How to become pregnant at 10 years old. Long-term fertility treatment

Some people manage to get pregnant on the first try, while others try for years, but everything turns out to be unsuccessful. What is the reason?

If you want to improve your chances of having a baby, don't make the common mistakes that we will tell you about.

1. To worry too often

Stress is one of the main factors that reduce the likelihood of conception. If a woman's body has high levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, this can negatively affect her fertility. American scientists watched 400 couples trying to become parents, and came to the following conclusions: if a woman has a high level of alpha-amylase (stress indicator), her chances of getting pregnant are reduced by 29% compared to those who have this indicator within the normal range. Experts believe that under the influence of chronic stress, the production of hormones that ensure a stable cycle is reduced.

If you are having trouble getting pregnant, try to relax and let go of the situation for a while. Try meditation, yoga - it has asanas that improve blood flow to the pelvis and thus stimulate the synthesis of necessary hormones. This has a positive effect on the ability to conceive. Stop constantly planning a pregnancy. Instead, just remind yourself daily that this is a miracle that happens very often.

2. Don't do too much or too little.

A large number of couples are convinced that the chances of conceiving a baby will greatly increase if they do not have sex for a week, "saving" sperm. It's a delusion. After a week of abstinence, sperm cells become much less mobile. Therefore, doctors advise to have sex every day or every other day for a week before ovulation and on the day it occurs. More frequent intimacy can negatively affect the ability of sperm to fertilize, and less often creates the risk of missing the window of conception.

It has been scientifically proven that regular sex helps stabilize the cycle: the male body releases hormones that affect the female reproductive system. Therefore, with regular sex, more estrogen is produced.

3. Use questionable techniques

Although we live in the 21st century, many women continue to practice douching, believing in the miraculous effectiveness of this method. It seems that there is logic in this: from infections, malnutrition, bad habits, the environment in the vagina becomes acidic, and the sperm in it dies and cannot fertilize the egg. Therefore, many begin to introduce a weak soda solution so that the environment becomes alkaline and conducive to conception.

Doctors do not support douching: together with harmful microorganisms, baking soda destroys beneficial microorganisms, disrupting the natural pH of the vagina. There is also a risk of exacerbation of inflammatory processes, due to which damage, erosion of the cervix can develop, which can often only be detected during examination by a gynecologist.

4. Make mistakes in calculations

The most common mistake is incorrect determination of the day of ovulation. For most women, it occurs in the middle of the cycle, but this applies to women with a 28-32 day cycle. Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before your period starts. Therefore, if you have a 24-day cycle, then ovulation will occur on day 10. If your cycle is noticeably longer, say 42 days, then it can be assumed that you ovulate less often, not in every cycle. In this case, as well as if you have an irregular cycle (in this case, ovulation can be either on day 6 or on day 21), or you do not remember the last time you had your period, forget these rules. Here you can not do without an ovulation test, with which you can easily find out when you have a window of conception.

Often women make another mistake - they do not count the beginning of the cycle from the first day of menstruation. The day of the onset of menstruation is the one on which blood begins to be secreted, not the day before and not the day after that. It is very important to know the exact day of the beginning of the cycle, because for a successful conception, the account goes literally for hours.

5. Blame yourself

With unsuccessful attempts to become pregnant, infertility on the part of the woman is usually assumed. Only in reality both partners have the same degree of responsibility. According to statistics, in 40% of cases men are infertile, in another 40% - women, and in the remaining 20% ​​unsuccessful attempts to get pregnant are due to compatibility problems of partners. Therefore, do not panic ahead of time: on average, healthy couples need 6 months to 1 year to conceive.

6. Trying to keep everything on schedule

Pregnancy cannot be accurately planned. Although healthy couples usually need from 6 months to a year to conceive, sometimes the first six months are spent for a woman only to normalize the cycle, which has gone astray due to the use of contraceptives. Until the cycle becomes regular, ovulation will not occur. So, if after 6 months the menstrual cycle has not returned to normal or you are not sure that you are ovulating, be sure to go to the gynecologist.

7. Hurry

Many people find it sarcastic to say that after sex a woman needs to lie on her back for about 20 minutes with her buttocks raised. But, according to doctors, it increases the chances of getting pregnant by 80%. So don't neglect this method.

