Preparing for the new year in 30 days. How to prepare for the new year for adults and children. Play Secret Santa
You can decorate the whole house for the New Year in just 6 steps. We have prepared for you a selection of the most interesting, in our opinion, decorative techniques that will help prepare the interior for the holidays.
When we think about how to decorate our house for the New Year, the first thing that comes to mind is a decorated Christmas tree and luminous garlands ... Boring! This year we invite you to take a new approach to the design of the festive interior: find an alternative to traditional accessories and add bright decorative touches. To do this, you have to "pass" only seven steps.
1. Turn your fridge into a Christmas gift
To really be original, start decorating your apartment for the New Year not from the living room, but from the kitchen. Just imagine how elegant an ordinary refrigerator will look, tied with a wide gift ribbon. Such an uncomplicated decor looks extraordinarily impressive, original and fashionable. You can find a few more secrets of a fashionable New Year's interior here.
Our opinion:
You can continue the ribbon theme in the New Year's decor of the kitchen by decorating cabinets, chair backs and cornice with strips of fabric. In addition to the aesthetic, this method of decoration has another important advantage for the kitchen space - it does not interfere.
2. Make an alternative tree
If you are not alien to feelings about the sad fate of coniferous green beauties, you may well refuse to install a traditional spruce. An original wall panel made of balls, beads, garlands and ribbons will become a stylish (and most importantly - humane) alternative to a living tree. For more decorative techniques that will help you create a festive mood without using a Christmas tree, read here.
3. Make exclusive Christmas toys with your kids
Nothing helps create a festive mood like joint creative activities in which all family members are involved. Inspect your drawers and cabinets for old buttons, beads, ribbons, or burnt out light bulbs. All these seemingly unnecessary things will help you make unique Christmas decorations that will look great in any room. More ideas for creating homemade Christmas decorations can be found here.
4. Paint the window in the children's room
Window painting is a spectacular decorative technique. Now there are many options for paints on glass and sets for creating temporary stained glass windows.
However, if you are not a professional artist, do not rush to paint the glass of the living room or kitchen. But the children's room is perfect for creative New Year's experiments. And even if the snowflakes turn out to be a little clumsy, and the figure of Santa Claus resembles a drawing of a third grade student, the young inhabitants of the room will still be indescribably delighted with your idea, especially if you allow them to take part in it.
5. Equip a decorative fireplace
Thanks to Hollywood films, a fireplace decorated with socks and coniferous branches has long become a symbol of the New Year holidays, no less bright and recognizable than a Christmas tree. If you have a fireplace - congratulations. Otherwise, we recommend equipping the apartment with a decorative fireplace portal, which, by the way, has even more extensive decorative potential than a functioning fireplace.
6. Use a themed color scheme
Changing the color palette always entails changing the mood of the interior. Therefore, in order to give your house or apartment a festive mood, it is necessary, if possible, to fill the rooms with traditional New Year's color combinations associated with snow, pine needles, Santa Claus costume and so on.
If the basic shades of the interior are not combined with the white-green-red decor, it is enough to use festive color combinations in the design of the New Year's table. Read more about this and other secrets of festive table setting here.
The first month of preparation for the New Year is over. There is not much left before the magical night. December is a month of active pre-holiday fuss, pleasant chores, gifts and long-awaited rest. Let's make a plan for preparing for the New Year in December.
We give gifts and greeting cards. The list of those whom you are going to congratulate on the New Year and to whom you want to give a New Year's gift has long been compiled, the gifts have been bought. It remains the case for small - to please their loved ones. The timing of congratulations depends on the location of your addressee and varies between December 1 and 31. Last but not least, congratulations to those with whom we plan to spend this New Year's Eve.
Try to congratulate the rest in order of priority: first, those who are in another country and congratulations are supposed to be in the form of a letter or parcel. Further those who live in other cities. And so on ... In the last days of December, you can congratulate close relatives and friends from social networks, whose message will reach you instantly. The main thing is not to forget anyone and not offend anyone with attention, but you already have a list ready, right?
General cleaning before the holiday. We always try to prepare thoroughly for the New Year. From compiling a list of gifts to preparing a holiday menu. New Year is always a kind of symbol for us, personifying rebirth. No wonder there is an opinion - the New Year is a new life, so let's meet it cleanly. Two or three weeks before the holiday, it is worth starting a general cleaning of the entire house. Why so early? 
