It all starts on time and ends too. Wise sayings. Everything has its favorable moments, and each such moment gives opportunities
What should happen will happen - in due time. You just need to have patience and determination. You need to “build the present” day after day in order to get opportunities in the future and achieve the desired goal.
Several things follow from the phrase that we have titled the article. The first is that forcing events, striving to achieve something ahead of time does not always lead to good results.
Secondly, we must learn to accept the fact that life has its cycles, their favorable (for something) moments. No one, for example, can hope to find a wonderful match for himself, if before that he has not learned to love himself.
Therefore, it is normal when we, going through these phases of self-knowledge, unsuccessful relationships, gradually approach the person who will be for us.
Growing up means learning and above all be open to everyone opportunitiesthat are provided to us... We invite you to reflect on this.
Everything has its favorable moments, and each such moment gives opportunities
Often, when you least expect it, everything is going well. And it's not about the famous "law of attraction". In most cases, it is not enough to want it strongly for something to happen.
Usually, something good is happening because the moment is right and, most importantly, because we created all the conditions so that at this moment we could take advantage of the fruits of our efforts.
The magic of opportunity
The magic is to be able to see the opportunity that opens before us at a certain moment. It needs to be intuitively understood and appreciated.
- Let's give an example.We learn a profession, spend a lot of time, acquire knowledge and skills.
- And now vacancies appear on the labor market. This is something innovative and, at the same time, close to our specialty, to our education. But we are scared to try ourselves in a new field, because we do not know if we can cope with this work.
- Only those who can see and appreciate the opportunity and are willing to risk "grabbing" for itwill be able to take advantage of being in the right place at the right time. It was at that moment - neither earlier nor later.
If we haven't seized the moment, perhaps such ideal circumstances will no longer arise.
What is about to happen will happen - if we make an effort
Opportunities don't usually "knock at our door." Immobility does not attract opportunity, nor does simple desire.
- “What has to happen” requires an effort on our part. We can - and should - be active and,change the reality around us and contribute to the emergence of favorable (for us and our plans) opportunities.
- Yes, there are things that are happening because the time has come. But if we ourselves do not make efforts, will, it is unlikely that what we desire will suddenly appear in front of us.
You need an open mind
An open mind is not a mind dreaming under the stars and inflating its desires to infinity. An open mind has very specific characteristics:
- He is aware of his needs.
- He has a good connection with himself, a good idea of \u200b\u200bhimself, adequate self-esteem. He is able to separate the necessary from the unnecessary.
- He is a good observer, hears and sees everything around him and chooses what will allow him to grow and achieve his goals.
- An open and receptive mind is able to seize the moment and direct and knowledge to realize the opportunity when it arises.
You need to be patient
Those who are in too much of a hurry, who take risks without properly assessing the danger, who lack the patience, are often disappointed with the results of their activities.
- We often hear recommendations: "you need to be able to take risks, do not be afraid to leave your comfort zone ..." But to take risks, you need to be prepared for it.
- Without a good and adequate one, we cannot, for example, find ourselves a couple with whom we will be happy. We will always depend on what the other partner does or allows us to do.
- We also cannot qualify for a specific job if we do not have the required qualifications. If we are rejected, it will be fair. Therefore, you need to be patient and, above all, "invest" in yourself, in your personal maturity, in practical skills and knowledge.
Sometimes we get tired of waiting for the moment when the good that we think we deserve will finally happen to us. In order for this to happen, you need to keep your hands on, continue to believe in yourself, fight, be receptive and open.
And then what should happen will definitely happen!
In a world woven of chance
There is a place for happy occasions:
Amazing, wonderful,
Something in the destinies that change for the better ..
Running thousands of kilometers is necessary in order to clearly realize to whom you will go barefoot in the snow, and to whom you will never return.
All women are delightful, and the love of men will give them beauty.
Original Russian Text © A.S. Pushkin
There is only one form of intimacy, which does not hinder the development of the personality and does not cause contradictions and loss of energy - this is mature love; by this term I mean complete closeness between two people, each of whom retains complete independence and, in a sense, separation. Love truly does not cause conflict and does not lead to waste of energy, since it combines two deep human needs: intimacy and independence.
© Erich Fromm
Believe. Trust. Gray. Thank you.
People are together as long as they want to be together. Neither duty, nor honor, nor moral bind one person to another. When a person wants to leave, he will leave the house, and from the children, and from the dying kaleka. As long as he does not want to - remains close.
When a person wants to be together, none of your shortcomings will prevent him. When a person wants to leave, none of your dignity will hold him back. No matter how ugly and unattractive you are, there will be someone who will like you. As good and desirable as you are, there is someone who will reject you.
