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How to win a girl

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How to win a girl

To win the heart of any beauty, you need to direct your efforts to her heart, and only to him. You may not be the first handsome man, you may not have a lot of money, but if a girl falls in love with you, she will be ready to follow you, even to the ends of the earth. At the same time, if the girl does not love you, all your efforts and money will be wasted. Therefore, you need to be a little smarter than a girl.

This article is not intended for guys who want to take girls to bed, you can find them in the adjacent articles. This article is for caring and nice guys who don't tend to change girls. For those who want to be loved and love only one. This article is for those who want to win the heart of a girl.

Even the handsomest guy can be ugly at heart. But since girls fall in love with the soul, you need to keep your thoughts pure and innocent, and only then the girl will believe you. Okay, let's not lie - he won't believe it. But she will be intrigued by a smart guy with the right and gentle words.

Be a romantic, not a desperate guy

We all perfectly understand why guys and girls meet: communication, help, mutual understanding, common affairs and sex. But if every time you meet you will translate the topic into a sexual connotation, then you will look too desperate guy. You need to win her heart, her soul and mind, and only after that she will think about spending time with you. Therefore, more patience, more freedom of communication and hidden jokes and hints. The girl should understand your desire, but she should not see it. Such a hidden subtext.

A girl is more willing to agree to go to her favorite place than to a park or cafe.

If you usually walk with girls in parks and sit in cafes, this does not mean that you should do the same. Take some time to find out her preferences. This is one of the key factors in the conquest of the girl. Just talk to her and find out how she uses her time, what inspires her, what she likes, what makes her jealous.

For example, if a girl likes horses, then it is better to organize a horse ride than going to the cinema. Remember, a smart guy calculates his date budget so that he can get the most out of it with the least amount of money. Even in matters of the heart, there is room for calculation.

Choose the right compliments

The best compliment a girl can receive is: "You are beautiful." Everything else either sounds lustful, or describes some particular qualities of the girl. And there is beauty in a girl, regardless of what she is wearing and how she feels. There is no need to describe the girl with large poems, such a short phrase will be enough. And she will be very pleased.

Never compare her to her ex-girlfriend.

Yes, of course, girls are somewhat similar, they can behave similarly. But each girl is unique, and what you had with one will never happen again with the other. Therefore, there is no need to compare them with each other. And even more so to tell them about it. First, it's ugly. Secondly, the girl will know that you can also discuss her.

Whatever happens, keep quiet and be a gentleman. They do not brag about their victories, and do not tell vulgarities. This can cause big problems later on.

Don't be a real owner, she's not your slave

A drop of jealousy decorates and complements the relationship, but if you start to be jealous of her for every pillar, then sooner or later she will either send you or do as you think about her. Either way, the relationship will end. If you can't trust her, what kind of relationship can we talk about? Don't be fooled.

You don't need to know the girl's daily routine, call her every 10 minutes. Asking where she is and how she is. She is your girlfriend, but to win her heart you need to be confident. And self-confident guys don't run after girls, girls run after them.

Don't be afraid to meet her parents and family.

Many guys are afraid to meet the girl's parents. This makes sense if they don't want a serious relationship. But if you want to settle in her heart for a long time, then such an acquaintance will allow the girl to relax and not fear for the relationship that you will suddenly disappear somewhere.

Remember that if her parents tell her about what a good guy you are, then in any quarrels and conflicts you will have a numerical advantage. And this is a very big "Yes" in your direction. And seeing her parents is quite interesting. In 20 years, she will be very similar to her mother. Choose your girl wisely.

Don't miss the opportunity

You should not expect a girl to take sharp steps in your direction. If today she is afraid to kiss you, then take her hand. If today she is afraid to look vulgar, then kiss her on the cheek or forehead. Each such small step is a step towards her heart. It doesn't matter that it takes a long time, it is still a step forward.

Do not be afraid to prove yourself in the "farm"

There is nothing more enjoyable than sitting and watching a guy prepare a treat for his girlfriend. She should be the girl the guy cooks for. And you have to become this guy. So prove yourself. Let it look not appetizing, let you mix something wrong. The fact remains the fact. The girl will appreciate it.

Don't undermine her trust

If she stops believing you, then you can never win her heart. There is nothing wrong with hanging out with other girls. But this should not turn into flirting and various subtexts. If a girl finds out about this, she may forgive you for it, but she will never forget. And in the most unsuitable case for you, he will remember your mistakes. Trust is the first key to a girl's heart. As a last resort, make sure she never finds out.

Don't discuss other girls

Sitting with friends and talking about girls and joking is great. But all the girls don't like it. Each girl puts herself in the shoes of the girl you are laughing at. When communicating with a girl, you need to follow a simple rule: "The less you talk about other females, the better." Girls care only about themselves, they are not interested in other people's problems.