8. Ignore the worries for which there is reason

Seeing a doctor is not paranoid. There are situations when you should not ignore what bothers you, because we are talking not only about you, but also about the future baby. It is possible that your cycle has always been irregular, and this is the reason why you cannot get pregnant. Or maybe you have some kind of illness, and you want to make sure that this does not threaten the health of the unborn baby.

If you are worried about something or are not sure about something, go to see a specialist. He will explain to you what surprises and difficulties you may face. If you have difficulty trying to get pregnant later, you will know what to do.

9. You can not give up bad habits

At least a year before the planned pregnancy, you should quit bad habits. Doctors around the world warn: the first trimester is the most important stage in the formation of the body of a future baby. Even a minuscule dose of alcohol can cause irreparable harm to him.

Some women drink alcohol in early pregnancy without realizing their interesting situation. So, if you are not using protection, either give up alcohol and cigarettes, or keep them to a minimum.

10. Do not monitor your partner's health

Anything that harms your fertility can also negatively affect a man's fertility. Tobacco, alcohol, unhealthy diets impair the quality and decrease the number of sperm. Studies have shown that smoking and alcohol damage sperm at the chromosome level. Considering that the complete renewal of sperm takes 3 months, at least for this period, your partner should give up bad habits. Make sure that his diet is balanced, including selenium, vitamins C and E - they are very beneficial for men's health.

The effect of temperature on a man's ability to conceive has not been proven. American experts believe that it is not essential for the work of the male genital organs. However, some doctors advise against taking hot baths frequently, even if the man has no sperm quality issues.

Several studies indicate that the temperature of the scrotum rises when a laptop is held in their lap for a long time. Other experts have found that radiation from mobile phones can reduce a man's ability to conceive, especially if the gadget is in his pants pocket. Yet a clear relationship between warmth and male fertility has not been established.

2010-11-06 23:04:27

Natalia asks:

Hello! in March I had a frozen pregnancy, the reasons were not found. Already in April, she was tested for sticks and found LGG to toxoplasma in a very high titer - 550 at a rate of up to 30. LGM - negative. The doctors immediately said - they say these are antibodies, this is not the reason and this is not to be treated. 6 months have passed and to calm down I passed this test again - LGG was higher up to 650! There is no clinic. But what can positive dynamics mean? What to do? If I become pregnant with such dynamics, it will affect the fetus, or as you write - you can get infected only once and there is only a danger for pregnant women. I am very worried, advise!

Answers:

Good day, Natalia! You need to calm down once and for all. You do not have toxoplasmosis, you have only persistent lifelong immunity to toxoplasma, acquired as a result of a previous illness (toxoplasmosis). If you are still worried about this situation, do not determine the level of antibodies to toxoplasma (there is no sense in this anymore), but carry out other tests. You need to do an ELISA blood test for IgG avidity to Toxoplasma, by PCR blood and urine tests for Toxoplasma DNA. Confirmation that you have immunity (and for a long time), that there is no Toxoplasma in your body, there will be a negative result for Toxoplasma DNA and a high level of IgG avidity to them. By the way, IgG to Toxoplasma will be present in your blood all your life, protecting you from the invasion of Toxoplasma until the end of your days and for the entire pregnancy plus 6-12 months after giving birth to all your future babies. Be healthy!

2016-06-08 13:55:33

Margarita asks:

Hello. I am 37 weeks pregnant. Gardnerella sits in every stroke. I have already treated it twice, for the first time a Hexicon was assigned, the second time for Terzhinan. With repeated strokes, the gardnerella is in place! STD tests are negative. HIV, AIDS, syphilis and others were not found. I was tested for these STDs twice, at the beginning of pregnancy and at 32 weeks. Before pregnancy (desired pregnancy), I had polycystic disease of both ovaries, they were treated with dyufastone and vitamin e, as I wanted to get pregnant. At that time (approx. 7-8 months before pregnancy) the smear was clean. In real strokes in all this gardnerella! Leukocytes are normal, there is no inflammation. Allocations are rare. I wash with a special gel for intimate hygiene with lactic acid (recently started), previously washed with soap or shower gel. I don't douche. The sexual partner is one, constant. Husband. Now again a smear and again a gardnerella. Prescribed clindacin b prolong for 3 days. What if it doesn't help again? I'm tired of fighting this bacterium! Very worried! Is this bacteria dangerous for my child? What should I do, what other tests should I take? By the way, I have never taken contraceptive pills. My husband and I used condoms only at the beginning of a relationship, we have not used it for a long time. Sex is traditional. Sorry for the confusion, I just don't know what to do anymore! Really looking forward to the answer. Best regards, Rita.

