How not to let energy take away from yourself. How vital energy is taken away. Pride leads away from true strength, replacing it with imaginary confidence

15.04.2019

The loss of human energy and its accumulation is a constant process. And you, dear reader, need to know how to maintain the balance of your internal energy and properly dispose of it. What do we need energy for, I wrote in the article

We can continuously increase our energy different ways... And there are quite a few methods. But, if you fill a container with water in which there are holes, then this container will never be filled, because there will be a constant leak of water from these holes.

So it is with our energy. Until we understand and know where the leak is coming from, we cannot increase our energy level.
In the process of observing and realizing the application of your forces or their waste, you learn to catch energy leaks and stop them.

And so, how the loss of human energy occurs:

Envy, jealousy, anger, irritation, hatred and anger,
Substitution of individual consciousness for public
Fears about avoiding what you don't want
Viewing negative information
Feelings of guilt and regret for what has been done
Worries and worries about money
Attempts to be accepted in society or an excessive desire to please
Lies and attempts to hide these lies
Drugs, alcohol
Diseases
Constant reliving of past events

1. The biggest devourer of your energy is yourself.
These are arguments with yourself about what is possible and what is not, constant doubts, your reaction to what others will say and much more ...

Stop terrorizing yourself! Just do what you think is right and important to you. The voices inside you will gradually fade away, and the critics from outside will calm down as well. You will stop depending on them. In the end, it's up to you to live.

Success in your life is your result, which you get, and your mistakes are also your result. You will never get any results if you don't try. And at the end of your life you will blame all the advisers, all the well-wishers, except yourself, if you do not learn to choose your own decisions. From this moment on, you yourself choose your path.

Write down a constitution for your independence and stick to it. Do non-standard actions, even if they seem delusional to someone, but allow yourself to be who you really are and without looking back, while maintaining your integrity.

I really like this expression:
Dance, as if no one sees you, Sing, as if no one hears you, Love, as if no one has ever hurt you, Live as if paradise on earth!

2. Extinguish "hot spots".
If a person does not know how to control his attention, this leads to a loss of energy. What are the foci?
These are all things that keep you from relaxing or concentrating.

What could it be? For example, they parked your car in a place where you could be fined. You will constantly think about it and will not be able to concentrate on something very important. Or, when going on vacation, turn off the shared water taps.

Delegate control over any actions to someone who can do it and you will not have to constantly remember something and keep it in your head. Get into the habit of organizing things with a minimum of "hot spots" and you will be able to do much more things due to the redistribution of energy.

Or, for example, if you give too much attention to something or someone that outrages you, annoys you. For example, discussing someone, grinding all this over and over again, there is a very strong loss of energy, because You focus your attention on this and get angry. You spill your emotional energy... Instead, they could focus on solving their more important tasks.

Confucius said so about this:
The scary thing is not that you were deceived, robbed or slandered, but that you constantly think about it and remember.

Energy is where our attention is.
We are bad at managing our attention. There are tons of useful or useless information flowing into the brain all the time, and we are constantly distracted by something. Our attention is scattered effortlessly. And he concentrates with great difficulty.

3.Communication with negative people
Change your environment. Look for positive and successful people, those who support you, and communicate with them. Limit communication with negative people, stop talking about "everything is bad" and "nothing will work." This is a big energy drain. Try to think positively. There is always something good in any situation, you just need to find it.

Who you communicate with is a reflection of who you really are.
Learning to believe in what you think is right and not doubt your path is the first step towards releasing your inner hurricane of energy.

4 perfectionism
These are exaggerated standards for yourself and those around you. Don't waste too much time on meaningful details.
Perfectionism includes:
- excessively high standards (leads to strong decline satisfaction with the results of their activities);
-concentration on mistakes and looping, which prevents further progress;
- doubts about the quality of performance;
- susceptibility to high expectations;
-sensitivity to criticism;
- imbalance in the assessment of oneself and others.

Perfectionism hinders the achievement of results. Because of the desire to do everything the most the best way, many talented and smart people trying to do everything perfectly and do not achieve anything in life.

Due to perfectionism, there is a powerful loss of human energy. We cannot afford to slow down because of the habit of bringing everything to perfection, because perfection is a subjective thing and it is not wise to spend a lot of time on it, in any case.

5.Anger
Stop giving your attention, money, time to everyone right and left. Do not let sit on your neck, justifying it with pity and imposed moral values on you.
Anger does not have to be spilled out.

Anger is a strong indicator when your subconscious mind signals to you that you are not doing what you want. And on this signal, you can make a decision: give the energy of this anger to continue doing nothing, or make a decision and start doing. Sometimes you need to be angry with yourself. This is a source for increasing energy, but for action. Just do not use anger to blame yourself and others for all mortal sins and your failures.

6. Resentment and discontent.
I was once taught to be alone important technique... True, then I did not suspect that this was one of the techniques for preventing energy leakage. Do not accumulate grievances, even if it seems to you that they are petty or not significant, always express and discuss. Place the cards on the table. Have different people emotional perception may be different. And what seems to one person to be nonsense may seem to another
very important. Or vice versa.

Since then, I have taken this as a rule of communication with people. Thanks to this rule, such sensations as a stone on the heart or a worm that devours from the nutria is almost unknown to me today. But these are colossal energy eaters.

"Clean up" the relationship. If you want to say something to someone for a long time, discuss it. It improves rapport, makes communication easier, and removes a bunch of bricks from your heart. And also, there are ways out of the situation to a joint understanding and solution of the problem.