In a few days we have to decorate the Christmas tree and bring New Year's beauty in the apartment - I would like everything to sparkle and sparkle with cleanliness. You can superficially clean up even a few days before the celebration, and during the general cleaning it is necessary to put things in order in all cabinets, drawers - i.e. where we rarely look during the year. Wash the curtains, clean the chandeliers. This usually takes about three to four days.
We are experimenting with the New Year's menu. There is still plenty of time before the main holiday of the year, so if you are not sure about a particular dish, it’s time to rehearse it. So you will take into account all the nuances of your menu and appear before the guests as a born culinary specialist. If you are not celebrating the New Year at home, you will still want to please yourself and your family with delicious treats - after all, the New Year holidays are still ahead ...
Decorating the house for the holidays. The sooner we start active preparations for the New Year, the longer the atmosphere of celebration and magic will accompany us. Start decorating your home a little earlier than usual, let the fairy tale in and feel like a child again. If, as a result of the November check, you find that you do not have enough Christmas tree decorations, be sure to buy the necessary ones.
Decorate your apartment with a garland and Christmas tree tinsel. On the front door you can hang a decoration that came to us from the west - wreath of fir branches. If you prefer a live artificial Christmas tree, it's time to get the forest beauty out of the bins. Decorate the Christmas tree with unusual Christmas balls, colorful tinsel and tangerines. How to dress up - lay out the gifts prepared for the household and guests of the New Year's Eve under it.
We buy a Christmas tree. Without which we cannot imagine more than one New Year? Of course, without our main forest beauty - the Christmas tree. If you can’t imagine a holiday without the aroma of live spruce, it’s time to go to the Christmas tree market. not many people know, there are simple rules that will help you decide on a fluffy beauty and keep her as long as possible.
We buy necessary products by the list - "buy in 10 days". Obviously, the most crucial period in preparation for the New Year has come - the purchase of products for the gala dinner. To make it more fun, take your husband, children with you, if you celebrate the New Year with friends - call everyone. At this time, usually all the shops are already decorated for the holiday, so let shopping bring you not only profitable purchases, you will feel the New Year's atmosphere to the fullest.
We clean the feathers.
Time to take care of your beloved - masks, scrubs, peels, waxing, manicures, pedicures, haircuts - in general, everything that brings you pleasure and makes you look a little better.
We are starting to make blanks for the New Year's table. It is very good if your festive menu contains dishes that can be prepared long before the festive dinner. What exactly?
● Snacks in Korean. Korean salads are always recommended to be made a few days before dinner. Vegetables must be carefully marinated, and this sometimes takes more than one day.
● Foods suitable for freezing: dumplings, dumplings, manti, cabbage rolls. We take it out at the right time - cook, fry, heat - and voila, you have a ready-made hot second course.
● In advance, you can boil meat for appetizers, salads and cold cuts.
● Cook sauces which are stored in the refrigerator for a long time.
● Cook compote, fruit drink, etc. 
Not bad if it is possible to cook, if not the whole dish, at least make a preparation for it. This applies to:
○ semi-finished products that can be frozen: dough for pies and pies, for pizza, etc.
○ semi-finished products that are baked: baskets for salads or sweet dishes, etc.
In general, act according to the principle - everything that can be prepared in advance - we cook.
Do you remember your past New Year? Yes, I'm sure you remember. An elegant Christmas tree immediately comes to mind, a bunch of gifts, guests, dances, a chic table ... How fun and great everything was!
And now let's go down a little from heaven to earth and remember the preparation for the holiday. Yeah, a completely different picture: running around in a fur coat through stuffy shops in search of gifts, endless lines at the cash registers and to the lady processing gifts ... general cleaning until late at night, hours of standing at the stove, and, in the end, hectic showers, curlers and make-up half an hour before the guests arrive.
Preparing for the New Year is a serious and responsible business. If you want to save your nerve cells (which, as you know, cannot be restored), then you need to start preparing for the New Year in advance. Moreover, if you start preparing for the holiday in advance, you will not only not overwork, but on the contrary, enjoy all the New Year's fuss.
If plans suddenly change, and you need to change your mind or adjust something, you will have plenty of time for this!
