Seven Rules of a True Woman

Surely everyone has heard the famous phrase of Simone de Beauvoir that a woman is not born, but she becomes. And this is actually the case. You can only become a true woman. How to do it? Just take advantage of the rules of a true woman.

How to become a true woman: 7 rules

Rule # 1. Ode to the one and only

This is not selfishness or self-admiration, this is a very important and necessary step in becoming a true, real woman. After all, a woman is a source of love energy, and she can only generate it through herself. So, constantly, dozens of times a day, say the phrase: “I, (name), unique, exceptional, unique! A real Woman who came into this world to live her life, and only her own! "

It is useless to endlessly improve something in oneself with the help of operations and silicone, since this process can become endless, but it will never lead to the desired result - true love for oneself. By loving and fully accepting yourself, you will accept every cell of your body.

Do you believe in your uniqueness and exclusivity? Believe it! After all, this is so. No, there has never been and never will be a woman like you again on the planet!

Rule # 2. To be beautiful not for someone else, but for yourself

Take care of your body constantly and then it will serve you for a long time. Your body is the repository of your beautiful soul, so take care of it carefully. A true woman dresses up only for herself, while an ordinary woman dresses up for those around her. In addition, ordinary women torment themselves too much with various Botox and diets, completely not caring about their body and health, but simply trying to get the perfect outer shell. A true woman strives to be healthy and to please herself first. She carefully monitors herself, and can even go on a diet, if necessary, but she will not shout about it at every corner, as it is now fashionable. Men do not need to know how many grams you have lost today, and what enemas you are doing for yourself in order to lose weight!

Yes, we can say that you were in a beauty salon today, but just without going into details. Remember, a man is a MAN, not your girlfriend.

Rule # 3. Living your life, not the life of your husband, children, parents or friends

How often you can hear from an elderly woman: "Yes, I ruined my youth for your sake, I lost my health, I did not sleep at night, and so on." And it immediately becomes clear that the woman is devastated, since she constantly devoted herself to others, tried to please them, cared for them, but she did not wait for gratitude and recognition. That is, she simply lived someone else's life, not her own. In the life of a true woman, in addition to her husband, children and work, there should be a place for creativity, hobby that pleases her. After all, it is you who are the source of energy, so fill yourself, and do not empty!

Don't try to do everything for everyone. Take care of yourself. For example, imagine. that you have a fever, the older child asks for help ironing clothes, the younger infant is crying, and the husband asks for help to tie his tie. What are you going to do? Most likely, you will say that first you will rush to the infant and calm him down, then you will help the older child and husband. But! Wait a minute ... First you have to lie down and take an aspirin, then ask the older child to nurse and calm the younger, and ask your husband to help iron the older child's clothes and deal with the tie yourself! Take care of Yourself, first of all! Again, for the sake of the children. After all, no one will love them as you love them. So take care of yourself and your health! If you are sick, tired and worn out, you are unlikely to be able to give your children and husband much love and support.

Rule # 4. Feeling unique and unique

In the first rule, we talked about an ode to yourself that helps you feel your uniqueness. This feeling is very important for a true woman. She can safely enjoy the male company, without calling for help from girlfriends. A true woman never fights with rivals, because she simply does not have them, since she is exceptional! Her motto is: "Let 40 women stand in front of me, and I will not envy all forty."

Rule # 5. A true woman chooses a man for herself as a gift

Rule # 6. A true woman knows how to say "No"

An ordinary woman is always afraid of offending someone and puts up with a boring company or people she does not need, so as not to offend them. A true woman can just get up and leave. And if, for example, she decided to make herself a day off and lie on the couch with a book all day, then no invitations from her friends to shopping will make her give up her intention. So don't contradict yourself and don't try to please everyone.

Rule # 7. Jealousy - NO!

It is not for nothing that they say that a man is jealous because he loves himself very much, but a woman is jealous because she does not love herself enough! Most often, when a woman has a reason for jealousy, she falls into hysterics, screams, swears, but at the same time she is very afraid to leave and lose a man. A true woman can accept cheating as a fact and instead of hysterics, she just makes a decision. If a man is really needed and loved, she simply will not tell him anything about her awareness and will work to strengthen the relationship. Or, if she decides that with such a man she is not on her way further and she cannot be with him and then she will simply leave.

And if a woman is hysterical, informs her man that she knows about treason, but at the same time continues to live with him further, then the situation may repeat itself, and in the end they will simply wipe their feet about such a woman. So either take it as a fact, realizing that both are to blame for cheating and work on improving the relationship without arranging a showdown and not saying anything to the man, or just leave right away. If a man loves, he will get scared, ponder the situation, then start to get bored and do everything to win you over again. And if he doesn’t love ... Well, then there will be another man, faithful and loving.

These are the rules of the True Woman. And finally, I suggest that you familiarize yourself with the ten commandments, which you can write down on a piece of paper and read every day so as not to forget them.

True Woman's Commandments:

1. All the changes in my life are for the better!

2. I love myself with unconditional love

3. I take care of myself

4. I respect myself

5. I maintain my mental and physical health

6. I believe in myself

7. I care about my body because I love it.

8. I enjoy my life and every day I live

9. I am always open to new ideas

10. I love Life!

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The modern world cultivates stereotypical roles in women: "businesswoman", "bitch", "blonde". Meanwhile, each representative of the fairer sex is unique in nature and does not look like any template. This is exactly what psychologist Yulia Sviyash speaks about in her book.

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She is not chasing happiness.

She's not chasing anything at all. Running for happiness is the most popular and dumbest sport. We are all running somewhere. Towards a brighter future, tomorrow, next year, etc. A real woman is not involved in this kind of "sport". She floats through life, always being in the present.

The present is the most interesting and important thing that takes her attention.

Of course, she has plans for the future, but she does not postpone life until tomorrow. She does not expect her real life to begin, when she finally loses weight, when the prince gallops, when the right circumstances are, etc. - she lives now.

It is a great privilege to be a real woman, and she understands it.

She is in awe of the fact that she was born a woman, and sees a special value in this. She not only knows herself as a woman at the level of a concept, she feels that way. For her, being a real woman is not a test, not hard work and not a cross that must be carried all her life. This is a gift and a blessing of fate. A real woman cultivates femininity in herself at all levels: internal (sensations, feelings, thoughts) and external (body, clothes, behavior).

She lives at her own pace.

When you live too slowly, you don't feel like this is life. When you live too fast, you don't have time to feel life. Each of us has our own pace of existence. A real woman knows and feels him well and lives in accordance with him. She herself regulates her loads and thereby sets the pace for the circumstances around her.

A real woman lives in such a way as to do what she wants and at the same time not lose her taste for life. In her actions, the most important thing is not the number of body movements performed per unit of time, but the accuracy of the calculation and awareness of what she is doing and why.

She is in the first place.

And this does not mean that she is selfish, callous, indifferent or cynical. She just knows that behind her excessive desire to engage in other people, there is a fear of living her own life. A real woman is interested in her life. She never loses a sense of the value of her personal space. But at the same time, she is capable of supporting, helping and participating in the lives of other people.

She doesn't say yes if her heart says no. And he always listens to himself and trusts his feelings.

She does not need a "public opinion record book."

