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Date: 07/31/2017

School of Yuri Okunev

Hello dear readers! In order to please your loved one with pleasant words, it is not at all necessary to have a writing or, even more so, poetic talent. After all, you can express thoughts, feelings in the simplest words, and this will not diminish their significance at all.

Do you still doubt that you will be able to do it quite beautifully and romantically? Especially for you, I decided to tell you how to write a truly soulful SMS in your own words to your loved one.

Love SMS to a guy in your own words

Good morning wishes

The day started with a ray of goodness received by SMS from a lady of the heart may not be the most successful and productive, but it will definitely be more joyful. Every day you can come up with new wishes. They can become attached to the things and problems your boyfriend has to solve during the day. Or they may simply contain affectionate words designed to support, give a charge of cheerfulness and optimism. So, we start with those very two welcome words, and then the options may be, for example, the following:

May a great insight descend on your boss today, and he will finally see how much you do for your company.
May you meet at least three good people who will make your day kinder.
I wish that today the sore is disappointed in you and proudly leaves, taking with it the temperature, body aches, sore throat and fatigue!
This day will be one of the happiest and most successful of the week! Why? Yes, I just want that, and the desire of a woman is the law!
I asked the sun bunnies to fly into your window, wake you up and convey from me gentle kisses and good mood. Have they already followed my order?
So we became one more day closer to each other. I look forward to your arrival, dear!

Good night wishes

Wishes good dreams in SMS to your beloved guy will tune not only for a good dream, but also for a good awakening and a successful new day. In the same way as in the previous version, you can write about anything. The main thing is to show that the young man is very dear to you, important and necessary.

Let the night take with it all the negativity of today, and in the morning you wake up refreshed, joyful, renewed, ready for new achievements.
I'm looking at the moon now. Look out the window and look at her too. Do you feel it? Now we are bound by her ghostly light ...
10 more nights of the same kind and we will finally meet! I look forward to this magical moment, my tenderness!
You know, now every day I rush to bed in the evening, because dreams are now the only place where we can be near. I dream that they will come true soon!
I asked Ole Lukoil to give you fabulous dreams. Dress warmly before going to bed. I made a wish that you were Aladdin and I am Jasmine. It will be cool to fly on a flying carpet at night, so a warm sweater will not be in the way.

Letters that you miss and wait

Experience shows that long-term separation, although it brings a lot of grief, is, however, the test that truly loving couples can do. Therefore, do not despair and just patiently wait for the cherished moment of the meeting!

They say that not very easy and simple love usually prompts you to write poetry. But if you do not have a craving for this, then feel free to write SMS in prose to your beloved man. It seems to me that it is better to express your feelings in simple words than "iambic pentameter".

Today is exactly 2 weeks since you left, but it seems like a whole year has passed. It's amazing how quickly time flies when you're around. And how painfully long it drags on in your absence.
It seems to me that it was the separation that allowed us to understand how strong the feelings are. After all, usually a person begins to truly understand and appreciate those things that are inaccessible to him. So it turns out that great wisdom was hidden in our separation. Thank her for that ...
I never thought that I would miss the dirty cups that you always leave in the sink. By muttering in my sleep and loud songs in my soul. The way your stubble pricks my cheeks. It's amazing how dear you really are to me. Not by their individual positive features, but entirely and completely!

Wish you bon appetit

I said that there can be any number of reasons for the message. Why not include this one here. After all, eating is an important part of our daily routine. And in order for the food to bring more joy, it will not be superfluous to spice it up not only with spices, but also with light feelings.

I hope you enjoy what I have prepared for you. Let the porridge give strength, fruit, vital energy, and the cake delight my beloved sweet tooth.
Recently I learned that cooked with love does not turn into fat on the belly. So eat with pleasure!
Today I added a handful of tenderness and affection to the stew / borscht / pie, seasoned everything with kind words and praises addressed to you, and generously sprinkled it with love on top. I hope you enjoy it ...

About their hopes, shared future

Having found her "prince", a woman usually soon begins to think about how she would like to see the relationship over time. She tries on her chosen one, first the image of a guy, then a groom, and then she begins to think about how she will write an SMS about love to her husband and father of her children ... If you have been together long enough, and discussing such dreams is not something out of the ordinary then feel free to share your thoughts with your partner.

Rather, I look forward to the moment when we begin to live together. I think about the love with which I will cook for you, wait from work, take care of you. It is wonderful to be always there, because you are my soul mate!
Today I walked home through the park, I met so many couples in love. I sincerely envy them and dream that soon you and I will walk like this on weekends, holding hands. And then, breathing in fresh air, they would go home, have dinner and watch some movie.
I love every aspect of your face and character. Let our kids take the best from you by all means. A sweet smile, the brightness of green eyes, inner charm and kindness that make everyone around you love you.
With your appearance in my life, I really thought about how I want to see my house, my family. Previously, these were only timid youthful dreams, which today take on the features of real adult life, where I myself am a wife and mother. Very exciting, but also pleasant at the same time!

Just about your feelings

Only next to you I feel really protected, only next to you I can be weak, indecisive, trusting. Therefore, when you are not there, it is very hard and sad for me. Let's try our best to be there together.
There is the scent of your cologne on the pillow, on the table there is a cup of coffee you have not drunk, and in the bathroom there is a tube of toothpaste that you didn’t twist again. J You know, these little things make me incredibly happy, because they say that I'm not alone! Thank you, dear, that I have you! You are my happiness, my joy and great value!
Right now, she hugged you tightly, tightly, kissed you tenderly and tenderly! I love!
I just want to say that you are very dear to me. Thank you for your care, attention, affection! You are the best man in the world for me! Come soon, my cat and I are waiting for you.
I'm sorry I fell for you yesterday. I was wrong! It's not your fault, it's just that I had troubles at work, which completely ruined my mood. Don't be angry ... I love you!
I always hated men who tried to call me "their". It seemed to me that by this they were infringing on my freedom, they wanted to appropriate me as some kind of thing. But now I realized that I just didn't love them. Because today the thought that I am YOUR warms my soul!
Sorry I haven't written to you for a long time. There were difficulties at work and at home. I know this is no excuse, but still ... Thanks for sending those wonderful flowers! The bouquet is still standing and makes me happy! Let's meet this weekend if you have time. I missed you very much, I want to see you.
And I have prepared a little surprise for you ... Come home from work, I'm waiting for you!
I baked such a pie for you (you need to attach a photo), it will be waiting for you until dinner. Do not linger, otherwise I will eat everything! Kiss!
Thanks for leaving me breakfast honey! It was amazingly tasty and incredibly pleasant! You are the most caring and romantic in the world !!! Have you opened your portfolio yet? If not, then it's time to do it, so that the yummy that I put for you doesn't spoil! You see how everything is mutual with us.

