"Sticks in the grave. Aspen stakes in the corners as charm. How to make aspen count? How to drive in the grave of aspen

17.09.2020

Have you ever thought about irreversibility points in the lines of our ancestors?
What would happen if during the Great Patriotic Bomb got not near, and in the same house with a girl pressed to the floor, which will later become your grandmother? Or if there would be a case when the car hit the car as a child, ended in a lot?

Listening to the stories of your favorite old people, I thought a lot: how many times the thread could break, not reaching me? And at such moments, life seemed to me by a miracle, comparing with the brittle existence of humanity himself.

This time I present to your attention a mystical episode from the life path of my great-grandmother.

Tanya's great-grandmother was born in a small Chuvash village before the October Revolution, in 1906. By the end of the 20s - the beginning of the 1930s it was time for her to marry. The son of one of the once prosperous peasants put an eye on a young strong girl. His father, apparently, had other plans for the fate of the child, in which the poor bride with the meaningful last name Barinov did not fit. And besides, Praded was already married. But what to do! He will not order the heart, but people then not as an example we were more independent and disinterested: let go of the father of his son to a loved girl. We became young to prevent, establish life. Only the first wife could not forgive so changeable love and, when everyone was on Senokos, set fire to the housing that did not become her native family ... Everything burned down: and livelihood, and decoration. Before you did not have time for the time of the children.
Built a new home to you. Life was not easy, to that, in the first year, Tatyana was developed in the first year, and he was long waited for him and the second. Tired young from incessant worries. One day a girl with children to her husband came to work and her thought is cramless: Leave children on a walkway, and herself to hang up. That's about to prepared, as the baby tremeted not with their voice. Stopped - it was a pity.

Only there was no such movement of the heart without consequences: the trouble came, the first child died unfortunately. In those days, child mortality was not uncommon, only the second child after the eldest hurried. The third, born, burned as Zenitsa Oka. And so, he was already three years old, when the family went to visit, grabbing her son. The child was enthusiastically played next to his mother, adults led a drinking conversation. Suddenly - the child disappeared. The situation of the traditional village hut was not solicing, rushed to look for all corners. Found. Under the bed, dead.

Mother was killed grief. It is time funeral. Then they noticed among the relatives of the acquaintances of the Milostinnik, the old man of the go. He asked Tatyana in what the grief of her, but suggested what to do. After 40 days, he ordered to make the stake aspen and stick him to the grave of the last son - then no child before the mother would die. What is said, then done. And indeed, it was said. All children were safely survived difficult times, even my grandmother, which was born on the first day of the most significant for our history of the war.

Grandma, telling the story, concludes Moral Such: it happens for some reason the child is born unwanted, and behind him - the long-awaited. And fate (or what other major strength) to restore justice, often takes exactly a pet. (The benefit is now the means of contraception from the minimum to radical are in our hands, but different stories occur).

I wanted to know who this mystical old man would know that almost through the century allowed me to appear to write these lines now. And how many people like him, who, not knowing that, carefully helped convey the fragility of our lives to today.

"TISHAN Secondary School

Wedding customs I.

Traditions of the village of Tishanka

(research)

Head of Virogradenko Tatyana

Vasilyevna, history teacher

Tishanka, 2011.

Introduction ...........................................................2

I. Preparation for the wedding ....................................... ..4

1.1 Watching .......................................... .. 4

1.2 Mogorch ............................................. ... 5

1.3 Looks ..............................................5

1.4. Gull party ............................................. 5.

1.5. Evening ................................................ .... 6

II. Wedding ........................................................... ... 6-9

III Final Wedding Stages .................. .9

Conclusion ............................................. ... 10

Used sources .............................. 11

Introduction

Relevance of work:

The rite of the wedding appeared long ago and remains so far. After all, "play a wedding" - it means that the new seven-institute of the Company continues his life itself. It is believed that observance of wedding customs and traditions promises newlyweds a happy life. And at present, when divorces become frequent phenomena. Parents and newlyweds are increasingly turning to the old wedding traditions, hoping for a long happy family life. Therefore, my research work may have a practical orientation, it can be used in the study of customs and traditions of the village, as well as when preparing for the wedding.

