What has to happen will happen - everything has its time. Wise sayings Everything begins and ends in time
What has to happen will happen, in due time. You just need to have patience and determination. You need to “build the present” day by day in order to get opportunities in the future and achieve the desired goal.
Several things follow from the phrase with which we have titled the article. The first is that forcing events, striving to achieve something ahead of time does not always lead to good results.
Secondly, we must learn to accept the fact that life has its cycles, their favorable (for something) moments. No one, for example, can hope to find a wonderful mate unless he has first learned to love himself.
Therefore, it is normal when we, going through these phases of self-knowledge, unsuccessful relationships, gradually approach the person who will be for us.
Growing means learning and, above all, be open to everyone opportunities that are provided to us. We invite you to reflect on this.
Everything has its favorable moments, and each such moment provides opportunities.
Often, when you least expect it, things are going well. And it's not the famous "law of attraction". In most cases, in order for something to happen, it is not enough to want it strongly.
Usually, something good is happening because the moment is right and, most importantly, because we created all the conditions so that at this moment we could enjoy the fruits of our efforts.
The Magic of Opportunity
The magic lies in being able to see the opportunity that opens up in front of us at a certain moment. It must be intuitively understood and appreciated.
- Let's take an example. We learn some profession, spend a lot of time, acquire knowledge and skills.
- And there are vacancies in the labor market. This is something innovative and, at the same time, close to our specialty, to our education. But we are afraid to try ourselves in a new field, because we do not know if we can cope with this work.
- Only those who can see and appreciate an opportunity and are willing to take the risk of "seizing" it, will be able to take advantage of being in the right place at the right time. That moment, not before, not after.
If we do not seize the moment, perhaps such ideal circumstances will not arise again.
What needs to happen will happen - if we put effort into it
Opportunities don't usually "knock at our door." Stillness does not attract possibility, mere desire does not.
- “What is to happen” requires effort on our part. We can – and should – be proactive and change the reality around us and contribute to the emergence of favorable (for us and our plans) opportunities.
- Yes, there are things that happen because the time has come. But if we ourselves do not make efforts, will, it is unlikely that what we desire will suddenly appear in front of us.
Need to keep the mind open
An open mind is not a mind dreaming under the stars and inflating its desires to infinity. An open mind has very specific characteristics:
- He is aware of his needs.
- He has a good connection with himself, a good idea of himself, adequate self-esteem. He is able to separate what he needs from what he does not need.
- He is a good observer, hears and sees everything around him and chooses what will allow him to grow and achieve his goals.
- An open and receptive mind is able to seize the moment and direct knowledge to the realization of the opportunity when it arises.
Need to be patient
Those who are in too much of a hurry, who take risks without properly assessing the danger, who lack patience, are often disappointed with the results of their activities.
- We often hear recommendations: “one must be able to take risks, do not be afraid to leave the comfort zone ...” But To take a risk, you need to be prepared for it.
- Without a good and adequate one, we cannot, for example, find a couple with whom we will be happy. We will always depend on what the other partner does or allows to do.
- We also cannot apply for a certain job if we do not have the necessary qualifications. If we are rejected, it will be fair. Therefore, you need to be patient and, above all, “invest” in yourself, in your personal maturity, in practical skills and knowledge.
Sometimes we get tired of waiting for the moment when the good things we think we deserve will finally happen to us. In order for this to happen, you need not to give up, continue to believe in yourself, fight, be receptive and open.
And then what should happen will definitely happen!
In our military life, we often have to communicate with subordinates or commanders, and sometimes there are situations in a conversation when it is necessary not to lose face and tactically correctly get out of the situation, and how by the way the wise sayings of philosophers, great commanders, politicians, famous people come to mind , quotes from books of poets and writers, folk proverbs and sayings that are suitable for a particular occasion and help to briefly and clearly explain your train of thought and your point of view.
