Lessons in seducing men: from an experienced seductress. How do I meet... (pickup lessons on the example of the video of my real acquaintances!)

19.07.2019

The development of a romantic relationship with a man directly depends on the initial stage, the first few meetings. If the object of your attention does not yet show reciprocal feelings and keeps a distance, knowledge of male psychology will help to “stir up” the situation and make the guy look at you in a new way. Good assistants in attracting men will be poses for seduction and gestures. Yes. Yes, poses and gestures that will certainly arouse the interest of a young man in you, we will consider today. Also, "Popular about Health" offers to watch a video about the seduction of men.

Choose seductive poses

Much depends on the posture of the interlocutor, because, watching a woman, a partner can get the necessary information about you without words and draw conclusions about your attitude towards him. If the goal of a girl is to seduce a guy or start a romantic relationship with him, you should heed the advice of experts in neuro-linguistic programming.

Seduction positions that arouse the interest of men

Sitting comfortably in a cafe or sitting in an armchair, in close proximity to the object of desire, the girl can cross her legs. This position is comfortable and attractive. But the higher the legs are crossed, the more interest this pose causes in the opposite sex. Women's hips look slimmer, and their legs look longer and sexier (by default, you're wearing high heels, not old sneakers). However, it is important not to overdo it here, especially if you are wearing a too short skirt. Otherwise, there is a risk that you will seem vulgar to a young man, which will scare him away.

If you communicate while seated, be sure to keep your back straight. Good posture makes a girl even more attractive, and the correct back curve literally drives men crazy. As for the arms, it is highly undesirable to cross them on the chest. If you take this position, then the guy on a subconscious level will receive a signal just the opposite - he will think that you are closed for communication. Even worse, if a woman closes her palms in the castle. This gesture speaks of isolation and uncertainty, even the presence of some fear and embarrassment. Keep your hands free - put them in front of you on the edge of the table, gesticulate.

If you communicate standing up, for example, you met by chance on the street, then again do not forget about your posture. Your posture should be free, light. Gait is also important - men will certainly evaluate a woman in this aspect. A woman walking with small steps looks most advantageous. While walking, gently rock your hips.

What gestures for seduction will drive a man crazy?

Men love to watch a girl straighten her hair. Slightly push the curls away from the face, it looks feminine. During a pleasant conversation, play with your hair, twisting a strand around your fingertip, and then letting go of the curl. Watching such a cute activity, men subconsciously feel attracted to the interlocutor.

So that your hands do not get bored, and your goal is achieved, adjust the decoration on yourself or the collar of your blouse, while looking at the guy from under the eyelashes. Is there a glass in your hand? Great, move your fingers along his leg, it will attract attention and add a sexy touch to communication. Feel free to make up your lips or powder your nose with a man, this will once again emphasize your femininity and sexuality. By the way, for some reason, the representatives of the stronger sex have a passion for the female wrist. During a conversation, you could gently adjust the sleeve of your blouse, showing off the delicate skin on the inner curve of the brush. If you have short sleeves, play with the bracelet, only gently so that your behavior is not interpreted as nervousness.

Men have a special passion for women's lips. Practice at home in front of a mirror to sensually open your mouth, remember in which position you look especially attractive, and then use this technique. But be careful not to do this often, so as not to seem strange to the interlocutor or suffocating from an asthmatic attack. Smile sincerely and sweetly, listening carefully to a man. Squint your eyes, experiment with your eyes. Do not be afraid to look at the interlocutor for a long time, but still sometimes look away, as if seeing something interesting. Then again return with your eyes to the object of passion.

Light casual touches can lead you to the desired goal. Touch the man's shoulder, removing the speck from it. When passing an object, lightly touch his hand. Such gestures for men will not go unnoticed, believe me.

What gestures are unacceptable if you want to seduce a man?

