship?

Secret meetings and constant secrecy can also adversely affect the general background of life. Especially with a man who is younger than his second chosen one. You need to resolutely declare this intention to your married partner, calmly and rationally convey your point of view to him. This relationship does not have the future you want. You will have to come to terms with the breakup and be sure to ask you never to disturb again. This is difficult, but otherwise, instead of a dot, a blurry comma will appear in the relationship. Especially if a man tries to dissuade his mistress from such a "hasty decision." It can be a parting gift in the form of a last date or something else in a similar spirit. But in fact, this is just a trick in order not to end the relationship.

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Wedding exclamations "Bitter" do not guarantee the sweetness of family life and love to the grave. There are monogamous, but more often come across fans of diversity, fresh feelings. It happens that love comes suddenly, completely unplanned. It is not difficult to understand that a married man has fallen in love, the eyes say it, the movements give out, the actions confirm it.

A woman who has become an object of love and is not interested in continuing the story will ignore signs of attention, turn on the “fool”, and fight back. Only with mutual sympathy does a woman care about the seriousness of the intentions of a married admirer. It is worth starting with the fact that a woman who has become an object of sigh intuitively understands this, even playing misunderstanding.

Sometimes love falls like snow on the head, not sparing married people. A man in love involuntarily changes, which is reflected in many things, behavior, communication. The described “symptoms” of the boyfriend, some of which he is not able to control, will help to understand the seriousness of his feelings and intentions.

A family man in love, who does not seek to change or destroy the family, will try his best to drown out feelings. It is difficult to kill a truly strong love in the bud, if a husband truly fell in love, then over time he will pierce with a disguise. It is worth taking a closer look at his behavior and actions.

Signs that help determine the severity of feelings fall into two categories:

verbal indicators - actions done through words;
non-verbal signs - body gestures that give out thoughts, feelings, intentions with movements.

Love for a woman involuntarily makes a man change his manner of speaking, behavioral tactics, “getting out of his pants” for the sake of reciprocity. Obvious changes are taking place in relations with his wife, so most of them quickly “bite through” the appearance of a rival. Let's figure it out in order.

Spouse's view

The wife will quickly feel negative changes, cooling to her person. It is worth noting that this is possible only in cases of true love / love of the husband.

Bitter understanding comes with the following actions:

Sexual changes. Perhaps the complete absence of sex.
Special attention to appearance. Picks up clothes on his own, shaves daily, washes, perfumes, combs thoroughly.
Delays at work, business trips, complex projects, urgent tasks, because of which the husband is often forced to spend the night “at work”.
Present. The spouse stops making presents or, conversely, gives gifts, wanting to drown out feelings of guilt.
He began to forget family dates, holidays, ignores important events.
Avoids joint breakfasts, dinners, rest, sincere conversations.

This is an optional pattern of behavior for a husband in love, people are different, but the described points are partially in each case. The wife knows her husband very well, so she will understand the smallest changes, notice inattention, and feel.

Falling in love with a husband does not mean a mandatory divorce, the end of life. Falling in love is short-term love, but time will allow you to understand the power of feelings. Having confirmed the suspicions, the spouse independently determines further actions - parting or forgiveness.

Object of respiration

A woman has a subtle sensitivity and intuition, so she quickly realizes that a married man has fallen in love with her.

Guesses are confirmed by non-verbal signs:

Body position. The body is facing the beloved, slightly tilted forward, giving out the desire to overcome the distance.
Touch. In addition to the will, there are constant touches of the beloved, maintaining the elbow, accidentally touching the hands, touching the shoulders.
Sight. The object of adoration constantly catches the eye, even when the man stands half sideways, passes by. He tries to make eye contact, looking straight into your eyes.
Lips. The lover constantly smiles in the company of the woman he loves, trying to make him laugh for the sake of a return smile. Telling someone about it, he smiles again, if not openly, then with the corners of his lips raised up. Listening to her sad story, receiving a refusal, the position of the lips betrays frustration, the corners go down.
Smell. The lover tries in every possible way to smell the beloved, this is an uncontrollable instinct regarding living beings. The smell of the body, hair, perfume beckons, it is impossible to resist.
Showing the actual significance. Trying to conquer, a man from ancient times demonstrates to his beloved his superiority over others. In sign language, this is manifested in the correction of hair, which means - "Look, I'm beautiful." When telling something, he raises his finger up - "Pay attention, I say smart things, I'm smart."

A lover is characterized by gallant behavior, a manifestation of care. Gentleman's set - open doors, let them go forward, lend a hand, help carry a heavy thing, offer outerwear in cold weather.

It should be noted that a man who does not intend to lose his family will be restrained in verbal manifestations, but will not be able to control non-verbal gestures. Therefore, the behavior described above will expose even someone who does not intend to announce the feelings that have arisen at all.

Verbal behavior

Falling in love, some married people try to overcome nascent feelings, others add fuel to the fire, go on about emotions. It is hardly worth condemning or encouraging a married man in love, everyone can find themselves in a similar situation.