Forget your ex

If you still love some girl, then why waste the time of another girl who may have fallen in love with you, but can never be with you. Be a real man and don't be fooled by yourself or her. You don't need to walk with one, but think about your ex. So you will only make things worse for yourself and your new girlfriend. If she finds the strength in herself, she will leave you, and if not, then you will break her heart.

Don't forget to congratulate her

It doesn't matter what happened. It doesn't matter where you are. If she has a holiday or an important event in her life, then you should congratulate her first. Or at least not forget to do it in a way that no one else can. Girls love surprises and they like to be surprised. It is not necessary to give expensive gifts, the main thing is to give something that will surprise them.

Don't lock her up in a cage

Girls love it when a guy can lead and command. But there is no need to turn it into absurdity. If a girl wants to meet friends and take a walk, then you should let her go. Don't make her spend 24 hours a day with you. Of course, if she herself wants to be with you all the time, then why not.

What to do during an argument

The best thing that can be in your arsenal is calmness and patience. This is not easy to achieve, but it is the best way to resolve any conflict. Her tantrums and screams should not change your point of view. If you start arguing with a girl, then she will remember all your mistakes and shortcomings and think, why should she date a guy who has many disadvantages there. This is stupid feminine logic, but it needs to be taken into account.

Using these rules, you can achieve maximum intimacy with the girl. She will be glad that you are the kind of guy that all girls dream of. You can win her heart. Good luck.

We will tell you 1 0 simple rules that will allow you to easily conquer any girl... And no, these are not pickup courses. This is a great article from, about what a woman really wants from a real Dictator.

1. Conquer

Remember for the rest of your life: the stronger sex is you, not her. And therefore you are in charge... You decide what and how to do, how and what problems to solve and where to move on. Do not forget about it. Do not complain and never whine. While all the girls deny it, they really appreciate it when the man makes all decisions for them.

2. Don't argue

As Hank Moody from “Californication” said - "You may be a thousand times right, but what's the point if your woman is crying ..."... Do not prove your point and point of view, do not argue and NEVER INCREASE VOICE. If you are I am confident that I am right - this is great, then it is. But she is not your subordinate, to whom it is imperative to point out the indisputable fact that you are a great genius. Believe me, she already knows it that's why she's with you.

3. Don't make her cry

There is a brilliant phrase that someone who is truly worthy of our tears will never make us cry. This commonplace truth is really important to her. Perhaps she cannot forget her mother sobbing at night or the unsuccessful marriage of her older sister - it doesn't matter. The main thing is that she smiled with you instead of crying.

4. Be able to apologize

And this is not a sign of weakness - only the strong can ask for forgiveness... And if you were really wrong, your apology will be another indicator of your strength for her. And the strength, as we already know, every girl appreciates.

5. Listen

I will open to you a big secret: since the beginning of your relationship, you have become her best friend. And even more ... Now you are the one to whom she can tell even what she does not tell Mom. Remember this and be able to just listen at least sometimes.

6. Encourage her weaknesses

We are all people and we are all peculiar little human weaknesses... Usually, for girls, this is a suitcase of cosmetics or beauty salons on weekends. Or maybe a solemn trip to the theater or a sexy exit to a nightclub. And that's okay - this is how she feels alive and young and for her it is important.

7. Pamper her

Give flowers and gifts just like that - for no reason, also carry it on your hands. And prepare a fragrant bath for her after a hard day's work - you will be surprised how quickly she will rise and thank you, especially if you give it to her.

8. Don't limit her freedom

This does not mean that she can spend time with other men or keep you in the dark about her whereabouts. But she must have too personal space is her comfort zone where everything is according to her rules. It can be get-togethers with girlfriends (! without your participation!) or a separate dressing room, or maybe an independent weekend trip to your parents. Let her define a small amount of her personal space for herself.

9. Compliment her

Any, even the most gorgeous girl in the world is important to hear that she is the BEST-BEST-BEST! Even if she hears it regularly and from all sides, while she is with you - she wants to hear it only from you - remember this and DO NOT BE LAZY to praise her shining eyes and overly short dress, which, by the way, she bought specifically so that you can passionately take it off.

10. Be proud of her

Take her hand when you stroll through the surrounding property, gently hug and kiss passionately, not embarrassed by the glances passing by. After all she is your choice... And a real Dictator always has all the best, including SHE! SHE IS THE BIGGEST PRECIOUS VALUE in your life, a shining diamond crowning the crown of the monarch. Never forget about it. She is a mirror image of your attitude towards her.

11 The Unspoken Rule of the Great Dictator

A true man is one who earns more than a woman can spend! And don't forget about it.

Remember these ten simple rules if you don't want to be like those 90% of men who will never find a normal woman. If you do everything right next to the Great Dictator there will be affectionate and gentle, ONLY HIS QUEEN.

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There are rumors here, from my friends who are actively getting to know each other, that things are really bad at the dating market these days. The choice is huge, but the contingent got lazy, got caught up in trivial things and lost skill. Neither hunters nor tarzan ...