To prevent an attempt to seduce a man from failing, never use the following gestures when meeting:

1. Do not scratch your nose - this is a signal that you are lying.
2. Do not cross your arms over your chest.
3. Do not pull on your earlobe - the guy will perceive this gesture as if you are tired of this communication.

There are many ways to seduce a man, using different gestures and postures when communicating. But all of them are connected with femininity. Just be yourself, talk sincerely, be nice and fun. Then the chance of success will definitely appear. Do not use rude or offensive language, make derogatory remarks, or use barbs. A man must feel strong, let him become so in your presence in order to conquer him.

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Lessons of seduction

Paris

Usually Madame du Maurier's salon was bustling with men's talk and laughter, but this evening the card table in the corner of the room caught everyone's attention. Behind him, Nicholas Montrose, Earl of Bridgeton, looked at his opponent with ill-concealed disgust. Baron Parkington, a snobbishly dressed snob, spent his whole life looking down on those people whom he considered inferior to himself. Nick usually ignored such representatives of the human race, but for some reason now he had a strong desire to crush this toadstool. And he'll be damned if it doesn't give him tremendous pleasure.

Parkington's beefy fingers suddenly slammed a shot across the table.

Well, Bridgeton? Bet five hundred or leave the game.

The baron's piercing voice got on Nick's nerves. He glared at Parkington and glared at him until he blushed. It is absurd to continue the game; the baron lost almost all the games. Nick should have been happy.

But this was not enough for him. He was as eager to crush the Baron as he was to humiliate him. Trample his name into the dirt and leave it there, turn it into pitiful debris in the stream of life.

“I accept your bet of five hundred, Parkington. Nick reached into his inside pocket, pulled out a sheaf of papers, and tossed it on the table. “And I'm raising her forty thousand pounds.

The Baron turned pale, and the audience gasped as one. Like hungry wolves, they smelled blood and wished to take part in the hunt.

Sweat dripped down Parkington's cheeks and onto his sagging collar.

- Forty thousand? You must be joking.

“I never joke about cards. “He was lucky as hell today, and Nick couldn’t lose. Besides, defeating a man like Parkington was a special treat. No matter how Nick despised the baron, he envied him. After the end of the game, he will pack his belongings and return home to England.

It had been three years since Nick's foot had set foot on the shores of his country—three long lonely years. This thought tormented him, made his throat constrict, crushed his chest.

God, he's getting sentimental. Nick gestured for the servant to fill a glass of Madame du Maurier's excellent brandy. He was eager to return to his homeland, but not because he missed the rainy English countryside. No, he wanted to come back because he was neglected. Nick was forced to leave England under the pressure of unpleasant circumstances, and the memory of this still burned him.

The elegant white-haired gentleman standing next to Nick whispered softly:

“Tempting fate, aren't you, mon ami?”

Nick glanced at the Comte du Lac. He was dressed in a reddish-brown tailcoat with luxurious silver trim, and his thoroughbred face showed nothing but sincere courtesy. He seemed to be an aristocrat to the core, but Nick knew that Henri had neither a title nor an upbringing. This was an impostor who infiltrated high society, comforting wealthy widows and abandoned wives.

A man of high morals would have exposed such perfidy, but Nick considered Henri funny and did not want to refuse his company. In addition, he understood what it meant to be an impostor. Society did not suspect that the state of the Earl of Bridgton did not come to him from old family chests, but was won by hard work, torn from the hands of luck itself.

Viscount Gaillard, a swarthy man of small stature, who took over the duties of the dealer, raised an eyebrow and looked at the baron:

Well, Parkington? The Count bets forty thousand pounds. Do you support the bet?

The baron's gaze was riveted to the check lying on a pile of money. He wanted to get it. Nick could see it in the way his plump, wet hands gripped the cards, the way his pink tongue licked dry, overly thick lips.

“I swear to God, yes!” Parkington gestured for paper and pen to be brought to him. They were quickly delivered and, and he wrote two lines on a piece of paper, then put a sweeping signature. - Here.

Gaillard frowned at the paper.

- What is it?

