I am a value in the eyes of Divine love. I am the center of gravity of love

Natalia Borisovna Pravdina

Chocolate for the soul, or how to get married in 30 days

My dear readers!

In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. It's no secret that we women love to find delight in chocolate! The only problem is that real chocolate is not very good for our dainty waists. So the idea came to create an alternative to the favorite "female consolation".

In this new series you will find:

Everything you need to create a good mood.

Kind words, positive thoughts.

Luxurious illustrations created especially for you.

Please enjoy this "chocolate" as much as possible. Happy reading and good mood!

Your Natalia Pravdina

Are you ready to change your life?

“Well, how are you on the personal front?”, “Will we play a wedding soon?”, “Have you found your husband yet?” - such questions can bring any, even the most optimistic girl (temporarily lonely) to a white heat. Well, what is it! You are only 22 years old (25, 29, 32…) and you still have your whole life ahead of you! But even if you have a lot of fans, and dizzying novels follow one after another; even if you are too busy with your career; even if you are just comfortable alone, in the depths of your soul, an unpleasant itching feeling has already nestled. So when will he show up?

But here's the problem - your Prince is still not shown on the horizon. Either urgent matters are delaying him on the way to you, or the snow-white horse is lame ... Or you have already met the Prince, but he is shy, mumbles, and does not dare to say these magic words to you: “Marry me!” If you are sure that this is the man you need, if you are sure of his sincere and strong feelings for you, then it's time to take the initiative into your own hands and resolutely lead the matter to the wedding. And the basics of positive psychology, feng shui tips, the wisdom of yoga, handmade amulets, and your personal charm, which with the help of this book will increase incredibly, will help you in this good undertaking. Before such a set of modern "love spells" no man can resist.

Small digression. Ask yourself the question: “Why do I need this? Do I want this myself, or is the pressure of the family taking its toll, and also the married girlfriends do not give rest? Because the techniques in this book are time-tested and work very well, you will be able to build strong relationships. But first, think very carefully - are you ready for this yourself? And how much do you love and respect yourself? For nothing more or less depends on it - your happiness.



Of course, for this you will have to work hard. Yes, my friends, happiness does not fall on anyone's head just like that. Basically, the harmony of two is the result of constant work on yourself and on your relationships.

Believe me, with the help of new thinking, you can achieve everything that you dream of! And if a happy marriage is your goal, then you will achieve this too!

I will tell you one important secret: - Happiness comes when you, however paradoxical it sounds, are already happy! This is especially true for girls who have never been married. My dears, please do not think that this Prince Charming will come with a bouquet in his hands, you will fall in love, get married - and then a real fabulous life will begin. Let me warn you against disappointment: if you haven't learned to be happy and self-sufficient before marriage, then marriage itself may not bring you happiness. Fortunately, more and more young girls are beginning to understand this. Marriage is not a panacea for loneliness. Marriage is a union of equal, full, free and loving people who have agreed to live together and support each other.

And another magical secret - the more you love yourself, the more your chosen one will love you, whoever he is! It's verified! And if you only seek to assert yourself through marriage, then this will lead to just the opposite result. As a result - disappointment and tears. So, my dears, before we try on the white dress, let's get down to the plan of turning our hypothetical Cinderella into a real one hundred percent Queen. Then the real King will pull himself up! I am not kidding.



And the first step that you have to take on the path to the realization of your dream must be taken right now: start concentrating on the good that you have. Of course, I do not suggest writing a list of your dowry. Your very best dowry is your positive character traits, your virtues, your strengths. How to develop them, we will say a little later, but for now, thank you for all the good things that you have. Whom to thank? It doesn't matter: God, Destiny, the Universe, your own mother. Really, go up to her now and just hug and kiss her. Whatever your relationship, no matter how difficult, do it.

Like attracts like. The world does not change according to our will. We are changing ourselves, and the world is already following us. Because he has no other choice! This is the foundation of positive thinking. Everyone who has achieved anything in life has always believed in their own strength and that they can achieve anything they want.

Look at the wives of the most successful people on the planet, included in the Forbes magazine lists - they are well-groomed, pleasant to talk to, they have class and style, but they certainly do not fit into strict model parameters. The richest man in the world, Bill Gates, is married to Melinda French, an employee of his own company, whom colleagues called the "blue stocking", with a full figure and not too expressive features. Despite this, she was able to achieve her dream of marrying the man she loved (who also turned out to be a billionaire).



In order to constantly maintain a positive attitude that will attract only good events to you, you will need to make a little effort. Add to your daily and most pleasant habits (for example, eating ice cream before bed or watching your favorite series) one more, but much more useful one - read affirmations. What it is? This beautiful word is called positive statements that are read aloud or silently.

You can repeat them anytime, anywhere. You can use the affirmations that you will find in the book, or you can come up with your own, but just remember two simple rules. In your affirmations there should not be a “not” particle, because by pronouncing the affirmation, you seem to be sending a request to the Higher forces (subconscious, universe) to fulfill your desire. And the Higher powers do not take into account the “not” particle. Therefore, your positive statement should sound like, for example, “I found the man of my dreams,” and not “I don’t want to be alone” (the Universe will skip the “not” and read your desire as “I want to be alone”). In addition, you need to formulate the statement as if your goal has already been achieved, even if this does not yet correspond to the real state of affairs. And don't let that discourage you, because if you follow the new way of thinking, your statements will soon become a reality!