The purpose of research work:collection and systematization of wedding customs and traditions of the village of Tishanka and nearby farms

Research methods:

poll, analysis of the Museum Materials, Media Analysis, Interviewing.

Used sources:

memories of "Storelov village", media materials, the chronicle of the village of Tishanka, local history literature.

I.. Wedding preparations

Wedding - from the word "your own", "Prival", your own man. " At the heart of the wedding rite - the road along which the groom moves into a new life, the road turning the previously scattered into one. In the old days of the wedding played very solemnly, because people realized marriage really as a sacrament, realizing that this step was determined by their life to death and the road would not be back. Wedding ritual was strictly regulated. Wedding ritual was strictly regulated, it was a whole performance with many actors, each of which had its own role.

At the base of the wedding ritual several stages:

Matchmaking

Stamps

hen-party

Wedding day

Drive "touzul"

Crack

1.1 Watching

It was possible to wrap usually in the evening, went with gardens. The young was called allegorically by the "merchant of goods", and the bride is "product".

With the wedding of the bride, the parents of the groom brought bread, salt, alcohol. When wedding the bride and the bride ask "they agree to connect their hearts." If consent was obtained, then the matchmaker was put on the table bread and alcohol.

The first glass was swat with a matchmaker, mother with mother, bride with fiance. After that, dragged the song.

1.2 Mogorch

It was usually arranged three days later or a week after the walling. Invited close relatives on both sides and girlfriends of the bride. The feast aggreed about the wedding.

1.3 Stunches

"The place was watched" usually after the walling in two weeks. Not - Vesta, her parents and brother. After examining the economy, the house, measuring the windows (for sewing the curtain), organized a feast.

1.4 Gull Party

The day before the wedding in the house of the bride gather her girlfriends and the godfather Mother loose knead. The table put a dish, three candles on the dish. The godfather's mother before the loaf asked the blessings from the parents of the bride and girlfriends. At first she appealed to the Father: "Bless, OUR KUM, loose to knead." Father answered: "God blessed and I bless." Then the mother and girls asked the same.

When the loaf baked, watched: if he is a whole - to a long and happy life; With a crack - the life of the newlyweds is not silent; Potrested - life will go awry.

The dowry has always been an important condition for the Russian wedding, it was included in it: bed, dresses, homemade utensils and decorations, money, real estate. Nothing required from the groom. This collusion was less important. If the bride was from the poor family and could not bring in the house to the dowry, then the groom himself "did the dowry" or passed the bride's parents some amount of money - an old custom did not allow the bride without dowry.

The tradition prescribed a Russian guy to make it with their own hands everything you need to make his favorite could prepare her dowry. And of course, every young man tried to beat everyone else with his skill, preparing such a gift for the girl. How much fiction, ingenuity, fine artistic taste is invested in the decoration of every ribbed! So is it to be surprised that the gingerbread, the living embodiment of young love, for many years, decorated the hostess of the hostess, and then passed, carefully stored, inherited from mother to her daughter, from grandmother to her granddaughter.

There was a belief that dashing sorcerers and sorcerers can make damage and catch up with evil spirits to the house where the wedding ridges. Vs
this was given different means. The wretched room was elected by Stennik, often intense. It was necessary that there was no land on the ceiling, so that, thus, the marriage bedroom did not like anything on the grave.

In the evening, the bride's house came the relatives of the groom per bed. Bridesmaid girlfriends demanded a redemption bed, led bargaining. After the end of the bargain, the bed was taken to the groom's house. The curtains hang out there, laid out the dowry.

1.5. Evening.

In the evening, the friends and friendship of the bride and groom gathered. Only young people. They sang, danced, treated.

II.. Wedding

First wedding day . In the morning, the girlfriend was collected by the bride to the wedding. They dressed her in festive clothes and seated in the "holy corner" under the icons. Waiting for the groom girl sang songs. Mother of the bride and groom should not be dressed in the dress, as it was believed that separate clothes, such as a skirt and a jacket to remove the bride and groom.

At this time, the groom, gathering a wedding train, drove for the bride. Before that, the mother oversees the groom oats, small money, sweets. On the way, the wedding train could overwrite the road and only the ransom opens the way.

Arriving, the groom with two friendships went to buy a bride. I bought the bride of my friend, paid both money and candy, chocolate and alcohol.