Boys! Stop frantically analyzing "what a woman wants"! This is not molecular biology at all. It is not so difficult to win over a person of the opposite sex ...

1) Ask her out on a date.

On a date! This involves a cafe or restaurant or a movie or a picnic ... Anything other than "Let me drive up? Let's sit in the car and listen to music", or "we'll go for a drive around the city." Boys, well, really, do not be too narrow-minded, show respect for the girl. Where is your hunting instinct? Lately, dating sites with their huge catalog of options have devalued the magic of meeting two people. Try a little - it's not that hard to create.

2) Present flowers.

"Safronyan, are you completely crazy ?! America, damn it, opened ...". Sorry, sorry, but this gesture is critically underestimated these days. I don't know about you, but here a rose costs about 3-5 euros. I bought a flower on the way, presented it, a fat plus immediately earned! This will surely write off some of your subsequent shoals. It costs a penny, but the girl is pleased.

3) Better yet, find out where she lives and surprise her.
Send flowers by courier, if not flowers, then you can have another nice present, and even the same box of chocolates. The principle itself is important here: that you found out her address (or place of work), made an effort, sent a present, a nice surprise. It's also so mysterious and tempting ... P Believe me, any girl will be in ecstasy, even the most hardened cynical person.

4) Be gallant.

So many men forget about it! Sometimes it seems that it should already be in everyone's blood, absorbed with mother's milk. But no!
A girl goes on a date with you and you picked her up? Do not sit in the car like a boob, go out and open the door for the girl. So few people do this that believe me, you will surprise her with this minimal simple gesture and win her over. All beauty is in the little things. Help take off and put on your coat, help sit down, open the door. Men have recently forgotten about it so much that such trifles immediately catch the eye and add big and fat pluses to you.

5) Compliments.

It is very important to say nice things to the girl, BUT in essence, without triviality. Do not need all these - "you are the most beautiful in the world, you are the only one, you are so!" Especially on the first date. Mark her hairstyle, outfit, arms, but only what you really like about her. Don't give a compliment for the sake of a compliment. It must come from the heart and soul, otherwise anyone will feel this falsehood. If you didn't like anything about the girl, then in general it is better to be silent and take her home, there is nothing to spend with someone who has nothing to give a compliment for.

6) Don't say too much.

Many people start talking nonsense, moreover, stereotyped. Like: I'm looking for a wife and you are suitable for this role. I was always scared of these types and I immediately diagnosed them - he wants to sleep with me! Some cheap way of pickup, like now I will say that I have the most serious intentions, kiss, pat my knee and go to me. It's so funny when a man starts talking about serious intentions, and by the end of the evening he begs to go to him, because he is so sad and lonely, at this place I was always taken apart by the wild BUGAGA)))

7) Offer the girl an unusual pastime that she has not done yet, but would like.
Ask her what she dreams of. Maybe it's a parachute jump, rock climbing, ride a carousel or something like that, we all have different desires and dreams. If you remember her desire and then fulfill it, you will get a fat plus and a hundred thousand plus points in karma.

In general, men, don't be afraid to surprise girls. So few men have recently become capable of such simple and pleasant gestures.

Everyone wants to get everything quickly and easily, without making any effort, "ride a cool car", show off a new phone and tell a story about "how cool I am and how much money I'm making." Nobody is interested in this. It may be interesting for everyone's pacifiers, if you need one, then go ahead.

And do not forget, even if you are not looking for a serious relationship, but just want to "have a good time", this must also be done beautifully.

Don't rush things. Let the relationship develop gradually. She may be intimidated by your excessive push. Gradually, your feelings for her will intensify and develop, as will your relationship.

Be bold. Most girls like men who are confident, but not selfish. Just walk up to her and start a simple conversation. She will understand that they are interested in her. Start with some simple phrase:

  • “You are wearing such a beautiful dress. Did you sew it yourself? "
  • “Sorry, I'm new here. Can you tell me where the library is? "
  • "Hi, my name is [your name]. I think you are a great conversationalist. Can I steal a couple of minutes of your time?"

  • Chat with other girls. This is not the same as flirting with other girls, which in our situation would be inappropriate. If you communicate with other girls, your chosen one will understand that they trust you, consider you a reliable friend, and that it is easy to communicate with you. If it turns out that other girls say good things about you, then this is another big step.

    • Make friends with her friends, it's not that hard. We know this can be difficult, but just try. If her friends like you, then there will be a better chance of conquering her. After all, girls often consult with their friends. Make sure they have a good impression of you.

  • Always watch yourself. Women love the smell of clean and tidy clothes! This means that if a man takes care of himself, he will be pleasant to her. Conversely, poor hygiene can ruin all your plans. Believe it or not, fresh, clean-smelling hair is a huge plus. And the smell of a clean body is a must for every guy. Here are three tips to help you improve your hygiene:

    If you manage to make the girl laugh, then you have a much better chance. But don't overdo it. Let her first become your best friend, and then join the battle. It's important for a girl to know that she can trust you, that you won't break her heart because you really care about her. Girls love to laugh and will laugh at all the jokes, even if they are not funny.