This booklet - for parents, teachers, neighbors, relatives, friends and colleagues - is received by every girl as a child. And the girls devote their whole lives to passing "exams" for her. The real woman threw out the “record book”. Let others put a tick in the boxes: married - not married, normal - not normal, one - not one, like everyone else - not like everyone else ...

A real woman lives by her guidelines, she comes up with them and embodies them herself. And, if they are not like the standards of others, it does not really bother her. She allows other people to evaluate themselves the way they want. Knows that the mission "to please everyone" is stupid and impossible.

A real woman works on herself, but never does it in order to earn someone's approval. She does it out of love for herself.

She has outgrown her "good girl".

"Good Girl" is a pupil of her parents. She has one task - to please others, to arouse approval. Like it even when your own desires are protesting. The "good girl" lives by the "I should" or "I shouldn't" principle. She rarely asks herself what she really wants. A real woman left her "good girl", and at the same time abandoned the constant desire for approval and praise. This does not mean that she does not care how she is judged. She just does not prove anything to anyone, especially to the detriment of herself.

To her features, which are usually called flaws (and who does not have them?), A real woman is condescending. She sees them, but does not dramatize. He does not hide them, but does not flaunt them either.

She does not act out the drama "How Hard is My Life!"

Looking at her, you cannot say that she survives: day and night she earns money, washes, washes, tidies, takes care of her husband and children. You would never think that she was worn out doing repairs or building a summer cottage. Even when she's really busy, a real woman takes time to recover and look good.

She will not pretend to be a victim, because she knows that circumstances are difficult not in themselves, but because of her attitude towards them.

Loneliness is a gift for her.

A real woman appreciates and loves her periods of loneliness, if any. She does not seek to involve casual acquaintances or men into her life, just not to be left alone with herself. Being alone with yourself is a blessing. The best time to recover, fill your life with calmness and depth. A real woman is interesting to herself and uses loneliness with pleasure.

She loves her age. Is always!

A real woman lives in her real, real age, taking advantage of all its advantages. She does not tell herself stories that at this age something is "too late" or "too early." This philosophy is an excuse for those who use years to cover up their fears or inner inhibitions.

A real woman can do anything at any age. That is why she does not and will not regret that she did not have time for something. This does not mean that she does not look after herself and does not strive to look good. It's just that she is not young and does not pretend to be the one she was 20 years ago. A real woman knows: every age has its own beauty, sexuality and charm.

ABOUT THIS NOTEBOOK

This notebook is your companion.

Each Commandment in it is a small training with great consequences. Read each Commandment slowly, do not skip it, even if it seems that you have understood everything. Feel it as best you can.

A commandment is not advice. This is not a recipe to be followed. A commandment is a reflection of the law that exists in life, regardless of whether you are familiar with it or not. You can live in resonance with him, then he works. Or you can live in dissonance, then it works for someone else.

These Commandments are not as simple as they might seem at first glance. Each Commandment, if you look closely and feel it, can completely change your life and self-image. Each Commandment is a magical point of your power.

ABOUT WOMEN

“Women are the same men, only better,” the comedian Andrei Knyshev once said. And in essence, he turned out to be right ...

Why did it happen?

Remember your childhood or youth. Have you heard the phrases:

You can't study for C's, you're a girl ...

You have to behave yourself, you are a girl ...

You must be responsible, you are a girl ...

It's not forgivable for you, you're a girl ...

He is a boy, what to take from him ... He is forgiven ...

So we have learned to be different from men in that we are BETTER. Of course, we do a lot better than boys. But our gender is female. And all the same I want happiness FEMALE.

ABOUT WOMEN'S UNIQUENESS

The modern world cultivates stereotypical roles in women: businesswoman, bitch, blonde. Each role is a uniform that has nothing to do with our personality. We are told how we can control men, even without their knowledge and consent. We are told how we must look to be considered beautiful.

Meanwhile, your Real Woman, unique and unlike any template, longs for her birth in all her naturalness and beauty.

Imagine that the Goddess lives inside you. This is your 100% potential, your full realization in all spheres of life. This Woman has the maximum degree of freedom in expressing herself as she is. It should not follow the stereotypical framework of modern philosophy.

10 COMMANDMENTS OF HAPPINESS FOR A REAL WOMAN

A real Woman does not pursue happiness. She's not chasing anything at all. Running for happiness is the most popular and dumbest sport. We are all running somewhere. Towards a brighter future, tomorrow, next year, etc. A Real Woman is not involved in this sport. She's not running anywhere. She floats through life, always being in the present. Today is the most interesting and important thing that takes her attention. One day of her is one little life. A real Woman has plans for the future, but she always lives in the present, without postponing her life for tomorrow. She does not expect her real life to begin when ... (when she finally loses weight, when the Prince gallops, when ideal circumstances happen, etc.).

Being a Real Woman is a great privilege that only you yourself can allow yourself. A real Woman is in awe of the fact that she was born as a Woman, and sees a special value in this. She not only knows herself as a Woman at the level of a concept, she feels herself as such. For her, being a Real Woman is not a test, not hard work and not a cross that must be carried all her life. This is a gift and a blessing of fate. A real Woman cultivates femininity in herself at all levels: internal (sensations, feelings, thoughts) and external (body, clothes, behavior).

A real Woman lives at her own pace. When you live too slowly, there is no feeling that this is life. When you live too fast, in a hurry you don't have time to feel life. Each of us has our own natural pace of life. A real Woman knows and feels well her inner pace and lives in accordance with it. The pace of a big city is unnatural to the pace of life for most people - it is too fast. The Real Woman avoids extremes. She does not lie on the sofa, but she also does not flicker like a chicken. She herself regulates her loads and thereby sets the pace for the circumstances around her. She lives so as to do what she wants, and at the same time not lose the taste of life. In her actions, the most important thing is the clarity of awareness and the accuracy of the calculation of what she is doing and why, and not at all the number of body movements performed per unit of time.

The real Woman is in the first place.

She knows very well that putting herself first does not mean being selfish, callous, indifferent or cynical. She just knows that an excessive desire to engage in other people hides the fear of living her life. A real Woman is interested in HER life. She never loses a sense of the value of her life and her personal space. At the same time, she is capable of supporting, helping and participating in the lives of other people. She does this not because she is afraid of disappointing someone, but because this is her sincere desire. She doesn't say yes if her heart says no. She always listens to herself and trusts her feelings.

A real woman does not care about a "record book for public opinion." Every girl received this record as a child. This student book is for parents, teachers, neighbors, relatives, friends, and colleagues. Many girls devote their whole lives to passing exams for this record book. The Real Woman threw out the record book. Let others mark the boxes: married - not married, normal - not normal, one - not alone, like everyone else - not like everyone else ... A real woman lives by her landmarks, she defines them and embodies them herself. And if they are not like the standards of others, it does not bother her too much. She allows other people to evaluate themselves the way they want it. She knows that the mission to please everyone is stupid and impossible. She works on herself, but never does it in order to please or deserve someone's approval. She does it out of love for herself.

The Real Woman has outgrown her "good girl". The "good girl" is a pupil of her parents. The "good girl" has one task - to please others, to inspire approval. Like it even when your own desires are protesting. A “good girl” lives by the principle “I should” or “I shouldn't” ... She rarely asks herself what she wants. The Real Woman left her "good girl", and at the same time abandoned the constant desire for approval and praise. This does not mean that she does not care how she is judged. She just does not prove anything to anyone, especially to the detriment of herself. She treats her features, which are usually called shortcomings (and who does not?), Condescendingly. She sees them, but does not dramatize. She does not hide them, but she does not flaunt them either.