When the bride is purchased, it leads to the bridegroom, cover. Cove the two dumps from the bride and the bride with scarves and cap. Separating:

Clapper crying

Not so covered

Jac kiss

Then there was a blessing for family life.

Father and mother took the icon, prayed and kissed the icon and said: "We bless you, daughter, for a new life." The bride kissed the icon, father, mother. The icon was transferred to the bride to a new family. After the blessing, the bride was taken out of the house.

A special person was supposed to follow, so that no one passed between the bride and the bride was considered a bad admission. And about some wedding traditions that have survived to this day. In the old days, the young on the wedding was made to give a large straw doll with a tummy (hence, apparently, and the custom began to tie the hub to the grille), which was called homemade carnival. Fullness of the doll symbolized the coming wealth and healthy offspring. The tradition to transfer the newly demanded through the threshold of the house in which she will live with her husband, arose like: In the old days, it was believed that if a young wife falls on the threshold of his new home, it is bad sign. To completely eliminate such a fall, the grooms raised their brides and transferred through the threshold at home on their hands.

On the street, sitting in the wagon, the bride was baptized on four sides. We went to marry the bride and groom in different wagons. When the bride moved, her girlfriends sang songs. Then there was a wedding process.

After the wedding, the young people went to the house of the groom, they were met with the icon and bread-salt mother and father of the groom. The bride was seated in the holy corner and started to take it. Big Swaha in his hands held a dish, on which shelter was lying, hops, lively, candy, small days, scallop, butter, two candles. The luminaire (sister of the bride) and the uncle (bride's brother) wrapped the candles for the ends of the haze and closed the bride. Large Swaha asked the bride's bride for the blessing to the young.

Then Swachy turned to the mother of the bride. Big Swash broke the braid, then twisted two braids, filmed a handkerchief from his head and put it on the bride. Newlyweds during the feast did not eat. When guests were served porridge, friendly and girlfriend took the young to the other room to dinner. Groom took his groom for a handkerchief tied on his hand and took it out of the room.

After dinner, the bride and the bride again was displayed for guests. The bride gave relatives of the groom with gifts that she herself sewed to the wedding. Then the glass poured a glass of vodka, I took a loaf and started collecting strings. For each lesson, gave a guest friendly and karable.

When the feast ended, the young led to sleep.

The second day of the wedding is a rich wedding. Guests came in the morning -

dine - breakfast. On this day, hot dishes were prepared: soup, dumplings, dumplings, pancakes.

On this day, the villages were walking on the village, more often dressed up the gypsies and grilled chickens, ducklings, pots, buckets and all this was given to the newlyweds.

On the same day, the process of riding and bathing took place. The daughter-in-law must pay the mother-in-law in the improvised font and dress it. Then rolled the godfather as the groom and the bride. They had to give "horses" for it.

III. Final Stages of the Wedding

The next day of the wedding, and in the old days a week later, the next stage of the wedding was held - in Tishanka and nearby farms, it is called - to drive "touzul". On this day, the bridegroom came to the parent house of the bride. One of the dishes was the scrambled eggs. The parents of the bride give a chicken, then this chicken is boiled and treat guests. It symbolized the beginning of a new life, as the egg is a symbol of life, growth.

The final stage of the wedding is "Kola's scoring". Relatives of the bride and groom came to the groom's house. In the yard scored a symbolic amount, as if attaching the bride to this family.

Conclusion

Wedding in our village, as a socio-household rite has its own characteristics that are focused on the South Russian wedding tradition. One of the features is that the wedding is accompanied in the language of the dialect. The use of Russian and Ukrainian, as well as customs and traditions led to mixing not only language, but also rites.

Also in the wedding tradition traced the duals, elements, both Christianity and paganism. Allegoryrs, a rich wedding, clogging a cola-all this manifestations of paganism. But in the wedding ceremony there is a blessing, wedding - elements of Christian culture.

Wedding as a special rite gave rise to people's wedding folklore: songs, chastushki, additives, congratulations.