Let's create together a complete four-week plan to prepare for the new year without stress!
Week 1 December.
30 days left before the new year.
Guests . In the first week of December, you need to decide on the number of guests with whom you will count the chimes together. Be sure to ask the invitees to give you an answer whether they will be able to attend your holiday or not.
Budget.
Everyone wants everything at once. And a good table, and expensive gifts, and a new dress, and also shoes, a hairstyle, makeup especially for New Year's Eve. With today's abundance, it is not difficult to satisfy even the craziest needs.
The only question is the budget. Determine for yourself the maximum amount that you are willing to spend on gifts, on the table, on decorating the Christmas tree, on your own outfit. And stick to your plan. You should not enter New Year with debts acquired from an overly lavish launch party. If only because, in addition to the headache from the stormy meeting of the New Year, there will be added excitement about how to pay off these debts. In addition, leaving debts for the next year is a bad omen.
Present.
Write a list of people for whom you need to buy gifts. Opposite each name is a list of ideas, possible gifts and an approximate amount that you are going to spend. Buying gifts should start as early as possible. By the holiday itself, the tension of consumers and sellers reaches its climax, and then you will not escape stress. No idea how to please loved ones? It doesn’t matter, you can see gift ideas in the article “” and DIY gifts!
Don't forget the fancy wrapping paper and bows, opening a gift when you don't know what awaits you is much more interesting!
Appearance. Do you want to meet New Year beauty - it's time to sign up for a hairdresser, a facial cleansing and a manicure. Closer to the holiday, it will be completely impossible to get to beauty specialists.
December 7th.
There are 23 days left until the New Year.
New Year's outfit.
If you decide to celebrate the new year in a new thing, then now is the time to start looking for it. Before you go on the hunt for the perfect dress, it is advisable to decide what exactly you want to buy: will this outfit be exclusively solemn or do you want to buy something suitable for every day. Or maybe you want to coincide with the holiday purchase of what you have long dreamed of? Perhaps someone would like to meet New Year in, . You may want to freshen up something you already have in your wardrobe with new accessories. Then you can limit yourself to a new decoration, smart shoes, a beautiful belt or a spectacular scarf.
Costumes for children. Do you have small children? Then it's time to think about a New Year's costume for a matinee in kindergarten or for a city Christmas tree. Although buying a New Year's costume is not a problem now, think about what you can make yourself for your baby. There is no limit to the imagination of parents! In addition, making a costume with mom and dad is another joyful and magical adventure for your child in all the New Year's fuss.
Beauty saloon . It is better to make a visit to the beautician for facial cleansing 2-3 weeks before the celebration. Then by the holiday the skin will calm down and look its best.
New Year's decor.
If we have a plan and time, why don't we decorate the house for the New Year? But what if you put elegant New Year's pillowcases on the sofa cushions, make touching ones with the children?
The last days of the outgoing year an unusually exciting time for us women!
Isn't it, my dears?
Especially for those who live a conscious life and strive to fill their every step with joy, and every moment of their life with meaning.
And, of course, we want to be in time for everything, not to forget anything, to cover everything around with our attention and ... finish, complete, put in order, prepare, cleanse, release, harmonize in order to in a good mood to meet the long-awaited New Year with its new energies, new opportunities, the realization of our cherished desires and pleasant surprises!
From my own experience, I know that pleasant New Year's Eve chores and festive bustle can also be accompanied by not very pleasant sensations. When the porridge is in your head, you don’t know what to grab onto, what to do first and what to do later, what to do today and what tomorrow.
All this is accompanied by internal dissatisfaction, a feeling of lack of time, as well as irritation and fatigue.
As a result, we meet the New Year with a feeling of inner tension, incompleteness, and we cover our load with noisy joy and fun, which we will have to return to as soon as the holidays are over.
But! All this can be avoided! And start a new stage of your life in a harmonious female state! It is easy, joyful and inspirational to open a new, clean and bright page of your life!
With a sense of calmness and confidence, let go of everything old and let in the miracle that is already ready to enter our lives on the magical New Year's Eve!
We just need a little preparation. Free up space, energetically cleanse your feminine world and with a feeling of deep joy and satisfaction, accept into your life everything that we want!
It is for this purpose that I have prepared a plan for you that will help you complete the outgoing year without unnecessary worries, and you will enter the New Year renewed, light and free!