“Gibberton Hall,” the madman grimaced contemptuously. “My family estate in Bath.

Land ownership in England! Something quivered in the depths of Nick's soul, and for a moment he stared at the piece of paper thrown into the center of the table. A dull pain clenched his throat, and images of damp, foggy morning and green hills running away into the distance came flooding back.

A curse! He had been alone in this life since the age of thirteen, and experience had taught him that emotions were useless. If he returns to England, his decision will be based on reality, necessity, and not on elusive feelings. He must find a home in some secluded place. Where he can spend the last few bright moments of his life.

And they will come much sooner than you might think. Nick looked at the baron's scrawled lines, feeling a dull ache throbbing at the base of his skull.

“I accept,” he said softly. Out of the corner of his eye, he saw the Count shake his head. One of them will rise from the table as a lost, ruined man with nothing left but a name, and that unfortunate man may very well be himself.

The servant refilled his glass and Nick took a long sip. The pain in the eye sockets intensified. It was a sign of the coming darkness. He suffered from excruciating headaches. Those were hours and days of endless suffering, swirling blackness and paralyzing fear. He looked into his opponent's eyes in response to his greedy gaze, cursing the fate that pierced his brain with this torture at such an inopportune time.

- We play.

Gaillard laid the map face up in front of Parkington. The eight of clubs fell on the green cloth, and a discontented murmur swept through the crowd.

Parkington's sweaty face lit up.

- Only the queen and cards older than her can now bring you good luck. A contemptuous grin twisted his overly red lips. “I would love to spend your money, but it will give me even greater satisfaction to be able to tell everyone in London how I won such a sum from the notorious Earl of Bridgton.

Nick looked at the dealer.

- A map, Gaillard.

- Yes, my lord. The Frenchman wiped his palms on his tailcoat, feeling the gazes riveted on him. He took a deep breath to calm himself, then slapped the card on the table. The Queen of Hearts smiled sweetly at Nick.

The whole room exploded with a roar of excited voices. Parkington stared at the map with his mouth open.

- Can not be...

Nick stood up and nodded to the Comte du Lac, who obediently approached to collect his winnings. Henri glanced at Parkington and smiled softly.

- It happens, monsieur. Luck is a fickle creature. She loves many, but is faithful to no one.

The Baron shook his head as if he wanted to get rid of the nightmare.

“I was winning until…” He whistled. “Bridgeton, you bastard.

The Count stopped collecting the scattered banknotes. Gaillard's black eyes widened, and everyone who heard them froze in place.

Nick kept pulling on his gloves.

“My dear parents were legal spouses, so I'm not a bastard in the strict sense of the word. However, if you're questioning my origins... I'm afraid even my mother didn't have a firm grip on the matter.

Parkington got to his feet awkwardly, his face as pale as it used to be red.

- The rules of the game have been violated. I need a recalculation.

The silence became piercing, broken only by a faint, excited hum. Nick shook an invisible mote from his sleeve. Damn them all! They want blood, and he will give them this pleasure. However, he has very little time; the pain in his head increased, and an unbearable heaviness spread over his arms and legs.

Henri gave Parkington a disapproving look.

“Perhaps the baron was mistaken. He's also an Englishman. Of course, he did not want to accuse the count of foul play.

Parkington snorted contemptuously.

Seducing a man is a whole art that one cannot quickly learn on one's own. Therefore, we want to offer you some effective lessons on seducing adults and mature candidates, young people. You will learn what tricks exist to arouse sexual attraction to yourself, what to do if a young man is much younger or old for you, correct or wealthy. We will share the secrets of geisha who can seduce any man.

Some gestures have literally magical powers. With their help, you can influence the subconscious of a man and cause insane passion.