Used Books:

1. Kichigin Culture of the South of Russia: Belgorod region. //

Experience in systematization of ethnopholklore material.-Belgorod, 2000

2. Traditional culture of the Belgorod region. - Volume 1 - collector of scientific articles and folk materials from "Expeditionary notebooks" / CRED. .-Belgorod: Edition BGTCST, 2006

3. Falcon of the celebration - Kharkov "Book Club", 2005

Everywhere is common in Asia and Europe. A lot of myths and legends are connected with it. Its leaves have a thin stalk, so they begin to hear from the easy blow of the breeze. Aspen has a rapid growth and a small thickness of the barrel.

Damned tree

It is believed that the Aspen is capable of driving evil spirits. And the existing legend of the curse only adds mystics aspen and heated interest. It is believed that the cross, on which Jesus crucified, was made precisely from Osina, and on the same tree subsequently committed suicide Judas with him. The Angry Lord cursed aspen, so she trembles from fear. Her for a long time is not used in the construction of houses, believing that the family will tremble from poverty and misfortune.

Energy

From a long time, people had faith in a special, magical force, which plants possess. A tree, endowed with powerful energy and capable of protecting from everything bad, was considered aspen. Recognizing its feature and strength, people with caution treated its properties. They believed that if you fall asleep in her shadow, it can pull out energy. And then headache, apathy and fatigue will be in a person.

It was not worth hiding during a thunderstorm under the aspen. It was believed that this tree had long chosen devils and lightning always tries to get into them. To protect the house from dashing people and from unclean forces near the house, Orens were planted.

Aspen as protection against unclean power

Before the arrival of Christianity, Slavs believed in the saving strength of this tree, and in the pagan festivals, especially in the night of Ivan Klapala, they tried their cattle from the sorcerers. For this, the twigs stuck in the walls of buildings, where the cattle was kept.

In superstitions and legends of many peoples, Osop was considered an effective and effective means in the fight against witchcraft and the action of otherworldly. A deceased sorceress was burned on a fire from Osinov, the deceased witch. At the time of the agony of the sorcerer, to facilitate the yield of the soul, the aspen of the pegs broke into the house.

But the most effective way to prevent the activities of the accomplices of unclean forces after death was the custom of prophesion in the chest of Cola from Osina. But why exactly thanks to this method managed to calm the vampires and other undead?

This tree can absorb energy. Including the negative, which it redirects to another state in water or land.
Usina has durable wood. The amount made from it will not break at the right moment.

Aspen stakes are always made from before proceeding to the manufacture of Cola, it is necessary to read prayer. The tool to combat unclean should be small, with a sharp sharpened one end. Fixed size and standard does not exist. Length and thickness depend on the purpose of use. If the goal is put only to stick the pointed pole in the chest, then a sufficiently small quieter. When you need to pierce the coffin and body, then the length is needed about a meter. The diameter depends on the size of the branch or from which it will be made from unclean power. It should be borne in mind that a subtle amount can be broken, and with the passionist will be hard to be managed.

Aspen stakes. Subtleties of manufacturing

Osin count (photo - higher) requires special methods of manufacture. Processing a freshly carved branch, it is mainly not accepted to clean it from the bark. This is rationally provided for our distant ancestors: since the amount is driven only once, it will be good if he starts to germinate, so that the sorcerer or the vampire can not get out of the edge of the sorcement or the vampire.

Cutting an aspen amount, how to make it sharp? The belief was preserved that the device is painted with an ax, and for giving the island at the end of the branch, three shots. At the same time, it is necessary to comply with a certain ritual. The first strike says: "In the name of the Father," during the second - "and the Son" and the third - "and the Holy Spirit, Amen."

At the top of the cola, the rope is wound. She plays the role of handles. At the time of use of the gun, it is under the palm and insures the case of scoring hands. In addition to this practical function, the rope also serves as a faith. Washed it, as if creating a magic circle. On one, it is not customary to apply any inscriptions or symbols. Although it is believed that the carved cross does not hurt and may even help.

Aspen pegs must be placed in water, and it is desirable that it be pre-consecrated. Next, it is necessary to read the prayer "Our Father" several times. Then the stakes are associated with the shape of a cross and nailed over the doors of the house.

Aspen stake as charm

Count is considered a powerful guard, vested by force, thanks to which you can balance the energy of the house. It is believed that the aspen stakes should be taken into where the unsubstantiated boundary between real and this is, first of all, housing angles.

