How to change your appearance for the better. Repetition and perseverance. Achieve an attractive figure

Being yourself, looking and dressing the way you like, setting your own rules in life - what could be better? But sometimes it happens that a person just needs to urgently change himself and his preferences, and cardinally... How to change beyond recognition? Why is there such a need? We will talk about this in detail below.

The reasons for the desire to change yourself

There can be a lot of reasons for change, because, as you know, how many people - so many opinions. People are often pushed to experiment with themselves by the following reasons:

  1. Love. Especially the first, teenage love, or a keen feeling, attraction to opposite sex... For the first time in all the years of his life, a person can wake up with the thought: "I want to change beyond recognition, so that my beloved (my beloved) could love me."
  2. When a person realizes that with the current state of affairs, with the way he looks and treats people, he cannot achieve anything in life, he decides to make fundamental changes.
  3. The desire to become more popular, to attract attention. Self-centered natures are very prone to frequent changes. Of course, they love themselves, but the shell, the appearance in which they are, constantly does not suit them.
  4. Self-development. A healthy desire to change something in your life arises in yourself due to ordinary human curiosity. We all love to learn something new and bring it into our everyday life.

In addition, there are psychological factors pushing a person to change. Various stressful situations, conflicts and setbacks can cause a desire to change. The new image of the subconscious will be perceived as protection from the negativity associated with the past.

External changes for men

Representatives strong half outwardly, it is quite difficult to change humanity without the help of a specialist. Below we will consider several ways, beyond recognition, suitable for men:

  • Go in for sports actively. it a great opportunity change not only lifestyle, but also appearance. Perhaps many men dream of a beautiful, embossed body. But to achieve such results without physical activity unrealistic.
  • Cut off the regrown beard, mustache, or, conversely, grow it back. This changes the facial features a lot. Try with colored lenses, radically change your wardrobe.
  • Learn to communicate correctly and competently with the opposite sex. which means that in order to get the object of passion into your networks, you need to change the manner of communication.
  • Accept yourself for who you are. Consent with your own "I" accelerates the process of both internal and external transformation. Having decided on changes, be sure to coordinate this issue with yourself, having analyzed in detail why and why you are doing this.

Of course in men fewer options for a change. And the most cardinal method remains plastic surgery... But is it worth resorting to such measures?

Ways of External Change for Women

It is enough for a lady to visit a beauty salon, as she is unimaginably transformed. How to change a girl beyond recognition? It is enough to follow simple guidelines:

  • Change of wardrobe. The change in the image should be made taking into account the peculiarities of the figure. For example, if you have short and full legs, then replacing the maxi skirt with a mini skirt is not advisable. First, decide which style suits you best. If you previously preferred strict, classic clothes, then for a radical change, you can try a sporty or urban style.
  • Change of hairstyle. Changing the shape and color of hair allows you to transform in just 1.5-2 hours. You were blonde with long hair? Become a hot brunette with short hair! However, it should be remembered that frequent staining hair can cause hair loss.
  • Usage decorative cosmetics... How to change beyond recognition? Apply makeup. Applied correctly can make your face look completely different.
  • Losing weight. Do you want drastic changes? Start with your weight. It is not at all necessary to go on a rigid diet and exhaust yourself with hunger strikes. It is enough to determine for yourself the number of kilograms that you need to get rid of.

And these are far from all the ways of how to change beyond recognition. Ladies are more inventive in this regard, they can radically change themselves in 1 day, week or month, and without the intervention of specialists.

All changes begin with internal changes. Be sure to discuss with yourself each item that you want to apply to yourself. Before starting to change, representatives of both sexes should think, but what is all this for? If you want to do this for someone or someone else, then ask yourself, will this person be next to you after all the changes? Will you become more successful, prettier and more popular? You should not drastically change everything in your life because of a fleeting desire - reincarnation should be gradual and deliberate.

How to change beyond recognition internally? Start with small steps that gradually change your lifestyle, pace of life, and character.

