Signs that a guy likes you. Clear signs of sympathy from a stranger that are easy to catch for any girl. Examples will make it clearer

25.04.2019

Society is very specific social education, in which there are a lot of rules, restrictions, rituals. We must behave in a certain way in one situation, in a different way in another. ...

What about interpersonal relationships, the mass of personal characteristics of each person is also superimposed here. Someone is modest by nature, someone is open, and someone is bold in one situation, but timid and shy in another. We often hide our true feelings behind masks of politeness, coldness, indifference.

Hence the questions arise about how to understand if a man likes you, if he is in love with you ...

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How to understand that a man likes you

Many men are embarrassed to be the first to make the first move. They carefully hide their interest in the girl behind friendly banter or ostentatious indifference.

There can be many reasons for such behavior, from the peculiarities of upbringing to an unsuccessful experience of communicating with persons of the opposite sex.

And yet there are universal signs that a man likes you. Let's consider them below.

1. Close contact

A man subconsciously wants to be as close as possible to the object of his adoration. If, as if by chance, he is in suspicious proximity to you at least once a day, this may indicate the presence of feelings.

it good way to understand if a man likes you at work, where you can find different reasons to approach a colleague: ask for a spare pen, stand in line for a cooler, stretch clothes from a hanger, and so on.

If you are not working together, then you need to pay attention not to the frequency, but to the proximity of the contact. To the woman he likes, the man strives to touch his hand, run his hand through her clothes, shake off a non-existent speck, straighten the collar, etc.

2. Voice timbre

It is so inherent in nature that under the influence of feelings (hormones) the voice of a person in love changes, becomes softer, “cooing” or hoarse notes appear in it. If you notice that a man only addresses you in this way, while in a conversation with the rest he does not slip such notes, you can be sure that he breathes unevenly towards you and tries to hide his natural aggressiveness by changing the timbre of his voice.

3. Loving look

As you know, a man loves with his eyes. And although this saying has a slightly different meaning, a man in love looks at the object of his adoration with such eyes that everything immediately becomes clear from their expression. If you were unable to unambiguously "read" the look, then pay attention to how often you catch it on yourself.

If a man is pleased to look at you, and he does it at the first opportunity, this can indicate either nascent or completely strengthened feelings. If, in addition to elevated feelings, a woman evokes in a man passionate desire, the view will be slightly blurred.

4. Confidential conversation

Your conversation began with a condemnation of the weather, and ended with the man's story about his plans for the near future, successes and achievements? Congratulations, he considers you as a potential chosen one and unconsciously wants to share his plans with you, involve you in them, connect his future with you.

5. Pauses in conversation

Once at a close distance from the woman he likes, the man will involuntarily worry, be distracted by her appearance, dream about something of his own, which will give rise to pauses in the conversation. If during such pauses he looks at your lips or at your décolleté, you can be sure that he shows you at least sexual interest.

6. Jealousy

Of course, if your relationship hasn't even started yet, real jealousy is out of the question. But it’s easy to notice how a guy starts to frown if you are talking on the phone with a friend in front of him, say out loud that you will go to the cinema today with a friend, or accept compliments from another man. A frown, pursed lips, nodules playing on the cheeks, a tense posture will speak of jealousy. And she, as you know, is impossible without feelings.

How to understand by gestures that a man likes you

Gestures, like facial expressions, are most often involuntary, and therefore universal. That is, a gesture that betrays the excitement of one person will in the same way betray the excitement of another.

So, a man likes you if he:

when you put your fingers in your belt or in your pockets. In fact, a man wants to touch you, but does not dare yet, and in order to occupy his hands, he is looking for another use for them. He can also lock his fingers “in the lock” or constantly turn some object in his hands;
straightens his tie or straightens his shirt. This is how the desire to be beautiful for your chosen one is manifested. Similarly, women, in the presence of an object of adoration, begin to straighten their hair, fiddle with buttons on a jacket or smooth a skirt;
takes the pose of an interlocutor. A person unconsciously copies the posture and gestures of another person who is attractive to him and whom he himself wants to like;
ruffles her hair, touches her face. He wants you to do all this, and with his gestures he calls you to this.

As for facial expressions, biting your lips, shaking your head to the beat of a conversation can also be considered indirect signs sympathy.

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How to understand that a man loves a woman

This question arises after the couple began a relationship. Is it love, or a fleeting interest, the girl thinks.

How do you know that a man likes you so much that he is ready to offer his hand and heart?

How to understand that his feelings are serious?

1. A man introduces you to the whole family

It is clear that every new passion with which he plans to spend a couple of nights, the guy will not take him to dinner with his parents. If you were invited to such an acquaintance, then we can say with confidence that the man has big plans for you.

2. You spend all your free time together

This suggests that he is interested in not only the bed. If you walk a lot together, watch movies, travel, tinker in the garden, ride bicycles - this is most likely love.

3. Plans for the future

If a man makes plans for the future, and you appear in them, this is good sign. It doesn't have to be wedding planning or your family life, the man still could not ripen for it. But even joint planning vacation or major purchases is an indirect confirmation of your long-term relationship.

4. Jealousy

Here we can already talk about real jealousy. A man will not make any claims to a fleeting girlfriend for one night, because in his thoughts he himself is already with another passion. If he is in love, then there is a desire to possess you completely and without a trace, and he will not tolerate competitors.

5. Caring

Are you sick and the man is busy around you? Or did he pack a backpack and rush off fishing so as not to catch a cold from you? It is not difficult to guess in which case his behavior will speak of sincere feelings.

6. The desire to demonstrate their abilities

At the same time, he often does not have abilities as such, but there is a burning desire to please you. A man in love will cook for you romantic dinner with your hands, walk your dog, try to fix something in your house.

Psychologist's advice on how to understand that a man likes you

Sometimes it is not so easy to distinguish ordinary politeness from sympathy and interest. Therefore, the girl is often lost in conjecture, but does she correctly understand the courtship of a man? Is she mistaking the usual friendly disposition for something much more?