And this, in turn, of course, will entail the fulfillment of all your desires and dreams in the coming year, the necessary doors will open, the necessary people will enter life and the stars will converge in the right place at the right time! =)
The plan has three parts!
♡ Part 1. Spiritual and psychological
♡ Part 2. Creative and dynamic
♡ Part 3. Magically inspiring
So, before you start learning the plan, I want you to take note of a few recommendations!
a) The plan is not a dogmatic instruction that you must follow strictly! For a woman, there are no strict rules and strict restrictions at all! This is just an auxiliary material, my personal experience, which will help you navigate! Feel free to add to it at your creative discretion everything that your soul asks for!
b) Remember that your harmonious internal state is more important than achieving a result and fulfilling any plan by 500%! Be merciful and kind to my s fuck! The pleasure of the process is more valuable than the result itself. Any plan simply simplifies the task for us, streamlines the thought process, and calms us down. If this does not happen, then this is not a woman's plan! As a woman, pleasure and joy come first!
c) After you have fully read the plan, write down on a piece of paper what you will take note of and will do. Have your personal plan written down in your own handwriting and on your own piece of paper! So nice and calm! =)
So here's our plan! Let's get started!
Step 1 Cleansing Negativity
Analyze the outgoing year by month. A diary, if you keep one, or photographs will help you with this. Remember everything that you didn’t fully accept, all the situations from which there was a residue, disappointment, etc. Remember all the people who were in your life or entered your life in the past year. Thank them for the lessons, forgive and internally let go of the situations associated with them that weigh on you.
The following practices will help you with this:
♡ Practice "Healing Writing"
On a piece of paper, write a letter to the person with whom you have an unfinished situation - resentment, misunderstanding, disappointment, and so on. Write everything that comes to mind, pour out all your feelings and experiences on paper. Thus, you discharge this situation by re-living it again, and it no longer has such a strong influence on you and does not draw energy, your energy resource is released. After you write a letter, you can write yourself a response from the person you wrote to. In the answer, write everything that you would like to hear from him in response.
This practice can be done for relationships with departed people with whom you cannot communicate in real life. Or, for example, with those with whom the connection is lost, but the sediment remains inside. Of course, if possible, then clarify all the situations personally, with the person whom it concerns, it is much more effective. But there are situations in which we can independently and unilaterally perform the practice and it will also have a very good effect.
♡ Practice "Gratitude"
Write 10 (as many as possible) thanks to the person with whom there is some kind of misunderstanding or alienation. For example, you feel that there is not enough warmth in some relationships, and you would like to improve them. Imagine how your gratitude envelops the bright and pure energy of that person and you along with him, clears the field of your relationship.
♡ Practice "Return of Balance"
If in some relationship you feel that it is not possible to complete a lesson or solve a problem with some person. It could be someone from the distant past or from your present. You feel dependence or guilt, or some other unpleasant feeling, and this lasts for a very long time, then you need to complete the energy union with this person by mentally imagining how the energy strings that bind you break. You can add in words: “I take everything that is mine from you, I give you yours. With love and gratitude, in the highest and best way."
Thus, you, again, release energy and in the future a person with whom you will solve your problems will enter your life much easier and faster. In the meantime, just free yourself and cleanse yourself so that it is easier to move forward and nothing interferes with your inner harmony.
Step 2 Return of debts
It is necessary to return all debts material and spiritual.
Material debts it's not just money. These are books, any other people's things that are in your house. Be sure to take the time to contact their owners and get them back before the New Year. Even if, for example, in your house there are things of your mother or sister, which, in fact, are not strangers to you, but this also applies to their things. Especially if there are or there were some unresolved problems between you.
For example, you have been dependent on the opinion of your mother for a long time, or there is an unresolved issue between you and your mother-in-law. The absence of their things in your house does not mean the absence of these people in your life and does not at all mean your neglect of them. It just means that you are self-reliant and whole for the moment, and that is how you will enter the New Year. At the same time, your feelings for these people can be the warmest and most tender.