Prioritize

Decide what you want the most. Create a specific wish list, highlight the most coveted. You do not need to waste yourself on the implementation of household, everyday plans, for example, such as buying a new one washing machine or a stove. Think about the last time you got on vacation, relaxed, spent time with your family? Start off on vacation, eating out together and going out with your family. Lonely suitable for people communication with friends and parents, new acquaintances.

Plan your day well. Make a list of the most important things to do for today and cross out the points as you complete it - the visual representation helps the subconscious to understand that the task is completed, which means that thoughts about it are no longer appropriate.

Learn what you've always dreamed of

We learn all our lives, constantly learning something new. But we do not always have the opportunity to gain the knowledge that is necessary to realize the hidden potential. Learn a foreign language, take guitar lessons, piano lessons, try yourself as a singer or designer. Any new role will allow you to open up and change in a short time.

Is it realistic to change beyond recognition in a month due to new skills and knowledge? It all depends on your desire for change, as well as the type of activity that you decided to master. The more complex it is, the longer the learning and change process will take.

New emotions - new "I"

Travel as often as possible, and not necessarily on foreign countries... Visit every little corner of your homeland - an influx of new emotions is guaranteed. Ride your bike, ride the streets hometown, see the sunrise on the shore of the lake - all this will bring a sea of ​​positive into your life. Make it a rule for yourself to smile more often - not only you change with a smile, but also the world around you.

How to change in a week beyond recognition? Start emitting positivity. In one day, alas, this cannot be achieved if a person is by nature gloomy and does not know how to enjoy life. Special training help to master this skill.

Remember that your inner "I" is a temple, therefore do not let any garbage in the form of everyday problems, conflicts, minor troubles. They destabilize emotional condition person, making it difficult to enjoy life.

Repetition and perseverance

Be more persistent in your actions, do not give up. The constant repetition, search and elimination of the mistakes made allows you to understand how to change beyond recognition. The character can only be changed. Define the trait in yourself that you want to get rid of as soon as possible, and start working on yourself.

If you decide to change dramatically, then start by giving up laziness and idleness. Constant control of your thoughts and actions, agreement with your own "I" - this is what will help to overcome the difficulties associated with changes.

Live in the present

What happened to you in the past should recede into the background. Even if past events bring you positive emotions and help to relax, they should still be pushed aside during the change. Remember! The person you were in the past and the person you are now are completely different people.

Concentrate on what's going on in this moment without thinking about other scenarios. While walking, simultaneously fix your gaze on several surrounding objects, people. Go headlong into the situation you are in. With constant exercise, you will learn how to meditate and establish contact with yourself, as well as accept reality as it is.

The lesson allows you to protect yourself from the negativity coming from ourselves, and unnecessary anxiety. Acceptance of reality helps to improve a person's life, helps him change internally, teaches him to love and appreciate what he has.

For us - girls - the appearance has a very essential, therefore, more often than not, in order to cheer up or even improve the quality of life, we just need to change something in ourselves. We are sure that many of us have already gone through many stages, which will now be discussed, and most likely, after that, life became brighter and brighter.

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So let's get down to business without further ado. Is it time to change something, but don't know where to start yet? Ivetta will try to help!

Hair

Hair, as they say, not teeth - will grow back. Therefore, many girls boldly experiment. For girls whose curls are naturally light brown, it will be easier to repaint in any other color, be it red or platinum blond... However, be careful, not all hair can withstand extreme changes.

So, in order for your experiments for the most part to be successful, it is better to use the services of professionals, and not to conduct experiments on yourself.

1. Haircut

Haircut is one of the easiest and quick ways update yourself. All you need is to enlist the help of a truly experienced and competent professional who will cut your hair the way you need it, and even make your hairstyle so easy to style that in the morning it will take just a few minutes to put your head in order.

After a successful change, you will become more confident in yourself, you will start receiving compliments, and you will look at life in a new way. By the way, an elongated bob is very fashionable this season, so if you are ready to take risks, go ahead!


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2. Painting

Hair color greatly affects the entire appearance, and also significantly affects how, for example, the skin of the face will look. Dark brown shade hair suits those who literally perfect skin faces. The same goes for light shade... These colors highlight all the flaws so vividly that sometimes they can even ruin the whole image. Therefore, you should be extremely careful with experiments and it is best, of course, to entrust yourself in the hands of a real professional.