To "recognize" a true fan, you just need to analyze his behavior.
Psychologists give the following advice:

If a man is not indifferent to you, he will demonstrate it in every possible way, make signs in the form of a cup of hot coffee or a sweater draped over your shoulders on a cool evening. He will listen to you carefully and nod his head in agreement, no matter what nonsense you are talking about.
Acts, sometimes a little reckless or even stupid will tell you more than any words about his feelings.
At school, the boy pulled the pigtails of the girl which he likes. As an adult, he also possible ways trying to get her attention. For example, as if by accident to touch. His touch to you sure sign sympathy.
He catches your eye, or you suddenly notice how he is staring at you. And when you “catch him in the act”, he quickly looks away.
He can show his sympathy with a smile or, conversely, timidity and stiffness at your appearance.
A man in love becomes terribly awkward. He can spill juice on his trousers, drop a cup, break a glass. Everything literally falls out of his hands.
A man interested in you will patronize you all the time. Serve coats, open the door, help with the solution of some small problems. And sooner or later, he will definitely offer to spend the evening together. For example, with his friends. Immediately make an appointment, he may not decide.
He constantly jokes, tells jokes, demonstrates his cheerful nature and ease of communication Be sure he is in love.
A man who likes you will definitely know your phone number and ask for friends in social networks where you are registered. He definitely needs to be in touch to call, write a message at any time. Anything, just to get a couple of lines from you or hear your voice.
He is jealous of you. With all his appearance, he shows that he is not very pleased when you communicate with other men, he tries to wedge himself into the conversation and “pull the blanket” over himself. A man in love is extremely jealous of the appearance of potential rivals in his field of vision.

Listen to your heart. It will help you distinguish a real fan from just a friend.

Finally, universal advice for all girls trust your intuition! Not a single man can deceive her, no matter how carefully he hides his feelings from you.
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Many girls lack decisiveness in relationships with guys, and sometimes only the conviction that they are not indifferent to the men they love gives them strength and self-confidence, and allows them to take the first step. But how do you know if a guy likes you? Exists whole line signs by which you can almost certainly determine the degree of his interest in you. Let's take a look at them together.

1. Look

Not for nothing they say - men love with their eyes. If a guy likes you, you can be sure that openly or furtively, but he is always watching you. Notice how he does it.

Direct and long lasting eye contact or a timid and timid look indicates an undoubted interest in you. Quite shy people often try to create the appearance that their attention was attracted by something located at a distance, while with peripheral vision they try to see you and catch your eye on themselves. This is easy to see by their absent or overly intense look.

2. Lips

If, while communicating with you, a guy looks at your lips and at the same time licks his own, do not hesitate, you are definitely attracted to him.

3. Body language

Body language can tell a lot about a man non-verbal communication. When you are near him, pay attention to his movements. Chaotic, superfluous, labored movements of the arms and legs can give out strong excitement. Crossed arms and legs during a conversation may also indicate the same. This is a protective posture that occurs involuntarily in a person, in response to strong excitement or self-doubt.

4. Breath

Rapid breathing with frequent deep inhalations and exhalations indicates a strong excitement, which may be caused by you.

5. Touch

Pay attention to every "accidental" touch of your interlocutor. sexual attraction looking for a way to express themselves and light touches or friendly hugs are one of them.

6. Communication

Much can be learned from simple unsophisticated communication. If a guy likes you, he will certainly try to somehow attract your attention. This can be expressed in a manner of speech that is usually not inherent in him, loud laughter, numerous attempts at a successful joke, in a word, he will try to impress you. Do not rush to turn away from the guy if he starts to praise himself. Perhaps selfishness has nothing to do with it and he just wants to please you.

7. Attention

If during a conversation a guy is distracted by others or, while listening to you, sees off passers-by with his eyes, then he is not interested in you. Otherwise, he would hang on to your every word and laugh at every joke.

8. Clumsiness

At your approach, he may become somewhat clumsy, drop everything, pick up the first object that comes across and fiddle with it. It also indicates a lot of excitement.

9. Appearance

Men are peacocks without feathers. Their main goal is to attract the attention of women by all accessible ways. One of them is clothes. A change of style, coupled with other signs, may indicate his passion, perhaps even you.

10. Friends

To attract your attention, men can talk and ask about you in your circle of friends.

11. Hobbies

Nothing brings people together like shared hobbies. He can listen to your favorite music, join your hobby or, having heard about your passion, for example, to sports, suddenly become an avid athlete.

12. Chance Encounters

At some point, you may notice that one guy in your life has become too much, and random encounters happen almost every day. Maybe they're not so random after all?

And remember, only the combination of the above mentioned signs can indicate sympathy for you. Do not rush to jump to conclusions, and always listen to inner voice. Sometimes only he knows the right answer.

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Discussion of the article "How to understand if a guy likes you?"

Lily

Hello! I know it sounds silly but I'm 10 and I like a boy. He is the same age as me, he is a month older than me. We live in the same house, study in the same class, and every time after school we go for a walk, it seems to me that he likes me.💗💗

15.02.2019 (22:27)

Eliza

Hi all! Help! The guy is usually sociable, laughs with everyone, communicates, but not very much with me, but often looks at me. Shoots eyes

23.01.2019 (00:06)

Laura

We have a high school student in the 11th grade who is studying, and he has only a year left here. And me too, but I leave after 9, too, sort of Last year. And when I saw him, I just liked him, and then I fell in love. To be honest, he doesn't look like an 11th grader. Then he began to often visit my page a couple of times a day. We often crossed eyes, and at school we often collided, a friend says that he looks at me when I stand with my back to him. And even when a girlfriend was in an awkward situation, he stood with a friend and laughed, it was in the corridor that he and his friend (but it was really funny there) And I don’t even know if this is mutual, whether he will take the initiative with modesty.