Aspen stakes in the corners were driven into the ground in the construction of houses and household buildings. It was believed that it would help to take trouble and prevent themselves and disorder in the family. Previously, they were soaked for some time in consecrated water. After that, they drove into the ground and sprinkled with the remnants of the holy water. The pegs were periodically checked. And as soon as they started to refine, they were replaced with new ones.

Therapeutic properties of a tree

Folk healers used aspen to treat many pors. Considering it with an unclean tree, the Slavs were confident that any illness could be transferred.

With the help of aspen they treated herriation, children's frights and headaches.
The stem was hammered into the trunk, hanging clothes, believing that the tree would take the disease.
Applying aspen is put to the legs, treated cramps.
Dried aspen kidneys were mixed with oil and treated burns, ulcers, wounds.
The juice of the tree was rubbed deprived and warts.
The aspen boron used in winter to eat for the restoration of forces.
Young shoots scarked cattle.

A modern person already with irony refers to beliefs of distant ancestors and does not attach great importance to everything that belongs to superstitions. It is clear that to keep at home aspen stakes can afford eccentric or folklore people. But maybe really a pair of small elegant wood will help to remove troubles, secure the house and save a positive balance in the family habitat?

Reed Khasanova

It is believed that adherence to some wedding will adopt give Heat and happiness in family relationships. Century traditions are not subject to doubt and discussion, since they are transferred from parents to children. Often, the nearest relatives are responsible for their customs, without which the wedding event turns out to be infallible. Undoubtedly, many newlyweds have to look for a compromise.

Photo of the wedding ceremony

Modern traditions at the wedding

Traditional wedding ceremony in Russia starts with the meeting. Usually it passes with. Pone salt on a wedding for young prepares, as a rule, Mom Groom. Since the time of the USSR, champagne added to bread, although vodka poured in some regions in the old man.

These traditions are very subjective depending on the values \u200b\u200bof the family of the bride and groom

Wedding rings laid on a handkerchief, which raised above the bride and groom's top. Such a wedding rite in Russian traditions meant committing a love covenant in heaven, as the head of man was associated with the world of heaven.

Newlyweds at the time of marriage were surrounded by special trepidation. Upon ideas of our ancestors, the creation of a family was the creation of a new world, where not two people are connected, and the sun (groom) and the land (bride).

Slavic wedding customs

Another wedding Slavic ritual in Russia - rite around the stove. When the young man led his wife to his house, the first thing she did, was bowed and prayed a hearth, as he was considered the heart of the dwelling.

Fellow villagers drove dances around the hut newlyweds throughout the wedding night. So people gave a blessing to a new family. Vintage superstitions and signs on happiness were pronounced in rich clothes. Red or gold belt At the wedding were a faith. In the future, after the holiday, if the husband was in departure, the wife was looking by his wedding belt, so as not to hurt.

Like the belt, the ring had the shape of the circle and meant the absence of the beginning and end. Both were considered a symbol of loyalty, walking evil, instincts or chaos

Any Slavicchain, including wedding, symbolized the fence from evil.

Nowadays, some pretty old customs are still used by the newlyweds. For instance, . This tradition was transmitted from generation to generation. The tower was inherited as a dowry or seized by the bride on his own and used in the ancient rituals of the ancient Slavs, since allegedly had a healing force.

In some provinces from the groom Rolled the gang trackbefore the womb of the bride. When it was approached on the wagon, it only went on it. So it happened, because their homes had images of two universes, and all the rest is a unprecedented world.

Wedding in the Old Slavonic style

Sometimes near the threshold laid fires. Groom with friend jumped through firebefore going to the bride, cleansing everything so that the marriage is in innocence. Some customs and traditions of holding Russian weddings are still used in modern thematic celebrations.

Wedding without traditions - Interesting and unusual wedding ideas

The most popular ceremony is: the bride with the bride move the black and white sand from the vessels into one container, thereby promising to each other that from now on they will be one and never can serve. The drawing, which is obtained when mixing the sand of different colors, always turns out to be individual, as well as fate in humans.

Sand ceremony at the wedding

The next touching ceremony begins with the fact that newlyweds are written before the wedding two letters to each other. In them, young people are guessing the first 10 years of married life. You can specify the following provisions:

what joint goals they adhere to;
what feelings they are experiencing on the night before the wedding;
how they are waiting for this day;
who will drink most on the holiday;
who will make the most incendiary dance;
who will say the longest toast;
who will give the biggest bouquet;
what they swear to each other.