A real Woman does not struggle with obstacles, but bypasses them. Fighting is the lot of warriors. A real Woman will never play a superhero. Meeting an obstacle on the way to her goal, she will not punch him with her forehead. After all, joining the fight, it will only aggravate the state of affairs. She will see if it can be bypassed or used as a springboard. She knows that every obstacle has a weak point or a workaround. Therefore, she relies not on strength, but on flexibility. The obstacle for her is not an enemy, but a puzzle that must be guessed. She knows that every situation has not only a difficult, but also an easy solution. She knows the art of choosing the right place and the right time for her actions.

The Real Woman does not act out the drama “How hard is my life!”. Looking at her, you cannot say that she survives: she plows like a draft horse, earning money hard, exhausted by the household, her husband, and children. You cannot say that she was tired (exhausted), making repairs or building a summer cottage. Even when her workload is very high, she takes time to recover and look good. She doesn't play the victim. She knows that circumstances are difficult not in themselves, but because of her attitude towards them.

Loneliness for a Real Woman is a gift. A Real Woman appreciates and loves her periods of loneliness, if any. She does not seek to involve casual acquaintances or men into her life, just not to be alone with herself. Being alone with yourself is a blessing. Loneliness has nothing to do with inferiority for her and does not characterize her in any way. Loneliness is the best time to recover, fill your life with calmness and depth. She is so interesting to herself that she uses her loneliness with pleasure.

A real Woman always loves her age. She lives in her present, real age, accepting it and taking advantage of all its advantages. She does not tell herself stories that at this age it is “too late” or “too early”. The Real Woman knows that this philosophy is an excuse for those who use age as a cover for their fears or inhibitions. A real woman can do anything at any age. She uses her every age one hundred percent, and therefore she has no regrets that she did not have time for something. This does not mean that she does not look after herself and does not strive to look good. It's just that she is not young, does not pose as the one she was twenty years ago. There is beauty, sexuality, and charm at every age.

10 COMMANDMENTS FOR RELATIONSHIP WITH MEN

A real Woman attracts men with her inner state - first of all. Appearance, intelligence, age, social status, character traits - all this, in fact, is deeply secondary. What is this state that attracts men (and indeed all the people around you)? This is your enjoyment of yourself and your life. If you have learned to enjoy yourself and your life, whether you work or relax, drink coffee or drive a car, you will attract the attention and interest of those who are near you. Enjoying yourself is not an easy art, but once you master it, you become a powerful magnet.

Love for a man starts with love for yourself. Usually we think the other way around: "When someone loves me, then I love myself." But until the Woman has an affair with herself, every man will be for her just a psychotherapist, trying to cure her from rejection of herself and the fear of being left alone. True, deep love arises from a state of being filled with oneself. Then love for a man will be born in its highest manifestation - as a gift of oneself to him, and not as a desperate attempt to be needed by someone in order to feel their own usefulness.

A man does not love the Woman herself, but his condition next to her. Therefore, a Real Woman is not at all the most beautiful, not at all the smartest, and certainly not the most successful socially. A real Woman gives a man not a mind, not beauty, not a body, not successes, but a STATE. A woman who creates a special state in men - masculine - will always have success and admirers. She creates this state by enjoying herself in the company of a man and admiring a man. And a man will reach for this special state like a magnet. A real Woman cultivates femininity in herself in order to bestow it on men (beloved, admirers, friends, acquaintances, just passers-by).

The desire to love is born within. It, as a rule, has nothing to do with whether there are worthy objects in the environment of a Real Woman. When a woman thinks that there is “no one to choose from” and that there are no men around her who are worthy of her love, this may indicate that she is not yet ready to love. She wants something different (get married, be “like everyone else”, not be alone, arrange her life). She may be afraid to love (her heart is closed by past wounds). And those "unworthy" men who are around only reflect her inner state. As soon as a woman matures to true deep love, the question “worthy - not worthy” ceases to be of paramount importance. The object (and often very "worthy") materializes as if by itself.

The woman's generosity for love attracts love to her. If a woman wants to be loved, she must be able to saturate with love everything with which she comes in contact. To give it, to manifest it, to think and talk about it, to enjoy it. What we give to the Universe is returned to us from the Universe. So love comes to a Woman as a response to her ability to give this feeling. If a Woman has created a field of love around herself, she will never be deprived of the love of other people, including men. A woman eternally waiting for love is like a funnel without a bottom, which cannot be filled. Love should be inhalation and exhalation, not just inhalation. If you breathe out love, it will find you naturally.

Men are Gods. Any man is God. Exactly. If he does not impress you as God, then you are "looking through the eyes" of the critical mind. God can only be manifested in him by one percent. In his life, he has not yet met such a Woman who would breathe faith in himself into him.

A real Woman sees Gods in men. Of course, Gods also have flaws, but don't Goddesses have them? A real Woman does not compete with men and does not prove her perfection to them. She does not remake them and does not educate them (is it possible to remake God?). She sees all the best that is in each of them. A real Woman loves, appreciates and respects men IN GENERAL, as a class. This position creates space in her life for interesting and worthy men.

In order to charm men, the Woman herself must be charmed. If a Woman wants to inspire men, she herself must be in a state of inspiration. If a woman wants to ignite them, she herself must be a small flame. “Fascination” of a Woman is her falling in love with Life, with her little secrets, romance and mystery. It doesn't matter what the Woman is fascinated with - her dreams, a new dress, a hairdo, a book, a movie or her memory. "Fascination" creates an inner light that is impossible not to feel.

Next to the Real Woman there is always a place for feat. She creates it. A woman arouses in a man a desire to prove herself strong, not imposing on him the obligation “you must”, but gently inviting him to the fairy tale “Hero and Princess”. She creates the illusion of touching vulnerability and vulnerability, awakening in a man the desire to commit acts, the result of which will be her rapt eyes and admiration for him. A real Woman prepares a man to commit acts gradually and imperceptibly, without doing anything for this, just being in the form of a gentle, fragile young lady.

The Real Woman does not participate in feminist sorority clubs. There are many such clubs, for example: "Guys are goats", "Real men are extinct", "All worthy people are busy", "We are not bad without them" or "Women's share is hard", "Nobody loves me", "Waiting for the Prince" ... A real Woman will not make generalizations like "All of them ...". She knows that all men are different. Each woman creates her Universe, and she is surrounded by those men whom she attracts into her life; because we are always surrounded by our reflections. She will not fan the fire of inter-sex enmity and revel in the imperfection of the universe. When talking with her friends about her man, she will not focus on his shortcomings, criticize and devalue him, making him unworthy.

A real Woman knows how to say even impartial things correctly and kindly. She tells them to men in such a way that it does not humiliate them, but pushes them to change for the better. It is a great feminine art to be benevolent even when it is necessary to talk about shortcomings and mistakes.

What matters is not what the Woman says, but how she says it. She speaks with the dignity and dignity of whoever she says it to. She knows that even criticism can be presented in such a way that it will inspire a heroic deed. However, she always leaves the man with a choice: to change or not.