Answers Bosyak Yulia Vasilievna:

Hello Margarita! Gardnerellosis is a commonplace bacterial vaginosis, which can worsen against the background of a physiological drop in immunity (which is normally observed during pregnancy). Go through the prescribed therapy, it is necessary before childbirth. After giving birth, observe your condition in dynamics, perhaps the problem will disappear by itself. Today I advise you to just wash yourself with laundry soap.

2012-02-10 12:54:49

Tatyana asks:

Hello, I am 24 years old. I do not have a regular MC. I have been living with my husband for 5 years and there is no pregnancy, of course. The MC was in August 2011, then only in December 2011, my gynecologist prescribed me progesterone, three injections of 2.5% each, I did them, but nothing happens. The doctor said that when the MCs come to donate blood for 3 and 21 days, then an ultrasound scan, then an endocrinologist, then an endocrinologist-gynecologist, and I don’t need to go to her ... how long will I wait for them and what should I do if the MC does not come? Can I get pregnant at all with this MC.? she also said that a small uterus is very bad?

2012-01-05 02:29:56

Tatyana asks:

I am 20 years old. Menstruation began at 10. We did not go regularly until 6 months of delay. At 19, she was in gynecology (my period lasted 24 days), stopped with a regulon, and drank for 3 months. Then they walked normally without delay. In the summer I decided to get pregnant. Delay, did the test - neg. I was sent to an endocrinologist. Diagnosed with polycystic ovary disease. I have been drinking Janine for 3 months. Then they told me to take a rest for a month and go to the appointment. Question: is it possible to get pregnant during the break. And what happens if I get pregnant and the polycystic disease is not cured. Will this affect the ber and the baby?

2011-03-06 11:11:22

Jan asks:

What to do? if the period is already 5 days late and at this time there was a sexual intercourse!
Is it possible to get pregnant if after the first act the penis is exhausted with water?
And how can I get rid of pregnancy?

Answers:

2011-01-20 16:31:26

Lilya asks:

Uv.Samysko Alena Viktorovna! Hello! In one of YOUR answer I read that it is advisable to drink contraceptive pills for 36 months in order to restore hormonal balance, and if you cancel, get pregnant ... that is, you suggest drinking contraceptives for three years? Is this not a typo? This advice suitable for very young people who have time. and tell me what to do if you want a child at 34 years old (in general, still at a young age), but drinking contraceptive for three years, obviously a lot of time will be lost and you will have to get pregnant at the age of 37, give birth closer to 38 ?? at a dangerous age for this .. what would you advise ?? how in this case to restore hormonal balance? thanks!

Answers Medical consultant of the portal "site":

Hello Lilya! First of all, why did you decide that the recommendation we gave to some other patient would work for you too? Any recommendations for treatment given by a doctor are purely individual in nature and do not apply to all other patients, even if the problems are somewhat similar. Your problem is not clear to us. If you do not currently have any diseases that prevent conception, development and the normal course of pregnancy, become pregnant for health, no one will even think of recommending you a long course of hormone therapy. If there is a problem with conception and pregnancy - do not try to solve it on your own or with the help of online consultants - go to a reproductive specialist, get examined and receive individual recommendations that will suit your clinical case and will help solve your particular health problem. Take care of your health!

2010-05-31 17:51:27

Nina asks:

Hello! I'm desperate! Less than a year ago, trichomoniasis was diagnosed. The first course of treatment for me and my husband did not give results, the result of the second course of treatment was negative. 4 months they passed control tests (back-seeding and regular smear). We want a baby!) for all infections by PCR, only Ganderella was detected. Immediately after that, I again passed a regular smear from a private gynecologist, nothing was found. Then I decided to take a smear and bacterial culture in the CVD laboratory, where they were previously treated, Trichomonas were found in the smear! I'm shocked! There is no more strength or health to be treated! Two courses of treatment have undermined both the intestinal tract and the immune system! What to do? If there is no result, can you quit everything and not be treated anymore? Are there examples when with such a diagnosis it was possible to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy baby? Thank you in advance!