If you have been dyeing blonde for many years, maybe it's time to choose a shade a couple of tones darker? We understand that it is difficult to get out of your comfort zone, but sometimes changes are beneficial.

The same goes for convinced brunettes. You can start by lightly highlighting some strands around the face and along the parting. You can also try fashion ombre or balayazh.

However, it also happens that in the end, after trying everything possible options you understand that the most best color- its natural. Therefore, almost everyone eventually switches to it, however, they already have great respect for their hair.


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3. Hairstyle

V this case we are talking about a hairstyle that you will create not with scissors, but in a company with hairpins, elastic bands, hairpins, headbands and invisible hairpins. This season, fighting braids have become extremely fashionable, of course, thanks to the socialite Kim Kardashian. However, girls with short hair should not despair. After all, on the Internet you can find great amount wonderful hairstyles for any length.

Admit it, there is nothing complicated in this, but how much a couple of pricked strands changes the overall appearance.
If you always wear straight hair, try doing sloppy curls like Victoria's Secret models. This will take very little time, however, you will look completely different. If you constantly wear bangs - pin it on the side or up.


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Face

The face is ours business card, so the experiments here must be very careful and competent. Let's start with the eyes.

1. Eyes

If you turn to the Internet, you will be extremely surprised by the many types and techniques of makeup. Loose eyelid? No problem! Especially for such cases, machinations with adjustments were invented that hide such shortcomings. Many girls admire the ideal beauty of Natalia Vodianova and Mila Jovovich, as well as Renee Zellweger and Claudia Schiffer. Pay attention to their eyelids? Unlikely. And why? Because these women know how to properly use cosmetic products and turn their faults into strengths.

Try various techniques makeup. But remember that painting like a parrot and sticking a meter-long eyelash during the day is mauvais ton.

However, there is a professional eyelash extension that can radically change your facial expression. Tufts in the corners of the eyes or just very beautiful fluffy eyelashes only paint the girl, making her look more sexy and interesting.


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2. Brows

Now this topic is more relevant than ever, and what girls do not go to to "make" themselves fashion eyebrows. Correct form and the shade of the eyebrows can radically change the expression on the face, and make us real Hollywood beauties. However, some girls take this to heart, and begin to paint their eyebrows with a black pencil, giving too geometric shape, which, in fact, only disfigures. Remember that everything is natural in fashion, eyebrows correct color, and natural shape eyebrows. Forget about too saturated colors and about clear boundaries, your eyebrows will never look exactly the same.

If you are afraid to do everything yourself, contact a specialist. Such a procedure is not very expensive, and you yourself will be able to do the correction yourself later.


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3. Contouring

To begin with, few girls are one hundred percent satisfied with their appearance. In particular, this also applies to the face, or rather its shape. Now complaints like "I have too wide / round / sharp / square / triangular face" are no longer rolled, because, firstly, the whole thing is easily corrected with the help of a hairstyle, and, secondly, in all cosmetic stores they are already available special sculpting products for the face, which will help to cope with all the imperfections.

To begin with, of course, again it is necessary to turn to professionals for help, however, one consultation will be quite enough to find out in which places the skin will need to be darkened a little, and in which to highlight in order to visually reduce the nose, for example, or sharpen the cheekbones.

Do not forget that all manipulations with correctors, shimmers, and bronzers should look as natural as possible.


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4. Lips

Lips are probably one of the most beloved parts of the face of many girls.
If you have always used pastel shades gloss or lipstick, try something bright, just please follow the most important rule of bright makeup elements, which makeup artists tirelessly repeat - the rule of accents. There should be harmony in everything, too many bright elements spoil the whole picture, the eye does not know where to stop and, as a rule, does not stop and does not remember anything.

Bright lips + nude eyes and vice versa. There are no women who would not go for bright lipsticks, it is just important to choose the right tone... Red, it also happens different shades, for example, closer to brown or, conversely, raspberry.

