What to do to keep the guy interested. How to fall in love with representatives of different zodiac signs? To begin with - about the most important thing, namely: how you can captivate a man

06.07.2019

Why do men of some women do not want to let go, constantly run after them, try to keep them by any means (by offering money, getting married, etc.), while other women, the maximum they can count on, is meeting for sex without any special obligations?

What is the reason?

It is clear that these are two different types of women. Some can captivate a man seriously and for a long time, for life, others - at best for one or two months, maximum - for six months.

Let's try to describe the main features that distinguish the first women from the second.

The first sign is that a woman cannot stand a man's brain. (does not exhaust the soul)

The removal of the brain is the first, second and third reasons that men name when they break up with a woman or, at least, begin to communicate with her less. (You can call it differently, but the essence is the same)

What is this at least strange behavior on the part of a woman? (strange for men, of course 🙂).

How does it manifest? Let's say a man doesn't do something or does something wrong. That is, he did not do something around the house, forgot something, did not think it out somewhere, was late, said the wrong thing, or, on the contrary, kept silent. (and this is all pretty typical behavior for an untrained man)

But back to the usual man's jambs. A man is trying to prove to a woman that he hasn't done anything terrible, that it's a common thing to forget something or do something differently than she wanted. That enough an apology on his part, and you can move on.

A woman on such words, when carrying out her brain, starts even stronger. Or offended to be silent for several days. She demands repentance from a man, almost begging for forgiveness. And so in a circle. The man is trying to prove that he has not done anything special, and the woman, seeing that he does not understand, raises the degree of the conflict by a couple more points. And all because of some nonsense.

But when it comes to "taking out the brain", then always, from the male point of view, the reaction of a woman to the usual, standard joint of a man is completely disproportionate to this joint.

It’s as if a woman took 10 minutes longer to get ready than a man, since she needed to put on makeup, and then the man would yell at her for 2 hours about how bad it was. At her apology, he would have yelled even more and shouted that she does not understand how important it is to get ready quickly).

It is clear that the constant "takeaway" of the brain leads to a break in relations. If this is a marriage and breakup is simply impossible, then the man begins to somehow defend himself. That is, he stops doing something in principle, ignores the requests of his wife, which ultimately leads to the same divorce, it does not matter on whose initiative.

Why do such "takeaways" happen on the part of a woman? After all, such behavior clearly does not increase her chances for the man to be carried away by her and not let her go.

The main thing, of course, is the difference in the psychology of men and women, but not only that.

In other words, what is super important for women, men seem to be a common mistake for which you need to apologize and forget. (and vice versa, of course)

But let's repeat what I wrote already, probably in 20 articles, no less.

The world of a woman is a relationship with a man, with friends, the importance of creating a family. Not her whole world, of course, but very important.

The world of a man is work, sports, friends, money, cars, etc. and including a woman and a family.

In other words, what is important for a woman is very often not so important for a man.

Didn't you call? But he was at football or was busy at work, and she knew about it.

Late? But after all, his project is on fire or study, and how she does not understand. (Priorities are different)

What to do?

It is clear that the easiest path lies somewhere in the middle. It is almost impossible for a woman to completely remake herself. So a man, if he loves a woman and wants to build a relationship with her, must somehow adjust to the woman and master some important moments for her. I don't know which one it is for you. But don't let there be too many of them.

Maybe it's not to be late, maybe call once every half day, maybe something else.

But now we are not talking about men, but about women.

To put it simply, women who can't stand the mind of men (they can stand it less) on every occasion are rare and men value such women and try not to let go.

And here, as usual, I want to warn about the other extreme, when a woman is completely indifferent to a man. She doesn't care if he's late or not, or better if he doesn't come home at all.

She is all the time busy with something, then yoga, then dancing, then girlfriends and there is no time and / or desire for a man. This is also extreme, and this is not what I mean.

The point is that a woman appreciates a man, wants to be with him, but his brain cannot stand him if a man makes some ordinary life mistakes. Such women, I repeat, are rare. And, as a rule, it is these women who are happy in family life. Because they know how not only to captivate a man and keep him, but also know how to create a state of love in a man for many years.

So let's briefly summarize a small summary. Women who cannot stand a man's brain and at the same time are in love with him are rare. Try to be one of those. That is, think about the reasons for which you have a scandal. What are these reasons? How is a man justified?

Can you not react so intensely (or not at all) to a man's mistakes and, no less important, quickly forgive him when he says "Sorry" or something like that?

Play this several times in your head. I assure you, if you can change your behavior, then your relationship with men will move to a whole new level.

Of course, it makes sense to talk to a man about what is important to you and what you do not want to change. (Again, if these are not calls every 20-30 minutes)

And again, here you need to warn about the extremes that I spoke about above. That is, about indifference to a man.

Let me remind you that taking the brain out of a man's definition is a completely disproportionate and irrational critical reaction of a woman (scandal, silence, etc.) to some of his mistakes and in subsequent attempts by a man to explain that this is a common thing, an intensification of the conflict.

In primitive cases, it looks ridiculous (100 calls a day with complaints), but in more subtle cases, women often do not even notice such a feature of communication.

The second is self-respect..

I have already written quite a few articles and books both on my blog and on the site "Sunny Hands" about women's self-esteem. But in this article I cannot but touch upon this topic.

Well, an ordinary man will not keep a woman who has no self-respect inside. (Exceptions just prove the rule)

What is women's self-esteem and how is it manifested?

- A woman behaves in about the same way, regardless of whether she likes a man, she is in love with him, or she likes him moderately.

If a woman does not have self-esteem, then the following error occurs. For example, if a man is caring for a woman, but she especially does not like it, then she can send him, does not think about him, goes about her business, etc.

But as soon as the “man-prince” appears on the horizon, the behavior of a woman with low self-esteem changes radically. ( I want a prince to be my bridegroom) She already looks at him with devoted eyes, dreams of him constantly, responds to the slightest signs of attention, easily forgives and does not even notice disrespect for herself.

However, a woman with adequate self-esteem and normal self-respect does not look at her feelings, not at what kind of man (handsome, rich, etc.), but only at how he treats her. She looks and evaluates a man by his actions.

It doesn't matter if she's in love or not. Her behavior does not change much from this. If a man treats her well, then she treats him well. If a man treats her badly, then even if he is a prince, she will not flirt with him or even communicate at all.

- A woman has her own life.

No matter how much I write about it, I still have to explain it in detail at trainings and consultations. (information on consultations)

Many girls are waiting for a certain man. And when such a man appears, she tries to "hang" on him with her problems, her feelings (love), her friends and something else.

And to some extent this is correct, since a man is usually a little stronger than a woman psychologically, financially, etc.

In fact, a man wants to join the life of a happy, confident woman who copes with her problems on her own (mostly copes, at least), and not constantly pull a woman who has “eternal problems”.

This is women's self-respect.