Water shapes the flow, using the terrain, the army goes to victory, using the mistakes and weaknesses of the enemy. (Sun Chi).
Subduing the enemy without fighting is the true pinnacle of superiority. (Sun Chi).
Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. (Sun Chi).
Through thorns to victory!!!
There is no point in fighting without the will to win. (General Douglas MacArthur)
Live today, fight tomorrow.
Sappers walk very slowly, but it is not necessary to overtake them.
I came, I saw, I conquered. (Alexander the Great)
Live longer, see more.
Russians don't leave their people in the war.
A person does what he must - regardless of personal circumstances, regardless of obstacles and dangers, pressure - and this is the basis of human morality. (Winston Churchill)
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; An optimist sees an opportunity in every difficulty. (Winston Churchill)
You are needed where you are now. Only what needs to happen happens. Everything starts on time and ends too.
Return to earth, if your brain is clouded and your heart is empty, only by returning to the beginning can we see the way.
The future has one peculiarity, you just have to look into it, as it immediately changes, because you saw it, and this changes everything else. ("Prophet")
Chaos theory":
“The study of a phenomenon that looks chaotic, but has an element of regularity that can be described”, that is, initially the events may seem unrelated, but in the end you can see the structure and all the pieces will add up. (Edward Lawrence)
You don't have to die to understand what life is, but you have to live knowing what death is, but one thing you don't have to do is to play with death while alive.
Definition of beauty: This is the sum of interacting elements, so there is nothing to add, take away, change. (Italian artist Carloti)
Love is not when two people look into each other's eyes, but when they look in the same direction.
Love will suddenly come when you don't expect it at all.
In love, as in dentistry - you have to tear quickly.
Love, endure.
Let the world change you and you will change the world.
If you want the world to change, become that change yourself. (M. Gandhi)
No need to bend under the changing world, let it bend under us.
A bad peace is better than a good quarrel.
Whoever comes to us with a sword will die by the sword. (Alexander Nevskiy)
In life, as in boxing: the main thing is not with what force you strike, but with what force you can withstand the blow.
One cannot live by the laws of this world, but one should not turn away from life in this world.
Life must be lived in such a way that it is not excruciatingly painful for the aimlessly lived years.
Life with its manifestations can be likened to a dream, a phantom, a bubble, a shadow, a glint of dew, or a flash of lightning, and it should be represented in this way.
The right to live is such a generous, such an undeserved gift that it more than pays for all the sorrows of life, every single one.
Do not be afraid that your life must end, be afraid that it will never begin. (John Newman)
Life itself does not mean anything until a person appears who tries to interpret its phenomena.
Anyone who has answered the question “Why live?” will be able to endure almost any answer to the question “How to live?”.
Laughter and sigh, kiss and goodbye - that's our whole life.
Life is like a card game that you play without knowing the rules.
Life is more like a novel than our novels are like life.
There are only two ways to live your life. The first is as if there are no miracles. The second - as if everything in the world is a miracle.
In dialogue with life, it is not her question that matters, but our answer.
Only two tragedies are possible in life: the first is to get what you dream of, the second is not to get.
Human life is like a box of matches: it is ridiculous to take it seriously. Being careless is dangerous.
The only difference between a good meal and life is that sweets are served at the end.
"Life is an effort in time" (Marcel Proust)
The meaning of life is that it has its end.
Life is too complicated to be taken seriously.
Life is not a possession to be protected, but a gift to be shared with others.
The true life of a person is one that he does not even suspect.
Life is such a thing, you don’t know where you will find and where you will lose. (I.P)
Life is so short, before you have time to look back, the years will fly by.
Life hangs by a thread, and he thinks about profit.
Life is measured not in minutes, but in moments.