By the way, do not forget that what brighter lipstick, the whiter the teeth will appear.

Among other things, the accent of bright lips obliges us to follow two more rules:

  • Facial skin should be perfect. If somewhere on the face there is a pimple or some other spot, lipstick will only emphasize these imperfections and create an image of untidiness and sloppiness.
  • The lip contour should be completely even, so you definitely need to purchase a lip liner that can be one tone darker than lipstick, this is a trend this season.

Of course, bright lips are not suitable for every day, but from time to time every girl should indulge in such "pampering".


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Body

If in terms of makeup it can happen that you don’t put on makeup at all, then in terms of clothing it turns out that you have already chosen some style for yourself. Therefore, making changes here is still a little different.
So what is the best place to start in your body plan?


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1. Decollete
How do you feel about the chest cutout? Many girls refuse such a privilege, arguing that they have small chest while some, on the contrary, are shy about being too big. And both of these sides are wrong, because not only the chest is important in the neckline.

By opening this area, you don't just show your breasts a little (or a lot), your skin, neck and collarbones are also exposed to the public's eyes. Many men are attracted to these elements, so why not draw a little more attention to yourself.

The neckline makes us more feminine, so every girl's wardrobe should have at least a couple of things with such a neckline. And if you still beat him the right accessories, then you will definitely get a sweetie!

If you can't take and open your chest like that, put on a beautiful kerchief or scarf on top, which at the same time will slightly cover this part of the body, but still will not interfere with the zest that comes from the neckline. Also massive jewelry will come to the rescue, in the form of pearls, for example.

2. Figure

Regardless of the type of figure, you, as a girl, should try to define your femininity as clearly as possible.
Of course, there is no limit to perfection, you can always not just cover up your shortcomings, but also start to fight them with the help of sports, however, first, you need to try to open up in those places that are worthy of attention.

Do you want updates? To your health! Here's a task for you - find the dignity of your figure and beat them with clothes!

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3. Posture

This is probably the starting point. Whatever figure you have, whatever makeup or hairstyle you do, all the same, the most important thing in a girl's appearance is a straight back. Beautiful posture attracts attention, the belly is tightened, makes the chest visually larger, you already feel completely differently, and, accordingly, you lead.


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Shoes

By the way, shoes directly affect your posture. If you have never worn shoes or boots with heels - be sure to give it a try! And after that you will definitely fall in love with such shoes forever! Thanks to the heel, the figure is transformed just instantly! The back, again, straightens, the stomach becomes smaller, and the legs are longer and slimmer.

However, there is also a "BUT!" Heeled shoes should be comfortable. If this is not so, then you will no longer have time long legs and not to a straight back. It is worth starting slowly, that is, first take a heel with a height of 5-7 cm, and after that, gradually move to 9 cm and higher.

Also, in terms of shoes, you can change its very shape, and not just the heel. For example, if you have never worn pumps or, conversely, slip-ons - be sure to give it a try. Now, it is fashionable to wear sports shoes with dresses, so don't worry about not looking feminine in your sneakers.


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Accessories

Let's add a little about the accessories. Be sure to wear some jewelry, just remember to balance. If you are wearing long bright earrings, you should not pile up the space around your neck with powerful beads or a pendant. If you put on a huge bracelet, then try to keep the manicure and rings not too flashy, etc.

Sometimes it is too lazy to choose something special for a certain outfit, but this laziness should be got rid of. In addition, the same outfit can be beaten with the help of jewelry completely different ways, and this is so great! Put on a bright kerchief over a black dress - here's one image for you. They hung up a beautiful necklace - and already a completely different look.

You don't have to buy a lot new clothes in order to change something, sometimes it is enough to choose new accessories for an existing wardrobe.


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Personal care

There is no woman more beautiful than the one who looks after herself. No matter how much makeup you put on yourself, everything is empty, without proper care behind the skin of the face and body. It seems to us that nothing attracts more attention than good manicure, well-groomed skin and a pleasant aroma.