So, say right now, confidently and decisively:

I am the center of gravity of love!

I am the Divine embodiment of love and happiness!

I call on all Higher powers!

Create my new world in accordance with the Divine plan of light!

Did you really say it? Congratulations, you have just taken the first step on the path to happiness, because for the first time you have discovered a new vision of this beautiful world. Starting from this moment, you seem to be laying a new program in your subconscious, and according to this new program, it begins to form new positive events in your life. And the Higher powers will help you with this.

Well, are you ready? Then on a good journey, to the bright realm of Love (towards a veil and a white wedding dress)!


Sunday

We make a decision and create a Wish Map

Sunday… Another beautiful day that you can fully devote to yourself! And the first thing you should do, opening your eyes and smiling, is to lay the right positive attitude for the whole day. Just do it without witnesses. Stretch and confidently say:

Life is always on my side! The whole world gives me support, joy and love.

I believe in kindness, love and happiness!

I am always ready for joyful events in my life!

Today is a day off, which means you can meet your girlfriends, order your favorite dessert in a cafe, lie on the couch with a book or take an aromatic bath ... And so far, no one, mind you, no one, will require you to wash your dirty shirt and socks; to fight with you for the TV remote control to watch the match “for the European Cup”, to ask unnecessary questions like: “Who were you with last year at sea?” or whine: "Is there anything edible in this house" ...

Stop, stop ... Are you really sure that you want to change your such a cool life and voluntarily give up your interests and habits, constantly adjusting them to another person? And then, after all, children may also appear, who, in general, will “build” everyone for themselves? ..



Do you really want to get married?! You yourself?

Not your mother, grandmother or aunt.

Not your boyfriend.

Not your beloved friend, but you.

Why is it so important that you yourself dream of marriage?


Because it is always the most secret personal desires that always come true in the first place. What you passionately desire is fulfilled, on which all your thoughts are concentrated, what you really want no matter what.

At the same time, you should understand what the fulfillment of your desire entails. If this is a dream of marriage, then you need to be aware that this decision will radically change your life and limit your freedom, will require you to give a lot of time to your husband and family. You will have new responsibilities and new responsibilities. Are you ready for this?

If you are already internally ready for change, then start acting right now.

Together we will create the first instrument for the fulfillment of your cherished dream - we will make a WISH MAP. The history of the origin of the Wish Card is lost in the mists of time, but some feng shui experts say that such Wish Cards (or “treasure cards”, “happiness cards”) were used even by the greatest people. It is better to start the ritual of drawing up the Map on the growing moon (like any new business).



You need to arm yourself with a stack of brightly illustrated magazines, a piece of drawing paper, glue, scissors, and also take a photo of yourself in which you like yourself the most. First, we will paste our photo in the center of the sheet. You yourself are like a center of gravity for everything that you want to attract into your life (and there are a lot of places around, how many desires will fit!). Now around, in the order you like, stick pictures of what you would like to have the most.

If you have a loved one, stick their best photo next to you. If you haven't found the Prince yet, choose the type of man you like in the magazines. And in his hand, let's stick a box with two wedding rings. And at the same time we will attach ourselves this elegant veil or wreath of flowers. The wedding bouquet also does not fit. And you can have many, many flowers so that you just bathe in them.

What else?

Will we glue a luxurious apartment to the prince, or is it better to have a country house? And you can add bundles of green bills to yourself, because there are so many expenses ...

This, of course, is only the most approximate version of how you will make your own Wish Map. Choose only those images that are the embodiment of your most cherished and crazy desires. The main thing is that you yourself like what you have created!

Do you understand what you are doing? You show yourself and the universe that your dream has already been achieved. You are there, among all this luxury! You have already got everything you dream of. That is, work on a subtle level has already begun, and it is only a matter of time before all this manifests itself in reality.



Just don't think that after making a Wish Card, you can collapse on your favorite sofa and eat one cake a night. You have decided on your desires, called upon the energy of the Universe for help, but you will have to take many steps towards a happy fate.

Imagine, for example, that you dream of a wedding with an oligarch, while you yourself live in a small village. What is the probability that a lone oligarch will wander there? Zero point five hundredths of a percent. That's the same. You have made a treasure map, but will your dream come true soon if you just sit and wait? It is necessary at least to move to the habitat of these same oligarchs - the capital or a large industrial city.

The card will definitely work for you, but you also need to do something yourself.

In order for new perspectives to appear, you need to get out of the already familiar life rut and act, act, act! Only constant efforts, multiplied by knowledge, will lead you to happiness!

By the way, let me tell you a secret. When you begin to change your mind, thanks to positive thinking, you will be surprised to find that the coveted oligarch excites your imagination less and less. Why? Yes, because you yourself become an interesting person worthy of all blessings. As soon as you realize this, you will understand that the oligarch is just a mirage, an echo of a childhood dream of a Charming Prince.