Answers Terletskaya Anna Nikolaevna:

Hello Nina!
If Trichomonas was not found in you many times in different laboratories after the second course of treatment with various methods, then you were successfully cured of it. The detection of Trichomonas for the last time in a smear performed in the CVD indicates either that this is a false-positive result (smears are incorrectly performed) or reinfection in you or a partner (a new episode of infection).
You can clarify by performing an analysis for richomanad by PCR or bacterial culture in an independent laboratory. If the diagnosis is confirmed, it is reinfection (re-infection).
Trichomoniasis should be treated before pregnancy because it is an aggressive microorganism that affects the fetus and leads to miscarriage or premature rupture of the membranes.
In addition, you need to be treated not only for the purpose of planning pregnancy, but also because chronic trichomoniasis leads to chronic salpingo-oophoritis, infertility, sensitization of the body, concomitant recurrent colpitis and bacterial vaginosis. With the right complex treatment, it is possible to preserve the normal intestinal microflora and restore the normal vaginal microflora.

Answers Medical consultant of the portal "site":

Hello Nina! Prescribing drugs for the treatment of trichomoniasis during menstruation, the doctor is guided by two considerations. First, he takes care not to carry out treatment during pregnancy. The appearance of menstruation makes pregnancy unlikely and excludes the possibility of a negative effect of drugs on the fetus. Secondly, the activity of Trichomonas increases during menstruation and they become more sensitive to anti-trichomonas drugs. All of the drugs listed by you, including vaginal suppositories, can be used during menstruation. Take care of your health!

2010-04-19 19:10:32

Alina asks:

Good day!
Erosion. Passed tests for hepatitis C and B, toxoplasma, herpes, chlamydia, ureoplasma, mycoplasma, HPV (16, 18), HPV (low risk), HPV (high risk) - all negative, culture of secretions from V and C on the microflora (so in the form, the columns are headed) norm, analysis for microflora and antibiotic sensitivity - pathogenic and opportunistic microflora was not found). I didn’t take it for oncocytology (I didn’t find anything in the card).
Biopsy - the result in the hospital - epithelizing glandular erosion of the cervix with foci of moderate dysplasia - in oncology the glass was revised - epithelizing glandular erosion with dystrophic changes in the epithelium.
The doctor immediately insisted on conization, but since I really didn’t want to (I’m 28, didn’t give birth, a history of 1 ZB, myoma 1 cm, I want children, but it just doesn’t work out) they did cryo. After 4 months, she said that she had decreased, but remained the same, she was sent to the city oncology.
The last colposcopy (at a gynecological oncologist) - a cylindrical CM, a slit-like pharynx, an unfinished transformation zone in a 1-2-3 zone at 9-1 and in a 1-2-3 zone for 3-8 hours. In the second zone, there is a retention cyst for 10 hours. In the second zone, the papillary zone of dysplasia is at 12-1 o'clock. In other areas without pathology. Recommended - CMM diathermoconization.
This month, only interrupted PA was protected, and now my nipples are starting to hurt, I have already resigned myself to do conization, but suddenly (though there are few chances) I am pregnant? Is conization really so necessary (the reason is not established, and if then again - what should be cut each time?)? and what to do if you become pregnant with dysplasia to increase your chances of a successful outcome?
Both unanimously convince that if I become pregnant now, there is practically no chance to endure, but to bring it to cancer is easy.

Answers Consultant of the medical laboratory "Sinevo Ukraine":

Good afternoon, Alina! If you are pregnant, then wear it to your health! You have every chance to bear and give birth to a healthy baby. Pathology of the cervix (with the exception of isthmicocervical insufficiency) has nothing to do with the ability to carry a healthy baby. Going into pregnancy with dysplasia is not very good only because it is not known how exactly dysplasia will react to changes in the levels of sex hormones - whether it will progress or, on the contrary, will reduce. You can easily do your neck after childbirth, if it is still relevant. During pregnancy, dynamic monitoring of the state of the cervix will be quite sufficient. Doctors are banal intimidating you. So if pregnant, wear and give birth. If you are not pregnant now, re-conduct a full examination and get treatment, if necessary. Be healthy!

2009-09-21 14:52:49

Anna asks:

Hello! 16 days ago I had a medabort for a period of 6-7 weeks. I know that I did a stupid thing, but after 15 days have passed sexual intercourse, menstruation, as you understand, has not yet begun. Could I get pregnant, provided that the guy did not cum inside me? If so, tell me what to do to avoid getting pregnant. Please reply as soon as possible. Thanks.