And when you are like that, the man will gladly join you, will gladly help you with his time, money, and everything that he has. But if you are waiting for a prince who will sort out a bunch of problems that you yourself do not solve and are not even going to solve, since you are hoping for someone who will solve your problems, then it will be very difficult to captivate a man.

— A woman gives a man a right to her life.

A man is not a woman's property, even if they have a bunch of children, a family, joint property, etc.

Everyone has the right to their own thoughts, time, disagreement with each other's opinion, the right to their mistakes, etc.

For a woman with self-respect, this is not even negotiable. She herself has her own inner world, which is partially closed for a man and, accordingly, she recognizes such a right for a man.

If self-respect is not enough, then often no rights are recognized for a man. (as well as for itself) Consequence - conflicts, in fact, from scratch. "You don't spend your free time that way, you think not that way, you are friends with the wrong people, you read something else, etc."(although sometimes the woman does not touch or hurt in any way)

— A woman with self-respect looks after her appearance, home, etc..

It is foolish to deny that self-respect is respect for oneself and, in particular, for one's appearance. And how can a real woman respect herself if she does not care about her appearance? It's pretty tricky unless a bunch of inadequacy is included. (I am fat and with bad clothes, but men love me because I am smart and confident.)

I won't talk a lot about self-esteem in this article. But let me remind you that a man will never love a woman seriously and for a long time, whose self-respect is at zero. (Unless he himself has a deep bottom and a minus).

And vice versa. Often a man falls in love with a woman who has self-respect and ceases to notice any flaws in appearance, character, etc.

The third is the right man.

The right man is the third stone in the foundation of capturing a man so that he will never let you go.

It often happens that a woman finds a man whom she likes for one reason or another and tries to build a relationship with him.

And rightly so, if this is the right man.

But there are quite a few men with whom it is almost useless to build relationships or this is a task of incredible complexity. Better to avoid them and you can save yourself years of time and a ton of energy.

Who are these men who are not suitable for a serious relationship? I wrote about these in great detail in my book. "23 mistakes with men", this article is brief.

- Men who only want sex.

Men who want to drag a woman into bed on the first date are normal men and you can build relationships with them, even if the man thinks it is unrealistic. The main thing here is not to agree to sex at the first meeting, but to gradually build relationships.

But if all this is too rude, frankly, with manipulation by a man, then this type is clearly not suitable for a long-term relationship.

- Men who don't particularly like a woman.

I'm talking about a man's initiative. If he does not show initiative, if he does not call himself, does not organize a date, etc., then this is hardly a suitable man, or at least difficult.

And here, of course, it is necessary to encourage the initiative of a man, otherwise it may turn out that a man with a normal initiative, but does not want to seek the "snow queen". For example, if a man is running after you, organizing an evening, flowers or something else like that, then you at least smile, kiss him on the cheek, or something else like that. (let yourself be kissed)

- A man is clearly beyond the social status that you correspond to.

A man with many times more income, handsome, young, interesting, etc., than those who usually look after you, is usually not suitable for developing a relationship. This mistake is often found in beautiful women. Many men pretend to have sex with beautiful women. Relationships will be ready to build anyway, approximately equal in status and value to men or slightly higher. An attempt to build a relationship with a man from a too different level is usually doomed to failure.

- Men are psychopaths.

I wrote a book about this "23 mistakes with men" and I will not write here.

- Men - Don Juans.

A very complex type, it is better not to even start. I also wrote about them more than once, including in the book.

- Men with obvious and strong bad habits. Alcoholism and other isms. I think it's clear here even without decoding.

- Men who clearly say they don't need a relationship... The reason is not important. It can be a difficult recent divorce, personality traits, etc.

If he says, then most likely he is. Rarely do men lie on this matter. Do not try to break and remake a man. Waste your time.

So, captivating a man is not that difficult. You just need to follow the basic principles. Let me remind you that this is a man's “brain can’t stand”, self-respect and the selection of a man suitable for you in terms of status and social position.

Best regards, Rashid Kirranov.

Take a look at the corner, translate it to the nose, look at the subject of interest, swing the crinoline ...

Previously, the art of seduction was taught from adolescence. And now some girls do not even know how to captivate a man and that for this there are many effective tricks in their natural arsenal.

There are many ways to interest a man you like. And we will not dwell on one thing, we will fire from all the guns! Well, let's start hunting, girls.

Language of the body

We start with eye contact. Believe me, having mastered body language, you will feel like the master of the situation.

We look at the interested man for a few seconds. Caught a return glance? Smile, try to put maximum warmth into it. Turn away slowly. Repeat after a few minutes. In general, a benevolent smile and cheerful laughter, even if it is not addressed to him, always attract attention. After all, it is easier to establish contact with such people.
Let's turn to the classics: it always works. A woman straightening her hair with light movements of her hand ... With a thoughtful look, sliding her fingertips along the edge of a wine glass ... Demonstrating her neck, tilting her head back or tilting to her shoulder ... Slightly shaking her foot or shoe ... Barely licking or nibbling lips ... These gestures excite the male consciousness and are able to intrigue no less than outright flirting.
Train your posture. A naturally straight back attracts attention, and if you tilt your head a little more towards the interlocutor, you will demonstrate a clear interest in him.
Become his mirror. Repeat some of his movements. But, of course, this should not be very conspicuous. You still act on the subconscious.
And one more thing: remember that each of us knows how to read at least a little the thoughts of others. Therefore, give freedom to the energy of thought. For example, when passing by an interesting man, look into his eyes and say to yourself what you would like to tell him, for example, that he is adorable and you would like to be in his arms.

Now let's try to attract attention by talking

You can start with a neutral theme, while at the same time emphasizing that it was he who was chosen to carry out the mission from all those present. Ask to open a bottle of water or drop a scarf in front of him.

Get to the point faster. Expression of thought is a priority, not trying to impress.
Your voice should sound gentle, confident, without harsh emotional coloring. Not very loud, but not quietly, so that the interlocutor does not have to strain trying to recognize your words.
How to captivate a man you like: Discussing anything in a negative way is not the best choice. Gossip, bad news, the imperfection of the world - he hardly needs you to discuss these topics. Complaining, telling long, tearful stories about yourself is also not suitable. But if you radiate positive, you will become a welcome interlocutor.
People, especially men, tend to have a little selfishness. Show wisdom: talk about what is interesting to him. Not versed in the subject? Better yet, ask questions. This is a win-win.
I'm sure you don't need to be reminded of this, but still: swear words, slang, ridicule at others - this is not about you, right? At least at the stage of hunting for a man, this should be avoided.

Appearance - where without it

Clean, well-groomed hair and nails are a woman's business card that is worthy of attention.
Do you have a gorgeous figure? Great, highlight only one virtue: either the chest, or the back and shoulders, or the hips. But do it tastefully, don't go overboard. A large side cutout on a long skirt will accentuate long beautiful legs much more effectively than a vulgar short skirt.
A woman in heels is able to conquer a representative of the opposite sex. With just one remark: a girl should be able to walk on stiletto heels as if it were an extension of her legs, and not circus stilts.