In fact, there are a lot of interesting and pretty young people (but where have they all been before?) Who are happy to keep company with such a charming girl with eyes shining with the joy of life, like you! And these positive affirmations will strengthen you on your beautiful path:

Love is all around me. I accept love.

I believe that all the Light Forces of the Universe are with me now and help me.

I become for myself an island of light, joy, love and kindness!

By the way, if at first it will be difficult for you to remember all these statements, write them down on a thick piece of cardboard and put them in your wallet or put in your diary. And then every time you open your wallet or organizer, you will read positive affirmations that change your familiar world.

Monday

Portrait of your loved one

Believe that your Prince will definitely appear. And what it will be - it's up to you! And do not listen to the "girlfriend" who claims that there are no Prince Charming for a long time, or that there are not enough of them for everyone, or that they have been married to princesses for a long time. This is for her, who has lost faith that everything is arranged for the best in this best of all possible worlds. And you, who have embarked on the path of a new consciousness, he has been looking for and waiting for a long time. You just need to decide exactly which Prince you really need. With what man are you ready to live your whole life, wake up and fall asleep together, watch TV or walk in the rain.

One of the main conditions in the search for the ideal man (if he is not already next to you) is a clear idea of ​​\u200b\u200bhis ideal partner.

So, we need a pen, a ruler and a piece of paper. Take a sheet of paper and divide it into three parts. On the left side, write down all the positive traits that you DEFINITELY want to see in your ideal partner. In the second column, write about the qualities that you DESIRED to have, but that you are willing to accept the absence of. In the third part of the sheet, write those qualities that you are not very pleased to see, or, more simply, FAULTS that you can forgive. This is a very important part of the work, because, after all, we are all people, and we have the right to certain weaknesses. It is much better to "predict" them in advance, to your liking, than to suffer later from unpredictable consequences.



Start with appearance. tall or short; muscular, thin or full; decide on the color and length of the hair (or maybe you like bald ones), eyes, skin, the shape of the nose and ears. If it is difficult for you to present your ideal in such detail, remember the men who aroused your admiration - maybe you are melting from the charm of Al Pacino or one of the Krestovsky brothers? Ask your friends what kind of men you immediately fall for. Find out how old he should be. Then, having fully presented the visual portrait (fill in all three columns), move on to personal qualities.

What is your ideal: sociable or withdrawn; likes company or a homebody? What does he do - an employee, a businessman or a creative person? How does he treat children, old people, animals? Was he already married? What kind of lover is he? How wealthy is he, does he have a business, housing, car, etc.? What is his hobby? Does he dream of a serious relationship, of marriage? And so on... Feel free to write everything that comes to your mind, because all your requirements can then be adjusted. Most importantly, be honest with yourself.

Correct the list until you feel that absolutely everything suits you in this image, that it evokes some very definite feelings in you - sympathy, love, daydreaming. I want to warn you that in my experience everything comes true! Therefore, be extremely careful and do not forget such critical details as nationality, age, height and skin color! Otherwise, your chosen one will suddenly be from the Ivory Coast - such cases have also happened!



Have you written? Wonderful! And now, please, copy all your work on a beautiful sheet of pink paper and put the folded leaf in a box. Tie the box with a red ribbon and put it in a secluded place. And now…completely forget what you have done. I emphasize that this is a very important point. When you are in a calm, relaxed state, then your desires are realized faster and more efficiently than when you are waiting for the result with tension.

Always look like a million dollars! You will never get a second chance to make a first impression on the man of your dreams. Fate sometimes finds funny ways to bring two loving hearts together. Usually such a meeting occurs at the moment when you least expect it. You can meet your Prince when you're taking out the trash, or when you're waiting in line for the dentist, when you're stuck in traffic, or when you're shopping for a new bra. A dream can come true at any moment, the most important thing is to be absolutely and unshakably sure in a positive outcome. Many people ask me - how can you be calm if time passes, but it's still not there? I answer you - relax. Everything will be ok. Do not even hesitate, do not rush and do not fuss. Everything comes in due time. Including true love.

And further. Do not avoid pleasant friendships or romantic interactions with men who you think do not fit your ideal. It is very useful to have male friends. Moreover, the more men around you, the better! So you will get acquainted with male nature and it will be easier for you to communicate with those whom fate has prepared for you. Accumulate experience, get to know people, analyze your own mistakes and accept everything that life gives you. What if your fate is not the president of the company, but a new manager from a neighboring department who treats you with sweets and timidly gives you flowers? Maybe worth a look?

We are starting to change for the better.

Starting this day say to yourself:

My heart is open to love.

My thoughts are thoughts of love.

My words are words of love.

May there be love and peace throughout the universe!

This is a great start to the day! Yesterday you took an important step, set a specific goal for yourself, creating a portrait of your ideal man. Don't you want to change the list of qualities you have compiled for your loved one yet? It's not too late, you can do it! Reread your list and add to it or remove the excess. It is very useful. As a demonstration of the seriousness of your intentions.