Hair. Depict thoughtfulness and slowly play with the ends of your hair. Sometimes a mesmerized guy will literally pass out watching you play. Turn on his consciousness again, straightening his hair with a careless gesture. All gestures should be done slowly, hinting to the man that you are relaxed and not in a hurry.
Lips. Slightly parted lips, paired with relaxed eyes, have an added appeal. At the same time, lightly lick them with the tip of your tongue, but do not forget about naturalness.
Wrists. This part of the hand subconsciously attracts special attention. Demonstration of the inside of the thinnest part of the arm causes an irresistible desire in a man. Use a bracelet for this. Casual play with them or wristwatches will increase your chances.
Legs. The classic crossover does not need further clarification. Such a gesture is associated with a guy with passion and the desire to receive pleasure.
Facial expression. Languid looks with slightly relaxed upper eyelids will make a lasting impression on a man. Practice in front of a mirror.
Touching your body. Touch your nose, neck, hands. This is where the mirror effect comes into play. Both the elderly and the young will subconsciously understand that a woman expects such touches from him.

You can choose any of these gestures or combine two or more at once!

How to dress for the plan to work

Real geishas take non-revealing outfits (mini-skirts and tops, lingerie). Their trump card is the ability to gracefully walk: wag their hips, keep their back straight, look only forward. All movements must be smooth. To make them interesting, you need to choose flowing clothes, from shiny, iridescent fabrics, without a deep neckline. Openness no longer attracts anyone, the Internet is full of naked bodies available at any moment.

Avoid patent leather over the knee boots, they look awful and tasteless! In them you will look like a runaway from the panel or a brothel. Balance between the overtly sexy and the casual with sandals or high wedges.

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Word magic: quick seduction in a minute

If we are talking about a person you already know, tell us how your body reacts:

I'm on fire;
you cause a pleasant shiver;
I would like to feel your touch;
your look excites me;
everything in your body drives me crazy;
you seem to penetrate me.

Use special words to address a man:

you are my gentle;
affectionate;
Darling;
expensive;
sexual.

Words relating to your feelings should be pronounced especially softly and gently. Do not forget about facial expressions and other gestures.

Do not miss the opportunity to call a man by name. This has an amazing effect on the male subconscious. You can fix the result with the help of unobtrusive compliments. Praise his skin, muscular torso, the beauty of his face, his pleasant voice.

The conversation should use direct calls to action. Gently and playfully, about a minute or two after using the gestures, tell the guy you want to get close to him using the word "want."

Secrets and techniques of seduction

Most of the information we receive through vision. At all times, women have successfully used their eyes to seduce men. A long and close look speaks not only of your interest, but also of your readiness for something more than just a friendly conversation. Also use "shooting" eyes. Practice in front of a mirror and intuitively determine how fast you need to do it.

All gestures and actions should look natural, but do not forget about confidence. Inner doubts can spoil all efforts, so leave uncertainty at home.

Take a natural pose, while avoiding symmetry. An even position (standing and sitting) can evoke associations with school or correctness. Sit opposite the guy, turning slightly sideways to him, while crossing your legs and leaning forward with your chest.

Each gesture individually produces a much smaller effect than the use of combinations. Curve your back seductively. Try to depict movement towards the interlocutor.

You can also use items of clothing or accessories - play lazily with a half-removed shoe on your foot or finger seductively. Choose one or another combination depending on the situation and the mood of the interlocutor. Use your innate sensuality and ability to intuitively understand a man.

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Approach to men of different types

Upbringing, education, age and social status leave an imprint on the minds of guys and determine their tastes and preferences.

If he is much older than you

Those wise by life experience prefer sincere girls. It is not difficult for them to recognize a clear attempt at manipulation. If you want a long-term relationship, try your best not to seem frivolous. An older man understands perfectly well that he will have to deal with your young competitors, so he must see at least some hope for a serious relationship. You can give it if we talk about serious things: family, children, business, career, self-development, politics.

What to do when the "victim" is younger than the woman

If the age difference is noticeable to the naked eye, then a candidate’s long-term relationship is driven by internal uncertainty or the desire to learn something new from an experienced partner. In this case, it is better to emphasize your maturity. Wear a formal skirt suit, talk about serious topics (business, career, work). Guys are attracted to older women who know their worth. Frivolity and too obvious flirting, on the contrary, can scare away.