Moreover, Messages can be added:

invest additional letters to future children;
add pictures;
share feelings in verses.

The longer the letter gets, the more interesting it will be read on the 10th anniversary of the wedding. Next, you need to buy a favorite drink that will not deteriorate for such a term. He puts in the box along with letters. The cover of the lid is sealed and, accordingly, printing.

Wine ceremony

If it happens that newlyweds will not be able to cope with any life situation, this box can be discovered ahead of time. Having got a favorite drink and remembering your feelings, establish relationships. This idea is called the ceremony of the box of the box and is even recommended by psychologists.

Hay or wooden chips, as well as ribbons, make a box more elegant. You can close it with a lock or nails

Beautiful wine ceremony at the wedding is better spent during registration. So marriage will be more complete. The time capsule can be a family relic, reminiscent of this day, and a good interior item.

How to make wedding rituals most relevant

When drawing up a list of guests, newlyweds often know who of them will come with a couple, and who are alone. The transfer of the wedding relay is a favorite story. For a successful competition, it is possible to calculate idle friends and friends, and then play their numbers at auction.

In addition to the bride attribute, such as a garter, guests are thrown and a piece of tie, acting as anti-garter. The one who will catch it, according to tradition, will not have time to marry. Especially in demand, such a rite will be among idle men with a good sense of humor.

From the first dance of young Do not refuse even in the absence of skills, because help can be obtained from a professional. A choreographer or director will add professional movements to amateur movements. Special entourage gives a team or bright props.

First wedding dance of young

Another option is the performance of a duet song. The first wedding live clip is not forbidden to exercise under the phonogram. Guests are hardly waiting for this, so happily surprise in any case.

What are the wedding customs for parents of the bride and groom?

As already mentioned, parents can put a slingshot at the wedding, but there are still a number of uniting ceremonies. The first thing to do the parents of the bride is - give a blessing to marriage. To do this, the father leads the bride to the bridegroom, standing at the altar, and the banquet dances with her.

Parents at the wedding

Classical traditions at the wedding for parents of the groom include his dance with a native and godmother. A good idea - to arrange these dances in one or more of the following ways:

slidesh show from children's photos;
bengal lights;
candles;
confetti.

Family Correction Obders Call ceremony of family hearthAlthough all guests can participate in it

For this, the candles are distributed to all married and married so that everyone can pass the part of his family hearth and the warmth to newlyweds. Newlyweds blown lights and make desires in honor of the first birthday of the family.

Parents give the last candles, they seem to give. Only Mom of the Bride participated in the ceremony. She passed the daughter of a corner from his oven to prepare dinner for the first time in a new house. In modern times, Mom Groom is attached to this.

Ignition of family focus

The participation of parents at the son's wedding mainly occurs in the banquet part of the event. Besides familiar toasts with stories from life they can singHaving inspired in the framework of the European wedding.

Thus, parents and guests express sadness about the care of a bachelor's life. In Russian traditions invited should meet the bride In the house of the bride or the bride, and not at the restaurant. Each family decides in its own way. It is possible to listen to, and you can simply wish you a good way from a clean heart in a new family life.

Parents escort the bride and groom

By asking the question who should pay a wedding by tradition, it is necessary to refer to the Slavic rule about the dowry. Since the parents about the marriage of the parents themselves, they paid for the walk they. Depending on the cost of the bride from the parents of the groom, the fee was charged. To date, everything is individually in this matter.

Traditions on the second and third wedding day

The second day of the wedding is usually carried out in nature, in a cafe or sauna in the afternoon. The duration of rest is usually 6 hours, but this is not the limit. The script for this day is thought out in advance. Small stylization and thematic actions Decorate the continuation of the celebration best.

By tradition, her husband and his wife prepare pancakes at the wedding on the second day to sell them. It is believed who will eat more, the whole year will be lucky. You can replace them with a multi-level finished cake.

The wedding cake

If the young ride on this day around the city, the tradition of overlapping the road at the wedding obliges to give delicious hotels. If you give a treat to those who could, then the couple will be able to soak off the bad luck. On the third day of newlyweds open gifts, view photos and send postcards to guests. Some are sent to the local bridge and hang as a symbol of eternal love.