Answers Medical consultant of the portal "site":

Anna, the possibility of pregnancy is always present, even if you use contraception. And in order not to get pregnant, you can use contraception. You will find more detailed information in the article articles. All the best!

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An unplanned pregnancy can make a difference in your life. And abortion, in the worst case, severely undermine health. To prevent this from happening, you should have an idea of ​​the effectiveness of the main contraceptives and how they are used.

Conception is a subtle and complex process that depends on many factors. Therefore, do not despair if you did not succeed in getting pregnant right away. The question of infertility can be raised only after a year of regular sex life without the use of contraceptives.

How to get pregnant the first time? This question is asked by many couples who are planning the birth of a baby. Most women and men believe that the lack of contraception and active having sex is all that is needed for this. But is it?

In this topic, we will try to tell you whether it is possible to get pregnant the first time, what factors affect conception and how to properly approach such a delicate matter. We will also share the secrets of how to get pregnant with a boy or girl.

Is it possible to get pregnant the first time and what affects conception?

There are a number of factors to consider when planning to conceive.

• The duration of the menstrual cycle. More often, women did not succeed in getting pregnant the first time, whose monthly cycle is less and more than 28 days, especially when it is not regular. This is due to the fact that fertile time is ovulation, that is, the release of an egg from the ovary, which enters the middle of the cycle. With a 28-day cycle, the egg is released on day 14. But for most women, stress, excessive physical or mental work, hormonal disturbances and other reasons can lead to a cycle failure, which will affect the bottom of the egg release. Therefore, it is not always possible to predict the exact date of the onset of ovulation.
• The life span of a sperm in the female genital tract. On average, the sperm remains active after entering the female genital organs for 72 hours. Therefore, the chance of getting pregnant the first time will be higher when intercourse is performed during ovulation. But even if you calculate everything to the nearest day and go to ovulation, the probability of fertilization of the egg will be only 25%.
• The health status of sexual partners. Chronic diseases, age over 30, unbalanced nutrition, harmful, abortions, operations on the organs of the reproductive system can be the reason why it is not possible to get pregnant the first time.
• Sexual intercourse during the monthly cycle. Adhering to this simple rule, the percentage of conception is all-exactly low - about 10%.

You also need to understand that conception does not always end in pregnancy, since a fertilized egg simply may not penetrate the endometrium of the uterus and come out during menstruation.

What are the chances of getting pregnant the first time? Let's figure it out. According to statistics, every sixth woman planning a child succeeds in getting pregnant the first time.

Also, experts say that if a woman did not manage to get pregnant from the first, then it is necessary to continue to have an active sex life and not to use contraceptives further. In this case, pregnancy can be expected in the next six months.

Clinical observation of hundreds of couples planning a child, who had and had intercourse no more than three times a week, showed that efforts were crowned with success within six months in 60% of couples.

How can you get pregnant the first time quickly and what is needed for this?

To get pregnant the first time, you need to adhere to the following recommendations:

• plan a pregnancy at the age that is most suitable for this - 20-25 years old, since young girls have a regular cycle in most cases;
• calculate the day of ovulation for several months, since this will significantly increase the chances of conceiving a child;
• use special tests to determine ovulation;
• measure basal temperature, an increase in which to 37.4 ° C indicates ovulation;
• perform unprotected coitus on the day of ovulation.

There are also other ways to help you get pregnant quickly.

Is it possible to get pregnant after the first time: postures, pictures

Can a girl get pregnant quickly by choosing certain positions for this, and which position is considered the most suitable? This opinion is shared by many, but not by those who understand this topic. Therefore, unfortunately, we will dispel this myth.

There is no magic position that guarantees 100% conception the first time. The chance of conceiving a child is only affected by the day on which unprotected intercourse was performed, and this day should be ovulation.

But, perhaps, for conceiving a child, a special pose will be needed for women in whom the uterus has a backward bend, since such a pathology interferes with the entry of sperm into the cervix.

In this case, experts recommend having sex in positions where the man is behind the woman. This position allows deeper penetration into the vagina and facilitates the entry of semen into the cervix. Also, after coitus, it is recommended to become a woman in the pose "birch" (see photo).