Bright makeup in the middle of the day may attract male attention, but clearly not the way you want it. Give preference to natural makeup more often, men like it. But if the situation allows, for example, you go to a party in a club, you can choose brighter colors. Red lipstick for men will make your lips stop looking, but remember that this color has many shades. Just pick up yours.

And remember: your flaws, especially if you skillfully brighten them up, a man, most likely, will not notice. But he will definitely pay attention to self-doubt.

How to understand that a man is attracted by another woman

The signs that I will list at the very beginning are obviously indicative of sympathy for the other. But nevertheless, we will note them, because it happens that even among the most obvious pessimists, hope dies last and they find a thousand excuses for the fact that he did not show simathy, which, of course, he has only for her.

The guy is engaging in conversation with you, but the most frequent subject of conversation is another girl.
If he is distracted while communicating with you and one gets the feeling that he is not with you at all, and does not let go of the phone ... It seems that there, in the smartphone, someone interests him more than you.
He is not trying to study you, to look you in the eye.
On your attempts to captivate him, he responds with complete disregard.

Common mistakes

There is a category of women who use the bed as bait or as a manipulation weapon. Why is it wrong? Because you will definitely attract male attention, only then do not be offended that he has a relationship exclusively with your body. Yes, and you will attract obviously narrow-minded guys.

At the same time, it is also not worth getting too used to the role of an inaccessible woman. Treat the man the way you want to be treated. If you want him to do for you what he did not do for others, you also have to keep up. Never danced striptease, but does he like it? Why not give it a try? I suggest watching a video in which a girl teaches the secrets of a beautiful dance for her beloved:

Excessive ambition from scratch is another common mistake. The chances of attracting an interesting partner increase if you constantly improve. Men notice this.

Light shyness is popular with men. But being too shy is a mistake. If you want a relationship for a long time, remember: every man is looking for a confident woman.

Obsession - you wouldn't like that either, right? And he won't be thrilled if you dial his number every 7 minutes, bombard him with pen-poke romance, and meet him before and after work. Show attention, but don't be confused with imposing yourself.

You have the right not to know something, but not having your own opinion means being boring. Agree with a man in everything? No, very few people need it.

One last thing: don't get carried away by married men. As a result, you will be the loser.

It is important to realize: if he gave up too quickly and began to look for a replacement, you need to be grateful that you avoided an affair with a weak man.

Every day on the way there are more than one man, some throw interested glances and give compliments of varying degrees of innocence, but this is where it all ends. So how to captivate a man in order to really interest him? Many people think that an open dress and tall stilettos are enough to immediately begin to detect the signs of a keen man. But this is only a way to catch the first glance, in order to gain more sustainable interest, you will have to acquire not only beautiful clothes.

How to conquer a man?

Before making an offensive plan, it is worth learning more about the object of interest to you. Because the ways how to captivate a free work colleague and a married man cannot but differ. Of course, it is not necessary to draw up a complete dossier, but it will not hurt to get at least some information about him or his interests. Well, then you just need to demonstrate your interest, trying to stay with him more often in an informal setting or communicate on abstract topics. In the case of a colleague, a lunch break or meeting at a smoking area might work. And the following guidelines will help you avoid the most common mistakes.

The signs of a passionate man will tell you that all your efforts are not in vain. For example, changing the timbre of your voice to a softer and more velvety one when communicating with you, the desire to attract your attention, looking for excuses for meeting you again. Sometimes, when talking with an interesting girl, a man shows signs of nervousness, loses his pace

All the most relevant information in the article on the topic: "Psychological techniques how to interest a man." We have collected a complete description of all your problems.

How to achieve a guy unobtrusively and as naturally as possible? In addition to being attracted by appearance and personal qualities, they will help to achieve the goal basic psychological techniques to interest and fall in love with a man... Directed both towards the desired object and towards yourself, beloved.

Be, not seem to be…

How to get the attention and love of the guy you like? Through appearance, because men love with their eyes (as opposed to women who love with their ears). Appearance does not have to be magazine. Men like spectacular women, but this does not mean that you should look provocative, and sexuality should not be confused with vulgarity. Moreover, having sex with a guy is not the same as making him fall in love with you.

According to psychological studies, with the other sex is extremely disliked by obsessive ladies... Therefore, when wondering how to get the attention of a man, remember that first they arouse interest in him, and then the hunter. To make it seem that the initiative for rapprochement came from him.

In order to achieve a man, you need to arouse interest in him.

What do guys like about girls?

What to become in order to achieve not only attention, but also love? How to get a guy interested? Of course, there is no limit to perfection, but here's what you need to strive for:

Pleasing to the eye healthy, well-groomed, neat girl, tastefully dressed... And this means - in clothes that emphasize the merits and modestly hide the flaws. Makeup should be, but not the war paint of the long-awaited love of the native. And, preferably, it should not be striking how much time, effort and money was spent on creating the image. In appearance, we strive for harmony and naturalness. The development of aesthetic taste is important, it speaks of the mind.
By the way, have an intelligent, well-read girl with a broad outlook, there are much more chances to achieve the guy of your dreams, since the sexiest organ - the brain - will be able to attract a man. An intelligent woman will be able to choose from dozens of psychological techniques that are important and appropriate in her case. Will support the conversation on various topics, charm with wit. Stupid girls are preferred by insecure or cynical men who want to use this stupidity. Although no one forbids using the guy's desire to feel smarter.
Positivity, sense of humor, femininity, naturalness in behavior pleases all guys. Psychologists of the largest dating club in America, after conducting a customer survey, found that 40% of men will not continue relationships with those who behave rudely and rudely with the staff of cafes or restaurants. So guys expect gentleness and kindness from girls.
When a woman confident in myself, then the voice sounds seductive, and the eyes sparkle bewitching, and the gait becomes exciting. Such self-confidence does not depend on external data and intelligence. To foster faith in yourself, psychologists advise the following techniques:

Look at your reflection with “loving eyes”. Find the 10 best qualities and remember them more often. Loving yourself not only for them.
Identify and accept your negative qualities. Do not engage in self-criticism, but think about how they can be replaced with positive ones. Calmly and constructively deal with failure - to draw conclusions and learn.
Don't compare yourself to others.
Communicate with positive people who accept you for who you are.
Live and act according to desires, and not follow the lead of someone else's criticism and fears.
Help others. This will also allow you to appreciate yourself.
Smile often, not be afraid to look directly and kindly in the eyes. Rehearse posture, gait and gesture in front of the mirror. Monitor your speech with confidence and clarity.

Men love smart and well-read women.

That is, you need to recognize yourself "in all its glory", not to feel any negative emotions towards your person and to show all this with your appearance. It will be easier to fall in love with a guy with adequate self-esteem..

A friendly, open-minded, easy-going, well-groomed, healthy girl without bad habits will definitely attract attention. But it is important to be, not to seem. After all, the first impression is by no means a guarantee of a long-term relationship.

Too much self-esteem can lead to painful reactions, aggression and obsession if you fail to achieve your goal.