Temperance is the first step of virtue, which is the beginning of moral perfection. (Lao Tzu)
Large and medium rivers do not hesitate to receive streams and mountain streams in order to fill themselves and thereby be great. (Lao Tzu)
He who overcomes others is strong, and he who overcomes himself is powerful. (Lao Tzu)
The great consists of the small, and the much of the little. (Lao Tzu)
Sleep is the royal road to the unconscious, closer to intuition. (Sigmund Freud)
Sleep is a world without sound. (Zhang Sanlian)
An amazing creature - a woman! Incomprehensible and unpredictable. (Zhang Sanlian)
Women's anger is like water in the sand. First it seethes, makes noise, and then disappears, so you won’t find any traces. (Zhang Sanlian)
Many women manage to capture the heart of a man, but few of them can control it. (J. Joubran)
The true beauty of a woman is in the meekness of her character, and her beauty is in the meekness of her speeches. (Ahikar)
Never run after buses and women - you still won't catch up.
Lying to a woman is ugly, it is beautiful to lie to a woman - this is an art.
The more often a woman moans at night, the less often she grumbles during the day.
A woman is never enough, and a man is content with little
The best way to forget a woman is another woman.
If a woman is silent, then she is trying to think
Women's logic defies logic. (I.P)
Listen to a woman and do the opposite.
Man proposes, God disposes
Trust in God, but don't make a mistake yourself.
Let him who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at me.
Do not rush to condemn people for their past, you do not know your future.
Judge not, lest you be judged.
Each stigma in the cannon.
Anger releases a certain hormone that temporarily lowers your IQ.
It is better to praise a person not in his presence - such praise is dearest to everyone. (Xu Xuemo)
When a strong wind blows, it cools a smart head, and blows the last brains out of a stupid one.
One case is a case, the second is suggestive, and the third is a pattern.
Do not try to fight your shortcomings, try to turn them into virtues.
We like a person for his virtues, and we love him for his shortcomings.
Having made sudden conclusions, an erroneous opinion is formed. (I.P)
The more secretive you act, the more likely you are to achieve your goal.
The line between genius and insanity is determined by the measure of success.
Doubt never hurts as long as it doesn't get in the way of action.
With different principles, one cannot find a common language. (Confucius)
It is better to light a small candle than to curse the darkness. (Confucius)
There is no need to regret the past, because you cannot enter the same river twice.
What is the end of the world for the caterpillar is the beginning of life for the butterfly.
Better to have and not need than to need and not have.
It is not enough to know your own worth, you must also be in demand.
Nobody knows the truth, but everyone knows the truth.
Justice is truth in action.
Learn from everyone, don't imitate anyone.
Knowing the path and walking it are not the same thing.
There is nothing to fear but your own fear.
The snake is dangerous until there is an antidote.
Suffering leads to self-knowledge.
Time dictates the rules. (I.P)
We are not such, Life is so.
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
Cowards do not take revenge, but only fools take revenge at once.
Meet by clothes, and see off by mind.
Not all that glitters is gold.
Truth is born in disputes
Look at the root. (Kozma Prutkov)
For what I bought, for that I sell.
Past acquaintances create more problems than they solve.
Do not share the skin of an unkilled bear.
End justifies the means.
Who does not take risks does not drink champagne.
Risk is a noble cause.
Accuracy - the politeness of kings.
We have, we do not appreciate, we lose by crying.
If it arrives somewhere, then it decreases somewhere.
Do not hit in the face.
For every action there is a reaction
What is good for a Russian is death for a German.
Confessing your illness means half defeating it.
The Forbidden fruit is sweet.
The holy place will not be empty.
In any situation, you need to look decent.
If you want to do something well, do it yourself.
The cat is out of the house, the mice are dancing.
One's own among strangers and a stranger among one's own.
There is no need to envy anyone, you need to achieve everything yourself. (I.P)
We ourselves create difficulties for ourselves, which we then heroically overcome.
Sink or swim
Moscow was also not built right away.
It's time to collect the stones.
Don't forget the past, live in the present and think about the future. (I.P)
There would be no happiness, but misfortune helped
Everything secret sooner or later becomes clear. (Socrates)
Call me anything, just don't interfere with development.