As for money, if there is no way to repay the debt, then imagine that this money that you received and which you cannot give back is credit of trust to you personally from this person! This is his disposition, benevolence, and it is very important, if there is a situation with debts, to perceive it this way. In a deeper sense, we can say that you do not trust the World so much that it gives you a credit of trust through people. In general, if there are situations with money debts, then you need to work out the topic of trust and open your heart. But this is the topic of other articles and my projects.
spiritual debts- these are all unfinished "promises" and obligations. If you promised something to someone and didn’t do it, took on an obligation and didn’t fulfill it, energetically didn’t accept someone’s noble gesture, a gift, and you have a need to give back, thank, and so on, then it’s necessary to complete such situations . How you do it is your choice. You can simply resolve the issue within yourself, mentally taking the necessary steps, or contact the person and voice what you are concerned about. It often happens that the person in relation to whom we feel an obligation has already forgotten about the existence of this duty, and it is only in our head. And these efforts of yours that you will make to free yourself from spiritual debts will once again convince you that the sense of duty is a useless cockroach that lives in our heads and which it is high time to expel!
Step 2 Backlog
Write a list of all the unfinished business that you did not complete in the past year. It could be an unfinished book, an unfinished project, an unfulfilled plan or script for someone or something.
Then divide this list into three parts.
The first part is those things that you will have time to complete and complete this year.
The second part is those things that you leave unfinished, refuse to complete them and let them go unfinished into oblivion! =)
And the third part is those things that you do not have time to complete this year and write them down in your plans for the next year, with the desire to complete them.
Step 4 Summary or conclusions about life
Write 5 main conclusions that you made about life in the past year (more than 5 are possible). It can be some lessons that you have learned, everything that life has taught you and thanks to which you have become even more holistic, happy and harmonious. Then, if you conduct this practice annually, all these conclusions and results of yours for each year can be added to your personal book of female wisdom and be inherited =) Or just read from time to time and realize the significance, value of each step, each lived years and feel the special meaning of your life and your mission in the female body.
For example, I started doing this practice last year and wrote 5 conclusions about life in my book of women's wisdom. One of them was that you never have to wait for happiness in the future, it either happens to you now, where you are and with those people who surround you, if you want it, or it never happens.
In the past year, I felt this very well several times, and this phrase written down in the diary became a kind of anchor that made me feel satisfied with the present and freed me from the illusion that happiness awaits me somewhere beyond the horizon!
Step 5 Return to the home of your soul
The purpose of this practice is to tune in to your personal rhythm, get out of all other energy structures and egregors that influence you and return to yourself to the maximum by the time of the transition from one year to another.
To do this, choose for yourself some kind of ritual that returns you to a state of presence, when you do not chase the future and do not think about the past and do it every day until the very moment of the new year. It can take from 5 minutes to 30-60 minutes, as you please. For example, this year I have chosen for myself the contemplation of clouds for 5-15 minutes, breathing practice for 15-20 minutes and the Sun Salutation "Surya Namaskar" complex. You can choose what you want. It can be some kind of needlework, any kind of activity that brings you balance and peace. The main thing is that before you start, for a few seconds, express your intention to return to yourself and your harmony, and then proceed. This setup works very well and you will really feel the results if you do it for several days in a row and tune yourself before doing it.
You can include walking in your daily practice.
Walking can be called dynamic meditation, because when we walk, a certain rhythm arises and this helps us tune in to harmony, structure thoughts, calm down, make some decision, resolve some kind of internal conflict. Walking triggers special processes in our psyche that help us to properly tune in to the current moment in life, without freezing either in the past or in the future! You can visualize any process in walking, for example, that you are moving into a new stage of life and leaving the past behind.
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Step 1 Plan New Year's Eve
In order to prevent the pleasant pre-holiday bustle from turning into exhausting chaos, plan New Year's Eve activities. You can write down exactly what and when you will do. For example, cleaning the house at that time, decorating the Christmas tree at that time, buying food and putting yourself in order on such and such a day, practices and your useful preparatory work also on certain days or at certain times.
And most importantly, let your plan be tailored to you, and not you to it! And as I already wrote, be sure to add such an important element as pleasure - this will help you stay in a feminine state and maintain inner harmony.
Step 2 Cleaning
The most natural and well-known, still "grandmother's" method of bringing oneself into harmony is, of course, cleaning.
Cleaning and clearing all the blockages on the physical plane and bringing to order the entire space that surrounds you.
Cleaning starts internal processes that help you let go of the past. Everything that surrounds us is a part of us at the energy level, and if there is a disorder, then this is reflected in our sense of self.