18.11.2018 (23:25)

Maria

Hi all. I am 15 years old, I finished school and work as a storekeeper. But at the same time, I have a girlfriend, and she has a brother. Em is 21 years old. And I really like him. When he sees me, he has a smile on his face. But at the same time, he pretends that he is not interested in me, but when I look at him, he begins to be embarrassed and turns away. Although we had such a period of time that we kissed, and he came up first, not me. Girls, I understand that I need to think about my studies and work, but he does not pour out of my head. God, what should I do, please tell me.

30.09.2018 (22:15)

Maria

I'm 12 and so is he, he's 3-4 months older, I've liked him for 1.5 years, last year he didn't show ANY signs! Even indifference, probably, only harsh jokes, but this year it became softer, began to look into my eyes, smiles, preens in front of me, that’s all online tests they say that he is in love, our mutual friends tease both him and me, he is embarrassed by this, flirts, but he seems to have a girlfriend, although a friend told me about this back in July, but he already showed signs then, and that from all sites like "how to understand that a guy likes you, signs" I collected 12-13 signs, can this be considered interest or love?

25.08.2018 (19:16)

Nadya

I'm sorry, there's a mistake, it's glued

17.06.2018 (00:29)

Nadya

Hey, I'm 17, I met a guy less than a week back. We decided to take a walk yesterday, it seems that several signs coincide. I really liked it. Everything seems to be slowly falling apart. But I'm afraid that I scared him away with my indecision and modesty. I suffer greatly because of this. He stopped wanting Good night before going to bed after the meeting. Suddenly cooled down. I don’t know what to do, I’m already writing to him first, but I still can’t talk about meetings, I’m leaving for the village. Eh, what if I completely dislike him until we see each other. That's it

17.06.2018 (00:24)

anon

I’m 12, and he’s 15) somehow played truth or dare and he said that he didn’t know whether he loves me or not, but to my girlfriend, when she started asking him (more precisely, to assert) if he loves me, he showed her the gesture “quietly “They often walked, but now they don’t even say hello, at school they often look at me. When walking, he began to pull my hair and say that he likes to get me. He did something to my name. Suppose my name is Milana (but, no, I'm not Milana), he says Milana (as a Caucasian distorted the name only to me

10.06.2018 (02:29)

Milena

I like a boy from our class, but I don't know if he likes me. He is behaving very strangely. In VKontakte, we correspond on duty, but at school we hardly communicate, he doesn’t even want to stand next to me, but on VK everything is as usual. Help me please. Does he like me or not

26.03.2018 (18:40)

anon

I like my classmate since 3rd grade (I'm in 6th). But recently he confessed his love to me best friend! I do not know what to do!! She kind of said she didn't want to date him, but they often talk together about something!! And I'm not happy! It's still very soon Valentine's Day and I want to either get a valentine from him or write to him myself. Tell me what to do! Please.

07.02.2018 (16:33)

Yoke

I am 11 years old. I really like the boy (also 11 years old). He used to beat in my class but unfortunately moved. On the last day at the disco before the new year, he invited me to a slow dance and we danced. We also lived earlier and we were beaten by a company of 3 boys and me and my girlfriend.
On February 14, we are going on an excursion with the class. He will go with us. How do you think I should roast Valentine first, and even if I don't get anything from him?

05.02.2018 (23:29)

anonymous

Love is a piece of shit, study hard and you'll find one.

18.01.2018 (00:39)

anonymous

I’m 12, I’m in the 6th grade, I really like 1 boy, he’s handsome, but no one from the class loves him except me (although I’m not sure) but in the 1st grade and in the 2nd he loved me and gave gifts cards. And now I’m in 6 and it’s the other way around. and not given, my girlfriend asked him who he loves, well, she persuaded him for a long time and he said that he likes her and me. but it seems to me that he doesn’t like me and my girlfriend does, but there is one nuance we recently went with literally yesterday, and we even sat next to each other in the theater, and when we were driving back we sang songs and he constantly looked at me and I at him, and the day before yesterday we even walked with nm together, launched a quadrocopter and fired firecrackers, but then not any didn't notice me

02.01.2018 (22:09)

Anonymous

I have a friend, well, we've known each other for a long time, but we don't see each other very often.
And when I see him, I can’t help it, my pupils dilate, and .. not in short, I go crazy .. and it’s visible! My relatives tell me that it’s very noticeable, but what I read here exactly matches with the way he behaves with me, well, almost everything

I don't know if he likes me, although I think YES, but I don't know ..
What do you think please help

Far from always people are frank and openly express the feelings that they experience. And oddly enough, good emotions much harder to show than the bad ones. If a person is dissatisfied with something or someone, then, most likely, no matter how he restrains himself, he will soon voice it in one way or another. And he is able to masterfully hide sympathy long time, and in such a way that no one will guess about it true feelings. This is especially true for guys in love. Sometimes, feeling sympathy for a girl, they demonstrate directly opposite attitude trying to mislead her. To understand that a guy likes you, you need to know the main signs that indicate falling in love. "Trying on" them on a man, you can easily bring him to clean water.

If a guy stubbornly refuses to show his feelings and intentions, then you will have to stock up on observation, analytical skills and evaluate his behavior. Even the most cautious conspirators, as a rule, give themselves away very quickly, because, having built a certain strategy of behavior, they simultaneously send unconscious signals, which are worth paying attention to.

Even if a guy carefully hides his feelings, he can still be identified by some signs.

visual signs

Even without talking to a person, by his behavior, gestures and facial expressions, you can try to understand what feelings and emotions he is experiencing. All this visual signs sympathies, that is, those that can be seen with the eyes.