Next step.

Find some free time for your beloved and let's do the exercise "Clarify the direction to the goal."

Focus on yourself now. More specifically, what you need to change and improve in yourself. Write it down in your beautiful notebook. Perhaps you should tweak your own image? Maybe you need to change outwardly (just a little), acquire some new abilities, skills and abilities by the time of the meeting? Can you impress him with your Oxford pronunciation or sports figure, with your career achievements or creative talents? If not, how will you conquer it? How will you start preparing for this meeting?



Note that the above does not mean that you are not good enough for him, by no means! You accept and love yourself for who you are now, but there is no limit to perfection! And the more assets you have in your invisible bank account of success and prosperity, the better your love life will be. This is a medical fact, as Ostap Bender used to say. Clarify and write down all the details that just come to your mind and from which in the future there will be a general picture of success, your individual strategy aimed at achieving the goal.

So, we are developing a precise program of action. Of course, for each it will be individual, because we are all so different, we can have completely different needs and dreams, habits and character traits. But you probably can't do without some hint.

To meet your Prince, you absolutely need:

Self love;

Positive perception of the world;

Active life position;

Availability of education or profession at the time of the meeting.


You will also need:

Get rid of the burden of the past;

Be financially independent;

Be open to new acquaintances;

Develop your own style;

Reveal your sexuality.

Any great achievements in various areas of life were necessarily embodied in reality in several stages: a dream - a goal - a program - an action - a result.



Your beautiful dream, somewhat vague, you have already formulated in the form of a specific goal - the image of an ideal man who becomes your husband. Now it is necessary to designate intermediate goals and methods for achieving them. For example, you write “learn to love yourself”, and below you indicate what you need for this (give yourself useful pleasures, play sports, get rid of bad habits). Or you set the task to “improve your style”, and below you can add, for example, “revise your wardrobe on Thursday”, “make an appointment with a stylist on Monday”, and so on. It is advisable to celebrate everything that you really DID to achieve your dream (for example, at the end of each week), and set new tasks.

In order not to think about what burden of worries you have taken on your own fragile shoulders, try to visualize, that is, visualize the intermediate result. For example, to finally get together for a beautician or stylist, imagine yourself with a light mysterious smile of a beauty queen passing by handsome men who will look back at you. And reminding yourself to apply the appropriate cream in the morning and evening, imagine skin radiant with youth and beauty.



The world around us changes only when we begin to change ourselves. Therefore, start your journey to the desired ideal man from the main thing - start becoming an ideal woman for yourself. The most interesting things await you along the way, you'll see! Sometimes even the achieved goal is not as interesting as the process of achieving it. However, this is the whole intrigue ...

Dreaming about your main goal, every day take a small step towards it.

Dreams come true, remember this, my dear! If you dream of an ideal man, prepare yourself for this meeting, then your dream will surely come true. The main thing is to believe in yourself. Believe that life is preparing a wonderful surprise especially for you. And so it will be, so it is.

Tip: print the following text on a piece of paper, stick it next to the mirror where you look every day and read in the morning and evening. The results are amazing!

“My face is a veil of Divine love.

There is not a spot on it.

It's fresher than a baby's skin.

And the radiance of youth and beauty fills my whole being!”

The first step towards excellence has already been taken!


Love yourself!

Love yourself, and your world will fabulously change! If you only knew how important this is! All happy and successful people love themselves, this is the rule without exception. You can also say this: if you love yourself, then you will definitely achieve success in any business. In everything, including love.

“But how can I love myself if I have so many flaws?” – I often hear from my listeners and readers. “Loving yourself is the hardest thing!” - journalists echo them. Well, it's time to change this situation.

What is it to love yourself? It means to treat yourself with love. It means to accept yourself today completely and completely the way you are. With extra pounds and a small salary, with the "wrong" size of the hips and too snub nose. You are unique, beautiful and unique. Imagine how much your dog or cat loves you. After all, they don’t care what makeup you have or the size of your bust. They love you with absolute love just for being you. Why don't you treat yourself the same way? It will pay off in huge dividends. And the sooner you start to change the attitude towards yourself, the better.

The most important condition in order to conquer the man of your dreams, in order to start the mechanism for the fulfillment of your desires and become happy, is to love yourself. Yes Yes!



You will say: “How is it, I dream of the love of an ideal man, and you say that I should love myself”? Everything is correct. When you start to really love yourself, approve your actions, cheer yourself up, it will become much more pleasant and easier for you to live. This fresh state of mind will fill your heart with love, and your eyes will light up with a new joyful fire. Sooner or later, self-love will begin to overwhelm you and “overflow”, that is, you will begin to broadcast love to the world around you. What do you think, who will your desired Prince notice sooner - a dull person, immersed in thoughts about her own shortcomings, or a cheerful, cheerful and cheerful person? The beauty of a woman lies in the radiance of her eyes. Then everything else follows.

Your body wants, craves, asks for love in order to be healthy and beautiful, all its cells instantly respond to the messages of love addressed to them. So give your body some love!

Take a few minutes this morning to say hello to yourself.