Wedding traditions of the world

Any marriage implies a marriage agreement in which the rights and duties of newlyweds can be discussed.

Oriental weddings begin with the conclusion of testimony by parents in the mosque to give the rite the sacred. In Arab countries, without this paper, young people do not even populate into one room together.

After the business part, two people who create a family have long been obliged to give their consent loud three times. In addition, if the newlyweds have insincere intentions about the wedding, their marriage is considered invalid.

Therefore, the strongest bonds are usually created in the East. But in the Russian Federation, a comprehensive marriage contract has no legal force until it is registered in the registry office. Otherwise, the Muslim wedding in Russia is no different from the traditional Islamic.

Wedding traditions are a lot. Their variations are even more. They make a wedding more solemn. But at the same time, the more traditions are driving her perception, because actually it remains less time for communication, games and dancing.

Another interesting tradition is a combination of young families. Video rite of breeding at the wedding can be viewed here:

August 30, 2018, 19:37

Courtyard of a private house (holiday homes) with a strong gate and a fence. Inventory for contests, clothes for "rich" and guests.

Event Plan:

Wedding caravan
OR at the gate
Transfer "Kalina"
"Return of the daughter"
Crack
Riding mother-in-law
Lottery
Scenario:

1. Wedding caravan

On rustic traditions, the wedding night spouses spend in the groom's house, and the next morning go to the house of the former bride. If for any reason it is impossible (for example, the groom's house is too far), the wedding caravan is going not far from the house where the second day will be celebrated.
Participants of the wedding caravan:

Gypsies.
These are all young guests who will take part. Girls are dressed in gypsies: motley skirts, many decorations, necessarily - heels. Boys: Wide pants, shirts (which is not sorry), necessarily - strong and comfortable shoes.
Gypsies are dressed up and newlyweds.
Gypsy Bear
This role is chosen the strongest and high young man. They put on him or a bear costume, or Tulup Fur outside (Tulup)
Doctor - "Opohymelator"
A man in medical clothes (bathrobe and cap are mandatory) with a huge bare, in which alcohol is poured. You can beer or even brines, although traditionally there must be a moonshine - "Pervach" (the strongest). The tube is attached to the Badier to the tube, which is poured "on the octochel" by everyone. For non-drinking, the doctor should have several children's bottles with a nipple filled with milk.
Nurse
The most skimmer (in any sense) the girl in the ultra-short bathrobe and a medical hat. She carries a tray with snacks. The nurse works for a couple with a doctor - "Opohymelator".
Out of newlyweds
Usually, these are witnesses of newlyweds. Moreover, the man is dressed in the outfit of the bride (or his semblance, if a sorry for a wedding dress) and necessarily - Fata, and in the friend there should be a suitable suit of the groom (you can not wedding, but anyone in which the former groom has often seen)
Musician.
It may be a biantist, guitarist and even the drummer on the pilot (copper shock tools in the form of "covers from a saucepan." They are played with covers from large saucepan). In general, this is a person who produces music (or rhythmic noise).
Guard "Kalina"
This is a person who carries a large branch decorated with a variety of Kalina ribbons. He usually leads the procession.
All this procession with noise and songs goes to the place of the second day of the wedding. The noise is carried out with the purpose of the maximum number of people come out of the houses to see what is happening! Even looking out of the wicket, a person is confessed "passersby" and immediately "processed" by Gypsies.
All passers-by who are found on the way should "surrender": Gypsies stick to them with a big bag with the screams "Top Family Cassen." Typical gypsy techniques go: "Ay, well done, gilding handle! Look, what beautiful newlyweds! " - and indicate on numb "newlyweds".
The oncoming take a trifle, some gift (it can be any item: a pure handkerchief, a pack of cigarettes, a clock. In the village often passersby are torn by fruit, vegetables and even their homework (both kittens and puppies and chickens).
In return, they are sent to the doctor and nurse for a treat. After him, they give a ribbon with "Kalina" and invite to go with them (at the request of the passerby).
On the same, who did not have money with them, "striking" the bear. The "Bear" hugs the Zhadyin, and transfers the road to the other side: they say, do not bother the procession.
2. The door at the gate
The whole procession comes to the house of the bride (or the place where the second day will be held).
In the open gate, the parents of the bride stand. They are surrounded by all the "adults" guests. Usually, dividing on the "guard" and "Gypsy" is divided by age (up to 30 years - Roma) or by status (married - security). If among guests there are fathers and children, then parents must be in the "guard", and children in the "Gypsies".
Parents of the former bride wait for her daughter's return and starting right away: "Return our girl, we changed my mind !!!". They are loud, sometimes not very censored, demanding to return them to "Krovochka".
"Gypsy" exhort the "guard": they say, we have already bought your girl, played the wedding - what do you want?!
But parents are not loving.
The main thing in this action is to create as much noise as possible! This one should prove to all the celestial forces that parents will always be glad to their daughter, and friends will never allow the new family.
Surprisingly, even very educated and intelligent people are quickly drawn into this "bazaar" and begin to bring arguments (depending on which side is located).