Helen Andelin's book "The Charm of Femininity" will help you better understand how to build a happy relationship with your partner and yourself. Very simple, very feminine, about the most pressing questions, the answers to which often determine the quality of life. I recommend it to my readers!

Well, for my part, I am ready to answer any of your questions on the topic of the article. If you have any, feel free to share them in the comments!

That's all for today. Don't miss out on new publications. The function of subscribing to the news of the site will help you a lot with this. Until next time and all the best! Yours Yuri Okunev.

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Confessions to a man in your own words - texts of wishes

Today I dreamed of you again, so beautiful, silent and dear. I was dizzy with happiness, I hugged you and did not believe in what was happening. Then I woke up, footage from our past life tirelessly climbed into my head, stood before my eyes. Your beautiful kind and slightly stern eyes, your sincere smile. I miss you so much, every day, every hour, every minute. Without you, I have nothing to breathe and nothing to think about. It's different without you. How dear you are to me, in my soul there is forever an imprint of your hot, passionate, loving soul. My head will always sound the words uttered in your own voice. Nobody and nothing can change it. Our past, my memories and my falling asleep happiness will forever remain with me. I'm still loving you.

We have been together for a long time, so much has been covered. There were minutes of frenzied passion, and hours of magical tenderness, and blades of jealousy, and clouds of charm, there were needles of quarrels and misunderstandings. All this only made our relationship stronger and more precious. But I no longer love you, as then, in the days of our first meetings, in the days of the first kisses and first confessions. After all, it was only a strong love that stirred my heart, clouded my mind, mixed and confused all my thoughts. And now, after such an amount of time, I can say with complete confidence that I love you. I love truly, devotedly and deeply. I accept you as a whole, with all your advantages and disadvantages, with all your habits. You have become the closest and dearest man on earth to me, and all I want is for you to be happy. I love you, my dear!

You are the man without whom my happy life is completely impossible. You are the man without whom I cannot breathe air. My dreams, my desires, hopes, my faith, all of this is you! You are the man I can't sleep without. You are the man I see every night in exciting, colorful, unforgettable dreams. You are the man with the thoughts of whom I wake up every morning. Everything that is good, interesting, real, deep, sensual, tender in my life, all this is you! You are my most cherished, most desired, closest, dearest, most necessary. You are the one without whom the whole world will become black and white, monotonous, insipid. You are the one I enjoy, you are the one I adore, you are the one I pray to and look up to, you are the one who makes me happy. I love you! I will always love you alone!

I am the happiest girl in the world, do you know why? Because I got the best man in the world! You are such an extraordinary person, you have collected so many seemingly completely incompatible qualities. You are such a strong-willed, strong, courageous, ambitious, assertive and purposeful person, you go through life firmly, knowing all your goals and the ways to achieve them. And you reach them. You take your peaks one by one, you are a warrior in life - a winner. But at the same time, you can be the most caring, the most gentle, the most sensual, the most emotional with me. You are so subtle, understanding, romantic, special. I am always very good next to you, very interesting, very calm. In your arms, I feel protected. Next to you, I feel wanted, needed, better. Thank you for that. I love you so much!

You and I are completely different from each other. But this is only if at first glance it seems so. Look - are you happy? And I am happy! This means that we have as much in common as no one else in the world has! I believe that our strong love will overcome all adversity, smooth over sharp corners, reconcile characters and temperaments. After all, this is the most important feeling, which at all times triumphed over everything else. I don't want to tell you a lot of unnecessary, albeit beautiful words, let all this ornateness remain in books, it will be useful to poets in sleepless nights of creative torment. I want to say only three words that are most important to me, the most important, three words that turned my world upside down, three words that became my beacon, my wings, my inspiration. I love you! I love you more than life, I will be happy only with you!

If I don't see you for even one day, my beloved, a strange feeling comes over me, it looks like a chill. As if all the frosts of the world bound me, turning me into a block of ice. You are like my drug, I became addicted to you, I became addicted. Without a constant dose, I literally go crazy, I shake, I can't find a place for myself. I can't think of anything or anyone, everything falls out of hand, everything becomes indifferent. There is only one single sound in my head, but the words are so important and necessary: I love, I love, I love, I love, I love. Without you, I look like a disembodied ghost, like a sun-dried plant in the middle of the desert. So come quickly to me, fill me with the juices of life, the juices of love, the juices of our mad passion. Revive me, let a riot of colors into my life, bewitch me with your eyes, burn me with your hands. Make my heart beat in the same rhythm with your warm heart.

You know, perhaps many would say that I am banal and my girlish dreams have long gone out of fashion and are not interesting to anyone. But, no matter what, I still want to remain myself, the way nature created me. Do you want to know about my dreams? I dream to always be by your side. For you to be my leader, my idol, my beacon, my preacher. I want to follow you, after you, absorbing your speeches, looking into your eyes, openly and honestly. I want to learn to love you, I want to learn to make you happy. I dream so much to fall asleep under your "wing" and, waking up, immediately see your eyes, your smile, feel your warmth. I want to accompany you to work, kiss and wave my pen after you, I want to cook different goodies for you, wait for you, get bored, look out the window and jump out into the street to meet you. I want to always be in your arms, I want to feel your strength, your protection, your love. I love you, dear, I love you very much.

Tell me my darling, why are you so hard on me? Why don't you notice me, why make me suffer? After all, you know perfectly well how much I love you, how my heart burns, every day, every hour. Tell me why you are so harsh and cold, why are you torturing me. How can I prove my love to you, how can I convey to you my crystal feelings of tenderness and affection. My eyes are filled with tears, all because every day, waking up with your name on my lips, I immediately bump into a wall of indifference. I ask you to hear me, I pray you understand me. I love you so much, more than my own life. Without you, the light is not nice to me, I do not need anything, nothing is interesting. Without you, my life is no longer of any value. Please, stop being silent, look into my eyes and answer me to my most important, most important, most cherished question: do you love me?

The once cherished words “I love you”, it seems to me, have long lost their weight, their meaning and their importance. They are pronounced too often, the Internet is full of them, people litter with them, not investing in this phrase at all. Thus, they deprive me of the opportunity to convey in just three words everything that has been living in me for a long time, blazing with a bright flame. Therefore, my dear and so dear man, I will tell you about my feelings in other words. I stand on the street, a strong wind blows, blowing everything in its path, blowing into the most secret corners of our souls, it penetrates with cold to the bones, and, friend, I remember you, I present in front of me your face, your deep eyes, your lips , your smile. You look at me, and the wind dies down, I no longer feel its gusts, nothing in the universe exists for me anymore. There is just you and me. Your eyes look into mine, and in them I see a completely different universe - the universe of love!