Psychological methods of influencing a man

After the attention is attracted and the acquaintance has taken place, you need to try to find common interests... It is easier to do this if the guy is studying with you, working or communicating in the same company. You can just make inquiries. And then use the knowledge to find the key to the guy's heart:

To develop a scenario for an "unexpected" meeting (in a sports club, at a party, concert).
To study on the Internet information about the make of his car, profession, favorite hobby, music and films to create common topics in conversations.
To match his idea of a "dream girl".

To "consolidate" the effect and continue communication, experienced heartbreakers recommend using basic psychological tricks in relationships:

Call your target by name more often..
Learn to give the "right" compliments... Everyone loves praise, but not flattery. Although self-centered men and flattering words are taken at face value.
Do not criticize and do not make the interlocutor incompetent.
Ask for lightweight help... Men love when they recognize their superiority in any issue. If you get rejected, don't worry. Try taking over time. Psychologists say that if a person refuses, then a subconscious feeling of guilt will force him to compulsorily fulfill a smaller request the next time. Better yet, create a situation for the guy to offer to help you.
Enter your personal space carefully when communicating(approx. 50-100 cm) so as not to cause irritation. Reduce this distance with each subsequent meeting.
Try to be honest when answering questions.... But at the same time, flirt nicely. Don't be trivial.

Psychological techniques will help you find the key to a man's heart

When it becomes clear that "the fish has swallowed the bait" it is worth trying the ignore trick... But only so as not to offend and not push away. You can refuse your next date under the pretext of being busy (remember to come up with a believable legend so that you can calm the confused man later), be cold and distant. Or flirt innocently with other guys. A hunter in a man will start up, feeling that the "prey" that was in his hands is slipping away. This is the psychology of influencing a man.

How do you know if a guy likes you?

When the company laughs at an unexpected joke, the person unconsciously looks at the one who interests him. If you meet your eyes at this moment, there is no doubt of mutual sympathy.
If a guy often looks at you and tries to keep you constantly in his field of vision.
He tries to cheer, surprise, do something pleasant, asks and listens.
Glad to meet you, makes appointments himself.

How do you get the guy you love if he doesn't want a relationship? First you need to make friends with him. After all, friendship is "falling in love on a pause." But try to use the term “friend” less often and not emphasize that the relationship is purely friendly.

If a guy puts you in a “dead friend zone”, don't be upset. This will make it possible to get to know him better. And, if the desire to win the heart of the chosen one does not pass, you can: cause jealousy, use a "friendly kiss" or just confess your feelings. By the way, psychological tricks in order to return the ex also begin with this trick: first of all, you need to establish friendly communication.

You can try NLP techniques to achieve a guy who doesn't want a relationship at all.

Love is blind, but we want to conquer the guy by all means

Neurolinguistic programming techniques

To "catch" a man's attention for a long time, you can try to use the basic psychological techniques taken from the methods of neurolinguistic programming (techniques of anchoring a man in psychology):

Neuro-linguistic programming is a set of techniques that affect the subconscious. Some people possess the simplest of them unconsciously - the so-called. born manipulators. There are even techniques for controlling a crowd or public opinion using NLP tools, they are difficult to learn and use. Although some psychologists consider NLP to be a myth.

Sympathy arises between people who are similar in some way... In psychology, this sense of trust is called rapport. You can achieve it:

The definition of "points of contact". Identical interests, hobbies, place of study, birth immediately bring people together. Find them or create them. Unobtrusively draw the attention of the guy you want to achieve.
Mirroring. When there were no common themes at once, you can simply implicitly copy gestures, posture, and breathing rate. In conversation when answering, repeat part of the question with the same intonation. But do not go too far, so that the man does not think that he is being teased.
Accession. Use the same vocabulary, pronunciation, take opinions on some questions, listen carefully, agree and nod.

Most of the time they act unnatural to please a guy. showing "the best version of themselves" exaggerate their merits. Men mistake it as a challenge or an indication of their inconsistency. Before you tell the story of your life, you should first create a comfortable environment for the interlocutor so that he opens up and speaks out. The ability to listen is sometimes more valuable than the ability to shine with erudition and subtle peace of mind.

You can't tell everything about yourself at once. Let the man speculate and embellish the image to his taste.
When talking, be sure to monitor the reaction of the interlocutor. This will give you the opportunity to stop in time if the conversation goes in the wrong direction.
Only by observing a person for a certain time can one learn to “read” him. Breath and eyes are especially informative.

Do not tell a man everything about yourself at once, let him speculate and embellish your image

When the rapport is created and the interlocutor shows that he feels comfortable, in a spiritual moment you need to "set an anchor"... You can not cause the peak of emotions yourself, but take it from the memory of a man, asking him to talk about joyful moments in life. To do this, you need to enter your personal space before the spiritual uplift. And then just touch the back of the head, forearm, elbow ... To a place that is not quite ordinary, but easily accessible. You can repeat the "anchoring" another time. This technique means that subconsciously the guy will remember that your presence is pleasant, and you can remind him of this associative feeling with a touch at any time.
Using emotion to influence subconscious desires... Up to anger. But this should be a verified operation: to get a person out of himself and stop in time, so that, calming him down, take the upper hand over him. Many people, after a flash of anger, are influenced and influenced by the desire to make amends. Mild natures also react to someone else's rage directed at them.
Try to charge a man emotionally... So that he only with you always feels an uplifting mood.
If a young man has some kind of failure, console him... Leading to the idea that no one except you understands him. So you can become irreplaceable in his life.
Reception of repeating the same ideas in different words... And, perhaps, it will turn out to inspire that the only love of his life is nearby.

Anchoring techniques for men and women are essentially manipulation

Conclusion

However, manipulation is still not the method that should be used in love affairs. After all such techniques are a kind of violence against the subconscious of another... You should be honest with your loved ones from the very beginning. And the relationship between the manipulator and the "victim of the experiment" is neither open nor equal. Although, admittedly, covert manipulation is part of many relationships.

What if you can't win the guy's love in any way? Stepping back and learning from this is the best thing you can do. Under no circumstances should you run after him. Do not take it for pity. Even if such a relationship does take place, they are unlikely to please for a long time. Indeed, instead of remembering how a man beautifully courted and sought you, only his own intrigues and psychological techniques will be remembered. Love, on the other hand, should be a miracle. A miracle can be expected.

How to get a guy? Basic psychological techniques

For years, ordinary people, scientists and romantics of all stripes have been arguing about what love is and where it comes from.

Nobody managed to get accurate information on this matter. Therefore, there is no clear answer to the question of how to fall in love with a man. However, there are ways to increase the chances of your own success.

How to please a man?