If it's a wealthy candidate

Seducing such candidates is very difficult. This is due, first of all, to the fact that they always have enough fans. They are aware of the attractiveness of their position and try to weed out too materialistic natures. If a woman is counting on a long-term relationship, then she should let the man know that she is not frivolous, and that money is not the main thing for her in life. You can do this if you order an inexpensive dinner in a restaurant and do not accept gifts on first dates.

How to tame the right one

Seducing the right guy with casual flirting isn't going to be easy. "Correctness" extends to all areas of life, so it's important not to seem frivolous. In conversations, it is best to emphasize how important family values \u200b\u200band self-development are to you. Sometimes such men suffer from excessive pedantry, so your appearance should be appropriate (tidy, clean, if not fashionable clothes, washed and combed hair).

Avoid Mistakes

Choose a behavior model, focusing on the situation and type:

Appearance. All men are disgusted by a sloppy look, so untidiness will always be perceived negatively. Clothing must be ironed and clean.
Accessibility demonstration. For short-term relationships, she will fit just fine, but if a woman is counting on something more, then she will have to demonstrate her seriousness. Try to talk calmly, do not chatter and do not laugh. You can only giggle and smile sometimes.
Vulgarity. Swearing, drinking alcoholic beverages (including wine), frank talk about intimacy will repel a serious candidate. Therefore, be modest: do not sit on the "victim's" knees, do not hug her by the neck. Avoid such close contact.
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When trying to learn how to seduce, it is important not to skip a single step!

We have already talked quite a lot about various methods of seducing men, but the advice first came from representatives of the weak half of humanity. Therefore, all the lessons we have already learned about seducing guys can be considered insufficiently complete. After all, our view on this issue and the view of the guys themselves have differences, which are often quite significant. So let's see what men advise, and what seduction lessons they can teach us.

Seduction of a guy. Male point of view

We will not talk about the one-night stand seduction technique now, because there is nothing complicated in it and special seduction lessons are not needed here. In this case, almost all men cannot remain indifferent to a girl in a mini-skirt and a blouse with a deep neckline, fragrant with the aroma of expensive perfumes. It is enough for such a young lady to throw a sensual look at the guy from under her eyelashes, and - you're done! A passionate night with this young man is guaranteed to her.

It's another matter when it comes to winning the guy's heart and going with him to the registry office. Traditional means of seduction in this case work rather weakly, and more subtle lessons are needed. Indeed, in order to marry a person, it is not enough just to seduce him, he must fall in love with himself. And fall in love not for a month, but for years. Let's not talk about life.

The lessons of seducing a guy for marriage are based on the fact that you cannot force a man to fall in love with you. He can be taught to eat any food, be persuaded to wear a certain style of clothing, cut his hair the way he doesn't like, and even force him to follow a diet. But it's impossible to make a guy fall in love with a girl.

But this does not mean that everything is hopeless if the young man does not spontaneously fall in love himself. The most important thing in this matter is to find out what his ideal life partner is. Forget that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach; representatives of the stronger sex are not so primitive and also have spiritual values. How to find out about them? The girl should take a closer look at the guy and determine how he relates to this or that type of women, how he communicates with them, how he speaks about bitches, "blue stockings", "gray mice" and so on. In addition, it would be desirable to learn more about the guy's ex-girlfriends, about their character, temperament, demeanor.

Based on all these observations, the girl can get an idea of the two female types that exist in the representation of the guy. The first type is women who do not like the young man at all. It includes all the actions, habits, character traits of the fairer sex, which simply bring it to white heat. The young lady needs to take all this into account. For example, if a guy hates smoking women, then the girl should exclude the cigarette in her hand. For starters, at least in his presence. The young man does not digest bright makeup - to make it unobtrusive, does not like girls who are too bold - to behave more modestly, and so on.