7. Learn to forgive and ask for forgiveness.
Thus, you will block the most powerful channel of your energy leakage.
You will feel such relief, as if a heavy bag was dropped from your shoulders!

And so, I gave examples of major energy leaks.

Let's summarize how you can prevent the loss of human energy:

Before pumping up energy, learn how to effectively manage what you have. Remove distractions, plug leaks, clear blockages. Start mastering energy management precisely with the prevention of your, so to speak, "energy intensity". The work is great, but rewarding. Even small successes on this path immediately return to you a hundredfold.

P.S. Perhaps you know how else the loss of human energy occurs, I will be glad to your comments and additions. And don't forget to click on the Social buttons. Networks, if you find this article helpful to your friends.

The first type is an innate store of sexual energy.

A certain amount of it is passed on to us at birth from our parents. This supply of energy is limited and is not replenished during life. It is a pity that we use it, mindlessly, wasting energy anywhere.

The second type is energy acquired during life.

Another type sexual energy- this is what we accumulate and acquire ourselves. This number may vary..

But not all people, unfortunately, know how to properly replenish the reserves of their vitality.

Often, along with the acquisition of energy, there are huge leaks. Moreover, we are to blame for this ourselves, since we ourselves admit them out of ignorance, unwillingness to change something, and for many other reasons. That's why…

The accumulation of energy in most cases does not block its leakage !!!

Usually we are not at all interested in what will happen to us when the energy ends completely ...

But what happens is that people just die and that's it.

Therefore, do not allow energy leaks, learn to transform and replenish its reserves - this will prolong your life and make it brighter and more saturated.

Where does our vital energy flow, and why are we ourselves to blame for this?

You will be surprised, but ... For the most part, we do NOT even spend it on sex.

I will list Top 10 reasons , when we lose energy. This will help you stop the leak and start to accumulate it.

1. Don't look back at the past.

For the most part, people do it all the time. Do not remember anything - neither good nor bad. It makes you go back to where you have been before. A lot of energy goes for each such memory. And even more of it goes away if you experience any emotions, especially negative ones.

Don't tell others sad stories own life. So, you are only giving energy. Stop yourself every time you notice that you are talking about the past again.

It is not simple. But over time, you will succeed. Perhaps some people will not understand you and even stop communicating with you. Don't give up, you don't need empty talk and gossip.

Over time, when you lose the habit of discussing the past, you will notice that you have stopped thinking about it. This will be your victory and the beginning of a new life, a person looking only forward ...

2. Assess adequately the situation in which you are.

Adequately means looking at her from the outside, and not from the position of what you like or dislike about her.

So, you can avoid negative consequences evaluating people and their actions towards you.

After all, conflicts usually arise:

When you are everything planned but something went wrong as expected. Something is out of control, the situation is out of control, and you start to get nervous. Eagerly strive to fix everything, look for the culprits of the failure, or blame yourself for everything. Do you understand how much energy is spent on these actions?
When people do things that they shouldn't have done in accordance with your ideas about life. For example, a person is not punctual - while you are never late and are very proud of it.

Of course, such a character trait greatly annoys you, you begin to teach him the mind to the mind, losing wherein your energy... What for? After all, you are not even sure that you will reach the goal ...

Keep it simple. There is always a choice. Let the other person be who they want. And for yourself, decide how important it is in your life. Then everything will fall into place. And, perhaps, the punctuality of this person will cease to be so annoying for you in comparison with his other character traits.

By making complaints to others, you are constantly losing energy. By eliminating this habit, you will stop the leakage of energy from this side, which means, let it go to more important things for you.

3. Stop heading towards your goals.

Our goals and our desires very much squander us in energy, if we begin to dream too much about their fulfillment, and also put more effort into this than is required.

We set ourselves deadlines and often don't meet them. The bar and opportunities are greatly overestimated. And as a result, in order to succeed in something and prove something to someone, we twist ourselves inside out. But there is still no result. And a huge amount of energy is wasted.

If at the same time you begin to experience negative sensations in the form of: anger, envy, resentment, etc. This means only one thing - you do not accept life as it is.

Experiencing such feelings, you signify your own powerlessness and lose energy - instead of looking for the cause of what is happening and the steps to overcome it.

And even if, as a result of your searches, you find that your desire, in this moment impracticable - humble yourself and accept it as an irrefutable fact.

Give up the goal in favor of your calmness and preservation of your vitality. After all, if you do not do this voluntarily, but fall into a self-distiller, the next days you will be haunted by depression.

remember, that Bad mood always arises when insufficient quantity sexual energy.

4. Don't talk too much.

Conversations also consume a lot of energy. Therefore, it is desirable to say less and to the point.

Be silent when you have nothing to say. Otherwise, you risk losing energy and, at the same time, being branded as a chatterbox, since you will not be able to impress the interlocutor with a speech devoid of feelings.

When a person possesses a certain amount sexual energy, even a couple of words he said is remembered for a long time and sinks into the heart.

And vice versa, when there is little energy, it is not interesting to listen to him, he cannot present information that is exciting and beautiful.

5. Never complain or blame anyone for your troubles.

A person begins to complain with a lack of vital energy.

So, he shifts responsibility for himself and his life- to other people.

In this process, both sides lose:

As a whining storyteller. Complaining is a waste of your sexual energy. After all, you need to relive the situation you are talking about. In order to survive, the body begins to suck in energy from the outside. You turn into a vampire.
So if you fall under the arm as a listener- never feel sorry for those who tell you heartbreaking stories. Otherwise, you will lose energy. And people feel it at the subconscious level. Usually, they prefer not to communicate with eternally aching subjects.

Stop whenever you notice that you are beginning to behave this way.

