If my dear calls. "My Sweet and Tender Beast." - the name speaks of ...
Baby is caring, but he is hardly interested in your real feelings.
Hippo - absorbed in you, respects your independence, but does not mind playing.
Baby - he is specific in his desires and does not want to complicate anything.
Dear, dear - in a relationship he values confidence, certainty. Feelings come second.
Durynda - I am ready to forgive you any mistake and take control of the situation.
Hedgehog, hedgehog - gives your relationship special significance. Sometimes he is unrestrained, because he is afraid of losing you.
Toad is energetic and playfully assertive, but values your relationship very much.
My life - pathos betrays a tendency to brute force. Check if he has another "life" on the side.
Hare, hare, hare, hare - prone to excitement and would not mind playing with you. At heart, jealous and closely watching you.
Gold, gold, gold - emphasizes the importance of your relationship, although his mind prevails over feelings.
Kitty, pussy, kitty, kysik - tuned in to close contact and does not want to complicate the situation.
A goat, a goat, a goat - feels complete closeness with you. You
for him a very dear person, although he does not mind teasing you.
Mulya, musya, musipusechka - feelings are very strong. He is inclined to get carried away and often does not know when to stop.
Sweetie - be careful: you seem to be considered their property.
A kitten, a cat, a kitten, a kitten - feels closeness and an inextricable bond with you, wants to convince you of his loyalty.
Crocodile - emphatically energetic, not inclined to beat around the bush and hold back emotions for a long time.
Doll, doll - passionate about you, but does not attach too much importance to your relationship.
Paw, lapul, lapusik - very active and ready to work and live for you.
Swallow is very attentive and absolutely confident in you.
A fox, a fox, a fox - all attention is absorbed by you and he expects the same from you.
Beloved, beloved, love - prone to sensual overkill and ready to act decisively and assertively.
Lyalya, lyalik - very emotional, may not control the surge of feelings - both good and bad.
Small, small, masik, masya - feelings are very deep, they are ready to take care of you.
Baby, baby - you absorb all the attention, and they expect the same from you.
The bear cub is a very sensual person, but he is not in a hurry. He is discreet and does not want to lose you.
Sweetheart, sweetheart - promises you a strong relationship. His senses are in balance with the mind.
Mulya, musya, musipusechka - feelings are very strong. He is inclined to get carried away and often does not know when to stop.
Mouse, mouse - very attached to you, sometimes unrestrained, but his love is deep.
Pampushka - counts on complete closeness and interaction.
Donut - with all his might wants to attract your attention and protect himself from possible rivals.
Belly, belly, telepuz - tuned in to the creation and arrangement of the family hearth.
A bobblehead, baby doll, pushechka, pusya - is looking for full contact with you, but behind this there are not so much feelings as practical interest.
Fish - looks at your relationship in a more businesslike way. In the first place he puts not romance, but practical interest.
Sweet, sweet - deliberately emphasizes their emotionality. But in his soul he is balanced and calm.
Baby elephant, elephant - attaches great importance to your relationship and expects complete reciprocity.
The sun, the sun - feels genuine tenderness and keen interest for you.
Tiger, tiger cub - respects your independence. He is not averse to joking at you, but in fact he offers an equal union.
Hamster - prone to impulsive actions and can easily succumb to momentary impulses.
Chick, chicken - offers you active contact, but perhaps deep down he is afraid of something.
People in love often call each other in a special way. Each given nickname or name speaks of the donor's attitude towards us.
So:
Traditionally: beloved, sweetheart, dear, beloved ...
If a man calls you sweet and dear, then this suggests ... that he has certain feelings for you and seeks to show his tenderness in this way, making you pleasant.
The only thing that can be blamed on him is the lack of imagination and ingenuity, it sounds too corny ... There are two verbal scarcity: either he wasted all his creative ardor at work, or your relationship becomes too formal and it's time to take measures to rehabilitate them.
Childish: baby, small, baby, baby ...
Usually, the choice of appeal in favor of "babies", "children" and other things speaks of a certain distribution of roles in a couple. The structure of the personality of each person conventionally consists of three parts: parent-adult-child. Accordingly, our communication with a loved one can occur at one of these levels (the intonation of communication, of course, can change from situation to situation).
If this distribution was carried out by mutual agreement, then in addressing you Baby or Small, there is nothing but tenderness, perhaps a desire to protect, protect and love strongly.