It is necessary to put in order not only your house, bag, wallet, but also your phone, computer, e-mail box, profiles in social networks.
Move the closet behind which dust has accumulated and wash, burn unnecessary papers, ventilate all the rooms, let the sunlight into the house if the sun has come out of the window. After cleaning, you can light candles in the house, turn on beautiful music and start the energy of creation.
Delete unnecessary people in social networks, unnecessary contacts in the phone, photos that do not correspond to your worldview now. For example, you haven’t eaten meat for a year, and your photo with barbecue is hanging on the social network and the like. Or some frank and provocative photos that no longer fit your lifestyle.
Pay special attention to your wardrobe, the things you wear (or no longer wear), and the household items that surround you.
Our things are powerful anchors of energy that store energy memory and start and keep us in certain states of the past, which they correspond to. Therefore, if possible, get rid of everything unnecessary and obsolete on the physical plane, and you will feel how much easier it has become to breathe and live!!
Be sure to part with unnecessary cosmetics and personal care products.
And, as I wrote above, be sure to remove from your space, return things that do not belong to you.
Step 3 Self care treatments
Be sure to include in your New Year's Eve to-do list the daily grooming routines for your loved one. It can be anything - massages, wraps, baths with aromatic oils, masks for the face, hair, legs, hands, and so on. So that you come to the New Year in a state of a blossoming and fragrant rose, and not an exhausted squirrel in a wheel, which on December 31 jumped into a beauty salon, externally put itself in order, but internally and energetically did not have time to be filled with a state of beauty and brilliance.
Step 4 Cleansing the body
Take care of cleansing the body from the inside. One of any available ways, but not radical. For example, fasting day, bowel cleansing, exercise or jogging to disperse blood, breathing. Also drink enough water every day.
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Now that we have cleared the space to a greater extent, launched the necessary energies and approached the female harmonious sound, we need to add a little magic in order to sound even clearer at the harmonious frequency!
Step 1 Practice "Wishing"
Take a few sheets of paper and write down all your desires and dreams that you want to come true in the coming year. There should be at least 50-70 of them, and more is better. Be brave! Don't stop them with phrases like "I can't do it," "It's not for me," "It's too 'cool' and impossible." Get ready for miracles and write whatever you want!
Then you need to check your desires and dreams for truth! What does it mean? This means to understand whether this is your desire or someone else's, for example, mom or husband.
Take the wish sheet in one hand, place your other hand over your heart, and start reading each wish out loud in turn! Read the first wish, close your eyes and watch the reaction of the body. What do you feel? If joy, inspiration, a slight tickling, if you see some beautiful and lively picture before your eyes, warmth spreads through your body, something stirs in the region of the heart, then your desire is yours! If the body is silent, the imagination does not lead anywhere further than the line read, there is no movement, and inside it is as if a stupor, silence, deaf or suddenly a portrait of a loved one appears before your eyes (who may be the owner of this desire), then the desire is not yours, feel free to cross it out it from the list and move on to the next one! And do this with every wish!
Pay special attention to material desires, we women must be aware of them. Women's nature is material, from the word MOTHER! Highly spiritual women who neglect the material are very uncomfortable in the physical material world, and the world reminds of this with illnesses, problems with money and men.
After you make a list of your true desires, put it in a secluded place until next year. Then, when you read them a year later, you will be pleasantly surprised!
Wish box practice (from the comment of Irishenka)
This practice was reminded to me by my beloved friend Irishka, I wanted to try it last year, but it didn’t work out. I will definitely try it this year and recommend it to you.
On December 31, while preparing something and preparing for the holiday, write your desires on small sticky notes all day long (prepare them in advance, a pen and any beautiful small box). The box can be decorated with your own hands, for example, pasted over with foil and ribbons. And the whole day between chores, dreaming and writing desires in the form of already fulfilled ones (everything is absolutely from dresses to realizing oneself in something), all this without wasting separate time, but entering the state of this desire, then fixed by the state here and now (by doing any household chores) - this gives anchoring of the states of the desired and does not allow flying into the future. Put it under the Christmas tree and put it away after the holidays until next year. Then look through the wishes in a year and thank you for the fulfillment!
Choose any practice of making wishes that suits you and create your new life!