10 MAKEUP COMMANDMENTS FOR A REAL WOMAN

A Real Woman does not skimp on her face. This applies to both care products and make-up products. And it's not so much about money as about the thoroughness of the approach. Therefore, when choosing self-care products, a Real Woman is guided by the principle: I must have everything that I need for every day and for an emergency. If she has a choice between cheapness and proven quality, she will always choose proven quality. She loves her face and takes care of it with pleasure.

A Real Woman always has time for her face, whether it be a visit to a beautician or a morning / evening mask. No matter how tired she is in the evening, she will always find a few minutes to cleanse her face of cosmetics, apply toner and cream. A real Woman appreciates and respects herself and will never justify her appearance by the lack of time. She organizes her life so that as a result she is always happy with her appearance.

Daily makeup is the norm in modern life. A real Woman knows that daily makeup today is not a whim for those who have a lot of time, but a rule of good manners, an element that emphasizes her social status, an indicator of her respect for the people around her. Make-up is an indispensable component of the image of a business woman, and not only a business woman. (Just like manicure, epilation, clean well-groomed hair, deodorant ...)

Makeup for a Real Woman is both pleasure and therapy. A real Woman takes pleasure in applying makeup, even everyday.

For her, this is a small intimate mystery, a magical ritual. She knows very well that the time allotted to make-up in the morning is an investment in her mood, business activity. Therefore, every time before leaving the house, she does herself a make-up, at least minimal. She does it emotionally and organizes her life so that she always has 15–20 minutes for it. By doing morning make-up, a Woman not only brings beauty, but also increases her immunity to possible stress. This is the time of self-love, when unpleasant thoughts and morning nervousness go away. Makeup is a meditation that requires solitude, silence and light.

There is always a drop of good foundation on the face of a Real Woman during the day. She knows that in the conditions of modern ecology, the delicate and vulnerable skin of the face, exposed to the sun, dust, winds, exhaust gases, needs delicate protection that will protect it from direct contact with an aggressive environment and at the same time allow it to breathe without clogging pores. A well-chosen foundation fulfills this task. The Real Woman has left in the past the common myth that the daily application of powder and foundation spoils the skin.

The Makeup of a Real Woman is the "clothing" for the face. It creates a sense of security, emphasizes the merits, masks the flaws, creates a mood and complements her image as a whole. She knows that makeup should not look separate from other details of her image, and most importantly - from herself, from her mood and facial expressions. Perfect makeup is makeup dissolved in her image. She knows that it is much better to receive a compliment on her overall appearance (“How amazing you look!”) Than a compliment on her makeup (“What a beautiful lipstick!”). A compliment addressed to the image as a whole suggests that her makeup is also flawless.

The Real Woman is an experimenter by nature. It always gives her pleasure to try something new, to spy on interesting fashion trends. She is not afraid to experiment, a girl is always alive in her, who turns with interest and curiosity in front of the mirror and looks into her mother's cosmetic bag. At the same time, the Real Woman never looks like a painted clown, and those around her may not be aware of her experiments. They can tell her: "You are always so different", not understanding what is the matter.

A Real Woman knows the difference between daytime and evening makeup. She never confuses one with the other. The best daytime makeup is natural and "kind of" inconspicuous, and she won't wear evening makeup in the morning. Her cosmetic bag always has everything you need to fix her makeup during the day and brighten herself up in the evening, if necessary. A Real Woman knows that the right makeup makes her well-groomed. She knows very well where the measure is, and where is the excessiveness, that good makeup is makeup that is appropriate to a particular situation. A real Woman develops an inner flair that will tell you where what kind of makeup is appropriate.

To tint your lips and powder your nose is to cheer you up. A real Woman knows one very simple, but true "feminine" way to get excited and put her feelings and thoughts in order. She lets go of universal problems for one minute, looks in the mirror, takes a deep breath, then exhales deeply, powders her nose, runs lipstick over her lips and ... in these seconds she is transformed. She freshened up and prettier. She knows: universal problems can wait until the nose is powdered and the lipstick falls on the lips.

Makeup is an addition to wardrobe and accessories. A Real Woman knows that her face should not be seen "apart" from her image. Therefore, before applying makeup, she is determined with the wardrobe: what she will be wearing, what jewelry she will be wearing. Her makeup is the final point in creating her complete image.

10 COMMANDMENTS OF A WARDROBE FOR A REAL WOMAN

Clothes are a continuation of the Woman. A Real Woman knows that clothes actively influence mood and emotional state, and takes advantage of this. Therefore, her wardrobe is diverse. He has clothes in different colors and styles, and she skillfully combines them. Choosing clothes in the morning, she does not passively follow the mood that she has, but actively forms her mood and relationships with the world around her.

A real Woman knows: things speak for us. Our wardrobe eloquently betrays our attitude towards ourselves, towards life and towards the people around us. With her wardrobe, a Real Woman shows: I love myself, I value myself, I am feminine, I enjoy myself and my life. Therefore, her wardrobe is bright, elegant, feminine, romantic, intriguing, varied. Like herself.

A Real Woman feels good about measure and style. She does not strive to shock others with her wardrobe: to be extremely bright, overly original or outrageous. She knows that any excess is funny and tasteless. She doesn't prove anything to anyone with her wardrobe. She knows her own worth too well, and also that she will never go unnoticed.

A woman through the eyes of a woman and a woman through the eyes of a man are not the same thing. A woman is able to perceive details and particulars, while a man sees the whole image as a whole. Knowing this, a Real Woman is able to see herself, as it were, through the eyes of a man, that is, to take in her whole image with a glance and to catch the impression that she makes as a whole. Paying attention to details, the Real Woman does not dwell on them. The main thing for her is to create a holistic, harmonious impression.

The Real Woman is a Special Occasion Woman. She dresses as if today is not just an everyday, ordinary day, but something special. After all, she lives today, not yesterday and not tomorrow. Her wardrobe, which combines convenience and aesthetics, is a small piece of art. The clothes that are usually bought and kept in the closet for a special occasion become her everyday clothes. This does not mean that she wears evening dresses every day. It's just that her image leaves the feeling of something special, bright, not routine.

A skirt is an eternal value. A Real Woman knows that, despite the fact that the whole world is obsessed with jeans, a skirt or dress will never lose its relevance for her wardrobe. She loves feminine things and wears them with pleasure. She knows that by putting on a skirt, she changes her inner state. She knows that a Woman in a skirt (dress) looks Special and leaves a Special impression on the background of women in trousers. She appreciates the effect of tenderness, fragility and mystery that feminine clothes create.

A heel is an eternal value. A real Woman knows that a heel, even a small one, is preferable to "slippers". She knows that a heel is not only an element of style, but also a special state of "raised". Therefore, in the wardrobe of a Real Woman there are always favorite heels. She knows how to choose shoes that are graceful and at the same time comfortable. She knows beautiful shoes don't have to be high heels. After all, even a small heel is able to change her entire appearance. Likewise, stockings are preferable to tights, and fine, sophisticated lingerie is preferable to ordinary lingerie.

Jewelry and accessories are one of her favorite games. It is in the nature of a woman to decorate herself. Therefore, she never neglects jewelry, while maintaining a sense of proportion and style. Choosing and trying on jewelry is a pleasure for her. Wearing jewelry is a game. A real Woman knows and feels her jewelry, she understands their language and uses it as an indispensable attribute of her image. She knows that the value of jewelry is that it is the final point in creating a complete image.