But if you do not like being a "baby" or "baby doll", and your partner insists for some reason, then such persistence may already speak of a desire to dominate and impose a certain role on you.
Abstractly: the sun, miracle, happiness and other abstractions ...
Psychologists tend to consider such affectionate nicknames to be a symbolic expression of an attitude towards a partner. Conventionally, it can be described as follows: "You are my sun" - because you illuminate my life and there is warmth next to you; "miracle" - because it is unique and never ceases to amaze.
Zoo: pussies, bunnies, hamsters, fish, foxes and other animals ...
If a man called you a hamster, this does not mean that you have thick cheeks and it is time for you to lose weight. Such addresses speak only of the tenderness that he feels for you. Provided, of course, that you have no prejudices against pugs, monkeys and others. In some cases, the use of such nicknames may be a manifestation of sexual play.
Selection of more exotic nominations, such as lizard, giraffe and so on. can be explained by the desire to emphasize the individuality of these particular relationships. You will not be a Caterpillar for anyone else, you are the only one, and the only one. And this relationship is unique. That's what a man wants to tell you about. The only limitation here may be your aesthetic preferences and your personal associative array: if you hate being a hamster, do not keep it to yourself, tell your loved one. He will understand you. And he'll think of something else ...
Official: Ivanova, Petrova, Sidorova ...
There are couples in which it is customary to call each other by last name and / or by first name and patronymic.
Surname and name-patronymic are multifunctional nominations. Judge for yourself:
- this form of address can be used with a conscious or not fully conscious desire to maintain a distance in a relationship.
- one of the spouses can use this name in order to emphasize the importance of his partner, for example, his social status: they say, sometimes I turn to my husband by his first name and patronymic - he’s my boss, so let him get used to it at home, he is pleased, but I am pleased that he is pleased.
- the surname can also be used to emphasize some negative (according to one of the spouses) qualities of the second half: they say, "Oh, these Sidorovs for me ... However, what else could you expect from this breed ...".
- and, finally, spouses can call each other by their last names, wishing to emphasize their partnership (husband and wife are one Satan): "We, the Osipovs ...".
Attractive: my-my-my ...
Basically, there is nothing wrong or offensive about possessive pronouns. True, in psychology, they are called the terrible and insidious phrase "signs of possession." Excessive use of such signs of possession (my dear, my sun, my wife, my woman, my doll, my sweet one or just mine) may indicate a desire to completely control a partner, in some cases, about the fear of losing, a feeling of possessiveness or a desire to demonstrate your exclusive right to own a loved one.
Gently rude: boo, monster, bastard, evil dwarf and other unconventional manifestations of tenderness ...
In some couples, there is an unspoken principle: the worse the better. Usually the first reaction of others to such a communication is: "Are they quarreling? Problems in the family? Do you want to talk about it?" In fact, usually everything is much simpler: it is such a mutual agreement, a personal code.
In couples less prone to such verbal extremism, the use of the nickname Gadenysh or innocent Boo is a smoothed form of dissatisfaction with a partner, expressed in a more or less playful way.
In other cases, this can be an accepted form of address (often still situationally determined) and indicates a sufficient level of trust in a couple, freedom of expression.
Harsh nicknames can also be used in an intimate context to spice up relationships, to spice up sex play.
Novo: buzyaka, lanceup, piggy, moose and other neologisms
The use of neologisms is explained, on the one hand, by the desire to clothe your emotions in the most suitable verbal shell (well, there are no such words in the language to express your tenderness), as well as by the desire to individualize the relationship as much as possible. At the same time, the element of the game is very strong in creating your own language, inventing new words, which is wonderful in itself. Psychologists believe that when a space for play is created between lovers, the relationship lives and develops. Without play (in all its socially acceptable directions), there is no life and a sense of novelty in a relationship. Perhaps there is only one "but": here, as in everything, it is worth knowing when to stop. A man is unlikely to understand you if, in a fit of tender feelings, you begin to lisp with him and express yourself in an incomprehensible language in the presence of, say, his colleagues at work. Why - he himself will explain to you at your leisure.
What do diminutive suffixes in names mean:
- -ochka (Helen, Katechka). I have good, warm, necessary feelings for you, similar to those they have for small children.