By the way, an important addition about making wishes, which I did not mention, but you may not know about it! It is better to feel, to understand the true desire or not, to enter the state of desire will help writing it in the form of a fulfilled one!
For example, I want a new inspiring job that will delight me, reveal my creative potential and bring material benefits. In the form of the completed one, you can write like this - "I rejoice and enjoy the new work, which reveals my creative potential and brings material benefits!"
Step 2 Get in the holiday spirit
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Decorate the Christmas tree with the appropriate holiday music and the whole family.
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Decorate the windows with the snowflakes you and your kids cut out.
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Make New Year's crafts with the children, if there are no children, then be children yourself and do it!
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Stroll through the evening city and admire its festive decorations.
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Go to holiday events with family and friends.
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With pleasure and leisurely go shopping and choose souvenirs, soak up the atmosphere of general pre-holiday awe.
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Write greeting cards to family and friends, with your own hand and with all your heart.
You can write a congratulation from Santa Claus and send it to your loved ones without a return address. For a couple of years in a row, I practiced such wonderful congratulations. Imagine yourself as Santa Claus and write whatever you would like to wish this person. Children are very happy and sincerely believe in such letters. Even adults begin to believe in miracles. I had such amazing stories with these letters from Santa Claus. One letter saved my friend from deep sadness, because it came at the right moment and was noticed by her quite by accident, the other made one girl believe in Santa Claus again after her parents were declassified in the performance of the duties of a magical old man. Another of the letters made an adult friend feel like a child and be moved to tears, because I accidentally called her by her name in a letter, as only one person, dear and dear to her heart, called her.
In general, all participants in the process received a huge amount of joy and love! Moreover, the stories with guessing who is this mysterious Santa Claus were also the most amazing! Since my goal was not to receive gratitude for this congratulation, but she still found me, through incredible situations in which the congratulators suddenly guessed who it could be!))) Some, of course, guessed right away!)) In general, this is a whole New Year's adventure for all participants in the process. The pleasure is incredible!)
♡ Read books on the New Year theme, watch movies. It is especially cool to read fairy tales with children and watch cartoons or fairy tales about the New Year.
♡ Hang a special toy on the Christmas tree, which will symbolize the most cherished desire. Maybe you make it yourself or you suddenly see it in a shop window.
♡ Make a New Year's menu taking into account the wishes of all relatives and friends who will be present at the New Year's table.
♡ Come up with a signature dish for the New Year's table, which will symbolize the coming year in your understanding, and put all your feminine creative energy into it. Let everyone present at your holiday try this dish.
♡ Make a script for entertainment for the New Year's Eve. In addition to watching holiday TV and eating delicious treats, there should be something else that will bring your company together. It can be a round dance around the Christmas tree with a song or pulling wishes from a magic hat for the New Year. Yes, anything that will cheer you up and cause joyful laughter and fun.
Step 3 Holiday outfit
I put this item separately so that it would be noticeable!
Be sure to remember that you are primarily a woman and an elegant festive dress is an essential attribute of a true woman who lives a conscious and spiritually rich life!
Take the time to buy a new outfit for New Year's Eve. As I wrote above, our things are anchors that store and retain energy, so if possible, the dress should be new so that no energy from the past prevents you from entering a new future. As they say, in a new dress in the New Year!
Well, as a last resort, if you choose from existing outfits, then choose one in which you not only look good, but also evoke pleasant memories and associations.
Step 4 Practice "Writing the Universe"
This practice is best done a couple of days before the New Year.
Retire and ask for some time not to disturb you. Take a sheet of paper and a pen, imagine the image of the one who created us all, the image of God or the infinite Universe, mentally connect with this energy and write everything that comes. Just relax and your pen will start writing by itself. Imagine that the God or Universe you are writing to is as eager to communicate with you as you are. Communicate as with someone close and dear, tell your innermost thoughts and secrets, thank, ask for support, explain something, trust, confess, express your love and appreciation for what you are, for everything that you have what you have and what you don't have. If there are tears, do not be afraid, these are tears of purification. After you write everything, sit in silence for a while, do not rush to go somewhere right away. Keep this letter in a safe place.
And most importantly, remember the purpose of this whole plan - to bring yourself into a harmonious state in order to launch new energies into your space! Enjoy the process of creativity in your life! Love yourself and what you do! Appreciate every day you live and your experience in this day! Years and our life are made up of our days!