There are moments when it seems to me that you are just a mirage, a fleeting knowledge, a figment of my imagination. All because you are too perfect. Everything about you is beautiful, absolutely everything. Your eyes, they are like a separate galaxy in which planets unknown to mankind live. Your smile, it is like the light of the rising spring sun, it is able to warm and instill warmth in my soul. Your hands, they are like unshakable rocks, when you hug me and hold me for a long time in your arms, I feel incredible security, as if these hands can protect me from everything in the world, from any misfortune, from any adversity. When you start talking, your voice pours like a whisper of summer oriental herbs, it enchants my thoughts, and I literally freeze, not daring to even move, so that this special charm is not dispelled. You are woven of solid virtues, there is no flaw in you. You are the best man in the world, I love you.

I will become like, today, Pushkinskaya Tatyana and I will not be brave as usual. I will slightly open the door for you to the treasury of my secret feelings and desires. My dearest, recently, person, this is a timid declaration of love, which suddenly captured my whole being. You managed to stir up an avalanche of unspent tenderness in my heart and revive a young ardent girl to life. It doesn't matter that the gray hair has silvered our temples, Cupid did not miss - these arrows were intended specifically for us. And it was like the explosion of a huge ball with multi-colored paints. These colors splashed on our lives, coloring everything around, giving our destinies a special meaning. Thank you, beloved, for the fact that you are, such as dreamed of, already, it would seem, is completely hopeless. Love you! I love everything connected with you! Walking through the park ruffling a multicolored carpet of autumn foliage, listening to the sound of rain, admiring the flowers, absolutely everything next to you becomes completely special. I love!

My beloved, the only man! You are my most important person in life. You are my support, you are very reliable, sensitive and calm. I am always looking forward to our meeting. I am incredibly pleased with you and it is good when you are around. All my life I want to walk next to you, along the same road of love and not turn anywhere. I am incredibly grateful to fate for giving me you, the most beautiful man on earth. I am proud of you, my dear and I love you more than life! May our happiness and love last forever. Let our every meeting, every touch, every word spoken to each other become even more pleasant. All my tenderness, affection, all my unspent love, I want to give you, my only and dear man! I love you! I will love you all my life!

My dear boy, every time I am amazed at how you and I coincided in a single thought, in a single impulse, in a single dream. You have become a real knight for me, the one who, many centuries ago, could give his life for one glance of a beautiful lady's heart. I didn’t even believe that such men exist in the modern world. How pleasantly I was wrong. Once, having met you, I felt that a real feeling settled in my heart, still completely unfamiliar to me. You became the first man, the memory of which leaves a blush on my cheeks. You became the first man whose eyes I remember before falling asleep. You became the first man in my life, and in my heart. Thank you for treating me so tenderly and carefully. Because you respect me, you protect me. Because you can listen to me and hear, I understand the very essence of me. Thank you for loving!

Today is such a beautiful day, everything around is frozen in anticipation of some incredible miracle. The air rings the bells of happiness, the sun shines in a special way. It was as if this day was specially created by God so that I would confess to you my innermost feelings, so that, for the first time, I would say words of love to you. Every person in life wants to love and be loved in return. Each person on this earth is looking for his half, the one who will become the only one forever. And today I want to whisper to you, no matter what anyone knows my secret, and I want to shout so that the whole planet knows that I love you. That I found what I dreamed of for so long. I met you, my ideal man. And I knew the feeling of love and felt mutual love. This is so important, it is so reverent, it filled me with indescribable emotions. I became the happiest in the world. Thank you for giving me these feelings, thank you for the love.

I want to tell you, my beloved, that every minute spent with you is very special. How many things, when we are together, side by side, can bring true pleasure to the soul. I love it so much when we talk about all sorts of little things and about vital things, when we dream of something incredible, we talk about space, about universes, about the universe. I love it so much when we are silent next to each other, we are silent, probably knowing each other's secret thoughts, we are silent, listening to the beating of our hearts in complete silence. I love walking with you so much, no matter where and when, no matter whether it is morning, afternoon, evening, or late night. It makes no sense whether the snow is falling, leaves rustling under our feet, or our feet get wet in puddles. The main thing is that we are walking side by side, shrouded in an invisible haze of love fog. And, even in moments when you cannot be near me, I am not upset, because you are still in my thoughts, in my heart, in my soul. And this makes me completely happy. I love you.

Every day, from the bottom of my heart, I thank heaven and fate for this incredible happiness - to love and be loved by such a wonderful person like you. Just about one thought of you, my heart contracts and begins to produce blood in a double rhythm, my pulse quickens and my head starts to feel slightly dizzy. What can I say about my condition when you are near. My real wings grow, and I fly away with you to the heavens of love and happiness, and soar there, in the clouds of tenderness, affection, passion and all the feelings that you evoke in me. I love you very much, and this love gives me an incredible feeling of lightness, freedom, optimism and inspiration. With you next to me, I have become a completely different woman, I am no longer afraid of any hardships and sorrows, I am not afraid of sadness. I constantly enjoy life, every morning and, of course, every minute spent next to you.

My gentle, affectionate, dear and best man in the world! I want to confess to you my feelings that break my heart, I want to give you all my tenderness and care, affection and attention! I love you! Do you hear? I love! I pray to heaven that our feelings will be mutual for more than one year, because you and I are halves of one whole! My feelings every day, become stronger and stronger for you. I so want to snuggle up to you, and feel protected from all the sorrows and hardships. I love you, and my confessions are sincere and pure! Only with you I feel complete harmony and merging of our souls, only with you I am truly happy! You are always attentive, kind and caring. I will try to make you the happiest man on the planet! I trust you in everything and want to be with you all my life! I give you this confession, as a token of our eternal love!

I used to think a lot about love and relationships, but I did not even imagine that this is possible! To know a person enough to guess his thoughts and desires, to know what can please him and what can upset him. And at the same time, understand that your beloved person is a completely different universe that you can explore all your life without fully knowing. I had no idea that words like “I love you”, even though you say them to me a hundred times a day, will excite my heart every time and sound completely different. I never thought that a day with a loved one could fly by in one minute. I did not think that it is possible to love so much that every parting, even for a short time, will be like a little death. I never imagined that a once complete stranger could become so close, so dear. Now I know for sure it happens!

Ever since my eyes met yours, you have become the only and most important meaning of my life, of my entire existence. Every morning, only having managed to open my eyes, I begin to think about you, and every night, before falling asleep, I think about you, remembering every moment from our past and rejoicing, re-experiencing all these feelings. And even when I fall asleep, I see you in my dreams, for sure I smile in my sleep every night. I want to shout about my love at every corner, tell everyone I meet about it, write poetry, novels. I cannot imagine my life without your dearest eyes, without your most dear and beautiful smile, without your pleasant voice - without you! I need your hot hugs, your kisses burning to the very heart, your confessions. You have become my happiness, my joy, my luck and my inspiration. I very love you!