3. Exchange "Kalina".
Scattered intograded, "Gypsies" agree to return the "daughter". But, instead of the girl itself, this very "Kalina, who headed the procession! Give with the words: "There are no girls, there is a young wife. That is what remains! "
Parents, of course, refuse to accept such a "gift", because it means the final farewell to the virology of the daughter (even if the daughter is pregnant at that time or already gave birth to a child - it does not matter!), So, the transition of his daughter to another family.
Now the transfer of "Kalina" begins. The branch should be moved in any way per gate. She is thrown (truth, "security" can throw it back), men are climbing the gate and transport "Kalina", girls are trying to press "guard" at the gate .... Very often some "Gypsy" simply climbed over the fence and climbed into the house. He was thrown by Kalina and he sent a branch to the window at home or even chimney.
"Kalina" can, of course, "ie izo", ie, decorate the branch of bills and offer parents of the bride.
You can finally persuade parents ... You can fool - throw them right in your hands, because if "Kalina" falls into the hands of parents (but only them!) At least for a second, it is considered accepted.
In general, the competition ends only when Kalina is in any way to give the bridesmaid parents.

4. Return daughter

So, "Kalina" is transmitted. And the "rich" bride, with a scream (better than bass): "Mommy" rushes on the neck of the mother-in-law. The mother-in-law, of course, requires a real daughter.
All the gypsies are built into a row to the parents of the bride with their backs, and the mother-in-law with the test must find their daughter and son-in-law. The distance between parents and gypsies is about 5-10 meters.
Gypsies dance, sometimes change in places, but silent.
Parents are guessing, for each miss, the doctor is treating the doctor - "Opohymelator", and the testa hugs the bear.

5. Cola.

Now parents must prove that they will not interfere with the happiness of young. Fathers (father-in-law and beetor) dig out before the gate of the pit (a little away, not on the road). Newlyweds pour water into the pit. Now moms must drive into the center of Poam Pocket to strengthen family happiness. They are issued two hammers (more). Moms are in turn knocking along the cooke of the hammers.
Of course, the splashes of dirt are flying, and guests sentenced: "Do not climb, mother, in someone else's family - with mud with uley!".
It turns out very instructive and convincing.

6.Things.
Now it's time for skiing mother-in-law. So that his wife's wife does not ride at the son-in-law on her neck, the son-in-law should "roll out" in advance.
Scene sit on ... Trolley (wheelbarrow) and begin to roll around the yard. Guests (men) shower it rice or other grain.
After mom rolled and said "I don't want anymore," the mother-in-law begins. Her daughter-in-law and other girls squeeze grain (rice, buckwheat or other cereals). Carefully, not to get into the face, but very plentiful! Again, until mom says: "Everything, I no longer need it!".

7. Topper.

After the end of the "teachings of parents", all guests go to the house. There are already covered tables. A variety of contests are held, for example, fortune telling on children. Conducted "conciliation" tests.
Frequently held lottery. It is played out all items, except for money that the gypsies managed to "score" from passersby, as well as some pre-prepared items.
The special color of the village "Lottery" is the fact that "urban" guests are often lined with "rustic" prizes. For example, rake or shovel. Or live chicken (even a live goose!). Using the fact that it is impossible to refuse from a gift, "urban" gives the most unusual items and are glad to be with pleasure: what is the guest to do with such a gift?
Next, the holiday is on the scenario of friendly feast, with toasts and contests.