A real Woman knows how not only to choose things, but also to wear them. She knows that clothes are made for her, not she - for clothes and that even the most luxurious thing will look ridiculous if applied ineptly. The main credo of a Real Woman is naturalness and relaxation. Even in the most chic and obliging clothes, she feels free. And the simplest and most democratic thing will look exquisite on it.

The dressing room is her little theater and she is the main actress in it. Finding your own style and following it does not mean not changing. A real Woman loves change. She knows: being different is important. It means to surprise, to attract attention, to bewitch, to delight, to inspire, to be an example to follow. She appreciates the unpredictability she creates with her appearance.

10 COMMANDMENTS OF HEALTHY FOOD FOR A REAL WOMAN

A real Woman eats consciously. This means that at every moment she clearly sees what she is eating, how much and why. She knows that her mood, appearance and well-being depend on her nutrition. The Real Woman looks and feels good. This means that she is the owner of her food and controls it. She does not make a cult out of food, but she does not neglect it either. This is an important part of her life. She knows: at first it requires some effort on herself, then it becomes a habit, and then it becomes a necessity. The body easily gets used to everything useful and healthy.

The simpler the dish, the healthier it is. A real Woman is guided by the principle of simplicity and usefulness. She knows that the ideal food is one that consists of one product. Therefore, she avoids complex, multicomponent dishes that have gone through many stages of processing (complex salads, puff dishes, proteins and carbohydrates in one plate, etc.). She knows that by eating it all at the same time, she gets an explosive mixture, leading to the accumulation of body fat. The most healthy dishes are prepared very simply and do not take a lot of time. Therefore, the law of simplicity and benefit is only in the hands of a Real Woman.

The only good reason to eat is a healthy appetite. No stress, no free time, no boredom, no persuasion in the company, no way to distract yourself are not a reason to gorge themselves. A real Woman is able to distinguish emotional hunger from physiological, real appetite from surrogate. She does not use food as psychotherapy, trouble seizing, or red herring. She knows that there are many other decent ways to cope with stress and anxiety without sacrificing herself. Not feeling the desire to eat, she is able to sit in a restaurant with her friend only for a glass of juice, even if the friend orders the first, second and third.

A real Woman eats often and little by little. It does not irritate or stretch the stomach with large portions of food. She knows that the stomach can easily get used to the feeling of "full" and excessive satiety.

With rare meals, the body turns on the ancient instinctive survival mechanism: "If you have to starve, you need to slow down the metabolism and start saving energy in fat reserves" - fat cells store the accumulated and do not use it as a source of energy, forming a kind of NZ. That is why most people with this style of eating have excess body fat.

A real Woman appreciates the golden mean of a balanced diet. She avoids diets that exclude or drastically reduce the proportion of carbohydrates, or fats, or proteins, no matter how effective these diets may seem to her friends or acquaintances. She knows that the body needs all three components: proteins, fats and carbohydrates. And a sharp limitation of any of them is unacceptable. Anyone who ignores this principle worsens his health and well-being. Failure to comply with the principle disrupts metabolic processes and leads to the effect of a swing, when a temporary improvement is followed by a deterioration in health and appearance. Therefore, the Real Woman eats whatever she likes and wants. Eats everything, only a little more, and a little less. She knows that for health and slimness it is necessary to reduce the proportion of animal fats, simple carbohydrates (sweet) and increase the proportion of proteins in the diet.

When a Real Woman eats, she eats - and nothing more. Before she starts eating and smelling the food, she looks at it, absorbing its smell and energy. She does not "cheat" on food with books, TV, computer and all sorts of vain thoughts. When a Real Woman eats, she is left alone with food, and everything else is postponed at this time. Eating is a ritual in which there is intimacy and total immersion in the process. There are only two good seasonings for food: a pleasant companion at the table and calm music.

Food does not tolerate rush and fuss. A real Woman respects and values ​​herself, so she will not eat like a hungry boa constrictor, swallowing food in large chunks. Even if she has little time, she finds the opportunity to eat at a pace that is comfortable for her. She eats slowly, thoughtfully. She knows that when she eats slowly, calmly, and chews well, she needs less food to be satiated. Eaten food is better absorbed, less converted into fat and saves hunger more reliably.

The Real Woman gets up from the table with a feeling of lightness. She doesn't have to finish what is on her plate, even if it's food in an expensive restaurant. Her stomach is more expensive than all the restaurants put together. She knows: the feeling of satiety does not come immediately, but 10-15 minutes after the stomach felt a slight satiety. It is better to stop when you are almost full than to eat automatically, to the end, and then experience the heaviness and bursting in the stomach, reproaches of conscience and sort things out with the mirror.

A real Woman drinks clean water a lot and often. Drinking regimen is an important part of a healthy diet. When a woman drinks rarely and in large quantities, is fond of tea and coffee, drinks a lot during meals, it seems to her that there is enough fluid, but in reality the body does not receive moisture and dehydrates, the skin and tissues lose elasticity, the kidneys work in overload mode, especially since tea and coffee are diuretics (diuretics). Tea, coffee and soda are not water. A real Woman knows that it is very important to ensure an even flow of water throughout the day, not to get carried away with drinking while eating, and rarely drink tea and coffee, but with pleasure. She remembers that it is advisable to drink at least 1.5-3 liters of liquid a day, and she follows this.

A real Woman does not eat enough before bed. She knows that a good sleep, a fresh appearance in the morning and a vigorous state of health depend on what and when was eaten yesterday. Therefore, the last meal should be no later than two hours before bedtime, so as not to give the body contradictory tasks: either to relax and get ready for sleep, or to digest what you have eaten. There is no point in depriving yourself of dinner, but too late to eat too much is also harmful. The best dinner is early and light. But if a woman goes to bed late, then dinner can be at any time, but most importantly - two hours before bedtime.

10 COMMANDMENTS OF GOOD MOOD FOR A REAL WOMAN

A positive attitude and love for Life is a natural state of mind for a Real Woman. The main secret of this state is the ability to appreciate what her life is rich in now, to see something special in the ordinary and to be grateful to the circumstances that exist, without poisoning oneself with comparisons and invented ideals. She knows how to live with the feeling of accepting what she now has as the best at the moment, because it is hers. This applies to both the joyful and difficult moments of her life. She loves her life not selectively, but entirely.

Taking care of your recovery. The state of fullness is the basis of spiritual harmony, luck, good health and external attractiveness. A real Woman will never allow herself to go into business and worries so much as to lose her taste for Life. She respects her needs and takes time to recuperate and energize herself, even if she is very busy. She knows: if you do what you need all the time and don't do what you want, the strength will go away very quickly and life will not be a joy. When she feels a lack of strength, she will always find time and a way to recover. She respects her "earthly" needs: sleep, take care of herself, be alone, relax. She knows that when she is full, the people around and close to her feel good.

Naturalness and lack of fanaticism are the credo of the Real Woman. She doesn't do anything special to always be in a positive mood: cheerful, energetic and cheerful. She does not force herself and does not portray what she does not feel. She knows: a Real Woman can be different. If she is sad, she is sad. If she is having fun, she is happy. If she is calm, she is quiet and peaceful. If she is annoyed, she is angry. A Real Woman allows herself the luxury of having flaws. She knows them, but she does not dramatize or hide them. She works on them, but she never fights them blindly.