I will say the same about judging and discussing other people.

Don't gossip, don't waste your life force on it.

6. Don't make unnecessary movements.

Energy is spent on any word and action. So if you’re already nervous, don’t make the situation worse.

Don't waste it on the nervous tapping of your pencil on the table, or pacing from corner to corner. Additional actions lead to an additional drain of vital energy, remember this.

The same applies to other unnecessary, useless movements: do not chew gum, do not snap seeds for nothing to do, do not drag a cigarette in your mouth, do not wave your hands ... All this leads to energy leakage, no matter how strange it sounds.

7. For women.

Increased attention to your appearance, as well as thoughts about it, cosmetics and make-up - take away a large number of sexual energy. As well as taking care of your hair, curling your curls around your finger, or constantly smoothing your hair, especially while talking.

You are much prettier than you think. Natural attractiveness women only depends on the amount of energy, and not at all from powder and lipstick.

A woman loses most of her energy during menstruation, be careful during this period. Rest and lead a calm lifestyle, as at this time a woman becomes weaker, more resentful or, conversely, more aggressive - all these are signs of loss of energy.

Try not to use unconscious words and expressions in your life, as well as obscene expressions. All of this takes up energy. Anything we say out of habit should also be excluded from our lives. No hmm and hmm, unnecessary "aha" and the like. Nothing that distracts us and our interlocutor from the purpose of the conversation.

9. Don't make faces.

Don't grimace and smirk, don't squint, don't squint, don't look meaningfully upward when you're thinking, don't frown or giggle off topic. This also takes up energy.

Be yourself and express what you think and feel at this moment, without confusing the interlocutor with your grimaces ... Do not wear masks, give free rein to your feelings, express on your face only what you really feel. Everything else is additional effort that entails an unreasonable waste of energy.

10. Control your sexual relationship.

Beware of having sex with casual partners. So, you risk not only catching some kind of infection, but also spending your life force. In such relationships, a full-fledged exchange of energy does not occur, which is needed both for a man and a woman. But her loss is significant.

Usually, both partners, having received physical discharge, simply throw off the energy for nothing. After all, it's not for nothing that people feel empty and used after such sex.

You should not have forced sex for fear that your partner will leave you. Or sleep with those who do not reciprocate to you.

After all, the main rule of sex is an EQUALIZED exchange of energy. Otherwise, you will simply lose it.

Try to eliminate these 10 things from your life, and you will see what happens. How much easier and freer you will become. There will be new opportunities and forces for their implementation. Life will acquire a completely different quality and bright colors.

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Konstantin Dovlatov.

It has long been proven, not only by esotericists, but also by scientists, that people live in two dimensions at once - physical and energy.

That is why it is important to take care of your protection in both directions and be able to defend your integrity, but how not to give your energy to another person? We will look for answers to this and other questions in this article, and also consider the nature itself energy vampirism.

Man and his energy body

Now it is difficult to find people who would not know about the structure of the physical component of their body. From childhood, we are instilled in a culture of hygiene and taking care of our health. Even Small child can easily name basic rules that allow you to avoid all kinds of diseases and health problems.

But what about bioenergetic integrity and how to protect yourself at this level? After all, it is no longer news that our world is entirely composed of energy, it surrounds us, permeates the body and is invisibly present absolutely everywhere, in every living and inanimate object. Even people themselves are a complex system consisting of two main components - the material body and the mental body.

We are a kind of bioenergy batteries that have such a powerful charge that it is enough for long years life.

Of course, this would be impossible without constant energy regeneration, but our body's ability to accumulate energy is truly colossal.

But let's not focus on the physical component of a person, since a lot is already known about it and this topic is constantly covered by both the media and other sources, but let's talk in detail about the energy body. The only thing I would like to note, so as not to return to this later, is that the material and energy body very closely related to each other.

This means that even the smallest change in one of them is instantly reflected in the state of the second. That is why we quite often encounter such a phenomenon as, for example, illness without apparent reason... That is, we see the result in the form of a disease, but because of what it arose, we do not understand. In such a situation, bioenergetic ignorance plays a bad joke with us, since the reason is usually literally before our eyes, but we do not notice it due to our blindness.

We all know that people have an energy field called the aura. This phenomenon is described in many teachings and is even part of some religions. But what is this force field? In fact, the aura plays the role of a kind of shield that protects us from any negative impacts from outside world... For this reason, it is incredibly important that its integrity be one hundred percent.

Any, even the most insignificant gap contributes to the penetration inside not only positive energy, but also all kinds of negativity, as well as entities. It is through such holes that energy outflow occurs.

In general, the bioenergy field looks like a cocoon, the walls of which rotate. It is formed by the constant flow of energy. Its circulation is provided by seven energy centers, also called chakras. If you remember school course physics, then you will understand the nature of this phenomenon.

As you know, any conductor creates a vortex-like electromagnetic field around itself when passed through it electricity... Electricity is energy in pure form it is only when we talk about a person and his aura that the energy body directly plays the role of a conductor.

Any deviation in the work of any chakra causes problems with the aura. First, its thinning occurs in a certain area, and then a rupture follows, which is fraught with the consequences described above. It is these situations that are favorable for energy vampires who are on subconscious level feel people with a gap in their cocoon.

For example, some of them behave very noisy and aggressive, while others, on the contrary, are very quiet and undermine your biofield by constant complaints and forcing the negative. It should be noted that there is whole line all kinds of ways protection, but if the integrity of the shell is one hundred percent, then their use is not even required.

If a person states the fact that people are drawing energy from me, this means that he intuitively realizes the presence of problems with his aura.