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I sincerely congratulate you on the upcoming New Year!
And I wish you a pleasant preparation!
With love, Julia Belikova
In the New Year's race, it is important to properly distribute efforts. We hope our help will be most welcome! We give this plan to you
Get rid of the chaos
By the end of the year, we are “drowned” in a huge number of cases that require our attention. And the realization of this is often more burdensome than the very implementation of them. But let's figure it out: what exactly of all your hangings do you need to do now and exactly for you? Review all these “shoulds”, but “don’t want to”. Be honest with yourself, since you have been dragging this out for so long, maybe they are not so important? Or are you just trying to force yourself to do something that goes against your desires and principles? On the eve of the new year, it's time to discard all this "garbage": decide what is really important, and what is just pretending to be so.
Check yourself for procrastination, fight it
Some people don't even know they're procrastinating (it happens!). Are you sure that you are sinless in this area? Try setting aside a whole day for tracking doing nothing. Be alert and record everything you do. Some of you are in for an unpleasant discovery. So, for example, it turns out that “now I will quickly check the mail” turns into three hours of watching funny videos. You need to fight this: on our site there is also how to deal with procrastination.
Get ready for every day
Planning is your best friend and helper. To live without guidelines and reminders, a clear structure and vision of the day, week, month, year, etc. - very hard. So why are you making life difficult for yourself? It's not hard or boring, just start and you will see positive changes very soon! If it’s really difficult to start, see ours for personal effectiveness. There is a lot of useful information there - it's time to explore.
Start a new healthy habit
Starting a new good habit in the last month of the year is a good start for yourself in the new year. Especially if you are planning some kind of global changes in your life. Show yourself what you can! Taking small steps is a good guarantee of sustainable success. For example, you plan to lose a certain amount of kilograms in the new year, then start preparing the ground for implementation in December. To get started, get into the habit of replacing a portion of junk food with vegetables. You will see for yourself what magic will happen and how much it will charge you for accomplishments.
Clear your space
“Spring cleaning time!” - the December signal is triggered in the brain. Yes, yes, it's time. It's stupid to mess with it. We all know how nice it is to live in a clean and tidy space. So give yourself this gift!
End what's bothering you
December is the best time to put things in order not only in the house, but also in business, surroundings and your informative field. Don't regret the past. If you have long been burdened by some kind of relationship, business or subscription - "cut off" them. It can be very hard (with people), but for the sake of your better life, it was worth doing a long time ago, right? It’s like with general cleaning, if you don’t throw away trash, then very soon your whole life will be “clogged” with random people, incomprehensible responsibilities, exhausting correspondence on social networks with no one knows who and annoying email subscriptions. Do not do it this way!
Meet new people
So you have done away with the old connections that devastate you, and what's next? And then you need new acquaintances with a plus sign. And now, in the pre-New Year period, when people are becoming kinder and more naive, this is the best time to easily make useful contacts. Take advantage of this great opportunity. By the way, we have networking from Oksana Kukharchuk especially for you, get connected!
Don't forget about health
December is a month of fuss, but is your health the very thing that can be postponed from time to time until spring? Decide for yourself, but we strongly advise you to specifically allocate space in the schedule for sports and think over a healthy menu in advance.
Make a reading plan and stick to it
You see those books that lie on the desktop or gather dust on the nightstand next to your bed. Maybe it's time to master them? What do you have there? Something useful or trendy and empty? Sit down at the table and decide what you absolutely need to read in December. Some people need New Year's fairy tales at this time of the year, while others urgently need to learn how to become more tolerant of others, etc. In a word - act according to the plan!
Get ready for the holidays
Better not have a holiday blitzkrieg. Decide in advance how you want to spend the holiday, what you will give, what the New Year's menu will be like, whether it is worth buying a Christmas tree, etc. Evenly (that means no overload!) Distribute all these worries in your schedule and wait for the New Year with joyful anticipation!
Find time to rest
Rest is necessary in order to be able to do more and better. Keep this in mind when you feel the urge to stay at work for a month or load yourself with household chores to the eyeballs. It is better to rest and with renewed vigor in battle! So you will quickly move forward much further.
Good luck this December and the new year! We believe in you!