I love myself, I love the whole world!

I allow myself to live, I allow myself to love!

I'm beautiful and he loves me!

Remember: in order to earn a happy fate and attract the ideal man into your life, you need to have a developed sense of self-worth, unshakable self-confidence and, of course, high self-esteem. And for this you just need to love yourself! As soon as we start loving ourselves, more and more people automatically start loving us. Isn't that what everyone is striving for? You want this, don't you?



Exercise - relaxation "Pink energy of love."

Today, after an eventful day, let's get comfortable on a gymnastic rug or in a comfortable chair, let go of all the worries and anxieties of the past day, disconnect from small and even large problems, stop the cycle of thoughts.

Imagine that your thoughts are light clouds in the bottomless space of Divine silence. You just watch them move and notice how they gradually dissolve and melt into the blue depth of silence. Now imagine that a beautiful peony or rose is blooming in your heart. A pink radiance spreads from this flower. This radiance fills your whole body with pleasant warmth, the scent of flowers and love. Now send this wonderful pink wave to your loved one. Even if he is not yet in reality, he will definitely feel it and will be attracted to you according to the law of similarity of energies. And if you love a real person, wrap him in your pink cloud like a blanket. Let him become warm and cozy in the center of your love. Imagine him relaxing and smiling. Start mentally connecting yourself and him in a pink cloud. You are very good together. Mentally hug your loved one, say something in his ear, preferably something important. Enjoy what you are doing.

Gradually return to your normal state. Be sure that you have taken a very important step towards strengthening your love for yourself, the world and your loved one! Well done!

Do you feel how the feeling of love begins to fill every cell of your body? Fine!

Right now, looking at your reflection in the mirror, smile and say to yourself: “Hi, my beauty. I'm very glad to see you. I love you". This will bring you undoubted benefits.

Make friends...with yourself

Good morning! Today is Thursday, and I recommend you start your new day with these positive statements:

I open myself to the endless flow of love that fills me.

I unconditionally love and approve of myself.

I deserve all the best in life by birthright.

I claim my right to love and be loved!

I take good care of myself.

I cherish my beautiful body!

I hope you started the day in this way, and not by frowning at yourself in the mirror and thinking about why you are still alone. You are not alone, forget about it - you have the dearest interlocutor and friend that can only appear in this world - you yourself!

End of free trial.

Natalia Borisovna Pravdina

Chocolate for the Soul, or Become a Lover in 30 Days

My dear readers! In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. It's no secret that we women love to find delight in chocolate! The only problem is that real chocolate is not very good for our dainty waists. So the idea came to create an alternative to the favorite "female consolation". In this new series you will find:

Everything you need to create a good mood.

Kind words, positive thoughts.

Sayings of great people.

Useful practical tips from every area of ​​life from fitness to cooking.

Luxurious illustrations created especially for you.

Please enjoy this "chocolate" as much as possible. We will be glad if you tell us new topics, ask questions, which we will definitely answer on the pages of the books of the new series “Chocolate for the Soul”.

Happy reading and good mood!

Your Natalia Pravdina

The Art of Joyful Living

O love! How much of the strongest energy is contained in this word! Energies creative, sensual, captivating us with their boundless power.

Anyone who at least once in his life has not experienced the frantic inspiration, the ecstasy of existence that love gives us, one can say, lived in vain in this world.

Do you want love? So open your heart and go towards your Dream, your Love, towards yourself!

Remove fear from your heart. Be sure that somewhere in the world lives the person who will become your destiny. And most importantly - believe that you are worthy of the most beautiful love in the world, and tender, trusting relationships. Happiness is possible at any age and for everyone. Open to love!


Sunday

Let's fill ourselves with love

Every day is the best day to make wonderful changes in your life. Let it be Sunday.

Are you suffering from loneliness? Pardon the pun, but you are not alone in this! The mistake of most people is that they wait for the appearance of love, hoping that love will come and illuminate everything with its light. But the secret is that love does not come from outside, but through you. This means that you do not need to persistently seek love, suffer from its lack and shed bitter tears. By acting in this way, you declare that you just don’t have love, since you are looking for it, don’t you? But as soon as you begin to sincerely, seriously love yourself and life, magical changes begin to occur in your life. Love finds you by itself because you start being love.

If you want to receive love, you must first give it! The more you give, the more you receive because you will keep the abundance of the universe circulating in your life.

Begin by realizing the inescapable fact that you already have love.

Moreover, you have always had it and always will, because you are love. You are a part of the huge creative process of the Universe, the basis of which is pure love and creation. All you need is to realize that you already have love. It was given to you initially, at birth. Once you understand this and accept it for granted, it will become much easier for you to give love, because you can always give what you have, right? Give what you want to receive and you will get it multiplied.

Become love, breathe love, smile with love, look at the world around you with the eyes of love, and then miracles will begin to happen. Day after day, on the pages of this book, we will build a new state of your consciousness that will help you understand that there is a lot of love in your life, and there will be even more!