It should be remembered that energy vampires are in close proximity to us, quite often even in the family.

The fact is that when we consider the family, then we are not talking about the energy of each individual member. When a person is bound family ties with other people, then their energy becomes common.

Power currents are constantly circulating inside the house, so any leak is reflected in every family member.

You've probably noticed that if a person gets sick, then his whole family begins to feel bad, and not just him. This happens because the rest of the family members give their energy to the patient so that he gets better. This complex system always tries to balance the energy level inside the house.

For the same reason, relatives of people who have ailments such as drug addiction, alcoholism or gambling addiction suffer so much. These are also diseases that lead to a strong outflow of human energy. Replenishment of the lost bioenergy again occurs at the expense of unfortunate relatives.

Depending on what kind of energy loss is diagnosed in a person, special actions are selected against.

There are a large number of various methods of struggle from the suction of energy from a person, but we will consider the most popular and effective ones.

How to stop the outflow of energy from a person

To begin with, it should be noted that the most the best option, which with one hundred percent probability will protect your energy supply from the intake, is the normalization of the work of all energy centers. The same rule works here as with physical health - it is not the one who avoids diseases that is sick, but the one who has good immunity.

It is a stable biofield that acts as immunity at the energy level.

Currently, there are many techniques that allow you to quickly and efficiently cleanse all the chakras, normalize their work and even open the slammed ones.

Cosmoenergy, as well as classical yoga, copes most successfully with the task of not giving energy to people through the restoration of the biofield. In the first case, there is an impact on the human energy body with the help of special energy-information cosmic streams, which, in addition to a number useful functions also have a healing effect.

When we talk about classical yoga, we first of all mean the technique of meditation. Correct work in this direction allows not only to qualitatively influence all chakras, but also to stabilize the circulation of energy flows within the body. Also, this method is very convenient for use as a fast and extremely mobile bioenergy recharge.

Mental protective barrier

Quite often, the unfortunate relatives of the energy vampire wonder how to stop so that a person feeds on my energy. In this case, the installation of a mental protective barrier helps a lot. What is it?

Imagine that an invisible wall arises between you and the vampire, through which he is not able to pass or suck energy. Of course, this is a very crude formulation and this barrier is, in fact, another layer of your cocoon, only it was created artificially. By the way, visualization of the process of the appearance of the wall has a very good effect on the protective functions of the energy barrier, since mental confidence makes it much stronger.

In order to form this type of protection, you must first of all achieve harmony and balance within yourself. Try to distance yourself from the reality around you, feel how cozy and warm it is to be inside your bioenergetic cocoon. Inside it, no one can touch you or in any way hurt you.

As soon as you clearly understand this and literally feel it, a barrier will be built. It is necessary to ensure that it is displayed automatically already at a subconscious level, and this is achieved as a result of constant developments and practices.

The result of such work will be a very powerful defense, which almost immediately makes it clear to any vampire that he has nothing to do here.

Prayers

Another way how not to give your energy to another person is to read prayers. The fact is that higher power have an extremely powerful protective function, they do an excellent job of protecting the energy body from any negative.

In the event that the reading of the prayer is also accompanied by great faith, then the previous method is also connected here - building a barrier. It turns out a kind of double defense, inside which there is a third line of defense - your personal cocoon, which also receives reinforcement.

This multi-layering allows you to resist not only energy vampires, but also the impact dark energies... It is for this reason that prayers are one of the most universal and effective methods and use this remedy can absolutely all people, regardless of religion and belief. The main condition is that you need to sincerely believe in what you are asking about. Only in this case you will get a really strong protective effect.

We always think that vampires are some other people, acquaintances, relatives, employees. And of course we are not, we are good and kind. And all of us just want to drink.
Let's deal with the basics of energy, otherwise I'm afraid that you and I will slip into thinking from superiority, which only leads to problems and degradation.

Who are energy vampires?

Vampires are people with a low amount of personal energy due to the presence of destructive internal programs that just do not allow them to accumulate their own energy.
They feed on a certain energy, mostly negative. They provoke others to show emotions that contribute to the release of a certain energy. Taking this energy, they feel good and satisfied.

How do we take energy.
So, the first postulate is new for many.
You can only vampire and drink energy from someone who periodically vampires himself. In the event that a person is not a vampire in himself and lives a self-sufficient life, does not depend on anyone emotionally and retains inner rod, then it is impossible to take away his energy. No way. In the event that you are "drunk", it means that you periodically "drink" someone.