My beloved boy, everything connected with happiness in life, all this is connected with you, about you alone my dreams and desires, with you my feelings and sensations open up, like a tender bud of a young rose! I am sure that you are destined for me. You alone live in my heart, only you I call desirable and loved. I want our sparks of sympathy to kindle between us in a huge flame of passion, fidelity and mutual feeling - love! May our quivering, crystal love overcome all adversity, because love is the most powerful feeling that exists in this world! And it’s so good that this feeling came to you and me at the same time. My only man, I am so grateful to fate for you! You are the person I have dreamed of all my life, looked for with my eyes and heart, and found! I love you, my dear, and I will not give you to anyone! I have been waiting for you for so long!

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How to open a man's heart: 3 magic keys

Is it a secret to anyone that a woman who seeks happiness in a relationship hopes to be constantly enveloped in the care and attention of her beloved man? But reality tells us that not everything is as rosy in life as dreams are portrayed. Sometimes it seems that it is no longer possible to open a man's heart for love. Whether this is so, let's figure it out together with the sympaty.net site.

It is not easy to meet your man and it is not easy to always be loved by him as you did on your first dates. Often, we seem to wander in the dark in a relationship, we lose hope of discovering a man's heart.

In fact, there is nothing that cannot be corrected if you have patience and arm yourself with the knowledge of psychology.

Often we, both men and women, make one mistake - we forget that we are different. We may have similar interests and outlooks on life, but different needs and ways of expressing ourselves.

Therefore, let's move on to the principles that will help you open the heart of your beloved man. Let's call them conditionally keys. There are actually many keys, but in this article we will analyze one bunch of three.

Remember that these keys will not help open a man's heart if you only want to get, hack, manipulate.

Everything you do should come from the heart. You need to apply these keys with all responsibility, love and respect for yourself, for your partner and for your relationship.

1 key. A man is needed

Men are so arranged that they want to be needed, they want to be significant in this world and for the people who are dear to them. Men should see that their aspirations and goals are necessary for someone and make someone happy.

But if you can do absolutely everything yourself, neglect men, their help and their knowledge, they see no point in being next to you.

How to show a man that he is needed?

Be silent about your desires, moods, plans, and what you expect from the relationship. Appropriate candor is an important element of the key to open the heart of a loved one.
Hope that the man himself will guess about what is important to you.
Reject male help and say: "Okay, I myself ...", especially after making a request.
Saying, "Could you do?"
Resent: "You never, nothing ...", because it just doesn't happen that a man never does anything for you.
To take on affairs and responsibilities beyond measure - men in this case think that this is your desire and give you a field of activity.
Leave a man's actions without gratitude and approval.
Thank the man with action in response to what he has done.

Desirable:

Telling about yourself so that the man gets to know you better, without fanaticism, of course.
Be direct about your desires, talk about how you see the relationship.
Give the man time to fulfill your request. Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to open a man's heart.
Say: "I want ...", "I need ... please do ..."
Remind the man of what was done once and say how his act warms you up to this day.
To give a man a reason to accomplish a feat.
Thank the man as often as possible. Gratitude is another important element of the key to help open a man's heart.
Express gratitude to a man with words, sincere open admiration, a smile or a look.

2 key. The man is free

With all their desire to be needed, men want to be free. They want to do all things voluntarily, then when they are ready for it. And to do what only they - men can do, without prompting, how, why, for what.

It will not be easy to open your man's heart if showing how he is needed prevents him from being free.

How to show a man that he is free?

Having voiced your request, demand immediate execution and accuse the man of unwillingness to help.
It takes a long time to explain why you need what you ask for - the man begins to think that he is being manipulated.
Asking: "When are you already ...", "What, I have to do everything ..."
Remind: “I told you so” if he was wrong. This will not open a man's heart.

Desirable:

Give the man time to fulfill your request, to be distracted.
Make the “why” explanation shorter than the request itself.
Remind about yourself as if for the first time, let him know that he is needed.
Help the man reduce the importance of the mistake. Make it clear that he can be wrong, like any person, and everything is fixable.
Give a man a feeling of lightness and freedom next to you.

3 key. A man is accepted as he is

Do you think that the man is not good enough, and you think that you can remake him? Or you are building a relationship with a man, hoping that over time, new qualities will open in him, for which you will love him later.

I'm afraid it will take a long time. You can open the heart of a beloved man only by accepting it completely.

Men begin to develop and change for the better only after they are accepted and loved for who they are. If you feel that your strength to accept is not enough and you are not happy, it is better to leave that man alone.

How to show a man that he is accepted as he is?

Show a man what he should become, compare him with others, give examples.
Ask rhetorical questions: "How could you?", "Is it really so difficult?" Indeed, in our life there are moments when we all act the way we act, we make mistakes.
Give a man advice, especially unsolicited advice. Prompt him what and how he should do. Your desire to help with advice may not always open a man's heart.
Run after a man when he is moving away, shake him and pull him back into the relationship. Men are so arranged that sometimes they need to move away.
Say, "I'm waiting."
Make your happiness dependent on a man.
Launch low self-esteem and complexes.

Desirable:

Build a relationship with that man, whose shortcomings do not bother you, and open the heart of such a man.
If a man made a mistake, acted badly in your opinion, say that you did not expect such an act from him.
If a man asks for advice, to say that he knows better, he knows better that he is able to cope, you are there and support him.
Seek advice from a man.
When a man moves away, take care of himself, his own affairs. The fact is that when a man returns himself, his love for you becomes stronger.
Let the man know that you are always glad to him, his return.
Learn to be happy apart from the man. This is the time you can devote to yourself - isn't it valuable?
Be in awe of yourself. It will not be difficult for such a woman to open the heart of her beloved man.
Sincerely support his thoughts, ideas and the fact that he can handle everything.
Believing in a man, trusting him - this helps a man to develop and gives strength for new achievements.

These keys act only at the same time, when a man sees that you need him, while he is free and you accept him as he is. Then it will be easy for you to open a man's heart.

In order to use these keys, you need to show wisdom, love, sincerity and learn to be happy yourself. And even if it is more difficult, but worth it.

Get to know yourself, find out what you want out of life, what makes you happy. Then you can easily understand what the man who is next to you wants.

Always be yourself and make the loved one next to you feel like themselves. Where there is mutual understanding, respect, trust and acceptance, love develops there. In a relationship like this, it's easy to go through life together.

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How to confess your love to a man in your own words

Sometimes women and girls believe that it is impossible to be the first to confess sincere love, because this is the prerogative of a man. But some guys are simply afraid to take the first step and therefore hide their feelings from their beloved. Therefore, in order not to wait forever for the cherished words, it is worth discarding prejudices and confessing love to the most beloved man herself.