A real Woman knows how to react to events in a paradoxical and creative way. She knows that what seems important today will seem small and insignificant tomorrow. What looks terrible today will become funny later. Therefore, a Real Woman knows how to joke and find unexpected advantages in what at first glance seems dramatic or hopeless. She can afford to react and act differently from everyone in such situations. She never loses the feeling of playing with Life. Being overly serious, preoccupied or obsessed with business is not her favorite genre.

You can always be right, or you can be happy. In our world, there are many women who are impeccably right, but at the same time blatantly unhappy. Any tough righteousness creates a clash in which everyone will strive to win. Therefore, a Real Woman does not prove anything to anyone, especially to men. If she cannot be right, she chooses to be flexible. She has her own opinion (and who does not?), But she does not dramatize its importance, does not impose it, does not fight for it. This does not mean that it adjusts to each and every one. With her ideas and deeds, she can change this world. But she will not correct the "dissenters." This saves her time and mental strength.

The cycle of love. A real Woman lives in a cycle of good feelings: she knows how to surround herself with love, trust, admiration and joy. Every day she says words of love and support to at least one of her loved ones or just acquaintances. Sometimes she smiles at strangers. She does this not counting on gratitude, but because the expression of kind feelings is her natural need. In communicating with people, she focuses on the best that is in everyone. Accepting her own shortcomings, she also treats strangers.

The Real Woman is a self-adjusting "tool". She begins her day by greeting herself: she wishes herself a good morning, a good day. She smiles at her reflection in the mirror and says a few nice words to herself. She deliberately sets herself up for a wave of luck and good luck in personal and professional matters. Turning to herself, she talks with her beloved and only person. As she prepares for bed, she ends her day with gratitude to herself. She concentrates on what she has done and what she has done. And even if not everything went smoothly, she knows: things and events are the way we decide to see them.

A real Woman knows how to make gifts to herself. She regularly buys gifts for herself - things that are not so much useful or practical, but rather enjoyable. Such a thing can be bought as psychotherapy or simply because I really liked it. It can be a flower, jewelry, cosmetics, artwork, clothing - anything that brings joy. Buying a gift for herself, a Real Woman will not lament about its price or torment herself with thoughts about how worthy she is. Through these gifts, she expresses love for herself and cultivates a sense of celebration alone with herself.

A box of memories of the past and the future. The Real Woman has a virtual box where favorite memories are stored, as well as images of future events associated with moments of tenderness, love, joy, exultation, admiration, inspiration. Each such memory is a real pearl on the necklace of her Life. They are energized. The woman opens this box and goes through the memories and future joys in her imagination. Filling the inner space of her soul, these image-pictures fill her with strength, tranquility and inspiration. These are the most precious jewels of her Life. She carefully keeps them and from time to time returns to them.

A real Woman knows how to free herself from unpleasant experiences. She does not accumulate in herself and does not carry with her unnecessary stress, anger and resentment. A Real Woman sometimes arranges for herself a preventive discharge. She does this alone or in the company of close friends. She releases pent-up feelings with words or actions: the household will not be hurt by a broken cup, bruised pillow, or ripped magazines. But the accumulated irritation will go away and will not pour out on those who happen to be nearby. A real Woman is not one who does not feel negative feelings at all, but one who can free herself from them, not carry them with her and not throw them out "at the wrong address."

10 COMMANDMENTS OF SEXUAL CHARM OF A REAL WOMAN

Sexuality is the greatest gift. A real Woman knows that sexual energy is the most powerful primal force that lives in her. She maintains the existence of this force in herself. She left in the past the stereotypes that sexuality was considered dirty and suppressed by feelings of guilt. A real Woman lives by her own rules, which are natural for her.

The sexual charm of a Real Woman arises in a deep acceptance of her body. She

loves and enjoys his body. She feels good in her body, as in her favorite comfortable clothes. She knows that her figure does not have to fit the generally accepted standard of beauty in order to be considered beautiful and sexy. It is enough for her that this is her, unique body. She feels relaxed and natural in him. Taking care of him and caring for, the Real Woman enjoys her body, she is pleased to move, feel, feel it. She loves all the physical manifestations of her femininity. A real Woman knows: her attractiveness to a man is measured by the ability to enjoy herself and to enjoy herself. She knows that she can give a man a taste of pleasure only when she accepts and loves herself.

A real Woman is in a sensual relationship with the world around her. Her sexuality is only one aspect of this sensuality. She knows how to enjoy smells, sounds, the beauty of nature, the taste of food. She knows how to feel the subtle edges of beauty. She loves Life on a sensual level, and this gives her a feline charm. The main sensual relationship for a Real Woman is with herself. She is filled with herself and is in a state of slight excitement from herself.

Sexual self-awareness is the inner state of a Real Woman. The erotic charm of a Real Woman is so strong because its source is not sexual behavior, but sexual self-awareness, a sexual state. At the same time, she behaves simply and naturally, not portraying anything, not trying to be necessarily noticed. She attracts attention with her inner state, thanks to which she shines from the inside.

The female energy center is located in the womb. When a woman only does what she thinks, her center of gravity is in the head - this does not make her sexy, it makes her tense. A real Woman knows how not only to think, but also to switch from thinking to feeling. To do this, she lowers her attention to the lower abdomen, to the area of ​​the uterus, and fills this area with her attention, tenderness and warmth. She feels her womb as a beloved jewel.

A real Woman is always in good shape. Regardless of the presence of a male partner, a Real Woman sees herself as sexy and looks after herself. She does not necessarily strive to be in a relationship with a man, if only he was. The quality of the relationship is important to her, and not the very fact of their existence. If there is a pause in a Real Woman's personal relationship, she skillfully keeps several fans or potential boyfriends at a distance. She knows that it is useful for maintaining her inner tone, interest in Life, in herself, in men and in intimate relationships.

Sexual fantasies are the realm of inner creativity. They charge the Woman with erotic attraction. A Real Woman loves her sexual fantasies, cultivates and develops them, as if writing her inner stories or filming her secret movie. In these imaginary plots, the Real Woman is completely free. They do not have to be embodied or told about them. They have a value in their own right. Enveloping a Woman with an aura of eroticism and mystery, her sexual fantasies create the feeling that she has a delightful secret available only to her; alluring and captivating everyone who is next to her.

The people around her are sexy and beautiful. A Real Woman notes sexually attractive features in the people around her. She likes to notice the beautiful, aesthetic in them. This is her point of view. She sees in women - Women, and in men - Men. She likes to tell people sincere compliments, to admire them. A real Woman knows how to create around herself a festive atmosphere with erotic overtones. A Real Woman reacts kindly and with dignity to the admiration of others, accepting compliments as something natural.

Sex is a welcome sacrament. For a Real Woman, sex is an important part of life. Sexual contact can be quick or prolonged, passionate or calm, unexpected or planned, rare or frequent, but always desirable. The only reason a Real Woman has sex is because of her desire. She will not do it for other reasons, even if many do. She will not go against her will, out of a sense of duty, guilt or concession, this is not a job or a duty. She will not do it formally or suppress her reluctance. She loves and respects her sexuality.