How do we take energy?
The most common way for a vampire to "Eat" is to provoke someone into negative emotions, for this you can talk about the crisis, about the difficult situation in the country, you can tell your friend that she has recovered and looks bad, that her man is behaving badly and unworthily, you can load a person with negative, whatever, just to make him feel bad, sad, hard. This is the first level, one might say first lung dish.
The second level - you need to bring a person to strong emotions, to fear, tears, anger, rage, breakdown, psychosis and wild aggression. After that, say in a low voice: "Why are you so nervous? Consider that this is the second, already quite a decent dish with a side dish."
There are vampires who live on the energy of provocations and contradictions, they like to drive a wedge between loved ones, because there is a lot of energy, there is something to profit from. And here intrigues, dirty gossip, hints are good. There are women who like to break up families, I have consulted them several times.
This happens unconsciously. As soon as she takes the man out of the family, creating there a lot of heavy emotions, scandals, pain, then the man ceases to be interesting to her and she realizes that "this is not mine", after which she lives on this negative for some time, and then starts up again in search of the victim.
Typical vampirism is "Sports Interest". A woman or a man seeks attention and strong emotions from the opposite sex, and then leaves. Naturally, after that, their ex - partners feed them for a long time with their pain, attention, suffering, worries and bitterness. Here there are more than enough emotions, "eat, I don't want".
Provocative appearance or behavior, when the vampire behaves defiantly or looks in such a way that it causes a lot of emotions in others. This is a vampire - a narcissist who takes energy due to his appearance and behavior, for example, bright clothes, chains, excessive makeup, slang, obscenities, loud laughter, sullen glance or fashionable pretentiousness. I have met such women, and in reality they were quite adequate people with worthy professions, with families, but at the same time they nourished themselves at the expense of the attention of others, dressing brightly and even somewhat vulgarly.
Feelings of self-pity and provoking feelings of self-pity are also nourishment, such people usually complain about life, dramatize, try to present everything in tones of suffering and pain. If you begin to feel sorry for them, then consider that you are giving your energy. People can be sympathetic and empathic, but pity is dangerous, because in this way we feed their weakness, not their strength.
Guilt. Well, here we are all masters. Making a person feel guilty means creating an energy bridge through which he will feed you with his energy.
Lifeguard syndrome, oddly enough, is also a way to feed, although it looks very noble. Such people always strive to help someone, they themselves go with a bunch of injuries, resentments, but lectures and trainings are first of all distributed to girlfriends, they give books to everyone, they try to tell everyone how to live. Only in the event that one of their victims nevertheless decides to change and begins to develop, then a part of the realized energy falls to the rescuer.
The role of the rescuer is also a kind of energetic vampirism, because saving a person, a huge amount of energy is given to us, and many are so addicted to it that their whole life turns into an implantation of good in the worst sense.
Vampires are not always conscious of their behavior, and many manipulations are carried out unconsciously, they do not think: "Now I will bring wave to tears and I will feel good! Thoughts are completely different:" I must tell Masha the truth about how she recovered! Do you understand?

Why are we vampiric?
Very often we begin to take energy from other people and choose this path of existence, because we ourselves have powerful energy holes, where our own life energy merges safely.
There are many funnels where our energy goes, and all of them are destructive: a life in stress, a habit of condemnation, categoricalness, empty talk about nothing, excessive haste, excitement, life in the past, life in the future, an attempt to adapt to everyone and be good - all this takes energy from the present, and we are forced to either run to trainings where we will be given energy doping, or to suck energy out of people.

How do you know that I am a vampire?
The main understanding of your vampirism is the feeling emotional dependence from people or events.
When you start to feel withdrawn without having certain emotions in your life.
For example, when you feel emptiness, you really want to call your friend and tell her how bad you are, or if you feel a lack of energy and think: "I haven't had a relationship for a long time, I need a man."
Or you do not have enough vitality, and you start provoking scandals from scratch, dissolving your loved ones on strong emotions.
Or you feel an overwhelming urge to tell someone the "Truth."
When it seems fair and important to you to discuss someone, give negative assessment his activities.
After terrible scandals, the vampire feels great, it does not exhaust him at all, moreover, on the contrary, he cheers up and begins to help everyone.
Your vampirism can be traced by some examples, for example, when you say about someone "Some Important Truth"and your opponent says," let's not discuss this. I think this is not worthy! The vampire will be offended, he will feel uncomfortable, he will feel bad and hard, because he was not allowed to fill with negativity.
Thus, if you are telling something heavy and burning, and the interlocutor does not respond strong emotions... This infuriates the vampires, because, again, their manipulation has failed. Moreover, this irritation pops up unconsciously, and the vampire himself may not understand that he is so maddened.
Why should you give up the role of a vampire?
The path of the vampire is the path of dependence and escape from inner freedom, it is a constantly growing hole inside, for the satisfaction of which more and more victims, people, scandals are needed. This is a person, shackled by emotional dependence, in addition to this, vampires rarely thrive, and even if this happens to them, then they live in eternal fear because they do not have the internal resources to create abundance and prosperity.
Being a vampire means giving up on developing yourself as a healthy, whole person. But we are all here for this!
Pay attention to your focus in life.
Vampires always feed their donors, so they love to be out of their minds, they like to think and analyze, discuss the lives of other people, they watch who is going on. Attention self-sufficient personality for the most part is in himself, in his desires, in his goals and intentions, and only a small part of his attention goes outside to the implementation of his ideas and building relationships with people.
In the event that you found yourself in any of these points and you had the courage to admit destructive programs in yourself, then this in itself is already an important awareness that will help you get rid of these negative programs.
And then look at your life and find those holes through which you lose your own strength.
And give them up consciously, give up condemnation, empty talk, categoricalness, constant excitement and haste.
Forgive your past and let it go. And let go of the people who are destroying you….
Over time, your integrity will be restored, and you will see that you are no longer interested in being a vampire, your focus of attention will be positive and abundant. And along with inner integrity, your desires and new ones will knock into your life. kind people! Julia Sudakova.

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If you want to take energy from a person, you must imagine how thin black threads are stretched from your palms to him, with the help of which the person's energy migrates to you. It is also important to present the result that you want to achieve while doing this. Feel the strength coming to you and imagine how little your opponent is getting.

If you want to fill a person with energy, then you should imagine not black, but white threads. Also in this way you can remove, for example, headache... To do this, you just need to move your palms over the surface of the head, without touching it, while presenting outgoing white threads that take away the pain. After such sessions, be sure to rinse your hands with cold water.

There is one more method of energetic influence on a person. This requires eye contact... When talking, you need to look at the person's face, imagining a triangle on his face that passes between the eyebrows and closes on the chin. Concentrate on this figure and mentally send the person what you want.