Preparing for confession

Before you open up your feelings, consider if you can do it. It is not easy for a man to be the first to admit it, for this you need determination and confidence in your feelings. If in doubt, do not rush, it is better to postpone this moment. Make sure the man is ripe to hear the words of love.

When the moral preparation is behind, you should carefully consider what to say and when it is best to do it. The right time and place is the key to a positive result. There is no need to talk about tender feelings when he is not in the mood, is busy with work or watches a football match. Indeed, in such a situation, words will simply go deaf ears.

When choosing a place, you need to proceed from its preferences and attitude towards romance. You can say that you love while walking in the park or on the river bank, having a romantic dinner in a beautiful restaurant or during an intermission at the cinema, nothing prevents you from doing this during goodbye, when he escorts you home or before leaving on a business trip.

Husband can say "I love" every morning, making him coffee in bed or during breakfast, preparing his favorite delicacy.

Speak directly, avoiding vague phrases so that he understands that this is a declaration of love. At this moment, the main thing is not to be nervous, but to radiate confidence.

Confession of love one-on-one is the most reliable method for those women whose beloved man is married, because this is the only way you will most likely be able to keep it a secret.

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On the ear

This is an original and cute way. It has been proven that a person intuitively tends to trust a whisper. The advantage of the method is that you can whisper words of love to your chosen one unexpectedly: spending time with friends, sitting in a cafe, theater, cinema, when there are many strangers around. A declaration of love to a beloved man, uttered in a whisper, has a passionate and sometimes erotic character.

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By phone

You can choose this option for a declaration of love if your beloved man is at a distance or you are afraid to look him in the eye at such a crucial moment. The advantage of this method is that you can spy on a pre-written speech. The downside of revelation over the phone is that you cannot visually assess the reaction of your loved one, and by the intonation of your voice, this is not always possible.

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Through social media

If you often communicate with your beloved man on the Internet, then a declaration of love can be sent with a personal message, choosing beautiful and gentle words that describe the fullness of your feelings. Another option is to paint graffiti on its "wall" if you don't mind making the confession public. If you are afraid to write directly, you can send a song that speaks about your feelings.

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SMS

If a beloved man is not around now or there is no way to say a declaration of love aloud, SMS will be a good way. In addition, you can at the same time admit that you hesitate to tell him about your feelings directly. If the message is received, but there is no response, please check if he received the message. But if the answer is yes, you should not ask clarifying questions or take other steps, the next move is for the man.

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Confession options

Thanks to you, I feel happy every day! I like it when you give me your attention and tenderness. I feel so good with you that I am ready to sing with happiness. You are so attentive, caring and empathetic! I am happy to be by your side. And I am ready to make you the happiest man in the world, because I love you very much!
Everyone is looking for their soul mate, and there is no limit to happiness when they find it. I pulled out my lucky ticket when I met you. Now you are my destiny and happiness, because only when you are near the world becomes rainbow and bright. My heart and soul belong to you, you are the only man for me. I do not want to hide my true feelings, because I love you. I love and am ready to shout about it to the whole world!
I do not stop thinking about you, because I love you very much! I want to be next to you to give you my affection and tenderness. I want to spend unforgettable days and nights with you, whispering in your ear: I love you!
I cannot imagine myself without you, without your eyes and smile, kisses and courageous hands. Now I know that you are happiness, my happiness. I love you!
I do not need expensive gifts, I only need your attention, only you alone. After all, when I wake up in the morning, I realize that I live for you ... for you. I wanna be with you. I love you!
At first sight, I fell in love with you. I like everything about you: a gentle voice, a pleasant smile and hot kisses. My heart flutters like a bird in a cage when I'm alone with you. I have dreamed of such a man all my life. With you I feel like a real woman, with you I am happy. Dear, I love you and wish that from a small spark our feelings would light up into a huge flame of love!
My most beloved and dear one, I can say with confidence that our meeting is not accidental. Heaven was destined for us to find each other. And so, it happened, our paths converged. My heart immediately told me that we were born to be together. I love you and I hope it is mutual!
I miss your hands, eyes and lips! I miss you! I miss you so much! And all because I love you!
No one can feel and understand the fullness of my feelings for you. No one will understand how I love you, because no one on the whole planet is gifted with such happiness to love to the point of absurdity, to madness, surrendering completely to one person. I love you and I want to make you as happy!
You are the meaning of my life! I think of you when I fall asleep. I think about you when I wake up. I smile in a dream, thinking about you! I want to scream that I love you. After all, I can't imagine myself without your smile. You are my half! I love you!
A light comes on in me when you are near and I like this warmth, it warms me so much. I'm comfortable with you, I'm hot in your arms. Your kisses are tender and sweet, and your lips are passionate and soft. You are my world, my universe! I have nothing more to say, just that I love you.
What is love? It is impossible to describe in words, it is both simple and difficult. What is love? This cannot be explained; in order to understand, you need to feel. And I understand, because I love you!
There are no distances and obstacles, there are no hundreds of kilometers between our cities, because I love you and look forward to our meeting!
There are people who, even for a moment, do not want to part with. They are a real drug: the more you get to know them, the harder it is to forget them. You want to comprehend them again and again, to completely dissolve in them. They delight the mind and captivate hearts. There are few of them, but they are. For me, such a person is you! I love you!
You know, I'm calling you to tell you that I love you! I realized this and decided that you have a right to know!

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No wonder wise women are constantly pondering what to write to a guy they like. And what to strike a stranger to arouse his interest in his person? How to hint your loved one about your feelings?

There are many questions, but there are many options to say “miss”: short messages, cute poetry, beautiful words. The main thing is to speak sincerely and with all your heart.

Some girls find it difficult to pronounce or write pleasant words to a loved one. The reasons for this behavior may be:

heavy memories of childhood;
strict parenting methods;
experience of unsuccessful relationships.

All this is fraught with the emergence of psychological complexes, which already require qualified assistance from specialists. Therefore, it is necessary to fight your unwillingness to speak beautiful words to your loved one. You will not only be liberated, but also please your soul mate.

Another common misconception concerns the notorious emotional coldness of the stronger sex. It is believed that a real man is obliged to be serious, not to be distracted by various "nonsense" and not to express his feelings in public.

However, often behind the seeming indifference there is an open guy who is incredibly pleased when the chosen one says beautiful words to him.

Don't turn your messages into flattering praises. Your loved one will not like it if you start writing about his nonexistent merits.

Therefore, you can and should speak sincerely, telling a man about why you fell in love with him and continue to love.

You can say cute words both to your loved one and to a guy with whom you have just recently struck up a warm correspondence. Moreover, communication on the Internet is more open, because you can express your most secret feelings.