The second type is women who have qualities that a guy sympathizes with. There is one point here. A girl should find such qualities in herself, and not strenuously portray until such time as she decides that the job is done. Just to find! Since all the lessons of seduction, prompted by men, clearly show that they cannot stand female pretense. Yes, with the help of pretense, you can interest a guy and even win his sympathy. But as soon as the girl's bluff is revealed, sympathy instantly transforms into antipathy. And then it will be impossible to change something, a rare guy will forgive this kind of deceit. Therefore, if there is no quality in a girl, you should not portray it. Every woman has a huge potential of inner virtues. And the missing quality can be completely replaced by another.

Now - about the manner of communication with the guy. It turns out that the statement that our men like to conquer women, like an impregnable fortress, is wrong! No, there are, of course, young people who like it when a girl behaves like the Snow Queen, and who get downright pleasure from the fact that she torments them. Most men, however, are not subject to such emotional masochism. Therefore, a girl needs to behave with her chosen one as friendly as possible.

This does not mean that a young lady can openly hang herself around a young man's neck, looking languidly into his eyes. So the guy may well decide that she belongs to the category of women of a certain occupation. It is enough just to be friendly and willingly keep up the conversation on the topic proposed by the interlocutor. In a word, the girl should make it clear to the young man that she is interested in him. Men claim that women's interest means a lot to them. And almost half of them fall in love with the fairer sex just because they are friendly. This behavior of a woman is perceived by men as an encouragement and an invitation to action to win her heart.

How should a girl behave after she started dating the one whom she imagines as her future husband? Men are advised to try not to openly show their feelings and give the guy the initiative in developing relationships. As long as these relationships are friendly, the girl herself may well invite the guy for a cup of coffee and offer him options for spending time together. But then, after she feels that the quality of the relationship has become different, more sensual, the activity in their development must be conceded to a man.

Now let the guy himself call, he himself comes up with a reason for the call, he himself invents a reason for talking with the girl for hours. Let him make a date, and he will decide to kiss the girl. Understanding by a man that it was he who showed activity in love affairs, and this activity was crowned with success, has a very beneficial effect on male love.

And, finally, one more man's advice that allows a girl to finally win a guy's heart. After he has a strong sympathy for the young lady and he confesses his feelings, in no case should you behave like this:

To consider a young man as his property immediately after he confessed his love;
Show off a guy, like an expensive acquisition, in front of your girlfriends and acquaintances.

The first pattern of behavior usually disappoints men and pushes them away from women. The second model very quickly begins to annoy, which also does not contribute to the depth of feelings. The girl should remain just as sweet and friendly and, in addition, let the guy know that he has become much closer to her.

These are the lessons of seduction that men themselves teach us. Let's take them into account, and our chances of wearing a wedding dress one day will increase significantly.

Every woman should master the art of seduction, because such a feature is inherent in the weak half of humanity. Suffice it to recall geishas, courtesans, sirens, sexual seductresses knew a lot about conquering even the most sophisticated representative of the male population.

Seduction requires constant work on oneself, one must be moderately liberated, vulgar, bitchy, but at the same time have a sense of tact, weakness and humility. Only by combining such character traits, a woman will be able to seduce a partner.

Step #1. Take care of yourself

Of course, every man first of all pays attention to appearance. You should not assume that the representatives of the strong half sink into the soul, this delusion is extremely erroneous. Even the most cordial lady will not be able to seduce a partner if she is groomed.

Men prefer girls who smell good, take care of their appearance, put on make-up (not necessarily catchy). At the same time, it is important to keep your nails and hair in proper condition, dress beautifully.

It is not at all necessary to apply the entire contents of the cosmetic bag to your face in the morning, use basic products: mascara, eyebrow pencil, foundation, powder, blush. The main thing is that the face is always well-groomed and fresh. Do not neglect masks, do not forget about pedicure and manicure several times a month.