Sex is a moment of Love and Freedom. She sees sex as a pure and healthy manifestation of Life. Sex is the bloom of a Woman. She allows herself to bloom without feeling guilty, shame, or awkward. For a Real Woman, sex is a means of expressing her love, passion and affection for a man. This is her gift to Him. Giving herself, she enjoys. It is a holiday of energies, it is a holiday of the senses and the body, when thoughts are absent and Feminine nature rejoices.

10 COMMANDMENTS OF FRIENDSHIP WITH MONEY FOR A REAL WOMAN

A real Woman knows what money is.

They won't make it better or worse. They will not bring happiness. They will not attract love. Money will only allow her to manifest her nature for what it is. Money is clean, neutral and innocent. A real woman knows how to be herself no matter how much money she has now.

Money loves a Real Woman. A Real Woman is generous. In her relationships with others, she proceeds from the fact that the universe is abundant. A woman shows generosity at all levels of her being: she is generous with love, feelings, care, kindness, gifts. This is how she launches a stream of abundance in her life: she shares with the world, the world shares with her. She feels made for abundance and prosperity, including material prosperity. Even if the Cinderella complex (a small, poor loser) has not yet left her, she develops her ability to open up to money and feel worthy of a high standard of living.

The Real Woman has three Sacred Spending Items, where she invests money with love and joy. First of all, it is Health (sports activities, wellness procedures, healthy nutrition - this makes it blooming, radiant, energetic and strong). Appearance (facial, body care, choice of wardrobe - this makes her beautiful and stylish). Intelligence (education, self-development, personal and spiritual growth, professionalism - this helps her to become an interesting, developed personality). She lovingly invests in it because this investment pays off many times over.

A real Woman forms an optimistic vision of her future. In her thoughts about the future, the Real Woman sees herself as successful and wealthy. She cultivates this image, despite the natural anxieties and doubts inherent in feminine nature. She imagines her future as abundant and prosperous in its various aspects, including material wealth. She presents herself as happy and contented. Life is an Ocean of Possibilities. She pays attention to miracles, big and small, that happen to her and around her. She notes all the good and supportive that happens in the space of her life. She collects with love and attention all manifestations of abundance and generosity.

A real Woman knows how to be grateful, and this is a tool for her financial prosperity. A real Woman lives with a feeling of gratitude to the level of benefits that she has at the moment. She knows it's very easy to start taking good things for granted. She thanks the Universe for small and big successes. She sees treasures in this, even if sometimes very modest. She finds the wisdom in herself to be flexible about the ebb and flow of cash flow in her life. She knows that everything in this world is subject to change, including the movement of money. She knows how to rejoice in both large and small benefits. She knows that the universe in which she lives is abundant and can always provide her with everything she needs.

A real Woman knows how to create a sense of luxury. She can do this with even minor means. She appreciates and notices the beauty of things and objects around her. No matter how much money and other benefits she has at the moment, she is happy about it. It is not focused on the value of items or individual brands. She loves to create a space of beauty, style and comfort around herself, whether it concerns the surrounding space or her clothes.

A Real Woman allows men (man) to be generous and spend money on it. She accepts help and gifts from a man with dignity and gratitude. She knows: for a man to feel at his best, he must prove himself strong and generous. It is in his nature. Therefore, she encourages such an attitude towards herself. She knows that she herself initiates in a man the desire to take care of her and to please her. However, she makes the man feel that he is valuable to her not only for financial concern.

It is important for a Real Woman to have her own income and be financially independent. She knows that her own income allows her to be in a sincere and pure relationship with a man, when she loves him not for his money, but loves HIM. If there is a man nearby who can provide her, she gladly allows him to do it. But she always strives to be financially independent.

A real Woman will never be a slave to money. She knows that material worries can take over time, thoughts, mental strength and completely swallow a person. This happens to both men and women. But for men, intense financial anxiety is excusable. For a Woman, this is destructive. A real Woman loves money and appreciates it. But money is not an end in itself for her, it is one of the ways to make life more convenient and pleasant. Money only expands the feeling of happiness and complements it. A real Woman knows that the joy and happiness from the life she lives do not depend on money. She thinks about money, earns it, but she is not obsessed with it. She knows: a woman who is overly concerned with money loses her romance, lightness and beauty.

In the life of a Real Woman there is a place for easy and not burdensome money. She knows that in order to have more money, it is not at all necessary to plow like a horse and endure discomfort. She knows that the more EASY there is in herself, the easier money comes to her. She knows that most people have different attitudes and for them, perhaps money means constant stress and a lot of work. She also allows herself to differ from the generally accepted standard. A real Woman cultivates in herself a state of lightness and trust in the Universe.

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"CONFLICT WITH THE AGGRESSOR"

1. To be yourself, you need to learn to listen to your heart - and follow it.
2. To be comfortable, you need to listen to the opinion of everyone around you and adapt to it in every possible way, even if you don't want to.
3. To be yourself, you need to learn to desire and accept what you want, give and receive.
4. To be comfortable, you need to learn to give everything and nothing and never ask.
5. To be yourself, you need to reveal the potential that is already inside you.
6. To be comfortable, it is enough to do what is accepted and correct. Even if it is the opposite of your own nature.
7. To be yourself, you need to be able to refuse. It is polite, neat, but saying “no” to everything that doesn’t make you happier. Deny people, activities, food.
8. To be yourself, you have to sometimes - and even often - go against the tide. Become a black sheep, seem outdated or strange to someone.
9. To be comfortable, you can always do what everyone else is doing.

But why do we end up becoming those stereotyped women that we often do? Why are we so eager to become real, but nothing comes out over and over again? Answer: there are reasons and we have given them to you below:

1. Education.
Parenting is a whole process that lasts from birth to older adolescence. Sometimes this process is delayed when parents do not want to let go of their child and recognize him as an adult.
But the bottom line is the same: most parents try to make any living child comfortable. To walk in formation, eat what they give, not stand out and not argue, obey unconditionally, not dishonor, sleep on schedule. In return, the child receives "love" - ​​affection, attention, encouragement, contact. And it absorbs that only those who are comfortable receive love. Therefore, love must be earned by one's comfortable behavior. Ultimately, we absorb the belief that love is something to be earned. That there is nothing to love us for nothing and no one will do it. Do you want love? Get an A, clean the floor, listen. Then we start to believe it. And we think that if we drag everything on ourselves in the family, they will definitely love us for it.
As a result, we come to great disappointment when we learn that in the parental family we were loved for some certain qualities and actions, and our partner was completely different and this is not a coincidence that leads to the collapse of our relationship.
Our consciousness turns out to be so not flexible to adapt to changed requirements that we begin to suffer and look for a way out, which lies precisely in childhood. The way out is to learn how to change your beliefs at the expense of love and receive it in new ways. This is a time-consuming work that must be done together with a psychologist or.

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2. Clothes are a reflection of the woman herself.

The first step in a little betrayal of ourselves is how we dress. We give up pretty dresses, which most of us like more than jeans. Because dresses force us to treat ourselves and our appearance differently, require thinking about hairstyles and shoes. Dresses, on the other hand, are addictive and require more money. Dresses need to be looked after more, you need to be more careful in them. Inconvenient, right? But dresses are how we can express ourselves differently and how we can relate to ourselves. Respectfully, carefully and attentively. What we wear reflects our condition and how we relate to our clothes also reflects our attitude towards ourselves and our body. The way we now relate to clothes is the result of how we have been taught to relate to ourselves.