It is important that the ability to manage your energy was used for your own good, but at the same time did not harm the people around you. Good luck and don’t forget to press the buttons and

How to stop giving energy to your ex

You can make a rite with which to remove the connection with former men, which means, stop giving them what by right should belong to only one - the beloved. The ceremony takes only a few minutes. It only takes time and care, but the result will be visible immediately. How?

Yes, men just feel when they lose their nourishment. On the same evening or in the near future, your ex may start calling you. Someone will call you on a date, someone will write that they cannot forget you.

Of course, you shouldn't meet with them, but it will give a sign that the method is working. And after a couple of weeks, the ceremony should be repeated so that a situation does not arise that someone has not disconnected.

How to “let go” of former partners?

It is easy to carry out the ceremony, you just need to be alone with yourself and spend some time pronouncing certain words. This ritual does not apply to magic or religion, but is psychological trick, allowing you to "remove" all unnecessary bindings.

You can also read about this in one of the books by Larisa Renard, dedicated to female practices. Stand in front of the window. Light a candle if possible. This is a way to tune in to the process. And in silence, start imagining your men in turn. Each needs to sincerely say certain words:

“I thank you for being in my life. I am glad that we once met. I forgive you all the insults that were between us. I let you go. I loved you as best I could. I wish you happiness".

At this time, you need to imagine that a transparent flagellum connects you in the lower abdomen. It is attached just below the navel at one and the other. You need to say the words and with your hands as if to cut this rope. Direct your piece to yourself, and him to him. And then imagine how the man turns and leaves.

You need to do a similar manipulation with each partner. This is a way to "stop feeding" all the exes. But be prepared that some, and possibly all of your exes will try to seek a meeting with you.

As the developer of this method assures, the ceremony is absolutely safe. It can be carried out several times if you think it is necessary. It also helps in cases where you cannot forget a person. Nor does it require any magic rites or appeals to psychics.

But there is one BUT: you need to say the words sincerely. Forgiveness and gratitude are great power but they must come from the heart. If you say this from pure heart does not come out, the offense remains in the heart, just repeat this process several times.

A woman is a source of valuable energy for a man. It depends on the companion whether her husband is a millionaire or a janitor. The more feminine energy, the richer the family and the more productive the man. And although every woman comes with her own potential, reserves can always be increased, which means that you can get a lot more in marriage.

To begin with, it should be noted that the best option, which with one hundred percent probability will protect your energy supply from the fence, is the normalization of the operation of all energy centers. The same rule works here as with physical health - it is not the one who avoids diseases that is sick, but the one who has good immunity.

It is a stable biofield that acts as immunity at the energy level.

Currently, there are many techniques that allow you to quickly and efficiently cleanse all the chakras, normalize their work and even open the slammed ones.

Cosmoenergy, as well as classical yoga, copes most successfully with the task of not giving energy to people through the restoration of the biofield. In the first case, the human energy body is influenced with the help of special energy-informational cosmic streams, which, in addition to a number of useful functions, also have a healing effect.

Mental protective barrier

The result of such work will be a very powerful defense, which almost immediately makes it clear to any vampire that he has nothing to do here.

Prayers

Another way how not to give your energy to another person is to read prayers. The fact is that higher forces have an extremely powerful protective function, they do an excellent job of protecting the energy body from any negative.

This layering allows you to resist not only energy vampires, but also the effects of dark energies. It is for this reason that prayers are one of the most universal and effective methods, and absolutely all people can use this tool, regardless of religion or belief. The main condition is that you need to sincerely believe in what you are asking about. Only in this case you will get a really strong protective effect.

How not to give energy to a man. How does the exchange of energy between a man and a woman take place?

A man and a woman exchange energy even when their relationship is platonic and there is no physical intimacy... Feminine energy nourishes a man, inspires him, inspires and makes him courageous, strong, courageous. A male energy a woman relaxes, calms, pacifies. How does such an exchange of energy between a man and a woman take place in life?

A woman transfers her energy to a man when she cares about him, when she thinks about him, believes in him. Of course, if a man and a woman make love, then a channel is created between them through which energy flows from the woman to the man. It is the strongest and reliable way dissolve in it, surrender not only with the body, but also with the soul. But even without physical intimacy, a woman feeds a man. She cooked dinner for him, gave some of her power to him. Got a massage - nourished him. I ironed the clothes - I put my energy through them.

How does a man return a "favor" to a woman? Through your help, protection, love. When he admires her beauty, he energizes her. When he says he loves her, she feels elated. When he gives her time, attention, signs of attention, the woman becomes happy. This is how mutually a man and a woman support each other, giving part of themselves.

But it so happens that a woman gives her strength to a man, and a man does not give her anything in return. And, unfortunately, this happens all the time. Then the woman very soon feels unhappy, tired, exhausted. She may have a blues, apathy, depression. In what cases does a woman receive nothing from a man in return?

If she gives herself to a man when he doesn't have strong feelings... Then he loses interest in their relationship, disappears, shows indifference, turns on ignore. Accordingly, the woman continues to feed the man with her energy through the channel that was formed during their proximity, but does not receive any return from him. Therefore, there is no need to rush to intimacy, delay this moment as far as possible, especially since it depends on the woman's behavior;
When a woman lives with a man in civil marriage(cohabiting), and he does not want to take on any responsibility. She gives him her energy along with cooked food, cleaned apartment, washed clothes, and he, in turn, continues to live a carefree life. This situation is very exhausting for women and makes them unhappy;
When a woman works and earns money on an equal basis with a man, and he does not want to help her around the house. In this case, there is a clear imbalance in the balance of energies;
When a woman continues to live with a man, if she finds out that he is cheating on her. It's one thing if she finds a reason in herself and changes herself, thereby changing the situation, and another thing if she just suffers, tormented by resentment and a sense of revenge. Very often in such situations, women begin to get sick, as they do not have enough energy to heal both soul and body.