Based on the individuality of a man, love can be recognized by such verbal signs:

Pretending restraint, avoiding direct contact. Refers to serious people who think about actions, take responsibility for their actions. Such behavior clearly betrays a person, as well as open courtship, because avoidance turns out to be a little childish. The man hides his eyes, avoids being alone, is laconic.
"Random" encounters. A married person cannot make open dates, take his beloved to a restaurant. We have to invent reasons for random collisions, "unplanned" communication. A loving man is full of various ideas, he can organize a holiday so that his beloved is among the guests and they can chat. Love for a colleague simplifies the task, because there are working moments that are convenient to use.
Unusually calls, sensually pronounces the name. He tries to name his beloved woman somehow in a special way, uses diminutive forms, comes up with a cute, harmless nickname.
Takes an active part in the affairs, helps. Unable to help on his own, he asks reliable acquaintances. Care is manifested in everyday affairs, household and financial areas.
He is interested in her personality, carefully listens to stories, asks about the taste preferences of different areas. He learns from others about situations related to his beloved woman, the details of her life.
When meeting, he is nervous, but does not lose self-control. A man worries about the complexity of the situation, especially in the company of his beloved, because he is again convinced that he loves her and cannot leave her. Lovelaces do not tend to behave like this.
Shows signs of attention, tries to please, surprise, laugh.

It is difficult not to notice the manifestation of at least one of the points.

seriousness of intentions

A well-bred gallant person will not pounce on the object of adoration, trying to seduce, confess his love, sleep. Real men are well acquainted with self-control, especially having fallen in love with a not free person. They understand the hopelessness of the situation, the complexity of the love triangle, the size of the possible tragedy and are in no hurry to start an irreversible process. This does not apply to those who are naturally polygamous males, greedy for a pretty "skirt".

Feeling the attraction, a good family man will try to keep a distance from the lady that worries him, perhaps he will begin to avoid it. Such behavior betrays a serious responsible man. Ease of action, quick determination to cheat on his wife testifies to the transience of passion, the frivolity of intentions.

The victim is an exemplary family man

An exemplary husband can be seen immediately. He is always clean-shaven, ironed and well-fed, a woman's caring hand is felt in everything. He is reliable and fatherly good-natured. He achieved a lot in life, and he became bored. There was money and free time, how not to spend it on courting a young and beautiful girl?

A decent married man is easy prey, and the rules for “hunting” for a bitch on the Koshechka.ru website prescribe:

Play a failed life - you want to feel sorry for the loser and take a liking;
Show complete inexperience and innocence - you want to protect the innocent;
Become weak - female weakness and defenselessness help a man feel strong and courageous, capable of turning the world upside down. And the wife no longer needs to prove anything, and the courage of his wife is no longer needed.
Admire and praise - men love to be put on a "pedestal"
Play love, but don't fall in love. Call and be silent on the phone, send empty SMS, let him suffer because he makes an innocent soul “suffer”.
The situation is heating up. His wife begins to guess what is happening, arranges scenes for him, the children do not understand their father and stop communicating with him. In this situation, YOU are the only loving and understanding person in the world.
Voila! A decent married man on the doorstep with a suitcase: the rules of a bitch require you to thank the "hero" with love and attention 😉

Now consider what happens next:

he left and left all material wealth to his wife and children;
when the passions subside, your hero will remember the responsibility to the children and will run to the family every weekend, feeling guilty before them;
the wife will refuse to give a divorce and will demand to divide the business;
his relatives and friends will never accept you into their circle, for them you will forever remain a bitch who broke up a family;
your girlfriends will gloat, and your relatives will pity you.

Are you ready for such a life? If - YES, arm yourself with the rules on the site Ko6e4ka.ru and!

The victim is a lover of novels on the side

A man who is always ready for adventure on the side looks special. He is self-confident, imposing, expensively and tastefully dressed. He always knows what he wants from life. He looks at women as a new fun, interesting and short-lived. Most often, such men marry in their youth, the family is a screen for them, and exists only because it should be.

Such a married man is a “tough nut”, and the rules of “hunting” are not simple:

Bringing an unfaithful husband to the first date is not difficult, the main thing is to be interesting and promising.
On the first date, show maximum ingenuity not only in communication, but also in bed,.
When parting in the morning, do not ask banal questions like “Will we meet again?” and not a word about love ... Leave at least one riddle for him.
Do not look for meetings with him, do not call, do not write.
Find out when the next corporate party in the company of the “hunting” object, meet “accidentally” with his single deputy and come to the holiday as his close friend. Be on this holiday the most beautiful, delightful and seductive stranger among such familiar and predictable employees.
Your married man, according to all the rules, burns with jealousy and desire, but you do not intend to continue the relationship.
The victim is “driven” by love and the desire to possess the inaccessible into a corner. He calls - you are silent, he begs for a meeting - you refuse, he pursues you, but you are impregnable, like a fortress.
His patience has run out, he leaves his wife and comes to you with flowers and a wedding ring to ask for marriage.

Your married man is at your feet, the rules of seduction advise you to descend to him and agree to the proposal. You got your way, he's yours. But for how long?

Think about it:

Was it love or a passion for sports - to achieve your goal at all costs?
how much will you have the strength to remain mysterious and interesting for him?
what will you do when he has a new "hobby", and will you be able to deal with it?

Do you need such a husband? Answer frankly to yourself. If YES, then the rules are written for you. If NO, enjoy your first date and break up with no regrets.

Hunters for married men are divided into two camps:

some seek sacrifice in order to marry him and live happily ever after;
others - not to get married, but to take advantage of someone else's coming husband.

Both those and others are constantly busy “hunting” for other people's men, and thereby do not give themselves the opportunity to choose a couple from single representatives of the strong half to create a family. Think - do you really need a married man? Maybe it's better to blind from what is, and then fall in love? 🙂