Unfortunately, the only sure, quick and accurate way to get pregnant has not yet been found. But taking into account the opinion of experts and the feedback of women on the forums, we have selected methods that will increase the likelihood of conceiving a child the first time.

• Taking vitamins. A few months before the planned pregnancy, both partners need to start taking vitamin complexes, in which vitamins E and C, as well as folic acid, must be present. Also, do not forget about macro- and microelements such as calcium, iron, copper, selenium, magnesium and zinc. The listed vitamins and minerals will not only speed up the onset of pregnancy, but also help to give birth to a healthy baby, since they contribute to the normal laying of organs and systems, primarily the neural tube.
• Have sex no more than 2-3 times a week. It takes 8-12 weeks for a sperm to mature, and with one ejaculation, 100-400 thousand sperm are released. Therefore, too frequent intercourse reduces the effectiveness of the semen and it will not be possible to conceive a baby quickly.
• Folk methods and means. You can quickly conceive a child if you regularly consume ortilia decoction. To prepare the broth, you need to pour three tablespoons of plant leaves with two glasses of boiling water and simmer for 20-30 minutes, after which the medicine should be filtered through a fine sieve. This broth is recommended to be taken instead of tea, several cups a day. Also, traditional healers advise to eat pumpkin in any form, since it is rich in vitamins and minerals that have a beneficial effect on reproductive function.

Is it possible to get pregnant for the first time and schedule the gender of the baby?

Not one women's forum is replete with the question: I want specifically a boy or a girl, what should I do? Well, let's reveal the secret of what can be done and how to plan the sex of the baby.

The sex of the fetus is laid during the fusion of the egg with the sperm, and the sex depends on which chromosome is present in the male reproductive cell.

The X chromosome is responsible for the birth of a girl, and a Y chromosome for a boy.

The following patterns are also known:

• "Sperm-boys" live up to 24 hours in the female genital tract, but at the same time they are much more active than "sperm-girls";
• "Sperm-girls" live up to 72 hours after entering the female genital organs, but they move more slowly than "sperm-boys".

Considering the above-described features of sperm with X and Y chromosomes, we can say that for the conception of a girl, unprotected intercourse must occur three days before the date of ovulation. Before the release of the egg, the sperm carrying the Y-chromosome will die, and only the "girly" ones will remain.

Accordingly, first you will need to determine this date using the methods that we talked about earlier.

If you want a boy, then intercourse should be on the day of ovulation, then sperm with a Y chromosome will fertilize an egg faster than sperm with an X chromosome.

More than one specialist will not undertake to answer this question reliably and unequivocally. One woman immediately received the long-awaited pregnancy, and the other did not become pregnant even after the tenth in vitro fertilization.

Experts say that after the first IVF, only 35% of women can become pregnant. It all depends on a number of factors, which include the following:

• age of partners;
• the nature of the disease that caused the infertility;
• duration of infertility;
• the number and quality of embryos obtained during artificial insemination;
• compliance by a woman with all recommendations for preparing for embryo implantation;
• unsuccessful attempts at artificial insemination in history;
• lifestyle partners.

If you cannot get pregnant on your own and decide to resort to in vitro fertilization, then you, first of all, need to choose an experienced specialist - a fertility specialist - and strictly follow his recommendations.

As a result, we can say that, unfortunately, there is no one hundred percent method that would help to get pregnant the first time. You can only increase the chance of quick conception of a baby using the above recommendations.

When asked if a girl can get pregnant at such a young age, the answer is ambiguous. Experts say: if a young female has already established a menstrual cycle, then her body, from the point of view of physiology, is ready for a pregnancy to take place.

The optimal age for the birth of the first child

This is where opinions often differ. Psychologists believe that this is a period from 28 to 35 years. By this age, a woman already occupies a worthy position in society, has a permanent place of residence and an established life. She has already to some extent realized her existing ambitions and does not have a keen desire to have fun. The time comes when there is an acute desire for home comfort and there is enough internal strength to take care of the baby. It is at this age that a woman can already devote herself to a child without a trace.

But gynecologists have a different opinion. The optimal age to become a mother in terms of physiology is 20-25 years.

During this period, the formation of the body is already completed, the hormonal background is stabilized. But at the same time, a person does not yet have a "bouquet" of various diseases.

How to recognize pregnancy?