Besides, taking care of yourself is not so difficult. It is enough to just shower with the correct frequency, and also regularly use the products that suit you. At the same time, we are not talking at all about expensive luxury brands of personal care cosmetics. Among the mass market, you can easily find more budgetary alternatives.

Start with proper hydration and nourishment of the skin, and in time it will repay you healthy color and the absence of any irritants in the form of acne and other imperfections. An upgrade like this never hurts.
The same goes for hair. No amount of hairstyle or styling will hide split ends or dry strands. Take care of your hair, and it will be impossible to take your eyes off it.


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Internal state

They say that all beauty comes from the inside, so it is extremely important what you have now. internal state... Try to think about the good as often as possible, watch funny and kind films, listen to beautiful inspiring music, dwell on the negative as little as possible. Smile more often, and your life will turn upside down, into good value, this phrase.

When you have good mood, then you start to look different, don't you? Of course, this is probably one of the most difficult ways to change something in his appearance, however, he is the most loyal and durable.

We often meet beautiful girls, with an absolutely extinct, or even, on the contrary, some kind of embittered look. Faced with their eyes, all their charm melts, and it's sad. However, if you shine from the inside, no one will even suspect about your far-fetched shortcomings.


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Remember, Ivetta is always happy to come to the rescue and make your life brighter. If, after reading this article, you have decided on drastic changes in your life, then we are confidently moving towards our goal. We wish you a bright and positive life!

Do you want to radically change your appearance? It is not difficult at all, there would be a desire! We will tell you about 10 ways with which you can magically transform.

With the help of hair coloring, you can achieve a radical transformation of the appearance. But before you buy paint or go to a beauty salon, you need to decide on your future hair color. In this matter, one should not rely on fashion and stereotypes like "gentlemen prefer blondes" or "redheads are shameless." It is important to understand which color will fit just for you. The best way to do this is using a system of 12 color types.

The hairstyle greatly affects our appearance. By changing it slightly, you can achieve amazing results. Experiment! Try a little pile, curl or iron your hair and you will look completely different!




Beautiful long eyelashes very decorate woman's face: they visually enlarge the eyes and make the look deep and expressive.




Contact lenses not only change the color of your eyes, but also make them brighter and shinier. To find the perfect lenses for you, you should go to special shop and consult a specialist.




With the help of skillful makeup, you can make a woman of a very mediocre appearance an unearthly beauty. Therefore, do not neglect this magical means of transformation. If you don't know how to paint, seek help from a makeup artist.




To many girls go Tan. It has many advantages: it masks under-eye circles, hides minor skin imperfections, and makes the figure visually slimmer. Tanning can be purchased naturally sunbathing on the beach, or in the solarium. However, doctors say that prolonged exposure to the sun and the passion for tanning beds are very harmful. Therefore, if you are worried about your health, take advantage of such a service as a self-tanning shower. This procedure is absolutely safe and consists in the following: you go into a booth, where special substances are sprayed on you, giving the skin a beautiful shade.




Buy something completely uncharacteristic for you. For example, if you are used to walking in jeans and sneakers, buy feminine dress and sandals on high heels... If you prefer strict Office Style, choose something free and fun. People around you will immediately notice the changes in your appearance.




Deep nasolabial folds cause a lot of grief for women. They usually appear after age 30, give the face a disgruntled expression and visually make us look older. If you get rid of these nasty folds, you will immediately look 5 years younger! Correction of nasolabial folds can be done in the cosmetology office using injections hyaluronic acid... This procedure is practically painless and does not take much time.




The corset will make your figure feminine and seductive. It reduces the waist, lifts the chest and helps to hold beautiful posture... However, you should not abuse corsets - doctors advise against wearing them more than once a week.




Taking care of beauty, one must start with the heart and soul, otherwise no cosmetics will help.

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Happy and harmonious woman as if glowing from the inside. She has shiny eyes, tripping, disposing facial expression. She attracts people to her, even if there are some flaws in her appearance. Therefore, if you are gloomy and sad, urgently look for ways to cheer yourself up, and you will see how a huge impact the external state is influenced by the internal state.