It is unlikely that you will call your boyfriend a tiger in front of everyone, but in the message it is very easy to do this. So, what words does he, the best man in the world, expect from you?

Option number 1. Compliment to external data

Yes, we often repeat that we value guys not for their beauty, but for their strength and reliability, but every man will be pleased if the chosen one considers him attractive. You can praise his appearance as a whole, but it is better to admire some particular "detail" - long eyelashes, dimples on the cheeks or beautiful fingers.

Use words and phrases from the following list:

"Dimples on your cheeks suit you";
“You have strong hands”;
“You look like a pianist - the same long and beautiful fingers”;
"A new hairstyle suits you";
"You are very strong";
"You have such a muscular figure";
"What sweet lips you have ...".

Option number 2. A few words about talents

Every young man has some kind of gift or talent. And your boyfriend is no exception.

Perhaps he sings beautifully, knows how to draw, drives a great car, or cooks fried eggs best of all. Show your loved one that you are delighted with their abilities. And even though he heard about it a thousand times from strangers, you just need to say that you are proud of him.

So, what phrases about talents can be written in an SMS to a man:

“You struck me with this song”;
“You managed to do the impossible! The roast was great ”;
"Your poetry makes me cry."

Option number 3. Words of thanks

It is always necessary to say “thank you” to your beloved, and it does not matter at all whether he presented a huge bouquet of flowers or asked you to go to work.

There is a certain pattern: the more often a man is praised, the more he tries.

Having heard rave reviews about his signature dish, the guy will certainly want to repeat his culinary masterpiece. And all for the sake of a few pleasant words from his beloved woman.

The same applies to the sexual side of relationships. For a great night out, the man also needs to be thanked.

What to write to a guy? We offer the following options:

“Darling, it was great! Thanks for a great night. I hope you felt as good as I did ”;
“Thank you for the most beautiful bouquet of flowers. You are very, very cute ”;
“I miss your morning coffee. Thank you for a hot and tasty start to the day. "

Option number 4. A few words about masculinity

You will never compare with your loved one in strength, so it is better to seem weak and defenseless than to demonstrate your independence. Emphasize his masculinity, courage and nobility. Men love messages with a hint of their exclusivity and irreplaceability.

Send the following nice sms to your loved one:

"I'm not afraid of anything with you";
“I feel absolutely calm next to you”;
"You are a real man".

Option number 5. "Pleasures" for the night

Bedtime messages should consider the extent of your relationship. If you've only met a guy a couple of times, it's not the best solution to write to him: “Lonely night ... How I would like to be with you now ...” Why? There is a high probability that the young person will perceive this as a signal for a certain relationship.

Of course, if you want to turn it on and hint at a hotter meeting, this phrase is perfect.

If you are in a more serious relationship, but you are now far away, remember to write a nice guy at night and tell him how you need him: "I miss you terribly and dream of falling asleep on your shoulder."

You can also send some unobtrusive funny poems that will serve as a kind of lullaby.

Option number 6. Cool poems

Do you want the young man to smile? Try texting a guy you like a joke.

Funny poems, anecdotes, a compliment with a hint - all this will help reduce the distance between you, provide a good mood for your loved one and show your ability to communicate in a positive way.

Several important rules

If you want your registration to last as long as possible and end with a meeting and a serious relationship, follow a few simple, but at the same time effective rules.

Write correctly. This is an extremely important condition in communication through instant messengers, social networks and SMS. The young man may not say directly that your literacy is lame, but he may decide that you are not suitable for him. However, you should not point the guy to spelling mistakes, he will not appreciate such frankness.
Do not bother your beloved man. Messages like "Where have you disappeared?" or "Don't you like me?" you can only destroy the relationship. Firstly, a young man can be really busy, and your SMS will only infuriate him. Secondly, such obsession does not honor a decent girl.
Write first if you like the guy. Some girls categorically do not want to write to the first man who hooked her on a photo on a social network. But how will he know that you like him? Look at his page, find common interests and write first, and if he doesn't answer you - well, at least you won't suffer anymore.
Do not use diminutive nicknames for an unfamiliar man. Words like "bunny", "baby", "sun" are suitable for communication only with a loved one. Agree that it is a little unexpected to receive the following phrase in the first SMS: "Hello, baby, I like you very much." Better to say a few nice words about his hobbies.
Be sincere. What to write to a guy to make sure of your feelings? In fact, it doesn't matter if it is poetry, gratitude in your own words, beautiful phrases from the Internet. The main thing is sincerity and moderation. We discard gross flattery right away; praise for non-existent talents should also not be. Neutral options: "I am very glad that you are in my life", "Thanks to you, I understood what love is", "I miss you madly."

A man is a rather romantic creature, although he wants to seem tough and even indifferent to us. Believe me, your loved one wants to hear from you words of approval, gratitude, etc.

What to write to a guy you like? Write poetry for him! Brighten up his night with a message with beautiful words! Do not be afraid of desires, and then he will immediately move mountains for you.

Many girls ask themselves questions: "what to write to a guy?" or if you previously had a relationship with a boyfriend, then: "what to write to your ex-boyfriend?" Similar questions are found everywhere. Usually everything happens like this: a girl sees a wonderful, handsome and intelligent, in her opinion, guy with whom she really wants to start communication. Runs home, opens social networks, adds friends and then ... hesitates or not knows what is better to write. It sometimes comes to the point that visiting the page of a young man becomes so frequent that it looks more like some kind of ritual. Girls study completely all the information that is in the profiles, remember the numbers of each photo in the albums and know by heart all friends, the number of which may be up to several hundred, but still afraid to write.

Or there is another situation. You broke up with your boyfriend and haven't spoken in a month (as an example). But then you realize that you cannot live without this communication. The days become boring and not interesting, but when you want to write, fear appears, and suddenly everything goes wrong, suddenly he does not answer or he simply forgot about you. There are a lot of such stories.

I'll try to write in detail what to write to the guy who likes it?

Where to begin?

What to write to a guy to interest? First, you need to drop all fears. You need to understand that he is exactly the same person as you, who can be afraid of something, hesitate and he (usually) likes girls! It is very important to realize this. This is much easier than it sounds.

Nowadays, everyone has pages on social networks or in any kind of instant messaging programs, which makes life much easier for modern teenagers. If you are afraid to start a live conversation, then you can just write. Probably you are reading now and think: "Damn, probably, soon they will tell me that you need to write first." Yes! Exactly! You need to write first and there can be no other way! Do you want to communicate with this person? So communicate, no one will forbid you. Start simple, write a banal "hello" in any way. You probably think that this will not help you in any way, but these thoughts should be discarded. A simple “hello” is a great conversation starter. Guy answer 100%. Now the more difficult moment already begins. If you know what the young man is interested in or with whom he actively communicates, then the task is much easier. For example, he is very fond of football. Try to find out for which team, then go to any news resource and see information about the last game. Here it is, the key to success. Find any point in this article that is rather controversial, well, or unfair. Even a penalty kick might be fine.