With condoms, like with an umbrella, you can take it with you, no matter how it rains.
If you don't drink, your mind will freeze, and in old age you will be a fool. (A.S. Pushkin)
The game is not worth the candle.
Customs is OK.
Oriental wisdom from martial arts master Bruce Lee:
About life: If you love life, don't waste time - time is what life is made of.
About the target: The worst opponent you can face is an opponent who is determined and clearly aware of his goal.
About glory: Posturing and window dressing is a vision of glory among weaklings.
About cinema: Cinema is a combination of commercial creativity and creative commerce.
About enemies: My main enemy is myself.
On winning: A fight is not won with a single blow. You will have to learn how to take punches or hire a bodyguard. Forget the words "victory" and "defeat" Forget pride and pain. Let the enemy enter you, penetrate your flesh. Penetrate and you into his flesh, penetrate his skin. Let me break your bones. Don't think about security - put your whole life in front of him.
About the truth: The truth has no way. Truth is alive, therefore changeable.
About the heroes: At all times, the end of heroes was the same as the end of ordinary people. They all died, and memories of them gradually faded from the memory of people. But while we are alive, we must understand ourselves, understand ourselves and express ourselves.
About money: Money as such has no meaning. This is just a tool to achieve certain goals, and you need to understand what they can, and most importantly, what they cannot.
About the moment: Nothing exists except here and now.
On defeat: Defeat is not defeat, unless you recognize it as such in your mind.
On nostalgia: Memories are the only paradise from which we cannot be expelled. Pleasure is a flower that will soon wither, and remembrance is the smell of a flower that will last for a long time. Memories live longer than anything else in life. For many years I remember the tree at the time of its flowering, but not its fruits.
On minimalism: Simplicity is the highest level of art.
About self-knowledge: An ordinary person is a collection of routines, ideas and traditions. If you follow this path, you will come to know routines, ideas and traditions - your shadow. You don't know yourself.
About education: Western education is good for one person, Eastern education for another. You can say: "It is better to do one thing with this finger, and others with this finger." But the whole hand is better anyway.
About people's behavior: To get to know someone, you need to see what he is like with other people.
On the materiality of thoughts: What you think about is what you become.
On the inevitability of death: We must come to terms with the possibility of death. It is worth stopping dreaming about eternal spring, then both summer and winter will give happiness.
On fleeting attraction: Infidelity cannot really affect marriage, fleeting attraction to another woman is powerless in relation to such a fundamental thing as marriage.
On how to listen to life: Listen. Do you hear the sound of the wind? Do you hear the birds sing? This must be listened to. Stop thinking. Do you know how water fills a cup? It takes the form of this cup. You have to think about nothing. You have to become nothing.
About teachers and students: Gather all the great teachers in one room, and they will agree on everything with each other. Gather together their disciples, and they will argue with each other in everything.
Genuine happiness is cheap: if you have to pay a high price for it, then it is fake. (Coco Chanel)
How funny to listen to lies when you know the truth...
The most beloved woman is the one to whom a loving man will bring the greatest amount of suffering. (E. Ray)
Do no evil - it will return like a boomerang, do not spit in the well - you will drink water. Do not humiliate someone who is lower in rank, but suddenly you have to ask for something. Don't betray your friends - you can't replace them, and don't lose your relatives - you won't get them back!!!
The highest form of power is the ability to control oneself.
Never draw conclusions about a person until you know the reasons for his actions.
You are so deeply deluded that you are even deluded in the depths of your delusions.
As Munchausen said: "There are no hopeless situations, you have to think!!!"
"To love is to live the life of the one you love." (L. Tolstoy)
Love is like war... Easy to start, hard to finish and impossible to forget...
Knocked down, fight on your knees, you can’t get up, lie down, step on. (V.F. Margelov)
Good relationships are the art of mutual compromise.