Are you pregnant at age 10 or a little over? A feature of bearing a child at this age is insufficient softening of the uterus and its size lagging behind the delay time, as well as the severity of a number of signs based on softening of the isthmus.

Symptoms similar to those in adults can also serve as the main signs of pregnancy:

• delayed menstruation;
• morning sickness and loss of appetite;
• breast augmentation. It becomes more sensitive, and the area near the nipple may change its shade;
• increased urination and constipation;
• an increase in basal temperature measured in the rectum;
• growth of the abdomen;
• vaginal discharge;
• constant sleepiness;
• possible temperature rise.

Terminate pregnancy or give birth?

When answering this question, consider the following factors:

• how does the father of the unborn child behave? Will he want to create and then provide for a family?
• the term of the established pregnancy. After 12 weeks, interruption is only possible for medical reasons;
• the state of the expectant mother and her age. Is the body prepared to bear the child, will it not be dangerous for the youngest woman and her condition. On the other hand, one should think about whether the termination of pregnancy will cause subsequent infertility;
• moral preparedness for motherhood.

Becoming a mother, the girl says goodbye to her own childhood. Will this process be painless? What to do if pregnant at 10 years old?

At the age of 14 years and less than 12 weeks of pregnancy, the situation most often ends with an abortion. This is not an easy procedure, but it helps to avoid subsequent problems (the process of carrying a child, childbirth, lactation), which are most likely to have a negative impact on health.

In other cases, pregnancy and childbirth should be chosen, since the consequences of abortion on a young body are difficult to predict.

At the beginning of the last century, one of the most important principles was formulated: a young age is not an indication for abortion. Each individual case has its own optimal choice and it is necessary to make it.

How to tell loved ones that you are pregnant?

Better if they are parents. But there is no point in communicating to peers: in the absence of experience and knowledge, they are unlikely to be able to help.

For a start, you should confide in the person who is most trusted. Most likely, such a person will turn out to be a mother or grandmother, or maybe a friend of a mother. You need to discuss with the elder what to do next and how to tell the rest of the family about what happened. How to find a way out of this situation?

You should not postpone the conversation - time plays a significant role here. Pregnancy, miscarriage and abortion are both important for future health. Therefore, the girl must be monitored by a doctor. In the case of an abortion decision, the period is generally limited to the first 12 weeks.

1. Early pregnancy is considered a situation when conception occurs in a girl under 18 years of age. Girls 10-14 years old are usually not ready for bearing a child and childbirth, either mentally or physically. The same applies to caring for the baby.
2. At this age, the child is obliged to attend school, socialize and be determined with a specialty, as well as learn to housekeeping. Therefore, if the timing of pregnancy and health provide such an opportunity, it would be more correct to lean towards abortion.
3. If a girl decides to give birth, she should stop attending school every day and take more time to rest, prepare mentally for the upcoming motherhood. It is necessary to register in a timely manner in the antenatal clinic, as well as consult in the antenatal department - here it is possible to monitor the health of the expectant mother and fetus.
4. Relatives bear a great responsibility. They must fully support the girl's choice. There is no need to yell at the child or offend him. The actions of children depend on how loved ones treat them.

Why is it dangerous?

In girls under 14 years of age, the following birth complications are possible:

• discrepancy between the size of the fetal head and the mother's pelvis;
• birth canal injuries;
• weak labor activity;
• bleeding is hypotonic.

Consequences of early pregnancy

Early pregnancy can have certain characteristics.

1. The girl's body itself is in the growth stage. And if the girl is pregnant, all the forces of the not yet fully developed organism will be spent on the development of the fetus.
2. Pregnancy requires a lot from the body. Due to age, many systems are under stress. Expectation of a child in girls is much more difficult than in an adult woman - this is due to the immaturity of adaptation mechanisms. Waiting for a child is a big load on an organism that has not yet fully formed, which has not matured properly.
3. A girl's pregnancy speeds up the process of puberty and in many cases is undesirable.
4. As a rule, pregnancy at an extremely young age lasts a couple of weeks less than those of the older women.
5. Most young people do not want to become fathers so early. As a result, the girl remains a single mother.
6. Many young mothers are unable to receive a specific education. This leads to the fact that, already growing up, they sometimes occupy only low-paid positions.

When addressing girls who find themselves in such a difficult situation, I would like to advise you not to be afraid to take responsibility for the actions that have been committed. Timely conversation with loved ones will help you make the right decision, while maintaining your own health.