If you are rejected, it means nothing. You do not become worse or less, nothing terrible actually happens. Your man is in the world, and he will accept you. If you are accepted, one day you will part - not in life, but in death. Cherish what you have, do not regret what you will lose, and do not be afraid to lose.
Rejoice that there is a person who shines for you. Shine for yourself: the more light - the less fear, the less fear - the less darkness in the soul. A leaf that wants to return to the tree can swim against the current and fly against the wind. But the tree will not adhere it to the old branch.
The more you love, the more you give love, the more remains. If, by giving love, you feel pain or hatred, it means that you gave a person poison in a chocolate glaze. It is hardly worth demanding a thank you for such a gift.
Let go. Allow a person to be someone other than the mirror of your love - especially since that is how it is. Dissolving in a loved one is a rare talent and a rare curse. Be yourself, be worthy, forget about fear - one day he will all equally return. But not today.
Believe. Trust. Gray. Thank you. Do not think about what may be - only about what is here and now, in fire and water, under the stars.
Leave before dead love begins to stink of death. Come before desire turns into obsession.
What is bought with money only costs money. That which is begged, paid out, taken away and stolen, will once be taken away a hundredfold. What is given of good will, from the heart, is priceless.
How to recognize your person? Just. You will go to meet and run into him in the middle of the road. He didn't know. You didn't call. You have found. And wherever you moved before, you are now on the way.
One of the main rules that I love to follow.
“You are needed where you are now. Only what should happen happens. It all starts on time and ends too. "
Of course, it is very insulting when your loved one took and left. And it doesn't matter where, to the new, or to the old. You sit in the dark, you are sad, in the first moments you do not understand at all what happened. Pain in the heart, somewhere sharpens, there is a "worm" of resentment. And it’s not clear to you, you tried so hard, but then you took, and your loved one left. And where? To the former or the former!
What to do? Maybe what he didn't see? Maybe he gave few gifts? Did you pay little attention? How so? Or maybe it's a love spell? Maybe I should bewitch her / him? Take it easy! Don't do it right away! Let's figure it out. If a person has left, then he is "not according to fate." From above, everything is thought out for us. Most likely, this love was sent to you to acquire, albeit not pleasant, but experience. Of course, a person cannot do without analyzing the situation. The first thing you do, you start to think all different things.
What, why, and why happened. Well, let's say you changed your mind and came to the conclusion that your actions are correct, but on the part of your lover's “former” partner / lover, the actions are definitely strange.
How to find out about a love spell?
You are almost sure that the other side did not disdain the love spell. How to check? Signs of a love spell can be an unreasonable change in behavior, forgetfulness, tired appearance, bad mood, indifference to everything.
The person does not sleep well, the temperature rises, the appetite and interest in sex disappear. Remember if there was something similar with your partner who left you? Next, we check with simple mechanical methods for the presence of a love spell.
And there are several ways. Well, for example.
Verification methods
Method one
Take a photo of the one you love, the one who left you. You will also need an egg and holy water. Holy water can be replaced with pure spring water. In a clockwise circular motion, start rolling the egg over the photo. Just be careful not to shake or break it.
This is necessary in order to collect energy. Then gently break and pour the egg into a glass of holy water so as not to damage the yolk. The yolk should remain intact, and the protein should be kept as a homogeneous substance, transparent, homogeneous. A cloudy, sometimes smelly, streaked protein is evidence of a love spell, and even worse, damage.
For control, put a glass with an egg in a dark place for a day. If the appearance of the egg changes after a day, it is safe to say that a magic ritual was performed on the person.
Method two
To carry out the check, you will need a church candle and any silver thing. You need to take the candle in your right hand and hold it in the area of \u200b\u200bthe heart. Hold a silver item in your left hand.
If during burning the candle bursts, smokes heavily, black influxes appear on the melting wax, there is a love spell.
Method three
This is the most professional way. Take a wax candle, or a church candle. You need to separate the wax from the wick, as you need wax. Nearby should be a photograph of the person we are diagnosing, moreover, in full growth. Melt the wax in a water bath.
Then move the dish with wax clockwise in a circular motion over the photo. Pour this wax into a bowl prepared in advance with spring and slightly salted water. While you heat the wax, while swiping over the photo, while pouring it into the water - think about the person being diagnosed, trying to mentally penetrate deeply into him.
If the wax spills in the water and froze with threads, there are holes in the wax, it curled up ugly there - there is a love spell or damage. If the wax spills into an even "pancake" - everything is clean. Throw away the wax immediately. It cannot be reused.