To awaken in him a keen interest and sympathy is the number one task. Falling in love with a man to madness is easier if you act correctly from the very beginning:

Be light and sweet. Bad mood, fatigue, or lack of sleep are of no interest to anyone. A man longs to see a charming companion by his side, devoid of problems and worries. Of course, this is a fantastic character, but it is quite possible to pretend to be one.
Be unapproachable - Do not pretend to be a rebellious wild doe or be deliberately rude. Light remoteness, slipping coldness and even outright indifference heat up the interest of men. Sometimes it is worth "throwing firewood" on your own, flirting or showing concern.
Don't give up right away "Every man is a hunter by nature." This commonplace phrase is the main secret of the stronger sex. For most of them, there is nothing more beautiful than imagining themselves a Hero, rushing to kill the dragon, conquer the tower and rescue the Princess. In practice, of course, everything is less romantic. It should be remembered that a fortress that surrendered too quickly does not remain in memory.
Respect your own “I”. Self-love is an indispensable condition for a healthy relationship in the future. This is not about narcissism, but about reasonable self-respect. You should not bend over and indulge all the desires of a man, but it is also wrong to deliberately emphasize independence.
Have hobbies and hobbies. An interesting person will never be left alone, much less alone. Cross-stitching, reading good literature or learning foreign languages not only develop a personality, but also make it possible to interest and fall in love with a man.

What kind of women do men like?

For each product, sooner or later, there is a merchant. However, some feminine traits are rightfully considered the most popular among men. For example:

Femininity. Perhaps the most valuable thing in the image of a girl is her softness and warmth. To fall in love with a man, you should avoid loud speech, angular movements, heavy gait.
Well-groomed. Shiny hair, satin skin, neat nails and pleasant scent make a woman attractive.
Good manners. To fall in love with a man, you must be polite not only with your beloved, but also with those around you.
Education. The ability to keep up a conversation on different topics will be a definite advantage.
Naturalness.
Extended hair, meter-long eyelashes and an excessive amount of makeup on the face repels the stronger sex.

Women's pickup: 10 ways that work flawlessly

If, despite the efforts spent, the man never made the first step, then it is worth moving on to active actions.

The main idea that distinguishes a women's pickup truck is how to fall in love with a man so that he thinks that the initiative belongs to him. This significantly complicates the task, but does not make it impracticable.

Consider 10 ways to meet and communicate:

A simple method is to find a young person you like on a social network. On the Internet, people are easier to contact, and rejection is not so painful. In addition, having studied his page, it is quite possible to draw a conclusion about how to fall in love with a man by correspondence.
Call for his knightly qualities. It will take some ingenuity here to fall in love with a man. A broken heel, an umbrella forgotten in the rain or a heavy bag - you can use whatever comes to mind. A real knight cannot leave a girl in trouble.
Come up with a story. We were going with a friend to the theater / to the exhibition / to the cinema (underline the necessary), and she got sick. Of course, it would be completely wrong if the tickets disappeared. It doesn't matter that a friend doesn't even know about the planned event. A bit of acting talent and voila! The date has begun.
To be in the right place at the right time. If a young man walks his dog in the park every morning, then he can accidentally catch his eye. For example, start jogging in the morning, walking your four-legged friend, or reading a book on a bench.
Ask for directions: This is a reason not only to turn to a man, but also to walk around the city with him.
Create an awkward situation - A risky way based on provocation. You can pour over the object of adoration of coffee or touch his car with your cars. However, this should not look deliberate, in addition, it can lead to a negative reaction from the man.
Start a conversation about the weather, nature or the properties of substances - it does not matter. The main thing is that the topic is interesting and unobtrusive. For example, in a supermarket, you can ask a young person about his food preferences, citing difficulty in choosing.
Mistake. Sometimes you can "be identified." To rush to hug a person, complaining about a long separation. This becomes a good reason for further conversation.
Prove yourself first. A way that bypasses all hints and kills on the spot. Just inform about your sympathy in person, by SMS or during a telephone conversation. It scares some, but others love it.
Share interests.
If he loves football, then you can "accidentally" be next to him in the sports bar at a match of your favorite team. It is not far from hugs after a goal is scored to more sensual touches.

To solve the problem of how to fall in love with a man, 10 ways that work flawlessly are perfect. They can be used one at a time or immediately in combination.

Neuro-linguistic programming is a common technique for making personal contacts. A popular way to fall in love with a man is the NLP technique, which includes:

Mirroring. The similarity is intuitively sympathetic. By repeating gestures, movements and facial expressions, you can easily fall in love with a man.
Do not strive to please, but try to provide comfortable communication. Often, attempts to emphasize their own merits look like banal bragging. It is better to listen carefully and emphasize interest in the conversation.
Evoke pleasant associations.
Better to start a topic about hobbies, happy moments or funny occasions. In especially joyful moments, touch the subject of adoration. This leads to the fact that the girl is associated with joy.

Here are some more tips on how to make a man fall in love with you. Psychology advises:

not be vulgar and intrusive;
observe personal space;
respect the personality of a man;
don't talk too much.

Can you fall in love with yourself again?

If the relationship with the young man is over, but the feelings remain, then this can become a serious problem for the girl. Unrequited feelings lead to the search for an answer to the question of how to fall in love with a man again. The following techniques are known:

Work on yourself. Shedding extra pounds, tidying up your hair and head, and getting into education are great ways to improve yourself. Often a man, seeing changes, returns himself.
Induce jealousy. An ambiguous social media post, a picture of a bouquet, or a date with an old friend make it possible to fall in love with a man again.
Remind the past. Romantic music, old movie tickets, joint pictures will refresh the memory of how good it was together.

How to fall in love with representatives of different zodiac signs?

Many women treat horoscopes with great trepidation. Indeed, the stars have a significant impact on personality and character. How to fall in love with any man, based on the sign of the zodiac, we will consider further.

Aries

The representative of the fire sign is famous for its stubborn character. How to fall in love with an Aries man:

Don't show your interest. Subtle hints, meaningful glances and other signs of attention are allowed. However, they do not have to be too explicit to fall in love with a man.
Do not suppress the leader in Aries. Such a young man wants to be the first in everything and always. It is worth emphasizing the uniqueness of a man and not entering into a fight with him for the podium.
Allow yourself to be pursued. Aries rarely retreats, and the "forbidden fruit" is a real magnet for him.

calf

This sign is an example of calmness and tolerance. He does not like fuss, obsession and rudeness. How to fall in love with a Taurus man:

Femininity, femininity and femininity again. Taurus, like no one else, appreciate calmness, tenderness and gentleness.
Putting family first. Men of this sign love children and are focused on creating their own nest. Only a girl with similar values is capable of falling in love with a man.
Share interests. Taurus desperately needs the support of a companion in all their endeavors. He is looking not only for a wife and mistress, but also for a faithful friend.

The best couples of the zodiac signs

Twins

A difficult man, distinguished by inconstancy and frivolity. It is difficult to guess his mood: he is changeable, like the wind. How to fall in love with a Gemini man:

Have an amazing sense of humor. Gemini is a big hunter to laugh with the company.
Be sociable. The man of this sign is extremely talkative and requires developed communication skills from his companion.
Be crazy. In the head of the Gemini, incomprehensible processes occur, his thoughts may seem eccentric or strange. Such a man wants to share his crazy plans with his beloved.
Be sexy. Intimate life means a lot to him. Openness and willingness to experiment can help a man fall in love.