It is very important to make the right choice. And if you have been going the wrong way for many years, find the courage to admit it - and turn in the other direction.

You don't have to be comfortable. You need to become yourself.

Are you still in doubt which road to take?

There is no such representative of the fair sex who would not dream of happiness. Unfortunately, for various reasons, not everyone succeeds in fulfilling their cherished dream, and very often beauties blame not only others for this, but also themselves. They are deeply convinced that their personal life does not add up, because only a real woman is able to meet, charm and keep the prince on a white horse. Whether it is true or not is unknown, but in order to dispel the slightest doubts once and for all, become it. Moreover, no special efforts are required for this. In this article we will tell you what a real woman should be and what qualities she should have.

What are the qualities of a true woman?

Noble soul

It is known that two things do a woman by a woman: clean hair and shoes. And no matter how surprising it is, neither the clothes nor their cost are able to turn a notorious girl with a bad temper into a princess. Only a real woman is capable of surprising and enchanting others every day if she is attentive to her soul, her aspirations and her own desires. She will not even have a question, and what is the best thing to wear today. She will rely solely on intuition. She does not need to be reminded of the obligatory presence of good shoes and cleanliness of the body. And she doesn't care what others say, the main thing is that the combination of things, accessories and their colors are in harmony and she likes.

The appearance always reflects the inner world of a person, his character and mood. You cannot put on a dress and turn into a true lady when, deep down in your soul, you perfectly understand that you feel more comfortable in trousers. Numerous tips to give preference to certain clothes will only help to create an external image, but without inner harmony you cannot turn into someone who you are not. And without a sense of comfort, you will not be able to look organic, on the contrary, you will subconsciously feel inner stiffness and dissatisfaction with yourself. This is clearly not characteristic of a real woman.

Therefore, do not rush to sort out your wardrobe and get rid of trousers or jeans. It is better to study it again and make sure that things are completely satisfactory to you. If not, then make a list of what you would like to purchase. There is no money immediately for a serious update, it's not scary, it is enough to purchase a few things you like and skillfully alternate them with what you have.

That which has lost its novelty and freshness today will be declared the height of taste tomorrow. So never give up on something that seems outdated, but continues to please or be in great shape. Who knows, maybe, having bought one and only thing, you will be surprised to notice how your attitude towards the rest has changed.

Self-love and respect

The secret of a real woman lies not in her appearance, changing a sundress for a business suit, she does not cease to be feminine. It lies in inner strength and beauty. Exceptionally confidence, love and respect for herself, allows her to be real, and not the way others want her to be.

Remember how many people, so many opinions, you will not be able to please everyone at once. You cannot live happily if all the time you try to conform to an unusual image for you. There is not enough life to satisfy the requests of relatives, psychologists or the media, who are trying to impose a certain style of behavior or appearance. But in order to defend your right to be yourself under such an onslaught, you cannot do without fortitude. Only he will help not to be led by fashion, not to follow the unreasonable advice of girlfriends or parents.

Independence and autonomy

The indispensable qualities of a real woman are independence and independence. She intuitively feels how she needs to behave in a given situation. A real woman can be completely different. Modesty in her coexists with relaxedness, beauty of movements with angularity, self-confidence with pride and joy from the fact that she feels confident and organic in the clothes, shoes or hairstyle that she has chosen herself.

Her love for herself is boundless, because she realizes that without her it will never be possible to reveal her own potential, to become the best, kind, fair and merciful.

Inner beauty

There are no beautiful and ugly women, there are those who are aware of themselves as a woman with all her advantages and disadvantages, and those who do not have enough courage to do so. For some reason, most beauties think that their role is solely to get married, have a child, at best, realize themselves in professional activities. At the same time, for some reason they forget about their inner beauty, which can make this world brighter and kinder.

They do not even think about the fact that the mission of the weaker sex is much broader. And besides such important goals as creating a happy family and raising children, real women should give this world the beauty of their soul and mercy. Of course, there are very kind men, but their mother is always behind them, who has invested in them all the best that is in a person, a beloved wife or girlfriend. Without the fair sex, the stronger sex is doomed to be mired in cruelty and indifference.

7 ways to become a real woman

Be yourself

The right of a real woman is to always remain herself. There is no need for her to be like anyone else. She enjoys her own beauty, being able to appreciate the beauty of others. But she does not complex about the lack of ideal forms imposed by the fashion world, because she knows perfectly well that, no matter what, she looks perfect. And if extra pounds begin to bother her, she will devote a little more time to sports than usual. Only she will do this not because someone said that she needs to weigh no more than 55 kg, but because her usual weight has increased and she became uncomfortable.

Take your health seriously

For a real woman, an attentive attitude to her health, both physical and mental, is important. She does not accumulate anger, resentment or hatred in her soul, and even, experiencing negative feelings that are just as necessary as positive ones, makes informed decisions judging by the situation, and does not chop off the shoulder.

Maintain harmony in your soul

A true woman hates the constant demands and criticism of loved ones. Therefore, she tries to solve all problems in a calm atmosphere, not postponing until later. Harmony in the soul is its foundation. She won't let anyone break it.

Be confident

A real woman fascinates everyone who is next to her, not because she is dressed in fashionable clothes or has a flashy make-up. She radiates confidence in herself and her actions, which many lack so much, knows about all her advantages and disadvantages, but does not make a tragedy out of this. For her, the standard is only universal human values ​​that have not changed for millennia: love and respect for one's neighbor, mercy, justice, self-respect, gratuitous help to relatives and friends, and many others. A real woman is not subject to changes in principles and is guided by her own opinion, being able to analyze what she hears and sees, draw conclusions, and does not blindly believe everything that is written, said and shown.

Be able to stand up for yourself

No matter how unusual it sounds, a true lady knows how to stand up for herself, as she understands that both good and bad happen in life. And there is nothing wrong with owning SAMBO or other martial arts. The ability to repulse an aggressor will not only make you feel safe, but will also give you even more confidence in your own strengths, and it will also be a great way to keep yourself in excellent physical shape. But this does not mean that she will walk alone at night.

Appreciate freedom

A real woman does not worry if she is alone. For her, loneliness is not a problem, but an opportunity to become even better. It does not give her any inconvenience, but only brings benefits, allowing her to become even smarter and better, to devote herself even more to doing good deeds than usual.

Love and pamper yourself

Never get hung up on your responsibilities and loved ones, remember yourself, take care of yourself, pamper and love yourself for who you are. There is no single template for what a real woman should be, and it is not needed. Each representative of the fair sex is amazing in her own way, if she does not forget about herself, her beauty, and most importantly, the beauty of her soul.

We know what a real man, girlfriends, children and parents should be like, but for some reason, in the daily hustle and bustle, we rarely think about what we should be - real women. Instead, we are even more immersed in solving immediate problems, taking on an unbearable burden and responsibilities unusual for us. And that's why we hear more and more often about blondes, models, businesswoman and “blue stockings”, and not that each of us is a magnificent woman who deserves the best. It's time to correct this injustice and remember that we are worthy of worship and gratitude, because only real women make this world beautiful.