Sight. A person who does not have particularly acute feelings for someone who is nearby looks at the interlocutor directly, but calmly, sometimes looking away as they communicate. And the one who has powerful emotions, as a rule, cannot maintain adequate visual contact. A guy who likes a girl either literally glares at her, or, conversely, hides them. Which of these options depends on his temperament, self-confidence and the reason why feelings are carefully hidden from their object. For example, if a man is silent about sympathy because, despite his emotions, he does not want to burden himself with relationships, then he will look at the girl without any embarrassment. And if the reason for the silence is self-doubt and a feeling that he is not good enough, then you can often see eyes averted to the side.
Pupils. One of the most uncontrollable reactions is the reaction of the pupils. They will definitely give out the slightest excitement experienced by a person. Dilated pupils clearly indicate that the guy is experiencing something.
The guy's attempts to invade the girl's personal space. The desire to be closer pushes him forward, and as a result, without realizing it, he comes almost close.
Thumbs tucked into the belt. A gesture similar in meaning is hands in pockets, and thumbs outside. So guys emphasize their masculinity. Although in fairness it should be noted that even if there are no girls nearby, such gestures can still be used, because you want to feel more courageous both in the company of men, and even alone.
Pose. It is believed that people turn their toes and body towards the person they like. Therefore, if in big company the body of a man seems to “look” in the direction of the same girl, then, undoubtedly, he likes her.

Video: 5 signs that a guy is sympathetic

An overly frank look that a man throws without hesitation at a woman’s chest and hips certainly speaks of his sympathy, but does not mean at all that there is something more to it than ordinary sexual interest. Therefore, psychologists advise to closely monitor the attitude of a man as a whole, and not to make hasty conclusions.

Verbal signs

The most convenient reason for studying the behavior of a guy for sympathy is a conversation, during which you need to pay attention to some signs.

Nervousness in speech. It manifests itself in shy guys. At the sight of an object of adoration, they get lost, forget that they need to speak, slow down or, conversely, speed up speech.
The timbre of the voice becomes lower than usual. This is an attempt to look more courageous in the eyes of a girl.
Boasting and boasting. In an attempt to arouse admiration, guys are able to talk for hours about their existing and non-existent exploits. As a rule, in addition to this, a modestly lowered look can be observed. Also practiced philosophical sayings accompanied by heavy sighs of the wise life experience person. And, of course, this “prince on a white horse” will argue that if he hasn’t achieved something in life, it’s only because he doesn’t need it, because a person like him is definitely above all this fuss of the material world .
Clumsy attempts to find out information about the girl. Asking her directly about her personal life would be too easy. It happens, of course, and this, but basically this question is asked as if by the way, without obvious interest.
Coarseness. Yes, it happens. It's good that this doesn't happen too often. Notorious men (often very young) in an attempt to disguise feelings can fall into the other extreme. And then it is simply difficult for them to stop, they are in a confused state and do not know how to behave.

A man in love always tries to appear cooler than he is.

How different zodiac signs hide their feelings

The Aries man will always be somewhere nearby, will always try to touch the object of feelings, violate personal space. This sign loves development, including when it comes to relationships. Therefore, he will not beat around the bush for a long time. Either he decides to speak frankly, or even switches to another girl.
Taurus becomes very attentive and courteous. He tries to help in everything, to take care and in general to seem kinder than he is.
Gemini wants to immediately demonstrate all his strengths and sometimes it can be intrusive. She prefers to lure a woman she likes with humor.
The Cancer man is perhaps the most secretive of all the signs. It is difficult to understand what he is experiencing. Communicates with the object of sympathy calmly and with restraint, and may even avoid communication until he decides for sure that he needs a relationship with this girl.
A lion. That's who loves to demonstrate strength and success even more Gemini. Leo will immediately tell you in detail how good he is. Likes to impress with gifts.
The Virgo guy is in perfect control of himself, so it is unlikely that he will be able to understand what he feels until he himself decides to show it. But in general, his attitude will be emphatically benevolent.

A guy in love always takes care of a girl

Libra always tries to give the object of feelings as much time as possible. He talks a lot and jokes. At the same time unobtrusive. As a rule, natural indecision for a long time does not allow him to take any more specific actions.
The Scorpio boy loves the girls themselves to fall at his feet, so he often plays with them, moving closer and further away. At first, he aggressively seeks a meeting, but during it he demonstrates coldness or even neglect. Jealous and touchy, including when the girl does not yet belong to him. Therefore, he is often annoyed and cannot always hide it.
Sagittarius has no complexes, no desire to think about the prospects for relationships and build far-reaching plans. Therefore, he immediately begins to win the object of sympathy, while absolutely not hiding his intentions. Well, even if he does not talk about feelings for some time, everything is already clear from his meaningful views.
Capricorn can hint at feelings for the chosen one for a long time in the hope that she herself will take the first step. This sign is very shy and afraid to show excessive emotionality.
Aquarius men, despite the fact that they impress enough soft people are firmly moving towards their goal. They do not rush things, but systematically increase the number of meetings and the duration of communication, starting to devote a lot of time to the girl they like.
The Pisces guy is very caring, to the point that he begins to control the girl he liked. He is interested in what she does, what she eats, how many hours she sleeps, etc. At the same time, he is very shy, so in the presence of an object of sympathy, at times he may look confused.

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How else can he give himself away

The behavior of a guy in love may, among other things, depend on what kind of relationship connects him with the object of sympathy.

If you just communicate or know each other only by correspondence

If communication between a guy and a girl has just begun and has not yet grown into friendship, then a young man in love, of course, will try to get as close as possible to the object of adoration, somehow “hook”, find common interests and points of contact. For example, if people communicate by correspondence, then he responds to the message immediately, as if he was specially sitting and waiting for it to come. He asks questions, trying not to end the conversation prematurely, and when the correspondence is still interrupted, the next conversation starts first. Although if a guy has firmly decided not to show his feelings, then he can deliberately delay answering the messages sent to him, pretending that he does not expect them and is generally thinking about something else. This is a favorite technique for girls, but it turns out that the stronger sex uses the same methods.