So, the guy answered you and this is already a small victory. Now, according to the recommendation from the last paragraph, try to write something like “Dynamo got a penalty for nothing. The referee is not normal.” That's it! If you guessed right with his preferences, then the conversation will be long, believe me.

What can you write to a guy? What should you do if you don't know such a topic, but you know this guy's social circle? Try to remember or find out some incident that happened in his circle of friends in the near future and mention about it. Express your opinion on this matter. It's simple, the main thing is not to be afraid!

Now let's figure out what to write to your ex-boyfriend?

Ex-boyfriend: how to get everything back?

What can you write to a guy? At the beginning of the article, we considered a fairly common case when a pair diverges, but then someone realizes their mistake. Such cases are so common that I simply have to reveal this topic.

What to write to your beloved guy with whom you broke up? First, we need to understand that guys have feelings too. No matter how the guy is now talking nasty things about you and pretending to be super insensitive, most likely he still does not think badly of you, but rather the opposite. This behavior is only a protective reflex, so as not to show others how weak you are.

Remember how you used to communicate and how you started a conversation. Most likely, the dialogue began with introductory phrases like “Good morning” or “Hello”. I will repeat once again - you should not think that this is overly banal. No, these are just the most common words to start a conversation. The hardest part of communication is to start it. Therefore, in order to start communicating with your ex-boyfriend, or even to restore your old relationship with him, you just need to start talking to him. It doesn't matter how, via SMS, on social networks or in person. The main thing is to start! And then everything will be fine.

You probably know situations when you sit in front of a laptop screen and think what to write to a guy first so that he will immediately like him. You can ponder and choose words for a long time, but the main thing is to take courage and take the first step. If a man does not write, then you need to take the initiative and start acting. But what to write to the guy first - see our instructions.

What to write a guy nice and unusual

Online dating is good because you always have time to think and correctly formulate what to write to the guy you like and decide to do it first. On the Internet, you do not risk accidentally forgetting the name of the interlocutor, confusing facts or not remembering important dates. Sitting near the computer, you have the opportunity to think things over, choose the right tone and choose the words.

We've compiled a list of tips to get your thoughts on the right track and save you the hassle of asking your boyfriend first.

Be unique

Sending all guys the same messages is a technique that never works. In each case, you need to be unique and unrepeatable. What can you write to the guy you like if you write first? Write him only sincere messages. For example, you liked his look on the photo - this and accentuate or tag his strong arms that immediately caught your eye. Don't write trivial phrases like “Hello! How are you? ”, And go straight to the specifics.

Don't write to everyone at once

What to write a nice guy? Make it stand out from the rest. Surely looking at candidates on dating sites, someone catches your eye, and to someone you remain indifferent. So it is better not to waste time on "fallbacks", but immediately write to those who you like.

Remember the Golden Rule

If you think that you can write to a guy who does not write, then send him such a message that you would like to receive yourself. Surely you would not be happy with boring general phrases. So you do not make the same mistake, and then it will not be difficult to figure out what to write to the guy so that he will answer and your communication will continue.

What to write to a guy you like, so that it is both original and pleasant? Check out his profile. You may see some of his recent vacation shots in China. So start your conversation with travel, ask about sights, cuisine and unusual places. Remember, if you don't like banality, then others will not be happy with it.

And one more thing: when thinking about what to write to a guy if he doesn't write, ask yourself the question: “Is it worth it?”. Is it worth it so persistently to seek the attention of someone who cares about you? If a man is interested in communication, he will definitely find a way to communicate this.

Don't forget to joke

Everyone likes people with a sense of humor, so you can show it in your first message. Jokes create a relaxed atmosphere in correspondence and make the conversation enjoyable and interesting. You don't have to joke like comedians do, just write something cute that will put a smile on your interlocutor's face.

Flirt

You don't have to shower a man with compliments, but flirting with him is sacred. Especially before going to bed. What to write to a guy for the night? You don't have to tell the guy that you like him, but write something like: “Your words are warm” or “I looked at your profile photo for a few minutes and finally decided to write”. Agree, from such words it will be pleasant to every man. And you don't need to think long about what to write to that nice guy who you liked so that he would answer.

Don't build sand castles

No matter how sad it may be, not all guys will immediately be able to get an answer. Maybe half an hour before you wrote to him, he received a message from another girl and is now corresponding with her. But don't be in a hurry to despair! So he's just not your ideal candidate. And the one that suits you will surely respond.

Plus, you don't always answer everyone either. So you better pay attention to those who are interested in you. Instead of composing what to write to this guy in the morning, at lunchtime and at night.

Don't be intrusive

If the guy sunk into your soul and you have already sent him several messages, and he is still silent, then perhaps slow down a little. And do not pour him messages found on the Internet for a request like “what to write to a guy” - all the examples there are rather hackneyed and primitive.

A man may not answer, not because he did not like you. He may have problems at work or family troubles, and he simply has no time for acquaintances. Therefore, do not rush to jump to conclusions and do not overwhelm him with messages.

There will always be inexplicable reasons why someone might not write to you. Search engines ripple with links like “what to write to a guy - examples”, how to interest him and keep him, and the like. But do not bother so much and worry. After all, there are millions of profiles on dating sites, and there is no point in worrying about one person not responding.

The world of modern young people is mainly concentrated on social networks. Now it has become a bad form to make acquaintances in real life. The Internet makes life easier for girls and guys. After all, this is really so, I liked the representative of the opposite sex, came home, found his page in VK, learned everything you need and do not need about your sweetheart, perhaps even added her as a friend, and then, as they say, a stupor sets in. This especially happens with the weaker sex, girls are more indecisive in matters of dating.

We were taught from childhood: a guy should be the first to take the initiative. You, of course, can continue to learn by heart the profile of a guy who has sunk into the soul, or you can muster up the courage and write to the person who will become your destiny, a few simple, but overnight well-chosen words.

How to do this, we will figure it out below.

How to write to a guy so that he likes it?

Initially, you need to distinguish for yourself that the words addressed to the guy you see for the first time and then according to the profile in VK, and the man with whom you had a previous relationship, will be different.