There is no justice in this world: someone dreams of children, prays, gets medical treatment, but they are still not there. Someone does not want to have them at all, but ... over and over again goes to an abortion, or leaves an unfortunate baby in the baby's house, and it happens that he throws kind people at the door, let's not talk about more terrible things. Someone will find my story banal, while others will be interested and draw the right conclusions for themselves.

First marriage and divorce

I got married very early, at the age of 18, and immediately gave birth to a daughter. As usual, love in a young family crashed into everyday life, and my husband and I soon parted ways. For many years I lived alone and, of course, did not think about children. There was only one thought: to raise and educate your only daughter. Although, of course, I wanted both family and ordinary female happiness and more children. I wanted to try what it is like when you raise a child together with your loved one, share with him the common parental joys.

Second marriage and dreams of a child

And finally, happiness smiled at me: after 10 years of loneliness, I met a man who soon became my husband. Almost immediately after the wedding, there was talk of children. My husband was passionate about children. Or at least one child, a girl is better.

I saw the eyes with which he looks at other people's children, how easily he finds a common language with them, how he knows how to console and cheer them up, and I understood that he would definitely be a wonderful father.

But for some reason, such a desired pregnancy did not come. After two years of living together, I turned to a doctor for advice. I was diagnosed with secondary and admitted to the hospital. There I underwent several courses of treatment for the residual effects of chronic inflammation of the uterus and ovaries, underwent a procedure for blowing the fallopian tubes, etc.

Long-term fertility treatment

Most importantly, in the hospital I met many women with the same problems as mine. They all longed for a baby, but the pregnancy never came.

Probably, no one except us, who are in eternal expectation of pregnancy, knows this crazy hope and complete disappointment that you go through every month. After that, you feel so empty and useless.

Visits to the gynecologist became mandatory and routine, over the next three years I tried all possible methods of treating infertility, but ... everything is useless. In addition, due to the course of strong hormonal drugs, my weight began to grow, and in a year I gained 18 kg. The course of treatment ended, but the weight remained and did not want to go away, although I again tried gymnastics and massage.

Unconventional infertility treatment

Completely disappointed with official medicine, I began to visit healers and psychics. All of them unanimously told me that I would definitely give birth to a child, but the pregnancy still did not come. Healers gave me various types of massage (including the uterus), hand passes, recited prayers, etc.

A year later, I went to my grandmother - the witch, she advised me to introduce tampons from a fresh egg mixed with ten drops of iodine. Then she gave me a herbal collection (I don't know exactly which herbs), advised me some slander and prayers. All this turned out to be useless as well.

Turning to God

And then I went to church. I, a baptized Christian from infancy, rarely went to church. Although in difficult moments of life I always read the prayers "Our Father" and "Theotokos, maiden rejoice." Here I had such a hopeless state, such melancholy attacked that my legs seemed to lead me to church by themselves. I went up to the icon of the Mother of God (as it turned out later, Kazan) and began to pray. At that moment it seemed to me that my heart was open, and I spoke to the Mother of God as with a person close to me, as with a woman mother who could easily understand me. I looked at her face on the icon and saw eyes full of sorrow and understanding. I saw how tenderly she hugs her child and asked her to grant me this happiness too.

I left the church renewed. I calmed down and no longer grumbled to God that he did not give me this desired child.

I realized that everything is rewarded to us according to deeds and we do not understand God's will. But since then I have ceased to be tormented, I have become calmer, but not happier. I thought that I would probably never give birth.

A dream come true

A month later, my period did not come, and I decided with bitterness that an early menopause was beginning. At that time I was already (or still) 37 years old. Four months later, I went to the next medical examination and there, with surprise and delight, I learned about my pregnancy. What is most interesting: I did not feel any ailments at all. The whole pregnancy was easy, I never lay on preservation, and although I was already considered old-bearing, I gave birth to the easily desired and beloved girl Masha.

Now Mashenka is already a teenager, and what is most interesting is that she is a deeply religious person since childhood.

Believing in God is as natural for her as breathing. And when she prays to the Mother of God or talks about her, tears begin to boil in her eyes.

WHAT TO NAME WHAT HAPPENED TO ME, IF NOT A MIRACLE? I advise everyone to never lose heart, believe and fight to the end.