If he is too shy

Shyness - not so much good quality especially for a man. If he is like that, then it is not known when he will take the first step and show sympathy. Most likely, this will not happen soon, because he is very afraid of being rejected. Shy Guys, as a rule, are very lost in the presence of a girl they like. He will not be able to be witty and charismatic, he will not talk much about himself, extolling his qualities and achievements, and even taking the initiative in communication can be difficult for him. Often looks away and is afraid to touch the girl. Therefore, if she has an interest in this guy, it is better to start taking the initiative first. Just be very careful, because especially shy young people can easily be scared off.

If you don't know him or if he's an unfamiliar guy

If a guy liked a girl, but they have never communicated with her, he will think about what reason to find for dating. In the meantime, he does this, he will probably try to be somewhere nearby all the time. For example, visit places where she often visits, pass by work or a fitness room where a girl visits. He will go to the same store, sign up for the same club, start walking the dog under her windows. And of course, everything will be clear in his eyes. Although he may be looking at the girl so that she does not notice it. In the end, an unfamiliar young man still has to decide and come up, one can only hope that he does not come up with some sophisticated way for casual dating.

If a guy carefully hides his feelings, most often his eyes still betray him.

If it's a friend

As you know, it is very difficult to transfer relations from friendship to something more. Psychologists say that if people communicate in a certain way for some time, then it is difficult for them to get out of the role that they have chosen for themselves in a relationship. Other roles in communication with certain person they begin to feel out of place. Therefore, a friend who wants to become more than just a friend has a particularly hard time. He, as a rule, does not know what approach to find for a girl, and if he makes any hints, then she stubbornly does not want to understand them. So sooner or later he will still have to say everything directly. And until this happens, he will be very caring. Such a person is always ready to help, even sometimes to the detriment of his own interests. And girls sometimes consult with friends about young people they like. Of course, a friend in love will do his best to drive his beloved away from other men.

There are a number of fortune-telling and other rituals on the network that promise to lift the veil of secrecy. Believe them or not - your choice.

If it's an ex boyfriend

FROM ex-boyfriends, unlike friends, everything is very simple. They, as a rule, do not show any shyness, communicate calmly and allow themselves a lot of things. The whole problem is to talk frankly and offer to reconcile. But they cannot be the first to do this, giving the girl such an opportunity. In any case, if the guy is determined to leave, then he will not provoke ex girlfriend to communication, but, on the contrary, will avoid it in order to quickly normalize the situation and start a new life. If he continues to be nearby, then the gap occurred due to a misunderstanding, but feelings still remain.

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How men of different ages hide their feelings: a bit of psychology

It seems that with age, people become more reasonable, get rid of complexes and learn to talk about their feelings. But it only seems. Regardless of age, a man can go out of his way to demonstrate indifference, while in fact a woman is not at all indifferent to him. And he has even more reasons for this than young guy, which, as a rule, is driven either by self-doubt, or by the unwillingness to be “driven under the heel” and, as a result, ridiculed by friends.

A man who has reached the age of at least 30 - 40 years old can hide feelings for the following reasons:

he considers the girl too frivolous and unsuitable for a relationship;
for some reason he decided that she wanted to “sit on his neck” or use it in some other way;
he has a wife and a mistress, so the poor man does not have enough time for women;
he is generally tired of women and he wants to rest;
he understands that it would be necessary to find a more profitable party, because it is time to think not only about feelings, but also about the vital.

In all these (and not only these) cases, he expects all emotions to subside by themselves. But it continues to behave very strangely. Just like a young guy, he will try to appear better and more courageous than he really is. I must say that the older the man, the funnier it looks from the outside. All other verbal and non-verbal signs sympathy may also be present. Some men, as in their youth, may even begin to be shy when communicating.

However, one should not forget that experienced man much smarter and more cunning than the young one, and therefore is able to deliberately play out signs of ineptly hidden sympathy in order to bring the girl to emotions and make her interested in him. Although now this can be expected from young guys. Some even deliberately learn how to manipulate women, such as in pickup courses.

The reluctance of guys to talk about their feelings is not big problem, because having studied the external verbal and non-verbal signs of these feelings, you can easily understand everything on your own. In principle, most of the signals sent by men are perceived by a woman at the subconscious level, without focusing on them, but at the same time intuitively feeling that they feel sympathy for her. Problems arise only when she herself is in love. At such a moment, all girls begin to look for confirmation of reciprocity and sometimes wishful thinking. Here you just need to remember the signs by which you can determine whether the guy is experiencing any feelings or not, and try to soberly assess the situation. This will help protect you from unnecessary worries and uncertainties.

How to understand that a man likes you? These questions are asked by women at any age. In fact, it is enough just to closely observe the behavior of the stronger sex to understand whether they have sympathy for you or not.

General signs of sympathy

Sympathy often grows out of friendship. Men who are passionate about a girl try to learn as much as possible about her and become faithful and reliable friends with her.
Constant random encounters sign explicit attention. For example, a male colleague who feels sympathy for a lady may come across a girl not only at work, but also on the street, in a cafe or with mutual friends. When there are more than three such meetings in a short time period, we can talk about feelings.
If a young man sees in a girl those character traits and spiritual qualities, which are invisible to others, then the rest of the advice is superfluous, because sympathy is obvious.
When stronger sex a woman is not indifferent, common interests are always needed to establish contact. If a man suddenly fell in love with books and films that are similar in taste to ladies, this speaks of hope for a relationship;
Signs of attention may not always be public and romantic. Some men, on the contrary, turn on the mode of aggression and ignoring, avoiding the girl they like.

Appearance

Sometimes just one look at the appearance of a guy is enough to determine that he has a strong sympathy for the girl with whom he communicates.

When meeting with a lady of the heart, a man will always be well-groomed and perfectly dressed. He will constantly smooth and correct something to look even more beautiful.
When a face turns pale or reddens sharply when a woman appears, we can talk about the indifferent attitude towards her on the part of a man.
If a girl praised some item of clothing or a guy's perfume, he will definitely use these things more often, especially when meeting with his beloved.
A man's style and appearance can change after meeting a girl he likes. Romantic feelings push for something new.