A moment comes when almost every woman ceases to enjoy her reflection in the mirror. This does not mean that she looks bad or is very old, more often than not she is simply tired of the same image, there is a desire to change something in her appearance. There should be no problems with such a desire, because there are many tips on how to change your appearance, and finding something just for yourself today is not a problem.

Plastic

If you want to find a way to radically change your appearance, you can turn to the services of plastic surgeons. Here you can change beyond recognition. But such a procedure, in addition to the obvious advantages, has negative sides... This is, first of all, after all, the operation, which is not known how it can end. In addition, the services of such doctors are quite expensive. But the biggest disadvantage is the irreversibility of the work done. If the hairstyle can be changed constantly, then return old appearance will not work. Therefore, you should think carefully before going under the knife of a plastic surgeon.

Wardrobe

In addition to plastic, there are many more acceptable advice how to change your appearance. You can try to completely change your wardrobe, moreover, take the risk of changing even the style of clothing. From a princess to a sports girl, from a daredevil to a business woman. You can be sure that many women will definitely like the changes in the image. By experimenting, you can find a style that is more successful and suitable for yourself.

Hairstyle

A huge role in changing the appearance is played by a woman's hairstyle - hair length, color, styling method. If you want to find a way to change your appearance, going to the hairdresser is one of the ways out of the situation. It is important to consider that it is better to seek help from a hairdresser-stylist, who will not only cut the hair the way you want, but also advise which hairstyle is better to choose for new image... You can change everything in the complex - color, hair length, or just one thing.

When looking for tips on how to change your appearance, you can stop at improving your figure. To do this, you should sign up for a gym, as well as go on some kind of diet. Hard training and proper balanced nutrition will not only improve your figure, but also give health to your skin, hair and nails.

Demeanor

In the desire to change, you can try to become a true woman- languid, tender, light. To do this, it is worth trying to change the gait, demeanor, style of communication with others. It is also necessary to abandon harsh statements and use in Everyday life rude words. Grace and patience - that's best qualities every woman. Why not change in this way?

General Tips

If a woman has clearly decided that she wants to find a way to change her appearance, this desire must be strictly followed. Today I am changing, tomorrow not - there should not be such situations. You need to be firmly convinced of the decision to change. It is also worth considering that global changes in appearance and personality will require considerable psychological and material costs... You should be ready for this.

It is quite natural for a person to strive for the ideal! At least in my thoughts. Another thing is that very few do real actions for this. And in order to get rid of some shortcomings and acquire positive features there is only one way, and that is through change. How can a girl change externally and internally? It is this question that interests many of the fair sex who are trying to embark on the path of their own restructuring.

How to change externally and internally beyond recognition

It is worth noting that for cardinal changes, it is not enough only changes in your appearance, the defining moment is changes in your inner world, but about everything in order:

First, think about what you would like to change in your appearance. Although the appearance is directly proportional to our inner peace, nevertheless, the chosen style of clothing, the chosen hairstyle and other details are one of the predetermining moments. They still meet us by dress, so whatever one may say, for cardinal changes we will have to act in this direction as well.

It is important that the changes you make in the appearance are accepted by you, that is, you must simultaneously get used to yourself "new". A person can choose the most first-class clothes, put on impeccable shoes, but if he does not “know how to wear it,” the effect may be inversely proportional to the desired one.

If you have inner uncertainty and you are tormented by the desire to get rid of it, then try to do something extraordinary and unusual for yourself. You need a good adrenaline rush.

To change externally and internally, it may be worth trying to jump with a parachute or from a tower in the pool, go horseback riding or go to conquer the mountains. Whatever it is, it is worth choosing such a thing, from doing which, you could prove to yourself your own strength. Just keep in mind that excessive fanaticism in this matter is not needed at all.

Probably it will not be a discovery for anyone that only by changing your hairstyle and hair color, you can significantly change your external perception.

These changes can be shown especially vividly by the example of women: by switching from blonde to brunette, you can significantly increase the degree of seriousness of your perception in the workplace.

By dyeing your hair blonde, you can more predispose the male half of the population to yourself. It is believed that it is the fatal blondes who are much easier to conquer men's hearts than women with different hair color.