The fact is that simultaneously with the philosophical laws of love, you begin to comprehend the colorful and mysterious world of feng shui. Feng Shui will also help you balance the energies of your home in a way that will attract even more love into your life. And when you learn to use these wonderful forces for your own and the common good, wonderful new people, situations, opportunities, joyful events that you have always longed for will appear in your life.

Your task is only to create the most favorable conditions for life-giving energy in your home. qi, and for this you need to master the language in which you can communicate with her.

This language is Feng Shui.

With the help of Feng Shui, you can attract into your life not only well-being, but also long-awaited partners, loved ones that you have always dreamed of. Feng Shui always helps! Change is bound to happen. Not always immediately, gradually, although sometimes there are results right the next day. All people are different, and therefore it turns out differently for everyone.

Feng Shui works at all levels of our life. And, perhaps, the most important thing that it brings is joy and hope for a new happy and harmonious life. Feel free to accept the friendly outstretched hand of your new feng shui friend! He will definitely help!

In accordance with the basics of feng shui, love and marriage luck can be attracted, it can be controlled. With the help of Feng Shui, we learn how to properly activate and bring in the beneficial energy of the Earth. – qi – to your home, which has a beneficial effect on romantic relationships, health and harmony of people living there.

Just imagine having all the incredible powers of the Earth at your disposal to help you finally find the right match, find a loving, joyful relationship, and strengthen the family bonds you already have! Imagine that you are dealing with the living force and energy of the Earth and you can even use this power in your own home to achieve your good goals of strengthening family and love! After all, it is the element of the Earth that is “responsible” for these extremely important aspects of our life.

You will never lose if you strengthen and activate the energies of the Earth in your home. You will bring an invaluable sense of stability, confidence and gain more complete trust between loved ones.


Monday

Most importantly, love yourself

Accept as an axiom that the most important person in your life is you! Yes, we all have our wonderful parents, loved ones, husbands, children. This is wonderful. However, the most important person in your life is yourself! And don't talk about selfishness. Why? Yes, because until you learn to be happy with yourself, your loved ones will not be happy with you! There is nothing more unpleasant than a person who suffers from all sorts of inferiority complexes, is vicious, suspicious, jealous and touchy. How can such a person make anyone happy? Unlikely.

A happy person has the rarest ability to pour out his happiness on others. For him, this is a completely natural process, like breathing, and therefore everyone wants to communicate with him. And it doesn’t matter how you look or how you are dressed, people love you, adore you, try to touch you, keep you close…

Loving yourself means, before making an important decision, always asking yourself, your one and only, inimitable, unique heart: “My soul, do you want this?” And if you have an unpleasant feeling, some kind of tingling, discomfort, then in no case do it! Even if it is very important for some reason.

Be very attentive to the signals of your heart, because it is never, never, never wrong, just let it speak!

And every day, start with a qigong exercise to fill yourself with cosmic love:

As you inhale, raise your arms up, opening your palms, as if you were a flower. Imagine that the cosmic energy of love begins to pour into the center of your palms. You may even feel tingling in your palms. Then place your left hand on your right shoulder and your right hand on your left shoulder. Mentally imagine that you are filling yourself with the energy of love. Place the left hand on the right side of the abdomen below the solar plexus and the right hand on the left side of the abdomen. Hold your hands like this for about 5 seconds, feeling and filling yourself with the energy of love. Move your left hand to your left kidney, and your right hand to your right kidney, hold for 5 seconds. Feel the warmth of your palms. Repeat the whole cycle 2 more times.

Everything I do is very good!

I am perfect in every way!

My love grows in me and brings me happiness and success!

Do it right now!

Before you let the long-awaited love into your life, you need to properly clean your house. It sounds rather strange, but it is only at first glance. Good Feng Shui always starts with clearing debris, because you and I are dealing with energies. Since all things have energy, everything that is stored for years without any movement and use turns into a kind of chains that the owners of these blockages are forced to pull along with them through life.

Natalia Borisovna Pravdina

Chocolate for the soul, or how to get married in 30 days

My dear readers!

In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. It's no secret that we women love to find delight in chocolate! The only problem is that real chocolate is not very good for our dainty waists. So the idea came to create an alternative to the favorite "female consolation".

In this new series you will find:

Everything you need to create a good mood.

Kind words, positive thoughts.

Luxurious illustrations created especially for you.

Please enjoy this "chocolate" as much as possible. Happy reading and good mood!

Your Natalia Pravdina

Are you ready to change your life?

“Well, how are you on the personal front?”, “Will we play a wedding soon?”, “Have you found your husband yet?” - such questions can bring any, even the most optimistic girl (temporarily lonely) to a white heat. Well, what is it! You are only 22 years old (25, 29, 32…) and you still have your whole life ahead of you! But even if you have a lot of fans, and dizzying novels follow one after another; even if you are too busy with your career; even if you are just comfortable alone, in the depths of your soul, an unpleasant itching feeling has already nestled. So when will he show up?