It should also be said that the exchange of energy between a man and a woman also occurs when they are just friends and despite the fact that there is no sex between them, the Svadhisthana chakra, which is responsible for sexual pleasure and procreation. That is, they may not even think about flirting, and on a subtle level, sex is already happening between them. Which, by the way, once again proves that it does not exist.

Therefore, think about who you are giving your precious feminine energy? Does he give you this energy back? Not only your happiness depends on this, but also your health!

Video how not to give energy to people

Greetings, dear friends!

This article is from the series “help yourself - help another” - extract of my personal experience, which may be useful to someone.

If you have situations where you cannot get rid of obsessive thoughts about a situation that you also cannot influence - in this article you will find several recommendations on how you can bring your emotions and mind to more or less calm state... Otherwise, this endless thought-mixer will become a bottomless pit that devours and takes vital energy.

One way to get the voices in your head to subside (at least for a short time) is to engage in some kind of activity. These can be household chores, work issues, social projects, or questions that you have not been able to “cram” into your schedule for a long time.

Make an action plan, write lists, prioritize, regulate the time to complete tasks. Try to fill your schedule optimally so that there are a minimum of “windows” in it, falling out into which you will again begin to worry and drive your thoughts “from empty to empty. Try experimenting with new apps, maybe starting a new diary or day planner, or simply redesigning your way of keeping track of things.

Or maybe you have long wanted to read a pile of books that have been put aside, go through a training you bought a long time ago, or try new recipe? Take shoes to be repaired, or go to an exhibition with children, or New film? Bring out your imperfections into the light of day and forward, to the closure of these tails! (By the way, this way you will kill two birds with one stone: stop the conveyor that generates disturbing thoughts in your head and close the holes of imperfections that also drain energy from you.)

A recommendation that has probably set you on edge by now, and nevertheless, in this case, it can become a lifesaver that will pull you out of the swamp of far-fetched fears. The advice from the first point may not help, and on the contrary, can throw you even more off balance if you cannot focus on what you are doing. If extraneous thoughts (not always positive) by partisans will surround and take your common sense taking away your energy. So try to be in what you are doing. Here and now. Try to completely and completely immerse yourself in the process.

Ask yourself test questions: "Where am I?", "What am I doing?", "Why am I doing this?" “Who am I now?”, “What am I feeling now?”. Bring yourself back to the moment. Don't let thoughts float in the past or future, worrying about “how it will end.” Practice mindfulness.

I must say right away that this recommendation is not universal, it may not suit everyone. But this advice often appears in psychological training. Accept. Give place to what's going on in your life. Don't drive it away. Do not close your eyes. Do not try to replace with beautiful dreams and fantasy may not be quite beautiful reality current life. Indicate your reality.

You can say it out loud, you can silently say this formula. For example. “I would like my son to be healthy. But he has been sick for 2 weeks, does not go to kindergarten, and we have to stay at home. It's hard. But that's how it is. This is my life now ”

Let your life and the situations that happen in it be recognized.

And you also need to be able to let go of the situation, treat it philosophically. If now something is not happening in your life, then it is not the time and place. This means that it is necessary for you. And this development of events is now the most favorable and beneficial for you. Or a consequence of the choices we made earlier.

My coach once said wonderful words when I was depressed, whether they would give me credit for important changes in my life. “What are you worried about,” she said. If this should happen, everything will be. "

Of course, the principle “water does not flow under a lying stone” has not yet been canceled. In order not to be the person to whom the Lord sent 3 types of salvation into the flood, but he was still waiting and expecting that he would be saved in some other way, it is better to adhere to this postulate: “Do what you must, and come what may”.

The energy of a person cannot be measured by joules, but each of us perfectly feels its level - his own clearly and physically, of other people - no less accurately, but subconsciously.

Although, what can I say, the phrase: "one's own energy" or "someone else's" is a very conditional concept, because energy is eternal, "not privatized" by anyone and is very mobile. Today you are weak and weak, and tomorrow you are full of strength and creative ideas- everything is changeable and unstable. This is such a cycle of energy in this world.

What to say - the more inner strength, all the better. Everyone wants to be healthy, strong and energetic.

You can increase your energy, but you can also lose it. But who are the most powerful absorbers of a person's inner strength is the topic of today's post.

WHAT IS DIFFERENT TO A PERSON WITH STRONG AND WEAK ENERGY

A high level of human energy is health, confidence and financial well-being... Such a person can be seen from afar - he is physically healthy, he has a clear head, alive and strong look, such a person has confidence in every movement of the body.

No, strong energy- it does not equal " good man"Or" rich person ", but strong energy means more possibilities (physical, sensory, intuitive), it is best quality life.

Man with weak energy- the exact opposite of a person with a strong energy.
Apathy, being told by others and weakness always accompany such a person, regardless of the season.

When a person does not have enough vital energy, he intuitively tries to replenish its life supply. If it is not possible to replenish its level in a natural way, then a person can take the path of energy vampirism, alcoholism and even drug addiction.

Oddly enough, but people with weak energy are more susceptible to attacks from energy vampires, more susceptible to suicide and aggression from other people.