We start a correspondence with a guy whom we did not know before

The first word that you write to a young man will say everything about you and almost nothing. Quite simply and trite: over time, the guy will generally be erased in his memory, as you greeted him at the beginning. However, it will depend on this main word whether they will answer you. If you want to be answered exactly, write “hello” or “hello”, put a well-chosen smiley. Of course, you can be considered original and ask the guy right off the bat about any question regarding his photo on his avatar on the social network, any of his interest. Just don't forget about the words of greeting. Men favor clarity, logic and common sense more.
Write first. Men love initiative young ladies.
Don't be intrusive. In the beginning, there will be enough light secular chatter "about this, about this", the main thing is to often use positive formulations, embellished with healthy wit.
Remember, few people like whiners. You should not immediately write to a man you like about the tragic death of your beloved poodle and the impact of his death on your mood. Although, if you present this information with humor, then you can write. Just remember that as long as you are not connected with this guy, and he will not waste his time comforting your person.
During the conversation, cling to what specifically interests your sweetheart. If he is interested in football, you can criticize the game of some player or sincerely (!) Resent the game of his favorite team - this will cause the guy to be interested and want to have a discussion with you. The main thing is to know when to stop and not to alienate the young man from himself.
A categorical mistake is the use of the words "kitty", "zaya", "baby" in the first days of correspondence, because in this way you cross the intimate line of your interlocutor. These words arise in the correspondence of people in love with each other, in a natural way, and this happens, as a rule, mutually. You just have to wait for the guy you like to be yours. Then you can already swim in the sea of tenderness.

We write pleasant words to the guy in VKontakte (vk, vk)

We discussed above what is pleasant and how you can write to an unfamiliar guy in contact. Now let's think about what words should be chosen for the man you know in real life using the social network. Indeed, it is during a long correspondence that people are now fully revealed, revealing sometimes the most secret nooks of their souls.

What is pleasant to write in VK to your beloved guy whom you know for a long period?

Now you have been texting with a guy on VK for a long time, you are entering a period of mutual exchange of affection and amenities, and you do not want to lose such good communication. This period is really one of the most important, because it will completely affect your future relationship with your beloved boyfriend.

How can I avoid this?

Write about everything, the main thing is not to get bored, that is, avoid messages like "Honey, I'm bored", "I'm sitting here without you and miss you", "Honey, I'm lonely."
It is on the social network that you should write to the young man directly about your feelings. You will never go wrong with the wording like "How glad I am that you appeared in my life" and so on, "Thank you for understanding me."
Become patient and do not start a conversation with phrases like “Where are you?” If a person is online and simply wants to take a break from communication even with you.

Finally, you started dating a guy and you want his morning to start with your sms - message if you live apart for now, or so that your sms - pigeon will find its addressee at work if you already live together.

What should I write in the morning?

“Good morning, my dear. I slept so sweetly with you, and I did not notice how you left "," Good morning, darling. How did you sleep without me? " etc. Transfer his attention to yourself. It's bad if he woke up without you, but if it's good, then veiled thank you that you woke up together.
Choose words-clues, if you meet with your beloved for a long period, do not be afraid to write him gentle words: “Darling, my pillow smells of you. Come back home as soon as possible "
Psychologists say that poems of your own writing are a good clue. The main thing is to use this technique if you really have a talent for rhyming. If not, use cool ready-made rhymes from the Internet. Poems are more original than prose letters.

Pleasant nightly messages

Bedtime emails depend on the degree of your relationship. When you had only a few meetings with a man, it would be wrong to write "I would now be next to you", "I will not sleep without you." Why?

Guys do not find any romantic halo in such a phrase, they perceive it as a signal for intimacy.

When you and your boyfriend are in a long-term strong relationship and for any reason you are sleeping separately, do not forget to write: "I want to sleep on your shoulder." Men are very susceptible to such gentle and overnight touching formulations.

If you don't know the guy much, you can laugh it off and write: "Good night and let me dream about you." Here, again, the main thing is to transfer the attention of the guy who you like to your beloved person.

It is also a good idea to have some kind of unobtrusive rhyme sent to the guy in time before he goes to bed.

Nice SMS for a loved one is a whole art

SMS is a short message that can attract a guy's attention even more than correspondence on social networks. Writing a good SMS to get a person interested is a whole art. What pleasant SMS can you send?

A very, very, very funny joke. Such that not only the young man could laugh, but also his mother. Everyone knows that God is hidden in a sense of humor. Be lively and witty. A spontaneous joke will boost the mood of the young man you like for the rest of the day.
Again, the poems of my own writing. Your young man will know that next to him there is a creative girl who can write not only messages in prose. Your sweetheart can boast of a beautiful rhyme in front of family, colleagues and close friends, which will certainly increase his mood and self-esteem. After all, for his sake they even go to write poetry! Only a very callous and down-to-earth person will not like this approach. Here, too, do not overdo it and send a rhyme every six months.
Words of praise. Your boyfriend will only be glad if you often remind him how good, sweet, handsome, kind, the best in the world he is.
Ask your guy for advice more often. How do you find this or that store? Where better to refuel in your area and more. This approach is especially good if you know the guy quite recently.
Send him an invitation to any event. Everyone loves unexpected surprises. Be Santa's grandpa for the guy. More often please with any unexpected invitations somewhere.

Why shouldn't you write or typical mistakes of girls?

Don't write with mistakes. When the guy you like isn't flawlessly literate, don't stoop to the same. Be for him initially an authority at least in matters of spelling and knowledge of the native language.
Never ask for extra attention right off the bat. The guy doesn't answer you for a long period? So he is either busy or has lost interest in you. And with questions like “Where have you disappeared?”, “Answer me, I’m waiting,” you will not return attention to yourself, but rather push the person away from you. Interested guys will always take the time to write. Wait and be patient, it will pay off later.
If your loved one does not want to write to you, do not try to blackmail him with SMS messages like “If you don’t answer, I’ll throw myself out of the window” and other similar formulations. You won't bring the guy back like that, but this way you will only leave bad memories.
Do not humiliate the guy in the correspondence. You can pin him up in moderation, make fun of him, but you always need to remember that all people are egoists, and since you greatly hurt the feelings of an unfamiliar young man, you can hardly return those pleasant impressions that he initially made about you.

Psychologists advise girls to be open, friendly, nice when communicating with a guy in correspondence and remember that you should never dwell on any person, because this leads to personality breakdown. After some attempts to interest the man in yourself, stop it and turn your attention to someone else.

Often, girls also ask other questions related to correspondence with young people. They ask, for example, how to regain the trust of a man with whom you broke up through correspondence. There is a way out here too.

Try to strike up a conversation with your ex on the same level as you had when you first met.

Greet him and write about common acquaintances, common interests and what once united you. The main thing is not to be annoying.

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One of the most pressing issues is the correspondence between a girl and a young man who is in military service. Write him sparse letters, about how you expect him and how you miss him. The main thing is not to be overly sentimental, because your boyfriend is also having a hard time being away from you. Describe vividly and interestingly everything that happens in your city, on your street with your families and mutual acquaintances.

The immutable truth is that a loving heart will always find the right words, no matter how difficult it may be to find and write to your beloved boyfriend. Be more decisive. Go for it!