    Be sincere. Compliments, flirting, jokes, caring - none of this will matter if you are insincere. If you decide to compliment the girl, think about what you like about her, gather courage and tell her, just tell the truth.

    • It's okay if you disagree with her, just don't pressure her, respect her opinion and give reasons why you disagree with her. Who knows, maybe she will start to respect you more, because this will show that you have an opinion.

  • Prove that you really like her. Show her that you are not just passionate or want to drag her into bed. Ask her to tell about herself, talk to her. Don't just expect kisses. Listen to her and make eye contact.

    Compliment her. It is difficult for girls to please with compliments: everyone wants to feel confident, but it is very difficult to find the right words. Plus, some kind words will help you pave the way for the future. Pay attention to these tips when you're ready to show her that you are more than just a friend:

    • Find out who she feels like. If she has a sporty spirit, encourage her to win and play sports. If your chosen one is a thinker, praise her for clever thoughts. Whatever she thinks of herself, praise her for what she likes best about herself.
    • Try to compliment her personality more. There is no need to constantly talk about her external beauty; all girls like to feel beautiful, but it is just as important for them that intelligence and character are appreciated in them. If you want to compliment her looks, pay attention to:
      • smile;
      • hairstyle;
      • eyes;
      • lips;
      • clothes;
      • style.
    • Try these compliments. These are just sketches, so come up with more appropriate ones for your situation and your girlfriend.
      • "Sorry, I'm embarrassed, but I'm always nervous around pretty girls."
      • "They probably tell you this a lot, but I like the way you think."
      • “I love the way your eye color matches your dress. Do your parents have blue eyes too? "

    Getting to know her better

    1. Remember the color of her eyes. It's easy to do this by looking her in the eyes as often as possible while you are talking.

      Flirt with her. You've probably already started flirting with her, giving her compliments and just talking. It's time to take it to the next level and show her what you want.

      Don't play games. This will only waste time and the relationship will go nowhere. If you try to start a relationship with lies (for example, by saying that you just ended a long relationship, but in fact you did not have any girlfriend), then, most likely, everything will end in tears. If you see that a girl is looking for one thing in a relationship, and you are looking for a completely different one, you do not need to pull. Tell her what you are looking for and explain what really matters to you.

      • Don't pretend to be touchy unless you are sure it will work. Believe it or not, some guys try to look unavailable. And in most cases, girls mistake this behavior for indifference.

    2. Be a trusted friend. Most girls want to trust someone and know that they will be supported in difficult times. Even if she is doing well, let her know that you are wondering how her day went. If you know she has plans after work or school, ask her how it went. If you let her know that you like her, she will take all the hints. You don't even need to be direct about it.

      • If you talk about your plans, do what you say. If you are just chatting, you will not be trusted. Girls (and guys) don't like it when people talk a lot, but they never keep their promises. Don't be like that.
      • Monitor your reputation. Try to be the guy she would like to date. This means:
        • Treat girls well and not hurt them.
        • Have friends who support you in difficult times.
        • To be someone that everyone loves and respects.

    3. Offer her your jacket if she is cold. You will be even more impressed by removing the jacket from you and throwing it over her shoulders, first making sure the jacket is clean and smells good. By doing so, you show her that you care about her. She will feel safe.

      Take an interest in her mood. Ask her how the day went. This is an easy way to show her that you are interested in what she does and that you care about her. When she starts talking, all your attention should be on her. Look into her eyes. Most importantly, don't interrupt. Ask questions to show her that you are listening to her and give your opinion.

    Time for decisive action

      Share your emotions. If she gets an excellent mark on her test, celebrate together! If she's having a bad day, let her know that you understand how bad she is and want her to feel better. Ask her if there is any way she can be helped or reassured.

      Love her weirdness. Nobody is perfect, but if you see too many flaws, we have a problem. You must love her for her features, for her uniqueness. Tell her about it.

      • If she is not sure of something, this is the moment when the girl should be encouraged. Say something like, “I love your freckles. They highlight your beauty. " Simple words like these will cheer her up and show that you like her the way she is.
      • Be especially careful if she is not very confident in herself. Most girls (and guys as well) are not completely sure about their character or appearance. The better you get to know her, the more you will learn about her fears. Do not draw attention to them, talk about her merits more often.

    1. Make her feel the most beautiful. You can say so directly. Girls love compliments and hear that they are beautiful, but do not overdo it, especially if you know each other recently. Just say something like, "You look good today," more often to cheer her up. But only say it sincerely. If you are lying, she will no longer trust your opinion in other matters.