Chronically weak energy a person is an indicator that a person:

departed from God;
a person is outside the moment “here and now” (which means that he lives through the prism of his ego);
may have broken away from their roots;
maybe he doesn't correct image life;
physical illness is possible, including hereditary;
possible (including yourself) or damage;
the so-called “passions” “live” in it, which is what we’ll talk about now.

WHAT IS MOST DESTROYING FOR HUMAN ENERGY

Weak energy always "tells" a person that he is doing something wrong. All life and power from God, which means, first of all, weak energy indicates to a person that he has moved away from the source of strength - from God.

The most destructive for a person are passions: gluttony, fornication, love of money, anger, sadness, despondency, vanity, pride ... ...

But not only that, each of the passions is also very energy-consuming.
The most powerful energy absorbers are: anger, sadness, despondency, anger, as well as excessive pride in all its manifestations.

Anger and anger (thirst for revenge, rancor, irritability and irascibility ...) - strongly drain the battery

A person who does not know how to forgive first of all suffers himself. All of the above passions are different passions, but they have a lot in common.

Do you feel that your "energy is melting" right before your eyes?

For example, any of these sins can lead to an even greater sin - murder, and they are also the most energetically expensive passions.

Anger and anger make a person intensely generate violent emotions (and therefore give psychic energy), deprive him of reason and "incinerate" the energy of a person.

Being angry, a person throws out, together with his rage, his psychic energy on another. Who wins in this case? Only the corresponding demon that he fed. An angry person greatly loses his strength, sins and possibly breaks through the energy of the ill-wisher, which will then return to him a hundredfold (the evil done by the person is returned to him or to the children). In addition, if you do not get rid of their manifestations in time, a person will inevitably lose health.

Sadness, despondency, envy - aching in the heart and takes vitality

These are also mortal sins, but their manifestation is somewhat different. If we draw an analogy with physical illness: anger is epilepsy or a seizure, then despondency, sadness or envy is It's a dull pain in the area of the heart.

Despondency is a sign that you do not believe in the power of God, that is, you subconsciously say to yourself: “This is all hopeless, no one will help me, I reject any help. Everything depends only on me, and I can't do anything about it. " It turns out that you closed yourself off from everything, look for strength in yourself, but it is not there.

"So, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will take care of its own: there is enough for every day of its own concern."

Indeed, it is enough to "spit" on your problems and they will be solved by themselves.

Despondency, envy and sadness are not only "poisonous", but also actively take away vital energy from a person. In a state of despondency or sadness, a person's strength simply melts before our eyes. Prolonged depression or sadness is a frequent companion of such a terrible disease as cancer.

Pride leads away from true strength, replacing it with imaginary confidence

In short, pride is a feeling of one's own infallibility and one's superiority over others. “Pride is the mother of all vices”, “pride is the seed of Satan” - this is how this passion is denounced in Christianity.

Pride fills the whole person, such people do not hear or see anything, and their mind is clouded. A person with pride is a despot, tormentor and narcissist. Pride never "walks alone," and its frequent companions- envy, anger, love of money, fornication, gluttony.

A person with pride "sticks out" his "I", seeks strength in himself, not realizing that vitality only from God and one can acquire it only by humility towards Him.

It turns out that pride takes a person away from the source of strength, exaggerates the feeling of his own superiority, gives rise to many sins and physical illnesses.

Pride is also dangerous because it is noticeably energy-consuming, although it gives a person a feeling of a certain euphoria. Pride is the shortest path to loneliness and illness.

Gluttony

Gluttony is the victory of the body over the spirit. Man is made in such a way that the spirit is the master, and physical body Is a servant. But it also happens that a servant treated kindly by his master wants to subjugate his master, then the carnal triumphs over the spiritual.

Gluttony dulls a person, makes him sick and lazy. Alcoholism is a type of gluttony. A person cuts himself off from real strength, making up for his meager energy reserve by only digesting food.

Desiring short pleasure without thinking about the consequences is the life of a person driven by gluttony. Such a person eventually becomes like an unreasonable animal, becomes apathetic, stupid, physically and spiritually ill subhuman.

A FEW WORDS ABOUT THAT STILL HAVE STRONGLY INFLUENCE ON HUMAN ENERGY LEVEL

Do not think that only spiritual illnesses (passions) take away strength from a person, physical illness they do it no less. And in this case, in addition to treatment, the attitude towards recovery is also important.

Lack of sleep, especially chronic sleep, greatly affects a person's energy level. I didn’t sleep - everything was falling out of my hands. The way a person is made is that he needs sleep. During sleep, the body rests, information is processed by the brain, and energy replenishes its supply. Getting enough sleep is especially important for those who do not live in the moment “here and now”.

Living in a “fake” moment is the most energetically expensive option for life. Billions of thoughts chaotically and every day rush through his head, such a person always faces the torment of choice, in such a rhythm a person rushes between the past and the future - all this "fuss" consumes the lion's share of a person's energy. To be in a “fake moment” means to be a “battery” for internal and external demons, to be a feeding trough for energy vampires and energy egregors. Oddly enough, but almost all of us, most of our lives live this way. There is reason to think, gentlemen.

If a person is not enough fresh air, moved away from mother nature, then he does not receive energy in full. Active movement, especially in open areas (for example, in the field) is one of the options for saturation with energy.

SUMMING UP

Energy is a “thing” that is fluid and mobile. A person can replenish his inner energy supply and the main source of strength is God.

If a person spends more strength than he replenishes, then he becomes energetically weak and can become an energy vampire.

A person is a rational and spiritual entity, which means that any person can always stand "on the right way"And become energetically strong and spiritually developed personality.
But, about this in the following materials of the heading ““.