Cancer

Such a man is vulnerable, sensitive and closed. It requires a special approach. How to fall in love with a Cancer man:

Be correct. Rough jokes, sarcasm, or ridicule can be painful for Cancer.
Support him. Praise, care and affection are necessary for this man in huge quantities.
Be romantic. Cancer is a subtle nature. He loves to gaze at the starry sky, enjoy the sound of the surf, or dine by candlelight.
Be patient. His indecision and shyness can become a stumbling block in a relationship. Rushing cancer is fraught, the best way out is to wait.

a lion

This representative of the feline family imagines himself the king and center of the universe, which allows him to conquer it in the shortest possible time. How to fall in love with a Leo man:

Flatter. Many and often, to the point and without. You need to praise his appearance, intelligence, behavior, friends and even the color of the toothbrush. It is impossible to over praise Leo. In response, he will wear a lady of the heart in his arms.
Let him be # 1. Leo is always the main one in a relationship. Even if this is not so, then under no circumstances should he guess about it.
Do not prevent him from shining. Leos love to be the center of attention. Trying to get in his way, the girl runs the risk of becoming one of his enemies.

Virgo

Virgo is a grounded sign that does not recognize emotional outbursts and flying in the clouds. How to fall in love with a Virgo man:

Thinking reasonably and sensibly. The opinion must be substantiated and reasoned.
Avoid extremes. You shouldn't use bright emotional accents or tell expressive stories.
Many girls are wondering how to fall in love with a man from a distance. With Virgo, this number rarely passes - he must carefully evaluate a woman in a personal meeting.
Don't emphasize sexuality. Excessive eroticism will only scare him away.

Libra

Such young people constantly hesitate and doubt. How to fall in love with a Libra man:

Don't be jealous. Libra's habit of comparing often leads to the appearance of other women on the horizon. They should be treated calmly.
Demonstrate your positive qualities. Any victories should be immediately reported to Libra. He should know that the girl already in the first grade read faster than her peers or drank the most tequila at the prom.
Conquer. Yes, yes, these men love to act as the cherished female trophy.

Sagittarius

Sagittarius is attracted by a bright and well-groomed appearance. How to fall in love with a Sagittarius man:

Be cheerful. Beeches and bores have no place in the life of a representative of this sign. Such a man himself has a light disposition.
Don't be serious. Sagittarius loves laughter and playfulness. With a serious lady, he will quickly get bored.
The main secret of how to make a man fall in love with yourself even more is not to take him seriously. Sagittarius is a lot like a child and the relationship requires it.

Zodiac signs compatibility in relationships

Scorpio

Scorpio is attracted by active and independent women. How to fall in love with a Scorpio man:

Be mysterious. Scorpio loves a secret in a woman. He won't even read an open book. Aerobatics is to keep the intrigue for years to come.
Be rebellious. A young man of this sign does not appreciate meek ladies. He needs a storm of passions, he longs to pacify his companion.
Be passionate. It's about all aspects of a relationship: scandals, sex, or everyday conversations. Scorpio does not tolerate dryness and insipid conversations.

Asking the question of how to fall in love with a married man, it is worth realizing that Scorpio rarely leaves the family. He highly respects his choice and can react aggressively to any attempts to destroy his life.

Capricorn

Capricorn is neat and kind. How to fall in love with a Capricorn man:

Be gentle and kind. Treat plants, animals and children with warmth.
Be humble. Capricorn does not tolerate defiant behavior and bad manners.
Do not compare. Capricorns are very jealous. You should never talk about other men in front of him.
Another way to fall in love with an adult man of this sign is to be naive. Capricorn appreciates childish simplicity.

Aquarius

Aquarius is a well-known lover of the original and non-standard. How to fall in love with an Aquarius man:

Be a little crazy. Aquarians appreciate strange behavior and appearance. They love creative experimentation, bright hair and an asymmetrical cut.
Be effective. You need to look not 100 percent, but 200 percent. His companion should shine.
Surprise. Changeability and fickleness - here are some more secrets of how to fall in love with a male boss or just a familiar of this sign.

Fish

Pisces is a manipulator man, how to fall in love with this difficult sign:

Be calm. Pisces suffer from mood swings, they should be accepted humbly.
Appreciate his freedom. The young man hardly decides to marry and does not tolerate pressure.
Support him. Pisces constantly need affection and a kind word.
Another way to fall in love with a Pisces man is to be romantic. Representatives of this sign love to give gifts made with their own hands, appreciate poetry and are able to perform a serenade under the window of their beloved.

Useful video

When answering the question of how a man falls in love, not a single practicing psychologist will give an exact answer. Male love depends on many factors. The video from this article can help with practical advice:

Conclusion

Most girls instinctively flirt and use a variety of seduction techniques in a natural way.
This issue can be approached more analytically. The key to how to fall in love with a man is male psychology. Studying it will allow you to quickly understand the main levers of influence on the stronger sex.
Whether to believe astrology is a personal matter for every woman. However, the character of a particular man is often difficult to standardize within the framework of the zodiacal type.

Hello dear readers! Mutual romantic feelings are a tremendous value, which, unfortunately, does not occur as often as we would like. Sometimes, in order to win over a guy you like, you come to make some extra effort. Today I would like to talk about how to fall in love with a man, what type of psychological techniques can be used for this.

About anchors and how to draw a man to you

Of course, the ideal outcome of building a relationship is strong affection, love, concern, and respect. Everything, of course, is mutual. But, unfortunately, none of this can be formed, caused, provoked (say whatever you like) in any technical, psychological or any other way. Therefore, let's immediately discard unnecessary and even harmful illusions that prevent you from seeing the true picture of the world.

But it is quite realistic to try to strengthen the connection and make it more positive, pleasant for both you and him. This is exactly what we will work on!

One of the methods that allows you to win over your partner is the so-called "anchoring". It is an associative connection that provokes in a person the emergence of specific sensations and memories.

An example of an anchor would be, for example, the smell of a rose. Imagine that as a child, the scent of these flowers very often hovered in your home, since your mother was crazy about them. Rose-scented soap, Mom's French perfume with a subtle sweet note of rose, rose jam tea that you drank with the whole family on cold winter evenings.

And now, after already 20-30 years, if you catch only a couple of notes of that aroma, you immediately remember your mother, parental home and the warmest, brightest, kindest feelings awaken in you. You pick up the phone, dial such a familiar, such an important number for you ... "Hi, Mom, how are you?"

Now imagine that the anchors and associated feelings that dictate your need for some action can be absolutely anything! Colors, names, timbre of voice, music, tactile sensations - the list is endless. But the coolest thing is that you can anchor yourself and others on your own. In particular, his beloved.

The task at the same time will be to form in his head a psychological link "my girlfriend - a bunch of positive moments - a bunch of positive emotions - a desire to be around." How to do it? I'll tell you!