      Develop your communication skills. Talk about all the interesting things that come to mind, or share the story of someone you know. You've probably asked her a bunch of questions by now, but she probably doesn't know a lot about you. Tell her about something that you can talk about with ease, or maybe even something that has always been embarrassed to say.

      • If she reveals her weaknesses to you, don't be afraid to show her your weaknesses.
      • Put yourself in her shoes. What does she like to talk about? How does she react to criticism? How is she different from other girls? What is she proud of? Answer these questions from her point of view.

    2. Ask her out on a date if you haven't already. Getting into the dating phase will be the hardest part of the plan. If you go out on a few dates, you can tell very quickly if she really is the girl of your dreams. But it is not so easy to decide on an invitation. Fortunately, you are confident, calm, and have a plan:

      • You don't have to say it's a date. It can be embarrassing for both of you to call a date a date. Instead, say something like, “I have two tickets for that new movie on Saturday, but my friend is sick. Would you like to come with me? "
      • Increase your chances of a successful date by coming up with something exhilarating, something that will increase her heartbeat. It could be a dread room, a rollercoaster amusement park, or a horror movie. Dating such an exhilarating date will make you feel like you went through something together and help you create a special bond.
      • Be a gentleman. Open doors for her, pay for lunch, and don't expect her to kiss you on your first date. Let everything take its course and she will be comfortable. If she feels calm, she will melt in your hands.

    3. Always let her know that you love her. Love her for who she is. And show it. This is the most important step. If she knows that you love her, she will try hard for a relationship.

    • Be honest.
    • If a girl takes you away from your friends to a quiet place, chances are she wants to ask you out on a date. Still, there is a chance that she will ask a completely different question.
    • When you talk to her, look at her lips, then in her eyes, then again at her lips (when she speaks). Subconsciously, she wants to kiss you.
    • Be confident in yourself. Walk, speak and act with confidence. Be a leader. Become her protector.
    • Don't be overly assertive. Let her sometimes call or text first (but still send her SMS from time to time to show that you think about her, but do not overdo it).
    • If you like it, wait for it. Each end is the beginning of something new and a new opportunity for you; but if you really like it, you will wait for it.
    • Respect her. First of all. She is special and unique. Even if your best friend offends her, don't tolerate it. After all, you love her, don't you?
    • Flirt with her. Tease her a little, and when she responds in kind, give her a joke. It's very funny. However, girls are touchy, so make sure you don’t offend her and let her have the final say.
    • Speak to her politely, especially if you are having an argument. Be a calm man; it will become your best feature.
    • Be interesting. Always speak cheerfully and energetically, no matter the topic. Never look down when talking to her. Even if you're sad, show your enthusiasm anyway.
    • Sometimes methods of indirect communication (for example, texting) can give the impression of mystery and intrigue, but nothing beats face-to-face communication. May you have more such communication.
    • Don't be petty. Don't complain about everything.
    • The first step doesn't always work, but it can help if you know her well enough. Wait for the right moment, for example, if she is upset, or say something nice if she is scared.
    • If you are trying to win over a girl you barely know, you will, of course, need to develop your relationship gradually. If you want to immediately become a friend or a soul mate from a friend, then, most likely, you will earn yourself adhesion fame.
    • If she takes the first step, react and flirt with her.
    • If this is your first time asking her out, give her a red rose.
    • Be persistent and keep things as natural as possible. Be calm in any situation. Even if she has a boyfriend, they won't date for long if you're better than him. Be faithful. The test of time will show who has always been with her.
    • Moving on to serious conversations can be difficult. It will be embarrassing if you force things, so be patient. The best way to get ahead in a relationship is not always making her the center of your attention. For example, go camping with friends, do anything together to get to know her better. You can bring a friend to a meeting to feel more confident.
    • Get closer and talk to her relative. Make a good impression of yourself, and may next time she hears only good reviews about you.
    • Make sure you have fun together. Relax and have fun with her. The worst thing is to watch a couple in which a guy tries to make a girl laugh, and it looks unnatural.
    • Knights exist! Open doors. Help her wash the dishes. Take out the trash when you visit her. She will love it! So you will be able to win her heart.
    • Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings. She will see that you are not ashamed of her.

    Warnings

    • Never discuss her behind her back, because she will find out about it!
    • Don't cheat on her. You can lose her forever and break her heart.
    • Never start a relationship with a new girlfriend right after a breakup. If you recently broke up, do not start a new relationship right away, otherwise the girl will think that you have never loved her.
    • Don't worry if none of these tips worked for you. If you have feelings and you love her, everything will be fine.
    • Don't spend your entire life on one girl unless you are confident that you will be happy in your marriage or relationship. Always remember to burn yourself.
    • If she said no, stop all attempts to conquer her. No means no.

    • The struggle for a woman's heart is comparable to a theatrical performance. Correctly selected makeup, music, actors and the play itself make the audience tremble with delight. As soon as the theatrical heroes forget the words, the hall is filled with indignant exclamations.