- -ik (Lyusik, Svetik) ... I have warm feelings for you, I am very pleased to communicate. I don't want to talk to you the same way I talk to other people, I want to treat you as if you were a funny little boy, not a girl.
- -young (Klarenysh, Katenysh). I have good feelings for you and do not want to communicate with you the same way as everyone else. I want to talk to you as if you were a cute little animal.
- -ushka (Sonya, Marfushka) ... You give me feelings of uneasiness and anxiety, similar to those that you have for people when they think about the bad things that could happen to them.
- -enka (Nadenka, Olenka) ... I experience a whole range of feelings when I speak with you, because you are a special person.
Don't wanna be a pussy!
Some people strongly dislike being called any other name other than their own, given at birth. Usually the answer to the question "Why?" the next one: "I am Tanya, not some Pussy or Bunny." Psychologists explain this by the fact that a name change is always a definition of a certain identity of a person. At the same time, a person has the right to agree with the proposed image or to defend his right to the name given from birth: "No, I am Tanya: Man, Woman, Beloved, Wife, Mother, Specialist, Mistress ... I have dreams and desires. I love and I don’t like it ... I can and don’t know how ... Can a Kitty be able to do all this? " That is, a person is offered some kind of image, and he rejects it: "No, I am exactly what I am, and you need to accept me this way."
ELLE Ukraine magazine, February 2008
This is what a self-confident person with an assertive character calls her friend. It's not easy to resist such a gentleman - he is a real eater of hearts. Enjoy the full communication with him, but wait for him with all your heart. After all, this freedom-loving Don Juan does not recognize strong bonds, and therefore, at the slightest suspicion of your possessive aspirations, he will say goodbye to you forever without regret.
Expensive
With this man, hopeless boredom is guaranteed to you. Both in everyday communication and in bed, he is not capable of any extraordinary actions or thoughts. He will not even think of something out of the ordinary in order to interest you even more in this way or to bring a fresh stream into your relationship. The total lack of a sense of humor is another characteristic feature.
By surname
Experienced and confident boyfriends, who are confident in their irresistibility, turn to their girlfriends in a similar way. They like to provoke the ladies in order to cause them violent manifestations of feelings. Forgive him this little weakness - after all, otherwise this is a real macho. He is perfectly aware of all your desires and is not at all averse to fulfilling them. Ladies rarely refuse from such men.
Babe
Usually such a man has a history of unsuccessful love stories. As a result, he was so scared that making new acquaintances for him is a sharp knife. If not for the basic instinct that pushes him into the arms of the fair sex, he would willingly remain a bachelor. Nevertheless, a favorable development of your romance is still possible - if a really serious and mutual feeling flared up between you.
Little bird
Surely your gentleman in the depths of his soul dreams of being a cheeky womanizer, but in real life he behaves quite the opposite, then in every way he demonstrates his modesty and devotion to his beloved. The reason for this duality in his nature is a cowardly character, and not at all adherence to high moral principles. It is possible that, having felt a weakness, he will immediately try to "go to the left." But for the pleasure received from him in bed, you agree to close your eyes to it.
Bunny
You met an insecure person. In addition, it is highly likely that he has a complete lack of self-esteem. Most likely, you just got one hundred percent mama's son. Do not expect dizzying love games from him. And even better - get ready for the fact that he will not be able to satisfy you in bed at all due to his terry sexual ignorance.
Princess
Be on the lookout: such a gentleman is very popular with women, because he is both an incorrigible romantic and a skillful sexual partner. Relax your vigilance a little - they will be taken away immediately. Like it or not, he is well aware of his hypnotic influence on beautiful ladies.
Madam
Consider yourself very lucky. Your boyfriend can certainly be called attractive and witty, courteous and courteous. Next to him you will feel yourself perfect. But peace is only dreaming of you: since it has a pronounced ability to seduce, it will have no end to its admirers.
Queen
This man is obsessed with sex. But his girlfriend is not happy about this, because he is fixated only on his own feelings. True, if he needs a love relationship at the moment, he can temporarily suppress the Marquis de Sade in himself. But there is no guarantee that he will not return to his previous behavior later.
Sweet
You are unlikely to occupy all his thoughts. The attention of this man is entirely occupied with reading empty books and watching no less meaningless serials. Smart women are annoyed by such gentlemen, because they are out of place trying to joke, quoting words from just seen or read a soap opera. And to any request from a friend to give practical advice, they invariably answer: "No problem!"