Gestures and postures (nlp)

Non-verbal sources of information, according to psychologists, can tell much more truth than words. Watch how a man meets you or escorts you home.

If a guy constantly adjusts his clothes, then he definitely wants to look prettier in the eyes of his companion.
When sympathy is really sincere, then you want to touch a person. Therefore, multiple touches of the girl’s hand or hair speak of real interest.
The facial expressions of a young man in love often repeat the habits of the object of sympathy. Men unconsciously adopt the gestures and movements of those women who are not indifferent to them.
To show self-confidence and strength, men can often put their hands on their belts.
The object of sympathy always causes embarrassment and timidity, so the stronger sex in a conversation with women often scratches the back of the head.
To appear more solid and taller next to beautiful lady, men straighten and slightly raise their shoulders, and also draw in their stomach.
If a guy looks at a girl with his mouth open, he is definitely delighted with her appearance.
To their sympathy, men try to position themselves as openly as possible, so their chest, shoulders, toes will always unconsciously turn towards an interesting woman.
The palms of the hands, like the whole body, expresses sympathy for the indifferent lady. Therefore, as a rule, even if the hands are on the knees, the palms are always open.
In romantic excitement, men feel insecure, and are constantly looking for support. A sign of this condition is a leg put forward when meeting a girl.
In addition, men always want to subconsciously be closer to the object of their sympathy. Therefore, they will reduce the distance between themselves and the lady of the heart during the conversation.
Not knowing how to behave and what to say leads to constant unconscious button twirling.
To appear more attractive, men often smooth their hair and casually rub their chin or cheeks.
A sign of sympathy for the interlocutor in the dialogue is slightly raised eyebrows.

Looks (eye play)

Since the eyes are the mirror of the soul, sometimes it is enough to take a closer look at the direction of your acquaintance's gaze.

A brave young man will always throw at you interested views for a long time.
A stranger can also like you. Usually, guys cast meek, timid glances at pretty strangers, and immediately avert their eyes when their eyes meet.
Dilated pupils when looking at a girl - a sure sign sincere sympathy from the side of the guy.
If a man's gaze is focused on the area female forehead or bridge of the nose, then, most likely, we are talking just about a business relationship.
But the wandering gaze, sliding from the eyes to the lips and back, speaks of an offer of friendship.
When a man looks askance, his eyes are filled with tenderness, and he smiles, we can talk about great sympathy.
Even in the company of friends or in the crowd, the guy will not lose sight of the girl he likes.

deeds

The behavior of a man in love always changes, regardless of his age. He pays a woman maximum of his attention and will always be there in difficult times.

If you listen to a dialogue between two people, you can always determine by the intonation and content of the conversation who likes whom more.

A man will never allow rudeness and disrespect on his part to a girl who is attractive to him.
Guys try to avoid controversial situations and demonstrate compliance in a conversation with their sympathy.
There will always be jokes in the conversation to maintain a positive and good mood.
Compliments constantly sound from the lips of a guy in the direction of his sympathy.
When the topic of conversation concerns the future, a man in love will talk not only about himself, but also about his companion.
The guys listen to the stories of their beloved girl very carefully and remember all the little things.
Men themselves are also frank in dialogue with the object of adoration. They share stories from the past and are not afraid to look sentimental or worried.
Guys calmly discuss with pretty girl family and children issues.
Being separated from their beloved, young people always say that they are bored.
Not a single man will discuss other girls in the presence of his sympathy.

Sympathy of an unfree man

How to determine what you like married man? Some hints will help you in watching him:

attitude at first married guy may be completely indifferent or vague, because he will try to suppress these feelings in himself;
all your own free time he will spend with you, trying to come up with reasons for the absence of the house;
he will not talk in your presence about his wife and children, if any;
he will hint or decisively declare to you that he is ready for a divorce for the sake of a new relationship.

Adult male sympathy

It is easy for an adult man to like you if you are young and beautiful, but it is much more difficult to understand the seriousness of his intentions:

older guys tend to be determined. Therefore, they will take the first step and invite you on a date;
they will not disappear after the start of a relationship, they will definitely get in touch by phone or on the Internet;
adult men always remember the need to buy flowers for a meeting and the importance of unexpected gifts;
if for your sake an adult and a serious guy goes to reckless acts, he is definitely not indifferent to you;
also know that career and work are important for any adult man. If he's willing to put you above that, he's most likely truly in love.

Sympathies of the zodiac signs

How to understand that a girl likes a man? If you know who the young man you are interested in is according to the horoscope, then you can easily identify signs of his increased interest in you.

Capricorn

Capricorn men are equally polite and gallant with all the ladies.
True sympathy, however, they always keep in their field of vision, keep up a conversation with her, comment on jokes and take her position in any dispute.
Unusual dates from Capricorn can not wait. Conservatives in love, representatives of this zodiac sign express their interest in ordinary everyday actions.
First, Capricorns try to get to know the girl better, and then call on dates and give gifts.
If a lady is not indifferent, such men will always prepare to introduce her to their family.
For Capricorns, a career is very important, so if a man shares all the news from work with just one girl, sympathy is on his face.

Aquarius

The creative nature of this zodiac quickly loses interest in everything. Therefore, if after a couple of dates a man has not disappeared, he definitely has sympathy for a woman. Also, Aquarians in love often call and send SMS to the girl of interest.
With sympathy, Aquarius men are very shy. They often look away and smile in bewilderment. When this zodiac is in love, he ceases to be the center of attention when the object of his adoration appears.
Representatives of this sign are not very punctual, so they come on time only to meetings with those people who are really dear to them.
Aquarians are ready to make any surprises and go for the most unexpected actions for the people they like.
The love of such men resembles the behavior of a child. They are constantly in a cheerful mood, humming something and smiling for no reason.
Aquarians suffering from absent-mindedness always remember the stories of a person they are interested in to the smallest detail.