    Meeting a woman is a well-played piece, the end result of which should be a standing ovation, not an angry demand for a ticket refund. How to fall in love with a girl and play your male role according to all the rules?

    In contact with

    Experience is not the main thing in seducing women. The first thing to think about before approaching a person you like is appearance.

    A girl may not pay attention to the high cost of clothes, but she will appreciate cleanliness and neatness first of all. The basic rules of a men's pickup truck, for those who do not know how to fall in love with a girl, can be presented as follows:

    A gaze and nothing more

    All women love attention. If a girl notices that a young man is watching her, she will most likely turn around to do the same. The main thing in all this is not to lose eye contact. It should be clear to the girl that they are interested in her not in order to come up and ask for directions, but with a certain romantic purpose. If the girl looked away first, then the man can celebrate a small victory.

    "A smile will make the world brighter"

    No one likes gloomy, self-contained people; women try to bypass such individuals. If a man does not have a day and he cannot squeeze out anything but a crooked smile, acquaintance is deliberately doomed to failure. Noticing the girl he likes in the crowd, the man should smile at her. If she answers a smile, you can come up and try to get to know each other.

    "Night, street, lantern, pharmacy"

    Psychologists say that you can get to know each other anywhere, be it a chic cafe, or a bus stop. The main condition is the right time. If a girl returns home alone late in the evening, then making acquaintance with her will not be the best idea: most likely, she will be frightened and will try to get rid of a random fellow traveler.

    When meeting, it is best to keep your distance. A distance of 1 meter should be maintained between the girl and the man. Otherwise, a new acquaintance may find the attention shown to her too intrusive.

    Nice conversations and compliments

    Having practiced gazing and smiles and walking up to the girl, the man should strike up a pleasant conversation. It is better to start it with a banal compliment. You can praise a beautiful hairstyle, manicure, dress, say that a man was delighted with her walk, smile, laughter.

    The conversation should be simple, one should not move on to academic topics and ask about the new familiar degree of her mastery of the Gauss theorem. It is better to talk about the weather, the surrounding architecture, cinema and theater novelties, the taste characteristics of the pastries served in the nearest cafe.

    Contacts

    You should not immediately pounce on the girl with the requirement to give her phone number. This option is suitable for ending an unexpected date. If a man has made the right impression, the girl will easily agree to give him her number. If not, you can try to find out her profile from social networks and try to continue communication on the Internet.

    Women love confident men, because if a young man mumbles and does not know what to say at the first contact, his chances of continuation are minimal. If you want to attract the attention of a girl you like, you can buy a ball or a rose, go up to her and just give her. The accepted present will be the first step towards further acquaintance.

    How to make a girl fall in love with you?

    Many guys spend a lot of time thinking about how to fall in love with a girl. At the same time, they do not understand that the main problem is not how to do it, but why. If you really liked the girl and the man plans to build a strong long-term relationship with her, then it will be easier to fall in love with her than the one with whom you plan to spend several weeks or even days. More often than not, women feel the intentions of men and act accordingly.

    It is easy to make acquaintances by correspondence, but it is not easy to fall in love with a girl. To begin with, you should "fill up" her with beautiful compliments, electronic gifts, possibly poetry.

    If she got in touch, you can praise her photos, ask about the places where they were taken. The main thing in this business is perseverance and a clear manifestation of interest in the female person.

    To pique interest, a man must learn about her favorite books, films, and artists. It is important to show the girl how attentive, educated, and ready to respond immediately to any of her messages.

    If she doesn't like you

    Experiencing problems with building relationships, men often ask themselves the question of how to fall in love with a girl if she doesn't like you? Representatives of the strong half of humanity are literally unsettled by this state of affairs, but one should not despair.

    It is necessary to understand what exactly the girl does not like in a particular person. This can be both external data (height, weight, eye color, hair, nose shape, etc.), and character traits. It will hardly be possible to correct external data, but a man is quite capable of changing his own behavior and character.

    For example, a sullen person might try to learn a few jokes, invite a girl on a carousel ride, or spend an evening at the movies watching a comedy. If the girl doesn't like her partner's excessive stinginess, then you can try to look more generous than usual.

    If she has a boyfriend

    There is an opinion that a guy is not a husband yet, and therefore you shouldn't even worry about how to fall in love with a girl if she has a boyfriend. In reality, this is not the case. Most of the fair sex are already quite faithful at this stage of the relationship. The main task is to show the girl her best qualities, to make her understand that the young man she has chosen is not a suitable candidate.

    To do this, you should give the best gifts, show maximum attention, see off from the university (from work), regularly invite on dates. If the one with whom the chosen one is dating for a given period of time does not really like her, then after a while she will pay attention to such obvious signs of favor from the new fan.

    If she loves another

    The question of how to fall in love with a girl if she loves another is the most painful one. In principle, it is useless to look for an answer to it, since in most cases it is impossible.