Separately, it is worth thinking about epilation. Many men love it when everything is smooth in the bikini area. Others prefer light unshaven, it all depends on personal preferences. You can visit the master and make a drawing in the intimate area, or remove excess vegetation completely.

Step #2. Choose the right fragrance

Perfume plays an important role in every woman's life. It should not be cloyingly sweet or, on the contrary, oriental (bitter, tart). Choose fresh fragrances that become barely perceptible after 2-3 hours. A man should smell from a distance of 40-50 cm, and not from two meters. Explore all kinds of fragrances, visit perfume shops regularly to find exactly "your".

Spray the hairline behind the ears with eau de toilette (do not cover the skin with perfume), as well as the wrists. At the same time, you need to use perfume 30-40 minutes before the intended meeting.

You also need to pay attention to body odor. Make it a habit to regularly take a bath with bombs, add sea salt, essential oils. Use a cream soap or shower gel with scented additives such as ylang-ylang, patchouli, lavender, honey, almonds, etc. Use a body lotion after your shower to make your skin velvety and smooth.

Open your closet, review your wardrobe, eliminate clothes that don't fit perfectly. At the stage of seduction, the emphasis should be on femininity, while it is not necessary to dress like a call girl. Prefer translucent blouses that leave room for fantasy at the sight of a see-through lace bra. Over a miniskirt, choose a dress with a thigh-high cut that allows you to see the edge of the stockings when you walk.

As for tops, let them expose part of the abdomen and back, while the shoulders should be closed. Choose the clothes that emphasize your femininity. Shoes on a high platform and heels like girls from a strip bar prefer sexy stilettos with a closed toe. Wear tight jeans, be sure to accompany them with a belt to highlight your hips. In the autumn-winter period, wear boots made of suede above the knees or made of leather, but up to the knees.

If you and a man are at an above average level of communication, purchase sexy lingerie in a sex shop, take a picture in it, send a picture. Ask a simple question: "In what color is it better to buy a combination - in black or red?". Wait for the other person's reaction.

Step number 4. Gain confidence

Of course, there is a certain type of men who are attracted to such modest girls. However, most of the strong half love confident girls who act on the principle of "came, saw, seduced."

To gain self-confidence, you need to pay attention to primary factors, such as hair color, haircut, weight. Change your hairstyle to a more stylish one, discard braids and ponytails. If you don't like the reflection in the mirror, shed a couple of extra pounds or sign up for a gym. It is important to put yourself on full alert before taking decisive action.

To create an image of a confident and lustful female, give people a reason to talk about you. For example, tell your friends that you had sex with a hot man the day before. Dissolve gossip at work, let colleagues know that you are dating a brutal macho older than you. Intrigue, but don't look easily accessible.

Step number 5. Desire it and be indifferent

After you got in shape, revised your wardrobe, became an order of magnitude more confident, it's time to act. Seduction includes anticipation of pleasure, so you need to act slowly. Play with your mood in “you want, but you won’t get it”, that is, first be available, and then abruptly become indifferent. The main thing is to mislead a man, fueling interest and bewilderment.

An example of a game is the following: during the next telephone conversation, let your partner know that you want to spend the night with him. Do not talk about it openly, flirt, hint at a possible development of events. After a certain time, end the conversation first, referring to important matters. At the same time, promise to call back only if there is free time.

Step number 6. cause jealousy

Following the intrigue, you can start flirting. When meeting, focus on femininity: throw your hair back, lift the dress to the stocking line so that the lace is slightly visible. At the same time, it is important to look natural, uncomplicated.

For example, a partner invited you to drink, sit at the bar or table, raise your index finger up with the words “waiter”. After the employee pays attention to you, move your hand behind your neck and seductively walk it down to your chest. Do not look at the man who accompanies you, the actions should be natural. You can also cross your legs, then continue to communicate with the waiter, making an order.