How it works in practice

Thinking how to make a man love you, you need to develop a whole strategy, no matter how funny it sounds. After all, it will be necessary to act on several fronts at once.

Smells.

They reach consciousness earlier than signals from other senses. This is why scent is one of the first things you should pay attention to. Moreover, the choice of perfumes that your young man will like is the simplest thing that you have to do.

It is very important that your apartment always smells good. Moreover, it is desirable that, in addition to perfumery aromas, culinary aromas periodically also live there. I am sure that any guy will be pleased to come to the house, where delicious smells of freshly brewed coffee and pastries await him. And if it also smells like a specially prepared dinner for him, then this is generally super. In the house itself, everything - from the towel in the bathroom to the bed linen - should smell clean and fresh.

Atmosphere.

Representatives of the stronger sex are expected almost from childhood to be masculine, decisive, responsible, efficient, etc. And over the years, this burden only becomes heavier. Therefore, it is extremely important for a man to feel that his woman gives him the desired comfort, peace, kindness, care, tenderness. It is with these words that you should associate with him.

When meeting you, he should feel that he is resting mentally. Never start to sort things out from the doorway, give more affection, try to be softer and more accommodating. Remember that the wisdom of a woman is not to notice male nonsense. And those disagreements that you will periodically arise, try to resolve as delicately as possible, without hurting his self-esteem.

Outwardly, you should be associated with grooming and grace. Healthy hair, neat manicure and pedicure, radiant skin, sparkle in the eyes, soft or mischievous smile, good clean, tidy clothes to fit.

Tactile sensations are also very important. Therefore, try to wear something that is pleasant to touch more often - smooth cool silk, soft fluffy wool, thin cotton, openwork lace.

Communication.

Not sure how to make a guy fall in love with you in correspondence or in real life? For starters, be outgoing, open, and friendly. You, of course, can take a course for such a daring, sharp-tongued young lady, who is not so easy to approach. But the fact is that not everyone wants to fight for your attention, so it's better not to risk it. Be kinder and simpler.

It is worth learning to listen to your man, encouraging his stories with approving comments. But it is better to demonstrate your intellectual level without fanaticism. Smart girls are always liked, but arrogant nerds are undoubtedly annoying. And, of course, good humor and positivity of thinking will only be pluses.

By purposefully forming in your partner a persistent association with himself as an object that he likes to see, hear, smell and touch (the latter is in the measure of the development of relations), you will definitely win him over!

Until next time and all the best to you! Yours Yuri Okunev.

Elena Kuznetsova, director of the Vladimir dating agency "I and You", family psychologist, consultant on interpersonal relations, revealed some secrets of communicating with men - mainly advice related to communication by phone, via SMS and the Internet.

1. "I couldn't speak"

No need to check your phone every minute for fear of missing a call from your boyfriend. On the contrary, it is worth playing a little with a man and not picking up the phone for a couple of hours. However, it is imperative to follow the rules of this "game" and, after a long pause, call back yourself so that the gentleman does not take offense that you ignore him. Speak with a good reason why you didn't pick up the phone. For example: “I didn’t hear the call because I was in the pool”, or: “I was in training” ...

The mechanics of this psychological trick are simple. A man who could not get through to you begins to worry about you and, thus, there is an emotional attachment.

“He's worried. He thinks more and more about you. So he would have phoned you, talked, found out everything for himself and switched to his own affairs. But the conversation did not take place, and the man cannot let go of the situation and do his job. He worries about the woman he likes. Plus there are throwing: “Where is she? Why is she silent? Maybe she’s with someone ”… There is an emotional attachment, and the man swallows the“ hook ”more strongly, the psychologist states.

At the same time, Elena Kuznetsova warns that the technique is good only at the first stages of building relationships, and should not be abused. The man will just start asking you what time you can call, since you are so busy, and the intrigue will disappear. In addition, if the girl suddenly does not pick up the phone at the designated time, this can have a bad effect on the further development of the relationship.

2. Answer all SMS from the newly made gentleman briefly

Men generally like it when ladies answer them briefly and to the point. But when a representative of the weaker sex embarks on long explanations, she is often "buried" in emotions, and the partner does not understand the concept of the stated.

3. Before answering the very first SMS from a boyfriend, wait at least two hours

In this case, the psychological reception will be similar to the reception with missed calls.

4. SMS or Internet correspondence should not take too long

If your relationship is just beginning, and only one or two dates have passed, you do not need to "hang" on the phone for the whole day. SMS or Internet communication should be short, so as not to offend the interlocutor with "ignore", but not drag on for two or three hours, otherwise you risk getting bored with the man. Remember the tales of Scheherazade: to intrigue, and then tactfully complete the dialogue, so that the man is eager to continue communication, and in person.

In this case, Kuznetsova advises to adapt to the partner, to feel him. If the boyfriend asks about something, "leads" the topic, just react - a woman should never pull the blanket over herself. If a lady has questions for a man, they need to be voiced, but observe correctness and measure. If the chosen one likes to chat, do not interrupt him in mid-sentence with the message: "I went, I need to take the pies to my grandmother." By your neglect, you will simply offend the gentleman.

But clear signs that it is necessary to quickly curtail the conversation may be as follows: the man began to answer dryly, or does not answer at all, and sends only emoticons. That is, there are no more words left, the interlocutor is on his last legs. It is better not to bring him to such a state and say goodbye immediately, as soon as the topics discussed have exhausted themselves.

"Long correspondence can nullify the desire to meet a girl in person - if she is so tired, even without being around, then what will happen during a date?" - says the psychologist.

5. Do not make your online diary from social networks, posting hourly photos of what you are doing at the moment

An open demonstration of your life kills intrigue and mystery. If at first a man may be interested in watching you, then pretty soon he will get bored with it, because he will know everything about you - what time you get up, how long you brush your teeth, what you eat for breakfast, and so on.

Another disadvantage of the "Internet Demonstration" is that a man, having studied the photographs, may consider your pastime empty and worthless: you drank coffee with one girlfriend, went shopping with another, met with a third at the cinema. Plus, the fan may be jealous, because you are not with him, but with the girlfriend with whom you see every day.

6. Messages after midnight at the first stages of dating should be prohibited, because serious girls are already asleep at this time. Even if it's not true

There should be a taboo on late correspondence at the beginning of a relationship. It's still important to take care of your reputation. But as soon as the novel began to actively gain momentum, you can chat with your loved one even until the morning. All of this is appropriate. Nobody canceled romance.

7. No need to "live" on his page in social networks and constantly comment on posts and photos

Everything should be correct, polite and dosed. Do not stand out from the background of other users and focus on the fact that "I am his girlfriend."

8. Do not use a lot of emoticons in your correspondence.

Emoticons are a great way to more accurately express your attitude to a situation, because it is not always clear by correspondence. However, do not overuse the "emoji" icons, especially if your partner is reserved and does without them. Try to keep emoticons to a minimum if you can't do without them.