    If a girl is truly in love, she perceives the men around her only as friends.

    There are practically no chances for a new fan, but you can try: real feelings are worth fighting for.

    Top 10 ways that work flawlessly

    Summarizing everything that has been said above about how to fall in love with a girl, consider 10 ways that work flawlessly:

    1. Jokes and humor. Women highly value men who can make them laugh. Such a man is easy to love, it is easy to fall in love with him. It is necessary to joke more, not be ashamed of comical situations in which a couple may find themselves.
    2. Learn everything about what a girl loves. Men do not like to go shopping with their chosen ones, but the life of most women is not limited to shops. Many girls go in for active sports, dance, embroider, read books, work in an interesting and favorite job. A man must make sure that his interests coincide as closely as possible with the interests of the girl. To do this, it is not at all necessary to run to the gym or buy embroidered paintings, it is enough to find out more information about what a woman does and, if necessary, support her in new endeavors.
    3. Listening to a girl If a man does not know how to listen and hear, it will be difficult for him to win the heart of a beautiful lady. Listen carefully to everything the girl is talking about, even if you are not interested.
    4. Support - Despite the significant percentage of feminists present in society, most girls still rely on a strong male shoulder. At the same time, support does not have to be material, simple sympathy is quite enough. So, if a girl had a fight with her parents, friends, bosses and is looking for consolation, one should not talk about the degree of her guilt, future problems, and the like. She must understand that the man will choose her side anyway.
    5. Trust Without trust, there is no love, because if a man fails to win over a woman in such a way that she trusts him, he cannot fall in love with her.
    6. Constantly praise the taste in clothes, cosmetics. Girls love attention, so a man should periodically praise another fashionable bag or dress, talk about the beauty of makeup, etc.
    7. Sweets - If a woman cooks well, her chances of winning a man double. A man can also use such a trick, but he does not need to cook for this. It is enough to give the chosen one her favorite sweets.
    8. Flowers. Women love flowers, the more the better.
    9. Memorable dates When planning to fall in love with a girl, one should not forget about memorable dates - the first kiss, the first date, the beginning of a life together, etc.
    10. Pleasant surprises: Not all women love surprises, but everyone can appreciate a truly beautiful gesture. Naturally, having bought tickets for the next flight to Paris, subject to the girl's colossal employment at work, or the exam ahead of her tomorrow, the man will not win in the least in her eyes. But unexpectedly donated earrings, going to the cinema, or going to a picnic will be appreciated.

    The main thing to remember for those who plan to follow the methods presented above is that women love to be sought, surprised and indulged in most of the whims.

    Psychological techniques

    Girls do not like overly correct guys, so a man should not talk about being faithful to her only person on the first date, report, talk about everything that happened to him during the day.

    The girl should feel like a woman, not a mother, lavishing praise for good behavior. If a man does not know how to fall in love with a girl, the psychological techniques described below can be a real guide to action for him.

    So what you need to know about women:

    • girls love when they are looked at and when they are admired, because the main thing is eye contact;
    • the girl, who is not deprived of the attention of men, ignores the views of the next boyfriend (he is only one of many for her), the latter needs to act directly opposite to the others, not paying any attention to the object of passion;
    • if the girl is bored with flowers and gifts and she begins to take them for granted, it is necessary to abruptly stop courtship, she will get worried and in the future she will look for a reason to meet;
    • a girl will never fall in love with someone who compares her to other women, because by doing this, a man can lose his beloved forever.

    When making acquaintance and further meetings, you should carefully monitor her reaction to touch. If a girl does not immediately strive to move away from a man whose hand accidentally touched her shoulder or hair, then he is already halfway to her heart.

    Touches, even casual ones, are extremely important: they show the degree of readiness for further rapprochement. If this did not help and the man still has no idea how to fall in love with a girl, psychology will not help here, it is necessary to study the specific situation from the inside and understand the reason for the failure. Perhaps it is due to the fact that the girl is already in love, but hides, or her reaction is associated with the zodiac sign under which she was born.

    It's easy to find out that a girl is in love with a particular man. As mentioned above, she ceases to notice signs of attention given to her by others. In addition, a woman in love forgives a lot, is ready to help her chosen one in any of his endeavors. She is not interested in the opinion of others and even close relatives. She does not allow her to speak badly about her lover.

    Having reached an understanding of how to fall in love with any girl, representatives of the stronger sex begin to experience difficulties in understanding why their chosen one prefers to hide her feelings. There are several reasons for this:

    • the girl did not understand herself, confuses friendship with love and vice versa;
    • she does not trust the chosen one, she is afraid of deception;
    • she is afraid of the condemnation of others;
    • the woman does not know that her feelings are mutual and therefore hides them, fearing to look stupid.

    It is not easy to understand that a girl is hiding in love, but you can still try. To begin with, it is worth observing her reaction to other representatives of the fairer sex who surround the man. As a rule, it is negative.