Fish

The sympathy of this sign is expressed in timidity and tenderness. Confident and courageous Pisces men become affectionate and soft.
Pisces always share their emotional experiences with those who care about them. Sincerity in conversations is very important to them.
Men actively gesticulate and move sharply in the presence of an interesting lady.
Pisces are very jealous of their object of adoration.
This zodiac sign loves grooming. Compliments and gifts will be very romantic.

Aries

Aries men are very straightforward. They begin to conquer the girl and express their feelings immediately.
This sign loves classic courtship with flowers and dates in a secluded setting.
In love, this zodiac will not be recognized. But he will prove his sympathy with loyalty and decency.
Aries are very understanding and gallant. They will not behave aggressively if they see that circumstances require a woman to be alone.

Taurus

Taurus men do not show their sympathy immediately. They need time to sort out their feelings.
This sign has few emotions. However, he gives gifts with attention and flowers. But if the coldness disappears, we are talking about great sympathy and trust.
Taurus like to impress, so they are prone to unusual behavior and surprises. In addition, they surround the object of their adoration with great care.
Representatives of this zodiac take all the initiative in the relationship and are positioned immediately as leaders.
Confessions of love and talk about own feelings are also not feature closed Taurus. But they are ready to discuss the family future and exchange interests with pleasure with those who are not indifferent to them.

Twins

Gemini men are not too constant, so if they have been showing interest in a woman for a long time, it is worth talking about serious intentions.
Geminis sincerely love to give compliments and surprises.
Also, representatives of this sign are ready to show themselves in at its best, therefore, they amaze women with gallantry and unpredictability.
Young people with the Gemini zodiac are changeable in their mood. However, if, despite the gloomy mood, a man goes on a date, the woman is very dear to him.

crayfish

Cancer men hide feelings because of their strong emotionality and subtle mental organization.
Being in love, this zodiac closes, begins to be embarrassed and embarrassed in the presence of his sympathy.
Cancers are terrible jealous people. They can express it openly or they can wind themselves up with no visible signs.
This sign loves maximalism. Therefore, he is ready to fulfill any whims of the chosen one.
Such men will never show their weaknesses. They try to stay strong and courageous in dealing with a lady.
For the sake of the object of sympathy, Cancers are ready to change, abandon old habits and open up to new ones.

lions

Leo men completely dissolve in their feelings. When they see their beloved, their eyes burn and shine, although their gaze may be running or lowered to the floor.
Representatives of this zodiac are ready to express their sympathy through creativity. They will write poems and songs to their beloved with complete sincerity.
Lions will definitely try to share all the interests of a girl they like. Men will imitate the object of their admiration in behavior, hobbies and points of view on various issues.
This sign will definitely impress a woman. Lions sometimes compliment themselves more often than their companion. They love surprises and unpredictability in behavior.
An integral sign of Leo's sympathy is very strong jealousy.

Virgin

Virgo men will not show signs of attention and invite you on a date right away. Romance is not their forte.
The main indicator of Virgo's sympathy is frequent heart-to-heart talk.
Representatives of this zodiac show their interest quite extraordinary. They may begin to criticize, point out, and give advice.
When Virgos are determined with their feelings, they do not skimp on gifts. But they will always be very useful and practical.
Men of this sign are also distinguished by extraordinary fidelity and devotion to their beloved.

Scales

The desire to be perfect for a pretty companion leads Libra men to carefully monitor their appearance and are very fussy if they notice some flaw in themselves.
Libra loves to talk beautiful words and compliments to those who really deserve them, in their opinion.
In the presence of the object of his sympathy, this zodiac often hides his eyes and tries not to cross his eyes.
Among the gifts, this sign will always choose the most unusual. Such men always try to be original.

scorpions

Scorpio men hide their feelings. But if they want, they can very quickly open up to an interesting person.
Scorpios are ready to take the most unexpected and risky actions in order to win a girl.
This zodiac sign will change for the sake of love. He will be happy to adapt to the object of his sympathy.
Complex in nature, such men immediately become gentle and caring.
Scorpios also do not skimp on gifts, and they do not pay attention to money.

archers

Sagittarius men do not immediately reveal their feelings, they need time to appreciate the chosen one.
Sagittarians always try to be close to their sympathy and be understanding themselves.
The candy-bouquet period of this zodiac is unpredictable. They arrange unusual dates and give many gifts.
In everyday matters, the attitude of Sagittarius is almost not manifested. They are not very practical, but they are ready to cancel any important meeting for a date.
Sagittarians are very jealous. They will never forgive betrayal and will not agree to attention being paid to someone else but them.

By his behavior with you and towards you Guys try to take care of the girls they like. If he offers you help even when you did not ask for it, this clearly indicates that you are of his interest, and he wants to work on you good impression. For example, you casually mentioned that you don’t know how to restore some function on your phone - in response, he will offer to see what the problem is. Or, he will let you wear his jacket, seeing that you are dressed lightly and obviously cold. In general, any manifestations of care are a good sign. The opposite is also possible - he wants you to take part in his affairs. For example, he may ask him for a choice of some thing, showing that he trusts your opinion. He also consults with you on various issues - cooking a certain dish, which series or movie to watch, and the like. By the way a guy communicates with you He constantly tries to maintain a dialogue, regardless of whether you communicate in person or by correspondence. If there are awkward pauses, he tries to fill them with some stories or asks you questions. Similar behavior in social networks (in contact, classmates, etc.) - even if last message in a conversation was from him, then, without waiting for your reaction, he will write to you again. Also a good sign the fact that a guy likes you is the fact that he wants to treat you to something - coffee, an apple, sweets, and the like. If you notice that a young man is trying to joke to cheer you up, then this is also a long-term "signal" - he clearly hopes to impress you. By his gestures, look, smile When you appear in the company, his behavior changes a little - he may become more tense or, on the contrary, behave more cheekily. Communicating with you, he tries to be as close as possible - he leans towards you and for several seconds, or even longer, looks at you intently, listens carefully to everything you say. It is possible that he tries to touch you at any convenient moment - crossing the road, showing something on his phone, adjusting your scarf, etc. A smile can appear on his face completely involuntarily when he sees you - during a conversation, in the first seconds of a meeting, when he catches your eye on him. By the appearance of a guy, a change in appearance He is concerned about his appearance, and even if he does not directly ask if everything is all right with him, it is still noticeable that this is important for him - he tries to straighten some elements of clothing, touches his hair, and on occasion looks at his reflection in the mirror surfaces. He tries to sit straight, with his shoulders back, turned towards you - while his posture may look somewhat tense. By the way, dilated pupils when looking at you can also say a lot!