9. Intrigue in moderation

A woman, of course, shouldn't be easy prey. To "hook" a man, you need to intrigue him, however, it is important not to overdo it. Be mysterious, but at the same time a little predictable. The boyfriend wants to feel feedback and self-interest. If you overdo it with intrigue, keeping a man in the dark about whether you will come on a date today, will not come, whether he can see you tomorrow, or not, you will lose. It is important for a representative of the stronger sex to know that all his efforts to conquer find a response in the soul of a beautiful lady. Otherwise, the man becomes uninteresting, and he switches to someone else.

If you have questions to psychologist Elena Kuznetsova, you can ask them by writing a letter to the editorial office of AiF-Vladimir:

To the question "How to interest a man?" there are many answers. But it all depends on your situation.

Establish communication

You can start communicating with a stranger in several ways:

Show feminine charm

There is no escape from various female "chips":

To follow the rules

Take your time with sex

If you fulfill his sexual fantasy immediately, then most likely your further communication will stop.

Firstly, he will think that you are behaving with every guy you like, and secondly, his hunting interest will simply disappear (unless you show such miracles in sex that he cannot refuse in the future, however no one can be sure).

Don't hang around your neck

No one wants to pick an apple off the ground (even if it just fell). It is not interesting. An immeasurably greater desire is evoked by the juicy fruit at the very top of the tree.

And all because of its inaccessibility. This analogy is used by men in relation to women. Be modest, do not allow your hand to crawl under your skirt on the first evening, do not look at him with a coveted look.

Remember: no matter how you treat him, he should be the hunter in the relationship.

Super lover

Now your task is to interest in bed. If you do not know how you can conquer him in this regard, read interesting articles on the Internet on this topic, watch erotic films, chat on the forum. In general, so to speak, borrow the experience of others.

In principle, both lovemaking after a long prepared romantic evening and spontaneous sex can take place here. The main thing is to be gentle, proactive, think about your partner.

Important: You do not need to immediately demonstrate to him all your talents and skills in this area: he will misunderstand you, sex can be compared to a vinaigrette, and you will have nothing to surprise him with next time.

How to interest a man

Married

You will get the attention of a guy who has a girlfriend / wife by following these rules.

Don't flirt openly with him, but show that you like him.

Okay: but do not refuse his help, do not avoid his presence, smile sincerely.
bad: try to touch him every time, wink, vulgarly demonstrate the charms of your body, etc.

Your communication should be easy.

Don't push yourself openly.

Okay: ask him for help (do not forget to thank and praise him after rendering a service to you), take his phone number, ostensibly so that you can quickly contact him to resolve any issues, etc.
bad: set him up against his wife, exposing himself in an advantageous position, ask him to accompany you home, and then go in, “have tea,” etc.

And further:

try not to talk to him about his family;
Show him your weakness (but do not overdo it with obsession);
always be positive (so he will relax mentally with you).

By sms

To interest your beloved man by correspondence, you need:

At school

For this you need:

Adult

To interest a man older than yourself is as easy as shelling pears:

demonstrate to him your weakness, helplessness (these men love to be dominants);
sincerely praise him for something;
emphasize his talent, skill in something;
be humble and feminine;
remember: initially you are a sexual object for him, so arouse a violent desire in him, but do not surrender immediately;
flirt like never before (but be humble).

In the Internet

Nowadays, it seems that in order to interest a guy from a distance, it is enough to go to the Internet and like his avatar. However, in this case, you must be sure that he will keep his attention on your person for at least a few minutes.

For this:

look good in photos;
have a fairly varied album (not only "Me and the mirror", "Me and a friend", "Me and my lips"; post photos that you took during your holidays, sports competitions, cooking, a holiday, outdoors, with friends, at school, etc.);
decorate your wall as it should be: no vanilla reasoning about what love is and what, in your opinion, a guy should do in a relationship with you; here different jokes, funny pictures, perhaps a little vulgarity are more appropriate ... 😉

When starting a conversation, stay original: find interesting topics for communication, joke around, show your optimism.

On the first date

If this is your first meeting, then you should:

By conversation

This is where you need your word handling skills:

What phrase can intrigue

What question or phrase can interest a man? Turn on your imagination and follow the situation. Check out the examples below.

Rich

Absolutely all rich men are confident in themselves, because they believe that money in this world is everything, including luring women. Attracting their attention is easy (especially if he is a bachelor), but keeping it on yourself is already much more difficult.

To do this, you need:

Younger than yourself

Such a man is young and hot. His attention, like nothing else, is attracted by the beauty of the female body, passion, sex. It is very easy to seduce him by starting a persistent flirtation with him. He does not need to demonstrate his modesty.

However, in the future, keep in mind that it is quite difficult to keep a young guy near you for a long time by just making love.

Former

You can again interest a man with whom a breakup has already taken place, you can only achieve a certain success in something.

To do this, you need:

be positive;
look as beautiful as ever;
have an excellent reputation among men (attract their attention, but be inaccessible to anyone).

This will be enough for your ex to regret not being together. However, do not forget about one thing: in order for him to observe all your changes, you need to maintain a connection and a good relationship with him.

Clever

If you are really interested in what he enjoys (chemistry, chess, breeding worms), then be sure to demonstrate it. This similarity will be a huge plus for you.

BUT! Never pretend to be with this person - be yourself, otherwise he will quickly "see through" your fake and disappointed in you.

Praise such a man, emphasize how you admire his mental abilities, etc.

Important: usually flirting with such men is not the most effective way to arouse special interest in yourself.

Act differently: open up to him almost completely - become an advisor, support, talk about your life, be interested in his affairs, etc.

Colleague

To get started, you need:

stand out among other employees (appearance and, preferably, efficiency, intelligence);
get a good reputation;
attract maximum attention to yourself (offer an interesting project or create another situation where everyone will revolve around you).

Further, when you have met everyone, act cunningly: start asking about the man you like those colleagues who will definitely convey your conversation to him (but you need to do everything as if the news for you that he learned about your sympathy is a complete surprise) ...

After that, he will surely wake up an unrestrained interest in you. Take him "lukewarm": invite him somewhere, ask for help with work matters, etc., or expect an initiative from him, which, most likely, will not keep you waiting.

Always be yourself... Your task is to present yourself to your real self, so you do not need to come up with ways of behaving. Feel free to open up.
Don't create negative emotions with your behavior. For example, if a force majeure situation has happened, you do not need to lose your temper, give up cigarettes and drinking in large quantities, avoid swearing, discussing someone's personalities, etc.
Be a good conversationalist... You must not only talk, but also listen. If the problem is the opposite, you should prepare for the upcoming meeting (come up with sample dialogues, select topics, questions that will help support the conversation). Do not "gasp" or "gasp", do not speak loudly and indistinctly.
Know how to behave in society... To do this, it is enough to look from the outside at your manners of behavior and conversation, know the rules of etiquette, control your gait, posture while sitting, but do not forget to remain sincere!
More humor and an optimistic outlook on life... These are the qualities that absolutely all men appreciate in a woman.