But here's the problem - your Prince is still not shown on the horizon. Either urgent matters are delaying him on the way to you, or the snow-white horse is lame ... Or you have already met the Prince, but he is shy, mumbles, and does not dare to say these magic words to you: “Marry me!” If you are sure that this is the man you need, if you are sure of his sincere and strong feelings for you, then it's time to take the initiative into your own hands and resolutely lead the matter to the wedding. And the basics of positive psychology, feng shui tips, the wisdom of yoga, handmade amulets, and your personal charm, which with the help of this book will increase incredibly, will help you in this good undertaking. Before such a set of modern "love spells" no man can resist.

Small digression. Ask yourself the question: “Why do I need this? Do I want this myself, or is the pressure of the family taking its toll, and also the married girlfriends do not give rest? Because the techniques in this book are time-tested and work very well, you will be able to build strong relationships. But first, think very carefully - are you ready for this yourself? And how much do you love and respect yourself? For nothing more or less depends on it - your happiness.

Of course, for this you will have to work hard. Yes, my friends, happiness does not fall on anyone's head just like that. Basically, the harmony of two is the result of constant work on yourself and on your relationships.

Believe me, with the help of new thinking, you can achieve everything that you dream of! And if a happy marriage is your goal, then you will achieve this too!

I will tell you one important secret: - Happiness comes when you, however paradoxical it sounds, are already happy! This is especially true for girls who have never been married. My dears, please do not think that this Prince Charming will come with a bouquet in his hands, you will fall in love, get married - and then a real fabulous life will begin. Let me warn you against disappointment: if you haven't learned to be happy and self-sufficient before marriage, then marriage itself may not bring you happiness. Fortunately, more and more young girls are beginning to understand this. Marriage is not a panacea for loneliness. Marriage is a union of equal, full, free and loving people who have agreed to live together and support each other.

And another magical secret - the more you love yourself, the more your chosen one will love you, whoever he is! It's verified! And if you only seek to assert yourself through marriage, then this will lead to just the opposite result. As a result - disappointment and tears. So, my dears, before we try on the white dress, let's get down to the plan of turning our hypothetical Cinderella into a real one hundred percent Queen. Then the real King will pull himself up! I am not kidding.

And the first step that you have to take on the path to the realization of your dream must be taken right now: start concentrating on the good that you have. Of course, I do not suggest writing a list of your dowry. Your very best dowry is your positive character traits, your virtues, your strengths. How to develop them, we will say a little later, but for now, thank you for all the good things that you have. Whom to thank? It doesn't matter: God, Destiny, the Universe, your own mother. Really, go up to her now and just hug and kiss her. Whatever your relationship, no matter how difficult, do it.

Like attracts like. The world does not change according to our will. We are changing ourselves, and the world is already following us. Because he has no other choice! This is the foundation of positive thinking. Everyone who has achieved anything in life has always believed in their own strength and that they can achieve anything they want.

Look at the wives of the most successful people on the planet, included in the Forbes magazine lists - they are well-groomed, pleasant to talk to, they have class and style, but they certainly do not fit into strict model parameters. The richest man in the world, Bill Gates, is married to Melinda French, an employee of his own company, whom colleagues called the "blue stocking", with a full figure and not too expressive features. Despite this, she was able to achieve her dream of marrying the man she loved (who also turned out to be a billionaire).

In order to constantly maintain a positive attitude that will attract only good events to you, you will need to make a little effort. Add to your daily and most pleasant habits (for example, eating ice cream before bed or watching your favorite series) one more, but much more useful one - read affirmations. What it is? This beautiful word is called positive statements that are read aloud or silently.

You can repeat them anytime, anywhere. You can use the affirmations that you will find in the book, or you can come up with your own, but just remember two simple rules. In your affirmations there should not be a “not” particle, because by pronouncing the affirmation, you seem to be sending a request to the Higher forces (subconscious, universe) to fulfill your desire. And the Higher powers do not take into account the “not” particle. Therefore, your positive statement should sound like, for example, “I found the man of my dreams,” and not “I don’t want to be alone” (the Universe will skip the “not” and read your desire as “I want to be alone”). In addition, you need to formulate the statement as if your goal has already been achieved, even if this does not yet correspond to the real state of affairs. And don't let that discourage you, because if you follow the new way of thinking, your statements will soon become a reality!

“In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. Get as much pleasure out of this "chocolate" as you can. Happy reading and good mood!”

Natalia Pravdina

Message from the author

My dear readers! In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. It's no secret that we women love to find delight in chocolate! The only problem is that real chocolate is not very good for our dainty waists. So the idea came to create an alternative to the favorite "female consolation". In this new series you will find:

Everything you need to create a good mood.

Kind words, positive thoughts.

Sayings of great people.

Useful practical tips from every area of ​​life from fitness to cooking.

Luxurious illustrations created especially for you.

Please enjoy this "chocolate" as much as possible. We will be glad if you tell us new topics, ask questions, which we will definitely answer on the pages of the books of the new series “Chocolate for the Soul”. Happy reading and good mood!

My dear readers! In your hands is a real treat for the soul. We called this series “Chocolate for the soul”. It's no secret that we women love to find delight in chocolate! The only problem is that real chocolate is not very good for our dainty waists. So the idea came to create an alternative to the favorite "female consolation". In this new series you will find:

Everything you need to create a good mood.