Such a game will arouse the admiration of a man, he will show a little jealousy. From the outside, the companion will observe your femininity, which manifests itself in ordinary things, such as ordering a drink. Don't try to be sexy, vulgar, vulgar. Act like a sweet girl with a passionate spark inside.

Stick to a certain line of conduct, have interesting conversations, but at the same time, take your time to expose your personal and sexual experiences with men to the public. You should hint to your partner that at this stage you are interested in him specifically, and not in that sexy guy who looks in your direction with desire.

Step number 7. Be open

A man is attracted not only by beautiful and passionate natures, but also by girls who are open to dialogue. Do not try to drag your companion into bed, make him crave it himself. The sexual aspect takes place not only in terms of physical, but also spiritual intimacy.

Let your companion know that you are similar to him. Enthusiastically tell funny stories from life, be open and comprehensively developed. Older men are especially interested in ladies who can keep up the conversation on absolutely any topic, be it history or politics.

Watch the timbre of your voice, do not squeal, do not shout certain phrases loudly. The voice should be deep, penetrating, and laughter should be sincere. Treat the interlocutor with respect, listen to his stories with enthusiasm, but do not rush to agree on everything. Recalcitrant girls are much more interesting than quiet gray mice.

To seduce a man, you need to make it clear that he means a lot to you. Try to get into the soul of the interlocutor and provide a couple of practical tips that will solve the problem right away. Be positive, friendly, sincere and open, but don't overdo it.

Step number 8. flirt

No seduction is complete without flirting. The ability to cast a piercing glance or a seductive smile and at the same time wink comes with experience, it must be constantly practiced.

Seduce a man playfully: first look over his shoulder, as if not noticing, then slowly look at his eyes. Hold at this point for 3 seconds, start smiling slowly. Bite your lip, curl your hair around your finger, wink, and start walking away slowly. The result will not keep you waiting.

After a man stops you, focus on him. Coquettishly say hello, start an entertaining conversation. At the same time, jump from one topic to another, creating intrigue. Try to use body language, respond to compliments, but don't be easily approachable.

It is important to let the interlocutor know that you are open to the next step. For example, if a man invited you to dinner, agree with the hint that later you will drink champagne in a cozy atmosphere. Be proactive, but don't overtly want to have sex.

Step number 9. Use non-verbal cues

Experienced seductresses know that non-verbal signs can conquer anyone. Such gestures unconsciously make the partner understand that the lady is interested in the further development of events.

Show a man your indifference by biting your lower lip or twisting a curl around your finger. Sitting in a cafe, you can cross your legs and play with a shoe, lowering it on your toes in a simple way.

After you catch an interested male look, make an inconspicuous gesture that emphasizes sexuality. Pull your hair back, then gently run your palm along the opposite shoulder or neckline (the blouse should be with a cutout). Such a move will rivet the attention of the interlocutor to the seductive part of your body.

You can also sit and casually stroke your thigh, drawing your eyes to the sexy legs. On an instinctive level, a man will follow your movements. Later, he will dream of the velvety skin of seductive thighs clasping him during lovemaking.

Step number 10. Shift to frank conversations

Nothing turns a man on like a woman's revelation. Each representative of the stronger sex wants to know what the girl is thinking about at a certain moment. Start with simple things, share your innermost thoughts and desires regarding vacation or the future.

At this stage, it is important to get close to a man in order to have more entertaining conversations later. For example, you can say that you want to have a small cozy house by the sea, and then specify "in order to swim naked at night." Such a move will push the man to respond, he will become more liberated.

At the next stage, you can move on to sexual conversations on the phone. Choose for a conversation at night, when all emotions and desires are as full as possible. Play the honest answer game: take turns asking each other questions, agree to answer them frankly. In turn, ask about something provocative, whether it's a favorite position in sex or a preferred place for intercourse.

It is easy to seduce a man if you constantly practice and have sufficient knowledge regarding psychology. Take care of yourself, pick up the scent of perfume, review your wardrobe. Stay confident, flirt, flirt.