My love
This is a classic boyfriend, pleasant and easy-going. No matter how carried away by his own feelings, he will always put your sexual interests ahead of his own. And don't try to tame him - you still won't succeed. Men of this type value their independence highly and do not lend themselves to training.
On "you"
Despite such piety, a relationship with this man does not bode well for you. This is a self-righteous and vain type who, in his ineradicable desire to look like a womanizer, tries to produce a cheap effect on women. He shows a strong addiction to pseudo-designer things, that is, for him the main thing in clothes is the label, and not the quality of its execution.
Sweetie
With this friend, you will surely soon feel how much he loves you and what kind of fatherly care he shows towards you. And no matter how long your relationship lasts, all this will tirelessly cherish and cherish you.
My soul
Relationship with such a man is gaining momentum rather slowly. Usually he studies his chosen one for a rather long time before fully opening up to her, and only then moves on to closer contacts, both spiritual and physical. But if your boyfriend nevertheless decides to confide in you, then you can be sure: he will do his best to remain faithful to you. For the time being ...
Pussy (babe)
This nickname is usually used by men devoid of any shame with outstanding sexual ability. From the point of view of such a boyfriend, the day is not lived in vain if he could please the woman. He simply does not pay attention to the rest of the "little things in life".
Ladies, be aware of the affectionate nicknames your partners give you!
Have you ever wondered why you are affectionately called this or that nickname? In fact, many of them can tell you about your man's true feelings and attitude towards you.
Baby- Your partner actively calls you for contact, but your real feelings are of little interest to him.
Babe- Your partner is specific and not inclined to complicate anything. Perhaps he lacks a sense of humor.
Expensive- Your partner values confidence and certainty in a relationship. Feelings for him are in second place.
Durynda- Your partner is ready to forgive you for any mistake. He is energetic and ready to take control of the situation.
Hedgehog, hedgehog- Your partner attaches special importance to your relationship. Sometimes he is incontinent, but deep down he is afraid of losing you.
My life- Paphos betrays your partner's tendency to brute force. Just in case, check if he has another "life" somewhere on the side.
Hare, hare, hare, hare- Your partner is prone to excitement and is not averse to playing with you. Do not be fooled by his appearance - deep down, he is jealous and is watching you intently.
Gold, gold, gold- Your partner emphasizes the importance of your relationship, although his mind prevails over feelings.
Kitty, pussy, kitty, kysik- Your partner is tuned in to close contact and does not want to complicate the situation.
Goat, goat- Your partner feels complete intimacy with you. You are a very dear person to him, although he does not mind teasing you.
Sweetie- Be careful: your partner is very sensitive to your behavior and seems to consider you his property.
Kitten, cat, kitty, kitty- The partner feels closeness and an inextricable bond with you. He wants you to believe him, or is trying to convince you of his loyalty.
Paw, lapula, lapusik- Your partner is very active and ready to work and live for you.
Martin- Your partner is very attentive and absolutely confident in you.
Fox, chanterelle, fox- All your partner's attention is absorbed by you and he expects the same from you.
Beloved, love- Your partner is prone to sensual overkill and is ready to act decisively and assertively.
Lyalya, lalik- Your partner is not at all inclined to restrain his feelings.
Little, masik, masya- Your partner's feelings are very deep, he is ready to be caring and attentive.
Baby baby- The feelings that you evoke in your partner are immeasurable. You absorb all of his attention, and he expects the same from you.
Teddy bear- Your partner is a very sensual person, but in no hurry. He is discreet and does not want to lose you.
Darling- Your partner promises you a strong relationship. His senses are in balance with the mind.
Mulya, musya, musipusechka- The feelings that you evoke in your partner are very strong. He is inclined to get carried away and often does not know when to stop.
Mouse, mouse- Your partner's feelings are out of bounds, even if it is not visible in his behavior. Sometimes he is unrestrained, but he is very attached to you.
Pampushka- Your partner is counting on complete closeness and interaction.
Donut- Your partner wants to get your attention with all his might. Subconsciously, he seeks to protect himself from possible rivals.
Bobblehead, bobblehead, pushechka, bobblehead- Your partner is looking for full contact with you, but most likely, this is not so much a feeling as a practical interest.