In our military life, we often have to communicate with subordinates or commanders and sometimes there are situations in conversation when it is necessary not to fall face down in the dirt and tactically get out of the situation and how wise sayings of philosophers, great commanders, politicians, famous people come to mind , quotes from books of poets and writers, folk proverbs and sayings that are suitable for a particular occasion and help to briefly and clearly explain your train of thought and your point of view.
The water shapes the stream, using the terrain, the army goes to victory, using the mistakes and weaknesses of the enemy. (Sun Ji).
Subduing the enemy without fighting is the true pinnacle of superiority. (Sun Ji).
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. (Sun Ji).
Through hardships to victory !!!
There is no point in fighting without the will to win. (General Douglas MacArthur)
Live today, fight tomorrow.
The sappers walk very slowly, but there is no need to overtake them.
I came, I saw, I won. (Alexander the Great)
You will live longer, you will see more.
Russians do not abandon their own in the war.
A person does what he must - regardless of personal circumstances, regardless of obstacles and dangers, pressure - and this is the basis of human morality. (Winston Churchill)
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees every difficulty as an opportunity. (Winston Churchill)
You are needed where you are now. Only what should happen happens. It all starts on time and ends too.
Come back to earth if your brain is clouded and your heart is empty, only by returning to the beginning can we see the path.
The future has one peculiarity, as soon as you look into it, it changes immediately, because you saw it, and this changes everything else. ("Prophet")
Chaos theory":
“Studying a phenomenon that looks chaotic, but has an element of regularity that can be described,” that is, initially the events may seem unrelated, but in the end you can see the structure and all the pieces will add up. (Edward Lawrence)
You don't have to die to understand what life is, but you have to live knowing what death is, but one thing you don't need to do is play with death while you are alive.
Definition of beauty: It is the sum of the interacting elements, so there is no need to add, subtract, change (Italian artist Carloti)
Love is not when two people look into each other's eyes, but when they look in the same direction.
Love will come unexpectedly when you don't expect it at all.
In love, as in dentistry, you have to tear quickly.
Loves, tolerates.
Let the world change you and you will change the world.
If you want the world to change, become that change yourself. (M. Gandhi)
There is no need to cave in under a changeable world, let it be better to cave in under us.
A thin world is better than a good quarrel.
Whoever comes to us with a sword will perish by the sword. (Alexander Nevskiy)
In life, as in boxing: the main thing is not with what force you strike, but with what force you can withstand the strike.
One cannot live by the laws of this world, but one must not turn away from life in this world.
Life must be lived so that it would not be excruciatingly painful for the years spent aimlessly.
Life with its phenomena can be likened to a dream, a phantom, a bubble, a shadow, a flash of dew or a flash of lightning, and it should be imagined just like that.
The right to live is such a generous, such undeserved gift that it more than pays for all the sorrows of life, every single one.
Do not be afraid that your life has to end, be afraid that it never begins. (John Newman)
Life itself does not mean anything until there is a person trying to interpret its phenomena.
Anyone who has answered himself the question "Why live?" Will be able to endure almost any answer to the question "How to live?"
Laughter and sigh, kiss and goodbye - that's our whole life.
Life is like a card game you play without knowing the rules.
Life is more like a novel than our novels are like life.
There are only two ways to live your life. The first one is as if there were no miracles. The second is as if everything in the world is a miracle.
In dialogue with life, it is not her question that is important, but our answer.
In life, only two tragedies are possible: the first is to get what you dream about, the second is not to get it.
Human life is like a box of matches: it's ridiculous to take it seriously. To be frivolous is dangerous.
The only difference between a good dinner and life is that the sweet is served at the end.
"Life is an effort in time" (Marcel Proust)
The meaning of life is that it has its end.
Life is too complicated a thing to talk about seriously.
Life is not a property to be protected, but a gift to be shared with other people.
The true life of a person is one that he does not even know about.
Life is such a thing, you don't know where you will find it, and where you will lose it. (I.P)
Life is so short, you won't have time to look back, years will fly by.
Life is hanging by a thread, and he thinks about profit.
Life is calculated not in minutes, but in moments.