How to know if a guy likes you by text or phone

Some young people cannot decide to express their sympathy in person, preferring telephone conversations or SMS. In this case, there are several signs that clearly demonstrate his sympathy:

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the right impression

obvious sign

How to understand that you like by correspondence on the network

Correspondence on the Web takes more and more time, however, even without “live” communication with a young man, it is easy to determine that he has certain feelings for you. He is waiting for you. Now many VK users have the opportunity to be on their page in such a way that their friends are not even aware of it. If you went online and saw that a young man also appeared online, despite the fact that before that he had not been there for several hours or days, and this is not the first time this has happened, it looks like he was waiting for you. Surely, being in the status of "invisible", he watched when you appeared in VK, and as soon as this happened, he decided to go in himself. Attention. As soon as it appears on your "wall" new post, he usually likes it. The same applies to your new photos. He also often does not skimp on comments on certain entries. In general, any activity on your page does not hide from his gaze, and, of course, this indicates an interest in you. He is active. Even if you never write to him first, it is not difficult for him to take on this mission. He may be interested in how your day went, just throw off funny pictures or video, send you songs on the "wall", ask various questions. It also asks you about the photos that appear on your profile - when they were taken, who is with you in the pictures, and so on.

He is jealous. If posts from other male users appear on your “wall”, he can accompany them with unflattering comments or write something to you personally about this - make fun of the post, just ask about the guy’s personality, etc. It can also clarify whether you like someone. If you do not respond to his message for a long time, he jokingly or offendedly suggests that you are communicating with a more interesting interlocutor. He tries to please. In his profile there were entries that are clearly related to you. Perhaps some time ago you were discussing some musical artist, film or show, and now there is a record on its “wall” that develops this topic - a quote from a film, a song, some kind of picture. the interest of his friends. His friends or relatives suddenly began to “like” you some pictures or posts, or even add them as friends. This certainly indicates that the guy is talking about you to other people and, apparently, this is happening in a positive way. He is alert. He does not disappear in the middle of a conversation with you for a couple of days. If he needs to go away, he usually tries to warn you about it. He also talks about his plans, even if you didn't ask about them. He is worried. If you have not been online for several days, this will by no means hide from his attention. As soon as you enter VK, at the very first dialogue he will try to find out why you have been absent for so long.

As usual, a guy shows his sympathy

If a guy likes you, then you will immediately understand it by the signs below:

How to warm up his interest in you or sue the ardor

The fact that a man likes you can cause you an ambiguous reaction. With mutual sympathy, of course, you want to provoke the chosen one to more active actions, but it also happens that there is no reciprocal interest, and, accordingly, there is a desire to get rid of the persistent admirer.

How to increase sympathy

1. Show interest in it. Ask about how his day went, what kind of music he is interested in. Also specify what genres of cinema he prefers, what he enjoys, what places he likes to visit. 2. When meeting with the object of sympathy, try to look spectacular. Let your clothes not be defiant, but emphasize your most advantageous sides. Do not forget about the details - manicure, hairstyle, suitable makeup. If while your communication takes place on the Web, then try to add the most successful photos more often. 3. Compliment him more often. Praise his musical preferences, external data (hairstyle, eye color, figure, etc.), ask him to recommend a film, and then thank him for his choice. 4. Be friendly when communicating with him - smile, show interest in the topic that he touched on, do not interrupt him or ignore him. 5. Show him that you are a rather versatile person who is not used to being bored. Sign up for some courses, master classes, group lessons fitness or dancing. Go to different places more often, mentioning this in a conversation with a young man. 6. Let him know that you are not in any relationship. If you want the guy you like to take more active steps, flirt exclusively with him. Of course, this does not mean that you should ignore other fans. Just show the guy the greatest interest he calls you. 7. Show him signs of attention, but do not be intrusive, observe the measure. From time to time, you can be interested in his affairs in VK, but if he does not particularly develop the topic, then press him. Let him know that you care about him, but you are not going to impose yourself. 8. If it seems to you that he pays little attention to you, and could be more active, do not tell him about it and do not express complaints and grievances. He may not realize that you expect more decisive behavior from him, and you can hint at this not with reproaches, but with flirting. 9. Invite him somewhere - just in a cafe for coffee, to the cinema, to the skating rink or for a walk in the park. Say that a few stood out free hours and you have an idea to call or write to him about it. It is desirable if at this time the guy will not be busy with anything.

How to make it clear that there is no reciprocity

Say it straight. Call him on straight Talk and admit that your sympathy does not go beyond friendship. hint that you have long liked another young man, and you do not want to build a relationship with anyone else. Don't pay attention to him, answer his questions briefly and dryly, do not ask counter questions. In social networks do not reply to his messages immediately. Wait for some time, and only then give a monosyllabic answer or not react at all, if, in principle, his message did not contain direct question. Do not write to him first. Feel free to flirt with others young people around him or talking about a guy you like. Avoid private meetings. If you have to see each other in a company, then do not pay more attention to him than to others.