I was going to get married - do not pursue the immediate goal, but imagine the end result. (W. Schwebel)
States perish when they cease to distinguish the bad from the good. (Antisthenes)
There must be accuracy in trust! A miss can be fatal.
Advice is not a guide to action, but information for reflection.
Take advice and do it your way. (I.P)
The greatness of a king is in the ability to forgive.
The surest sign of truth is simplicity and clarity. Lies are always complex, pretentious and verbose. (L. Tolstoy)
Remember! Never go back to the past. It kills your real. Memories are meaningless, they only take your precious time. History doesn't repeat itself, people don't change. Never wait for anyone, don't stand still... Who needs it, they'll catch up. Don't look back, all hopes and dreams are just illusions, don't let them take over you. Remember! Never, under any circumstances, give up, go ahead without turning. That's the only way you'll get what you want.
Whatever you give a woman, she will give you more. You give yourself to her - she will give you a baby. You build her a house - she will give you comfort in it. You will provide her with food - she will provide you with a delicious dinner. You give her a smile - she will give you her heart.
The true vocation of each consists in only one thing - to come to oneself, to find one's own, and not one's favorite destiny, and surrender to it internally, undividedly and unshakably.
If you ever want to find a person who can overcome any, the most incredible adversity and make you happy when no one else can - just look in the mirror and say: "Hi!"
A smart choice comes with experience, and a stupid choice leads to it.
Panic is a vulture sitting on your shoulders
In a world woven from chance,
There is a place for happy occasions:
amazing, wonderful,
Something in the fate of changing for the better ..
It is necessary to run thousands of kilometers in order to clearly realize to whom you will go barefoot in the snow, and to whom you will never return.
All women are beautiful, and the love of men gives them beauty.
© A.S. Pushkin
There is only one form of intimacy that does not hinder the development of the personality and does not cause contradictions and loss of energy - this is mature love; by this term I designate the complete intimacy between two people, each of whom retains complete independence and, in a sense, separateness. Love truly does not cause conflict and does not lead to loss of energy, because it combines two deep human needs: intimacy and independence.
© Erich Fromm
Believe. Trust. Gray. Thank you.
People are together as long as they want to be together. Neither duty, nor honor, nor morality chains one person to another. When a person wants to leave, he will leave home, and children, and a dying cripple. Until he wants to, he stays nearby.
When a person wants to be together, none of your shortcomings will stop him. When a person wants to leave, none of your virtues will keep him. No matter how ugly and unattractive you are, there will be someone who will like you. No matter how good and desirable you are, there is someone who will reject you.
If you've been rejected, it doesn't mean anything. You don't get worse or smaller, nothing really bad happens. Your man is in the world, and he will accept you. If you are accepted, one day you will part - not in life, so in death. Treasure what you have, do not regret what you will lose, and do not be afraid to lose.
Rejoice that there is a person who shines for you. Shine yourself: the more light - the less fear, the less fear - the less darkness in the soul. A leaf that wants to return to the tree can swim against the current and fly against the wind. But the tree will not grow it to the old branch.
The more you love, the more love you give, the more remains. If, while giving love, you feel pain or hatred, it means that you gave the person poison in chocolate icing. It is hardly worth demanding gratitude for such a gift.
Let go. Let a person be someone other than a mirror of your love - especially since it is so. To dissolve in the beloved is a rare talent and a rare curse. Be yourself, be worthy, forget about fear - one day it will return anyway. But not today.
Believe. Trust. Gray. Thanks. Do not think about what could be - only about what is here and now, in fire and water, under the stars.
Leave before dead love starts to stink of carrion. Come before the desire turns into an obsession.
What is bought with money is only worth money. What is begged, cried out, taken away and stolen, one day will be taken away a hundredfold. What is given of good will, from the heart, is priceless.
How to recognize your person? Just. You will go towards him and run into him in the middle of the road. He didn't know. You didn't call. You have found. And wherever you move before, you are now on the way.