Abstinence is the first step of virtue, which is the beginning of moral perfection. (Lao Tzu)
Large and medium-sized rivers do not hesitate to accept streams and mountain streams in order to fill themselves and thereby be great. (Lao Tzu)
He who overcomes others is strong, but he who overcomes himself is powerful. (Lao Tzu)
The great is made up of the small, and much of the little. (Lao Tzu)
Sleep is the royal road to the unconscious, closer to intuition. (Sigmund Freud)
Sleep is a world without sound. (Zhang Sanlian)
An amazing creature - a woman! Incomprehensible and unpredictable. (Zhang Sanlian)
Women's anger is like water in sand. At first it rages, makes noise, and then disappears, so you won't find traces. (Zhang Sanlian)
Many women manage to take possession of a man's heart, but few of them can control it. (J. Jubran)
The true beauty of a woman lies in the meekness of her character, and her charm lies in the meekness of her speech. (Ahikar)
Never run after buses or women - you still won't catch up.
To lie to a woman is ugly, it is beautiful to lie to a woman - this is an art.
The more often a woman moans at night, the less often she grumbles during the day.
A woman is always not enough, and a man is content with little
The best way to forget a woman is with another woman.
If a woman is silent, then she is trying to think
Women's logic defies logic. (I.P)
Listen to the woman and do the opposite.
Man proposes, God disposes
Trust in God, but do not make a mistake yourself.
Let him be the first to throw a stone at me who is without sin.
Do not rush to condemn people for their past, you do not know your future.
Do not judge, but you would not be judged.
Each has a stigma in the gun.
Anger releases a certain hormone that temporarily lowers IQ.
It is better to praise a person not in his presence - such praise is dearer to everyone. (Xu Xuemo)
When a strong wind blows, it cools a smart head, and blows out the last brains from a stupid one
One case is an incident, the second is suggestive, and the third is a pattern.
Do not try to fight your shortcomings, try to turn them into advantages.
We like a person for his merits, and we love him for his shortcomings.
Having made sudden conclusions, an erroneous opinion is formed. (I.P)
The more secretive you act, the more likely you are to achieve your goal.
The line between genius and insanity is determined by the measure of success.
Doubt never hurts if it doesn't get in the way of action.
With different principles, you cannot find a common language. (Confucius)
Better to light a small candle than curse the darkness. (Confucius)
There is no need to regret the past, because you cannot enter the same river twice.
What is the end of the world for a caterpillar is the beginning of life for a butterfly.
It is better to have and not need than to need and not have.
It's not enough to know your own worth, you also need to be in demand.
Nobody knows the truth, but everyone knows the truth.
Justice is truth in action.
Learn from everyone, don't imitate anyone.
Knowing the path and walking it is not the same thing.
There is nothing to be afraid of except their own fear.
The snake is dangerous as long as there is no antidote.
Suffering leads to self-knowledge.
Time dictates the rules. (I.P)
Not we such, Life is such.
Revenge is a dish served cold.
Cowards do not take revenge, but only fools take revenge at once.
They are greeted by clothes, but escorted by the mind.
All that glitters is not gold.
In disputes, truth is born
Behold at the root. (Kozma Prutkov)
For what I bought, for what I sell.
Past acquaintances create more problems than they solve.
Do not share the skin of a bear that has not been killed.
End justifies the means.
He who does not take risks does not drink champagne.
Risk is a noble cause.
Accuracy - the politeness of kings.
We have, we do not value, we lose we cry.
If it arrives somewhere, then it decreases somewhere.
Do not hit your face in the dirt.
For every action there is a reaction
What is good for a Russian is death for a German.
To admit your illness means to defeat it in half.
The Forbidden fruit is sweet.
The holy place will not be empty.
In any situation, you need to look dignified.
If you want to do something well, do it yourself.
Cat from home, mice to dance.
At home among strangers and a stranger among friends.
You don't need to envy anyone, you need to achieve everything yourself. (I.P)
We ourselves create difficulties for ourselves, which we then heroically overcome.
Sink or swim
Moscow was also not built immediately.
It's time to collect stones.
Don't forget the past, live in the present and think about the future. (I.P)
There would be no happiness, but misfortune helped
Everything secret sooner or later becomes apparent. (Socrates)
Call me anyone, just don't interfere with my development.
With condoms, like with an umbrella, you take it with you, it won't rain anyway.
You will not drink, your mind will freeze, you will be a fool in old age. (A.S. Pushkin)
The game is not worth the candle.
Customs gives the go-ahead.
Eastern wisdom from the master of oriental martial arts Bruce Lee:
On life: If you love life, do not waste time - time is what life is made of.
About the goal: The worst opponent you can face is an opponent who is determined and clearly aware of his goal.
On fame: Posing and showing off is a vision of fame among weaklings.
About cinema: Cinema is a combination of commercial creativity and creative commerce.
On enemies: My main enemy is myself.