Kind words, positive thoughts.

Sayings of great people.

Useful practical tips from every area of ​​life from fitness to cooking.

Luxurious illustrations created especially for you.

Please enjoy this "chocolate" as much as possible. We will be glad if you tell us new topics, ask questions, which we will definitely answer on the pages of the books of the new series “Chocolate for the Soul”.

Happy reading and good mood!

Your Natalia Pravdina

Sunday

High start

In order to start a new life - and this is exactly what will happen as soon as you start reading this book - you do not need to choose any special day. Just at this moment you have in your hands the most valuable tool - the power of the present moment and the situation appropriate to the occasion.

What does this mean?

And the fact that the Universe is very fond of symbolic gestures. And when you precede your actions with the appropriate symbolic gesture, it helps you focus on the final result, then the intensity of the applied energy becomes much higher. So what could be more symbolic for the start of a new life than Sunday?

We all want to find a solution—a formula that will enable us to be successful in everything we do. Do you also dream of finding such a formula?

Believe me, such a formula really exists! And the most amazing thing is that you don’t have to look for it for a long time, you don’t have to re-read a thousand magical books, you don’t have to join secret societies, you don’t have to study for many, many years. Almost everyone knows it, almost everyone can take it and use it for their own purposes, no one hides it, encrypts it or makes it secret. It is simple and consists of such points, actions and conditions, seeing which you shrug your shoulders and ask: is that all?

But everything ingenious is simple!

Judge for yourself.

The formula for success is to clearly imagine your goal, have confidence in yourself and your abilities, constantly, daily, step by step move towards this goal and understand that any failure is the key to future success. That's all!

Are you surprised?

However, you won't find anything better!

Think about these four components of success, realize them. Believe me, in just four weeks, consistently applying them in your personal life, you will gain the knowledge, experience and strength to achieve literally anything you want.

You will find a new state of consciousness where success and happiness are the norm of life. You will begin to get much more joy from every day you live.

Estee Lauder was the youngest of nine children in a family of immigrants from Europe. She had no money, no merchandising experience, no special technical knowledge in the production of cosmetics and skin care products, no business experience. She decided that to succeed it is very important to have an appropriate image. She dressed like her most elite customers and skillfully portrayed a wealthy and famous society woman. Soon this single mother, who was already over 30, was able to create an incomparable beauty empire and became the queen of the United States cosmetics industry, in the good old tradition of all great entrepreneurs, starting from the bottom, where all grandiose projects are usually born.

Estee Lauder is a creative dreamer who has risen to prominence through extraordinary ambition, energy, impeccable taste, innovative trading methods to achieve her goal. An aspirational super-entrepreneur, she challenged the status quo of women's business to rise to the top in a highly competitive industry.

Lauder's cosmetics empire has made her one of the richest women in the world. She was the only woman on Fortune magazine's list (Billionaires, 1991) to achieve everything on her own.

Little Esty, as she was called in childhood, possessed one decisive quality that all great people need to realize their “blue dream”. She determined her limit of possibilities, not relying on other people's guidelines. Lauder pursued her goal with an impatience and aggressiveness that elevated her to a level of power not normally available to women. “I started late, I had neither the time nor the place to wait,” she said.

With little more than a dream, Estee Lauder has made her firm now more than $2 billion a year in revenue, only Avon and Revlon have higher profits.

week one

Purpose and means

If you really decide to become a successful person, the first thing to do is to determine what you really want! In order to achieve your goal, you must passionately want it, crave it, desire it, strive for it. Nobody can do it for you. Nobody knows what you want. Therefore, the definition of the goal is the most important stage in our strategy with you. Do this, and you will see how much easier and more correct you will make the necessary decisions, how much more meaningful and productive your actions will become. The ability to constantly see the goal alone can completely change your life!

Only when you have a goal, when you know exactly what you are striving for, only then is it possible to determine the course, the direction of your activity. Only then will you make your desires, your dreams come true. Only then can you fully realize yourself and enjoy what you have achieved.

The goal is your choice!

The goal is your result!

But first you need to define what success is.

The word "success" is used so often that its true meaning seems to be "blurred", it seems to be not very inspiring. In fact, being successful is great, my friends! To be successful means to be needed by people, popular, rich, successful, healthy, free and loved. It would seem that such a short word, but contains almost all human values.

Stop for a moment, get out of the frantic cycle of modern life for a moment and think about what you are striving for? What do you need recognition for? Whose love do you crave? What kind of wealth do you want to have?

Each of us has our innermost desires and dreams. Therefore, there is no exact definition that would be suitable for absolutely everyone!

Define exactly what success means to you personally, right now. And then you will receive an accurate compass that will lay the right course for you to swim in the sea of ​​Life. He will lead you through all the storms and storms, help you maintain firmness and confidence in any situation, and lead you to your cherished bay, whose name is "Dream".

State your desire clearly. Decide what matters most to you. Let the Universe fulfill your desires one by one. It is impossible to get everything at once, although you really want to, but if you do everything right, then you will have everything you want.