Small fish- Your partner looks at your relationship more like a business. In the first place, he puts not romance, but practical interest.
Sweet- Your partner deliberately emphasizes his emotionality. At the same time, in his soul he is balanced and calm.
Sun, sun, sun- Your partner has genuine tenderness and keen interest in you.
Tigger, tiger cub- Your partner respects your independence. He is not averse to joking at you, but in fact he offers you an equal alliance.
Hamster- Your partner is prone to impulsive actions and can easily succumb to momentary impulses.
Chick, chick- Your partner offers you active contact, but perhaps deep down he is afraid of something.
Miracle- Your partner literally demands your attention, emphasizing the importance of your relationship.
Chocolate bar- Your partner offers you a simple, easy relationship, but in fact, you absorb all of his attention and from you deep down he expects the same.
Berry- Your partner is energetic, confident and appreciates their independence. Feelings for him are in second place.
What is your attitude towards affectionate nicknames? What does your loved one call you?
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By the way a man calls his beloved, one can judge his character and attitude towards his spouse.
"Bun", "Kocheryzhka", "Bee", "Kitten" ... Men are often not interested in calling their beloved by name, so they show miracles of ingenuity and come up with cute nicknames for their wife.
Men often come across food in their field of vision. True, they still do not follow their own stomachs and choose not meaty and nourishing, but more or less romantic and light nicknames, like "Berry", "Peach", "Zefirchik". Agree, it would not be very pleasant if your spouse turned to you: "Cutlet, please give me the remote control from the TV." However, the idea is original, is not it?
Representatives of the fauna are no less popular. Men prefer to give their loved ones the nicknames of the cubs of our smaller brothers: "Kitten", "Bear", "Hare", "Fox". In general, the whole zoo is out for a walk. Women, as a rule, are flattered by such addresses, because they sound sweet and tender.
Nicknames that a husband comes up with for his wife can tell a lot about a man, his character traits and his attitude to the object of attention. Let's figure this out together!
How to affectionately call your beloved?
The greatest affection for many women is caused by representatives of the feline family. Affectionate variations on this theme break all records for men.
If a man calls you "Kitty" or "Kitty", this means that he loves you and treats you with special trepidation and tenderness. He is ready to be faithful to you, protect you from problems and constantly "comb the fur". Such a man can be very romantic in the manifestations of his love. However, he prefers to pamper his spouse not with fish and milk, but with a fruit pie, made with his own hands, and a new dress.
Many men call their wives "Darling"... Such an address, of course, suggests that you are very much loved. But, perhaps, this is a signal that the spouse himself lacks care and tenderness. He plows to a sweat, and at home he receives neither attention nor rich borscht. A woman should pay attention to a possible mistake in a relationship. It is enough to always surround your loved one with care - and he will remain the most loyal and devoted man and a good family man.
A man can call his wife "Rybkoy"... Sometimes this can only be explained by his passion for fishing. But still, if you dig deeper, you can look into the inner world. Such a man does not tolerate storms and scandals in family relationships. Sitting with his wife near the fireplace, watching a comedy or reading a book before bed is the ideal of a family vacation for him.
We advise you to be alert if your husband calls you "Golden", "My precious"... Such nicknames can mean that he wants to get something from you. It doesn't have to be tangible. Any benefit from your marriage may unconsciously lead him to call you that way.
The man who calls you edible nicknames like "Pie","Waffle","Donut", takes care of the everyday aspect of the relationship. It is very important for him that you are a true master of household affairs: wash perfectly, cook like a chef. We advise you not to become a housekeeper for him, not to slip into everyday life. And if he wants to see you like that more often, buy a maid costume in an intimate goods store. The husband will be pleasantly surprised when his favorite "Pie" dressed as a sexy housekeeper will serve him chops with mashed potatoes for dinner.
If a man calls you "Chit" or "Babe", then he is very concerned about sex. Your spouse is such a restless experimenter, ready for crazy feats in bed. Someone may begin to feel sorry for you. Like, with such an insatiable husband, it’s probably very hard. However, we note that the intimate life with this partner is very bright and eventful. It is only important for a wife to be a faithful companion and support the ideas of her man.
By the way, if you do not like what your beloved calls you, do not tolerate it, but tell him about it directly. Oh yes, and ask him to call you by name at least once. Maybe he just forgot the name of his beloved wife?