About victory: The fight is not won with one blow. You have to learn how to take punches or hire a bodyguard. Forget the words "victory" and "defeat" Forget about pride and pain. Let the enemy enter you, penetrate your flesh. Penetrate you into his flesh, penetrate his skin. Let me break your bones. Don't think about safety - put your whole life in front of him.
About the truth: Truth has no way. Truth is alive, hence changeable.
About heroes: At all times, the end of heroes was the same as the end of ordinary people. They all died, and the memories of them were gradually erased from the memory of people. But while we are alive, we must understand ourselves, understand ourselves and express ourselves.
On money: Money itself has no meaning. This is only a tool for achieving certain goals, and you need to understand what they can, and most importantly - what they cannot.
About the moment: Nothing exists except here and now.
About defeat: Defeat is not defeat, unless you acknowledge it as such in your mind.
On nostalgia: Memories are the only paradise from which we cannot be expelled. Pleasure is a flower that will soon wither, and a memory is the smell of a flower that will remain for a long time. Memories last longer than anything else in life. For many years I remember the tree at the time of its flowering, but not its fruits.
On minimalism: Simplicity is the highest level of art.
About self-knowledge: An ordinary person is a set of routines, ideas and traditions. If you follow this path, you will get to know routines, ideas and traditions - your shadow. You do not know yourself.
On education: Western education is suitable for one, Eastern - for another. You can say: "It is better to do some things with this finger, with this - others." But the whole hand is better anyway.
On people's behavior: To get to know someone, you need to see what he is like with other people.
On the materiality of thoughts: What you think about, so you become.
On the inevitability of death: We must come to terms with the possibility of death. It is worth stopping dreaming of eternal spring, then both summer and winter will bring happiness.
On fleeting attractions: Infidelity cannot really affect marriage, fleeting attraction to another woman is powerless in relation to such a fundamental thing as marriage.
On how to listen to life: Listen. Do you hear the sound of the wind? Can you hear the birds sing? This should be listened to. Stop thinking. Do you know how water fills a cup? It takes the shape of this cup. You have to think about nothing. You have to become nothing.
About teachers and students: Gather all the great teachers in one room and they will agree on everything with each other. Gather their disciples together, and they will argue with each other in everything.
Genuine happiness is inexpensive: if you pay a high price for it, then it is a fake. (Coco Chanel)
How funny it is to listen to a lie when you know the truth ...
The most beloved woman is the one to whom a loving man will deliver the most suffering. (E. Rey)
Do not do evil - it will return like a boomerang, do not spit in the well - you will drink water. Do not humiliate someone who is lower in rank, but suddenly you have to ask for something. Do not betray your friends - you cannot replace them, and do not lose your relatives - you cannot return them !!!
The highest form of power is self-control.
Never draw conclusions about a person until you know the reasons for his actions.
You are so deeply deluded that you are even deluded in the depths of your delusions.
As Munchausen said: "There are no hopeless situations, you have to think !!!"
"To love is to live the life of the one you love." (L. Tolstoy)
Love is like war ... Easy to start, hard to end and impossible to forget ...
Knocked down from your feet, get on your knees, you can't get up, you can't lie down. (V.F.Margelov)
Good relationships are the art of mutual compromise.
Going to get married - do not pursue the immediate goal, but imagine the end result. (V. Schwebel)
States perish when they cease to distinguish between good and bad. (Antisthenes)
Trust must be accurate! A miss can be fatal.
Advice is not a guide to action, but information for thought.
Take advice and do it your way. (I.P)
The greatness of the king is in the ability to forgive.
The surest sign of truth is simplicity and clarity. Lies are always complex, pretentious and wordy. (L. Tolstoy)
Remember! Never go back in time. It kills your present. Memories are meaningless, they only take away your precious time. Stories don't repeat themselves, people don't change. Never wait for anyone, don't stand still ... Whoever needs it, they will catch up. Don't look back, all hopes and dreams are just illusions, don't let them take over you. Remember! Never, under any circumstances, give up, go straight ahead without turning. Only in this way will you achieve what you want.
Whatever you give a woman, she will give you more. You give yourself to her - she will give you a baby. You build her a house - she will give you comfort in it. You will provide her with food - she will give you a delicious dinner. You give her a smile - she will give you her heart.
The true vocation of everyone consists only in one thing - to come to oneself, to find one's own, and not to beloved, fate and surrender to it internally, undividedly and unshakably.
If you ever want to find a person who can overcome any, the most incredible trouble and make you happy when no one else can - just look in the mirror and say: "Hello!"
An intelligent choice comes with experience, and a stupid choice leads to it.
Panic is a vulture sitting on your shoulders