    Many women give themselves away, unconsciously caring for their beloved - cooking their favorite dishes, gifts for dates that the man himself does not remember, disinterested help in business. In any case, a man must take the first step himself and confess his feelings.

    Is it possible to re-charm an ex-girlfriend (and is it necessary)?

    After a serious quarrel that became the reason for the breakup, some men are worried about how to fall in love with a girl again, how to fall in love with an ex-girlfriend, wife, girlfriend, whether it is worth doing it. The answer to the question depends on the situation that provoked the breakup.

    In most cases, there are no hopeless options, but it is unlikely that the girl will return to the guy who mistreated her, called her offensive words and constantly cheated. If the quarrel was caused by an attack of jealousy, had a domestic character, or was provoked by the environment, then you can return the relationship by repeating a number of points described above.

    Entering into an already destroyed relationship, a man runs the risk of facing previously existing and unresolved problems. Before seeking the favor of your ex, you need to carefully weigh all the pros and cons.

    How to behave with representatives of different zodiac signs?

    The nature of the relationship being built largely depends on the sign of the zodiac. So, some representatives of the zodiacal wheel can easily fall in love with themselves, while others do not succumb to temptation for a long period of time, surrendering to the mercy of the winner only after making sure in practice of the authenticity of his feelings.

    Aries

    Aries woman will not tolerate a sluggish and not energetic man next to her, because before deciding how to fall in love with an Aries girl, a guy must evaluate his intellectual and social skills. Aries love to joke, are not touchy, can provoke an argument, prefer people who speak directly about their intentions.

    Taurus

    The Taurus woman cannot stand talkers. Not knowing how to fall in love with a Taurus girl, a man is obliged to think about whether he is ready to silently concede in disputes arising in the course of a relationship. Taurus is extremely stubborn, they know exactly who they need, the choice of the chosen one always occurs consciously, in most cases on the basis of careful calculation.

    Twins

    Gemini love witty interlocutors, therefore, there will be no special difficulties with how to fall in love with a Gemini girl. It is pleasant to spend time with representatives of this sign, they are ready to support any conversation.

    How a girl under the sign of Gemini loves

    Cancer

    Cancers are cheerful, but extremely stubborn, therefore difficulties can arise with how to fall in love with a Cancer girl. Sincerity can help in this difficult task. A man should not hide the emotions that cover him, and then he will be able to conquer the heart of a Cancer woman.

    a lion

    Leos are headstrong and impatient, they prefer to dominate in relationships, so a man who is thinking about how to fall in love with a Leo girl will have a hard time. Success will depend on his ability to flatter and compliment him. Leo girls love to be put on a pedestal.

    Virgo

    Virgos prefer a business approach in everything, including in relationships. A man who decides to devote some time to how to fall in love with a Virgo girl will have to carefully monitor all the words spoken in her presence. Virgo remembers all the promises, literally quotes a conversation that took place 1 year ago.

    scales

    Libra loves to chat, and it doesn't matter what, what matters is how. They are refined natures, therefore a man who has conceived to win her hearts and does not know how to fall in love with a Libra girl must learn the art of conducting a salon conversation, be competent in all topics of interest to the chosen one.

    How a girl born under the sign of Libra loves

    Sagittarius

    Sagittarius love to lecture, therefore, in a conversation with them, there is always an edifying and commanding tone. A guy who doesn't know how to fall in love with a Sagittarius girl should practice philosophical conversations. At the same time, talking about feelings and romance is not worth it, Sagittarians do not like this. As well as conversations about home, work, everyday problems.

    Scorpion

    Emotions are important to Scorpio. A man should not think too long about how to fall in love with a Scorpio girl, he just needs to show his true feelings. This should be done carefully, since Scorpios are excellent manipulators.

    Capricorn

    Capricorns prefer to keep their distance from unfamiliar people, so a guy trying to figure out how to fall in love with a Capricorn girl must prepare for a long siege.

    How a girl born under the sign of Capricorn loves

    Aquarius

    One of the easiest zodiac signs to communicate and make new acquaintances. Difficulties with how to fall in love with an Aquarius girl should not arise. Representatives of this sign like well erudite men with a pronounced sense of humor. It is better to talk on abstract topics, preferably bypassing questions about career, life, home, money.

    Fishes

    Sufficiently impressionable zodiac sign. A guy who does not know how to fall in love with a Pisces girl should stock up on exclusively positive emotions and news. Pisces are touchy and easily upset. You should talk to them exclusively about cinema, art, literature, pets.

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    Conclusion

    Not knowing how to fall in love with a girl again, or simply fearing new acquaintances, men experience a lot of emotional troubles.

    It is important to understand that women differ from the representatives of the strong half of humanity in physiological terms, but still remain people for whom, above all, attention and care are important.

    If a man loads a girl with expensive things, but at the same time is not ready to sit by her bed during an illness, then he will definitely not be able to fall in love with her.